Drive With Me Vlog | i've made my decision *huge life update* LexiVee

[@komalsidhu3910]

Look college is not for everyone especially staying on campus. I am so happy that you have decided to continue your education from home. I'm sure that you will do so much better this time due to having the love, support and care of your family. Like they say if you fall down get up, dust yourself off and keep going. Lexi just take small steps at the start until you find yourself comfortable and feel that you can handle the work load. If you see your friends doing better don't ever try and compete with them because slow and steady does always win the race. You've got this, keep your head up and keep pushing forward.

[@harrellwilliams5010]

College isn't for everybody, I think regardless of what you do in life you will be successful. Follow your heart, and everything else will fall into place...

[@KingCharming]

... like a puzzle piece 🧩

[@danieljohnson6345]

Wow shes so beautiful

[@danieljohnson6345]

I love watching her channel her channel inspire me

[@mackenzieziegler2418]

I don’t want to go to collage I’m only 11

[@tonyaguynup3621]

Feel even started errvcff vbr hbfe ç::$ bdxhDjzdo

[@Rai1605]

What ever decision you make we will support you ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@dallashenderson774]

Parents only want the best for you. It is much different when you are on your own. Stay safe pretty girl

[@ayokads8639]

I understand where your coming from. We are from the same school system (SDA), but in a different country. I totally understand what your going through. It's ok to redirect and understand that your mental health is important. Try to do less credits and make time for yourself, I promise it will help. I am happy you will be continuing your education. It's usually hard as a freshman especially with new need food, environment, and location. School honestly isn't easy, but try to find something you enjoy while your doing school. It will get harder as time process, but try to stay organized get academically thriving friends who can be a support system for you in school, socialize as best as possible. As a honours students I find that study with friend help and doing your assignments before the due. However, in reality sometimes you will back log it's a normal part of life. Write a letter to yourself for your freshman year and read it when your in final year, it will show you were your coming from. Don't stress yourself the first year is usually the hardest because you have to address, but you will get use to it. Thank you for always putting out great content, I know you will continue to do well in school. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lydiawilliams7964]

Yes I have also decided not to go back next semester sis I actually decided that last night and I wanted to let you know that you are definitely not the only one

[@desiraedoingthemost5339]

As the parent of a college student, I definitely appreciate this video. I love your transparency and respect your perspective. I walked across the stage at my college graduation 5 years after my high school graduation. That was so many years ago, nobody remembers (or cares) how long it took. Take your time and do what's best for you. I wish you the best on all of your future endeavors.

[@MsMo08]

I know that struggle, too! SPEAK! I just had that same conversation with my son as well. It is a part of the growing UP process. #MommasSupportAndUnite

[@damonjones4447]

When I was a college freshman, I did the very same thing you did. First I went to a suburban college. Big mistake; I got homesick and wanted to come home. So I did and I went to a Community College. My very first year, I decided (like a big dummy) to take 18 credits; that's 6 classes in one semester. I put so much pressure on myself because I wanted to graduate in 2 years, average time. Sometimes, there comes a point, Lexi, where you have to slow down, get yourself in check, and fly right. God Bless you.

[@geonnaleigh]

lexi i just wanna tell you to never think you made the “wrong choice” !! it’s your life and you should feel happy 💕

[@tonyaguynup3621]

Lex

[@tonyaguynup3621]

Just

[@noonaaa]

I go to school but I’m still at home. I know I could never do dorms because I’d feel alone when I feel like a failure. Being around my family keeps me motivated. Good luck Lexi, also taking breaks is important. Do that often! When I’m on a break I completely take school out of my mind so I can focus on other things. I relax. So when I’m back on campus I do better.

[@maritzalopez2776]

My mental health health went do downhill this semester. I’m in nursing school and oh my goodnesss the stress & anxiety I got from it made me rethink my career alottt. Seeing you wanting to continue is definitely motivating because not a lot of people talk about how hard college is and the changes you go through. I wish you luck ! Meanwhile keep posting :) lol

[@samanthabere6586]

Im literally going through the same too but i realized that noone said it was going to be easy . 🤷‍♀️So u just gotta work hard and put your time in and really prioritize your school first .

[@tonyaguynup3621]

Nvv

[@jenngervais5391]

Lexi I'm super proud of you. You knew you weren't handling college well, and you took care of it. As far as your grades , you even took the Initiative and contacted your professors to get your grades up. Great job. I know it's a lot girl, but I have complete faith in you. You've matured into a beautiful young woman. I'll always support you. God bless.❤❤❤💖💖💖💖💖💗💗💗💗💓💓💓💓💓🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@rachelchannel59]

Lexi, you are the actress of your life. You are the one and only person who know what is the better for you. Yes, school isn't for everyone. Your health (mental and physic) and your happiness (in your life in general and in your job) are the most important ❤ You can be proud of you, your parents can be proud of you !

[@janaryanngreene3654]

I’m proud of you and I love your transparency and how unapologetically you express your true self. I’m excited you made the decision to continue your education. And very grateful for your supportive parents. I cannot wait to see you constantly accomplishing your goals in the upcoming years ahead.

[@doreendoreen6750]

Education is forever and I’m glad you found a way to pursue it and still be you and do what you love at the same time. Balance and time management is something that definitely hits you like a train as a young adult 😭 going through it rn lol. But you got this sis 😜

[@serena_bee]

You were very open and honest within this video. I really admire that. When you’re accustom to one dynamic sudden shifts all at once can be pressuring. So I definitely understand it all. All the best in your future endeavors love, you were firm in your decisions and it speaks volumes of the type of individual that you are and the character you have. I’m confident that you’ll be outstanding in anything u put your mind too. We’re also happy to have u back!! 🥂🤌🏽😘🍾🥂

[@Erika-yr8vk]

I am SO glad I have come across your page. I can truly say as a mom of a junior in HS this is what I need to share with my son. The best advice is to have a plan that is clear and concise for you and you gave it a try and was mature to know that it wasn't for you. Great advice and good job 👏🏾 good luck on your next endeavors! You got this and you'll make it work for you!💪🏾

[@Ginger_Spicy_Candor]

The only reason it didn’t work out was because it wasn’t her plan. In an earlier video she spoke about how that’s the college her sister went to and that’s the college her parents wanted her to go to. She was living someone else’s plan and no parent should put that on their child. Guaranteed if she was allowed to choose a school of HER choice she would still be in school. College is not just about academic education. Those 18-22 years of age to just be on the campus, meeting new people, having different responsibilities, it’s a time like no other. And she shouldn’t miss out on that and continue to live at home In arrested development because that’s not what she needs to become a functional adult either.

[@Erika-yr8vk]

@@Ginger_Spicy_Candor @Avid Book Reader From someone who has their Master's degree, I would strongly state that college is not for everyone! It takes a lot more than just picking a school of your choice vs. the time, effort, dedication, COMMITMENT, and consistency to go through towards completion. So, I would agree to disagree.

[@Erika-yr8vk]

In other words the environment plays very little role in someone who truly sees college as fit for their lifestyle/career goals.

[@kgothatsom125]

I just love your positivity and how you manage to find a way to overcome whatever challenge is thrown at you🥺😇

[@channelstv56]

Lexi it’s ok to make decision for you as along you are happy and living ! proud of you :)

[@chabriellenashea]

I fully support your decision! I am a college freshman also, and I as well in mid October decided that living on the college campus was not for me. So, in the middle of the semester I ended up going online and moving back home where I have my own apartment now. I also decided it would be better for me to just transfer to a school where I live in my city. Good luck out there, we all will do great!

[@studywithallure1991]

College tips from a junior to add onto Lexi. 1) time management 2.) have a planner they are extremely important even if you dislike them or have some planning strategy 3.) have select study times and set the weekend for your friends. IF your friends want to spend time during the week you can do lunch dates, dinner dates that can also mix studying with it 4.)do max four classes when you have other responsibilities. Five or six will ruin you.

[@MakaylaMaria3]

Hey Lexi! I commented on your last video and I’m proud of you for making a decision that’s best for you! May God bless you and much love to you!

[@realbanana905]

Thank you for being transparent. I am the mother of three: teenaged daughters 17, almost 16 yr old (in a wk) and a 10 yr boy. My second daughter is very entrepreneurial but, makes a good point that college/university isn't for everyone. Thank you for being a role model for your generation.

[@pinkispretty2127]

6 classes is a heavy load. Happy that you realized what you wanted and made a decision sooner rather than later. Glad you still finished on top and have decided to continue your education.

[@ALLTHINGSARRIE]

Sweet Lexi… I see this has definitely matured you! I appreciate how you’re sharing this vital information and tips with your peers to encourage them to succeed in their education! Love this!❤️

[@gamingwitny2748]

Really proud of you Lexi not everyone can make a decision like that and follow thru ♥️

[@apotsxx3011]

How did you watch it this fast 😂

[@gamingwitny2748]

@@apotsxx3011 I skipped some parts and that’s when she said it as she was talking about her parents being parents 🤨

[@veee4294]

@@apotsxx3011 was about to ask this😭

[@gamingwitny2748]

@@apotsxx3011 and she’s been talking about making that decision in her past videos .

[@gamingwitny2748]

@@veee4294 well don’t ask because it’s a dumb ass question

[@kimlee3158]

So proud of you Lexi. I kinda peeped you would continue bcuz your parents are literally so inspiring omg! They genuinely want the best for u and Mia❤ All the best to you girlie ❤

[@oriemariee]

6 classes is A LOt!! i definitely had to lighten my load and took three this semester!! but you got this girl do what’s best for you💕💕

[@JaniaSanders]

I’m taking 6 classes this semester too !

[@picadreams_]

Sadly in Nigeria that’s nothing, in my first year I took 8 classes compulsory and second year first semester I took 11, so I decided to come here to the Uk to continue my study

[@PrincessYonna1]

@@picadreams_ my goodness -

[@TeeTajo]

@@picadreams_ it's so tiring

[@anchenishsimba3275]

I think 6 classes is the norm

[@brittanypittman3492]

Hey Lexi 🥰👋how are you feeling? And do whatever makes you feel happy and what you’re comfortable with . There’s nothing wrong with what you decide

[@MsMo08]

Lexi boo I'm so proud of you! As a mom, I am so proud of you, and how you were able to pivot, identify all of the areas that were to your benefit, & your downfall! Super mature move! You gonna be alright, sugar!!

[@pollywanjiru4492]

Am happy to hear that you r still going to continue with your studies,dont worry about moving out,

[@kidrich6902]

Yes your tips are on point, College has always been your #1 priority something had to be wrong for you quitting, but I'm glad you figured it out!!!🤔💪🔥💯

[@kiaramurray832]

I did my first 2 years at a community college bc I wasn’t ready to leave home. And I learned a lot about time management and scheduling and then I was ready to go. I went 4 hours away from home to go to Duke. Not all of us are ready to go straight from home as a kid to adult hood. Baby steps. Blessings Lexi🙏🏽♥️

[@dallashenderson774]

You sound very mature, the idea is to have a starting point and find what you want the end to be and do those things that you need to do to get there.

[@maureentaylor1283]

I'm not in college but here in Jamaica the work load for a high school student is alot so I definitely can relate but one thing about ya girl is I'm gonna stay up and complete them assignments lol because of how my primary principal ensured we knew what a heavy load was to prepare us if I don't complete an assignment my skin literally crawls and I can't sleep but lately I find my self literally convincing myself to do my work which before I would do it in a heartbeat but I can see why others in my class are struggling way more than I am but honestly I'm grateful for my primary skl principal for doing what she did to us from the first grade, I use to hate her for it but now I'm so thankful

[@vickyj5525]

I love u Lexi Taking an education is important. Its hard I know and I'm not finding it easy but nothing comes easy tho, so take it easy on yourself don't stress and commit whatever you do to God.

[@KeKe4Christ]

“Commit whatever you do to God” HEAVY ON THISSSSS

[@khuthadzothabela65]

Watching the video while reading through the comments and reflecting on how I had to move out of home to live all alone in a university a few years ago , it was extremely hard but I wasn't given a choice... Cried myself to sleep every day for a few months.... Now I'm done with school and I'm a Pharmacist, only going back home this coming January I'm still in one piece but I wouldn't let anyone else go through what I went through School wasn't for me but I had no choice I come from the rural and " education is the key to success"

[@joymirembe4954]

we are proud and so happy for you we are your support group so love you 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖👏👏👏🤞🤞

[@meleks_vlog222]

Im really proud of u lexi and making decision is not really easy and you will do good sis

[@makayla5733]

we support you no matter what and im so proud of how far you’ve come

[@dwaynejackson6875]

Hey Lex OMG how beautiful you are in the eyes of GOD be safe happy holidays to you🙏🙏👍👍

[@belindawhitaker1226]

Lexi and to everyone. Do what's best for you. Mental Illness is real and something we don't recognize that something is wrong🌹

[@angelowusu6791]

Lexi I'm proud of you for being brave to tell u.

[@angelowusu6791]

Us

[@angelowusu6791]

💗💗💗💞💞💞

[@janmakgalanyane9290]

Lexi makes the best videos and she looks happy

[@Mariestallings0505]

Love you Lexi, so proud of you you will definitely be great and successful ♥️♥️

[@Zeysdunya]

You're the best! Keep doing what you love Lexi...I wish you the best in your life.I love you 🥺♥️

[@elisasotolongo3276]

I'm so proud of you Lexi, as a college student myself who lives at home your environment plays a big role into how you will do in school and of course your mental. I'm a sophomore now and last semester I took 6 classes and it was wayyy to much for me, now this semester I'm taking 4 classes and it definitely was better for my mental. Take your time, do it at your own pace and at this point if you don't have to retake the class, thats a win! Love you and your content.

[@makayla1661]

Tbh, I might sound crazy but I feel like Lexi is low-key my Soul Twin because of how similar our school lives are... Gurl, I feel your pain when it comes to not being a big fan of school anymore. I get that same feeling sometimes. Thank you so much Lexi for sharing those tips at the end. It was enlightening for me to hear. The fact that I see us go through almost the same struggles and seeing how you push through and persevered, makes me truly believe that I can overcome them as well. Keep doing you, sis. God gotchu. I Luv ya‼🙌🏼🤗💖

[@blind_gamer16]

I love your tips, Lexi! This will help me since I am a rising college student and soon-to-be KZbinr. I have a visual impairment, but I don't let that stop me from what I want to be able to accomplish in life. Good luck out there!

[@kiwionthelime3318]

thx you lexi you helping not to give up on myself with school honestly and seeing not give up like that and push your self is soo good and am soo happy for you thx u again

[@kingmoney6295]

The tips u said got me thinking 🤔 thanks for that I needed to hear those positive words 💯 wish you the best

[@cdavis91801]

so proud of you Lexi keep going and just take this as a learning step for your bright future I feel like you made the right decision for YOU! moving back home may actually be good for your mental health and allow you to focus a little more for your classes.

[@tonyb1418]

Don’t feel bad for not going to College… it’s really not all what it’s cracked up to be if you’re not going into S.T.E.M. Don’t let anyone shame you. You’ll be great!

[@myasportfolio]

hey lexi!! just know that your decision is the right one💕 everything happens for a reason💖 and todays vid was amazing✨

[@tsjourney5390]

I am glad you decided to continue. I wish you the best🎉🎉👏👏.

[@jessicahuggins8998]

I'm so happy that you have decided to continue with school ...

[@latoyasenegal1315]

I’ll add another tip. Communicate with your teacher/professors. They can really help you get back on track or stay on track.

[@verdiana.Catherine_24]

proud of you Lexi! ❤️

[@lexee674]

I’m so proud of you I went through the procrastination myself. This was my first semester In college and I had four classes and I was still stressing. College is totally different than high school. ❤️

[@missclarisa1616]

Don't feel bad cause when I graduated high school back in 2009 I've decided o didn't want to go to college either. College is not for everybody you made the decision for you not for everyone else

[@dinaosuji9286]

College is so stressful,we all understand...like am tried too,wanna go home but am still taking exams. Lexi you decided best ,you just have to balance the two....it will be well okay 👍👍

[@ReekBReacts]

I feel you Lexi because I went to college and it wasn’t for me 🗣so I still chose to move forward and see what the future brings for me not everyone can make a decision and stick to it but I wish you the best

[@AnnikaTheresaG]

I've been thinking about this alot lately and I'm very happy knowing I'm not the only one.

[@kennethking5424]

#1#LOVE LOVE#LOVE THIS ONE#LOVE IT

[@helenbell1316]

I’m happy for you that you are doing what’s best for you . And trust me being a student well senior at oakwood university it’s a lot. But I thank god I made through this semester. I pray blessings upon you and your life.

[@mogdeeskii1990]

GOD*

[@mogdeeskii1990]

Because HE is Exalted

[@darmstead0118]

Very proud of you Lexie. Don’t worry you got this 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕. And thank you for these tips

[@roshelledwarika4188]

Hey Lexi, you're amazing at what you do and keep pursuing what you love; because what sense does it make if you're doing that you don't like or something that stresses you out. I'm really happy that you're doing something that you love and you're already acing it!!! You got this girly!!

[@MissTXTee]

I've graduated college, so I can give my two cents - Take what you want from my comment, leave the rest. How you felt and your poor grades is VERY common for freshman. It is a HUGE adjustment going from being in your safe, structured home to the real world. I cried every day for the 1st few months and went from a straight A HS student to BARELY getting a 2.5 GPA my 1st semester. I hung out too much, studied too little, and was just waaaaay overwhelmed with working and taking care of things I never handled before. But, after the 2nd of semester my freshman year things started to get easier, more familiar and I adjusted very well. You know your needs, but I hope you don't settle too much back into the comfort of your home....You've gotta fly the nest eventually. You need to get that degree - YT won't last forever, so you gotta start on your next phase of life. You won''t be a kid forever, so it's time to grow up. HS is over. Life is gonna be hard, but if you remember others have made it through hard times and you can too, it makes things easier. Best of luck to you!

[@KeKe4Christ]

Such great advice and my two cents to add to this, is the beauty of college is that it’ll always be there so even if people decide it’s not for them right then and there (especially fresh out of high school, I always recommend gap year) they can always go back or start when they’re truly ready. College can be mentally and emotionally draining too but I believe God has a plan for each and every person and it’s going to be different per person so there’s the beauty in that knowing His will shall always prevail no matter what life plans we try to make. “Take what you want and leave the rest” I’m so using this next time I add my two cents lol. May God bless and keep you. Also, the “YT won’t last forever” was needed because too many people rely on this app as a forever income, especially the 16-25 year old crowd, I mean yeah you can invest from it, have multiple streams via sponsorships and other things but unless you’re investing wisely, this won’t last (as nothing will) forever so I pray for wisdom for everyone depending on KZbin as their sole income.

[@martychambers8927]

@@KeKe4Christ most the time they invest there youtube money to even bigger things yo make even more

[@TheresAlwaysTamara]

Glad you are learning in every aspect from this college life… from the experience, partying, homework, being on your own .. it can definitely be a difficult transition if no goals are put in place. BIG Bravo 👏🏽 TO you Lexi for wanting continue your studies 😇👑💫 you got this young queen 🥰

[@adayanichols3165]

proud of you lex!❤️

[@JaniceLumor]

You inspire me to keep pushing up my channel. Love you!✨

[@davinatshimanga1623]

So proud of you Lexi ❤️ I really learned a lot from what you said Thank you💕🌈

[@vaysinterlude]

i definitely think the structure will do you good!

[@GabbyNicole06]

Whatever decision you make is the best!!

[@JoyAlexandria]

awww imma miss you next semester Lexi:( but i’m glad you made the decision that works best for you🤍!! college rlly ain’t it💀

[@karenwright2845]

I'm glad your going to stay in school. You are smart you can do this. You can do college and finish.

[@playnndavis8648]

Lexi thank you so much for explaining step that we can take school can be very stressful and hard but thank you because you make me want to be productive 💕

[@LyssieLysse]

YAY! That’s such a big decision to make, but you know how much workload you can take + YT. Watching this video reminded me of myself when I was 18 and if I was honest with myself then, I wouldn’t have gone back to school after moving back home. I would’ve done an apprenticeship or started working since I learn by being hands on and mobile. Schoolbooks were not for me and the professors were annoying. If I was bored in high school why did I think college would be better for me? lol

[@thanandlovu5107]

College is also about growing . I see growth in you. One day you will look back and be proud of the decision you took. I think we have all thought of giving up but we pressed on. You go through a lot of ups and downs but your bounce back up. I am so proud of you.

[@tamiajones1558]

What ever decision you make we're right here by your side Don't make any one change your decision 😉💗💖 you go girl

[@lex_btsArmyforever]

Don't worry Lexi just keep safe and doing what u want to do by following your dreams ❤️

[@joan3062]

I hope your plans go well I'm so proud of you:)

[@hilarynkosi]

we’re proud of you Lexi!❤️

[@Kathluvsbts808]

I was about to made an decision to not go back next semester but Idk about that. but I'm proud of you Lexi for making the decision 🥰❤️

[@nicolehartline7299]

I'm so proud of Lexi , You came along ways . Love each video you make . Wish I lived closer to you we can hang out . I don't have no friends true story . love u girl .

[@yuhgurlree8106]

I love how you inspires people

[@mbalezen9743]

That was such an educational video i learnt alot thank you lexi and keep being an inspiration to many more people because you are we love you Alexxa keep shining like the star you are💕💕💕💕🤗😭

[@mia_1869]

So proud of you gurlll 💕💕

[@ceniyahlifestyle1172]

Really proud of you Lexi Do not let nobody into you girl ❤️…..

[@legxndugoh5067]

Lexi my sis I really miss u a lot all times but I luv you're beautiful sneakers are black but I nice to see u decorating some Christmas stuffs but I'm really so proud💕💕💕💕💕💕💕㊗

[@Javgordon]

i'm so happy you made your final decision.Do what's best for you Lexi

[@ujamahoveka2614]

Love u lexi. U are so inspirational.

[@tashadesilver6280]

So proud of you .your parents are so inspiring 💗

[@Niita01]

So proud of u Lexi we all support u in whatever u do ❤️

[@Carina-fs9cq]

Literally my fav KZbinr keep doing u babe💗💗inspire me smmmm

[@lethokuhle._.t1475]

Hi Lexi, School in general isn't for everybody so if u feel u can succeed in life with no education go on, but I believe u should sit down and think about it and make a decision that u are extremely sure about. I love u so much and send u all positive blessings during this weird time of ur life. ❤❤❤😙😙😙

[@dubboiyoungin3189]

wow thats a wild story lexi but your mental health is definitely more important than school i pray that you definitely succeed in whatever you decide to do next i didnt even go to college atleast you did experience the college life and too me that takes alot of guts to do i for one am proud of what you did and will do in the future

[@marilynnscorner345]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️👍🥰🥰🥰 You are an inspiration and role model to a lot of young ppl, adults, women to never give up and push forward. I'm proud of you and the person you re becoming.

[@khalilkionreigns463]

I wish u the best lexi I'm dealing with college issues myself due to my football career and work u know, and I to get distracted with parties and the fellas and but it's all good college isn't made for everyone my dad didn't go to college and look hes a police officer so don't let ur dreams go

[@noemie8923]

Hey!! I just discovered yr channel 1 day ago..and I really love yr youtube content...you really inspired me and continue like diiiss yr the boss👌💕...kisses from Mauritius ( I hope you understand my English😥)