For The First Time 21-Year-Old Meets Woman She Says She Fell In Love With Online

A 21-year-old meets the woman she believes she's had an online relationship with for eight months. What does she say to the woman who wants nothing to do with her?
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[@drphil]

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[@jennadombroski1505]

Nah yall exploit people for entertainment

[@clintholmes2061]

Why would anyone do that? This show is obviously exploitative garbage.

[@haileymoreno9331]

Your not helping her. You were exploiting her in front of a live audience, you sick man. You are in no way shape or form helping her. AT ALL. Now because of you she'll be too afraid to go seek actual help from an ACTUAL therapist.

[@braules]

Y’all know damn well what you’re doing

[@Lucaknox]

You disgust everyone . It’s time for you to take down your show

[@MrRaccoon92]

Bailey...despite her "mental" situation, the way she apologize is pure class. it really show who she is as a person. i really hope shes ok now.

[@47imagine]

In other news, the Greeks want to bring a large wooded horse to your house ...

[@Brando23Commando]

Was she apologizing though? She was sitting in front of her telling her she dont believe shes not in on it and how she believed she knew they were in a relationship and then went on to say sorry I'll stop. She straight up said she still dont believe her but shes sorry and will stop. Kind of more like she dont want stalking charges and restraining orders but she fully still believes. I do agree dr Phil is pretty over the top on his methods

[@nolann3815]

She f'ing mental 🤣

[@jaydonweston1734]

@@Brando23Commando you really misunderstood what she said, she said she's not looking her in the eyes because she doesn't want to start thinking all that

[@kaizenkonversations8337]

She’s a great actor

[@jennadombroski1505]

This episode doesnt sit right with me. Dr Phil rubs me the wrong way he addresses guests with mental health issues. It feels exploitative.

[@jennadombroski1505]

@meadow it's disgusting how he claims to want to help people but uses the show to make them just look crazy and not treat them like a human being with health issues and trauma

[@joncolumbino744]

the whole dr phil show is exploitative. If he wanted to help people, he wouldn’t do “therapy” sessions on tv.

[@jennadombroski1505]

@@joncolumbino744 yep, i only said feel instead of is because subjective formatting makes it less likely for others to argue against it that disagree if they did theoretically

[@judethaddeus9856]

He is like this with everyone, why is this episode so different for you

[@jennadombroski1505]

@@judethaddeus9856 Why is that what youre focused on? The other ones Ive seen yield the same unsettled feeling too.

[@charlieboyle6338]

Honestly like huge clap for jasmine who came to that show. She hadn't met her. But you can tell she wanted to help bailey. Mental illness is horrible but to see jasmine be that compassionate is amazing 👏❤

[@illorbit2958]

She wanted to be on tv

[@skysautter8240]

Ikr

[@jubilant714]

Bruh this chick really thought Jasmine wanted to help this other girl . Jasmine don’t gaf. Anyone on this show instantly get free promotion. Who wouldn’t wanna be on the show. If she didn’t show up she would be an idiot.

[@smallfaucet]

@@illorbit2958 And get a paycheck too.

[@Arianne3011]

@@illorbit2958 lot of people want to be on tv but not all of them are compassionate. Her willingness to help, her demeanour, her words - they all show that she is a compassionate young woman _……regardless of whether she wants to be on tv or not._

[@lechenaultia5863]

Bless Jasmine for her maturity Hoping the young person is OK now

[@meanlifemusic]

lol what? Jasmine is the major psycho here. Who works out their stalker issue by bringing it on Dr Phil? She didn't want a relationship with Bailey, well now they have one forever online with infinite views and commenters. great solution jasmine

[@pratkier]

@@meanlifemusic what else could she have done if the police didn't help and teaching out to her family didn't help? Wait for bailey to break into her house?

[@meanlifemusic]

@@pratkier are you really suggesting the situation was at a point where ONLY a televised visit to Dr Phil could fix it? who even sees that as a solution to a relationship problem like that? jasmine wasn't trying to fix her stalker problem, she was trying to get internet famous. you can see it in her face

[@pratkier]

@@meanlifemusic 1. It's not a relationship problem because she didn't know her 2. I'm not saying that it was the only solution but most likely the only one she saw. Especially since she had already contacted the authorities. There have been cases where the police don't take a stalker situation seriously until someone gets hurt or worse. Bailey deserves to have real professional help that's not Dr Phil but jasmine also deserves to not be continuously harassed by a complete stranger from the internet

[@ladysarcasm6226]

I hope I'm not making a false statement, but I really think I saw the "Jasmine girl" on Catfish 🤔

[@MBlunk0912]

I hope this young girl is okay.

[@Jordan-vr7ip]

Which one? The lying harassing stalker? Or the real victim?

[@bela9225]

@@Jordan-vr7ip they are both victims. One is sadly a victim of her own mind. I hope they are both okay.

[@samking7916]

@@bela9225 stalking and harassing someone doesn't make YOU the victim... some of you have quite a few fried brain cells..

[@bela9225]

@@samking7916 There is a difference between being very ill and being a manipulative liar. Either way, of course she needs to take responsibility for the stalking and harassment. Of course its wrong. I don't disagree. 🙄

[@sandasturner9529]

I hope she finds someone

[@sabrinaacevedo2110]

Bailey used to be my dance teacher when I used to dance at her studio that her mom owns. She was very sweet to me. I was surprised when I found out about this. In the end I have no judgment because you just never know what others are going through and we always have to show empathy towards those who are going through a tough time.

[@madisoncarolina9848]

It's Staged..Bailey probably accepted money

[@rydergarcia3647]

She’s so cute I would totally love to be with her

[@weatheredseeker]

Fake

[@tired.8062]

@@weatheredseeker what💀

[@xrrowx5131]

@@rydergarcia3647 no one cares

[@MS-zt7td]

Jasmine was so understanding and tactful. She is to be commended for the way she handled it.

[@user-wt7ps7dq5h]

Yeah must be scary.

[@ellad9513]

Truly disappointed how Dr Phil handled this !! I feel so sorry for that poor girl..she needs real therapy ..not be humiliated on a TV show !!

[@cynthiaholland13]

The black girl could have just called the police on her stalker. I think Dr Phil was more lenient than the police would have been

[@attical4875]

Agreed

[@calebk9111]

Theres nothing wrong with making someone feel guilty or embarrassed about stalking and harassing someone. Bailey humiliated herself by doing these behaviors, not by going on the show.

[@frankensteinscupcake]

It is by the grace of Jasmine that this girl is not in prison.

[@MrSpookyLover]

Dr Phil has routinely been bullyish and unethical on and back stage .his clips do very well because the cases are often very interesting. I can't understand as someone from outside the US why he is loved by so many still,but I'm glad to see folks such as Ellen Oprah and Phil earn less and less praise as time goes on because frankly bring back Rickie lake

[@sandramlane]

Dr Phil, I’ve watched you for years. You’re human, I know, but this young woman deserves so much more compassion than you gave. You call yourself the ‘most non-judgmental person you know’. Well I didn’t see it here - throwing a young, I’ll survivor off the stage was cruel.

[@calebk9111]

You've forgotten that Bailey has stalked and harassed Jasmine. She needs to know that her behavior is wrong, and there's nothing bad bringing these problems to her attention.

[@calebk9111]

@cosmo Her trauma does not excuse her problematic behavior. Also, sending someone off stage when they're behaving inappropriately is not an overreaction, it's perfectly fair.

[@calebk9111]

@cosmo Dismissing Bailey from the stage taught her that emotional manipulation won't be rewarded and that there are consequences. That's an important lesson to learn. Bailey needed that lesson because she had been ignoring Jasmine's repeated attempts to set boundaries.

[@calebk9111]

@cosmo how was Bailey making Dr. Phil seem manipulative? Like what makes you think Dr. Phil felt that Bailey was portraying him as a manipulator

[@dabkewarrior]

Dr doochebag needs to be cancelled asap

[@richieIT]

This episode is so uncomfortable I honestly feel bad for her Dr. Phil is in no way trying to help people with this show

[@jacobbonebreak3588]

which girl bc the girl is flat out stocker

[@georgeca1234]

@lullaby where did you see that??

[@richieIT]

​@Hannah's Cabbies 1. Opinion shouldn't be valued based on how much you make, which makes me think you only "respect" him bc he has money and no i'm not jealous bc i wouldn't even want that money considering how he makes it 2. If we're talking about Jasmine's in these situations then maybe they get helped, but if we're talking about the Bailey's in these situation i would like to strongly disagree. They get harshly criticized and put on a pedestal to be made fun of for having issues. Dr. Phil doesn't even bother asking her why she wouldn't want her mother there and even only talks to her mother 99% of the time. He also just announces all her trauma to these people who just want to call her insane making her very vulnerable and when she get mad (like anyone would in this situation) she is just asked to leave, which will never solve any problem. Dr. Phil takes advantage of these people who are in really vulnerable positions and uses his following that praises the ground he walks on to make fun of these people for having mental problems. He made fun of her delusions when it's something she can't control. He is not professional and if you ever have a therapist that acts like this please search for another one cause acts like this will just make whatever you're going through even worse Mental illness is very serious and any professional would know that and you don't even know how much money i have lmao (and i'm like 99% sure you're not a millionaire so is what you say not valid then?)

[@richieIT]

@Hannah's Cabbies 1. I responded 18 minutes after you posted & you responded 10 minutes after i responded so hypocrite much? 2. You immediately started judging my character by saying "all you do is just sit behind a device and criticizes people that are trying to make a difference" so you can judge my character without any knowledge but i can't judge your statements (You told me to shut up unless i have millions) 3. You clearly haven't seen the ratings if you think "helping" people would be the only reason to have this show (how do you think he became a millionaire) 4. You can't really afford to make these types of mistakes & this video used to have a lot of comments that were previously deleted so i think he knows exactly what he's doing

[@richieIT]

@Hannah's Cabbies 1. It says how long the comment has been up 2. yes you did say that "when you are a make millions then you can talk but for now shut up" and i think i'm the one losing braincells

[@jamiemcguire6681]

Bailey is confused but she was so kind. Phil humiliating her by kicking her off just did more damage than good.

[@aphantom6834]

I agree.

[@spencersciorra8056]

This poor girl must be humiliated.

[@nolimits300]

@Tracy Martel DrPhil could approach that situation in a kind way not like that. He did it in way worst occasions

[@july1996ful]

@@nolimits300 she’s clearly delusional and a liar. She literally lied on his staff.

[@bee2514]

@BJ Proehl ...are you okay?

[@NubianGirl7]

Apparently bailey has been missing since

[@applefarm6126]

I wouldn’t want anyone stalking me like that

[@clintholmes2061]

This shows why Dr. Phil should never be called a "Dr." What joke. He should be ashamed.

[@houseofaction]

he has a doctorate so he is a doctor

[@clintholmes2061]

@@houseofaction Are you intentionally missing my point? I don't care what piece of paper he has. He is a disgrace to people who should actually be able to call themselves doctors.

[@idalarsen2540]

He's not licensed, so no he is not a practicioner.

[@LauRa-re9un]

Why? can you explain to me? I didn´t get this story very well. Is Jasmine a man or what?

[@claudiawatkins9686]

@@LauRa-re9un that's not EVEN relevant... Not even a little relevant. The point is Bailey is stalking her and she wants it to stop. Man or woman has NOTHING to do with it. Stop stalking people... Lord have mercy😒

[@orca9781]

"you don't want to hurt her or yourself" it's like he's never heard of psychological harm

[@FlynnAlek]

No, he absolutely has. But he’s trying to normalize a more healthy mindset within her, instead of the unhealthy notions she sees on the internet about how mental trauma is romantic.

[@chloevassallo6844]

How’s he causing her psychological harm

[@snooganslestat2030]

@@chloevassallo6844 Ummm parading her behaviour on his show for views which obviously is on tv so now wherever she goes for some time people will know who she is and treat her badly. By doing this outside of a theraputic setting.

[@krisuler7734]

@@snooganslestat2030 …she voluntarily went on this show and did all the things she got ridiculed for. You’re acting like he forced her at gun point to go on there and talk about her horrific behavior. She stalked the other woman and harassed her for nearly a year. Yes, she’s ill and needs help and no Dr.Phil has never been good at providing any help but to claim that it’s all on him is silly.

[@thekat2784]

@@krisuler7734 well she went for help, not public humiliation

[@felisafrantic]

Why didn't Jasmine just block her on the social media?

[@francinejones2524]

I feel sorry for her as she’s so unwell. And Jasmine I feel sorry for too.

[@sierraspivack2261]

He should be ashamed of himself, she left worse than she entered. Made her feel horrible about seeking help, as a "doctor" shouldn't you seek to help and give your patients resources towards improving their quality of life? All this man did was ruin her self-esteem and confidence and she will probably always be reluctant to seek or receive any other help. Truly shameful!

[@erensnon-existantfreedom7060]

Bailey also went missing...

[@cynthiaholland13]

No. She came in a stalker and left saying she's going to leave her victim alone

[@pratkier]

I agree with the fact that doctor wasn't helping her mental health but she wasn't reaching out for help the other girl jasmine was reaching out for help because she couldn't figure out how to get bailey to leave her alone and nothing else worked

[@calebk9111]

Did you forget that Bailey stalked and harassed someone? She's naturally going to upset if someone brings the problematic nature of her behavior to her attention, but she's not worse off for it. She needed to know that what she was doing was wrong and that she had to stop. Therapy isn't just about making people feel better. It requires sometimes telling people upsetting things they don't want to hear so they can work toward improving.

[@thatswhatshesaid6326]

He hasn’t had a license to practice since 2006! He’s a con who just exploits his guest to line his pockets.

[@megami7373]

i feel for whatever issues bailey has. but a lot of y’all comments are ignoring the fact that she stalked tf out of this jasmine girl. y’all are more mad at the stalkee than the stalker. wouldn’t you feel uncomfortable actually having to face your stalkers too?

[@roxlyde8163]

Exactly; people keep talking about her like she's a victim when she's the perpetrator and the other thing that seems to be missed was the objective was to get her to leave jasmine alone and mission accomplished

[@alexandramoyer8785]

Exactly

[@snnnaaaaaakeeeee4470]

If I felt like I was actually in danger I would've went to proper authorities instead of a crappy TV show host

[@snnnaaaaaakeeeee4470]

@@roxlyde8163 He mocked and abused Bailey despite knowing that she had a traumatic past. No wonder she went missing

[@user-vh4nk5yy6s]

of course bailey is at fault for her actions but the way dr. phil exploits the situation is even more infuriating because he's clearly just making a circus of it

[@dominoyo4196]

It's like he doesn't even understand the basics of how this works. You can't just tell someone who has delusions "oh well that's not true" and expect them to fully believe it. Its literally how they perceive reality. You can't just dismiss it and say "yes we helped." He should issue an apology about how insensitively this was handled. Easily made things worse.

[@peacefulinvasion684]

He also crossed boundaries only to shame her for standing up for herself

[@vanishstainremover7905]

I literally took psychology in high-school and knew his approach was completely ineffective and inappropriate at the least. Like does the guy even have an undergraduate let alone a PhD....

[@bela9225]

Fun fact: Phil lost his license many years ago due to sexual abuse allegations. He never renewed it!

[@user-gu1ed1kb8x]

@@vanishstainremover7905 he actually doesn't have a license apparently

[@senboy9002]

@@vanishstainremover7905 I *HAVEN'T* taken psychology and know this approach is completely ineffective and inappropriate...

[@squidwardwithblondehair7219]

I applaud Jasmine for still being respectful, understanding and forgiving towards Bailey. You can tell she wanted the best for her and wanted her to get help.

[@Povertypowerpuff]

lmao did they delete all the comments? Its completely wiped of all the criticism against his actions. And how was this posted in 2018 but also a new episode??

[@Mo-jy7zs]

For the longest time they didn’t allow comments on dr phil videos

[@Povertypowerpuff]

@@Mo-jy7zs oh right, forgot about that

[@leedleleedleleedle8660]

Facts I been seeing that a lot in their videos/ I thought it was just KZbin glitching out

[@melaninandaura9713]

Yep. They can keep erasing comments but if it’s the SAME guy saying the SAME things to this young lady, tearing her down instead of helping her.... ugh I hate this so much it aches.

[@ripabigfatoneforme]

@meadow y’all have no common sense huh

[@user-bh4vp7bv5y]

The way she apologized is beautiful 😊

[@marieellet2424]

Lol

[@LisaLisa-mx3hq]

Really? Because She back peddles and says Jasmine is lying....lol

[@stephenraynes2148]

Apology? That was pure manipulation continued.

[@parraporro3416]

I feel bad for Bailey, she seems extremely embarrased and sad.. I hope she is doing better.

[@bradleylevi1680]

I don’t think she’s sincere honestly.

[@tashajones3661]

She should be.

[@jenniffersm12]

She is nuts! Manipulative! She can show that but it does not mean that is actually happening!

[@Heidi-xm6li]

there was no reason to treat Bailey like a monster - clearly she’s struggling. Props to Jasmine for actually helping Bailey by coming to meet her and smoothing things out.

[@basedmenace1727]

There was a reason when she came out and tried to dictate how she believed the show was going to be run in front of everyone no less. It’s like someone coming into your home and trying to criticize how you run it. You’d most likely put whomever in check as well, and if you wouldn’t, there’s something amiss with you.

[@juliomenendez9458]

@@basedmenace1727She came on the show under the assumption that people were going to make fun of her. Why wouldn’t she take offense to that? She also came on the specific direction that her mother wouldn’t be there. Which Phil disregarded. Pretty shitty thing to do

[@LianneNicoleOfficial]

You should respect people’s boundaries, she didn’t want to see her mother. You bullied this poor girl.

[@vesperrose666]

Exactly

[@Jordan-vr7ip]

Respect people’s boundaries? Did she respect that girls boundaries when she was harassing her? Hard truths cut both ways!

[@Jordan-vr7ip]

@Adrian This ain’t a therapy session it’s a tv broadcast talk show, get it right. She signed up for it and went public about it.

[@theumbrellacorporation1523]

@adriano Actually, I believe Dr Phil went too far with this but Bailey definitely is not the victim and should not be defended like in the comment section. If somebody tells you to leave them alone you do what they say 🤦‍♂️

[@samking7916]

"Poor girl"? Are you kidding me? She STALKED AND HARASSED A RANDOM WOMAN FOR HOW LONG? sit down.

[@SilientShadow]

Aww, this is really sad. Imagine living in a beautiful, happy, hopeful fantasy, only to have it all come crashing down on tv.

[@magallanesagustin4952]

Wellt, don't live in that fantasy, then. And it's not even a beautiful, happy, hopeful fantasy. It's a delusion.

[@saja2981]

She didn’t have to come to tv show

[@faisaldhariwal1510]

The worst part is that she had to be their laughing laughing spectacle

[@grod805]

This is so uncomfortable watching

[@benildagonsalves]

I am so sorry for this young girl and what she is going through, I just want to give her a hug. Bless you Bailey. Hope you get the right help.

[@davionbryant1020]

she's a stalker?

[@Janae2000]

@@davionbryant1020 yeah who clearly admitted to harassing an individual who’s also clearly suffering from mental health issues. Have some compassion.

[@odinson2273]

It baffles me that this guy still thinks he's actually helping anyone. Dude acts like he's some beacon of morality when all he does is expose people's traumas, problems, and more for money. That bum fights dude was right lol. He's a hypocrite.

[@katylepetsos7512]

I don’t watch Dr. Phil, can you explain the situation to me?

[@judethaddeus9856]

@@katylepetsos7512 you obviously do watch him because you’re commenting on his video If you want more information common sense would dictate you need to watch the show

[@katylepetsos7512]

@@judethaddeus9856 I just randomly clicked on the video you chode.

[@milkiesss]

@@judethaddeus9856 geez calm down my dude, you don’t know if they watch Dr.Phil constantly

[@theguy7480]

@@katylepetsos7512 basically "dr" phil is bullying mental patients

[@asherfriedman5423]

10 bucks says 4 hours later there was another message 😂

[@caity9244]

🤣🤣 LoL 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@gurutruecrimeguru1405]

She was having a period of sanity there but she might fall back into psychosis late for sure. It's not her fault. Dr Phil should have actually helped her instead of being mean to her because she called him out in a spot on way.

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

Way to have sympathy and humanity!! Fking imagine THAT @asher 🤨🧐🧐😡

[@ndtcssh]

“I’m not going to put a stalker and stalkee on stage together” *puts stalker and stalkee on stage together* I really hope Bailey is doing better. I don’t think this situation was handled well at all on any level.

[@davionbryant1020]

how do you think a stalker should be handled

[@morgan7112]

This woman is being stalked & is so kind & compassionate

[@psychoshrink166]

Can you help her (Bailey) instead of publicly ridiculing her?

[@christophermeyers]

Well said. He completely exploited this girl for ratings and made no attempt to help her.

[@cynthiaholland13]

He helped her stop stalking the other girl

[@angiebirdsall5132]

The whole thing's so sad...

[@clintholmes2061]

Shame on this show and shame on the people making it.

[@judethaddeus9856]

And shame on you for watching it

[@applefarm6126]

Nah

[@clintholmes2061]

@@applefarm6126 Yah

[@applefarm6126]

@@clintholmes2061 nah

[@clintholmes2061]

@@applefarm6126 Seek help. But not from "dr" phil.

[@morganbarfield108]

The fact that jasmine came to be like, hey you gotta stop, because it is scary. I could only imagine how she felt having this girl she doesn’t know say she’s coming for her, but you could tell she didn’t want to down her or hurt her, she wanted to help her get the help she needs. I can just tell from this that jasmine is an amazing, beautiful soul.

[@Whtever5evr]

Specifically looked for this video. This young woman passed my mind today. I hope she’s well.

[@bethlamb3286]

I keep reading everywhere that she disappeared out of embarrassment after taping this show and shes been missing for about a year :(

[@lysandralux3222]

@@bethlamb3286 do you happen to have any other source information about her being missing? If that's true, that's really sad. :(

[@poeticsteph]

@@lysandralux3222 she's NOT missing. You can look up Ericka Bailey on Facebook and see recent pictures of Bailey. Just because Bailey isn't active on social media doesn't mean she's missing.

[@goodtimes2026]

You can tell this girl is very confident in the way she carry’s herself. She is gorgeous and any man/woman who ends up with her will be a very lucky person. She seems genuine in her responses and I can tell she’s upset that it’s over. Sometimes with mental illness you use things as a coping mechanism. Very similar to what you would say OCDC would be but on a different level. She needed someone to believe in and needs that emotional connection and I really hope she can find that.

[@LisaLisa-mx3hq]

Sad it's over??? There never was anything,it was all a delusion,and trust me.....nobody wants to be with someone like that,She has a Personality Disorder ffs!!!

[@stephenraynes2148]

What? I feel terrified for whomever she ends up in relationship with.

[@kwilson5832]

I was with someone with similar issues to Bailey for over 8 years. My partner was delusional, a compulsive liar, had imaginary children, falsely accused me of beating her etc. But I realised she had a problem and stuck by her. Her parents and our mutual friends could see that she was so much improved with me in her life, which did wonders for my confidence. Unfortunately, (and unknown to me at the time), I suffered an emotional trauma and had several things going on in my life, which caused my brain to 'shut down' for the last four years of our relationship. I was suffering from derealisation and depersonalisation, so I lost touch with reality and my brain just did enough to 'survive'. This caused our relationship to go nowhere (we had both wanted to marry and have children), but I struggled with making any decisions. Eventually, the relationship broke down (needless to say, with m partner falsely accusing me of her raping her, resulting in my arrest). I was left homeless and without any of my belongings overnight. It took over a year to realise just how mentally ill I had been, and I don't think I'll ever recover from the repercussions of it. The mental trauma I suffered was the death of my mother. I had been living with her at the time, so had to leave quickly and moved in with my girlfriend. This was on the premise that I would buy a house for us to live in. When I received an inheritance from my Mum a few months later, I was overwhelmed by what I could afford, but the overwhelm of choosing a property (and a location), asking my girlfriend's parents for permission to marry her, arranging a wedding, as well as some other issues I had going on (my job and location were likely to change, I had a difficult insurance claim which could have cost me hugely if it wasn't paid, which seemed possible) all became too much for me and I just couldn't think. I would look online at houses, wondering why they weren't as affordable as ones I had seen a few months earlier, so thought I should save more to 'catch up', but of course, it was a lost cause. I would never be able to afford the type of property that I could have done when I inherited, but I just didn't realise it (despite being a qualified accountant). I had lost tuch with reality. I constantly think about how I could have been so much better for my girlfriend if I hadn't been so mentally ill myself, and I will never forgive myself for letting her down so badly and ruining her dreams of having a family (it's too late for both of us now). But similar to Bailey, I think the right person who understands and tolerates her and wants to help her will do wonders for her.

[@ameeraalbeek3668]

This girl 😔very sad I feel bad for her

[@deborahrobinson9718]

I feel so bad for that sweet girl. I’m crying because I can’t imagine being delusional and u thinking something is real only to realize it was all in your head. I know that must’ve hurt

[@GangGang-qk1se]

Actually yeah why did all of the comments get deleted

[@elviamay8518]

I feel bad for her. She needs help and period!!

[@clivebixby206]

Why does she need period? Did they mention thay she doesn't menstruat or something because i totally missed that

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

Period??!! Tf??

[@julieshaffer140]

Dr. PHIL has changed his direction slowly but surely from attempting to help to ridiculing.

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

All because he got so fking buthurt!! Despicable and vile!! So utterly unprofessional!!

[@katestevens86]

He is getting closer and closer to becoming Maury Povich every day. And the merciless way he promotes his own business 'Doctor on Demand". It's cringe worthy.

[@PNGIslandVIBES]

Couldn't she have just blocked her and that was that.

[@jayaom4946]

Well, Bailey made new profiles but still Jasmine kept responding.... even posting the naked pics she sent online publicly. Like, what?! Just keep blocking her new profiles, don't talk to her. She's obviously delusional, the only way to work with her is to give her nothing back at all, then she'll have nothing to work with. Posting her naked pics just gave her more food to then report those and Bailey to believe that something was happening between them!

[@m4._.x681]

WHY TF does there have to be an audience??! thats not helping theyre just makin fun of em

[@jessicajamesspeaks]

Jasmine looks like she's not having Bailey's apology 😂

[@rod9883]

@Robert Lee well I think she probably love it an enjoy it

[@axcentrixx]

I can feel how heartbroken she was. Yes, to most of you watching, you'd find it funny how she was so delusional. You won't understand it. But I kinda do, I felt it when she apologized. She was trying so hard to hold herself back not to break down.

[@dannychristopher1967]

When she said it's hard to look you on the face right now and then mentioned acting and this meant something for you I saw something really sinister. This is a classic case of social media gone horribly wrong

[@mishmash6570]

She seems like a good person and I seriously seriously hope that she gets better and then finds somebody who loves her

[@buttercupthetortoise7806]

Jasmine is amazing . So mature and truth telling

[@carlyellisemarie]

Amen she is. She is a good woman

[@CursosEmStreaming]

Deleting comments ? Why?

[@odinson2273]

Doesn't like the truth

[@calliopeblue2303]

Gaaahhhhssppp

[@clivebixby206]

Soy boy phil can't take criticism. Because he believes that he's always right

[@nastybigJim]

@kim jennie the comment section just opened one most of dr phil videos.....

[@phillipstracner7909]

Utube gets off doing it.

[@Ice-di5ml]

I believe that you should've helped her instead of making fun of her. I think that she may have had a serious issue and was trying to distract herself with Jasmine. It was wrong of her to stalk and harass Jasmine, but she is still human and has problems. I know this is your show and she signed up to be on here but she still needs help and may be afraid of asking for help again for fear of being made fun of. In future shows, please prioritize people's physical, mental, and emotional state over the views and content. Then again, I am just a kid with an opinion and you're a doctor.

[@valenciaashley1098]

In one episode he said he would never have their stalker and stalkee in the same room now look at this episode, they both in the same room 🤣

[@cherylhartley3025]

My heart goes out to the little girl. So important to be able to love children irrespective, not publicly confront.

[@perfectlyimperfect492]

It just bewilders me how in these type of situations they think 'let me get on tv'. If they really wanted to get her the help she needs; there should have been a no contact restraining order set in place. The mother should sought professional treatment instead of letting her daughter be berated on national television. On top of that why would you expose the stalker to the stalkee, wouldn't that just make the infatuation stronger now that it's face to face vs online??

[@DrFill-ht3eh]

I seriously can't figure out why anyone would put their problems to the public with millions people like this.

[@marissarios7218]

Cause she had every right to call the pplice and press charges but has a heart and cant get a stranger medical help so she thought this was her only shot.

[@Sunrise-fr9jb]

@@marissarios7218 i feel like being in National TV is just as worse tho

[@Pluskeys]

Me neither and I wouldn't tolerate Dr. Phil's bullying. He's not God.

[@willsmithhitme7728]

Dr Phil is always making these underhanded comments to make the audience laugh and that is such BS!

[@lauringrace1389]

It's TV, what were you expecting?

[@spreadthegospel6667]

I experienced something very similar. I am no dr but it think she had a delusion…very embarrassing to have it exposed on tv. The humiliation you feel after realizing it was never real is extremely depressing. I hope shes ok also. Probably triggered by the trauma she experienced in the past, at least mine was. It’s crazy what your mind can do. Very sad to see this poor gal humiliated on tv. Could of handled privately, then shared the story if they agree to it…doing it this way could push her over the edge in humiliation if you know what I mean… praying for Bailey🙏🏽

[@maqtewek4628]

Same, I've been in a similar situation on both sides, actually. I think Bailey got caught in the Twin Flames New Age gimmick, where a lot of vultures / gurus teach people to believe in their "intuition", trusting the signs, etc. I've been in Twin Flames groups, and she uses the exact same terminology as people would there. Thinking that your beloved hears what you say, taste what you taste, etc., is super normal in these communities. It has now been proven that these groups can be like cults, exploiting people traumas and their need to be understood and loved as a whole (people like Jeff and Sheleia, for instance, are actual cult leaders disguised as Twin Flames).

[@Appalachian_Hunger]

If Bailey was a male y'all wouldn't have this much sympathy for them.

[@caity9244]

That's probably so true. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@gurutruecrimeguru1405]

We might if he was this sweet and not rapey.

[@smartiegenie7847]

Cry about it some more bud.😂

[@Funeral_Mannequin]

@@smartiegenie7847 You're part of the problem.

[@buteverybodycallsmegiorgio]

How has Mr.Phil not been cancelled yet, when his whole game is abusing the vulnerable?

[@phoenixashe7174]

It's odd jasmine never blocked her. 😒

[@DaughtersofOrion]

😂

[@mikalabaker6110]

This is the sweetest, most soft spoken, polite guess I've ever seen on Dr Phil. I feel pity for her.

[@pattiollweiler2496]

She's a narcissistic sociopath.manipulates with her phony, soooo sweet voice. Look into those eyes.

[@MrJdouble1998]

She's talking to her like it's an actual breakup. It's so bizarre.

[@ashleygilliland4331]

I feel so bad for Jasmine. I find her to be so nice, so honest & has been so supportive in providing the closure Bailey needed. Jasmine’s been so nice to Bailey, too. I wouldn’t blame her if she came to the show upset. I feel bad for Bailey, too. She never received the help she needed for the traumas that she had to go through. I can understand why she did what she did, but she never had the time & help to heal properly, leading her to this.

[@urwifibar5283]

i totally understand, she shouldnt be harassing anyone. BUT, that doesnt make it okay for “dr” phil to be humiliating her, and making her feel stupid.

[@clancybabii]

Very odd 'realisations' shes had. She doesn't believe a word shes babbling. She still thinks jasmine is just acting like they are not together for some reason or another. This girl needs some serious help.

[@gurutruecrimeguru1405]

That's why she said "I don't want to think that you're acting" because that's probably what a part of her was thinking.

[@stephaniemc9948]

I feel badly for Bailey but she needs to be in a hospital. She’s completely crazy.

[@MCshlthead]

Easy to get infatuated with a person online, there’s something about someone who is out of reach that makes them so much more alluring. Been there multiple times

[@retroguy95]

I feel bad for her they shouldn't of put this episode out, this was just cruel.

[@nbecker675]

Yeah, Dr. Phil makes me cringe. He makes all his guests feel bad. They need help; not to be ridiculed.

[@Kimberly3736]

Jasmine is so sweet and it’s so admirable to come on the show.

[@caroljeeben7064]

I've been in a relationship with someone I met online before. It can really mess with your mind. Especially if you're young (I was 17-19). You only see all of the good parts of someone and you make up your own version of the other person as well as yourself. You hold yourself to high, impossible standards. Then when you don't see the other person for a while you fill in the gaps with what you wish was happening when it wasnt. The relationship at the time was mutual, he visited me first and i visited him a few times after that. It was the first time a cute/handsome guy ever gave me attention of any kind. But man at the time he broke it off with me it was hard to cut the habit of talking to the other person. Not missing the person themselves, but just the habit of looking at the phone and having messages and having something to look forward to. It's been 12 years now and I'm still mad at myself for how STUPID I was. But I was young and had zero life experience up to that point. I threw myself into something I was 100% not ready for. Now I'm in a healthy 10 year long relationship now with a 6 year old girl. Bailey will be fine. She basically created a fake person in her mind and Dr. Phil handled this completely wrong.

[@mimibehee1112]

I work in mental health and sometimes you have to snap the people back into reality before you start medicating them.

[@janchampine1899]

How does one go about "snapping someone back into reality"? My son has psychosis and is delusional. Any time I say something that challenges his ridiculous beliefs, he starts screaming immediately. No one is allowed to disagree with him. If I don't hear HIS auditory hallucinations, it's because I'm old and deaf. Or lying. This girl made several comments STILL eluding to the fact that she hoped they'd be "together", even while apologizing. She's not "snapped back" at all.

[@juliacatone9038]

He was so nasty to her

[@Jordan-vr7ip]

Good! she was so bad to the other girl

[@cupcakecrazy02]

They should be ashamed. He made her feel like she's crazy instead of supporting her and getting her the help she needs.

[@odwasodzo4494]

Dr Phil rediculed this girl. It's so hurtful. the way she apologized was very sincere. 😭🥺🥺🥺. .

[@lovinlife6941]

Can't help but feel bad for her!

[@DashtonSunflowerseed]

being on a show together is a BOND you can't ever forget even as just Friends this is Sad & MEAN

[@neroflower6716]

Bailey can admit and apologise and listen to what ppl say and she's soo sweet & kind compared to other guests "dr" phil had. He could have talk calmly w/ her but instead he just became a bully seeing it as a large issue compared to others! The day would come when u would get fully exposed and lose ur job & maybe go to jail😄

[@gurutruecrimeguru1405]

Because she called him out in a spot on way she's highly intelligent and a good speaker and she basically exposed the show which he covered up with a rage fit.

[@neroflower6716]

@@gurutruecrimeguru1405 if u see the other "guests" she has literally nothing bad

[@gail9299]

This did literally happened with something in the UK. Jeremy Kyle. Self-appointed saviour with resident psychologist etc etc. Ultimately everything came to an abrupt end following the suicide of a 'guest' a few days after he appeared on the 'show'. A judge termed the programme a modern-day form of bear baiting. It was actually based around Dr Phil!

[@akalkrlongkumer8161]

That's a brave girl. It's never easy to say sorry,,,,

[@edwarddeitch8886]

I thought the kid did a great job of trying to repair the damage to herself and the other girl.

[@aqqq9053]

Jasmine seemed weird to me, she smirked at one question and she just seems like a weird person. I've been able to create scenarios and imagine someone (usually my crushes) were next to me but that doesn't make me psychologically ill. I feel sorry for Bayley, she keeps apologizing and look at the pain she has in her eyes.

[@phoebe1029]

Bailey went missing after this show. She hasn’t been found yet.

[@meamverysmart]

@@phoebe1029 for real?

[@Jordan-vr7ip]

@Tracy Martel Attractive young white girls will always be favoured over black women. Take this post as an example. What has the world come too

[@austinm8334]

@@phoebe1029 seriously?

[@cjordanvab]

You would be uncomfortable too if you set across someone that was stalking you and still seem delusional about what they put you though.

[@Imher22]

i will never watch dr phil ever and big ups to the young lady who really acted so mature

[@melanie6123]

NOOOOOO YOUR NOT GONNA GET AWAY WITH DELETING COMMENTS BRO YOU DOMT DESERVE YOJT SHOW AFTER EXPSOUNG HER LIKE THAT!

[@hawyee9090]

what an amazing show of empathy and grace -- qualities that i wish the host of this show possessed -- by jasmine. i really hope that bailey has since gotten the help she needs.

[@bani7412]

I'm glad that Dr. Phil is talking sense to this girl. She needed it.

[@shannasharp8917]

I really can’t stand dr Phil bc of this whole situation and how he treated this poor girl. She seems so genuine whether she imagined things or not. She seems like a good person.

[@aazid1]

This is fishy 8 months of harassment she couldn't press block or report.

[@SaturnaliaJones]

Poor girl has obviously endured a lot and is struggling to keep a toe hold in reality. Shame on Dr. Phil for exploiting this vulnerable young woman for ratings. She agreed with everything everyone wanted her to and still both the doctor and other guest kept hammering her to fill up the episode time. Shame on you.

[@zajislife]

Something is super odd about this. 8 months and NEVER did Jasmine block her from ALL mediums? social media, cell phone. NEVER? Even if Bailey sent subsequent messages from throw away numbers, just block her as soon as you see the message without responding. What am I missing? I'm honestly asking.

[@rod9883]

Exactly!!! My gut feelings tells me that jasmine kindly like the attention ( Bailey) giving to her she kind of enjoy it! And also look at her when (baily) said I will never contacte you there is broken eyes or hurt.. that’s strong sign just foucs on her reaction

[@aphantom6834]

I agree that something isn't adding up here. Also, that smirk on Jasmins face, the humiliation of Bailey who clearly has problems...this shouldn't have even been a "show"

[@rd6006]

She was humble about this!

[@ThatGuy-ns8de]

Any update on this story would be great!

[@magnificent6668]

I'm going to play Devil's advocate here...if Jasmine did not want this girls' attentions, why didn't she just block her? Refuse to respond. I feel like the fire was being fueled here & all it seemed to take was a definitive "not interested" face to face with Jasmine's "dangerous stalker".

[@chloekit4861]

I think she kept making different accounts

[@gurutruecrimeguru1405]

Blocking is useless because stalkers can make as many accounts as they want or at least they could at the time this was made. Twitters made that very hard now but it was easy as pie to do at the time this was made. People who said "just block them" are stupi when they can make dozens of new accounts. Do you really think blocking is a magic wand that makes people disappear?

[@horrorwithkelly2403]

@@gurutruecrimeguru1405 exactly. Before blocking used to work but now people have realized they are always one click away from creating a new account to harass people. Behind the screen, you can literally be anyone or anything.

[@pammers5588]

I hope that the Baileywas receptive to the help provided and stopped stalking. It was very nice of Jasmine to reach out to Dr. Phil for assistance vs. contacting the police and having Bailey arrested. It says a lot about Jasmine. I hope that she is doing well and being left alone by Bailey. Stalking is a serious crime, which sometimes leads to murder.

[@AAS248441]

How did doctor feel help her?

[@mamacitakova9625]

Absolutely disgusting, exploiting her like that .

[@AkbarNurPribadi]

This case is not complicated at all. And dearly Dr. Phil have special skills to extract every penny out of it.

[@hunterjc3231]

Biggest deal of second hand embarrassment I’ve ever felt

[@Bridget.king23]

She sounds crazy while she’s apologizing

[@dj-vg4uu]

The great thing is she has reflected on her actions, thats a great result.

[@savageentertainment8481]

Oh my this was so sad and Bailey needs serious counselling and thought therapy and whatever else is going on here oh my gosh whats the new update i would like to know if she got help just wow this must have been super hard for her