Drugs Destroyed Football Dreams

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Judge Mathis

Judge Mathis

Күн бұрын

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@mostwett
@mostwett Жыл бұрын
Hes right why should he have to go through your parents to see his child. with that being said i hope he completes everything he needs to complete to dig himself out of this and i hope she finds a way to remove her childhood feelings from the situation
@tiasway
@tiasway Жыл бұрын
So I agree to a certain extent if it's that tumultuous when they do communicate another party is necessary. At the same time I don't understand why they can at least try to communicate through text to see if that can work
@xxHoolie
@xxHoolie Жыл бұрын
Right, I don't get why he has to go through her parents, yet they have absolutely no responsibility for their baby. She needs has a lot of maturing to do
@theoracle2760
@theoracle2760 Жыл бұрын
Because she's still very bitter about him "cheating" back in high school and college and that he has another kid. Nobody has told her that she needs to take accountability for being a naive little girl trying to be grown too fast, and that her expectations of "loyalty" are more so for a man who is your husband, not your boyfriend or some guy you're just dating. Mathis kind of eluded to it. You can tell she is still going around pointing the finger at him instead of looking in the mirror.
@newjerseylove1373
@newjerseylove1373 Жыл бұрын
If the goal is to see HIS son, then seeing HIS son is the objective. That young woman is not healed, true but has made a VERY mature decision to give full access to HIS son..WITHOUT HER. That's called BOUNDARIES
@ninadavis5517
@ninadavis5517 Жыл бұрын
She sounds silly. That's what 14, 15 year old boys do, flirt and learn about girls. A baby was the only thing he could have given her. Their parents should have talked to both of them, especially him, having an athletic future. Young people these days have adult parts and child like minds and don't know a damn thing.
@SiLvErWaRe000
@SiLvErWaRe000 Жыл бұрын
That's because people don't start teaching and disciplining their kids until it's too late. I don't know how many times people have tried to stop me from imparting knowledge onto children. Telling me they're too young, or won't understand. Well I'll just keep at it until they do.
@universaldollie
@universaldollie Жыл бұрын
"Young people these days have adult parts and child like minds and don't know a damn thing." Wow! Really profound.
@jenaewhite5869
@jenaewhite5869 Жыл бұрын
Wow? Children don’t know anything? It’s almost like it’s up to the adult around them to teach them. Plus, you say children these days. Did children back in the 50s automatically come with knowledge? Impressive 🥴
@universaldollie
@universaldollie Жыл бұрын
@@jenaewhite5869 Typically, youngsters, of any era, know nothing/very little about life. Even when proper guidance from parents and other relatives is provided, they often do not heed the instruction given. It seems worse today because many of the children have been birthed by mere children themselves. The young, inexperienced parents haven't matured enough to guide the children they have...imo
@jennevamadison3803
@jennevamadison3803 Жыл бұрын
They are not adults parts they are human/people parts.
@yoboymalc4432
@yoboymalc4432 Жыл бұрын
I went to high school with her and Lyndell, dude was a hell of a player. Sad he turned out like this.
@JojosOasis
@JojosOasis Жыл бұрын
Regardless of what happens between the adults, stop taking it out on your kids. Its beyond immature and leads to a continuous cycle of parentless children.
@gigga693
@gigga693 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! My marriage failed and we have differences that we can’t find mutual ground on, but our child will always have access to both parents. And that access will be without hurdle, drama, or spewed toxicity. Hopefully they both can put their shenanigans aside and meet the needs of their child who didn’t ask to be brought into this circumstance.
@jamesbonsignorejr3101
@jamesbonsignorejr3101 11 ай бұрын
She childish as hell your parents can’t live forever
@CuirPhotodotNet
@CuirPhotodotNet Жыл бұрын
.....that was really sad to watch....that young man was given a HUGE opportunity....and he truly SQUANDERED IT.......multiple drug test failures....two children by two different women....and the young man was still clueless and the judge became annoyed at his immature inability to see the bitter truth...and the judge gave him a stern reality check...and made him face the truth of his life......his athletic career as he wants it is now far ....far from his reach....probably never to be grasped...maybe he himself can be a high school phys ed teacher....a coach himself...or an assistant coach...truly a sad episode....
@Tia-ChanelHatch
@Tia-ChanelHatch Жыл бұрын
This is the best comment. Gave me cold chills. Well said. Well said
@1eaglefan960
@1eaglefan960 Жыл бұрын
The fact that the defendant ask the judge how did he blow his chances at a football career... let you know that he is still immature to children.
@jlove8441
@jlove8441 Жыл бұрын
That’s good for him. I’m happy he finishing College…I hope everything works out for him.
@1eaglefan960
@1eaglefan960 Жыл бұрын
I will never understand how these young people get a full scholarship to a college and go off and start smoking and drinking, just being irresponsible not even thinking about their future.
@MotherDivable
@MotherDivable Жыл бұрын
And then he kept failing DRUG tests....
@acemac1844
@acemac1844 Жыл бұрын
It’s called athletic ride hello😊 you can be mentally slow but if you can run the ball you got a full ride, and you got a full ride he’ll full ride for all if you can run fast enough 😢
@jaredhowze8305
@jaredhowze8305 Жыл бұрын
How is it not understandable? Athletes are basically celebrities on campus, it’s very easy to fall into that lifestyle, especially when all that stuff is coming free.
@BREEZYM6015
@BREEZYM6015 Жыл бұрын
Kind of like Ja Morant flashing a gun on IG live and risking his NBA career. It makes no sense.
@docwash2020
@docwash2020 Жыл бұрын
Maybe it’s the pressure! I had the pressure of the debt being on my back so I had no choice but to finish! Wish them luck!
@wordplay6665
@wordplay6665 Жыл бұрын
Damn he made him shrink into a shell. He sounds like he’s still planning to become a football player 😬
@ak24553
@ak24553 Жыл бұрын
He was just being real with him. The truth hurts but somehow he has to understand. He was kicked off the team. He didn’t understand he can’t go back
@ckells
@ckells Жыл бұрын
Lol 😂. Right. He certainly doesn’t get it. It’s over buddy
@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324
@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 Жыл бұрын
High schoolers are not mature enough for romantic relationships
@universaldollie
@universaldollie Жыл бұрын
Most are not. On rare occasions two high schoolers are mature enough to conduct a reasonably sane romance.
@cgogetit
@cgogetit Жыл бұрын
Tell that to teenage hormones. We've all been there. Some are smarter than others and don't revolve their entire life around each other.
@theoracle2760
@theoracle2760 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. And the parents need to be much more involved in policing what is going on in these so-called kiddie "relationships" because these kid's choices can have lifelong ramifications, and simply saying "I was young and dumb" won't change the fact you are permanently responsible for another human being.
@RebeccaTrammell-th4em
@RebeccaTrammell-th4em Жыл бұрын
Nope but they think they are!!!
@TheGreatB.
@TheGreatB. 8 ай бұрын
Me & my wife are middle school sweethearts. What are you talking about
@tabmajor27
@tabmajor27 Жыл бұрын
The young lady is right to have things organized threw her parents. Sometimes men act like they just want to see the kids but they really just want the mom. Been there done that. I'm curious as to how many kids he has now. Cause he clearly doesn't believe in condoms.
@Tia-ChanelHatch
@Tia-ChanelHatch Жыл бұрын
I hope this young man still achieves his dreams. I can tell in his face and mannerisms he still wants to win! He will
@mielissa100ify
@mielissa100ify Жыл бұрын
They have a lot of growing up to do. I hope they have to get it together. I hope the kid turns out better.
@dannielleyelder
@dannielleyelder Жыл бұрын
I am glad that the judge read him the rights because it is clear that he has been comfortable with giving excuses and people being okay with that
@condesabeatriz9303
@condesabeatriz9303 Жыл бұрын
Hopefully he can communicate throught the courts. He shouldnt have to go through her parents if there is a court order in place. They are both immature and need counseling on how to effectively co-parent.
@georgia1191
@georgia1191 Жыл бұрын
This Judge is one of if not thee best judge
@jatyracandler4794
@jatyracandler4794 Жыл бұрын
He so goddamn lost its heartbreaking
@fwb1012
@fwb1012 Жыл бұрын
I hope he learns his lesson! He has two children in two different households and he doesn’t seem mature as yet! Pull those bootstraps up and continue working hard.
@YAHsaves777
@YAHsaves777 Жыл бұрын
She laid down with this man and made a baby so very unrealistic for her to think she won’t communicate with him about their son for at least the next 18 years
@ISayToMyself
@ISayToMyself Жыл бұрын
Both of the making reckless moves.
@ashleyjohnson3397
@ashleyjohnson3397 Жыл бұрын
I just didn’t like the fact that she’s making him go through her parents if he wants to see his son. Like your parents wasn’t there when the kid was made so don’t put the burden on them for the dad to see his kid.
@dominiuqewaston2492
@dominiuqewaston2492 Жыл бұрын
Aww I hope she grows up. She needs some help
@Richnolan1200
@Richnolan1200 Жыл бұрын
She's bitter and mad
@Marlon-oe1dd
@Marlon-oe1dd Жыл бұрын
I mean Grow up Fast smh Ain't no way My kids Baby Father or Mother textn me about arrangements for my grandchild...Naw Yall Co Parent that mess! I had my days 😂
@pache7216
@pache7216 Жыл бұрын
she's very bitter, he has to text your mom and dad to see his own child,,, smh
@Marlon-oe1dd
@Marlon-oe1dd Жыл бұрын
Yea she sound Super Wacky in the head. If I was her father I'd say ,Hell Naw! You layed down with him and Now You Gone Co Parent with him. Smh
@kandi668
@kandi668 Жыл бұрын
At least it something. They are young and time heals all wounds. They just need time to mature and move on. He could text her parents, setup arrangements, and be a consistent presence in his son’s life.
@theoracle2760
@theoracle2760 Жыл бұрын
​​@@kandi668Yeah, but it's unjustified from what I heard. She never said he was violent, abusive, or any kind of danger. All she talked about was him so called "cheating" when they were in high school and college. She seems bitter and unreasonable. She needs to take accountability for her poor choices just like he does and grow up, and her silly behavior shouldn't be justified by making him jump through hoops to see his son.
@krystala17
@krystala17 Жыл бұрын
@@kandi668 I agree. Maybe they can’t get along. So it is better, then no he/she said stuff. No arguing if they are arguing. He can arrange with her parents and bond with his son without anything extra.
@lbennaugh
@lbennaugh Жыл бұрын
SMH, I guess she doesn't want to be cordial for the sake of her child. If the man wasn't physically/verbally abusive, why can't she communicate with him? She acts like she's not over him to me.
@jesussaves222
@jesussaves222 Жыл бұрын
That's a strange observation when she clearly stated at the end this video that she doesn't want to talk to him at all and that he can contact her parents to see his child..that should be simple for him if seeing his child is all he really wants to do but he didn't agree with her and wondered why she can't talk to him... He should agree and just talk to her parents..she clearly does not want anything to do with him🤣
@cjohns1005
@cjohns1005 Жыл бұрын
​@@jesussaves222its strange that u think CO-PARENTING should be hard.
@lbennaugh
@lbennaugh Жыл бұрын
@jesussaves222 If you don't want to communicate with someone, then don't have had a child with them. Her parents could die tomorrow. Who should he contact then? Y'all are some dizzy ass simple-minded ass single mothers!!! She knew he was a dog before she had the baby. She made a poor choice, but her parents should suffer the consequences of her actions... lol
@jaxxgirl76
@jaxxgirl76 Жыл бұрын
​@@lbennaughI agree. Parents or anyone else should not have to suffer because of her choices and her poor decisions. You made the baby with him, you deal with it
@isiahwarner3087
@isiahwarner3087 Жыл бұрын
​@@lbennaughExactly 💯%!! Both parents should be cordial and put the child's needs first and put the petty ass differences aside. ⚖️
@noble78b
@noble78b Жыл бұрын
You have to be careful of who you have children with! She is very bitter.
@opulence_prime
@opulence_prime Жыл бұрын
And he’s a dunce.
@nettricegaskins1871
@nettricegaskins1871 Жыл бұрын
She is bitter for a reason. I bet she wasn't that way when they met.
@noble78b
@noble78b Жыл бұрын
@@nettricegaskins1871 when they were kids???
@tiffyq7794
@tiffyq7794 Жыл бұрын
A woman gets bitter after having to care for a child on her own with no help from the person who helped to create that child
@deasiathompson91
@deasiathompson91 Жыл бұрын
Men always say “I just want to see my child” … that’s the point. You should want to feed & cloth your child, make sure their NEEDS are being continuously met. Just SEEING them does nothing!
@krystala17
@krystala17 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! What’s a hug going to do. Every child deserves social, emotional and financial support from both parents. Just imagine if that was the case, all these children regardless if parents remain together would be doing so much better all around!
@deja14
@deja14 Жыл бұрын
😂 JM humbled him. Let this be a lesson for the men who think it’s okay to not protect their seed because just like we tell women to take accountability for choosing a deadbeat, men need to take accountability for choosing the type of women they choose to have kids with. Women aren’t always just innocent men have to deal with a lot as well so choosing wisely says a lot about a man
@luvnbball25
@luvnbball25 Жыл бұрын
They both too immature to have a baby. Hopefully they get it together for the kid or kids in his case
@megancoleman425
@megancoleman425 Жыл бұрын
Wish him all the luck.
@latifamckenzie1279
@latifamckenzie1279 Жыл бұрын
Hope his son become what he fail to do
@Marlon-oe1dd
@Marlon-oe1dd Жыл бұрын
He's abt graduate from an University smh Making to the NFL is the only thing he fail ...Press Rewind
@allymaree8812
@allymaree8812 Жыл бұрын
This young man is clueless 😢
@ak24553
@ak24553 Жыл бұрын
Yes he is. He don’t get it
@jlove8441
@jlove8441 Жыл бұрын
It’s OK long as he has God in Jesus name he’s gonna be just fine. You can never tell who’s going to win in the end.
@Greatsharkbite
@Greatsharkbite Жыл бұрын
Unless guy was abusive or is still trying to get with her then he shouldn't have to text mom and dad, infact -definitely not her mom and dad's responsibility--its her responsibility.
@theoracle2760
@theoracle2760 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! And trust and believe if he was abusive she would have said it. The fact she didn't let's me know that's likely not the case and she's still mad about their little kiddie "relationship" nonsense where she was trying to be too grown too fast just like he was.
@dukeyoungsworkout513
@dukeyoungsworkout513 Жыл бұрын
Don't mention child support around the judge. Yo a** is doomed
@deja14
@deja14 Жыл бұрын
I loved how JM was making a joke out of their middle school relationship lol because be fr 😂😂😂 went back to my other gf… he cheated in high school and I forgave 😂😂😂. Are they not embarrassed
@Jmarie0134
@Jmarie0134 Жыл бұрын
She was so serious too 😂😂😂😂 I was like girl not way back in middle school 😂😂😂😂
@ronnimartin7033
@ronnimartin7033 Жыл бұрын
I wish my daughter would have followed some boy from high school to college!! What did she think would happen that happened?!!: A BABY! Unfortunately, she brought all of this on herself. Line from Candy Staton's song, "Young Hearts Run Free": "You'll get the baby, but you won't have your man"! We have to teach our young folks to focus on themselves and their futures. The men/ladies will always be there!
@AceDramaBeats
@AceDramaBeats 3 ай бұрын
The fact that he wants to see his son, and put himself on child support speaks volumes! College kids are VERY new to adulthood. Learning how to balance responsibility and freedom. Somebody in the comments said he was a hell of a football player in high school. I wish him the best.
@lotusgsxr750
@lotusgsxr750 Жыл бұрын
Omg... some of these comments... dude blew his career, talking about where did he go wrong. Talking about he chasing a career all the while not taking consistent care of 2 kids... and yall feeling sorry for him. Plenty of people unfortunately have 3rd party exchanges of kids. Why is he stuck on that. Talk her parents and get your boy. Both of them could have made better decisions, he just had a lot more to lose...
@aisoaification
@aisoaification Жыл бұрын
Because there are a bunch of men who watch soap operas and gossip like females that are on channels like this. They feel for him bc alot of them are very similar to him. They just want to be coddled and don't want their feelings hurt🙄.
@portiajackson6104
@portiajackson6104 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!! Finally, someone that makes sense. For some of these comments, I’m like… “Were we watching the same episode? You feel sorry for HIM?” Smh
@kgames1748
@kgames1748 Жыл бұрын
That real and raw💯 JM gave that unfiltered truth on this one❤ they both sound immature and delusional forreal... the plaintiff at the end 🙄
@NatKyngKong420
@NatKyngKong420 Жыл бұрын
Dreams don’t die just because you have children…I don’t agree with that mentality…handle your obligation as a parent and keep pursuing your goals…!
@deejai1173
@deejai1173 Жыл бұрын
@aisoaification
@aisoaification Жыл бұрын
That's true but they do change due to your choices and circumstances, he can still have dreams but the NFL is one he squandered.🤷🏿‍♀️
@mel...s
@mel...s Жыл бұрын
​@@aisoaificationthem having a baby had nothing to do with his failure to get into the NFL.
@pictureofmyjunk2279
@pictureofmyjunk2279 Жыл бұрын
That was not what was said. What was said was he blew his chance and that ship has sailed.
@jones6433
@jones6433 Жыл бұрын
💛
@HikaruAio2
@HikaruAio2 Жыл бұрын
She sounded dumb as hell saying she can’t communicate with him and he needs to go through her parents. Poor kid.
@lightbulb134
@lightbulb134 Жыл бұрын
Too young! Girl thought of contraception???!! Chased him as a kid! He should have been smarter.
@adrianknight1406
@adrianknight1406 Жыл бұрын
Feel for the defendant. All I can say...
@brentgreen3252
@brentgreen3252 Жыл бұрын
Yea judge went wayyyy to hard on someone who put themselves on child support
@alily3216
@alily3216 Жыл бұрын
F your feelings lol he chose sex n drugs b4 education like many black males lol
@piinkam0r
@piinkam0r Жыл бұрын
Why? Just because you put yourself on child support doesn’t mean you automatically get visitation rights.
@sympatico79
@sympatico79 Жыл бұрын
​@@brentgreen3252That wasn't the reason.
@theoracle2760
@theoracle2760 Жыл бұрын
​​​@@brentgreen3252Especially when he barely has one negative word to say about all the single moms with multiple baby daddies that come on his show and even applauds them at times.
@Kxng316
@Kxng316 Жыл бұрын
This is what happened.. he was still able to hit from time to time because she was hoping they could be a family and he always swung for the fence. She’s fasho bitter but she don’t want to talk to him because he can still finesse them drawls off and she’s pissed he created another family. Ask me how I know.. because I was him except I hoop lmaoooo. Toxic Kxng. I’m glad I grew up since my immature days
@universaldollie
@universaldollie Жыл бұрын
I hope you grew up, too.😉
@M.thepoet
@M.thepoet Жыл бұрын
I think he was hit in the head too many times….yikes 😮😮😮
@MyGoodenessGracious
@MyGoodenessGracious Жыл бұрын
She's bitter behind puppy love. Yes, he cheated but they were kids, be for real.
@Spirit-Survival365
@Spirit-Survival365 Жыл бұрын
Wonder where are they now? I hope the dad is able to have his son spend as many nights with him as possible and that the mother changed her communication method.
@YAHsaves777
@YAHsaves777 Жыл бұрын
Right. She laid down with this man and made a baby so very unrealistic for her to think she won’t communicate with him about their son for at least the next 18 years.
@R3DRUMMAK3R
@R3DRUMMAK3R Жыл бұрын
This was good case..JM had me laughing bc he's sooo animated. Hopefully things will get better between the parents and they can work to raise their son whether or not they get back together.
@ThickSenpaii
@ThickSenpaii Жыл бұрын
Idk I kind of feel bad for him. He looks like he's just not really here like he's a shell of a person. I wish the judge would've tried to educate him a little, without belittling him. That's just my opinion though.
@leir2005
@leir2005 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know what state they’re living in but here in California the child support is retroactive from the date the person initially filed. My daughter’s mother didn’t file on me until our daughter was 15 or 16 and they only asked for paperwork dating back to 2021. They didn’t ask about the years prior to 2021, dating all the way back to 2005
@plot4revenge1
@plot4revenge1 Жыл бұрын
In Illinois, you can go as far back as the date the relationship dissolved or since birth.
@universaldollie
@universaldollie Жыл бұрын
They live in Texas.
@piinkam0r
@piinkam0r Жыл бұрын
Yea where I’m from it’s from birth, im waiting until my sons almost 18 to file , I raised him on my own , it’s the least my ex can do to help him older
@tashiaredd3421
@tashiaredd3421 Жыл бұрын
I don’t like when JM says that because the guys are in their 20’s women shouldn’t expect them to be loyal. If that’s the case he should be preaching to these young males that they shouldn’t get in committed relationships. And I’ve never heard him say the same about women…. 🤷🏽‍♀️
@jaxxgirl76
@jaxxgirl76 Жыл бұрын
💯
@kerrywhite5253
@kerrywhite5253 Жыл бұрын
Mathis, on many occasions, has told them the realities of trying to be committed so young. It's nothing wrong with that. Young men need to hear those words of wisdom from older men that has life experience under their belts. It's not a realistic expectation in my opinion. It seems that some men have the innate need to "sow oats". This isn't to say that all men are like this. Women (some) need to stop telling men what the man should need and desire. If he doesn't align with your plan for your life, 🚶🏾‍♀️on.
@Jmarie0134
@Jmarie0134 Жыл бұрын
He’s being honest tho that’s a unrealistic expectation for both but however we feel abt it a lot of these women come on his show & don’t have nobody telling them the truth. Not that a man being faithful isnt impossible but it’s for sure rare in your 20s
@misterbee66
@misterbee66 Жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@SAHMshorts
@SAHMshorts Жыл бұрын
Girl grow up and stop being silly. He obviously wants to be apart of his child’s life.
@cheesebands6267
@cheesebands6267 Жыл бұрын
Weird time she’s on. Don’t involve your parents when you could just simply communicate with him about his child.
@piinkam0r
@piinkam0r Жыл бұрын
Where does the thoughts of child’s support = visitation? That’s not true at all . I’ve seen people pay child support and have 0 rights
@djdsmooth72
@djdsmooth72 Жыл бұрын
she is mad because he had another child...ridiculous
@henryrobinson5048
@henryrobinson5048 Жыл бұрын
He didn't make them kids irresponsibly by himself. I've never heard JM tell anyone their life is over. That's not what that young man needed to hear.he could very well have 2 children and still go to school and obtain a career in sports. You can see he need guidance. They both do.
@tiffyq7794
@tiffyq7794 Жыл бұрын
Think he was talking about his football career, he needs to start being realistic
@Fleefromsin
@Fleefromsin Жыл бұрын
Make sure you get everything out of the way so you can PRAY! If you don’t move them, or this, or that, out of the way, so you can pray they, or this, or that, will move you out of the way so you can’t PRAY! Don’t be moved! Stay and PRAY!
@Tyme_flies
@Tyme_flies Жыл бұрын
I've listened to JM for years say young men SHOULD put themselves on child support. This young man did exactly what he says you should do, but now don't like the reason the young man said he did it. Smh !
@deniseshannon8865
@deniseshannon8865 Жыл бұрын
Right
@parispitts408
@parispitts408 Жыл бұрын
He wasn't anything from the beginning but she held on because she wanted to be kept. But it backfired and now she is the "momma and the daddy' Also, he looks 40+
@Eltown33
@Eltown33 Жыл бұрын
U bitter thanks for telling us your story this young man trying.
@Eltown33
@Eltown33 Жыл бұрын
And get a profile pick before saying someone looks 40+
@Shesnoangell
@Shesnoangell Жыл бұрын
@@Eltown33trying doesn’t cut it when you have two kids who didn’t ask to be here. GET IT DONE
@aisoaification
@aisoaification Жыл бұрын
@@Eltown33 We both know it doesn't matter if she had a profile pic up, you'd still hate, some of you feminized bit**es will sit up here and be catty discussing female topics. .Whining online about how women are the reason for your failure to thrive, get out of comment sections arguing with women and use instead the internet to find information to benefit yourself.
@Eltown33
@Eltown33 Жыл бұрын
@@Shesnoangell how not he was paying lost a job and now getting his life together in school
@msyayastewart6336
@msyayastewart6336 Жыл бұрын
She though he was going to be a professional ball player. He fooled her.
@phyllissowhat
@phyllissowhat 4 ай бұрын
Exactly-and made sure to get pregnant to seal the deal.
@CEOgpoole87
@CEOgpoole87 Жыл бұрын
They was some old sophomores!!
@jenn_x.
@jenn_x. Жыл бұрын
I was thinking that, too!
@theoracle2760
@theoracle2760 Жыл бұрын
It's funny. There was a case posted not that long ago where it was revealed that the woman had 7 kids by 6 different men at age 29 and that more than one of the fathers was incarcerated. Mathis hardly said anything to her about it, and even appeared to hold back his words. There was another recent case posted where the woman had 4 kids by multiple men at 28. Mathis actually celebrated and applauded her. But here he chastised this guy for having two kids that "he can't afford". He never has this same energy for the women who are just as reckless (a lot of them even more so) and he's only doing them a disservice by not being honest with them the way he is with the men.
@OumTHMDY
@OumTHMDY Жыл бұрын
None of them had a full football scholarship to a great school. That's why Judge Mathis is going harder on him.
@Dub4Lyfe
@Dub4Lyfe Жыл бұрын
She putting her mom n Dad in the middle of thier BS... She needs to grow up!
@MotherDivable
@MotherDivable Жыл бұрын
Either there is more to the story or her parents need to tell her to deal with the father that she chose for her son.
@ceojones7835
@ceojones7835 Жыл бұрын
Text her mom or dad? About seeing his son? She needs to grow up.
@karenfiggs6525
@karenfiggs6525 Жыл бұрын
The way he just shames young black men when they’re TRYING is crazy to me
@leslieshessolovely486
@leslieshessolovely486 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@universaldollie
@universaldollie Жыл бұрын
Someone needs to shame them. They seem to have no respect for themselves or the women they choose to have intimate sexual relations with. They must learn to have some dignity.
@shamaramozee119
@shamaramozee119 Жыл бұрын
First, so she should not have to stress her parents to deal with her baby father her parents was not there when they made their baby the parent should not be there in order to watch their arrangement with their child Wofford that wrestle her parents that’s just crazy to me
@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris
@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris Жыл бұрын
He’s a goofball…in college? 🤨
@colors5778
@colors5778 Жыл бұрын
That's all these young people know is laying on there backs,having kids and smoke weed they useless smh 🤦🏿‍♀️ do better.😎
@nomadictravelerfromTx
@nomadictravelerfromTx Жыл бұрын
She wanted a basketball player but instead got played. Oh well, deal with it.😊
@kgames1748
@kgames1748 Жыл бұрын
Who hurt u 🤔
@nomadictravelerfromTx
@nomadictravelerfromTx Жыл бұрын
🙂🙂
@beeright5439
@beeright5439 Жыл бұрын
This is the worse type of female, call my mom or dad we dont need to communicate....U act like this man is verbally and physically abusive.....U need to communicate with him on child matters, keeping him up to date with whats going on in there lives....The sons will grow up and hate the mom for having the father in there live and u putting yo mom and dad in the middle of yo mess....Senseless...
@Saturdaylove0319
@Saturdaylove0319 Жыл бұрын
Tired of young people with this mindset. Young men out there, simply take her to court and exercise your rights to have access to your child. So sick of the nonsense.
@ryangray9988
@ryangray9988 Жыл бұрын
Doyle be rolling 😅
@bobbieperry5360
@bobbieperry5360 Жыл бұрын
Wow judge let the man talk
@kgames1748
@kgames1748 Жыл бұрын
He had good intentions, but no follow-up sounds like me fr
@marskeins
@marskeins Жыл бұрын
So let me get this straight. You started dating him and he cheated on you with your supposed bestie. Oh they were in middle school okay. 😒 Both seem very immature. At the end why does he have to text your mom etc to get his baby. Like he didn't have a baby by your mom. Kind of ignorance is that.
@nettricegaskins1871
@nettricegaskins1871 Жыл бұрын
His head is down due to shame. No need to bash him here. She is bitter for a reason. I bet she wasn't that way when they met. Regardless, it's on them to make the right choices from there forward.
@Houseplantsandstuff
@Houseplantsandstuff Жыл бұрын
The guy was just pitiful, I feel bad for him.
@conniechoward
@conniechoward Жыл бұрын
Yup, it’s over. Kiss that dream goodbye.
@ellensinclair3994
@ellensinclair3994 Жыл бұрын
They both need to grow up
@KayB-l5h
@KayB-l5h Жыл бұрын
She seems snooty and very judgemental. Nothing the guy will do will ever be enough . she looks smart but sounds dumb. He needs to wrap it up until he grows up. Both need to grow up tho.
@Dshipp25
@Dshipp25 Жыл бұрын
He blew his dreams cause he had kids judge mathis say anything sometimes tell that to the million of pro athletes who had kids weather in highschool or college😂😂
@staggersmusic
@staggersmusic Жыл бұрын
Bitter woman who expected a young man to be committed to a relationship since he was in middle school smdh...
@misterbee66
@misterbee66 Жыл бұрын
It is possible to be committed at that age.
@staggersmusic
@staggersmusic Жыл бұрын
Care to share the stats???
@ronaldmcallister3355
@ronaldmcallister3355 Жыл бұрын
Young man, you blew it. You just kissed your football career goodbye. What a shame !
@theoracle2760
@theoracle2760 Жыл бұрын
This young woman is making the major mistake that so many young women (and even a lot of older women) make. She is doing things you do in a marriage (sex, having children) with men who are not her husband, and then placing the expectations of a husband on the man without a marriage. That is always going to lead to problems because you are doing things completely out of order. The only real form of "cheating" is adultery. Any expectations outside of that and you're really only playing yourself and only have yourself to blame.
@lindaalvarez8855
@lindaalvarez8855 Жыл бұрын
"Why would a teenage girl date a guy who cheats from the beginning & get pregnant from that same cheater?" That makes no sense. He had no job. He was a loser. She needs to wake up & smell reality.
@marshallelliott8894
@marshallelliott8894 Жыл бұрын
Uh oh, this gonna be a good one!
@SxCense
@SxCense Жыл бұрын
The NFL let him in the league he would have been a nightmare. 🤦🏾‍♀️
@jlove8441
@jlove8441 Жыл бұрын
She’s miserable ! if he went to the NFL she wouldn’t be telling him to text my mom just to see his child… she’s dysfunctional
@dotsoneugene
@dotsoneugene Жыл бұрын
He is emotionally immature and employment is erratic, with two children 😢😢
@YoungHaveNot
@YoungHaveNot Жыл бұрын
And she's not?
@dotsoneugene
@dotsoneugene Жыл бұрын
@@YoungHaveNot NOPE
@YoungHaveNot
@YoungHaveNot Жыл бұрын
@@dotsoneugene not communicating AT ALL with the father is immature. Scorned bitter woman. Grow up
@dawniipoo322
@dawniipoo322 Жыл бұрын
I dnt understand how u put yourself on cs and not even pay,like he cldnt work and persue his dream,and shes bitter asf
@shardewashington9006
@shardewashington9006 Жыл бұрын
I think she is bitter he has another child besides hers
@PrincessZaire100
@PrincessZaire100 Жыл бұрын
I think that child was conceived while they were together
@williamdudley8588
@williamdudley8588 Жыл бұрын
Social media feeling sorry for MF’s u never met😂😂
@jenniferbetsill439
@jenniferbetsill439 Жыл бұрын
Both of them are 2 goofys she just still bitter.
@higher_pwr8178
@higher_pwr8178 Жыл бұрын
Plaintiff followed him to college only to become pregnant within her first semester there, then fled immediately back home to the comfort of her mommy, so she is not blameless.
@andreaplayer6052
@andreaplayer6052 Жыл бұрын
HIM PLAYING FOOTBALL IN COLLAGE DONT MEAN YOU GOING PRO YOU KNOW HOW GARD IT IS OH I FORGOT WHO I WAS TALKING BOUT
@letsinvest1476
@letsinvest1476 Жыл бұрын
Terrible waste of opportunity. These young men need solid guide to avoid situations like this. The lady too has no problem kicking him while on the ground. Until she sees him in the NFL, some women are too shortsighted. He may still make it if he is really talented.
@condesabeatriz9303
@condesabeatriz9303 Жыл бұрын
Good point.
@itscollysworld1389
@itscollysworld1389 Жыл бұрын
She is being very mature n responsible… setting healthy boundaries is important. Period text my mom or dad. These bd just want to be in contact with YOU. Next thing you know your getting a “can i come over text”
@ib722
@ib722 Жыл бұрын
Oklahoma smh even Ok city is boring AF so i can only imagine Stillwater! You gon need hella drugs to make it out there
@chancest.thomas5160
@chancest.thomas5160 Жыл бұрын
What a Man-Child runnin' Wild in Tha Promised Land.
@jazs2300
@jazs2300 Жыл бұрын
“How did i blow it?” Sir you’re standing here…
@queenb2713
@queenb2713 Жыл бұрын
Smh this seems to be the blk man's problem..you went to college smoked weed got caught got kicked out twice then had 2 babies by 2 different women....and still saying he's chasing his football career...smh
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