Jen and Pinky's 1 on 1 | Bala Family | S1 | Ep 10 | 1 Magic | DStv

[@Mmeme2023]

Sometimes getting married is the opportunity you were looking for to remove yourself from your family. I don't think Jen pulled him away, he was happy to create a new life.

[@booty3545]

Especially as a middle child!

[@lindamtimkulu1420]

@@booty3545 but these people raised him up,sad indeed

[@nontandorambau7157]

This family needs to understand that when you get married, you create a new family that you cling too and which takes priority. They are now an extended family.

[@andisamtyingizane154]

Thanks girl! 100% with you!

[@ndileka216]

Families differ Nontando , whilst one marries and build one's family it does not mean that one should reject one's blood family.

[@nontandorambau7157]

@@ndileka216 absolutely not reject your family. But priorities change and that’s a fact and if they don’t your marriage suffers

[@xoliswamartin6714]

You don't create a new family, you xtend it

[@starcaron8282]

That doesn't mean they should isolate themselves from the rest of the family, secondly Jen is very condescending and no respect whatsoever

[@Karabo_Mash]

I am glad Jen is able to stand up for herself because these things that they are claiming are an issue are more of an issue on their side from what I can see.

[@lindamtimkulu1420]

Her upbringing is different & i dont think she was ever interested with the family now that they have moved closer she is trying in a bad way. As a Makoti try to know your inlaws dont bulldoze them

[@katlegomolokoe4437]

How is she bulldozing them though? Her first priority is her husband, not her in laws, and the in laws must respect that as well.

[@lindamtimkulu1420]

@@katlegomolokoe4437 in any relationship especially in marriage you get to know your inlaws & not push your own agenda

[@katlegomolokoe4437]

Both makoti and the in laws must get to know each other, and still learn to maintain the boundaries. She will not prioritize her in laws, she will prioritize her husband. And the in laws must also respect the boundaries of their marriage. She must not push her own agenda and they must also not push their own agenda against her. Respect for boundaries is vital between marriage and the in laws.

[@NanaMazwide]

They don't love Jen. They even compared her to Melanie what must Jen do haibo abamyeke Mina M team Jen she is not doing anything wrong. They messed up Zwai,s relationship now they want to mess up Loyiso,s mxm

[@lasembomkhize123]

Jen oh! Jen u got this, no wonder Loyiso loves and keeping you by his side, you got this!🥰😂 🤣💪

[@ZomziWeAfrika]

She wears pants in the house can’t you see how he constantly blinking 😉

[@sthembisongcobo275]

Jen is mature enough ❤️

[@mkcece6112]

Pinky is not taking accountability of not welcoming Jen in the family, she should’ve been the one to take that step and not blame her for everything

[@cassandrayolanda4220]

Exactly hawu

[@NG-ChildofGod]

Akatsheneki lamfazi shem. She blames Jen for everything.

[@tsholomodibedi2236]

But isnt she trying to fix things now for Jen to give her this kind of attitude now shows that she didn't care from the beginning

[@NanaMazwide]

Pinky is just dramatic for no reason she didn't welcome Jen she was closer to Melanie instead.

[@NMC1634]

@@tsholomodibedi2236O bua nnete Mma Modibedi.

[@NanaMazwide]

I,m team Jen. Love her she focuses on her family.

[@wendymahlangu3278]

We love you Jen

[@lusandamanjezi4475]

Mhle maan u Pinky❤😊

[@leratobaloyi2939]

Jen give ur mother in law and Aunty chance to bond with ur kids that relationship is very important.

[@cassandrayolanda4220]

Very true

[@nontumbaleki9406]

I hope they interested as they never said anything in regard. All they want is their "baby" Loyiso.

[@NanaMazwide]

If people dont like you It,s very hard for one to just let the kids bond with with them.

[@nontumbaleki9406]

I think Pinkie hijacks mom inlaw's cap. I also think she is not happy that she can't call the shots at Loyiso's house, she treat Loyiso or her siblings as her kids, i understand she raised them because big mom was always busy with new marriages. Pinky can't handle Jens maturity and how she's independent. I hope one episode will show us what really happened with Pinky's own failed marriage.

[@mkcece6112]

Pinky wa hlanya

[@palesapoho3165]

Love you Jen

[@starcaron8282]

It's amazing how majority of the people saying they stand by Jen would never accept this kind of behavior coming from their brother's wife 😂😂😂😂

[@hlanganisambatha614]

His wife not ours... let's stop the entitlement

[@ZomziWeAfrika]

Facts

[@NanaMazwide]

Loyiso,s sister never accepted Jen from the beginning. what must Jen do? they started this.

[@lindamtimkulu1420]

ABSOLUTELY! Pinky raised him while his mom was chasing relationships

[@lindamtimkulu1420]

True

[@NMC1634]

Sometimes we expect from others what we are not giving! Instead of blaming others, ask yourself, “Am I to others, what I expect of them?” Introspection also helps to navigate around challenges.

[@neoveronica9907]

Pinky wee just don't take your family frustrations on your sis in law ...get married nd then u'll understand well girl,am glad Jen can stand up for herself..check what happened to your mom were you guys happy no no ??Jen is taking care of her family now ...jeso🤔🤷

[@xolijila4127]

There is something very ofish about Jen. She once said her kids will never sleep over at Loyiso's mom's house

[@zinhlenhlanhla5374]

That's how she feels guys. Jen is not a sucker and has a back bond akafuni ukhlukunyezwa

[@nontumbaleki9406]

Somewhere somehow I feel that she was kese favoured when there was Zwai's wife. She is not 100% with mom and sisi. They did not give her that kind of love. ...Who comes into your house, discuss family isdues and still say they dont know why you engage🤷🏽...in your own house!....do you catch the vibes😖

[@xolijila4127]

@@zinhlenhlanhla5374... I don't ukumhlukumeza to expect her kids to visit Gogo once in a while

[@ZomziWeAfrika]

@@zinhlenhlanhla5374You don’t have to be a sucker but you can try a little compromise our culture requires it

[@NontuthuzeloNyiki-ru8if]

I love this show❤

[@royaltylefojane9946]

When your brother gets married as a girl child u feel like he has been taken away from you. I had to call myself into order very quickly that his priority is his family now n boy we get along fine with d wife.

[@Philile-on7or]

Smart woman,may you find happiness and prosperity in your future. Many divorces are caused by toxic sisters in-law.

[@nonhlanhlamodisakeng6693]

Pinky must just get a man nje she's in everyone's business or get a hobby, Loyiso chose to build his own home and he sees fit to run it with Jen. Yhoo the toxicity sometimes in this family? That's why Phenyo choses to drink

[@makhosazanekoloane1751]

Wena Pinky remember you are not an marriage expect at all and you are somehow bitter therefore dont play an expert "Uyeke umshado kaLoyiso cc"

[@nellydyaloyi5028]

There's always a first time cc Pinky

[@lindamtimkulu1420]

Both ways

[@fhalalanimotaung4493]

Thanks Nelly, wise words.

[@IamBarati]

I don't understand how Pinky is close to Mel then can't be friends with Jen. If she's open to a friendship with Mel why wouldn't she do the same with Jen? That doesn't make sense to me. Loyiso is weak vele

[@lindamtimkulu1420]

Maybe Mel's approach was different, more accomodating...

[@oyandakona5994]

Why compare bethunana yo ? Mel wohlukana no Zwai Bala hayini no no

[@IamBarati]

@@oyandakona5994 the point is if Pinky is open to a relationship with Mel there's no reason she wouldn't be open to one with Jen. And Jen is the one who keeps mentioning Mel

[@ndileka216]

@@lindamtimkulu1420 exactly.

[@zrtopics2418]

They are two different people it can be due to anything. We don’t understand the dynamics.

[@SisLinaM]

UTata ka Lisa ayngo Loyiso, sudika wena Pinky

[@oyandakona5994]

Andiyihleka 🤣🤣🤣

[@Caroline-dp7tw]

I didn't know

[@cassandrayolanda4220]

😂😂😂😂😂😂heyake

[@sinajoshua8732]

Pinky and Zwai are so many families in general, when two people become one they live their own lives, when a guy gets married and was the provider and can't do that anymore and has to focus on his wife and children families make such a big deal of it, do people even realise what it take to take care of a family especially your children financially, it's one thing if someone has all the money in the world and can help their family, but why is this an obligation that needs to be put on people likes its expected to help, Pinky and Zwai confessions its clear they don't like Jen and they don't even care to built a relationship with her and don't even try cause its just easy to blame her for it all

[@nellydyaloyi5028]

Why yena Pinky ebengam invite over uJen,?

[@kaziasa]

Family ka husband should make uMakoti comfortable ke futhi. Basile aba. I'm glad that uJen can stand up for herself.

[@kaziasa]

Futhi ke, inoba uLoyiso sees the way his wife is being treated and has decided to distance himself. Pinky noZwai bayandicaphukisa when it comes to Jen

[@MzwandileLibuko-kr1jl]

Money money money.. We can't just accept as african families that when I get married as a man my priorities change.. If I used to send R5000 home every month, once I have a wife you can't expect that continue.. It's just that simple.

[@lungelwamadela1946]

Pinky looks alike no Zwai

[@kimmothapo7962]

I think she's a replica of her mom

[@lululunga3519]

Jen is me. I don't fold. Pinky is not make sure, hayi hayi

[@sithazondo6127]

I'm with Jen. I totally don't get this.

[@judithmoletsane]

Pinky needs financial help nje😂.

[@clarence493]

Jen uya delela

[@katlegomolokoe4437]

She stands her ground. Sometimes the in laws can be completely disrespectful especially to the Makotis. If they want respect from her, they must also learn to respect makoti. This thing is two-way.

[@BM-dr4eu]

Uyadelela straight

[@tumit8473]

Who is Lisa?🤔

[@avatar925]

Pinky's daughter =Loyiso 's niece

[@tumit8473]

The conversation is wierd! I feel like uSis is expecting uLisa to be Loyiso's responsibility 😕

[@NMC1634]

Weird how many are willing to prove themselves worthy to their boss, but don’t feel the same way about proving themselves to a family they intend doing life with. A family they will retire home to. Coming into a new family is hardwork! You are an outsider coming in! Why should they trust you?

[@tsholomodibedi2236]

Ngapha Loyiso & Phelo are Spoiled Brats haibo as for Loyiso wanting Tata Jafta to take him out 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 but Phelo deserved the Role yase Gqeberha shame 😞😞😞😞😞

[@nomusamakhubela9312]

Vibe is umona ngoba uJan usawubambile umuzi wakhe.kodwa uPinky wahlala 2 yrs .wahluleka

[@leratobaloyi2939]

Sis Pinky just open ur heart for Jen please.

[@leratobaloyi2939]

It looks like Sis Pinky is comparing Mel and Jen and Mel was the best.She must just give Jen a chance.

[@sindiswasheleni262]

I don’t feel Jen at all. I don’t see her making any effort.,

[@thandomofokeng2943]

ONE THING ABOUT jEN SHE IS NOT INTIMIDATED SHEM, LO SISI THINKS ITS STILL THOSE DAYS WHERE HER AND HER BROS USED TO SHARE BEDROOMS SHE NEEDS TO GROW UP MAYB THATS Y SHES NOT MARRIED

[@oyandakona5994]

They blaming her instead of showing her how things are done at Bala family aweful hey!

[@tanyasnyman-stanford8012]

Until Pinky is a daughter in law she will never feel what Jen feels. Pinky needs to fet experience and perspective! She's cold and judgemental

[@RebeccaThokoe]

Pinky there's lot of men out there's just leaves Jen alone

[@lindamtimkulu1420]

These two have no relationship

[@HH-gk9hb]

Pinky you don't have a shame, intloni

[@nompumelelomdluli4730]

kuTricky😂

[@zrtopics2418]

Jen bringing up the financial thing was not okay especially on national tv, I really like her but that part….😢

[@sindisizwemnini5253]

ghanien girls are beautiful look at jen

[@buhlemguni58]

😂😂😂is Jen aNigerian lol😅

[@sindisizwemnini5253]

@@buhlemguni58 she is from ghana sorry

[@nwabisasuthu8537]

She is Half Polish half Ghanian

[@wendymahlangu3278]

She's beautiful woman.

[@sivumjy6474]

uphi u taka pinky kanti

[@tsholomodibedi2236]

Hai no but Jen has a Bad attitude 😳😳😳😳 the way she speaks to Pinky?

[@NanaMazwide]

Pinky was supposed to welcome Jen kodwa she was busy being friendly with Melanie and excluded Jen. Jen is returning the same energy she got from Pinky.

[@HH-gk9hb]

And I am Jen sana