Dustin & Burton on Surrogacy in the South, LGBTQ+ Discrimination, and Fathering Twins | Ep 11

[@jslasher1]

Dustin and Burton are icons in my book. I live in Australia, where the Rainbow Flag flies high, wide and handsome. I wish you and your children a long and happy life.

[@RazorbackYellow]

I just started following Dustin and Burton and this video was such an inspiration for the LBGTQ community and I am so PROUD of both of them for what they are doing and the 2 of you are doing such a great job....PLEASE keep up the AWESOME JOB!!!!!

[@pastortom7488]

As someone living in NC ,I can truthfully say that NC has made progress on LGBTQ+ acceptance in many cities & towns we still have a long way to go statewide !

[@darriontunstall3708]

Great podcast with Dustin and Burton, I love Dustin and Burton, I’m gay too, I have cerebral palsy I use a walker and wheelchair, I can’t wait until I find a husband and have kids, I would love to do surrogacy! I agree with everything yall said! I love y’all much! Y’all are my boys! I tried to go to college to be an anesthesiologist but it was gonna be too hard because of my cerebral palsy, so now I donate to the anesthesiologist Foundation! I can’t drive because of my cerebral palsy, so I’m gonna get my all electric car and let other people drive it for me! I’m 33! Are y’all gonna do a podcast with 2 Dallas dads? They are awesome! I’m from Memphis! LGBT rights is good here!

[@burthuffman2802]

This was just a warm and fuzzy video, I sat in front of it for the whole hour. Dustin and Burton are a feast for the eye and have such a healthy attitude. There are bumps in every road- get used to it and live your lives. I have loved you Matt and Michael since your early videos. Enjoy your endeavors.

[@johniii8147]

Yes no one with any wisdom tell your life is always going to be easy. It's one of the things good parents teach their kids along the way. How you deal with challenging times is when you really show who you are.

[@hhoman42]

I love what Dustin says about the confidence you speak to children about LGBTQ families. We've always talked to our kids about how all families are different and beautiful. So now whenever our youngest overhears her older brother being teased about all the girls who are crushing on him, she confidently reminds all his friends that boys can like boys (and girls can like girls) too... we overhead him telling her she's absolutely right, in front of all his friends. I just love how matter of fact they are. It isn't complicated. It doesn't have to be. Our kids know they are loved for who they are, and all their friends are accepted unconditionally in our home for who they are.

[@johniii8147]

Great job. Part of confidence is knowing who you do want or need to associate with and those that it's a hard NO.

[@johniii8147]

I loved how Burton moved right in when the time was right with this man is going to be mine. Now that's confidence. Boss move.

[@paulpjy4996]

Thank you and hope your journey to have children is continuing to go well. I’m very excited for you both and many blessings be with you.❤️🌈❤️

[@alanaban1840]

Both started on the wrong footing / to bring a child into the world it takes a man and a woman in a marriage ( god plan) not two men ( men cannot get men pregnant) put you thing in the place it was design to and they will be no problem / you are going against mature that is y u have problem. Have sex with a woman ( as mature intended it to be and natural benefits will follow) the natural family is man and woman ,/ man and man is unmatural family / that is y u have to resort to unnatural means to force to have a family with two fathers

[@rexstorm]

Thank you for this lovely and informative interview. I would recommend Matt and Blue for the future guests, as they went through adoption journey twice, one young boy and one slightly older girl.

[@joeberta368]

Thanks guys -- oh to be young again 😊. We are together 33 years here - blessings for you both FROM Iowa.

[@judybesse4058]

Loved the podcast.....also LOVE Dustin and Burton they are such wonderful parents.❤

[@graydenbickley4798]

I haven’t seen you guys in a while. First of all. Good luck in your endeavors toward be coming new parents. I really enjoyed the vlog ❤❤❤

[@dylanross5510]

What a blessing this was. I have followed all of yall for a while, but this topic was not only eye opening, but more importantly, educational. Just co tonues to reaffirm what an awesome gift parenthood really is. Best wishes on your continued journey. Love big, love free, love all!

[@dalemettee1147]

You two are so cute! I've watching videos on Jerking off. so now seeing you two is filling out my day. haha. I lived thru the 1980's pandemic where guys were dying left and right. Down right scary!

[@danw1952]

Congratulations to all four of you on a brilliant, informative podcast. Surely one of your best in this series. Watching and hoping for your success in your pursuit of an expanded family. Bravo!

[@marvinhunt4583]

I have never seen your podcast until now Nice job don't let the haters get you down

[@lucyharris6525]

12:55 16:54 21:24 37:28 47:18 Love you guys

[@dawnevans157]

Both couples are lovely and the podcasts are fun and informative xx

[@giulianapoumian347]

Such an amazing podcast. Love it! ❤❤❤

[@michaelandmatt]

Thank you so much!! Glad you enjoyed ❤️

[@mostafanimer4512]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 The God who created the skies and earth 🌎 in six days and balance the throne. The only supporter and merciful . don't you remember Doing the things from the sky to the earth 🌎 by distance measured by days .equal to thousand year as you counted . The is the god the knowledgefull of the paste and the future the merciful the great . He created everything well ✔ And created the human from clay then through stable water 💧 giving from his sole , and make for you the ear 👂 and eyes , and the parts . And rarely thanksfull to the god . Peoples said if we die , will be return back with new creation ? Sure they will meet god sinners disobeyed the god orders . The angel of death will take you then you will return back to god . You will see the peoples who ignored the god orders bow headed with the god . Asking ## our god we see 👀 and listen 👂 . Please return us to do good things we are aware ## God tell if i need i will give everyone guidance but my truthful promise to fill the hell 🔥 with humans and the jin . . So taste what you forgot about our meeting we also forget you and taste the full life punishment without dying. . The peoples who believe God will pray on ground without being arrogant 🙏 and fearing the god asking the god , and what god give them food they will give to others for god . And no body knows what is hidden for them of rewards for the good deeds they done . Is the believer equal to the person who disobeyed god ? No no equal . Who believed and do good deeds will get the heaven because of what they do . And Who disobeyed god they will stay in fire 🔥 🔥 whenever they need to escape they return to it , said taste the fire punishment that you denied alot . God will taste the peoples small punishment in real life before the big maybe they will return . And the worst who got reminded by god messages and avoid it and ignore it , god will revenge from them .🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥⚖🔥⚖🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@michaelc8126]

Great Video Loved seeing Dustin and Burton I have followed theme for probably as long as you guys

[@adrianalmey5067]

Hi guys what lovely surprise just watched your pod cast chatting to Dustin and Burton I love them and their twins are so cute and to also hear that you’re planning a family ❤

[@anuarvonen]

LovelyOnes!!!! Always!!!! With Lovely Family !!!! Always!!!!

[@jackc5315]

What an amazing conversation.

[@tomcouture4441]

This is about the best podcast i have ever listened too. So so so interesting and educational damn! You guys are such an open book and Dustin and Burton are such beautiful human beings. You two will be such great Dads. I just loved this so much. I will re-listen to it again. ❤❤

[@lokiji108]

A very WOKE conversation. Loved it

[@Joel-lq5gl]

PJ and Thomas have put Cleveland Tennessee on the map. People all over the world know about Cleveland. It is the new Mayberry😊

[@denisekoch3139]

Great podcast!!

[@nkt.11]

Can you guys get Matt Bomer and Simon Halls on this podcast please!

[@Kattykat85]

43:16 just wanted to say, gay ppl aren’t the only ones who get called selfish for using surrogacy or IVF. i have a female cousin who got tired of waiting to find the right man, and so she decided she was going to use.. i think it was IVF? she got donor sperm and it was injected in her… i think. maybe that’s not IVF? but it’s along the same concept as she chose to have kids and raise them as a single mother. and she gets called selfish for choosing to willingly have children with no father and gets told by some ppl that her kids are going to have issues without a father figure in their lives. i think many ppl are just hung up on that issue alone. and i get it to a certain extent as i think both a mom and dad can be very valuable in a child’s life, but i also know that a kid can thrive in a single parent household, just as a two parent household when they have plenty of love.

[@waynevevo4582]

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈💖💖💖

[@dawnevans157]

Children don't hate and they are open minded when born its adults that teach them hate.

[@Joel-lq5gl]

PJ and Thomas, what a beautiful family🤩

[@johniii8147]

Wrong couple on that one.

[@natalieangus9245]

@@johniii8147but also a beautiful family, who went thru foster care and then adopted the 3 siblings. Love listening and watching Dustin and Burton and their family. Best of luck to Michael and Matt❤️❤️

[@Amy-bl8sp]

I think Chasten Buttigieg would be a good person to talk about adoption for gay families. I've heard him talk about it on another LGBTQ podcast but it was for a short segment so I think a longer-form conversation about his experiences would be really interesting. He's been doing a book tour all summer so he should be "bookable". Hopefully viewers wouldn't find him innately political due to who his husband is, but I find him to be charming and heartfelt in his own right.

[@davidcl31]

👏👏👏👏

[@giulianapoumian347]

First ❤❤❤❤

[@denisegreene8441]

I think it is sad that people feel they have a say in whether you have children of your own. However... you are mistaken in believing straight couples are not told they shouldn't use IVF or surrogates. It happens more than you would believe, especially within conservative / religious groups. I had a close friend (straight) who went the route of IVF because she felt she would never find anyone to love her before her eggs were not viable. The comments made, some quite aggressively, were very negative. All from straight people. She went through with it and has a beautiful son. My point is that too often comments are attributed to anti LGBT when alot are just all encompassing conservative people and those views are directed at straight and LGBT persons. Without a doubt an LGBT person / couple will hear it more often but I just want to point out those same anti surrogate people will go after straight people too. All in the name of it "not being natural." It's wrong and collectively everyone is part of the problem if we don't stand up and push back, straight or gay.

[@alanday5255]

Get your CPAPs early

[@mostafanimer4512]

The god the creator of the universe ✨ created man for woman . If you don't like his creation meaning you don't like god , Then also god don't like you this is fair . So be happy for the short life . The Great god who placed in the sky great stars , sun lighting and the luminous moon . God made the night and the day for whoever desire to remember or to thanks for god in the prayer . The slaves of the most merciful who walk easily and when the ignorant talk to them badly , they reply peace. Those Who pray for god in night , They pray god please avoid us from the punishment of hell . Its punishment very hurts. Very adhering. Its worst future. Those who when they spend are spendthrift, they are moderate. Those do not pray for more than two or three god . And not kill the soul which is forbidden by god Except by right , justice and those do not committe unlawful sexual fornication . And who ever do that will get sins . And double punishment will get , in the judgment day , without dying and insulted, . Except for those who regret , stop doing that , believing and do good deeds , those god will replace the old sins into the good deeds 💫because god is forgiven 🙏 and merciful . Who repents and do righteous deeds indeed turn to god . And thosr who do not wetness the falsification and when they talk they are generous . . Those who are not blinded and deaf when they get reminded by god messages. . Those who ask god to get happy family 👪 . To become a leader of the good righteous . Those they will get awarded in heaven for what patiently endured With great greeting and peace . Abiding without dying with good stay God will not care for you when refused his messages , they will get what they do . ,

[@alanaban1840]

Big lie children cannot have two dad's

[@denisegreene8441]

Judge not lest you be judged. God loves ALL his children. As long as you are a good person he will not judge . As God created us all and we KNOW being gay is not a choice but a biological part of our DNA, then it goes to say that those who judge gay people will feel God's punishment for hurting his children.

[@alanaban1840]

​@@denisegreene8441when we sin we are all god children but do not like what we do/ homosexual is not DNA related/ that is a lie/ it is a lifestyle choices/ the wages of sin is death for all that sin/ we all have to judge but judge with a regious mind/ husband and wife not husband and husband

[@tomcouture4441]

Daniel and Dennis Marzoa’s are an awesome couple in Miami. Daniel gas a podcast also The Dad Hour Podcast. They are so friendly and knowledgeable about surrogacy.

[@alanaban1840]

Family / man and woman / steak first the god and all his rigous and all things will be added to you

[@tomcouture4441]

@@alanaban1840 which bible, which edition and rewritten by men how many times??religions are hypocrites.

[@alanaban1840]

@@tomcouture4441 kjv

[@winfordalford]

Love you guys❤

[@tisha4uri425]

I think it's the most wonderful thing when two people from any community want to have children we need more good examples of tolerance in our country and not any judgment from people who aren't living in these communities and what's going on other people's lives, the nerve of other people having any judgment on anyone's life.