Dylan Dreyer Opens Up About Fertility Struggles And Miscarriage | TODAY

[@lorihembree518]

My mom always says you can’t compare your struggles or joys w/ others. Everyone has a cup and it only holds so much. When it is full it is full. What fills your cup is not fair to compare it with others because each person has their own limit as to what fills their cup. It has allowed me to look at others with far more compassion!

[@siriolsen7805]

health issues could be a symptom of mercury poisoning. Anyone struggling should google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website (just google these tree names and it will come up) And read the Cutler success stories. Please do. Wish you all the best!

[@jennawilliams4667]

Boy does this hit home. Thank you for reminding me that I'm not alone in my struggle. It's hard to be act happy for everyone around me announcing pregnancies when I'm fighting infertility. :(

[@mariannesouza8326]

Jenna Williams 😕💞

[@jeanvilmenay6956]

You are not alone! May you find ways to rejoice with them. Not for their sake but for your own. So you do not get swallowed up in despair. And may those sharing with you be sensitive to you as well, sharing their joy, but also remembering your struggle...there is a healthy balance that makes these moments work well for everyone...I pray you have a deep faith in God, his plan, purposes, and timing as that is the one thing that will give you comfort, peace, and perspective in such a journey that will get you through.

[@magnolia31611]

❤️When She talked about her husband saying that, “She didn’t loose the baby” I broke down. I resonated with that so much. I had a miscarriage on my first Mother’s Day after having my son, back in 2015. That was one of the most painful thing I’d ever been through. I still think about that baby, I’ll never forget my Eli Faith. We have been able to have two more children since then, but at times I wonder what life would be like if I had been able to carry that baby to term. Sending your family my prayers, I know this road is a hard, and painful one to walk.

[@michelepagani6090]

Thank you so much for sharing! I had some infertility issues. I lost 2 babies. I am so grateful for the 3 children God gave us! May God bless you in your journey! It is so helpful to share!

[@jeni688]

So much love and support sitting on that couch together! That's what got me crying. And yes...no comparative suffering. Life is hard and it hurts sometimes. Wishing you all the best going forward. Thanks for sharing.

[@kristinaharper7496]

It’s ok to cry 💕 They are an amazing couple. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us ❤️

[@elizabethhunt6149]

What a great and honest segment. I felt I was sitting among friends. Being from Boston I’ve watched Dylan for years and just adore her. ❤️

[@rmyrick2451]

I’m so happy for Dylan, Brian and little Calvin on their welcoming of new baby Oliver last week! I know many women go through a lot more than she did, and I hate that she had to go through a miscarriage and see a specialist, but she is such a ray of light and deserves all the happiness in the world! Congratulations, Dylan!!

[@kristen7810]

Thanks Dylan. I’m 36 and going through similar circumstances. I don’t feel so alone hearing your story. Thanks for being vulnerable, it’s very brave.

[@cherylchatterton1265]

I’m in tears watching. I’m going through the same thing with secondary infertility. I will pray for you.

[@magicalpatterns]

I just love that this show is opening up about life using their own crew. Is more realistic, more human. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@siriolsen7805]

health issues could be a symptom of mercury poisoning. Anyone struggling should google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website (just google these tree names and it will come up) And read the Cutler success stories. Please do. Wish you all the best!

[@carnutal3627]

Sorry for your struggles Dylan, but I know you are strong and will get through this. Take some consolation in that you’ve helped many people.

[@Shady_Shirley]

Always been a fan of Dylan ! Everything works out for a reason . it’s a hard conversation to discuss , but we all need to have it , thank you 😊

[@StarZendonna1687]

I'm so sorry sweetie; my thoughts are with you

[@geminigem599]

Been here done that. So emotional...good luck Dylan, u r the sweetest...

[@tararose9606]

Dylan you are so lucky to have such a supportive and caring husband

[@mbtiernan]

Yes more awareness. Worst thing to say to someone, " no kids? Why" or " just one kid, no more?"

[@siriolsen7805]

health issues could be a symptom of mercury poisoning. Anyone struggling should google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website (just google these tree names and it will come up) And read the Cutler success stories. Please do. Wish you all the best!

[@jessicacook1360]

I agree. I am a social person, but I never touch the topic of reproducing. You just never know someone’s struggle. Often, that childless couple is trying like heck to have one.

[@ScottSingerCruises]

Thank you for sharing your story with us! You are impacting so many people out there! Sending thoughts and prayers to your family! ❤️

[@aleksandrakoros6230]

Dylan...you and your hubby are amazing..my hubby were blessed with one amazing little girl and then the well went dry. It's too late for us to have another little one, but that's ok..that is our parh. Keep praying follow God's path! Thank you for sharing.

[@Thomasj876]

I can not believe there are 16 dislikes to this video, what kind of people are you. My mom couldn't have any children, and adopted my sister and I, we have had a very good life, and are truly blessed. My sister also had 4 miscarriages, but we have been blessed with 2 wonderful kids, my niece is now 24, and amazing, and a nephew that is 17, also amazing, and musically talented...people are so quick to judge, if you read one of the comments below. Everything in life is God's plan weather you choose to believe it or not. Don't rush to judge anyone, until you know the Story. May God Bless Dylan and Brian with another child, their little guy Calvin, is so cute.

[@joankgillette]

I do not take for granted the fact that I stopped taking the pill and did not have a cycle, I immediately got pregnant. I’m due in 2 weeks and I am so grateful because I’ve wanted to be a mom my entire life. My fiancé, my step daughter and I are so excited to meet this little man.

[@celeste5508]

u deserve the world dylan ❤ bless u and hubby

[@mommypearltoomer6878]

l had 3 miscarriage the last one we hear the heartbeat, we both cried, we have now two sons, age 22 & 24. we wanted a girl to but it never happen, am feel bless with my two son.

[@RJ-mw2gw]

I’m so sorry Dylan. Thank you for sharing dear one.

[@Klm0613]

95% of Asherman’s syndrome (what Dylan and I have) cases are caused by overaggressive clearing of uterine tissue by doctors (either post C-section or D&C due to miscarriage or retained placental tissue). It’s great that Dylan is sharing this and I’m grateful that my story with AS, miscarriage, and secondary infertility and thousands of other’s similar stories can be a little better represented because of this segment... but, we need to tell the whole story. This is NOT as uncommon or “rare” as doctors and the public think. It is a problem and a result of an area of medicine that needs more attention. I still struggle with the trauma of entrusting my body to a doctor who ended up destroying my fertility. I was never even told that infertility was a risk! More research and effort needs to be taken to better understand risk factors and improve the standard of care when it comes to uterine surgeries. For anyone struggling or wanting to learn more, please refer to www.ashermans.org. There is an international sisterhood of AS sisters out there. In addition to my biological son and an adopted son who heal my heart every day from the repeated trauma, I have an incredibly supportive and loving husband who is my rock and safe harbor. My heart goes out to Dylan and all those suffering through secondary infertility. “Telling someone who is sad that it could be worse is no better than telling someone who is happy that it could be better.” You are not alone. ❤️

[@csc1641]

Try being grateful for what you already have. You have alot more than some of us.

[@Klm0613]

Cheryl Smith It is odd that you would assume I am not grateful based on what I wrote... perhaps that is more a reflection of your own pain... So, first, I will say that I am so very sorry for whatever loss you have had in your life. We who suffer from infertility and the myriad complications that surround it, are a family. You are not alone. It also strikes me as utterly sad that even after the whole commentary and discussion today about Jenna and Dylan’s different announcements and the social challenge it can create between people, friends, and family, that you would reply with such a comment. As I said on another comment earlier today on FB, the Dylans (the infertile, the grieving and in pain, those yearning to be mothers) of the world don’t need to reply to the Jennas (the pregnant friend, the fertile relative, the “we got pregnant on the first round of IVFs”, etc.) of the world with jealousy or disdain for their joy, rather we celebrate with them. And the Jennas don’t have to apologize for their joy. Similarly, the Dylans who think other Dylans don’t have it as bad, don’t need to exert their superiority in suffering. When we tell someone who is sad or has suffered that it could be worse, we minimize their pain rather than honor it. It is no different than telling someone who is happy that they could be happier. (Did you not read that part?) Why would you want to knock someone down a peg? If I should try gratitude... perhaps you should try some empathy. Of course not a day goes by I don’t look at my family with gratitude, but that doesn’t erase the years of hurt, pain, and trauma that will always be a part of me. If you’d like to share your story, please do! You will be amazed by the outpouring of love and empathy from others who also know the pain of secondary infertility (if that is where your pain stems, as well). Bringing negativity like that of your comment doesn’t help anyone... including yourself. Godbless, Cheryl.

[@rmyrick2451]

Kristy Moore I’m so sorry that you’ve been through all you have in your fertility struggles. In the world we live in today, I don’t know why it still surprises me, but some people are so unbelievably harsh and rude when they’ve never walked, even for a minute, in your shoes. You certainly didn’t deserve such a crass reply to your comment. My thoughts and prayers are with you in the wake of your loss(es). I’m glad to see that you’ve been blessed to grow your family both biologically and by adoption, but I know the pain of losing a pregnancy never truly goes away. 💕

[@antavasvoice]

Scar tissue production is NOT uncommon after c-sections. This country has way too many c-sections and too many people overlook the consequences of this invasive surgery.

[@tysonanderson7232]

Awww Dylan, Thank U 4 Sharin' Ur Story!!

[@bosede30]

When we see something like this it's when you really have to put Power in prayer and realize there is a higher power. God is very much real, unbeknownst to Dylan while she was doing this piece her body was already preparing if not pregnant with their second child. God bless their new addition to their family!

[@micheleblais1162]

You are so sweet Dylan!! I will pray for your wonderful family 🙏💞

[@WarofThoughts]

I love Dylan Dreyer so much. She radiates purity. I believe she is a Christian in her heart and loves God and Jesus. Brian Fichera is a lucky son of a gun. Mornings with her and the cast of Today are warming and uplifting,

[@terimartin5230]

As women we are raised to know that having kids is such a natural part of life. When you get to that stage in your life and you are not getting pregnant, it is such a difficult, sad, confusing, and really stressful place to be. After a miscarraige and years of not getting pregnant (even after seeing a fertility doctor), my husband and I decided to go the adoption route. We brought both our children home from the hospital right after they were born. I now thank God for not allowing us to have our kids the normal way. I can't imagine not having my daughter and son in our lives. I am open to talk to anyone that is going through this.

[@rockingrachelle9098]

So easy to have my first child and then had two miscarriages before I had another healthy child whom was born 7 weeks early.

[@neemam5042]

Thank you so much for sharing. I went through it, you are right God does have a plan

[@katelyn6653]

Amazing story❤️you all are warriors🙏🏻💓✝️big blessings are in store for us all

[@donnellholmes6334]

Somebody like you Dylan should have lots of kids, I hope you are able.God bless

[@brendakay5498]

I'm so happy for you and your family and wish you all the best but I'm gona miss you and your handsome son helping you on the show making food and I saw the last one when you and the middle one sorry I forgot his name for sure we all hate to see you go but we also understand your family needs you and you need time with and it has been a pleasure watching you and Calvin on God bless you Brian and and three handsome men and the best wishes to you

[@amyannshipyor4096]

I am having issues with my cycle after having 2 babies 15 months apart. I really hope it becomes regular again.

[@bettecantillo5369]

we love you Dylan......... and family

[@wessebaggers]

Prayers ! ♥️♥️♥️

[@jeanvilmenay6956]

Thank you for sharing your heart with us. May you continue to draw comfort and strength from the Lord. May you see his glory through your journey and remember daily God is at work for your highest good and his greatest glory. May continue to find the beauty he is bringing forth from these ashes...

[@suzanneschulz8479]

Thanks for bringing this out in the open. Very sorry

[@CoachingHigher]

Wow had no idea. Sorry Dylan and Brian! You're amazing.

[@angelabarnes3121]

I wish you both well. I truly believe you will have another baby.

[@geo4343henderson]

❤️Bless you and your family 👪 hope 🙏 you and Bryant have a nother little one💕

[@mollyerika7350]

She's pregnant now though!!

[@eileendoherty2836]

This now 2021 sept Dylan ready to have her 3rd baby 💕💕

[@sarahkofman1921]

Oh boy Dylan has just gone way way way up in my estimation

[@WarofThoughts]

She is an angel of God in the earth, in my estimation.

[@afy6476]

The power of the most high will visit you. Do not fear for your deliverer is at hand.

[@jessicacook1360]

Couple goals. Right there.

[@brewster102]

Such good people.

[@krystiesherry2975]

Dylan sorry for your loss

[@miki7899]

Dylan is the sexiest woman on tv!!

[@jeremyprovence4942]

It is not God's will that that some can not have children, as they or even you would be the best parents, sometimes his hands Are just tied, Have hope and Love, His will is always done in love. IF You can't have children or even a single child it is not because God has any Judgment on you. You are LOVED, embrace this fact!

[@laurenurciuoli443]

good luck!!

[@fousies]

Prayer circle starting now!

[@mariee.5912]

omg, I thought she was pregnant a few weeks ago. But since I didn't see her getting bihger, I thought it was just me. Wow, I had no idea.

[@catinaumekowilliamskohn]

Dylan GOD Bless You I’m so Sorry thAt You Have Suffered. However it is Surrogates and Adoptions You Don’t Have To Birth a Baby to be a Mam . You can have it in a peach tree dish then have a Family Member Carry it for You. Basically a Donor uterus there is no wrong way to be a Mom. Extract all Your Healthy eggs and Do whatever Plan Works For Your Family GOD Bless You. Don’t Blame Your Body things happen Your Who Your Supposed to be.

[@johnwahl752]

Or have they already?

[@johnwahl752]

Step?

[@brendacapaldi4427]

What is so wrong with just having one?

[@phootphetishphilip5551]

*come on down!* He looks like Drew Carey haha

[@johnwahl752]

The book of revelation?

[@johnwahl752]

No you don’t lover her. Stop lying

[@johnwahl752]

Do they quote scripture?

[@sillidill5227]

37? Looks at least 45

[@rmyrick2451]

My God. Are you kidding me?! Dylan barely looks 30! She is beautiful inside and out, shared a heartbreaking time in she & her husband’s life, and all you can comment is something so judgmental and crass? Why even bother commenting if you can’t say something kind, or maybe thoughtful. How unbelievably rude can you possibly be?

[@xpinkpixiedollx]

🤗❤️

[@sonnyburnett3899]

Crazy eyes

[@t.j.7789]

This had me in tears!!! This is kind of odd too but I wonder about women & their periods & being on camera like that. If you have heavy bleeding, I don't know how you can wear a non dark color on television.

[@johnwahl752]

Using Christ teachings?

[@michaelwelch8205]

Dylan's husband 😕

[@dolittle6729]

Not very hard to concieve. Just spend a night with me

[@salliereese4137]

💗❤🙏🤗

[@johnwahl752]

She’s cheating

[@yelbiemeseret9102]

I can't stand the 4 people in this show this 3 and Al their hatefulness to each others is so tangible so I don't watch them.

[@johnwahl752]

Are they trying to seduce her?

[@johnwahl752]

Did she have an affair?

[@almudenacarnero7934]

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[@almudenacarnero7934]

Usa. Desde el pirulí esta como dice una canción. Se puede permi no me da cosa a tengo u decir algo e ok. Bueno me megax voda boda. Fon don DIN dan. Me megax contity que se sabe esto bueno diré. De bueno ot. Ok acuarela ok. Mundo. Me algo. Bueno a kien votas al partido a kien votas. Al partido. Kien lo casca yo. Kien. Me tomate listo. Hsmburgr lista refres. Zumo. Papitas palomitas. Listo tike. Ok lleno por favor en pie grc grc grc lo dan uno tu de algo sabrá digo yo ok. Me postre manzana canela pastelito ensalada pasta quesos frutas. Lemgumbres frex ay por favor. Lleno me algo fruta. Ok. Me ay allí por favor Deport motor.me ay algo por favor music tike cinema ya diré ok turis ok. Postal te envió yo te llege. Wuasinton con sello mundo ya lo pío pichi ok me un rancho ay chicaa ee ooh la la of jsmaima madame ya dire felicidad. Abbs ayudame sigo seguiré tengo carrete ok sugi makey ya diré ok grc grc grc. Mundo hello dolly que. Algo apestas estelar misterio de nave. Conexión esra el hormiguero Mario Vaquerizo ok mariposas divinity. Disciveri max. Volveré beibys. Ok grc grc grc vivelo buen sano divertido ok grc grc grc.

[@catherinebenton3637]

here is a sign dont wait till your 37 yr old to have kids

[@Sharlene89]

What a stupid thing to say!! Whats happens if you don't meet the right person before you are 37 ??

[@Thomasj876]

How can you say such a thing, my mom tried for years, and couldn't, she adopted me at 39 yrs old, and my sister at 41...shame on you...

[@beccapags2953]

@@Sharlene89 It's a very intelligent comment. The older a woman the greater her chance of infertility.

[@aprilrawls8929]

No woman wants to hear this....but time is not on a woman's side. This is why high risk is after 35. We all know this !! This is why women freeze eggs in their 20's and early 30's. Why are women acting surprised and shocked...im surprised and shocked when someone in their late 30's and beyond become pregnant without medical assistance.

[@almudenacarnero7934]

Alo ponía yo algo estaba en. Ello lo saben sigo seguiré amar. Jose jose mexi. Otros music. Mundo me digan lo. Que kieran estos. Y as. Que. No kieren mw un siglo dos y tres. Esto. Que noty es por fi veo dolor saludos uy

[@cats0182]

Wonder why she chose NOW when Jenna Bush just announced her pregnancy. Seems like a publicity stunt or grab. Divert attention from Jenna? Just seems to me to be tasteless timing.

[@chanj2109]

I understand why you say this. But, just as there are people happy to hear jenna's announcement and they are sooo happy for jenna and her family, there are people struggling and it's nice to know they aren't alone... also, jenna's annoucement was spur of the moment because her kids were telling everyone after easter. This segment was actually recorded and planned.

[@Thomasj876]

I can't believe you said this, I'm sure this segment was planned ahead of time, they don't just put a tv show together in a day, it just so happened that Jenna made that announcement the same day, and if you heard Dylan say, my sadness doesn't take anything away from your Joy.

[@rachelhenry2328]

She said they are doing this segment for National Infertility Week. Jenna said she announced now cause she can’t hide the pregnancy anymore with outfit choices. I think it’s just coincidental

[@almudenacarnero7934]

Alo Madrid bueno salude. Congreso. También di. Tv cadena. Grc saludos. Navidad. A london. Bueno ya diré. Yo ay cosas de no. Entiendo. No. Comprendo. Si. Vida de cada. Persona sea. Importante. O no. Relevante. O tenga o no familia. O no si. Cada persona. No me sale. Bien lo kiero espresar te digan. De. Todo. Te deseen de. Todo no. Ok. A llega a madrid algien. Ok. A eso lo ya antes uy desde. Muy. Niña. A. Sabes estos de music deport motor cinema banco empresa. Cinema. Cuando guerra. No se yo si son siglos milenios o Max en el tiempo. Puede algo. Suene a esto. Me da. Que no pasaron uy fueron fuera esas casas. De donde. Lo dice. Todo no estan ay puede ser. Tuviesen hijos le llaman descendencia puede ser que te suene de algo. A esto puede ser una madre e reina si de fuera. Sl. También. Tuvo hijos con uno si e abuela si otra Es reina si. Tiene con el actual. Rey de eapaña si. Hijas puede. Ser. No me sale. Bien.decir. lo yo kiero decir a no hace. Falta buscar. Tan lejos si fue y tuvo. Que tambien ay cerca uy. No me sale. Bien se esto yo por si unas con otras en sus tiempos no. Tan lejos. No si algo max cerca. A todos salieron si. Tambien al no bien si como esas famil políticas nobleza que dice. Ya dire. Uy nos así pues no me da algo de ejemplo si dieron a fe. Todo ay kiere ser que por encima de. Bueno como se permiten nos de. Todo que arrastremos las. Culpas de kien. Solo por. Ya esta. Solo por ser hijos o nietos. Otros les bien a kien ayudan según kien no es terrorismo. No. Discriminación no si ni te dejan. Vivir. Ni nada. Que es. A ya no entremos si tuvo fuera dentro kien es el que. Uy. Ya dire están como.estamos no se yo kien esta peor. Fatal te se separo. Tuvo. Salió. Bueno otros. No se lo hagan bien mirar enfer. Si no habla bien si tuvo también otros. Ya dire eatan vinieron. No dejó ni me dejo ya dire nos digan de. Todo menos tu que así. Todo no. Ba ni entremos ya razas fe país arco iris. Max. Uy les keda lejos y cerca. No me dejo. No dejo. Uy ay compañías mejor a unos les ayuden a todo ya dire bueno esto. No me mientan no. Ya,dire. Saludos gracias

[@yaymarienieves6687]

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