Dylan Mulvaney Is Back.

[@loraelizabeth7580]

My days of girlhood were not just spent wearing pink, liking frilly skirts, loving Justin Bieber, playing with Barbies, and wanting to be a princess, it was also reading books, riding horses, playing with Hot Wheels, running around outside with friends and fishing with my dad. I was girly *and* tomboy. That’s what upsets me about stuff like this. Being a “girl” is not just about doing girly things. We are complex human beings just like men are.

[@Jennycoolidgeplantmomma]

so dylan cant like those things? unless she is specifically saying thats what girls only can like, i dont see a problem, your making a problem out of nothing

[@user-dp2up8ww8o]

​@@Jennycoolidgeplantmommathe problem is that Dylan is making it seem as if that's all being a girl is about. Notice how she used "girlhood" and not womanhood also. Plenty of biological women, who experience things that trans women will never get to experience like periods or birth for example, feel mocked by this song because we've been women all our lives and now someone who just recently became one decides to narrow down what being a woman actually is to stereotypes is extremely offensive.

[@loraelizabeth7580]

@@Jennycoolidgeplantmomma no, I was just pointing out that “being a girl” is not about being every stereotype. I have issue with many other pieces of media that make it out like you can only be girly or only be a tomboy, when I know plenty of women who are both.

[@loraelizabeth7580]

@@user-dp2up8ww8o exactly! I personally don’t care what other people do (so long as you aren’t harming others), I may not agree but it’s your life & you can do what you want with it. This is why I don’t take much issue with Dylan except for when it feels like he’s making fun of women. I know that’s not the intention, but it certainly feels that way. It feels like he read a bunch of memes & jokes that women made about “being a woman” and based his whole personality on that. We’ve been told over & over again that stereotypes and caricatures of groups of people are hurtful but we allow this.

[@abigailwinters1189]

I’m a girl with a sister and a brother. We played Barbie’s together, hot wheels, video games, wrestling, dress up, spa day, rode bikes, all together. Men can like “feminine” things like makeup, styling hair, cooking, fashion, just like how women can like “masculine” things like cars, sports, building, and fishing. It doesn’t make them trans, it makes them themselves.

[@L3X_B1tCh_M]

the comment that said "i dont need him mansplaining what it means to be a woman" was 100% correct

[@ControversyCupcake]

Lol

[@dabneyscholler8495]

I'm pregnant with my 3rd child, maybe Dylan can explain pregnancy to me 😂😂😂

[@lunedune4548]

@@dabneyscholler8495congratulations!! 🎉

[@Hoppity3845]

@@dabneyscholler8495 Congratulations!

[@ruffusgoodman4137]

@@dabneyscholler8495Oh, I bet he can't wait to get pregnant. Except he will. Indefinitely.

[@HangenOut93]

I just reached 700 days on Duolingo, but I’m still not an Italian.

[@Brook_55]

Actually, pretty impressive to make it 700 days on Duolingo 😂😂 I quit after 3 weeks

[@hmcvalesano]

Brett needs to read this out loud!

[@chinmaywagh1135]

700 days streak is really impressive tbh 🙏🏼I quit after 180 🥲

[@uah9]

Unless you identify as an Italian

[@norabarnes9235]

You made me laugh but I had to do it silently and it hurt lmao

[@MB-lz5eb]

I am a man, and hearing about biological men getting awards in women's sports & WOTY "for countless different organizations and events" makes me internally scream in frustration.

[@philip5832]

Grow up

[@AlastorTheRadioDeer]

I agree as a woman, thank you for saying this

[@That_1ALTGIRL]

@@philip5832I can tell you’re a man.

[@Sarahcapybara14]

@@philip5832 at least he’s defending women

[@Sarahcapybara14]

But thank you random wonderful king at least one bilogical male is against this

[@farahalshoofi1778]

I was told in my high school by a man that he’s a better woman than me last year, and when I spoke against it, I was punished by my teachers. I got detention for being offended and speaking up about my rightful opinion. Like, I’m Syrian, and it feels like I never left Syria and the rule of a dictatorship. I’m still being punished for saying my opinion. It’s disgusting, and it’s even more disgusting that these people will continue to call this place a free country.

[@SunroomMushroom]

The libs want to take away the freedoms of everyone who disagrees with them

[@jaimymetts]

That’s so wrong! I can’t believe people get punished for speaking out!

[@Skitdora2010]

Sweets, I used to fight with teachers all the time. I got away with it because I had the highest grades. Improve your test scores and if you threaten to switch schools they get upset because you make their numbers look good. The higher your grades, the more promising your future, the more power you have.

[@Leon-ty6bw]

The people who punish you for saying your opinion probably don’t call the US a free country, but a “colonized racist worst country in the world” instead. They want to take away freedom of speech and freedom to defend yourself.

[@TheWobywoby]

Don’t ever stop speaking out, that is what they want! They want to scare people into compliance with their delusions but we will not do it!

[@elyssacorbaley8133]

"My sex and gender are not a costume for you to try on; my rights as a woman are not to be infringed." Beautiful. ❤

[@ericchism4855]

Brilliant

[@elizabeththompson9570]

This!!! 100% it makes me so angry

[@hannahp.fletcher9969]

Frankly. It’s on the same level as blackface, or pretending to be gay when you’re not, or a different race. My gender is not your fancy dress costume. If you want to know who’s done it right?? Blaire white. Buck Angel.

[@estefaniaboujon6830]

Yep

[@WynnWynn-gl3fk]

Yet, she is against most women’s rights.

[@anakelly76512]

730 days? Big deal. I've been a woman for 18667.75 days. Where's my trophy?

[@stevedallas4942]

In place of a trophy, you can have my respect.

[@YukariAkiyama]

Here you go, 🏆 As a man, i apologize that another man is dressing like a woman and making a mockery out of you women.

[@jocypare6019]

🏆. You can also have my respect.

[@lindatohara6438]

Yes queen 👸🏻 I been one for 63 years and got a better body then Dylan still!

[@drakeashtonmontefalco6603]

Preach queen a woman who deserves my respect

[@PapiRikka]

My girlhood was playing with littlest pet shops, my mum cutting my hair and it looking awful, making and creating things for my dolls and shoving all my teddy’s on my bed so none of them felt left out night. It was boys at school not wanting me on their team for football because i was a girl. it was being scared of cooties and crushes. It was feeling super awkward and embarrassed when me and my class learnt about periods for the first time and being terrified. It was my dad reading me bedtime stories every night and tucking me in like a carrot😂 It was going to help my dad work on the farm and eating fish and chips in the barrel of a digger, it was helping my mum make cheese and onion pies and steak and kidney pies. It was getting rushed down a school corridor in my teachers arms because i twisted my ankle, and sitting with my favourite teacher why my nose poured blood for half a hour. Not popping pills and not doing a walk of shame and spending money on stuff i don’t need just to make myself feel better.

[@giragira9509]

My god, what a beautiful comment. I felt every word you wrote and I agree 💯.

[@Mrs.salvitore123]

I relate and truly agree with this comment ❤

[@Drud]

Agree and I relate to some of the things you experienced as a girl. ❤️ Much love to you, God bless you. I wish Dylan Mulvaney would read comments like this so he could know what girlhood really looks like and how he’ll never be able to go through it. Not only is he a male, but he’s also an adult, so he wouldn’t even be able to experience boyhood again, hahaha.

[@StoicMao]

This is such a throwback!

[@canyouseethroughmytears]

Yes, speak with your chest!

[@hollyholfeld]

The only time I ever cried in a bath was day 3 post partum for my first baby. I was exhausted, my nipples hurt, my nether regions hurt, I was bleeding profusely, I was overwhelmed, and I had a bit of a mental breakdown. Day 3 post partum is the worst. When baby blues kicks in, your hormones are falling, you're back home with no help from the nurses, all the visitors are gone, and you're now alone with your baby navigating motherhood. (And these are all things that ONLY ACTUAL WOMEN can [potentially] experience.)

[@barbrothers2]

i don't think you're supposed to take a bath right after giving birth... you gotta soak the area that just popped a kid out and likely has tears, but i was told not to take baths for a few weeks.

[@taylorsue_lasvegasrealtor]

❤ I remember those days, never felt more feminine than when I had my daughter. These freaks won't ever get close to that and that's what helps my mental in this society. 😊

[@nicoler4583]

💯 me too! 3 pregnancies and did this every time. That's about the only time

[@channahrose]

Agreed. Been through it 8 times.

[@channahrose]

​@@barbrothers2Sitz baths help sooth the areas she was mentioning. Many drs recommend it.

[@lacarlotta6290]

Just because comments are critical, doesn’t make them “hate”.

[@Lucy-qx9vj]

but they are hateful

[@bw2408]

But it is ok to belittle anyone who does not agree with theirs

[@Belmont1714]

​@@Lucy-qx9vjBecause he's mocking real women 🤦‍♂️

[@Woo_Woo_Woman]

​@@Lucy-qx9vjPlease learn the definitions of criticism and hate.

[@Lucy-qx9vj]

@@Belmont1714 you're just dense

[@Iyiouseismouse]

I am a man, so I don’t know firsthand, but I always think of my Mom and Grandma who would get their hands dirty keeping the garden, making meals, teaching me how to take care of myself, teaching me about accounting and how to carry and present myself. Each kicking butt at their jobs but having time after school to help with homework… I guess “girlhood” is different? When I think woman though I think of someone who is a rock. ❤❤❤

[@RK67655y]

So perfectly described;)

[@mamavonn]

Very well said. How about they think of all the real women trying to juggle kids, keep a marriage, feed everyone, running kids to dance and sports and school, bringing my husband food while hes out in the tractor planting and combining 18 hours a day. Feeding our livestock, having to euthanize a sick pig so it doesnt suffer because I am a woman farmer, book work, paying bills, tucking in kids and making sure they know how much their mom loves them also while making my husband know he is loved. Its exhausting and nothing like this Dylan says it is. A thousand things to do everyday while constantly questioning if I am doing a good job as a woman. Now to show this is what a woman should do and act like...This is fucking insulting. Sorry for the rant lol. Well said so wanted to add to it and my rage took over while I was typing 😂

[@DarkAquaVII]

That comment made me smile so much! ❤

[@gelwood_]

You don't need to be a woman to know what a woman is. Women= XX, a woman is a adult female.

[@drakeashtonmontefalco6603]

A real man worthy of such praise and respect 🗿✝️🛐👑💪♂️💜🖤💚💓💒🙏🔥

[@missmizer]

I had to have a hysterectomy just last July.. I'm coming up to my own one year since my uterus and cervix were removed, and I feel the exact same way. There's no celebration for the women who are still women but who have lost everything because of battles that seem to be invisible to other people! Endometriosis and Adenomyosis annihilated my body after my own body betrayed me when I was pregnant and ultimately resulting in me losing my baby, almost bleeding out two weeks later and having a botched emergency corrective surgery that three years later resulted first in the loss of both fallopian tubes. the pain came back three MONTHS later, after all that suffering so I lost it and became an alcoholic. Coming up to one year sober and one year as I've said having to lose what is left of my female anatomy so it would feel, aside from my breasts and ovaries, so I feel such empathy for the woman who came up to you and cried. My heart stopped for a moment because I was like holy crap I can relate so heavily to that.. more than ever. So am I no longer a woman..? its driven my depression through the roof, especially with phantom organ pain if you can even imagine what that is... it's not fun. I should be celebrating the fact that I survived all that, nevermind the fact that barely THREE MONTHS before my hysterectomy I had to have heart surgery, and I don't expect a parade, lmfao. I thought Dylan was fairly harmless at first, but I have honestly had enough as well. What was once deemed iconic is now ironic, because people are finally seeing the reality of what this all is.. toxic. My heart breaks for this society.. we truly live in the darkest timeline. I have so many beautiful trans female friends as well who are appalled by all of this, who don't go around expecting special fucking treatment. It makes us ALL look like fools, and I for one am done humoring it any longer.

[@shamachelon]

You’re more woman than he will ever be!! He enjoys mocking women just for, as that one comment said, likes and attention. Women like you make my heart swell, i had a coworker who lost a child while I myself was pregnant, and all I could do was hug her so tightly!!! It was so cruel to me!!! To think there would be people in the world who truly do believe they’re girls even though they’re full grown men is vile.

[@TKayke]

I can't even begin to imagine how hard that must have been for you, thank you for sharing your story! As a fellow Endo and Adeno sufferer I completely empathise with those elements of your story ❤🎗

[@WilliamCarr-qe8sl]

God Bess you, you are very much still a woman after all you’ve been through…a very strong woman ❤🙂

[@sillyahhperson137]

i aint reading all that 😗

[@mimi_glazed]

Here’s your trophy 🏆

[@norwegianblue2017]

Never listen to anyone who equates an opinion with "violence".

[@kitkat-ju1yr]

Okay this comment goes so hard. Like OP said, if you think someone stating their opinion of something on the Internet is violence? Go Touch Grass

[@LiberalsArePoop]

Amen to that. These clowns have completely lost the plot.

[@karinagrigel]

​@ericturner4857Opinions are opinions as long as they don't promote violence. No one has personally insulted Dylan, just his behavior

[@micks336]

And never listen to someone who doesn't know the difference between a victim and a villain. And claims to be a victim when they are in fact a villain.

[@anastasiae.5338]

I wonder if Stefanie (Lady G) ever notices the amount of hatred and violence incited by the people she thinks we need to respect? Especially aimed at women. Almost exclusively aimed at women. All the times they whine on tickok about just punching "terfs" or slapping us or any of the other violent things they call for. Aimed almost all the time, at women. Does she think women deserve our rights? Does she think our rights need to be overrun by guys with potentially dangerous mental illnesses? Is she okay with men claiming to be trans, going into women's prisons and assaulting them?

[@kokochono5054]

My girlhood days: pretending i was a wolf in a shower, pretending i was a mermaid in the pool, watching cartoons about ninjas, men hitting on me at 12 and calling me jail bait, other girls bullying me because my chest developed early, never finding the bra that fits me, being forced to straighten my hair because my mother thought my natural hair was ugly (others thought the opposite), everything i wear being judged and ridiculed...too modest...too frumpy...exposes too much...doesnt match...too boyish...too sexy...too girly...nothing i wore was ever right. I wanted to eat chicken nuggets and ramen all the time. Played violin. Sang alto in Choir. Tried piano. I am just a person. I dont need to act a certain way to be a woman. I just am.

[@Hazel_Basil1231]

This is such a good comment 🙌👏

[@Tradsundollxx]

Yup, my girlhood was getting my first period in the middle of class, being bullied for being to pale or to tall or just not pretty enough. It was full grown men hitting on me on the train to school, having a new boyfriend every other week, wearing foundation that was the wrong colour, box hair colour, graduating from Woolworths underwear packs to Kmart sets. Living with my dad so relying on teen magazines to teach me everything he couldn’t. There was not a moment my reality was about popping pills, shopping for funsies and having sex with men I didn’t know 💀

[@TooMuchSchwanz]

I bet your natural hair was/is beautiful. As a man I am ashamed of the behaviour of those that tried to hit on you as a child. I'm so sorry that you had to lose some of your innocence that day, when all you did was exist. I believe that the shame this makes me feel can often be a driving factor in the issues around gender that people have.

[@Mel-wn9gb]

​@@Hazel_Basil1231It is. It's reality, not some pervert man's sex fantasy.

[@zoebrugg7594]

Amen!

[@sandclann]

These people throw the words "hatred" and "violence" around way too much.

[@norwegianblue2017]

At least they stopped using the number 8 in their new speak.

[@Omar_ToxicBanana1701]

lesbians are terified of the gender thing only now that they realize it is a thret to their value as women as if lesbianism itself doesn't destroy their value as women...like bro you're the one who ask out other people...women do that 😂...high value women don't ask people out men or anyone else...high value women is never out of the league of another woman..as a lesbian there are women out there you think are out of your league...thsts how to a straight woman ..she is out of every woman's league...every lesbian's league...just being straight..shes superior to each and every lesbian...and that gives you hint about the very complicated concept of "high value woman"...bro if youre s lesbian you're compromising your value ad a woman as much as Mulvaney and the likes.

[@bhar2855]

yeah it's like the use of "racism", the words have lost their potency

[@natalyd9674]

Because of their fragility they have no idea what "hatred" and "violence" truly means.

[@CulEdz]

Those who throws the word “violence” around have never experienced real violence. The same people that say “words are violence” have never been punched in the mouth.

[@mhartm93]

12:56 People in the “trans community” claim that infertile women aren’t women if we want to label women as the only ones who can have kids. That’s disgusting and untrue and also offensive. I hope and pray that all women, REAL & BIOLOGICAL women, don’t let that get to them. ❤

[@slvrangel22]

This only proves how little they know about being a woman. You can't tell by looking at a woman that she's infertile, but you can tell 100% with every single man that he will never carry a baby in his belly. And a trans will never know the heartache, shame, and tragedy of a woman not being fertile.

[@SwankemasterSupreme]

I define a woman as someone who has 1 type of chromosome, and man as someone who has 2. Any complaints, sorry I didn’t invent evolution.

[@avocadostan22]

@@SwankemasterSupreme LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!

[@Yourlocalosers]

If u were born a women or you have gentiles of both women and men are the only ways u can get pregnant hope this helps!!

[@lovepeace9902]

I would say that man means adult human male and male means that you have a working Y chromosome and a male reproductive organs. You can say that men have male genitalia and everyone knows that removing them can't change the sex just like you can say that humans have two arms and feet and everyone knows that people who due to birth defect, illness or injury don't have two arms and feet are still humans.

[@paradisecityX0]

Calling him a circus freak is an insult to circus freaks

[@MinosPrimeJudgement54]

Go apologize to all the circus freaks

[@antoniobanderas7810]

A circus freak at least has talent!! 🤣😂🤣😂

[@batmanforpresident9655]

😅😅😅😂😂😂😅At least circus freaks were interesting to look at ..

[@billchmelik5697]

​@@MinosPrimeJudgement54😅😅

[@marigoldfaerie]

​@@antoniobanderas7810 I do, thank you 😂

[@ritikasharma7722]

My days of girlhood were filled with living alone to study, doing all the chores and errands, studying and competing with my peers to be best in my field with hormonal imbalances, unknown endometriosis and bleeding for half a month every month without crying without making any excuses and yet being top of my class. So, thanks for letting us know what you think we all did.❤ Never were I oppose to people being who they are but please stop putting women in a box again and again, and defining them as per your convenience, and for your good❤

[@amantedelcane420]

Good thing you didn't grow up during these times or else you might've been encouraged to "transition."

[@ajr1910]

That’s amazing! I’m proud of you ❤️

[@Mupyeong]

Congratulations on your achievements!!! :) I hope your dreams come true, be it a promotion or your own company, a loving partner, children or simply having that nice little place you always dreamt of to live in!

[@nadinetasmania]

Brilliant - exactly. Be what ever you chose to be but leave alone what actual is being a woman.

[@windws7137]

Hope your health is better, endometriosis is a painful experience

[@meleebrawler6462]

Man, this dude is like a mole. Every time we think he’s gone, he finds a way to come back.

[@MrBuns-yi2hk]

Like a bad rash. He is back.

[@gaiuszeno1331]

Naw man moles are actually cute and they know what a male isnand a female is. Mulvaney is more like the asexual yeast they use to make bud light.

[@retr0tune80]

He’s the mosquito in your bedroom. You think it’s gone, but it just flies right by your ear while you sleep.

[@roystoyscomics1361]

More like a cockroach 🪳

[@Xaforn]

Like a wort….

[@incrediblymai8362]

Ad a girl, my childhood was filled with reading anything I could get my hands on and pretending I was Nancy Drew. It was playing house with my 4 younger brothers and always being the mom, it was running through sprinklers shrieking and giggling. It was taking my stuffed cat to watch Penguins of Madagascar with me in theaters. It was climbing the tree in the backyard higher than my brothers could reach so I could read in peace. It was playing pretend--explorers, ballerinas, lion tamers, superheroes, princesses in towers, shrewd shop owners, and gunslinging cowgirls were all part of my repertoire. Being a little girl for me was learning how to cook with my mother. It was repainting my walls a lovely mint green color. It was a thousand Lego creations from flower shops to dragons to villain lairs with booby traps. It was watching Angelina Ballerina and Wild Kratts and Odd Squad and Clifford and very Barbie movie I could get my hands on. It was comparing knee scabs with my friends every summer. It was decorating my 4-H cow's stall at the fair with ribbons which were even enough to cheer me up when I had to clean her bedding. It was dominating nerf and water gun fights. It was me me watching the game at Super Bowl parties while my friends went and played, and also only wanting to watch figure skating and gymnastics when the Olympics were on. Being a girl was and still is me being girly in my own tough, only-daughter-and-oldest-of-five sort of way. Its listening to an audiobook of Pride and Prejudice while fixing my plumbing, and it is me cooking and cleaning, it is green being my favorite color and me loving my cute pink dress, and it is me going to a 4-year college, and it is me wanting to get married someday, God willing. It is not and will never be me going hiking in heels. It will never be me drafting passive-aggressive emails or leading men on in a relationship that will end nowhere. Pink will never be my favorite color, and I usually don't wear dresses on weekdays. However, it will also never be me rejecting the concept of marriage. It will never be me being a boss babe or calling for the downfall of the patriarchy. It will never be me aborting a baby no matter who what when where why or how it came to be. It will never be me shaming other women for settling down or wanting to meet Mr. Right. I, WE, are more than either of these extremes. No one and especially not Dylan Mulvaney can take the beautiful and complex thing that is womanhood away from us!!!!

[@giovanmorabonilla6400]

Amen!

[@questionmark3583]

Few fun facts that will make your day: - 48 hrs after posting his music video, D.M. has so far gathered 345,000 views - in half that amount of time, Brett Cooper's comments on the video as already gathered more views than the actual video that she is commenting (413,000) - So far, the D.M videos has an impressive ratio of 4,100 likes vs 43,000 dislikes - Brett Cooper's videos has a ratio of 26,000 likes vs 159 dislikes (!!) Some facts are brutal. The landing will be hard for D.M.

[@charlottesweb1395]

Facts over feelings, let's not feed into these delusions anymore.

[@charlottesweb1395]

Also thank you for sharing, I am loving that women are finally pushing back against this.

[@antoniopena3254]

This comment right here is my *"feel good"* comment of the day, thank you 😂😂😂

[@masterofcrumpets]

It's now around 7,000 likes to 74,000 dislikes.

[@kafkollectif525]

I mean, Dylan has probably made enough $ already to have a nice life. Although I think losing the attention will be super duper hard cuz Dylan has been trying for like a decade to make it as a performer. The craziest vids of him are with his mom and he’s dressed like an opossum. It’s like a fever dream.

[@KosisochukwuOnianwa-kd3qw]

I showed my mother the whole Dylan fiasco and she said "I think America's economy is getting so bad that they can't keep their mental asylums open anymore"😂😂

[@adrienm3687]

Only bad for losers

[@Freedomfighter20251]

​@@adrienm3687nope it's bad you're just brainwashed.

[@WynnWynn-gl3fk]

Well, regan started that by closing down mental hospitals and it caused him to be almost assassinated by crazed person. Mental hospitals need to reopen.

[@cheryleaston6820]

Are there any left?

[@Ndizzyinthehizzy]

Reagan shut them down in the 80s.

[@cammieleconte5552]

In the past year I found out I had Breast Cancer, had to have a double Mastectomy at the age of 49, lost my hair and when I see Dylan Mock what it means to be a woman honestly hurts and pisses me off. To see young girls remove their Breasts for the fun of it and their is no coming back from that. I would love to have my breasts back and the emotions that comes with that it is hard to put in words. Being a woman is so much more than hair , makeup and shopping. Be who ever you want but stay in your lane and stay out of ours

[@rainbowlegend8567]

I agree! Gender is not based on what you want, it is based on genetics! Getting boobs removed doesn't make a woman any less of a woman. I have a question; do you just so happen to live on the east coast of the United States? I happen to know someone who matches your description almost perfectly.

[@cammieleconte5552]

@@rainbowlegend8567 yes I do , I live in Massachusetts

[@youthofyesterdayrecords]

I'm sorry this happened to you.

[@DemonKingBadger]

I think my late aunt had that in her 60s, she lived to be 88

[@leviswranglers2813]

I hope that you and your family are healthy and healing well!!!

[@marypuppinsmyqueen11111]

As a still growing young woman(who in fact DOES NOT pop pills, constantly listen to the Twilight soundtrack, nor do I hook up and forget their names, or even hookup in general) I experienced a time in my life where I believed (due to being chronically online, haha thanks COVID.) that I was not a girl no more, no I was now a boy, why? Because I had very tomboyish tendencies as a young girl. And so I began to social transition, and thus began the absolute WORST time of my life so far. I felt horrible! My anxiety was so much worse, everything went downhill. But then, one summer, I was befriended by some very hyper-feminine girls, and tried on a dress after what seemed like forever. Felt good, looked cute. I decided from that point on I was a girl again, let my hair grow back out and continued from there. I am now an extremely happy, very feminine, and a confident young woman. Life has never been better(God don’t jinx me!) and I have never been happier. In conclusion, it would’ve been better if I had stayed as I had been intended, and if you are ever feeling this way, please, please just talk to someone.

[@pcwc1]

If Cringe was a person it'll be Dylan..

[@boitmecklyn4995]

the dictionary definition.

[@docsavage8640]

"Cringeworthy" is the word you're looking for

[@samuel-west]

Cringe isn’t one person. It’s the collective hivemind of the zeitgeist.

[@boitmecklyn4995]

@@samuel-west cringe and woke are pretty much interchangeable at this point.

[@AMERICANA1155]

Fr

[@sandie1480]

The popping pill thing is an absolutely crazy line because women struggle so much with being believed in the hospital your pain is always your period or your anxiety

[@dazzlai]

THIS OH MY GOD, the amount of times myself or another girl i know have had to basically fight doctors to believe them (even if its anxiety/periods it’s still something you have to fight them for) 💔

[@bug7855]

shes trans she has to tske pills use ur brain

[@Elizabethatthebeach]

Exactly... Like, uh, No! As a woman, they won't give you pills... Pain is all in your head...🤦🏼‍♀️

[@itsacarolbthing5221]

Alexis Blake (a British trans lady), suggested that this line is about the hormone pills that trans people have to take. Check out her video. She's lovely.

[@AbsoluteKallieTextz]

THIS IS SO TRUE! Dylan has no idea, he's wearing what he thinks what a woman is as a costume just mocking what he thinks we do.

[@racheln4309]

The thing about lady Gaga calling it “hatred” is…. It’s good to hate evil. We don’t hate Dylan, I think most people probably feel really bad for him. But we absolutely hate what he’s doing. Because it’s wrong.

[@Moonbunny55]

Your comment survived! I literally commented similar to you. Used the word hate and comment was deleted as well as a warning that if I do that again I’ll be booted from YT altogether 😂. I hate YT.

[@CitizenPain_p90]

Gaga is a dude also

[@omnislash6619]

I hate him

[@suwucidoll]

couldn’t agree more !

[@eeveelynnashes]

Exactly. We can hate the sin and love the sinner and wish them well.. Maybe not love, but you know what I mean here.. I just hope Dylan is in real therapy and figure out his problems. He's struggling as a human and I wish Dylan peace. His comments about his relationship with God weren't Bad, just sad for me. God isn't happy I'm an anxious ptsd riddled mess. God isn't happy I've lashed out at my loved ones. But he loves us, and he forgives us. All these temptations into sin are not the Lord testing us, they're the Devil testing us, pushing our weaknesses. I was given my children because I Can Handle Them. I Can Do It. I Can Do It With Grace. But giving Grace to myself. My childhood trauma caused my issues, and really leaning on God for healing and growth. He gave his only son for our sins.. as a mother to sons and daughters.. as a parent this now grips my soul tightly as an embrace. He sacrificed his only begotten son, for our sins. For our salvation. Earth isn't supposed to be heaven. It isn't supposed to be easy. We're supposed to fight against the sin for blissful heaven after all our fighting for heaven on earth. I'm lucky to have found Heaven on Earth. So the devil Temps me a Lot, as he will anyone that has. It's not supposed to be easy, it's supposed to be worth it.

[@vickymbg3488]

I'm just 15 yrs old right now, but every day I have to wake up to a world that takes as a joke or hates most aspects about my being, being a woman, being christian, the fact that in my future I do want a career but mostly I want to spend my life with Jesus and create a family as well, even the fact that I am homeschooled. To me girlhood is having not that many friends, reading classic books, serving at church, wrestling with my brother, and yes, sometimes I do overspend on a dress I love, or cry in the bathroom, but for me that's the worst part of my womanhood. Writing this from Colombia. ❤

[@JESUSPAIDITALLLIVEFORHIM]

I agree❤ As a 14 year old, Jesus - loving girl

[@vickymbg3488]

@@JESUSPAIDITALLLIVEFORHIM Girllll, Bless you!

[@vickymbg3488]

@@JESUSPAIDITALLLIVEFORHIM We should be besties

[@JesusLoverr.Sahaina]

I agree!! It's not that easy being a girl right now and a believer on top of that!! Jesus is my everything and the things that are happening in this world just wants to bring us down

[@Sarahcapybara14]

Omg this is like exactly me thank you random girl

[@autumnrose9]

I am over our society PRAISING someone for literally making a living on mocking women. It's beyond infuriating!

[@TBButtSmoothy]

society? women started this crap

[@Fartiosa]

Jokes on the women that indulge him. They don't know he's actually making fun of them

[@ricoflash6269]

And making so much money off of it in the process when those with real jobs who consistently work hard don't make nearly as much

[@ghiggs8389]

It's almost no different than blackface

[@コカーコーラ02]

Hahahahaha

[@RowanWalker-j3n]

This isn't only a smear against women, but also a subtle one against men. There was once a time when men wouldn't let women be disrespected like this.

[@ryanof3004]

They're softening us up and taking our balls so we become submissive... and it's working, we need to stop letting everything be so soft

[@inmyopinion6662]

Our hands are tied. The Democrats who passed gay rights legislation made it a hate crime to stand up against this perversion. Sad to say. Voting for a democrat is gay Don't be gay

[@neveronhereXD]

Facts. We need men to amplify their voices and cease this madness.

[@ildtaw]

what are you talking about? men have always been the ones that disrespect women

[@Jakub7gg]

@@neveronhereXDnot just men, we need the actual world back, 1995 to 2005 were good years THAT is probably where life felt real, more normal people with brains

[@GenuineJess]

I hate that Dylan gets to use their "girlhood" to do things that biological women have fought so hard to do. We fought to break the glass ceiling only to see a biological man standing above us, already doing what we had only dreamed of. It is so unfair that angry people get called transphobic.

[@docsavage8640]

@GenuineJess what have you "fought to do"?

[@kimberlyreynolds8656]

His…his “girlhood”. He is a a man, albeit a sad example of one, still he is a man. Your comment is so on point aside from calling him a “their”.

[@AyanneCZ]

HIS "girlhood".

[@lupinsredjacket3191]

​@@docsavage8640 OP said "biological women." That includes every biological woman from OP to Emily Davison and beyond; past, present, and future.

[@sarahkessler2456]

@@docsavage8640even if she hasn’t technically “fought” for it, why doesn’t she get to feel a certain way about it?! I hate the flip flopping argument so many people have nowadays. We all have a right to feel a certain way about things without having to make a list. 🙄

[@tree-89b]

It’s embarrassing that this is happening in my country. If this continues I might move to an isolated island so I don’t go crazy.

[@Abster911]

I'll be right there with you cuz I don't know how much more of this degrading real women and mansplaining of real womanhood I can take. It's so sad that the world has come to this.

[@ErinRogoff]

My days of girlhood were spent reading books, going hiking and camping, traveling on road trips, learning the survivalist lifestyle, and writing yet-to-be-published books on warrior queens in fantasy worlds. I'm a woman who can track animals, bake a dessert after cooking dinner, fire a rifle and use a longbow, and birth babies. I've yet to become a mother, but I pray I'll be as strong as my role model mom! ❤

[@deeriggs3319]

Our girl hoods were very similar and would be seen as not girlhood these days.. but I wouldn’t have had it any other way.

[@Kez-The-Pez]

I wish my girlhood was like that, but I still have a uterus waiting to be occupied!

[@masterofcrumpets]

Mine too, catching tadpoles, lizards and snakes, exploring and hiking, fishing and riding bikes and motorcycles, walking miles for adventures into the unknown, playing army with walky talkies in the forest with my friends, making bows that usually didn't work great, even doing cookies aka donuts in my dad's little truck with my brother. I was 10 and he was 12. 😂 Ah country life. And there was never any focus on gender, ever. I wasn't even labeled a tomboy. I didn't even really think about it until I was way older.

[@natalyd9674]

Man or woman: self-indulgence, staying in bed, popping pills, sleeping around, amassing debt, and abusing alcohol are the days of deep neurosis. Why attribute that to the most vulnerable members of society? It's just plain evil.

[@xXHinatababezXx]

Your the type of woman is like to befriend during the apocalypse

[@KDrop84]

I hate that he insinuates that women do drugs and have one night stands. That’s not makes us women.

[@amiragordon5437]

Tell me what does then.

[@TimothyGod]

​@@amiragordon5437you serious?

[@lightworker4813]

He's a scumbag.

[@midnight_x_edits]

@@amiragordon5437if your a woman i dont see why you havent quite figured that out yet nothing “makes us women” we just are women we were born women with female dna and all that jazz we dont need to be taught what its like to be a girl or a woman because WE ALREADY KNOW AND WERE LIVING IT DAILY!

[@uikmnhj4me]

@@amiragordon5437being made/born female

[@sol-hunter2332]

Dylan doesn't seem like a guy with severe dysphoria, but a guy chasing attention, and affection, thinking it will make him feel fulfilled. You get a burst of euphoria like a drug, but then it fades and you are worse off than you were before. Spealing as a guy who had dysphoria

[@ProPandaPlays]

I’m just not sure why you crybabies care so much lol 🤡🤡😂😂😭

[@annabodot962]

@@ProPandaPlaysbecause it is deeply disturbing.

[@ProPandaPlays]

How lol grow up Jesus 🤡🤡🤡🤡😂😭@@annabodot962

[@ProPandaPlays]

Fun fact you can learn that if you cry and whine online NOTHING changes or you can grow up and realize your only hurting yourself whining 🤡🤡😂😂😭@@annabodot962

[@ProPandaPlays]

Crying over the decision of some nobody online does nothing positive @@annabodot962

[@spencergrover6886]

I’m a high jumper at my school. I’m not amazing for a man, but I’m decent. I have spent 4 years working on this sport. The state record holder for woman’s high jump has spent 14 years of her life to this sport. If I were to transition, I would have broken her PR by 4 inches.

[@gachabear1616]

Yesss The difference is huge and people just don't care 🙏🏼

[@HomesteadingWithAngie]

I’m a breast cancer survivor. They can talk to me about how they feel when they have a breast cancer scare. When their hormones almost kill then. I had my chest cut off! I’ve now had a hysterectomy. To save my life! I agree that should we feel less because we can’t have kids or because our womanhood was removed? Because we had cancer? Please. This makes me sooo sad and confused. 😢

[@keagaming9837]

I know someone who also had her boobs cut off, but this doesn't make her any less of a woman! Gender is not how you feel, it is about your genetics and the organs you developed in the womb. I've noticed a lot of conservatives define womanhood as by becoming a mother which I don't think is right either especially for cases like these but yeah.

[@violetnorwen8491]

🏆You deserve so much more than I could ever give🏆 God bless you ❤

[@uikmnhj4me]

To be fair, men can get breast cancer, it’s just very very rare. And it’s not the same type of tissue there obviously. But they can get cancer on their moobs. I understand what you’re saying though: reducing womanhood to mere parts you can put on and take off is demeaning

[@Sun.Shine-]

But think about this, if they say this, we as women can respond by saying, "Atleast we women, won't have prostrate cancer" 🫤

[@katyiscrazy1999]

My mom also had a mastectomy. You're both very strong women.

[@Ichtopia]

I had an identity crisis after my historectomy too. I was very depressed, because my Dr thought I had endometriosis and he was wrong and I had a perfectly healthy organ removed, and with this crazy world not able to define what a woman is I was struggling to find my new place in it. I'm better now though.

[@JillCee]

I am so sorry that happened to you.

[@MsIngPeaces]

You had a Hysterectomy Dylan had a historectomy Cant change that past💀

[@Phd366]

I’m glad you are better now! 😊

[@AudreyStryder222]

Dude, SUE that doctor

[@michelewilson6696]

I agree with Audrey. The doctor should have seen immediately that you didn’t have endometriosis and stopped the procedure.

[@steph-wirth]

People get so mad when people appropriate other cultures (rightfully so) but when people appropriate womanhood like this it’s okay??? Also, these are the same people who say gender is a social construct and does not define their identity. Okay well then why do you care what you identify as so much if it is not a direct representation of you? ugh so fed up with this society.

[@coonhound_pharaoh]

Nah. "Culture appropriation" isn't real.

[@BlxxdSpxrt591]

​@@coonhound_pharaohblack cleopatra would like a word

[@coonhound_pharaoh]

@cleojack6450 Wrong. Culture is dynamic, not static. It cannot be appropriated. It can only be adopted.

[@jaredhicks5655]

​@coonhound_pharoah it has nothing to do with changing culture, it's about wearing a culture that doesn't belong to you. Saying you should be able to culturally appropriate things without controversy and saying that cultural appropriation doesn't exist (a blatant lie) are two very different things

[@mchlle94]

Same with blackface and Rachel Dolezal (which are both f'ed up and racist). But when it concerns women, suddenly it doesn't matter and women are expected to just shut up and make room, to their own detriment.

[@chrissie3511]

I've had 3 children, gone through womanhood my whole life. After my youngest was born I started to bleed out and almost died due to male docs telling me it would end I was fine... I ended up having to lose my fallopian tubes first because they were filled with blood, then my uterus had to go because my blood had seeped into the muscle and I couldn't stop bleeding (for 3 months post birth) eventually I had ovarian cysts that twisted 1 ovary so I lost it then another that was so large it took all the blood flow from that last ovary. I was 26 years old and had to be put on estrogen and progesterone. The progesterone caused a small hemangioma on my liver to grow to 7cm in size and I ended up needing a 6 hour liver resection surgery with a 40% chance of bleeding out on the table where I lost an entire lobe of my liver. I would have died if it wasn't caught or removed if it had ruptured. Then the progesterone caused another mass in my chest (a thymoma) to grow and wrap around my heart, had to have a partial sternotomy to remove it before it crushed my heart... all of this because of the loss of my female organs. It pisses me off that these men can mask as woman and us real woman are supposed to just be quiet about it and accept it! My womanhood isn't a costume and you can't pretend to know what womanhood is! PERIOD

[@camillacollins5680]

You’re a strong woman! I admire you even so! You keep going ma’am, you’re a wonderful example of how strong a woman is!

[@victoriaroseanna]

Ugh. Here we go again with Dylan.

[@WokeUpToSomeBullshit.]

Yeah, Dylan A MAN who decided to be a woman...and Pee Brain Lady Gaga believes him..the world we live in.

[@M_and_M-y5k]

We are living in the upside down. This crap would never have been accepted a decade ago.

[@andrewstich4614]

My thoughts exactly

[@SunroomMushroom]

When I saw Brett had a new video, I got excited per usual. Then I saw the title… I rolled my eyes into the back of my head.

[@feymasons.7835]

Real

[@sarahbearden6365]

I have lived with endometriosis for 20 years and was just diagnosed 8 months ago. This invasion in my body has made it so that my husband and I cannot have children without IVF. Before my diagnosis, every month I wondered, maybe this will be the month! But alas, I am just a bleeder. After my two surgeries, I am processing all of this in therapy and a Christian 12-step group. It's hard work every single day. It's not a costume I put on. It's one in 10 women's struggle, often undiagnosed, that Dylan will never understand.

[@elizaleblanc4547]

Thank you for sharing this, Sarah! I'm so sorry you've struggled like this because I partly understand. I've had endometriosis for 11 years. I've always thought that if these men who want to pretend they're women lived a day with this awful disease, they would probably change their tune real quick. But they could never understand. They could never in a million years, with hormones and procedures, fully replicate what it's like to be a woman and have a woman's unique, God-given joys, sorrow, and pain.

[@shawn.f96]

And dylan will never understand because he’s not a real woman. Period

[@cooper1239]

He will never understand because he is a guy.

[@carmenalexis4787]

Praying for you ✝️❤️ For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11

[@oliviamadore1740]

How is any of this Dylan Mulvaney's fault? she's just living her life nad you insecure Cisgender women are too miserable to accept that.

[@batmanforpresident9655]

Calling Dylan Mulvaney a real girl is like calling Pinocchio a real boy

[@nebe815]

But the difference is that Pinocchio actually became a real boy

[@Matteuslee]

Both have an appendage that grows

[@CajunReaper95]

@@nebe815thank you for confirming that for me I wasn’t expecting sure if he became a real boy or not been so many years since I’ve seen Pinocchio!

[@Plant_in_a_box]

Nah don’t disrespect Pinocchio like that

[@batmanforpresident9655]

​@@nebe815 True, but both are FAIRY tales.... pun intended..😅😅😅😂😂

[@Polareon]

People acting like she trying to say thats what all girls experiences are. She talking about her experience and her life there is no possible way to generalise every girls life. If this was written by taylor swift everyone would eat it tf up.

[@PookieWookie24]

Louder for the people in the back!

[@-AlienBoy-]

YES, it’s so annoying seeing people agreeing with this. For the last time, Dylan is talking about her personal experiences. She is not saying that’s all women are, and these people are getting so defensive over nothing. If someone born a girl had made that song everyone would be like “yeah, so true!” And agreeing with it, just proof that terfs are just upset that she’s a trans woman. They’re not upset at the fact she’s talking about her experiences in that song, they’re just using it as an excuse to be annoying and transphobic (damn this took a while to type out 😭)

[@bougiebanana]

THE SONG IS ASS 🍑

[@GangleGoneInsane]

The song is pretty bad though, I hate a song not because of the meaning or creator I'll hate it if it sounds bad anyway.

[@craigyeates1854]

I think it speaks volumes that many of us have yet to see a woman to man transition competing in sports, many of the men to women have, but I have yet to see it the other way around

[@Cocreatewithus]

Or be Man of the Year.

[@NK-bz9wb]

I'm anxiously waiting for a balance beam routine

[@hotdog1214]

Could it be that there is some sort of disadvantage having females playing against males? Hmmmm 🤔🤔😋

[@KJM-l3n]

There are some but not many.

[@MykoMethod]

The majority of the trans community seems to be male to female, perhaps its just the louder within the group, or we hear significantly more about them because of competing in sports and things like that but id estimate over 70% of the community that ive seen seem to be male to female rather than female to male. It seems to be far more common for whatever reason.

[@mamasnightmare1]

I was a teen in the eighties. Remember that decade where we tried to get rid of all labels. These days everyone tries to get as much labels as possible. We where way more progressive.

[@atalanta9353]

These were my exact thoughts a few days ago. Also Gen X.

[@hogathacysty1166]

Yes. I wore makeup and wore female clothing to school. It was called Androgyny. It was no big deal. Today's version is so annoying.

[@t.t6191]

Exactly. Stereotypes and generalizations made a massive comeback. We had it about right in the 80s and 90s and this generation thinks we were backwards 😂

[@FlamingCockatiel]

@@t.t6191 Thank you for recognizing that. I received surprisingly little flak for being a tomboy in the 90s.

[@jimmyintheswamp]

I remember when, not so long ago, gender stereotypes were a bad thing and society was taking actual steps to overcome them. These days, an entire ideological subclass depends on those same stereotypes in order to define their very "existence." What the hell is this world??

[@alicebrundage9302]

this is literally what i’ve been saying. these people make no sense.

[@kc3727]

Exactly, at this point all they're looking for is attention.

[@maryray364]

Sad that he is acting like only women cry.

[@angieolson1741]

The world has turned away from God and his word.

[@Swiftie_Edits132]

Right after I saw the music video I came right over to your channel and knew you would do an episode on it!

[@mitsuberry]

Yk Taylor Swift supports lgbtqia+, right? She literally made a whole song hyping the community up and dissing people like you

[@bolitabolitabolita]

Regarding the woman who had a hysterectomy who you mentioned at the end of the video: I saw a comment on KZbin months ago which I can't find or reference properly now, but I remember the gist of it... The grief that a woman who cannot give birth feels is also a part of womanhood. The grief of a woman who can't have children or who has lost her womb, is a part of womanhood, and not in the same way as a biological man who can't give birth. One is a bird with a broken wing, the other is a turtle who wishes it could fly. The instinctive calling to the sky is something that the bird feels deeply in its soul, whether it can fly or not, but a turtle can never know about that instinct. I have remembered the quote terribly but I hope the general sense of the idea is clear.

[@kittii.katt-]

I hope you recover fast mentally. Take your time, and for the love of god, don’t rely on drinking. It feels like it helps but it really doesn’t. It actually creates more problems for you. And remember, you are a brave woman. Get well soon.

[@chelleb.9759]

This is so amazingly said. Thank you

[@megxme_]

im glad he is helping you ❤​@user-vl6dc2mc8h

[@eriksigalraven8340]

So you saying this offensive only for infertile ones, for those who cannot giving birth. What about women like me? What about women who not giving birth bc of not wanting to give birth? Oh ye I know you would say I shall be forcibly inseminated

[@eriksigalraven8340]

​@@kittii.katt-oh ye. Only those who cant but want give birth are deserving condolences. What about childfree? What about women who not want to give birth but are pressured to?

[@Tony2Phony]

Just discovered this channel. i'm a 33 year old male and I thought I was losing my mind with the direction society was going and its good to see there are still very reasonable younger people with common sense. With as much brainwashing that goes on with social media and stuff I was convinced those days are over. We all have to keep pushing back without hatred, sexist, or racist point of views like the media propaganda machines suggests, but with common sense and make them feel ridiculous for trying to normalize this behavior.

[@陈kopo]

This!! As an 18 year old who just got into university, this gender ideology and woke narrative is so prevalent even in my day to day life (professors asking for pronouns, ads to become socialists on campus, virtue signalling etc etc), so I'm really glad to see other Gen Z-ers like Brett who agree with me, even if I haven't met anyone like this in real life yet.

[@amantedelcane420]

​@@陈kopo Stay true to yourself, as difficult as it may seem at times. All the best on your journey ✌️

[@Tony2Phony]

@@陈kopo I worked at a university for a handful of year from like 2016-2020 and I couldn't tell you what the class was but from outside the room I could literally hear the professor lecturing the students on everything wrong with Donald Trump. Things like "how would you describe his interactions with his daughter" and they were basically calling him a creep and stuff. Now I'm sure that is probably a lot of people's opinion, but the fact people your age aren't able to come to your own conclusions and opinions and instead are paying to be brainwashed by universities is crazy.

[@ProPandaPlays]

Seems like ppl keep crying over what some random ppl do on the internet grow up stop crying 😂😂🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡😭😭😭

[@ProPandaPlays]

It doesn’t affect you so stop being so sensitive Jesus

[@gladys.carolina]

THIS! "My sex and my gender are not a costume for you to try on; my rights as a woman are not to be infringed." THANK YOU.

[@amiragordon5437]

Every white girl ever smh.

[@Ariana-wv4pf]

So she's a feminist. 😂😂😂

[@コカーコーラ02]

What rights?

[@EbonyRose_]

I was at a queer event, (Im bi - questioning) with my trans friend who I heavily support and they caught on feelings with me and we went on a date (it went horribly) and we were doing a art project cause why not, then a few other people came and one was around 12 who was a trans man and one who was 13 and I think was bi or like non-binary dont remember . The 13 year old kept yapping and yapping saying "Who would want to be a women in this day in age?" While I am sitting there, (a biological women - cis. as people say, which I hate that term) I just kept silent doing my art project and she was still yapping about it and saying "one day non-binary people will rule the world, everyone should be so and so" then more yapping, "cis men are GROSSS" then started to talk about "cis" people, I pulled out my phone and texted my friend saying I was uncomfortable and when she saw it she texted back "its the biological term of women who dont transition/be non-binary" I said that the 13 year old was being rude and my friend replied, "nuh-uh" She didn't respect me at all and when I finally snapped saying to stop using "cis" term on people AND ON ME, we got in a argument and one of the people running it told us to just not use that word, why can't I just be a women? why do I need to add cis onto that just because I know who I am and not trans or non binary, like they think it's so gross and ucky to be a "cis" women? I really had some thoughts that day, why do I NEED to respect them or else I'll get shamed but they can shame me? Im 15 by the way I dont need this type of stuff in my life.

[@5pctLowBattery]

Let's make insanity shameful again.

[@MikeTheD]

Or just shame period

[@kevinsullivan3448]

We should all point and laugh at every opportunity.

[@MsIngPeaces]

I don’t think mental health issues deserve to be shamed. But let’s shame people who use these issues to terrorize society

[@L3X_B1tCh_M]

hahahaa it is, just not to the insane people... lmao

[@krischambers9021]

He's not insane, he's an attention-seeker

[@unfortunatenoodle6932]

One thing I've noticed is people before having their gender identity issues are happier and more content, after they "transition" there is a lot more depression and sadness, i find it interesting that people are happier, and i mean truly happier when they are not aware and not faced with the pressure of the lgbtq+ community.

[@robertsmall1657]

Facts. This is 100% factual. And I hate that many people aren’t wise enough to understand that too much “investigating” or “overthinking” actually causes you to fix problems that aren’t there.

[@boosqueezy2418]

it’s a cult

[@xoluciaxo_3721]

True trans people are extremely depressed before transition and can finally move on and try to live a normal life after transitioning. Dylan being happy his whole life living as a man and profiting of his so-called womanhood afterwards already says enough

[@wendydonnelly1881]

NOBODY has EVER gone from male to female, for the simple reason that people are not clownfish.

[@roystoyscomics1361]

Or frogs

[@grantfrith9589]

The survival strategy of a cuckoo is a legitimate survival strategy. That said they're still a cuckoo....

[@renaldamarkos7913]

But some people *are clowns 😂

[@degatagauwatie4073]

Clown world, clownfish...

[@keagaming9837]

So true! If God wanted us to change our gender, he would've given us the ability to at will!

[@Dan-da-da]

what I struggle with is why the trans community want to use the male and female genders anyway, they bang on about identity and individuality. And by their own rhetoric apparently there are unlimited genders so why do they want to use the only two genders already established.

[@TreesRLifeX]

Such a good point.

[@rachelvandyke11]

As a girl, my childhood was pretending we were the characters in Lord of the Rings, taking care of my stuffed animals, reading as many books as I could get my hands on. As a teenager, it was studying and working hard to get straight A's while learning how to play new instruments and, still read as many books as I could. As a grown woman, my life right now is being a Mom. Caring for my beautiful family. Watching my kids grow up my my husband's side and dreaming about what life will be like as they grow up. Oh! And reading as many books as I can. 😊 None of this farce of what it means to go through "girlhood" is realistic. I just can't believe that this is how far we've come into what beliefs about womanhood is and how stupid we are portrayed as being. We are so complex and have so much more to offer than "retail therapy" and "walks of shame." 🙄 Just sad.

[@BlueMagic67]

I think cooper said it best, it’s how MEN think of women. That MAN never had to worry about it being dark outside when going for a walk.

[@daynalawson9817]

I went on a rant the other day at my daughters school because of a note that was placed in the girls bathroom telling biological girls that if they aren't comfortable with sharing a bathroom with a transgender male then let the office know so the biological girl can be given alternative bathroom options. Completely fed up with this whole thing.

[@PrayforMe831]

I hope you will consider homeschooling. Those people hate your daughter 😢

[@EvilExcalibur]

What in the absolute fk? Exceptions should be made for the exception, not the other way around.

[@keagaming9837]

A school near me let a transwoman into the woman's bathroom, the transwoman raped a woman in the bathroom. When the woman spoke up about it, she was labeled as bigoted and as transphobic. The school tried to cover up the issue and make her look like the bad guy. Women need to be protected, we must keep women spaces for women only!

[@bethanyshay]

Keeping your daughter in my prayers. I'm so sorry you both are going through this sheesh

[@amiragordon5437]

It’s giving segregated bathrooms again

[@User12598-A]

I was cringing so hard when I saw the Dylan Lady Gaga video.

[@docsavage8640]

Lady Gaga trying to be famous and relevant again

[@cat3309]

I think Gaga may have "twigs and berries ," too.

[@EpoRose1]

@@docsavage8640what do you mean? She’s doing commercial for migraine medicines. That’s peak fame.

[@qwmx]

​@@docsavage8640 Lady gaga has always been a transactivis. It was in "born this way".

[@mancyank564]

I didn't cringe. I didn't watch it.

[@sarahh6476]

“my sex and my gender are not a costume for you to try on” you go girl! I couldn’t have said that better, and you spoke so much truth and saying that. Someone needs to put that on a T-shirt.

[@msl9445]

as a persian woman; I feel a stab on my back. woman's day is a chance for my people to send a massage for help and make people know what we are going throw; and now...

[@SarahOhadi]

I’m Persian too

[@PZW_]

I am more than ‘chest feeder’ a ‘bleeder’ a ‘birth person’. I am a biological woman. My life experiences as a woman are not to be mocked and used for clout. As Brent has said, my biology is not a costume to be tried on.

[@Ramona_Oaks]

Lose the “biological”. It is redundant and validates the sense that there’s more than one type of woman. It validates trans ideology when you use their language. Women are a sex class.

[@avivagodfrey]

I played along with someone "questioning" in college. Friend of a roommate I didn't know. But I had a box full of too-small clothes stashed away, so I let him try some on. He was shocked that the final outfit was literally bootcut jeans and a knit, pale-pink fashion hoodie. He was expecting dresses. And even my roommate, who claimed ase or nonbinary or whatever, was like "Since when have girls only worn dresses?" They only think in stereotypes.

[@DemonKingBadger]

Most girls I dated back in my day only wore dresses to church.😉 I preferred the girls who were tomboys or played sports.

[@solidflyer286]

100%. Only over feminised done up to the nines. You never see trans women in jeans, trainers and a T-shirt with a greying bra and granny knickers because it’s that time of the month.

[@boosqueezy2418]

i’m about to turn 44. i’ve worn dresses maybe ten times in my entire life.

[@kirafaunandersen5442]

Man… I really miss Brett. I can’t wait for her to start posting videos on her new channel.

[@4RILDIGITAL]

I agree with you that reducing womanhood to just a few stereotypes does great injustice to what being a woman truly means. We all need to rethink our understanding of gender identities.

[@Xaforn]

He turned off the comments 😂 the thumbs down ratio is great! My childhood as a girl was growing up on a farm, reading, biking dirt hills, and just being creative. I was very much a tomboy, still am. Stereotypes are bizarre.

[@amiragordon5437]

Yet these stereotypes are still perpetuated in all sorts of media to this day. What’s your point

[@lilywhite]

How many thumbs down are there? I was only able to see the likes. I went and thumbs downed it myself.

[@otuohserebour]

​@@Ifoundtheanswer300 more dislikes added up in the past 20mins😂

[@shelbykutil9743]

@@amiragordon5437 So we shouldn’t call it out when we see it just because it exists elsewhere as well?

[@amiragordon5437]

@@shelbykutil9743 I’m saying keep the same energy for your favorite artists and idols.

[@LeonStrifeVIII]

If cancer had a sound, then this song from Mulvaney would be it...

[@MF175mp]

Better avoid it, it might actually cause cancer.

[@WindTurbineSyndrome]

Riffing on the Barbie trend. Pathetic no talent.

[@SandevistanSeanzo]

Wait. The 💩 is a poop emoji? I thought it was chocolate pudding. I've sent texts that say, "I want to eat 💩" makes no sense now 😂😂😂

[@Its_not_stepha]

The greatest plot twist of the century would be if Dylan came out and said that he doesn’t really believe he’s transgender and this was just a huge social experiment to see how much the media would buy into something so outrageous.

[@natalyd9674]

We're past that troll conspiracy. This is really him and it's sad. And he's not that clever, just disturbed.

[@glorianartey7471]

That would be an unexpected plot twist😂

[@Hypestrike1]

That would be too much to wish for.

[@lewis7515]

What does that have to do with anything? What kind of, "It would be a great plot twist", smokescreen are you throwing up? It would be a great plot twist if unicorns existed and would deliver everybody a chocolate donut - it would be a great plot twist but that's nothing to with an objective Actual Reality, either... What are you even saying?

[@elissahunt]

This isn't fiction. There is no "plot" to twist. This man (Dylan) will not lead a long, healthy, happy life. Odds are high he will OD and drown in a bathtub or meet some other similar demise. The tragedy is people like Gaga are practically pushing him to his fate. I wonder if he could even get help to end the insanity if he wanted to.

[@E-C_961]

My thoughts exactly! I am not a costume. Women are very complex. We go through things that men will NEVER understand. This whole thing is absolutely infuriating. I really feel for the lady that talked to you. I understand what she is going through. I may have my uterus, but I just found out that I may never be able to get pregnant due to PCOS. I hope its a misdiagnosis. I know that can happen. I'm only 21 and want nothing more than to have children someday when I meet the right guy. It's absolutely devastating to know that may never happen. If she see's this, just know, you're not alone. ❤

[@angelasimons3473]

You may like to read Lily Nichols' new book, Real Food for Fertility. She does really thorough research on nutrition and it has a whole section about PCOS. There may be some diet changes (like changing the ratio of macronutrients) that can help balance your hormones more and improve your health to give you a better chance of having children some day.

[@RK-bx9jq]

I was diagnosed with PCOS in my twenties too. I'm now a proud mother of 2 boys. My Dr. Wrote a book on it. Dr. Gerard Conway - Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. I hope this helps ❤

[@elijahjames8837]

Yes and men go through things women will never understand...big deal. I do not support the moronic Dylan Mulvaney but come on

[@analogueoverdigital929]

And as a man, real women have no idea what men have to go through. It's both ways. And feminism created all this, so all the feminists can fix it.

[@shalini117]

Noo girl ypu can get pregnant even though you have pcos if you have the right medicstion snd diet . I am from India abd there is domething called homeopathy ayurvedic medication for pcos and that proved positive results. Just look after your diet and health and I am praying that you ll bevome a Mother when you find your right type of man.❤ love and positive energy to you

[@lisabadger3399]

Brett, this video brought tears to me. I've been infertile all my life, and along with the pain, the false but nagging idea that I was less of a woman. DM had always bothered me because he knows nothing about the struggles of real women. Thank you for shining the light. ❤

[@sarahbearden6365]

You're not alone ❤ I have lived with endometriosis for 20 years and was just diagnosed 8 months ago. This invasion in my body has made it so that my husband and I cannot have children without IVF. Before my diagnosis, every month I wondered, maybe this will be the month! But alas, I am just a bleeder. After my two surgeries, I am processing all of this in therapy and a Christian 12-step group. It's hard work every single day. It's not a costume I put on. It's one in 10 women's struggle, often undiagnosed, that Dylan will never understand.

[@zoe_dawg]

You are a real woman. I'm sorry that he thinks he can steal that right from you

[@boosqueezy2418]

my favorite is when they have menstrual cramps. so infuriating as i’m someone who used to have to miss school because my periods were so bad and painful

[@aethefledladyofmercia9572]

You're living an experience shared by millions of women, past and present. It couldn't possibly make you less of one. Hang in there!

[@carmenalexis4787]

God bless. We stand with you! 🙏❤️

[@colleenlongua9752]

Women's rights just got set back 50 years.

[@CooliWurscht]

For anybody who doesn't know, at the first day of girlhood, dylan said he wrote an email that he didn't send, bought clothes without any money and cried without knowing why.

[@zoe_dawg]

My first day of girlhood I was born

[@boosqueezy2418]

thank you for referring to this man as “he”

[@JamieMarzy]

That was the first and last one I watched. It's very very clearly him mocking and degrading women.

[@noahjames1985]

hmm that's odd, all your replies just got deleted. Interesting...

[@alaskanbassethound]

I hope to never say “biological” man or woman. There are men and women. None of this biological, sis, and trans and binary bipolar garbage. And Brett, thank you for keeping sanity in the room. You can call him a “him”. Pronoun politeness is nothing but lying to the person’s face and buying into the delusion.

[@CooperJones777]

It's actually worse than that - it's pretending something is real that isn't based on someone else's strongarm tactics forcing you to comply to their fantasy land BS.

[@mysteryheart53]

Fr same here!!

[@jilly_kk]

hi, biological woman here, i grew up going on hikes with my grandfather, playing outside with cousins and friends, playing ice hockey (which is stereotypically a male sport), and breaking curfew to look at the stars with my best friend. Always a tomboy and proud of it.

[@keagaming9837]

Same, I'm a tomboy too! I'm not very feminine, I don't like dresses and I don't think motherhood is for all women, but I know I am still a woman! Gender is biology and genetics, not feelings or behaviors!

[@Sun.Shine-]

I had tomboy traits when i was a kid, puberty took me to my femininity & i was bouncing back & forth, confused. As an adult, i love feminine things now ✌️

[@SpencerTaylor-yh6ln]

I’ve been learning French if Doulingo for over 700 days but I’m still not French.

[@karleeabby13]

If you want to become someone you’re not, I don’t care. But when you insult myself and other women, that’s where I draw the line.

[@bestjenkins2165]

The point about suicide is spot on because alot of transitioners will still blame others when they barely accept themselves

[@keagaming9837]

So true!

[@L3X_B1tCh_M]

FR!

[@eduardopena5893]

The "gender affirming" doctors wrote in their own studies that it will only work with affirmation from others. That means that this is a mental illness, and that "transitioning" has nothing to do with it. These people can only have success when they are validated by others. The problem is, there are still sane people left in the world that know what the truth is, and we're not going to let somebody pee on our leg and try to tell us it is raining.

[@xoluciaxo_3721]

It’s also mostly women who fall for this sadly. They resort to tiktok to find whats ‘wrong’ with them and believe themselves to be trans. The medical field fails them by giving them all these pills and surgeries easily for a bit of money. Then after transition they find out that actually, they weren’t trans at all and simply needed a reliable support system, and it’s already too late

[@nkuhlman677]

I support these people's right to self-determination. But FFS, keep them out of my Soylent.

[@bladeduffer]

I remember seeing an interview with Mulvaney a while before he started cosplaying as a "girl". He clearly acted as an effeminate gay man but I had no idea he would take it to this insulting level. He's clearly not well.

[@LadyHawke78]

Dylan appears to be a very effeminate gay “theatre kid” with a penchant for seeking attention who decided to make a drag-persona their entire personality.

[@monicaciobanu204]

'I just lost all respect for Gaga' I never had any in the first place.

[@fishlord2668]

The comment from that person on twitter is absolutely(exempt for that one part) accurate. As a guy I've heard horror stories from missionaries going to different places saving women and young girls from horrific places, many scaring me to this day. But the worst thing of all is instead of people focusing on saving lives and bringing recognition to it they sit her and complain about trans not getting the appreciation they deserve. It's absolutely sickening.

[@Salome11180]

The way i ran here immediately the notification popped up. What the hell!! Is he doing back here, i thought we successfully buried him

[@solerodemanga]

She*

[@jbjstyx]

@@solerodemanga nope, He's a dude.

[@dragerdet]

Why would you think that?

[@oliviajadex0x0]

@@solerodemangadylan is very clearly a man

[@Freedomfighter20251]

​@@solerodemanganope he that's a man in a dress.

[@avivagodfrey]

My days of girlhood were spent tending farm animals, writing my first awkward stories, moving states endlessly, and losing all my extravert skills and turning into an introvert while watching the economy burn. And then I walked into the fire called "college" because I was a well-behaved child who listened to my parents. There you go, Dylan. Have some realism.

[@idklinalol]

When Dylan said he was getting cramps I was so upset because I personally dont get cramps and my first time was in December 2023 and ive had my period since 2019 (I was a late bloomer) so when I first got cramps I felt like I was going to faint from the pain and it was scary like he will never truly know what cramps are and im thankful he doesn't but upset that he thinks its just for fun because my hearing going away and my vision blurring as I was trying to call 911 (im still in high school and it was my first time so I was scared) was the scariest thing ever and then my female friends and girls in my family told me it was normal like it wasn't fun at all and I haven't gotten cramps since then which im thankful for and im so like shocked girls who do get cramps actually have to deal with that and for him to think its a fun thing to complain about is just crazy but I pray for him

[@XOXOcarmi2]

That’s really messes up if he imitates what girls have to go through to be “more of a woman”.

[@annerowenlovessoccer]

as a teen girl I was incredibly outraged when I watched his video

[@Scorpiotwinnk]

You’ll get over it

[@echo88charlie]

Why? God has blessed us with enemies too ridiculous for us to lose.

[@kevinsullivan3448]

Only the mentally ill AREN'T outraged by its antics.

[@jayhaskan6185]

I’m having the time of my life reading through these comments as a real women

[@Omar_ToxicBanana1701]

what do you say makes you a real woman?..if you your uterus...remember that there will be successful uterus transplants in the future...or even a pill that entirely transforms your body and cells...what makes you areal woman is at a soul level...but what is it...have you figured it out?...don't you say you're a lesbian who's attracted to other women and think youre a real woman cause that would an outrageous cope..

[@bsings_8174]

😂

[@krikeydial3430]

Mmm imitation women! So stupid and sexy. Watch out ladies you have competition.

[@amantedelcane420]

How else would you read through these comments?

[@mehliui]

As a logical person. Being a man or woman doesn’t matter as long as you have common sense ​@amantedelcane420

[@MercerVoiceOver]

I am grateful for Brett Cooper's videos because it makes me feel a lot less crazy. Side note, why is it suddenly okay to talk about trans and gay sexual activity with children, but if anyone-EVER- talked to children about straight sex.... straight to jail. lol. Insane.

[@georgiaRAINEmusic]

completely off subject, that skincare ad was *smooth* af

[@kaseymartina7820]

I never respond to any videos that I ever watch but I felt compelled to respond. I just want to say thank you so much for what you had to say at the end of this video. I had to have a hysterectomy at the age of 24 for health reasons and that made me feel like I was not a real woman for years. I thank God everyday that he gave me my 2 children early on in my life. I was 18 getting married and had my 2 children within the first 5 years of our marriage. We have been married for almost 24 years now and my husband has been by me the whole time making sure that I felt whole. But hearing your words at the end of this video has helped me so much. I still suffer from these feels even all these years later. But hearing you understand even if you haven't gone through it. I really appreciate you fighting for our women rights and not letting others that are trying to pretend to be us get away with it. Keep doing what you are doing!!!! Speak the truth!!!!

[@TheKageRyu]

I am on your side 100%. I feel both genders need to work together to end this ridiculous mockery that is being made of real men and women with cardboard cutout mockeries and people in costume playing to stereotypes. While it is one thing for a person to feel they are in the wrong body or identify as the other gender, that should never be a free pass to trample the rights or undo the accomplishments of those born to that gender. The term CIS is sexist hate speech being used to belittle and degrade biological gender and it needs to be recognized as hate speech and banned. No Man or Woman should EVER need to explain, apologize for, or retract any effort to defend their own biological gender. More importantly society needs to stop conflating Sexuality and Gender. Each is it's own separate thing with a whole range of inherent facets for analysis and discussion.

[@ragevsraid7703]

you are a gross transphobe no matter how nice you try and make it sound

[@rachelking3941]

He knows his 15 mins is up and he is grasping at straws.. doing whatever he can.. but as much as he poses with celebs or puts cringe content out he knows his days of being ‘famous’ are numbered.. 🤷‍♀

[@gamingevolvedkg30]

Bro a girl at my biology class in sophomore year told me to do all of the work because i am a man and men should do all of the work. This pissed me off but also makes me laugh because I told her to make me a sandwich and give me water because if I am going to work in a partner project by myself then I should have smth to keep me going. She got mad and slapped me. And the teacher blamed ME for the trouble. Like bruh what is wrong with schools right now.

[@Volixtra]

Teacher was in the wrong lol. W comeback by you

[@gamingevolvedkg30]

​@Volixtra Thanks bro.

[@zoeyk7911]

Womanhood is so much more than that man knows. A small example that I have found interesting in my life- there have been a couple times in my life that I’ve known men who just seemed off to me. I’d feel extremely uncomfortable around them. These men never did anything that I saw but I just felt the urge to get away from them, I couldn’t explain it. Each time when I’d quietly say something to another woman who knew the man they immediately agreed and said they felt the exact same way. We’d be so relieved knowing it wasn’t just us but that someone else felt the same way. With one of these men, he was a coworker and we ran a background check on him and found out that he had committed a bizarre crime that was s*xual in nature at a previous workplace. I do believe women have a certain intuition that is unique to us.

[@WulfieZi]

Can this superpower be learned? 🤔

[@mysteryheart53]

I should learn this superpower if it can be learned 😅

[@ElsaLouiseSinger]

I just watched Mrs. Doubtfire and I can't get "Dude looks like a lady" out of my head XD

[@cecestover3332]

Ah, the good old days when men dressing up like women was just for laughs

[@Lydia-Frost]

​@@PokeyMan69Let's not talk about Steven Tyler, who became legal guardian of his underage girlfriend.

[@Jimmy-yi7iq]

Now that's the song the should be played over the video

[@Suarez05]

Plus, Michael J Fox dressed in Drag for Back to the Future Part II or III.

[@Fartiosa]

My thoughts exactly

[@patriciahughes7516]

Personally, even though Mulvaney probably DID do this for the Click Bait, I am happy you discussed this. It's good for women to know that we are not alone in our feelings of being mocked, being pushed into a corner, and that the years of work ACTUAL feminists did are being disrespected. No we are not alone, it's good to be a voice for those who feel isolated, even if it's a subject from a man making content only to get the attention. It still has to be addressed. Thank you.

[@MikeTheD]

I wonder if it will slowly sink in with other women, who go along with the clownery. It's just the truth of the deal, his idea of womanhood is a mockery whether he wants that or not. It just IS.

[@hearts444hekate]

Girlhood for me, playing teacher with my stuffed animals, collecting ants off the ground and keeping them as “pets”making “potions” out of dirt and grass and sticks. Girlhood was playing with my dolls, styling each others hair painting nails. going outside and playing till the streetlights came on. it wasn’t popping pills or sleeping around. Girlhood IS BEAUTIFUL.

[@crasicatlady]

You know it's a good song when comments are turned off, over 120k views and only 2k thumbs up.

[@IVY60_47]

As a woman struggling with infertility, the story about the woman who has a hysterectomy really hit a chord with me. X

[@Dontyellatm3]

Good luck

[@leoniesnook2917]

Thank you. I burst into tears as I too have had a hysterectomy and the validation means a lot. I didn’t realise my underlying trauma from this ridiculous gender ‘debate’. I almost got to a point where I thought - omg am I the same as a man wanting to be a woman as neither of us can give birth. I know that sounds silly but it was obviously bubbling under the surface. Thank you so much - I feel heard and feel better.

[@lovewolf4103]

I have pcos, i know how you feel, but this feelings we feel and you going throught that surgery that is what makes you a women, no man can go throught that, same thing with pcos no man has pcos and no man knows whats like to have pcos...we are women and all of this is part of being s women

[@volerasphere]

You can’t criticize cultural appropriation without also criticizing gender appropriation.