E87: Should Muslim Men Marry Single Moms? Multiple Wives & Divorce w. Sgt. Lourdes Loyola

Staff Sgt. Lourdes Loyola, a Muslim Mexican American convert talks about the need for Muslims to join U.S military now more than ever. How the U.S military feels towards Israel. And how Lourdes and her recently convert children have been dealing with her divorce. Lourdes and Ansari get into an awesome debate on single motherhood, polygamy and if Muslim men should marry single mothers/multiple wives. And finally, the future and psyche of the young Muslim Mexican American community, whom are the future of Muslims in America!
#muslim #women #marriage #convert #islamicpodcast
00:00 Intro
1:00 How do US Soldiers feel about Israel now?
4:15 Muslims Must Join U.S Army now more than ever!?
12:22 Lourdes Opens Up About Recent Divorce!
14:53 Has the family left Islam after Divorce?
17:23 How children deal with divorce
21:23 Heated debate on marrying multiple wives & single motherhood
28:50 Why would a Muslim Man want to Marry a Single Mother?
33:16 Should 20 year old Muslim men marry single mothers?
35:00 10 years after Converting - What's your reflections?
38:50 Muslim Mexican Community, Don't try to be Arab!
43:00 Future of Muslim Mexican Americans
45:00 Advice to Someone thinking about converting

[@Particularlynosy]

Great conversation- took my shahada recently. Proud to be a Mexican Muslim ❤

[@cheikhdiagne5369]

I’m looking for a Latina Muslim wife if u available 😊

[@mookfarooq]

Welcome Welcome Welcome 🙏

[@cheikhkandji3002]

I am reading that, may Allah strengthen your faith ❤

[@user-qt8ln7zf3c]

Alhamdulillah May Allah(swt) bless you and all Muslim ummah!

[@user-yy9mt6kl3h]

Probably unrelated, but its important to know that Perfect marriages or relationships don't exist; each one is unique. What suits Adam may not suit Peter. Nonetheless, I've learned that there's always a solution to every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I were facing divorce due to challenges in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a tough period, but we survived

[@user-sk7kd8vs2w]

The wisdom in your words resonates deeply, and I genuinely wish my emotions echo yours. Despite our current distance, I cannot envision my life without her; my love for her is unwavering. I crave her return, and I'm prepared to do whatever it takes to make it happen. We've explored different avenues, such as therapy, in our efforts to mend our relationship

[@user-yy9mt6kl3h]

Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@user-sk7kd8vs2w]

I appreciate your direction. I'll swiftly look her up online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will bring about positive changes for me too; her absence is deeply felt.

[@user-yy9mt6kl3h]

You definitely should

[@ghufranshareef3699]

Having two wives is better than having illegal relationships with average 8 women in America alone.

[@Moderator.]

How about having two husbands than having illegal relationships with average 5 men in America alone?

[@ghufranshareef3699]

@@Moderator. Is it allowed in your religion?

[@jabbar.tengah]

@@Moderator. polygamy is for saving these women..

[@mahbubahmed7]

@@Moderator. It's not the same. Nature does not allow women to do it. How would you identify the father if the woman gets pregnant? It's not possible to find out without the use of technology. Therefore, a woman can have only one husband.

[@janelee-xt1xs]

Having no wife is better than marrying a female that goes against the law and prevent the children from being raised by the father. because that is the same with having relationship with 8 females. And in fact it could be worse since it could be as if you worship a different god if you think doing something forbidden is okay. Its one thing admitting you are doing something wrong its another saying that the law of god is wrong.

[@sarfrazrazvi5979]

May Allah Azza wajjal bless her, keep her and her family on the straight path and answer all her duas Ameen. Very calm and humble person. The difference between a believer and disbeliever is the practicing of the Salah.

[@agharbi1724]

As always, I had a wonderful time listening to @TheAnsariPodcast. Thank you Staff Sgt Lourdes Loyola for coming on I'm sure it wasn't easy to come and talk about your personal life on a podcast, but I just wanted to thank you for giving your honest feedback on the questions asked I learned a lot personally this episode was truly insightful and a little mind opening for me thank you and salaam!

[@JuNi3001]

First time listener/consumer. MashaAllah I enjoyed this podcast. Subscribed. Allah bless you.

[@ChicagoAbes]

I would like to add that divorced Muslim men with children are struggling with similar problems

[@khalidumar9752]

Lourdes Loyola its your second video I am watching. You speak with a lot of clarity Mash a Allah ❤ 🇵🇰.

[@Zahramuduku1362]

Im from Africa and inshallah Allah will guide me one day to polgamy marriage

[@Blaze0071]

Polygyny. Polygamy is when both spouses are with multiple partners

[@cheikhdiagne5369]

I’m available to marry if you are 😊

[@iNikkah]

Although I don’t agree with her stance of military participation, she is right about Muslim men marrying non Muslims- it’s a massive risk that can go horribly wrong and given that we need our sisters to be married to Muslims- we can understand her frustration may Allah grant our people righteous spouses ameen

[@abcxyz3028]

I believe it's because a muslim man can marry people of the book. But sadly, the people of the book now are different from back then. Plenty of problems arise in upbringing and even in high profile marriage post divorce eg Imr Khan.

[@kobiewilliams1153]

Muslim women demand too high of dowery and the womens parents usually have too high expectations.

[@OpaLockaOutlaw305]

It seems also that the ummah is in disarray bc muslimahs marry non Muslim men… I don’t think Muslim women nowadays want to marry Muslim men! Just look at the mahr 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@janelee-xt1xs]

Honey, the problem with females not being able to marry is because females want to prohibit what is permissible. Basically committing shirk. There would be no issue of females not being able to get married if men marry 4 females.

[@zohalabdurahman3697]

Great discussion! Love your hijab and shirt

[@BUKHAREE]

Listening from Yukon 🙌🏽

[@user-vw4zb9rq6y]

Great words of wisdom from sister! She carved away intelligently her responses upholding the integrity of single mothers connecting with islamic rulings & values . May Allah guide her and her kids, bless them abundantly with all the goodness .

[@s1r3n1971]

I love hearing a Muslim woman's POV, especially a single parent. As a single mother, I personally would prefer to marry a single parent, to bring two families together. I feel a Muslim man, who is also a single parent, would have a better understanding of the struggles of single parenthood. Also, I believe there is no man alive with the virtues of our prophet who could justly & fairly satisfy the emotional & financial needs of multiple wives. The prophet's first wife was a single parent & he was married to her only until her death. If men wanted to follow the path of the prophet, all single men should first marry divorced single women. My second point is that the US military is not anti-Islamic because there aren't enough Muslims in the armed forces, I feel the problem is the powers that control our military use & manipulate the lives of our conscripted youth to promote & proliferate their own personal financial and global domination agendas.

[@janelee-xt1xs]

If you are a muslim the child wouldve been with the father. The fact that the child is with you says a lot about your religion.

[@almascollections9531]

Well said sister.

[@ambermalik895]

Masha'Allah,nice to hear her again.she is really brave lady with her strong believe in almighty'Subhan'Allah❤

[@syh9426]

She is amazing 👏.

[@mookfarooq]

alhamdulilah she is. I agree. Mashallah.

[@zS39SBT4fe5Zp8Q]

I 100% agree with Sgt. Loyola in the fact that Muslims must join the Army now more than ever. And to go even further, Muslims should work in the US government to be a force for good. It breaks my heart when I see US officials resign out of solidarity and morality when they can and should be doing more on the inside. Even if it feels ineffective at first.

[@andrewdavanzo8497]

I disagree because many scholars say it is haram to join US military that is well known to kill Muslims. Like how could you be ok aiding a Kafir country against your brothers and sisters in Islam, not just that but you are helping spreading false ideology like liberalism.

[@Young_z_dawah]

I got subscribed to your channel man, because of the name-Ansari ❤❤❤

[@InamInam-zk1dg]

ماشاءاللّٰه

[@omowhanre]

Many Muslim men don’t qualify to marry their one and only wife, yet they talk about multiple wives. How many men today can single-handily fully financially, physically, spiritually and psychologically support 2 households?

[@janelee-xt1xs]

Are you committing shirk right now? The only qualification for marriage is just mahr adult and sane. And the provision of clothing shelter and food. So who are you to change the law of god?

[@SuperDuperColossal]

And that mentality is what keeps the sisters single😞

[@cheikhkandji3002]

Unfortunately

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

Which mentality?

[@janelee-xt1xs]

@@amadeusakreveusmusic3356 kufar mentality. prohibiting what god have made permissible. expecting to be the only wife when god allow men to have up to 4.

[@1marzouq]

If her superiors give her an order that contradicts Islam, what will she do? We(Muslims) shouldn’t join their (non-Muslim) military ranks. May Allah continue to guide her, and us all. Ameen.

[@lloyola1772]

We have an obligation to say no or deny illegal and immoral orders.

[@achaudhry5252]

Good point on single mums etc being the " only " wives or the 1st wife

[@emonkhan3649]

Ansari I am Muslim from Bangladesh, I will marry her if she agrees. But Islam does not allow another's child as one's own child. The child will be identified his father

[@Blaze0071]

Brother I don't know if you're being serious in the first sentence but that would never happen from KZbin

[@tafagee8485]

❤

[@makahar1]

This is the danger of having layperson speaking about "morals" and the permissibility of Muslims joining a kafir military under the guise of being majority when invading a Muslim nation. Does that make any sense? US has invaded, gone to war and killed more people than any other nation! And this sister thinks we should join in the hope we can help the ummah if deployed?! Our constitution is Qur'an! Ask the learned and pious Ulama of world is that is right!! When Rasulullah (pbuh) started preaching the message of Islam and Sahaba (r) number were small, why did not a SINGLE ONE EVER join enemy ranks ?!!!

[@iamryuk3681]

Please invite Nicole queen on your show brother

[@Northerners1989]

Yep, you don't need to be an Arab to be a full Muslim, everyone has their own custom, they are free to wear anything as long as it doesn't violate God's commandments

[@shinafolliyathvazhayil3993]

I like your Gaza shirt.. thanks

[@berkturkoglu]

I don’t understand where he learns his history. The problem with the Muslims today is nobody knows their history. Saying the Ottomans preferred Persians over Arabs is totally farce. First of all the Ottomans were staunch enemies of the Persians and fought hundreds of wars against them. The Arabs were not conscripted into Ottoman armies because they were considered the children of the Blessed prophet. They were not considered to be hard soldiers like Turks.

[@elkyman99]

With all due respect this statement is pretty inaccurate. The Ottomans descended from Oğuz Turks, who integrated their blood heavily with Persians due to establishmrnt of the Selçuk Empire that spawned the Turks push into the Anatolian Peninsula and eventually the Ottoman State. For the record Ottomans preferred European soldiers over all (Janissaries) who were given to the Ottoman State by surrounding European vassal territories.

[@PodcastGuru2024]

She's complaining that her son is having a hard time with the divorce, but she's the one who divorced his sons father. Clown world

[@KHADER316]

Oh too bad. I was going to send her a proposal.

[@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543]

Many Muslims don't even know the basics of the din of some history of how things should be (sahaba & salaf) vs how things are, so nika is half the din, but they are week in their first half so how are they going to be strong in their second half!

[@user-sz4tl8ue7h]

Thank you for the nice conversation .. I think the sister is raising the bar high .. Not sure how she is expecting to be the only/first wife for a man, and she has children too and her age .. I wish you the best sister .. If the man can't have babies, that maybe an opportunity .. But anyhow .. Wish you all the best in your journey

[@janelee-xt1xs]

That is literally shirk to forbid a man from enjoying what god have allowed. Marrying that type of female is akin to marrying a polytheis as that is a kufar.

[@Palest772]

Wy not

[@user-tq8yj9ld3q]

Im a muslim and I am a man. Yes I love women they are all beautiful. Having said this, to men out there, dont abuse the Sunah and concentrate on Allah Azwajal's warning abusing women in general, especially those you take as a second wife. Allah Azwajal is to the point and clear, remember your return to Him! If you cant be just to your wives, remember your return.

[@cubeandblack6682]

I actually think Mexicans have same ancestry with Arabs . The El’s and Al’s and similar characteristics are not an accident

[@ericpowell4350]

Not ancestry. Arabic has a major influence on the Spanish language.

[@enacausmembrane]

I am Muslim, but there is no evidence of Mexicans and Arabs having same ancestry.

[@cubeandblack6682]

@@enacausmembrane pyramids ??

[@enacausmembrane]

@@cubeandblack6682 Bro, stop trolling

[@fazalkhan4788]

i apprciated sister for suporting the gaza

[@InamInam-zk1dg]

السلام علیکم

[@sq9779]

No man should marry a single mother unless they are willing to go through a life of hell. Also depends why she’s a single mum that’s the key question

[@fiddah]

You should delete this comment of your’s. Have you never studied The Seerah of Rasul صلى الله عليه وسلم ? Have you never read about the lives of the Sahabah رضي الله عنهم ? I personally know a Muslim woman with kids who got married to a brother and they are a happy family and have their own kids in addition to the kids of the sister. الحَمدُ لله . الله أَعْلَم

[@sq9779]

@@fiddah it’s a free country. If you don’t like the comment keep it moving.

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

I do agree, however if and only if she's mother material than it's a catch. She's used to taking care of kids and being patient with them vs a new mom. Hence why single moms function better as 2nd wives or wives of other single dads (who aren't as popular, since women get custody 90% of the time). There's also competence connected to it. A fresh bachelor is gonna be awkward and not know how to act around a mother he hasn't been together with. It is reminiscent of the concept of alpha widows.

[@sq9779]

@@amadeusakreveusmusic3356 each to their own my brother.

[@janelee-xt1xs]

No female with children are a good muslim to begin with. Since islam told you that the children should always be raised by the father unless he is no more.

[@janelee-xt1xs]

if it by choice the no. Because that female goes against the law and take the children away from the father.

[@younessboustta6525]

Great muslim conversation

[@binjones]

She is correct. Military personnel lose their constitutional rights. The military follows the Uniform Code of Military Justice.

[@sn3176]

Sigh. I get sooo tired of hearing “it’s sunnah” to marry more than one wife. For one, there is Sunnah that is a practice of the prophet, and then there’s Sunnah that the Prophet encouraged or commanded for his ummah. Polygamy is not encouraged but permitted within the guidance set forth by Allah. And interestingly no one ever calls monogamy a Sunnah though the Prophet also practiced monogamy. Furthermore, Islam does not hold the position that polygamy is a superior form of marriage and vice versa. And I respect this woman saying she does NOT have to accept polygamy as a single divorcee if she doesn’t want that for her herself! And that is EVERY woman’s right and it’s oppressive to convince women otherwise.

[@salehmbamba1489]

It's not just Sunnah but a verse in the quran

[@adampatel3132]

The prophet ordered the shabab to get married this is a command from the prophet therefore its wajib. As for the Quran It says 2, 3, 4 first therefore the asl is to have 2 and if one cannot be just then marry 1. The quran and sunnah shows its wajib not sunnah or mubah.

[@hk_ballers]

Don't get tired

[@shadeedmuhammad8107]

Well then you do not have to. There are too many brothers that one would ok. Besides I think it is less than 5 percent that take on a 2nd wife. So do now worry the ladies can double down but also think about it this way why do you think it is less than 5 percent..... Because dealing with one can be tough so why would I want 2. So with that being said 2 is something we as Muslim men never took serious in the modern world. One plus is that if you have 2 and one leave you still have 1. Besides 1st wife might want to school and 2nd want to have kids now. This deen is about the overview of us not individually. So shout out to the wives and women who tried. In the future I do not believe the women will have a choice due to the lack of men

[@muhammadsaif2782]

@sn3176 who said Polygamy isn’t Recommended ?

[@senadmarovic3530]

I see an independent woman but in the west she would be classified as opressed

[@lM-zr5vu]

May Allah make it easy for this woman, but this woman is delusional. At 37 thinking that she will be one choosing, thinking that a man her age will be lining up to marry her only, is silly... The truth is a man who marrys her only, who is her age is a man who is writing off having any or any more kids of their own. And the prophet (SAW) sunnah is also to marry young woman, and he encouraged marrying young woman so that one can have more kids. This sister should either change view on polygamy, or increase that age to 50+.

[@sn3176]

This comment is gross and likely a reflection of how you see yourself. Allah does not think of his creation in this way, placing lower value on people bc of their life experiences. And it’s utterly shameful because it shows you have a low opinion of Allah- Allah can bless any of his servants with what he chooses. Sorry you lack the requisite faith to believe that.

[@lM-zr5vu]

@@sn3176 I don't think it's disrespectful at all, it's reality. I did not say she's lower value, but she is only thinking of things from her perspective, ie selfishly., a man her age is still thinking about having kids of his own, whilst a woman her age is at the end of her fertility cycle, it is very difficult for a woman to fall pregnant after the age of 40, and menopause can kick in anytime from 41 to 50. In my estimation a man still has aspirations of kids perhaps into his late 50s maybe early 60s, and a man has the ability to have kids till the day he dies, So it does not make any sense for a man her age to be monogamous with her, only a man who doesn't want any or anymore kids of his own will think it a good idea, therefore most likely an older man for her to be monogamous, i would say around 60 years old. This is biology, and reality. Most women don't realize that men also have desires to have kids of their own, sorry that you feel bad, but i don't see any good in pandering to your delusions, brutal honesty is the best, then at least woman are likely to be logical and rational about her expectations. May Allah bless everyone, men and woman, and fullfil All their halaal needs, men and woman!

[@CurrentAssistant]

The prophet Sunnah is also to marry a woman who has been married before who is older than him and remaining monogamous to her (khadijah May Allah be pleased with her). Always one sunnah and not the other with this ummah isn’t it 😬😬

[@sa_ly]

The world is not shaped according to your single perspective. Nothing is impossible to Allah S.W.T, he already knows who will get married and which kind of spouses ppl may have.

[@MiraZailani]

It always gets me how men think so highly of themselves. Like did it even cross your mind that there are men out there who can't have children of their own?? Or it's just a thing that happens to women?? I don't know why we focus on things that have nothing to do with us but rather The Provider and The one who Gives! If anything you're the one being delusional thinking that every single person on this earth will only ever have children the way you think it's "suppose" to happen. Miracles are for Allah to perform and not people who think everything is black and white!

[@tawfiqurrahman8340]

Muslim women are expensive in South Asia. Don't know about other countries.

[@sohd2283]

Men are so pressed in the comments lol we need to do better fellas! Leave her alone & concentrate on your deen. She isn’t in your future so just focus on YOU

[@SuperDuperColossal]

I do not want my daughter wearing hijab like that so next

[@humzahardy1212]

8:29 so she is saying more muslims should join the USmilitary to more muslim palestinions

[@AR-15-685]

ALLAUMMAH BARIK. May our Rabb grant you a practicing husband. I am free though. 🤣

[@AncientPharaoh]

Modern day single moms are not good options as they carry baggages of trauma and children of other men. Remember, many of these women asked for divorce for no reason at all. Fellas rmember to choose the potential half sibling/s of your future child/ren rests with you.

[@reomai9576]

Men also come with trauma, Trying so hard to be a man, starts smoking, getting into a fight because someone looked at them...

[@janelee-xt1xs]

The fact that it is a female with child prove that it isnt a good muslim as in islam the children should always be with the father if he is alive.

[@Gazanhasaniwa]

How about instead of platforming someone who is advocating for Muslims to join a kaffir army, bring a scholar to talk about why you as a Muslim should never fight in a kaffir army that helps in genociding your ummah. Just a thought. If your intention was to bring controversial people on your platform because it brings in numbers, then may Allah guide her and YOU.

[@G_1allah]

Where are the Muslim armies that are fighting for Palestine ??? U sound dumb

[@adnanabdurrahman419]

Facts

[@Truthbetold8626]

Inshallah Allah will bless you with a practicing righteous husband you seeking for someone that loves Allah

[@younessboustta6525]

I disagree about the muslims in the west join the military

[@adnanabdurrahman419]

Its not permissible

[@Haqqseeker40]

100%

[@janelee-xt1xs]

It is haram to harm another human let alone another muslim. So joining the military in the west where the main goal is to create war is 100% a sin.

[@Iamfsaly]

W women

[@hijrayusuf9997]

Why there is this normalized that only polygamy is good enough for single mothers. I think single mothers deserve to marry who ever they want. and nevertheless Try to think any different.

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

That's called living in La La land and not thinking rationally without your feelings attached. What's a more likely scenario: Single mom with many kids gets love and support from a married man, so she becomes 2nd wife OR Single mom finds single dad OR Single mom finds a bachelor, unmarried? And Allah knows best

[@alibasherlinog9068]

24:10 Most of the time, women do not like their husband to have more than 1 wife. It's their nature.

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

That's just a feeling. Feelings aren't facts.

[@janelee-xt1xs]

Men dont like to feed females that they want nothing to do with. But the fact that God allow it and in the quran is an instruction to marry more than one if you could, for a female to prohibit that is literally the worst form of sin known as shirk. To go against the quran.

[@adnanabdurrahman419]

Just because a women is a 2nd 3rd or 4th doesnt mean you're less then the first, lol. Prophet muhammad pbuh 4th wife Hafsah bint Umar used to surahs of the quran helping compile the first complete manuscript.

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

Facts. There's no order of priority, there's just the time you got together, which is arbitrary.

[@georgeorlando7989]

Ma Sha Allah.. the sister seems like a good person but she is definitely delusional and picking and choosing what to follow of the religion for her own benefits.. wa Allahi this is the main reason why we suffer as an ummah.. if we take the entire religion we will be successful.. And please let's stop making the first or the only wife superior to the others.. it's no different between them..

[@sn3176]

When I see comments like this, I know for sure this is someone who has a low opinion of themselves and Allah. This woman’s desires for herself in terms of marriage doesn’t impact anyone but her and her future spouse. I swear nothing triggers an insecure person more than someone who seems to have a high sense of self and believes Allah will absolutely bless them with the marriage they desire.

[@MohamedShou]

@@sn3176and it will impact her children because if they see this podcast they will also pick and choose what to follow in Islam 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

​@@MohamedShouexactly

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

You can hear the alpha widow voice in her speech. Her man wasn't on his faith, so she wants someone who's bot just a muslim, but a muslim leader. One who leads his family in all aspects of life. However, her delusions and putting feelings over facts (37,divorced, +3 kids) will make it more difficult for her to settle. She needs a dose of "Fresh and Fit"

[@Adam-kh9rb]

Definitely an American issue Not here in the uk muslim community is strong and know how to behave.

[@sarfrazrazvi5979]

Really???

[@Sharifabc]

I follow her on IG. I’m so glad she’s on a podcast

[@Gazanhasaniwa]

Find better people to follow what is wrong with you

[@G_1allah]

@@Gazanhasaniway what’s wrong with her

[@maryam_186]

What’s her IG handle?

[@qasims2210]

Why? She has questionable posts on there, very inconsistent with the image being portrayed here.

[@lloyola1772]

@@maryam_186Muslim_sarge 💕

[@hamidurrahman7412]

Is she single now?

[@lolnowayz]

This lady lacks class and humility. She will have trouble finding a partner because of her arrogance. It has nothing to do with her "single mom" side, just the fact that she is giving stabs you in the neck while you are sleeping or blames the OIC for assault that didn't happen vibes.

[@lloyola1772]

This was a really weird comment to make. How did you get SA blame shift from any of this? Sir if you don’t know what “no” means just say that.

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

She just wasn't with a leader of a partner, from what she said. After they as a family reverted, her husband wasn't super practicing. This issue runs actually in most muslim households. The ones that aren't practicing are the ones that have family issues the most.

[@janelee-xt1xs]

@@lloyola1772 You clearly never read the quran. The story of yusuf tell you about females that accuse him of sa. And yet here you are taking the side of the female instead of the side of yusuf.

[@Hamza-iq6gw]

Us army Sargent and Muslima?? lmfao 😂😂😂😂

[@papyjunior4780]

The palestinian arabs betrayed their other brother in Islam and took as ally the non muslims to fight muslims. Just because those muslims was not arab. It's too bad, that lead to what we are living now.

[@janelee-xt1xs]

Yup, the palestinians allied themselves with the christians british against the ottomans. And paid the price. They ignore the warnings of the quran.

[@MohamedShou]

Well in Islam the divorced children go to the father as well so technically this “raising of someone else’s children” rarely happened in Islamic history *unless the husband died* that’s it. If the ex is still alive the children should go to him but she lives in the West so sorry guys haha

[@adampatel3132]

There's no sahih hadith to say this rather its more from the urf/customs of the Arab people

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

​@@adampatel3132IE the best of peoples.

[@janelee-xt1xs]

@@adampatel3132 Do not follow the kufar. The responsibility of children fall onto the father unless the father is no more or the child is too young.

[@adampatel3132]

@@janelee-xt1xs what's your daleel?

[@user-dc8gb6sj3k]

Thank you Sir for this episode. Enjoyed the 1st one with her. Only saw it 2 months ago. Interesting to listen to both of you back then. The joy and interest still the same. Taking what is good, real, TRUE and RIGHT with me. Things that resonates with my soul. The rest that does NOT, i find it interesting. Learning curve for me. Assalamualaikum and regards from Malaysia 🇲🇾 @healthequalshope by AB

[@TheFullscoop]

First off is it even permissible in the practice of the sunnah for women to join the army and fight against Islamic countries smh like dat alone makes this interesting person invalid 🤷🏾

[@TheFullscoop]

She’s a beautiful sister and may Allah guide her” Ameen

[@SuperIsadam]

There is precedent with Nusayba (RA). There are also many different roles in the military. Of course, an official answer should be sought.

[@Gazanhasaniwa]

Fighting for a kaffir army against your own people. She is a traitor on the highest of terms.

[@toh786]

I am pretty sure it is written that the Mahdi will have some female soldiers, so there's that

[@hasanabdi7317]

​@@toh786 Written where? We can't just say things without backing it up with evidence from the Qur'an or Sunnah

[@bestverse4ever235]

All Americans women are the same , there is not none difference between religious and no religious women they think the same and talk alike

[@lolnowayz]

gargle balls

[@MohamedShou]

Subhanallah people in the West are so weak in sticking through marriage. And her ex husband literally is a fresh new Muslim and she wanted him to be super religious already 🤦🏾‍♂️🙄. Yhh these types of western Muslim women are tricky *also western Muslim men are tricky as well*

[@lloyola1772]

Who said I left my husband? Who said I left my husband because he wasn’t a practicing Muslim or wasn’t “religious enough”?

[@shubhamSrivastava3494]

Please make a video on sex slavery in Islam

[@InamInam-zk1dg]

ماشاءاللّٰه

[@ahsenzafar8037]

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