Soft Life, Masculine Women, Superior Men, Power of the Tongue with 19 Keys & Ronne Brown

[@Noble100]

One of the most important things I’ve done in my early 20s is allow this very attractive lady to be my roommate. She was 7yrs older and wiser. She is a thinker and writes books. I told her “I’m clearly attracted to you but I accepted you as a roommate because I want to see if I can live with you and have my sxul urges under control”. Long story, I learned so much from her and I can now easily read women. Women communicate more in subtle ways. Fellas, not every woman you meet is for play. They are your highest asset if you can see it. I hope you understand.

[@rosageco436]

Well said - Kudos to you!

[@jahj.h6957]

Yea I see that now..I agree

[@jephtawallace2135]

Well said.

[@moniquealexander283]

This is so beautiful 🥰

[@erickacole3818]

Your decision to do so was very wise. Glad you were able to have this experience. Blessings.

[@ThaDLoShow901]

Me & my wife had an organic energy from day 1. I think in a progressive way & my wife thinks in a progressive way & that’s what attracts me to her. We still have the same chemistry in every aspect of our relationship. Our sexual attraction to each other is exactly the same from 14 years ago. Our conversations are more stimulating now because we’ve grown more. Our bond is strong & we’ve been able to grow because our happiness comes from our ability to understand one another.

[@OurDreamsInMotion]

This is so beautiful to hear. Praying for a love like this.

[@jephtawallace2135]

Incredible

[@kweekeni6962]

I pray for a union like this “understand each other”

[@byhisgrace2brown109]

Powerful!

[@IndigoWisdom1]

❤

[@amylynn2901]

"Every woman wants a man she can learn from." ABSOLUTELY!!

[@eightwayz]

My ex told me she didn’t like how i made everything a lesson. Shes 22 so ig maybe thats why she didnt take me trying to teach her things the right way

[@chinablanco8787]

Facts

[@Dcorp412]

@@eightwayz it’s not what you say is how you say it. We’ve had many school teachers but very few favorite teachers. You probably just didn’t teach in a way that she liked learning

[@eightwayz]

@@Dcorp412 I absolutely agree with you thanks for the feedback

[@showtimesphinxsportspage1957]

Powerful convo thank you both.

[@user-tn3je1kx1p]

Why doesnt this have millions of views?! The PEOPLE need this convo to bring our families back together!!

[@organicbeatsandeats9798]

"When you can around a dominant man who you trust, you will naturally slide right into your femininity," Thank you Sista Ronne Brown & 19 Keys Brother thank you! HLC

[@jaquanclendenning68]

Did you hear what he said? Lol

[@thelostsheepnowfoundisrael6590]

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[@yanikeonpurpose]

That resonated with me so much, it’s been days since I listened & I’m still blown by it. I’ve always railroaded & overbear on men… until I realised when she said this that there is one man I never act a fool with. I turn into this little soft, happy baby. He’s 15 years older than me & has his shit entirely together. Well respected by his family, peers & the community. This made me see that I am at my absolute worst with men that do not own their masculinity. With these men I turn hard & aggressive because they cannot tame me. I don’t need that kinda space 😅. Be a man so I don’t need to fill the gap, & fill it badly.

[@mmxw2294]

@@yanikeonpurpose it took me years to put a lot of distance with people that I just don’t respect because it’s hard to be in a good space like that

[@Nothing36902]

@@jaquanclendenning68 exactly?

[@youngjah2010]

I wholeheartedly agree with ALL this "we want a man who has the answers and make decisions". The words I hated to hear in a relationship is "I don't know".

[@isis082008]

grow up, realise that you make your own decisions,... and go learn it yourself, stop this submissive bullshit, woman are not meant to be submissive , but men like it that way, as it doesn't challenge their sense of ownership and patriarchal control...that is the negative female at work, and she can only produce weak sick of spring too, and continue the patriarchal horror that been plaguing this planet for eons

[@willyfree6297]

Her: question Me: I don't no genuinely but I'll figure it out be patient Her: still showing signs of having a bad attitude

[@rosemah]

THIS!!

[@davidmwilliams7052]

should be I don't know let's find out

[@cocoakekee]

Ronne definitely vocalize everything I want to and can say about my man. Once you find a leader, it’s so easy to relax, nurture him, and submit. I love it here.

[@titiboo1]

Yessss Queen 👑. He's the reason why all the chicken heads mad at us lmao 😂😂

[@MelanatedHomesteadher]

Exactly it's a natural thing

[@ireflectmydestiny2629]

I didn’t even have to read your full comment but sistah! You hit the mail on the head because my sweet husband is so good to me. He makes me rest all up in my femininity, and it feels so damn good!

[@ireflectmydestiny2629]

🙌🏾

[@CoachKarenOliver]

Yes 🙌🏾

[@dede5004]

Feminine energy + Masculine principles = HARMONY! Loved this dialogue!

[@devinmosley6060]

If sense a hint of masculine in a woman it automatically make me see you as a Challenger

[@chriscurtis8344]

Biblical principles APPLIED are worth looking into for masculine energy to draw the highest level of honor.

[@Ms.abundance94]

The thing is women need to have principles too or else she will allow her emotions to take over

[@Visionary848]

“Levels of safety,” Where there’s safety we fall into our femininity. Balanced energy

[@anisjt]

It’s definitely truth

[@negativenancy4805]

@@jermo1213 a lie according to whom? Can you speak to the experience of a black woman when you’re not one? What’s safe to you isn’t necessarily safe to a woman. You must be triggered to call a woman a lie for saying this.

[@The-Oneness11]

@@jermo1213 Feminity is a higher premium energy. Certain circumstances are required like safety and comfort.

[@malikaustin9087]

@@The-Oneness11 No...feminity is your natural state CONDITIONAL femininity only exists in a 1st world country. In 3rd world , countries u not trying to fight go to war look at Ukraine. Yall are backwards and no strong man is buying that. Masculine energy is not conditional neither is feminine. If u are NOT being feminine, you are going against GOD and your natural state and rarely even want to fully embrace masculine energy because it is inherently DANGEROUS

[@ignoranceisnotatrend4669]

A real woman has a feminine personality all the time, she doesn't slip into it when she decides to.

[@2597m]

So many facts. I’m 25 and left home at 16, being the provider, protector and doing everything my self definitely make me lack my divine soft feminine energy and became more masculine. Now I’m healing my sacral chakra, learning to love my self and finally acknowledging that I need to step into my femininity more🙏

[@jaggervieira5417]

Amen It's never too late Queen

[@thezu9250]

I mean being self-sufficient is not masculine. You can 100% be self-sufficient and be feminine. I think we need to expand what femininity actually involves. Even in the early days, women were out of the village foraging for food. It’s just sad to me that things have been rewritten for a specific narrative.

[@purplegreenand2000]

@@thezu9250Hello, when I read it I felt she was more talking about having to protect herself being in control and not able to really be emotional. I do agree and like your point also though.

[@christinaquinones2727]

Both women and men want to be loved… this conversation is too good!!

[@s.i.nradio8634]

That's actually not true. Women want to be loved men want to be respected

[@chriscurtis8344]

@@s.i.nradio8634 you are right. When women are loved they MIGHT feel respected at the time . When men are respected they might actually be loved .

[@s.i.nradio8634]

@@chriscurtis8344 I love how you stated that. It's nice little trade off that balances the relationship. Couldn't have said it better myself

[@quotedearjangmi]

@@s.i.nradio8634 Respect, in a lot of ways, is love.

[@MrTwonetwone]

@Sarah C and I can love someone and not respect them.

[@Twist36_2x]

100 % appreciate this. I wanna thank 19 keys. I’ve only been watching him for about 2 weeks but I can literally binge watch high level conversations. Those talks helped me become a better man. Being raised by a single mom, in & out of jail & lost because I had no father figure. The last couple of years I’ve been growing and being able to watch stand up guys like and others definitely help my thought process… keep up the great work and mentorship

[@amxthysst]

❤

[@gcromer903]

Congratulations on your change and growth. May it ever be so 🙂🖤

[@delaceydobbins]

She was definitely right about feeling safe with a man, I want to date within my race BUT majority of our men will show more love and value to a homebody than his woman. I WANT to be led BUT you’re not about to lead me in the wrong direction. She’s absolutely correct

[@official19keys13]

Drop your telegram or WhatsApp number here with me fam ✊

[@tashiamax3049]

@Delancy Dobbins agreed, agreed and agreed💯💣🎯

[@Open-DI_239]

💯

[@Melanated483]

They show more love with their homeboys because they “Ride for their Homies and will die for their homies” or bros over hoes”. They REALLY just want to Fvck their Homeboys if they’re not already doing so I’m the closest. They feel more comfort and relation to their homeboys. But Good luck finding a Black Man within your nationality. You might as well STAY SINGLE FOREVER 🤣🤣🤣

[@jabdav]

What exactly is the wrong direction?

[@DestinationDionna]

While I respect and appreciate this beautiful Queen for spreading this message of soft life / femininity, I really want women who are actually successfully married and living these principles out to be given more of these platforms. Because this is the one space where I think it is necessary to live it out of you are going to teach it! Now before anyone goes left let’s be clear I’m not saying you have to be married to understand men, femininity, etc…..but there is a lot of practical experience that needs to be applied to this type of teaching, and you need to be married to have that.

[@freedomcyur-xv1gb]

That's all I'm saying...all I hear is men but not once did we discuss maybe this whole agenda we think we see is actually what we participate in. Not pointing finger but still pointing fingers...trust in God right but how can you see a lack when God doesn't show scarcity...he's fruitful supposedly...so I thank you I am glad I stroll to your comment.

[@lavenderbliss2177]

And there it is... The strain, struggle, and broken spirit is being lifted. LOVE HAS RE-ENTERED THE BUILDING. 💜💜💜. This feels so good!!!!

[@rachelbranton8049]

Yes! My dad taught me about life love and relationships! My mom taught me how to be a woman, feminine parenting and to take care of home.

[@TheLilly]

This was most definitely a high level conversation!! 19 Keys sets the bar up high for the men as far as masculinity is concerned. Ronne coming through with that soft life and feminine energy and perspective. This is beautiful and much needed 🤎❤️

[@Rosemary_Lavender]

Yes 🙌🏽

[@Tamisha7]

I value these high level conversations. My God I hope that every black man and woman on the planet especially in America can sit with this. I think we need to unlearn and relearn our roles.

[@refitmedia7883]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Gkrissy]

This conversation was so insightful. When 19keys said when a man is chasing love, and it forces a woman to chase purpose" that was a bar! I am chasing my purpose. This episode could be a whole relationship show in itself because they touched on so many things.

[@theamberturner]

Wasn't that POWERFUL‼️ That made me feel something special and gave me goosebumps.

[@pecanbrown9163]

It reminds me of the Ruth and Boaz story. He found her while she was working, and she wasn't even on the hunt for a man. 🥰🥰

[@CarlosCamilo]

What a breath of fresh air to see two human beings of the opposite sex having a grown conversation without competition. Thank you for this, anyone who says this level of communication no longer exists between men and women hasn’t seen this video, therefore it’s a false statement from now on. ❤️🙏👁️

[@Visionary848]

Mentioning the plants is a beautiful analogy.. I’ve evaluated my self care, my presence with family, the peace in my home based on the health of the plants in my home. Peace and blessings

[@winterspink]

It was tho I just got a few plants myself

[@MissFavorite88]

These are conversations that should be more mainstream. Much appreciated, thank you both!

[@cierahuemakeup]

I can’t LOVE this enough! Being in relationship with a man that can’t communicate is the hardest.

[@SupremeSolja]

Same applies vice versa

[@fnm7421]

What about when the woman can’t communicate

[@ShogoMakishimaxx]

YES!!!

[@sayeeed1303]

Not telling you what you want to hear does not mean he can't communicate.

[@cierahuemakeup]

@@sayeeed1303 your personal relationship has nothing to do with me. 🥴🤣

[@smjames78]

“How can our love THRIVE, instead of SURVIVE?” PREACH!!

[@tb143]

thanks for speaking on this. so ready to walk in my feminine energy. my masculine energy has predicated most of my life from growing up as a tomboy to having been in a marriage where i was Jordan and he was Pippen. not being able to dial back was stressful and tiring. promised myself no more making excuses and staying in toxic relationships. affirmed that my next relationship will be a spiritual, emotional and physical one with a man who has a purpose and a vision and who is not intimidated that i have one, too. a relationship where loyalty, appreciation, attention, affection, communication, compassion, compromise, companionship, effort, intention, and trust guide our interactions with each other. frfr, i just want somebody that makes me feel relaxed and secure who i can be in the moment with. yeah, we good on our own but we create synergy when we are in the presence of one another...together we are building and doing the incomprehensible.

[@Niyajenai]

Asè

[@ShogoMakishimaxx]

This!

[@SavannahPurpleLove]

As a single mom with three boys and a daughter…I’m learning to be extremely aware and conscious of how I talk and what I say to my sons. To not make them feel less than or emasculated at a young age! And making them aware of their words towards each other and their sister.

[@0309jph]

It’s so crazy how my husband & I feel like we’re 1 of few that understand these principles in life as a unit & as individuals. It’s a rarity to find other ppl to have these conversations with especially with the ppl we know. Thank you both & Eyl for this powerful convo. This will reach so many & we as ppl will become better. Thanks y’all!

[@ACTHEMOGUL]

this was soo fire.. im a female trucker ..trying to balance my feminity out here thank you so much ❤

[@snootyfox.indahouse]

You just vibrate high....I understand what you mean tho ✌️ and be safe on the road.

[@kitamariemartin2069]

If we could just focus on being better for ourselves, when we get into these relationships we will focus more on what we can give instead of what we can get. Relationships are give and take and somedays you will feel that you're giving more and that's okay.

[@Catchmarley]

Yes! Love this !this why men die early in age ,too much weight on his shoulders . Won't be me !

[@jazminegarriques504]

21:00 YESSS!!!! im already loving Miss Ronne Brown she putting us on game and also explaining how we feel!!! a lot of us girls didn't have our dad and lucky if we have our mom in our life, we seen our moms struggle and with handling everything than seeing the men that do come in her life treat her trash than the first one or 2nd time it happen to us we straight cut it off we not even gonna risk putting our lives at risk with you guys we dont wanna be heart broke or broke, yall take this life shit as a game than wanna be all serious and get for real in your 30s and 40s like foh im not wasting my 20s on unpromised promises and be broke like our ppl we seen in our life, it make you become solo and distant because the only person you can trust and depend on to feed you is yourself, you the only person that can make you rich more of us wish we can find a partner to get rich with so wen you rich you feel like you can trust whoever you with cuz yall did it together women with money get older and have money and it still come with problem and still not happy I think loved is fucked, the ppl who have motive have trust issues and than the others just are sleepers its a cold weird ass world out here I hope our men do toughen up so we know that its okay to let our guards down yall gotta give us that signal I thought men was suppose to be leaders but Im going to listen some more to Miss Ronne Brown hopefully get sum pointers! then we'll show our feminine side and yall laugh or play us that shit weird

[@tajtajeremiah3522]

#facts Unfortunately, many are not getting serious about life until after 65

[@ti3369]

“If you can tell me what to do then you can tell me what to do but if you can’t tell me what to do...then you can’t tell me what to do.” ✨

[@bonitawalker3419]

This High Lvl conversation just sums up why my marriage did not work and what I am manifesting to have in a relationship.....great job 19keys and Ronnie Brown👏👏👏

[@amandawhipple1302]

That’s that Jilly from Philly conversation

[@WildcatEbonyBrown]

While I fully appreciate the the information and high level conversations 19 Keys is providing to the culture. I feel compelled to express that masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum, like many other forms of duality. How someone expresses themselves is unique unto them and should not disqualify them from being included in the conscious movement. As a fluid human being, my presentation varies as I ebb and flow. Individual Fashion sense is often influenced by other subcultures with which we identify, for example Rock N Roll and Soul musicians have historically been eccentric. From Jimi Hendrix, to Prince, George Clinton, Andre 3000 and Busta Rhymes. It is important to always remember we are NOT monoliths. There are East African tribesmen who adorn themselves with elaborate hair and make up as a part of their mating rituals. It was acknowledged on another episode with Kaba Kemene their is both masculine & feminine in each of us by birth. It’s human nature. If we are truly going to honor the Creators creations than we must liberate ourselves from judging individualistic creativity. I know extremely masculine men who sometimes wear nail polish. It is an extension of their personal rebellion, artistry and freedom. Let’s not forget the short shorts we’re normal in the 70’s and 80’s. Watch vintage NBA games or any professional sportsmen from that era and you’ll see how prevalent it was stylistically. So let’s not condemn “hoochie daddy” shorts because plenty of cisgender women find them attractive, especially when a man possesses a fit, toned, muscular physique. Self awareness and enlightenment is for everyone regardless of their personal aesthetic choices. Peace and Blessings Family! 🙏🏾

[@mindfulculturecreators]

Dope conversation. I recently attended the funeral of my black male mentor. He was an extraordinary man married to a beautiful black woman for 38 years, and their union birthed 3 adult children - 2 men and 1 woman. Both sons were married. The daughter (a black woman) was single. When my mentor's best friend spoke, he joked about how they tried to really prepare their sons to be husbands. And how they raised their daughters to "not need a man". Biggie said the same thing in the song "sky is the limit". My point is that men raising daughters need to be aware of the contribution they are making to the imbalance in black female feminity. Our trauma puts us in survival mode, forcing us to shield our children from life (in this case, scary men that they either were or saw). But to shield your child from life results in a shield from living. The responsibility of showing healthy dynamics between men and women starts early, and must be done with an intention to prepare, not just protect. An overemphasis on the latter creates hard women confused about how to use their feminine and masculine energy in healthy ways.

[@boundlessdigital4055]

Love the conversation King/Queen. Married for 15 years now, still learning. I will say, manage expectations early on. Own your shortcomings and focus on that, in the work and also don't assume you know, ask specific questions and then listen.

[@iamallforbusiness]

These are the kind of females friends that I seek!!! I agreed with everything she said…. ❤

[@Shook254]

I feel like every man and woman should tap into this in high-school or young adult years at the very least. Definitely necessary for us to get back on track. 🎯

[@ChaosBeforeOrder]

I turn 27 next week, I'm fucked lol

[@Shook254]

@@ChaosBeforeOrder Naw not at all brother. Just make sure you stay tapped in and make the necessary changes now to change and cement a healthy, prosperous, and service-oriented lifestyle. #Blessings to you

[@Divine_Alignment]

Omg! She is speaking on what I feel in my heart. I married for the second time and I still lack peace with my partner. As i get older i realized it’s hard for me to be feminine when I don’t trust the man I’m with. This conversation is so powerful. Everything that is described as healthy masculinity I don’t have in my partner. I keep choosing men that resemble my father. I couldn’t trust my father as a child and now as an adult I can’t trust my partner. As I learn and grow I’m realizing I want more out of my partner and in life in general. Thank you for this conversation.

[@cynthiaali3175]

Communication and trust is the key without it the relationship won’t last.

[@zenani]

Thank you Mrs. Brown for speaking for us women on our motives so positively.

[@amadouandre8197]

I knew the episode was gon be valid in the first minute. That “to each his own” is not to be used as lightly as we use it some individual choices/preferences are perfectly fine but a lot of the habits/trends we have developed do not serve us in the grand scheme. Everyone feeling like they can do whatever they please and have a support group/audience for it is exactly what has us so misguided and not unified rn.

[@aivaandari6220]

Wonderful conversation!! I love learning!! Blessed living “soft life” happily married to my first love(33yrsnow) we like being in love,respect,working together raising family,growing into life together. Traditional family-raised sons- now assisting with grandchildren!!! I was raised in traditional family-mom&dad married60yrs…we understood the importance of exposure to important things. I make no decision without conferring with my KING. When you have a man trustworthy & leading you want to follow. We both have joked over the years that “we raised one-another to be wife/husband….we grew up in same area so we were “childhood” friends who grew into Love. We are both “well loved”-spoiled!! My life is a “testimony “ (bookswritten/notyetpublished) We have spoke things into existence from our youth! And know our earthly power in marriage…(standonit). Vows/commitment/covenant same thing. Marriage takes work daily. Give & Give again.

[@draysanatomy]

Of all of the men who I’ve watched speak on the Black dynamic, 19 Keys is by far the best. I love his perspective and also his ideas for how we move forward together. I also love his guests! They always bring great insight and he is intentional about who he has these high level conversations with, because seriously who would even want to watch a man speak on women with no woman present or vice versa? Lol

[@kathelyneantoine229]

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[@taneishajames5010]

A whole life therapy session for both men and women and men in 90 minutes.

[@meganchristi1]

I feel the issue is that there are man who do not show up fully but want all of the benefits of a man who is truly a leader and shows such attributes in his ways. Same goes for a lot of these women who feel they’re showing up simply by just being pretty.

[@shamiekgivens375]

100% it's a societal issue. We want what we don't deserve or didn't earn. Some people don't even know what they want

[@EsiriE]

What he said at the beginning about “to each his own” not being good because now we don’t have standards is factsss 🗣💯

[@MizzQ]

Right!! Very strong point, yet the less feedback!!!

[@seke7878]

I got a lot jewells from this conversation. This conversation has really made me think of somethings in my life as a man. As a man growing up in a single parent household. We need these high level conversation.

[@tashiamax3049]

@Henry D REAL TALK...SO MANY LOST THAT NEED TOO HEAR THIS CONVERSATIONS FOR THAT REASON ALONE.🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💣💯X10

[@ZillionaireEnergy]

POWERFUL and TRUE! Most men and women (not all) do NOT have ANY of the qualities that are spoken about in this Video! Whew! I heard a lot of things that did not know and have to LEARN and Grow towards. Thank You.

[@Mgea2393]

I appreciate this entire show. Brought back realness of life for a men and women. They way it supposed to be. Genuine, Uniqueness, Quality, Strength, Encouragement, Support, Guidance, Excellence, etc. Thank you for the Growth of the experience! May The Most High see to all in ones life💜💪🏾🤗

[@aja6740]

I cried when I listened to this . I resonated w what yall were saying so much that it hit my soul & helped me heal A LOT , helped me figure out why what i was missing and doing wrong. It confirmed what kind of man i was really craving ! Thanks yall ! 💓💓✨

[@shybunnie2259]

My own father taught me so much! I seek this when in a relationship. I have some things to offer as well but I REALLY want to learn from my man and work beside him in the home we created together.

[@syneedapenland1044]

She drops so much #Knowledge; especially at the 23 minute mark… that Black Women and Men need to listen to 🖤💖🖤 I’ve been there, done that… from marriage, to #leading men, as a former Naval Officer, and I’m so proud to see our young black Spiritual Leaders guiding the #Black🖤 Spirit back to the Basics 💖💖💖

[@vivianapaniaguaperez5309]

Timing is everything, the union between the twin flames the Ying and yang ☯️.

[@ININNE77]

This is so powerful. It’s scary because these are core values that I believe will build a strong foundation for any partnership! ❤️❤️

[@Blaqbudafly]

Literally hooked on watching these 🙌🏾

[@ioneyoung4425]

I Love these High LVL Conversions. This is a great topic & it pertains more to the people raised in poverty of lower class communities in the world. Where most men and women with broken mentalities come from. So with that being said I wish you would have spoken on MENTAL HEALING because that is what is needed before we will ever see Men & Women in the lights you speak. They need Mental Healing and Reprogramming. That's a HIGH LVL CONVERSION by itself.

[@jeanaekelly6763]

Listening without judgement is powerful!

[@unieklymayd3932]

Wow it feels so good to be able to identify to the positive outlook on being a good, strong, supportive black woman of value 😌✨

[@MickeyFourfifty]

They BOTH went off in this discussion! This is the blueprint y'all ‼️

[@AhabyahofZion]

As a married woman who has built several businesses with my husband, I can say that eventually your goals start to merge. I assisted him in building his ideas and took on the parts of which I had more strength like: branding, marketing, and administrative duties. He on the other hand is better in sales and networking. Combining our skills allowed/s us to build business after business. Not all were successful businesses but because we are in tuned we keep building…

[@obailey973]

Only 15 mins in and has learn a lot already. This video is extremely valuable.

[@stinasincere154]

Love this. I keep listening to this over and over again. Each time I pick up another gold nugget. All ages can learn from each other. No one has all the answers and we're never too young or old to learn. It is such a blessing to hear from the feminine and masculine perspective. What I realized is that there are a lot of things that I do in love gracefully. Those few things that I do that get under his skin make the things that I do in love...null and void. I'm taking a look in the mirror and evolving. Thank you for sharing your wisdom bro & sis! Keep up the life changing work!

[@queengoddesshope]

This was heavy yet therapeutic at the same time. Knowing that I've dabbled in both sides of the matrix, as well as cater to a man, while learning how to love myself - it's a journey that many of us had to face in our community. Nothing beats assisting a masculine man. The energy that is transmuted between both souls is beneficial yet invigorating. #freeasf

[@greggoodman]

Very true Queen

[@Motherearth35]

“Share and don’t dump,” very powerful statement. I love this conversation very balanced.

[@DACTUCK]

This interview beautiful as me being a young 21 year old man I seek as much information as I can get to better myself in to form me of being the best man I can be . these high level Conversation are amazing I gain so much value for these conservation I just wanna say I appreciate you 19keys keep going brother 🤝☮️💯

[@brendafuller1806]

I came across this young man on Sunday-- can’t stop watching hm and more importantly… Listening 🌹

[@audreona7525]

I really appreciate this knowledge, I was raised in a single mom household , all of this make sense. I never was raised seeing a healthy marriage. I'm invested in being a better me, mom and wife.

[@terrywayne2774]

As a man I can say I was once in my feminine before and had to learn. I loved this entire session 🙌🏾

[@ivanpatterson4159]

Peace bruh, I’m currently in this realization and wanted to ask you, what are some things you did to balance the scale. What books or activities did you indulge in. I’m trying tap in more to my masculine energy

[@tammy6907]

I love this conversation so much and this is needed in our community. I’m 56 years old and I have two grown sons. I’m going to watch this with them and hopefully they will wake up to what men should be and look like !

[@dfromtheblock1537]

58:56 “share but you don’t dump” . I feel that it’s important to recognize the difference bc my ex would dump too much on me that it physically and mentally drained me. As Keys mentioned, I realize i was losing trust in him as the head of the family, day by day

[@dirtytalkvegas]

Note that ppl evolve at different times.. you can be in a relationship and one person will be evolving while the other isn’t. She ain’t lying! The Queen on the chess board! You see what can make him stronger.

[@athomewithvicky]

19Keys delivers every time 💎 Thank you both for so much knowledge. I sent this video to my son and daughter who are 15 and 16. The gotta give me 5 key take aways from this video. When my daughter asked me why I said “This is life lessons y’all need.”

[@SparXxX-or3vh]

I sent his videos to my daughters also other family members as well. He's important 💯.

[@staytruefoundation3768]

You are amazing 19Keys, simply for being masculine and confident enough to have this conversation with truth honesty and grace!

[@divinewestlyann]

I believe based on who I am would determine the type of man I align with. Everything should effortlessly fall into place even if we don't always agree on something eventually it would work out without anything being forced. I did all the hard work within myself so my outside world becomes easy. The man of my vibration would be brought to me. Don't be afraid of your power ☮️🧡

[@The-Oneness11]

I love your comment

[@loveconquersall7530]

Give me a man that's spiritually intune with all that is and balanced in his masculinity and feminity. He needs to know who he is, outside of this 3D.

[@charitysmith1903]

I agree!!

[@sylviajonline]

Yes exactly 💯😊

[@staysmooth3048]

This Brother Explantation Skills Is Grace. Bring Masculinity Back

[@afeather6926]

I can’t wait for this! 2 of the most authentic having a much needed conversation

[@Dagoldenchild22]

This was playing while I was resting...I woke up text this man n let him know that my doubts in his softness to be able to lead me as a husband are confirmed. Imma keep building myself re teaching myself how to become soft and really be looking for and getting ready for that union I most desire and reaching my highest self. Thank you for this conversation

[@MrsLaAutentica]

I love this topic. As a brown woman, Hispanic I wish I had more family in this country that can help with the children while I develop a business, and still be able to rest. But I believe this conversation is helpful!!!

[@MikhailGeorge13]

First time hearing a discussion articulating what I try and express to my friends when I’m explaining how I am and what I want in life. Best conversation I’ve listened to in a long time

[@jessicaw7160]

Yeah I think it's when the lady said sometimes she gets drained after doing all that for the men she dates, it definitely sounded like she's not getting that energy reciprocated. When I was younger I was that way until I realized I was allowing people to leach off of my energy. So yes, the soft life can be a beautiful thing but you don't lose yourself in sharing that the wrong person.

[@camilleandriette]

Great conversation from a grown man's and woman's perspective. "I don't believe in being politically correct, I believe in being Godly correct." There it is, sums up how we need to look at this material world. Thanks for sharing.

[@JG-bo2qx]

This has been really good. Personally, I feel there is this obsession with women being "nurtures" . Like it's our default position at all times and it's our main thing that we bring to the table. I feel this take away from men being " nurtures " because the focus is always on women playing this "role". I feel we need to be careful of this because its playing such a big role in how some men see themselves and the part they play in this world. I feel this is one of the things that impact on some mens mental helath and how they ( do not) nurture themselves and the people around them. I feel it can have a big impacts on the relationship they have with their children. I feel this can also create an imbalance in a relationship also because the " role "of the woman is to "nurture ". This take a tremendous amount of energy that if it's not a shared role or reciprocated role , it can create a negative imbalance. I have seen this too many times. This is such a deep conversation for me, there are so many levels to this.

[@lilouliving]

Agreed

[@jephtawallace2135]

Indubitably

[@nikkilong7377]

Absolutely! I couldn't agree more.

[@deandreberry2088]

This is an AMAZING conversation! I’ve learned soo much from the perspective of two strong, highly intelligent beings who articulated the male (masculine) and female (feminine) perspectives on life, love, and partnership! I must admit I hesitated for awhile to watch this video, but I’m so glad I did! The black community needs this type of honest non competitive dialog so bad! Thank you both for your honesty and intellect!!!!

[@ninaross8305able]

I thoroughly appreciated this segment! This was such a beautiful conversation. I love to see two confident people having a robust and intellectual banter with one another. This is gold. So many gems 💎 Thank you for this. We need more of this!!!!

[@athomewithvicky]

This is exactly what I loved about this video. They both taught us so much verbally and non verbally.

[@BigDivineInnerChi6654]

I watched this video and Came to tears! Everything that I’ve been knowing wanting needing is all in this conversation! Not over standing the masculine male or y he comes off the way he does! It’s crazy because it’s the older men in their 50’s ands older that actually still Carries themselves as actual men and leading woman in the right direction of growth and love with overstanding! I’m starting to come to realization that my age range won’t get it together and that’s all I’ll be left with is an older guy I can’t grow with! He’s already old and more matured in life! I actually thought after achieving everything that I wanted that the men would come easy! That’s the hardest thing because nobody my age is on that level! It’s sad! Sucks to say it but I might end up alone officially! It’s always a down play on independent melanated females taking the lead and providing for the family or home! Yes we wanta be lead by the right person! Not everyone has the right intentions when leading a female! It’s messed up out here! Manifesting it isn’t enough

[@ZillionaireEnergy]

I LIKE how YOU correct self when things are said that MAY be taken in a way that can be hurtful or misconstrued. Very DOPE! This video is EVERYTHING!!! WITH APPRECIATION.

[@ts9975]

I appreciate the Queen in this video so much. She was able to say what I’ve been trying to say and feeling for so long. There were times when I felt so exhausted and had a loss for words.

[@officialtaynomusic5858]

I appreciate y’all for this conversation it’s helping me reconstruct a lot of things and grow.

[@cutey1039]

I really enjoyed this conversation!

[@chanteacooper6245]

OMG, I appreciate everything about this conversation. This was so expansive and enlightening. Right on time, keep doing you!

[@letesamimms3846]

I think that all relationships should have reciprocity because it creates healthy relationships. If one person is always giving and never receiving someone is going to starve. Thank you for having this conversation it is definitely needed.

[@infinitelyidiosyncratic1395]

Expansions, woman want to be lead. We must be lead, there's no other way. To be a part of a team is going to be amazing. I'm small nobody knows my name & non of that matters to me. What matters is the vision & seeing you/us win!!!! Business is Business & a healthy successful Business at times starts with a healthy relationship/family, it Matter's to those of us who still possess these old school values, AMAZING talk guys, AMAZING LET'S Keep GROWING!!!!

[@darrinjefferson3271]

DOPE dialogue! It’s good to hear what a successful, strong, black Queen wants, and expects from a King

[@prettigulrk89]

High level conversations only! ♥️♥️

[@brandongreen361]

I repeat higher level conversations ‼️✊🏿

[@lightlydark416]

I admire this man and more like him. Getting your mind right is top priority., 19Keys, and IzzraIslam are very solid and well grounded. We need more of them

[@ladykj8]

I appreciate this conversation. It was relatable and inspiring. I’m grateful I watched it.

[@cynthiac735]

One of the problems today that men AND women are facing is an unfamiliarity of real and unconditional love. In return, it's being reciprocated in the form of one being taken for granted or as a sign of weakness, because they are so broken. The best love is to teach them to love themselves, so they will know how to love others.

[@cool.calm.collective]

this was the best conversation that i’ve ever listened in on… i thank you both.

[@cartiergoowop8375]

This is how I will be able to deliver my messages one day . You are a profound brother and I love your intelligence and the courage you took to put it out .✊🏽💪🏽🗣

[@Missy714]

Great way to start healthy relationship evaluation/conversation.

[@Gregorywillard777]

That's the blessing a King /Queen building a empire an keeping it together an passing on to future generations