Does anyone else notice how her husband still had his ring on even though they were going through divorce? And she did not have her ring. Felt so bad for him, he wasn’t figured out, but he was a good guy.
@jalitoz3 жыл бұрын
Well, not really a good guy. He took everything and left her without nothing. She started traveling with the book that she was going to write.
@Ann-ut6jv Жыл бұрын
@@jalitoz Not only that, he wanted a share of royalty from her FUTURE books too!! He was looking for a PARENT not wife.
@albertwesker8883 Жыл бұрын
@@jalitozif that's the case, then are women who take everything divorce also bad people? It was women who pushed alimony laws but don't want to pay when they are the spouse that makes more
@pikachuuprising637 Жыл бұрын
@@jalitozWomen do that all the time. Is it right to call them evil? Also she cheated on him something she confessed in another piece.
@dorthy7397 ай бұрын
I did...yes it pulled at my heartstrings. Marriage is a serious commitment, but people should not live unhappy.
@spoonesi79374 жыл бұрын
When I saw him cry I had to cry too. That was the face of a man who has a broken heart.
@meowkris4 жыл бұрын
I agree. I couldn't help but feel sad for him. Divorce is the death of a marriage and this is scene is really sad.
@Carousel588310 ай бұрын
That was heartbreaking and always heartbreaking to any woman to see a man cry because of a woman
@Planeplayers3218 ай бұрын
Specials from other species ❤😂🎉
@taurilandess20852 жыл бұрын
The way he waves goodbye to her w his wedding ring still on as the elevator door closes 🥺
@reniekerry1202 жыл бұрын
Billy Crudup stole the whole movie from under her feet in just this scene.
@jonathanluthren90573 жыл бұрын
He cuts her down with real feelings everytime...
@samanthajo19872 жыл бұрын
"Have a dream, Steven! Great! Fine! Do that, just pick one!" "Okay I pick one, I pick YOU!" 🥺😫😭 I would have absolutely stayed married!!
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
It's nice to know there are some decent women left. At least try to work on the marriage first
@froyaceleen Жыл бұрын
I have not watched the movie but my interpretation is that your spouse is not your dream. He NEEDED her which means he wasn’t whole. He loved her but couldn’t live without her. 2 halves can make a whole but when separated you’re left half empty. She didn’t want to be half empty anymore, and being whole means pouring and pouring into the people who are half empty. Just a thought 💭✨
@pisto30 Жыл бұрын
@@froyaceleen Exactly. And if you don't love yourself by yourself, how can you love another person?
@nicraj-qn4eo Жыл бұрын
He needed to get a job
@malenadraper88058 ай бұрын
@@froyaceleencame here to say this, but good job. Relationships are additional, you have to have things for yourself, to be enough on your own.
@xoxo-dr8df4 жыл бұрын
I think Liz admitted at some point that she was the problem because she did want to really find herself and that meant leaving her marriage. So sad.
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
Couldn't she "find herself" while remaining married? He was obviously in love with her and I'm sure he'd be okay with her traveling to Bali or Nepal or wherever...
@2EKgn16 Жыл бұрын
@@soulsurfer639 No, she couldn't. She knew she and he were not great together while he kept hanging on...
@albertwesker8883 Жыл бұрын
She only admitted she was the problems years later after making him think he was the issue. A lot of women do this type of gaslighting in breakups, blame the man when in reality she just wants to be single again
@albertwesker8883 Жыл бұрын
@@soulsurfer639"find herself" usually just means have sex with other people
@pikachuuprising637 Жыл бұрын
@@2EKgn16she couldn't cause she was a narcissist.
@2EKgn16 Жыл бұрын
People/society keeps forcing and shoving one way of life at us but it's not the same for all. Not everybody wants to settle down and have kids, not everybody wants to run single and loose in the streets. Not every couple wants children OR to get married. Not every woman is meant to be a mother, or wife, or housewife, or career woman, or CEO of a company, etc. Everybody's journey is different. Sometimes we want something and change our mind along the journey. We need to respect other people's choices (whether we agree or not) and focus on our own.
@AudreyBedene6 ай бұрын
But she did it. And they have built a home. For an entire year. Why?! Poor guy. Some people just don't get commitments in life. Just ... Oportunities.
@user-to6wd3nb3t3 ай бұрын
@@AudreyBedenedidn't you read? She changed her mind along the way. By the way divorce is nothing out of the ordinary
@jacquelinerowlett78522 ай бұрын
I need some advice in this right now. I am feeling like there just has been no growth so I am feeling like it's been a sinking ship.
@julianburr27503 жыл бұрын
Billy Crudup did a great job in this scene.
@alexisflowers50695 жыл бұрын
there's multiple reasons for two people too not be right for each other anymore, if you find your self constantly reciting why you should stay maybe it's time to leave. don't stay in the ring if your the only one fighting
@jonmunyon1284 жыл бұрын
Or be a better judge of character before deciding to marry the person. But that would require self-responsibility and ownership over a stupid decision and the appraisal of why that stupid decision was made in the first place, something our culture largely seems adverse to.
@FireAngelChris4 жыл бұрын
Jon Munyon Spot on. So many don’t do this
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
@@jonmunyon128 well said
@heatherhoward80642 жыл бұрын
"I believe with every molecule of my body ...." Oh for god's sake. Nobody talks like that!!!
@Lyonlionify8 ай бұрын
except your mom
@rockmom622 жыл бұрын
I can't understand why this movie got brutal reviews. I liked this movie.
@Lyonlionify8 ай бұрын
maybe your mom is from africa 😊
@spoonesi79374 жыл бұрын
Ima be honest, she was really selfish.
@Chocomuneca194 жыл бұрын
....that’s the point lol. it’s about being selfish. you live and love life for yourself and doing what’s best for you. that’s the point of this movie.
@cookingqueenb4 жыл бұрын
Imagine being caged, but not an hour, or not caged outside, caged in a room, with nothing, it felt that way. Read the book.
@dominicanasoyy4 жыл бұрын
No she wasnt selfish , worst, She was a psycho bitch that didnt know what she want in life, bipolar as I express this before and being bipolar is not a bad thing just that her was the worst kind that hurt ppl in the long run that she didnt deserve i bet if she had a violent husband kicking her ass everyday she be there till death do them apart. Is called self destruction. Damn I hated this movie and to think theres people really like that is crazy.
@shoshanabodner84964 жыл бұрын
No no no If you read the book you would know
@stephenolder45523 жыл бұрын
@@shoshanabodner8496 an adaptation should be able to stand on it's own merits. If it cant, then it's a flaw in the adaptation.
@ColemanRG Жыл бұрын
Tears, every time I see it.
@jonmunyon1284 жыл бұрын
The message: keep disposing of people until you find that fleeting Utopian idea/person who will, in actuality, never really meet that idea of fulfillment you're looking for either. It's rubbish, but for the "modern empowered woman" it was, of course, hailed as a great cinematic triumph.
@Bragglord4 жыл бұрын
'Cinematic triumph'? Lol, maybe in some women's book meetings or coffee clubs, on the whole it's panned as a trashy romcom. Reviewers like Kermode hated it and it has an IMDb score of less than 6/10. On that, we can be thankful.
@melissacoleman45324 жыл бұрын
You will never understand until you’ve been in a bad marriage
@onepersonisthechanceandcha1552 жыл бұрын
Not cinematic. It's logic
@onepersonisthechanceandcha1552 жыл бұрын
@@melissacoleman4532 agreed with you
@anthonylogiudice9215 Жыл бұрын
This film's plot and the original novel are the epitome of the Modern American Woman.
@PastaSausta2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people just don’t have the spark. Her husband was hot, sweet, and loved her…she just shouldn’t have married him if the chemistry wasn’t there.
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
Or *gasp, worked on their marriage rather than her galivanting around to sleep with other guys.
@MiguelAngel-dm9hx4 жыл бұрын
It's sad, but when movies like this one empower women do ''not commit'' with anything in life, they will experience a harsh reality such as Liz. Moving on from one person to the next and never finding perfection isn't going to make you happy...
@jowilkes42213 жыл бұрын
It might make some people happy. I live like that and people describe my life as being enviable.
@anime-tm6dh3 жыл бұрын
Wow, what a way to ‘mansplain’ to women how they should live their life 🙄
@user-ve5ln5le9y2 жыл бұрын
☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻THIS. Why am I not surprised there are men here criticizing a woman who realizes she’s not happy. Men don’t commit all the time. There shouldn’t be a double standard against women.
@vlad-igor2 жыл бұрын
@@jowilkes4221 actually most people envy people that have stability, a stable life where everything is harmonious and lovely. Only when you don't find peace or serenity is where you go around jumping from one place to another, I envy people that are so stable, and everything they do goes to plan and accordingly. It's just wonderful. I've seen many that have jump from one person to another, proclaiming that they're happy doing it, but they don't even seem happy about life. Truth is everyone wants that peaceful life but when you don't get what you want, so you're going to move on finding what fits, that's why jumping around or moving around is in a way a sign of running from chaos, always running like water in rivers until they fine calm waters where they can settle down. Like river they flow until they find the ocean to settle down. Most people want that peaceful life, that's the most enviable life for everyone. To just have everything going so perfectly fine. The only reason one would move is because the heart haven't settled so they keep searching for it, searching for peace.
@jowilkes42212 жыл бұрын
Some of us are free spirits and that is ok :) Eat, Pray, Love helped me to realise that I don't have to do the whole married with children thing. Each to their own.
@jaderoselee85548 ай бұрын
Stupid movie. She betrayed him. You don't just divorce if you're unhappy or on a whim. You work things out. Next time be sure about forever after BEFORE you get married!
@SaiKiran-bc5zvАй бұрын
Agreed, better to be committed on our goals and development rather than being committed to a person who is not as dedicated as you are
@durgalakshmi279318 сағат бұрын
This man was a good man many women want a good man and look at the results than she goes to another guy this lady is insane
@sc-bj2fs4 жыл бұрын
Codependency is hard to discover, but a very harmful trait to discover you embody.
@blancasuave66583 жыл бұрын
I’m curious as to what made you use the word codependent
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
When you say "codependent" do you mean being in love with your wife and not wanting divorce because she wants to "find herself" aka sleep with strange men
@2EKgn16 Жыл бұрын
@@soulsurfer639 That's her perogative, her choice. You have a choice to move on and move forward into a better situation. Let her go so she doesn't drag you down or drag out the inevitable. You can love a person all you want, they don't have to love you back and if they want to find themself away from you, if they want to sleep with all the men or women in the country...let them go. Choose better for yourself.
@srishti132210 ай бұрын
@@2EKgn16well said
@JRay21135 ай бұрын
Therapy talk… I can see it’s infecting your mind
@ShireenPasha Жыл бұрын
The truth is he married her in India and never married her in Germany - never gave her the respect and dignity of a wife - yet demanded that she fulfill the role 100% - and she tried.
@carolj75863 жыл бұрын
It is so not fair for him.
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that, no one ever cares about the guy. For most men, it's humiliating and losing your possessions, children and the love of your life leads a lot of men to suicide.
@user-to6wd3nb3t3 ай бұрын
@@soulsurfer639there is therapy for that. Also he didn't lose all his possessions. He got all her money.
@soulsurfer6393 ай бұрын
@@user-to6wd3nb3t I didn't say "him" I clearly said "for most men." Western women initiate 80 - 90% of divorces. And sorry, but "therapy" doesn't heal the wound of having your children torn from your arms by the courts and your cheating ex-wife. This is why men are walking away from marriage or marrying asian women on mass
@alibelyazid2253 ай бұрын
@@user-to6wd3nb3t plus staying with a woman who's unhappy with you will eventually make u unhappy as well
@SaryMag5 жыл бұрын
I love this scene!!!
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
why? because the man gets destroyed lol? This is why I could never marry a "western" woman. I've seen to many of my friends/colleagues lose their children, home and loves of their lives to divorce
@SaryMag Жыл бұрын
@@soulsurfer639 no, I love it because I felt the emotion behind it. I felt for both HIM & her & I think the acting was so good, the actors did an amazing job portraying the awful hurt that comes with separation & divorce.
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
@@SaryMag fair enough 👌
@paramitawulandari26314 жыл бұрын
I really love this scene
@irynaserheieva42993 жыл бұрын
Brilliant acting!
@emilioee27312 жыл бұрын
Ese tipo realmente me partió el alma. Wao!! ¿Por qué no haces ese viaje estando casada? Es una fase, ¿puedo esperar? Waoooooooooooooooo, realmente me hizo sentir triste.
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
Es triste y aqui en los estados unidos eso pase a muchos hombres. Por eso que yo nunca casaria con una mujer Americana
@shawnhampshirehick1012 жыл бұрын
I can Relate to this scene. I am heartbroken 💔💍 because of a Quiter.🤷🤷💆🙍😞🤠
@anonymouspeacefulperson61992 жыл бұрын
What's an other man's wife got to do with you Shawn! Stay out of our business!
@durgalakshmi279318 сағат бұрын
This lady is selfish
@ferielbersos2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes love is not enough 💔
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
then don't waste men's time... women initiate over 80% of divorces in western countries.... gunna fly to Tajikistan to find a woman with values
@ferielbersos Жыл бұрын
@@soulsurfer639 excuse me sir! Why you men put all your mistakes on women's back.. by the way even in tajakistan you won't find a woman who can handle your thoughts 👌
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
@@ferielbersos yes I can 😏 women there make a pledge before God to be one with their men and families... they don't just bail on them so they can sleep with random guys, they just work on their marriage. I love musIim women ❤️ siggh 😍
@AudreyBedene6 ай бұрын
When ? ! Or is not love .
@yrenalantigua3012 жыл бұрын
We don't want to be unhappiness anymore.this is now about you
@elianaatner8065 жыл бұрын
Amo esse filme já assisti várias vezes 😍😍😍
@MsChemicalEngineer Жыл бұрын
Later in the movie he gets with a lady with a baby!
@john1728674 жыл бұрын
A woman's emotional roller coaster: "Stay seated and keep hands and feet inside the car throughout the ride." 🤢
@danielsg1283 жыл бұрын
2:15 to 2:26 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@trumpstroll74385 жыл бұрын
Dr Manhattan.
@remindernotetoself63823 жыл бұрын
When you marry a very insecure man , divorce is the best option!
@remindernotetoself63823 жыл бұрын
Freedoms, thanks son.
@nina15222 жыл бұрын
Yeah, insecure, and, more to the point, immature. Ain't got time for that!
@vlad-igor2 жыл бұрын
Then why did you marry one? You didn't know they were insecure at all before in the relationship or you just met them for only a week before you married them? You just gotten to know them??🤷🏻♂ (also, don't get married with someone who's more 'free spirited' than you, cos they look exciting at first cos they're unpredictable but you'll gonna live with it forever if you marry them.)
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
@@vlad-igor Exactly, this is why men don't want to marry anymore. For men, divorce is humiliating. You lose your possessions, children and love of your life. It drives a lot of men to suicide. When I'm ready to get married it will be to a woman from a country with values. Instead of these western women.
@otiliamanuelajurj Жыл бұрын
@@vlad-igor Some men there outside are wolves in sheep's clothing. Mine showed his real self after his old lover divorced and they wanted to be together. Just then I found out that I was his second option from the start.
@debbiealford44836 жыл бұрын
She can not complete you! I love quitters at "not meant to be" marriages.....WASTE of time!
@yrenalantigua3012 жыл бұрын
Divorce scene
@madsaltyskills4 жыл бұрын
Her epiphany phase, she still wants fun with Alpha and not stay with her Beta #RedPill
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
That's exactly what it is. I have an "alpha" friend who has also been divorced (losing his possessions, children and home) while his ex sleeps with other alphas in his home. #MGTOW
@Elii694203 жыл бұрын
2:16 ;)
@babysab80134 жыл бұрын
I get her 100% He seems clingy and needy
@skottjordan64312 жыл бұрын
He just accepted. Like he has to be sorry for his real feelings 🫠
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
So when men are in love with the woman that is destroying/divorcing him = he's needy and clingy... uuuughhhh never marry a western woman
@Sarah2766026 жыл бұрын
why does her husband have to be a smug?
@jonmunyon1284 жыл бұрын
Because portraying him as anything close to mentally healthy would have destroyed the contrived message of this film at the outset. By framing him as a tool, the women who watched this film and embraced its message could justify their approval of it by reminding themselves that, "at least her husband was a moron."
@FireAngelChris4 жыл бұрын
Jon Munyon Lol spot on
@TheKatherina444 жыл бұрын
@@jonmunyon128 he wasn't a moron. He is just different than her.
@vlad-igor2 жыл бұрын
Why did she marry a smug then?? 🤷🏻♂ is this forced marriage? (till death do us part)
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
@@TheKatherina44 If he was "just different than her" why marry him. Why waste his time and break his heart?
@yrenalantigua3012 жыл бұрын
I am a falure I sucked at fracking it
@elvira24482 жыл бұрын
He's way too clingy.
@soulsurfer639 Жыл бұрын
Uh, I think he loves his wife and would rather work on the marriage rather than just divorce (80% of American women initiate the divorces).
@user-to6wd3nb3t3 ай бұрын
@@soulsurfer639that's because women carry the brunt of the workload or suffer domestic abuse the most
@ardenvangellis37074 жыл бұрын
Tipical Americans
@aquapiscesg8708 ай бұрын
What’s the song/melody playing during this scene 2:49
@queenofatragedy15 күн бұрын
did you find the melody if so pls tell me too🥹
@queenofatragedy15 күн бұрын
I found it with some research I can tell you if you still wanna know