Elderbrook & Rudimental - Something About You (Official Video)

Download / Stream: Parlophone.lnk.to/SomethingAbo...
Director: Luke Davies
Production Company: Academy Films
Executive Producer: Leah Joyce
Producer: Georgina Smith
Production Assistant: Ella Girardot
DOP: Krzysztof Trojnar
Choreographer: Jacob Holme
Wardrobe Stylist: Hannah Hopkins
Production Design: Kelly Sinclair Smith
Casting: Hammond Cox & Sillis Movement
Edit House: Stitch
Editor: Charlie Von Rotberg
Post Production: The Mill
Colourist: Thomas Mangham
Sound House: 750mph
With thanks to ARRI Rental & Pro Light
Cast:
Michael Socha
Ishmail Aaron
Mason Connolly
Robbie Curran
Christopher Hardcastle
Nick Marvel
Kevin McGreevy
Steven Pascua
Stefan Race
Dean Street

[@kieranhicks2772]

The Men's suicide prevention hotline and programs needs to use/show this song and video in their campaigns. As a struggling man with depression and anxiety, this spoke to me on another level. Hands down one of the most incredible music videos I've ever seen.

[@brishtiteveja]

Feel ya mate.

[@purple_wolfie_]

💝💌💝💌💝💌💝

[@partypiano0729]

Lifeline Australia 13 11 14

[@275satori275]

Too right.

[@devALLjapan]

I’m so glad that this spoke to you. I tried to show it to a mate with depression and he was completely bamboozled by it and didn’t understand the symbology and meaning at all.

[@jacobjones1896]

This is, without a doubt, the most powerful music video advocating mental health in men I have ever watched.

[@gavva2010]

Yep, I'd agree with that 100%. This music video really strikes a key. Nicely done

[@fxandmeow]

TRUE

[@marcellopalazzo638]

Agreed

[@krimenation1901]

Rudimental have been working in the last years with real life situations with such a powerful lovely attention! i love their music but even more their interest in communicate something strong and try to wake people's mind up. That's simply amazing and show that they do care about the rest of the world. Impressive and intense. Loved to see Elderbrook working with them on something like this!!

[@bretkindell6887]

@@krimenation1901 cool info krime nation. There work is tremendous.

[@liamjacobramirez6533]

2024 anyone??

[@thomasmunden7319]

Shit I just discovered them last week and it's all I want to listen to. Every single song I click on is 🔥 That's how stupid radio is that music like this exists and I'm not aware of it

[@maganpsych6862]

Me!

[@Tonyhouse1168]

right here too

[@user-bf9tg2ms6l]

Me too

[@user-np2hc8ic3r]

Я😂 очень круто!!!!❤

[@royboxing5421]

They all know the dance because they all know the sadness and pain. They don't need to practice the dance because they already know it instinctively. It's a really powerful music video

[@Anth13]

100% ❤

[@MichaelMetzler-wp3vk]

Sounds right to me

[@MichaelMetzler-wp3vk]

"Same old walk and dance."

[@hottboie203]

My interpretation is very similar, it's a men's support group men aren't known to be open and willing to talk emotions, micheal with his brow knit with anxiety n pain awkwardly stands up to share but his share isn't verbal it's his dance n he starts very hesitantly n scared it won't be understood, his face changes when Mr blue jeans stands and by performing the dance with Michael shows he understood and can relate, then as the rest stand up as they build up their confidence n know that they feel the same but aren't as afraid anymore to share all join in, then when they stop and pair up to me it shows that as different n opposite each pair seems to be (age appearances background culture color etc) that we can all find common ground and understanding in each other if we just try n be open with each other, then they finish strong and the group ends but Michael u see is left feeling a bit more hopeful and validated

[@jessicareed5144]

I listen to this before therapy and do the dance to help give me courage to tell her my story

[@paladin4poets851]

I adore this ... - it just feels like they are speaking to men being allowed to be both strong and vulnerable!!!

[@ybn91]

Paladin 4 Poets 🥰 yes they can be both

[@notnow2364]

😀😇💕💕💕

[@mickmalins8697]

Nailed it.

[@WilmMyburgh]

Well said!

[@enigmatheinfj5346]

Vulnerable is a strong trait.

[@barneymccomas]

Who's the freaking genius who thought this up, and the amazing choreographer who brought it to life?!

[@Edualdo_here]

Choreographer: Jacob Holme

[@oshgraham16]

The replacement: with Keanu Reeves

[@ysal6570]

@@Edualdo_here Jacob Holme might really know a thing or two about depression

[@faithvang4786]

I'm sorry but why is this genius? I feel like I am missing something, I genuinely want to know.

[@markaki7337]

Me😎

[@daddiofadio]

My first KZbin comment ever. And I'm a 43-year-old man who has had a KZbin account for years and watched probably thousands of videos. This video is perfect in every way. Simple. Subtle. Powerful. From the first seconds of the first viewing, it has continued to move me like no other video. Thank you for this.

[@Helenaorange]

Respect to you sir .

[@Tonyhouse1168]

💙 same, brother.

[@lorraineanne7821]

No more stigma on addiction and mental health .. seek help to everyone who struggles ❤️🙏

[@user-zc6qt6co6c]

My brother passed away 3-weeks ago, caused by his addiction to alcohol. I had introduced him to Elderbrook and Rudimental as a way to remain positive and to never give up. John was 55-years old and had everything to live for. I will miss him forever.

[@robertoacevedo3805]

Condolences.

[@robertoacevedo3805]

Condolences.

[@robertoacevedo3805]

Condolences.

[@leesfishroom5985]

Hi will live on with you bro. He is with you he probably loved this tune you showed him. Hang in there mate and im sorry for your brother

[@alanhaley4800]

So very sorry for your loss. We do what we can, sometimes we just can't save the people we love. He is not in pain any longer.

[@euan6495]

Keep fighting boys. You’re not weak for feeling depressed or even suicidal. You’re recognising you want more from life and you’re capable of it. Let’s get it

[@kaspermichel2589]

Euan let’s get it!! Let’s live b4 we die!!

[@Toms89_ST]

Hit home this song massively especially the year I'm having and reading all these comments, and yours Euan has hit me like a brick Gonna keep fighting and blessed to know I'm not the only bloke feeling like this and the encouragement yous are all given 💙 #itsoknottobeok

[@euan6495]

That’s it. For me the last ten years have been brutal. Seems like every time it can’t get any worse, it does. Topping myself really would be an easy way out at the moment But as Chris Martin says, if you never try you’ll never know. Take care mate

[@ometliebo9265]

awesome 🙏🏾😝

[@kaspermichel2589]

Sam Toms with more bricks we can build a solid wall...

[@torijwilcox]

This video is the kind of video that deserves awards.

[@alessandradagos2853]

Absolutely

[@gedmoore1671]

Love it!

[@edisonnieto5563]

Wow

[@benjaminstokes3936]

Yep, it's beautiful.

[@kieranhicks2772]

💯 👌

[@craigj1782]

The dance is simply a metaphor for everyone letting their emotions out after bottling them up for so long, and it's amazing, very touching

[@marieecott7124]

🙏❤️ so true .

[@rickarmbruster8788]

for me its another metaphor, its like being ashamed, not enough before getting together and letting it all out starting to get comfortable and enjoyng the ride, a very Beatyful and expressive coeography

[@awesomesauce3110]

What?! No! No way?! For real? Wow!!

[@dimplegaming33]

@@awesomesauce3110 Might be obvious to some, might take a decade for others to finally face their problems head on.

[@steventonkinson]

i see it as. not everybody knows the steps at first but as the song goes on everybody in their own time learn what steps need to be taken

[@lucygiles3337]

That moment at 2.05 when he realises more of them have joined him dancing and he smiles slightly? That hits deep, such an amazingly beautiful video. So expressive 🩵

[@IneishaIgnites]

Noticed that part today ❤

[@partypiano0729]

2:05 just to make it easier to search

[@clairesmith7398]

Love Michael Socha, such a good actor. ❤

[@barxat_6820]

Кто-то остро пострадал, по сааброжениям совести...!

[@Mr_Reb3llion]

I love the message of this video. Society burdens men with a false expectation of masculinity. Let the burdens slip from our shoulders, be yourself and lets dance in our masculinity. Strong and vulnerable!

[@lordbarron3352]

English teachers be like

[@ceejless4589]

Ok pal. Let's see how far acting vulnerable gets you in this life. Forget all the nice comments on this video from teen girls and young women saying they love a man who can express themselves. I'll give it 10 years before they need a real man and scoff at the idea of a emotional man. Lol

[@omitakura]

CEEJLESS You seem narrow minded.

[@BennettParsons1]

CEEJLESS you’re right. Being too “vulnerable”, mainly with women will do nothing but slap you in the friend zone.

[@moonbeeps]

@@BennettParsons1 aawh you must be atleast 12 years old, how cute.

[@emilywebb4970]

My partner was incredibly lucky to be part of this video and I'm so proud of him every time I watch it....❤

[@yenco9649]

Emily Webb which one is your partner? I’m curious

[@martinspencer4477]

you should be very proud....which one is he?

[@emilywebb4970]

@@martinspencer4477 The guy who is the last to get up to dance ❤ x

[@emilywebb4970]

@@yenco9649 The counsellor speaks to him at the beginning of the video and asks him if he wants to start today's session.....and he's the last guy to get up and dance.

[@martinspencer4477]

Emily Webb...respect...Looked like great fun

[@1tgarrett]

I just by chanced found this video- I have watched it 5 times and cry every single time. I deal with depression and have lost friends to addiction- this video speaks to me on so many levels- I can't thank you enough for this.

[@raechelannehughes3276]

Sending you the biggest tightest hugs ❤️

[@matthiasf1789]

I send you all the best!! You are doing great, keep going, better times are ahead of you, I'm sure about this! :)

[@agnieszkaduda2071]

Please dont give up..life is beautifull, dark sides but then after the sun is coming for everyone Gretings from PL

[@random_yagge2514]

I love the casting of the video. They chose people of all ages, races and physical condition. How each one of them joins the dance it is a great metaphor as to how looking for help is ok, no matter who you are. What an excellent video

[@mikiomahoney1]

Love your view, totally agree, having lost some male friends, males friends family members etc, it's such a wonderful video,...it is indeed an excellent video...let's face it, music and dance is so freeing, let alone a way of communicating. 💙

[@user-np2hc8ic3r]

Я женщина,и я "без вредных привычек"😂как у нас в России это называется,но всегда сочувствую людям страдающим от своих демонов...и так зашёл этот клип...круто❤❤❤❤❤

[@505DGuy]

There's that tiny smile at 2:05 is like he realises he's not alone

[@Strongasmeat]

I've seen the smile, but as I read your comment that exact moment was on the screen.

[@channic1603]

😍 bless him x

[@1hayes1]

I agree. Special moment and some damn fine acting.

[@subcast750]

it perfectly describes how men are conditioned to bottle up their feelings and deal with things like depression and addiction on their own. When each man in the video stands up, the first thing he does is a strong-man pose, which to me is a metaphor for the image most men feel they have to project - strength, confidence, invulnerability - and then, slowly, they start to warm up to lowering their armor to dance, which is a metaphor for sharing their feelings with the other men. Once all of them are dancing, you start to see them become a little more confident and even a couple small smiles on their faces because they realize they're not alone, there is hope, and that things can get better. ~KyleEcoyote

[@Thelakillas]

read the producers mind like a fucking book imo worth the small read

[@noface7679]

Its literally just displaying fragile masculinity being toxic af and its fine to show emotions as a male. lmfao.

[@garrisongoth6421]

Really good analysis. Bravo.

[@iloveemmamyers]

This is a fucking great message

[@alkrugman5421]

great interpretation. before i read it i was like 'this video is so gay', then realized I too was thinking of myself as macho and totally missed the message of the video. it is super awkward to watch though

[@codelbluntz6044]

3 years later and this music video still makes me cry everytime

[@dream-lp6vk]

true, nowadays 90% of videos are about tits, girls, etc but this is such a beautiful video that has a lot to share

[@TheRavenfish9]

Same here. Every single time.

[@juliawheeler8428]

Me too.

[@tillykathy]

Likewise, there is no other choice. See it, feel it

[@Xillasun]

Same. Even if I watch it again and again.

[@hollowsgirl88]

I love this video so much. I can’t count how many times I’ve come back here to watch it again.

[@matthiasf1789]

Same for me, it is just perfect! :)

[@pawebozek8606]

“Crying doesn't mean you are weak. It just means you have been strong for too long” - I love this quote

[@cheyennechristinelivinglife]

I LOVE that!!!!

[@jdottdeestv8149]

Itatchi Uchiha be like tho

[@deniscarrara5257]

I don't like the association "not crying=being strong" as it is the societal/cultural construct that pushes people to bottle up emotions. Strength is also the ability of tapping into that emotions before they build up to a breaking point. Empower yourself by embracing the human complex, our flaws and vulnerabilities.

[@Meinkevlar]

So true.

[@jasonrushton5991]

So true M8, from the late 70s, till finding true love in 03 to this day.

[@Pick4217]

I can’t tell you how hard this song hit me. When he asks Michael to share with group, he begins. His words are visualized by dance. The rest of the group know the dance moves because they lived the same suffering that Michael has. They dance close together because their life depends on it. I was brought to tears while watching this because it really shows that group therapy works. We’ve been there and so much I is understood between each other that is unspoken. The choreography is absolutely perfect. Top 5 music videos of all time for me.

[@keishasanchez9543]

Totally agree

[@boatsandstars6663]

👏👏👏 excellent explanation

[@Dipstickdude09]

Yes ❤

[@stanley325]

I totally agree, the first time I watched the video I cried as soon as Michael stood and began to dance, I had to watch it again as soon as it stopped, I then watched it every day for about a month, because I wanted to connect more fully with it, I don't know why? I think the fact that as a gay man I saw how straight men have to bottle up there vulnerability and label it weakness is so unfair, the part where they dance together was so powerful, for me it meant that every man needs human contact and a shoulder to lean/rest on and that doing so isn't weak, it's about humanity. After watching this video I wanted to reach out to every man in my family to say "I know you have pain and I want to offer my shoulder".

[@debbiemumford]

@@stanley325 Thats truly beautiful. Loved the song but never saw the video until today. That along with your comment made me feel someting I hadn't in a long while -hope. Thank you.

[@johnsuarez2353]

I am currently writing a paper on the societal effect on Men's Mental Health. When being told we can use a song as a source this immediately came to mind. I'm so excited to share this with more people who may have never seen it or heard it. I love all the messages and interpretations in the comments! I don't know you but i love all of you for your bravery and choosing to be vulnerable on this platform. Continue to be strong and thank for also choosing today as another in your struggles. A big thank you to all the people involved to make this happen, the power of song and dance continues to change the world!

[@Bill.R.124]

I'm sober 2 years this month. This works on so many levels. The simple set, catchy music, angst in the first guy's eyes (especially), then the reluctant "tough" image they are all exhibiting slowly accepting the "reality" (in this case doing the dance). It goes to a whole new powerful level when these straight guys break out into couples, just craving for the comfort of the other drunk/addict's support and love. So powerful.

[@angelanelson2275]

So so powerful ❤️😍 Congratulations on Your Sobriety.... I know it's not easy!! God Bless You Always!! Thank you for sharing

[@jameseastwood4984]

Well done Bill. Yes isn't it an incredible film, I think you've summed it up well.

[@lokiehunter]

You are awesome thank you for sharing

[@Novalionessful]

awesome explanation

[@traviscooper2205]

Exactly what I was getting be at in my post. Way better worded. Congratulations.

[@girlvibes3561]

We all need a support system. Be there for someone who needs a reminder of who they are so we can ALL shine

[@djthedawn3]

Girl Vibes 🙏

[@notnow2364]

😊😇💕💕💕

[@jajean2705]

oh love it.. ill share this on my facebook account.. 😊😊

[@juliad9947]

I love people who bring out the best in others and help them SHINE. Best wishes to all!

[@TheDivoture]

First, and only music video that's ever made me tear up. Every part of this video strikes a chord for me. 0:00 - 0:08 : Reluctance is real. Took me 5 years to finally realize that I needed help, and that "manning up" wasn't going to solve anything. Taking that initial walk through the door is basically an admittance that you're vulnerable, and it takes a lot considering how you're at odds with your pride. 0:18 - 0:30 : No one wants to talk about it - especially those struggling with mental health. It's not exactly something easy to bring up to friends, or family. There's times you feel no one will care, there's times you think no one will relate, there's times you feel you'd be a burden to everyone, there's times you feel that people would look down on you. It's not like you can interject mid-conversation with friends "Oh yeah, I'm depressed, and I dread existence at any capacity." Being someone that has the reputation of trying to make everyone laugh all the time, it feels selfish to jeopardize the influence you have on your friends. 0:50 - 1:00 : "I'm a man, I'm strong"... Dancing is an expressive art. I think the flexing gesture coupled with the dancing says "I'm a man, I'm strong, and that should not hold me back from being expressive, or emotional." Toxic masculinity is garbage, and I think it's the source of a lot of the mental health issues amongst men today. It's instilled into our minds, and I feel like there's an obligation to fight it for the betterment of everyone else. 1:20 - 1:50: There's no feeling like meeting someone going through similar struggles - the first guy to say "you're not alone, man." 1:50 - 3:00: Reluctance again with joining in. Again, It takes a lot out of you to take that first step, but it's easier when you're not the only one. The foundation of any camaraderie is struggle. 3:00 - 3:20 : Fuck this "macho-alpha-masculinity-can't-be-emotional-around-other-dudes-bullshit" mentality man, I just need a damn shoulder to cry on. Gender, sexuality is irrelevant at this point - it's human to human, soul to soul, struggle to struggle. Being able to ditch that stigma feels liberating. 3:20 - 3:50 : Instant change in tone, body language, facial expressions, etc. Sometimes all it takes is reassurance, a spark of support, or a shared moment to help someone push through another day. 3:50 - 4:06 : Going back to our lives like nothing happened. Edit: So happy to see that this has created a positive effect on many people. Granted, I'm not a scholarly art interpreter or anything - just wanted to share my personal connection to the video, and it's amazing how many people relate!

[@mdrjayson]

This is intense and very powerful. Thank you for this.

[@mihaicaulea]

I was prepared to write something similar but I'm glad you did that better! Awesome!

[@BryanAiello]

Problem is the help is lacking.

[@BryanAiello]

Damn this got me going again: 3:20 - 3:50 : Instant change in tone, body language, facial expressions, etc. Sometimes all it takes is reassurance, a spark of support, or a shared moment to help someone push through another day. Same place in the video actually.

[@GERONIMORE]

Dar H STEP by STEP 👁❤️ it. Thank you...💝

[@mikesager4629]

As a father of boys - I revisit this video from time to time to remember the importance of men's mental health. Great work Elderbrook - I think you have helped a lot of people here.

[@fraiserbarns]

Sober 6 months. The messages this video and song gives is amazing Edit: 8 months now still going strong Edit: oh shit 1 year and 4 months Edit: got depressed then happy again, but 2 years 4 months now.

[@matthiasf1789]

Keep it up bro! You are heading towards the right direction! :)

[@coltonkrunkton5660]

proud of you bro

[@jacobcouchene4619]

Keep strong

[@jameseastwood4984]

Top G

[@chrismeyou]

Smashing it Brother!!! You got this

[@X360HotSwap]

never in my life have i ever wanted to learn a dance routine until now

[@birde7421]

X360HotSwap go for it!! ❤️

[@toriladybird511]

It was AWESOME I agree I want to learn it too when my shoulder heals!

[@SuperFilip333]

SAMEEEE I LOVE IT

[@untacarter4577]

Righy ?!

[@MissPooslie]

RIGHT?! plus it doesn't look that hard!

[@davidclark2702]

Why did this bring me to tears? The love? The intimacy? The brotherhood? What a great representation of what men can be and do for each other. I'm so glad my friend sent me a link to this video. BRAVO!

[@davidclark2702]

@@elderbrook-music Agreed. I speak often to groups about love and what it can do. I plan to show this to people as an example. I really appreciate your message!

[@zimzimzalabim]

It's a fun video and the song is catchy.

[@SGWV]

zimzimzalabim totally agree

[@GiorniVenibato]

It’s a homosexual anonymous group

[@user-db7om5wu5j]

@@GiorniVenibato don't do this, don't shit on the effort made here to enable men (straight or otherwise) to *actually acknowledge, experience and celebrate HUMAN emotions*. Watch the video again. Force yourself to see the beauty of empowering your fellow human beings.

[@MrTimmyvee]

This is, without question, the MOST beautiful music video that has ever been made. When I first saw it during lockdown, I blubbed, a lot. Now I can watch it and just smile. Thank you Elderbrook, Rudimental, the producers of the vid, and the actors. Just superb.

[@Matisse_Famke]

You made me cry, it's a beautiful, emotional video. I come back to this video and watch it, I now weep with sheer love but it's striking for so many to hear to watch. I send it to people at times, but unfortunately they don't seem to grasp it's resonance and vitality

[@vivkelly1367]

I'm a psychologist and I run therapy groups and I also have been in them as a client, this video makes me cry - it's a lovely song but it's elevated to something so meaningful by the physical performances here.

[@that1guy299]

I don't really comment on videos and I've been keeping my anxiety and depression a secret for several years now, but this video and comments made me tear up a bit. I'm a 30 year old male who still struggles with stress, anxiety, and depression and there are times where I feel like I'm worthless and no one cares about me, but I just somehow find a way to keep fighting and stay alive. Music like this has helped me tremendously as well as surrounding myself with family and those with those who really care about me. I just want to thank the makers of this video for putting a smile on my face and giving me hope.

[@FreeZDen]

you're not alone mate. hold on in there. we might be miles away but i know what you mean.

[@tifft520]

[@luvley2698]

[@johanna9729]

You definitely aren’t alone. You are strong to share this.

[@cristian6766]

Dude, i'm 32 and i feel the same way... It started at around 31 for me... I feel burnt out... Music helps a lot!!!

[@aljoschapendo4131]

I'm a man and have tears in my eyes. And I'm allowed to have tears in my eyes 🙂

[@zawitherockin]

Aljoscha P. I cried so hard

[@korisx]

Yes you are 🙂

[@aljoschapendo4131]

zawitherockin And it’s fine🙂

[@technodiscolovers9050]

It takes a real man to have tears in his eyes

[@JulianaMarcelinobaus]

❤️💪🏽

[@joshuafuller8121]

I love this video. One man in a group of men finds the courage to show his vulnerability. The rest eventually find their courage and do the same. It makes me emotional. Every. Single. Time.

[@TheDandelionMind]

Probably one of the most emotional music videos I've ever seen. The way he starts dancing, unsure and not in full swing. When he stops he's worried if he should've done it (open up) and how others would react. There's a reassurance when the second guy joins. At 1:50 another guy sees them and brings the courage to do the same, another sees him and do the same, and their movements getting more expressive and sharper. The amount of detail I keep finding each time I rewatch is amazing.

[@bubbagene145]

The part that struck me the most is the steps of the first guy. His foot work is so light and timid. Amazing expression of nervousness.

[@Sircoop8700]

Think it's suppose to represent the fear of being vulnerable

[@mich4808]

His name is Michael socha he is one of my favourite actors

[@SurcamStances]

That actor straight kills it. His face before he stands up....I feel that shit in my soul!

[@CarCrazyRDM]

Totally agree @Marcus Turner. The change in emotion and confidence relayed completely by his body language and facial expressions from the beginning of the video compared to the end is phenomenal. The look between he and the Hawaiian (?) guy at 2:00 is also very well played. Great song. Killer video.

[@sunsukbyun8269]

It is hard to dance

[@yessir5205]

I heard this song on the radio the other day. I could only vaguely remember “there’s something about you, Keeping me sober” but I can just relate to that so much. I have a boyfriend that’s kept me six months clean so far. I’m feeling really emotional right now so if you took the time to read this, thank you.

[@sirskorge]

Not to be a negative nancy, but if things go wrong: Stay with your clean attitude. Beleive me, you don't want to blow it all on some puny feeling you have for a while. Stay strong, NO MATTER WHAT! (I ofc hope you will live happily ever after or how tf that saying goes

[@yessir5205]

sirskorge it’s really hard to stay clean, I get withdrawals of the smell, the feeling and the taste in my mouth, but definitely. I know Dow tainted substance abuse is and don’t plan on abusing it at all. Thank you for taking the time to write that. It means a lot to know that you care (:

[@sirskorge]

@@yessir5205 I had the perfect gf, my mind went boom, I ended the relationship because I thought she would take too much damage from being with me as the fucked up thing I was. Never let feelings get in the way of self preservation!

[@quigglyquartermane3923]

im glad to see that you weren't the 13th step, and that is not sarcasm.

[@ramonpineda7514]

Bless you and bless your boyfriend

[@victorrivas2350]

Seeing this video so late after its release. I'm a father to two beautiful young kiddos. I'm a teacher, a man, a father, a veteran, a child who grew up in a family where males weren't the best role model for me, all the while the women in the family kept the family going and surviving. It's hard knowing what is masculine and the tipping point for toxicity when there's so much mixed information from men and women alike.. I personally struggle with this coupled with ADHD and depression. This video really gave me another perspective. Beautiful video.

[@matthiasf1789]

All the best for you and your kids! I'm sure you are going to be a good role model!

[@Tonyhouse1168]

All love brother. You got this.

[@rugbyfan0025]

I always have to fight off tears when the first guy is looking so alone and vulnerable and then he sees the second guy stepping up to support him. Powerful stuff, thanks to everyone who was involved in the song and music video!

[@doubledippin8971]

There is something about this, I don't know what, but it makes me feel like I'm not alone

[@MariannSierra]

You aren't. We are all connected. Try to remember you are part of the whole collective. Peace & love.

[@Themarcumo]

Same

[@mj_and_company]

nope your definitely not alone! right there with ya!

[@mattbroughton4940]

You aint alone mate.

[@avatarlnwza0076]

SAME

[@maddraconian7336]

This masterpiece should have a billion views

[@ashrafb9137]

agreed

[@scmille2]

Well, it's almost a quarter of the way there...

[@JadedeaJade]

I've been doing my part by watching it over and over again.

[@nikhilsaju2053]

@@scmille2 A billion is 1000 millions. Approximately 40x.

[@aulaurademitrah7012]

This song got me through the worst time of my life. Forever in love.....2024❤

[@mistieparker935]

Struggling with my sobriety right. Listening to this song over and over again is helping me take it minute by minute.

[@hollycooper8536]

You can do this xx

[@davendaniels4203]

You’ve got this and you’re not ever alone.

[@anthonytorres4926]

It’s poetic how reluctant they were to join the dance they wanted so badly to be a part of, and how it just took one for them to discover the courage they had all along. This was a powerful anthem heard loud and clear.

[@pozlatkojurakic6536]

May be a bit too soon after a long

[@Aliwilde1973]

Bloody love this video. Moved emotionally and physically. Wish the world had a bit more of Elderbrook & Rudimental love in it...

[@notnow2364]

😀😇💕💕💕

[@rodstewartstewart5910]

Strange you say that. Every time I watch this, I end up crying. Something special about this one.

[@untillthat]

It’s something incredible and powerful when a song can uplift you no matter how you’re feeling.

[@lblincoe2094]

What I love most about this video is that these men seemingly have nothing in common. There are young men, old men, athletic men, tall men, "dorky" men, all colors, all sizes, basically a group that you wouldn't expect to see together. You don't expect them to have any similarities with one another, just by looking at them. Yet, they all know the dance. They have something in common that we can't see, something much more unifying than the superficial characteristics that are visible to us. It makes you realize that we're all much more interconnected than we appear, we're all going through the same things, even when it doesn't seem like it. The entire concept is so simple, yet so smart. Beautifully done!

[@brycenxg]

My breath literally caught when they started to Waltz with their heads on each others shoulders. Beautiful. We need to normalize affection between men just the same as we normalize affection between women.

[@AivisKleinbergs]

Will never happen.

[@thanksnplease.8190]

Never say never Anything is possible possibilities are endless The Love in this video shows... no matter your gender your age your race. Together we can progress. It's good to communicate Lol🎶💂

[@ndnrb_]

Bring camaraderie back

[@davidw3534]

Of course it will happen. It’s important to acknowledge how threatening male-to-male intimacy and affection is for a lot of men, so there will be plenty of men (and possibly women) who will be against it, but it is basically because they are intensely scared of it.

[@DrakeDark18]

We're all human first.

[@annabethchase2569]

What I love most about this video is their facial expressions. The subtle changes in their demeanor as they start to realize that they're not the only ones that feel that way, that they're not alone in their suffering; and the level of confidence that reassurance builds is perfectly conveyed through that. And believe it or not, just watching that actually cleared the stress that I'm currently facing. Bravo to the director, the actors, the artists, and anyone else involved in the project - for putting in the time and effort into making a video that can transcend its message beyond our computer/phone screen.

[@legionwalker6157]

anotger amen for you to word that so perfectly

[@mariavez7026]

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[@4Solon]

@@josephsavage1540 Feed your head is a great video. But it's definitely got a different message. Feed your head is a fantasy where he imagines all the people who have hurt him have come together, and understand his music. They are very similar stylistically though.

[@inhanh5019]

👌👌👌 Pure video, No Ads #PureTuber

[@joykriston4920]

I think I could watch this a million times, and it still gives me chills as if it was for the first time seeing it. Powerful

[@vexinglex4996]

Too often we tell men to grieve alone. We're done with that. Shared grief is often better than dying in misery. What a beautiful song and video. Thank you.

[@paulamery507]

Michael Socha. Probably one of the most underrated actors of his generation.

[@cclcgirl]

Agreed

[@XavierGaminguk]

You say that like he’s in a lot of stuff

[@lulac1991]

I was like omg! Michael Socha from Being Human!!! ❤️❤️

[@boncreationsza]

But this is Jake Gyllenhaal??

[@mysticapril5618]

@@boncreationsza similar. Hence my Donnie darko comment 🙂

[@kaspermichel2589]

Hey 👋 I’m 45 and a mess... sober for 10 months 🤗 music means everything to me ! Love this song ❤️ Let’s live B4 we die!!!

[@yassineagalmos3158]

kasper michel keep on going we’re really proud of you ❤️

[@kaspermichel2589]

Yassine Agalmos thx 🙏 also quit smoking 3 months today 🤗 Bless you and stay healthy!!

[@TheCheese30]

Well done man ur not alone ok 👌 keep going u will get there

[@kaspermichel2589]

TheCheese30 thx man 🙏

[@euan6495]

Well done mate

[@PavitMaharaj]

This Video is Absolutely Beautiful... As brothers, we need to get used to the idea that we have brothers out there that need our help... even though we cannot help ourselves because healing another heals Ourselves.

[@anuranangogoi9741]

I struggled with myself for 5 years. All alone. Didn't seek help from anyone, didn't speak to anyone, didn't take counselling and didn't consume any substance. I remember locking myself up in my room and not going out much, looking down at the balcony from my 15th floor apartment multiple times, but life is more precious and I'm glad about my choices. Lately, I feel much better, everything shall pass. Just don't give up, it's all in the head. -AG,28

[@minigiant8998]

the real message is to seek help. no one should have to bear a burden alone. depressed people make poor choices.

[@TimothyChenAllen]

I’ve been sober 26 years. I can’t watch this without tearing up. How hard it was to share my emotions at first, and how essential it’s become. Great video

[@moonchild6157]

💯👍🏼

[@garethhogg2355]

Welldone brother

[@waleedakhtar3437]

More power to you brother

[@shedwashington3661]

15 years sober! I tear up too.

[@gregorcameron8584]

Good on you 👏 life is tough sometimes, hope you're still going strong.

[@jackgamer5429]

The actor's facial expression is the best. Congratulations.

[@thanksnplease.8190]

That glance at 2:05

[@lustymaiden]

He's such a great actor! You should check out "This Is England" and its TV series

[@josephsavage1540]

Check out Paul kalkbrenners feed your head if you think this is good. I'm convinced they stole the idea, and the original has so much more emotion

[@annoir]

@@thanksnplease.8190 That one gets me every time.

[@cacahuetes3133]

He plays one of Robin Hood's companions in Once Upon A Time !😁

[@daviddobsch]

The more I listen to this, the more I love it. I was always hooked, but the production by @elderbrook is just excellent.

[@ianhamilton530]

I am a mental health professional and I feel this should be a powerful message for the support of men.....

[@MrCorrndog]

That slight smile at 2:05 always gets me. The feeling of not being alone has such a strong impact on someones life yet can be so subtle at the same time.

[@allvalley]

100%

[@rphanmurphy8385]

It's a brief but bright little spark of hope and redemption.

[@MrHardbody2009]

always a strong influence to keep moving forward

[@aradoxxmusic]

True man

[@frankjackson2359]

Now that's therapy right there XXX

[@notnow2364]

😀😇💕💕💕👏💪

[@pioter2525]

Would attend.

[@Loki2612]

“Crying doesn't mean you are weak. It just means you have been strong for too long”. And we are stronger together

[@wintermute6761]

I think I needed to read this comment today.

[@danielleblanc8302]

Grown ass man in full tears here! This video is as good as going to a meeting. 💪🕺

[@alexanderadams9008]

As a man who has been trying to deal with childhood trauma. After using drugs and lying to deal with it, burning so many bridges, sabotaging relationships, I finally found the strength to reach out and get help.. thank you for this amazing song and video..

[@CK_Loves_Tea]

H* k yeah, Alexander Adams. Look at you go!

[@pangie914]

That is awesome! Keep growing, keep loving yourself brother!

[@agalincalgary]

So glad you got help... stay strong!!! My oldest passed away almost 4 years ago to a drug overdose and he did all of the things you did... except find the strength to find help. Wishing you many happy years of freedom!

[@sc0undrel704]

Janet K sorry for your loss ❤️❤️❤️

[@shadyshaz]

Keep on keeping on

[@jasonforrester2043]

The feels in this song for me... the pure hurt on his face, they are all there for heartache and pain. They all come together as one to forget there pain and find comfort in not being alone and exposed. Men need to do this for eachother ❤

[@Mikebornthisway]

Think its more people battling addiction hence them being at an AA meeting. And the lyrics (There's something bout you, keepin' me sober) these people are fighting addictions and when the video starts they're all depressed and don't want to share. Then when the guy gets up and put his arms up that's symbolises strength and courage. The others seen him doing the dance and were courageous enough to get up and join in. Such a powerful video and lyrics 🖤

[@notnow2364]

😊😇💕💕💕

[@ReallyUnexplainable]

@@Mikebornthisway I don't know. I'd say it's about opening up with each other, and letting people through our defenses. Look at the first guy, his moves are slow, small, and he is worried hat he will be judget. The very first move is a show of his muscles. He doesn't expect to be understood, but then someone else stands up, and he gets more comfortable. Then more, and more, and the guy gets happier and even smiles in the middle of the video. In the end, there is that sly embarrassment that men have after they open up to each other. I think the song and the video try to give out two different meanings.

[@ZiamIsBrilliam]

ReallyUnexplainable I think if you put both those ideas together it also makes sense, they’re in a meeting and have to find the strength to be vulnerable and open as it is such a challenged thing for stereotypical men. Anyways I like both of your guys deductions on the video, either way it’s beautiful

[@ReallyUnexplainable]

@@ZiamIsBrilliam It really is. I like the song very much, but the video is sjust a tiny bit better for me.

[@misstraveler3862]

This song came out 3 years ago. Exactly when I discovered Elderbrook. I instantly fell in love with your music. Each of my favorite song perfectly describes how I feel. The lyrics of this song in particular is so powerful to me.... I lost my job overseas because of the pandemic and fell into substance abuse. I blew through my savings and lost so much of weight. I didn’t notice how depressed I was. I recently got back to listening to your music and I’m clean and healthy again ❤ Thank You for your amazing music!

[@YrOnimuS]

The song is awesome! But I also want to highlight how brilliant the acting, camera/editing and directing is. A masterstroke on all levels! A great example of when capable, empathetic people work together.

[@beyourselfmusic_1986]

I love how Rudimental clips are all about the motivation of figuring things out and standing up.

[@thanksnplease.8190]

Well said @beyourselfmusic 😊

[@john_carter_of_earth]

This was just sitting in my "recommended videos," and BAM! New favorite song!

[@thiagonunes3781]

Me too ! My favorite New song.

[@d.h.7870]

New favorite video!!!

[@antri2189]

Same here, and I started this video coz I recognized Michael Socha!

[@johnnyhandel4085]

Haha yes! Me too!

[@ComoChegamosAqui]

It felt so deep and emotional. kudos to the scriptwriter, director, actors and cinematographer!

[@the_joy_n_sorrow]

I either cry, tear up or get chills all over every time I come back to watch this video. Sometimes it’s all I need to remind me I’m not alone.

[@SGWV]

I was just looking for new cardio music why am I crying ??

[@zimzimzalabim]

not sure. You're weird I guess?

[@SGWV]

zimzimzalabim guess I am, zim zim zalabim, guess I am

[@shivambawa4118]

I'm cutting onions, Kappa

[@sagarak999]

same! I am crying! lolol! Just wanted a pump song!

[@Iamgodslike]

It's OK, me too

[@SawNykBoom17]

I have struggled with Ptsd, anxiety, depression and panic attacks for nearly 40 years and this video has inspired me so much. The next time I have anxiety or a panic attack I will think to stop, salute and dance my way through it. This video is so incredibly touching and cast perfectly.

[@asr7480]

Glad to know that you’re in a better place brother 💯🙏

[@thebee9907]

Hope you are doing well Ben. Remember you're not alone. Heck, even using this comment section could help if needed. Were always here

[@lisabill8877]

❤️

[@sarahcoop8576]

You are stronger than you know.... power on! You have inspired so many people without even knowing it. I hope you're feeling a bit better now xxx sending lots of love x

[@vanessajuarez6812]

Hello Ben , I think natural hemp helps . I hope your ok Watch something funny 😆 - sincerely Anonymous friendly dinosaur 🦕

[@williamforrester6704]

The way Michael opens up, which is clearly a struggle for him, being a strong character, with the pressures of being strong constantly and finally able to let open his true, honest feelings even though nobody else wants to step forward. And feeling so alone, and foolish for about 3 seconds after him opening up until somebody else steps up and joins him to say "you know what, you're not alone, i feel the same way". That right there chokes me up. I'm not suffering from mental health, but i do suffer from "man syndrome". Whenever i see another man cry, ask for help, look like they need guidance etc. It literally makes me swell up and get a lump in my throat. I hope to god i never need this sort of therapy, or go down a path that leads me to feeling so alone, so cornered, so alone. But if i do, i know it'll be easier this day more than ever before, because us men NEED to support each other. Its OKAY to be in a state of mind thats NOT OKAY. we can get our help, we can support one another, we can say "im not okay". It does not make you weak. It makes you STRONG. If anybody needs a friend, a outlet, or straight up someone who just needs to be written to about anything. Im here for you my brothers. Now and always

[@nomadsmaerd1979]

Your music is so powerful, so pure and human, the part of humanity we forget sometimes. Thank You.

[@lrnchllns203]

i love the diversity, the message, the whole video and I think I just fell in love with Elderbrook

[@zerofara]

the video is not about diversity lol , It is the reference to a suicide group or alcoholics who are mostly men , looking for diversity everywhere doesn't do any good as Morgan Freeman himself says

[@BennettParsons1]

alejandro garcia bet they would love japans “diversity” 😂

[@zerofara]

@@BennettParsons1 jajajajajja rolf , tentacles and lolis diversity? xD

[@lrnchllns203]

@@zerofara i mean all the different types of men but okay

[@pblegz3306]

lrnc hllns that’s exactly how I perceived your comment! The difference in age

[@elliemckenzie74]

So beautiful to see men being vulnerable around, and connecting with each other!

[@lolacullen121212]

I couldn't stop the tears.

[@twolip7540]

This song is everything. I hope those that are listening get everything they need and for those on the fence, get help. It's worth it.

[@Anth13]

❤

[@johnnysturgis6904]

My teenage years were a dark place for me because I was "being a man" and hid all the emotions from my Dad's death. It took me 11 years of pain until I realised to let go of my emotions and deal with them. Men have emotions too and we should stand together and be vulnerable. Thank you so much for the video and the wonderful message it portrays. Beautiful music too. Big love

[@lopezresident9152]

Same here brother

[@loserdubbed8036]

Same here, after I lost my dad when I was 19 it was downward spiral I think still affects me

[@tuxievous420]

Elderbrook Music Thanks for responding they play your song here in Seattle and never saw the video it just hit me and I called in to request it daily to show some love. Thanks for your work m808 💜

[@isabelmoura4859]

p

[@mavinvongtanaanek5008]

I lost my uncle a month ago and you can say he raised me and gave me meaning in life. I cant let go of the stress and reality that he's gone, and it hurts. So same here brother..

[@HolandaChiquita]

I'm not sure why, but this made me so very emotional.

[@euan6495]

Me too. The sadness on his face is exactly what I see when I look in the mirror when I’m really low. I was really routing for the other guys to get up and join in as well. Then the slow dance felt like it was saying, what have any of us got to be embarrassed or ashamed of? We’re all the same. We all struggle. But we are one.

[@alexgoodchild]

Me too!

[@jvoles4384]

What a powerful video. I think everybody should see this.

[@matmichaels441]

Maybe it's because you you're self can't see the truth in your life just maybe 😉

[@matmichaels441]

We all have are demonic pasts

[@denizemiller7005]

Still gets me in the feels, such a powerful message .. when you dance alone you feel isolated, trapped in your thoughts. Dance is a sequence of steps, so making that first step may be the hardest step before you take it. But after will be full of new possibilities

[@MsAudities]

When you have the strength to show up authentically, you give others the space to do so, too. In doing so, we find that we're not so different, any of us. Very often, we share the same hopes, the same dreams, the same fears, and, even the same pain

[@Marko.Petric]

Wow, I’m speechless. So much positivity packed in a short video. 😍It’ll be on repeat for a while, I can already tell 😂

[@chrisclose4879]

Exact feelings! 👍👏

[@onex21]

Same over here.

[@princepaks4433]

Same man, this is purely good story telling!!

[@ericfernandes6563]

Male depression is one thing that society has ignored

[@sluni5457]

yes I agree. Are you okay?

[@ericfernandes6563]

@@sluni5457 yes bruh I'm fine but there are still men out there who aren't PS.thanks for asking it

[@ashleycook2257]

Times like these are when you realise people out there are suffering from the same illness and it fills a hole, even for a little while, stay strong lads💪💙 try not to suffer in silence, go see that doctor and get the help you need even if you think its something small, it could make the world of difference

[@owlislike]

Its a major issue. In most societies males are treated with less gentleness from birth, told that boys don't cry, that emotions are weak, but anger is OK. Is anyone surprised that like 97% of violent crime is by males? Its not because they are male, its because society in general does not give males any avenues to be emotional minus being destructive and angry(which is heavily celebrated until laws get broken). How many times in movies and TV shows does a guy punch a door, break a mirror, or flip a desk when they are upset and its considered 100% normal dude behavior? Its a toxic cycle that needs to stop.

[@ericfernandes6563]

@@ashleycook2257 well spoken 🙏

[@mainsink6385]

Love it! Men supporting each other with dance, I wish this how we all settled our differences.

[@ryanmerino2354]

I first heard Elderbrook - Woman then found this track… I’m 33, been on and off drugs and alcohol since age 17… started my journey of sobriety November 6, 2022….dancing and exercise help so much. Also knowing that you aren’t alone, that’s a huge help. I’m in my apartment drinking coffee this morning after a sleepless night of insomnia… This song came on and i started dancing and started crying so hard. I think that’s a big emotional release of past trauma. Whoever you are, whatever you are going through, never be afraid to show your release your emotion and to let things flow. You aren’t alone. I got you. We got you.

[@pookieparks9821]

I must have watched this video more than 50 times in the last 3 weeks; sometimes several times in a row. I still get misty eyed and cry every time I try to discuss it. I'm moved. It is the perfect combination of good acting and direction matched with an important story to tell set to music that never gets old. I LOVELOVELOVE the normalization of platonic intimacy and allowing men to be vulnerable. We need more of that. I could go on and on. This video is perfect.

[@loveybarkley8293]

I watch it almost every day several times a day! #PERFECT

[@CristinaDiaz-gd1wp]

Me, too. I've lost count.

[@selinawelsh8584]

You've described my current feeling after having found this video today and watching it unashamedly over 20 times now. I'd like to add, your comment is perfect too.

[@mclove7539]

Absolute chills when they all stood at the end , head held high knowing there not alone

[@HerbieDisturbie]

Such a wonderful video. Whenever I'm feeling alone, in a dark place, listening to / watching this helps me. So much.

[@Hornystick]

I don't know why, but as a 31yo man, tears are flooding down as i'm watching this...

[@renaldolosper6952]

Elderbrook just knows how to pull my heart strings with a rhythm and emotion

[@chriskellogg1685]

Amazing casting. The emotions in Michael Socha's eyes/face are moving.

[@vargskelethorssoh]

@@elderbrook-music MATE YOU'RE BREATHTAKING

[@jamiet2602]

Elderbrook Music 🎧❤️🙌🏻

[@wicky525]

watch him in Being Human

[@mich4808]

@@wicky525 watching it as I write this 👌

[@jamespottsminto6354]

@@elderbrook-music Hey Alexander. Saw this and your Live Lounge set last night for the first time. Amazing genius talent. Shout out to the vid. Us men around the world need more of it to save us from ourselves. Brave comes about through challenge and to challenge is heroic.

[@antonellapellegrini1315]

My brother in law loved this song and this video. A year ago he had an awful car crash and he survived by miracle. However, he is now permanently disable and blind. Every time I listen to this song and watch this video it reminds me of him in his glorious days and gives me shivers and tears. I would pay gold to have him watch this video again and do the dance with me.

[@Funnyguyroberts]

The message, emotion, and sentiment captured by this is spot on. This should be shown to all those in need. The beauty of a strong man being vulnerable and supportive of other men is the real heartfelt message I find so uplifting. The main character almost gave up. Good thing he didn’t because he had no idea how many he would inspire. Never forget.. you can be someone’s reason not to give up!

[@alterego924]

being strong and fearless, yet soft and vulnerable = being human.

[@DarlingDucky]

Never thought I could fall in love with a music video... 💕

[@dinyeh]

Music + video fills in when words aren’t enough. I can’t describe the kind of healing this is for me.

[@letsgrow6934]

I find myself coming to his song and video again and again and again, it always feels like I'm watching it for the first time . I'm so grateful. When I listen to the song I see the video in my head too and it's so powerful