ELIO & OLIVER GOODBYE SCENE - CALL ME BY YOUR NAME

Call Me By Your Name (2017)
Directed By: Luca Guadagnino

[@ricobell365]

They never said "i love you" because when love is great, there's no need for words for even in silence; love will be heard.

[@kelkabot]

beautifully said! so true!

[@11Garrett11]

That wasn't love - it was an older man taking advantage of a vulnerable kid.

[@afanofthem2734]

Bravo!

[@edizkun9029]

Garrett1111 what? elio was 17

[@dontyellatme369]

@@11Garrett11 Elio is seventeen and Oliver is twenty-four. It was consent from both parties. Plus, the parents were more than okay with everything.

[@Song2LongUnsung]

I really like that this scene wasn't ruined by an intrusive soundtrack telling you how you should feel. Excellent filmmaking.

[@romanfernandez2984]

Song2LongUnsung keen observation! Agreed.

[@Oldbebe123]

I loved that too it wasnt overly played with soundtrack and over dramatic it made it feel generic like there was going to be a happy resolution but it was the end, as if there was going to be more scenes and stuff but no.

[@massimocarelli6198]

This is Quit common in this kind of European movies

[@ayabenzakour115]

the only soundtrack was me crying

[@teresaarnold3997]

@@ayabenzakour115 that was me

[@CountryCowboy008]

Imagine being the happiest that you've been in your entire life, only to be taken it away swiftly by a small, powerless thing like a train ticket

[@jesseward568]

Thought you were gonna say 'small powerless thing like a train'

[@kelkabot]

and all of homophobic society

[@CountryCowboy008]

@@jesseward568 haha I thought so too until I realise that the ticket is the seemingly least powerful thing in the situation.

[@arianagrinder731]

@@kelkabot But the thing is homophobic society can't do anything to you..they just bark but no bite..they only go crazy on social media but once they're outside they quiet af and didn't dare to talk sh*t f2f with the g*y LMFAO they're just scaredy cat

[@fari3511]

@@arianagrinder731 In the western world yeah. But this story counts for many people in the miserable places where they have no power to escape 'till this day.

[@bjbinmke]

What a perfect mother: Touch his head, say nothing.

[@noemimihalicek5519]

Yes!!!!

[@yrrebwarts6248]

Yes. She knew that he loves Oliver. But she chose to say nothing to not make Elio feel sadder.

[@Mo74mmad]

@@yrrebwarts6248 she didn’t know about Elio and Oliver’s relationship. The dad said so.

[@yrrebwarts6248]

@@Mo74mmad Yeah. But it looks like she did know.

[@Londongirl666]

@@yrrebwarts6248 exactly, from the way she was portrayed in the film I think she knew very well from the beginning

[@independentnomore5353]

Some people can stay in your heart but not in your life.

[@marcosfariasm]

Wow, that was both deep and poetic...

[@blaircomptons148]

🎶 Every night in my dreams I see you I feel you...

[@lauradelgado6917]

Omg what was the need

[@graceg8909]

they get back together after twenty years in the book sequel

[@rw8733]

So very true. It hurts.

[@barbarmeow4076]

this make me feel sad for the love that i never had

[@boyhermeshn]

You are not alone in that my dear !!

[@kelkabot]

We are right there with you, sister.

[@linnaeusshecut3959]

This accounts for its popularity. I wonder if romance even exists outside books and movies. But then again, it has been over 50 years since I was as young as Elio!

[@rekisrax7344]

bianty ro m

[@vibrationalmagician7593]

I love you. Here take my love with you until you find yours.

[@Gam3r5t93]

timothee’s motion acting is... unreal. his mannerisms and hand movement CLEARLY depict his character its unreal to me. meryl streep was even in awe

[@xavb7867]

EXACTLY! What this moment in film will Forever give us will be such natural, raw , you 'CAN'T teach this Acting' from Timothee and Armie. What completes it for me, are the angles not seen, but still allow you to feel so painfully and so real. In the moment Oliver takes Ellio in his arms you can briefly see that Oliver's eyes are welling with tears. It's a tender moment that if a camera did capture it I know it would have made the scene more painful to watch. Then the moment where Ellio watches the train pull away from the station. Seeing this from behind Ellio without showing his face is what I can only say is, 'What Real Pain IS'...Timothee's BRILLIANT acting delivers this moment like no other actor before. You know what that feeling IS, and there were no cameras to capture it but with Guadagnino's masterful direction you can feel this pain. Such Movie BRILLIANCE!

[@ClueSign]

He does so many interesting things with his mouth in this movie - twisting it, puffing it out, pursing his lips. Really great choices for every part of his instrument.

[@hunterbwoodward]

I actually really wanted Robert Pattinson to win for good time. He was fucking phenomenal in that movie.

[@muhammadyusha5419]

Wh8ch one is temothee

[@morganb6665]

@@muhammadyusha5419 he’s the shorter on in the blue shirt

[@elisalopresti4693]

Almost three years later and I’m still crying over this movie

[@azure7387]

Elisa LoPresti same

[@andreharaja5186]

They are already working on the sequel but got held off cause of covid you should read the book tho its so good i think better than the movie

[@mariaserrano2953]

andreh araja the books are so realistic it kills me. I want a happy ending man😭😭

[@danicaolson1801]

story of my life

[@lalap6706]

Three?? Omg i just saw it this month and im completely obsessed with it. I have a long road i can see.

[@newromantics_co]

lol why do i do this to myself

[@jimmycmartinez]

Matild ish 😂😂😂. Omg. I think i’m driving myself crazy! But good to know we’re not the only ones. There should be free counseling for people who watch the movie😭😭😭

[@jimmycmartinez]

Lol

[@valep1202]

Ahahah! I ask myself the same question...this movie/book's devastated me...

[@theinvisibleme4104]

Jimmy Martinez jeez I'm obsessed with this movie the first time I watched it I didn't cry, but the second time all those feelings sank in and I was broke, when are we going to get over this?

[@mith3620]

YES THIS IS MY QUESTION WHEN. W H E N .

[@babasdoo]

0:47 when Elio does this movement I feel like he's pushing the lump formed in this throat, like he's trying not to cry

[@ed-wt4gr]

adios oh my god i never noticed that jesus christ i’ve done that, when you try so hard to hold back tears that you have to manually push them down, now i’m so emotional

[@genie6158]

i literally felt a lump in my throat right when he did it

[@Silluet88]

Yes, that's true, i felt like i need to squeeze any of my limb to hold the tears.

[@timothylewis2450]

@Marce , @edna Maria Yes! I felt exactly the same. He was so overwhelmed that he felt he had to physically restrain himself. The entire scene is a master work of raw emotional intensity. Rarely in cinema has so much been said by the unspoken.

[@andilelesleymphale4007]

Incredible acting.

[@johnpauldagondong2720]

Usually, I don't explore romance genres because some are cringey, some are forced, some are just mediocre. But this movie hits me right in the bones. I feel like I won't function properly for the next couple of days because of the level of devastation this movie has instilled to me. It made me wish to meet the person to love and at the same time made me apprehensive to open my heart to anyone.

[@jaehyunnna5437]

Yea u right

[@m.meghana2365]

Exactly!!!!

[@valleyofthedolls]

hetero romcoms are boring and clichè

[@arianagrinder731]

@@valleyofthedolls Well can't argue with that.. absolutely agree 🤣

[@MrBrachiatingApe]

@@ShrayMaheshwary Yep. Had it for 3 years. I think you can only love like that when you're young or perhaps again when you're old. I just know I'm too much of a cynic now to experience quand la coupe de foudre frappe now. Can barely even talk about it in English because it's just too raw and sincere. The funniest part is that 26 years and many relationships, many many lovers later, she's still the love of my life and if I ever move back to the US, I hope we can get back together.

[@AndyZaturno]

My heart is still broken till this very day.

[@rw8733]

It breaks me whe he calls his mum.

[@corinam.2633]

@@aigabit you, me, and everyone who watched it. After the first time i had an emotional breakdown, like i was going through a break up, it lasted 2 weeks, but then i felt ok again. So hang in there.

[@mikemattis1204]

Get a life

[@abi-ij8pr]

same omg

[@MCRadu0204]

@@aigabit I watched it two days ago and since then I haven't been able to function properly and I don't think I'll recover anytime soon :)

[@romeblanchard3419]

"can you come get me mom?" I felt like someone who called me by his name just left me in the train station

[@proserfina21096]

HUHUHUHU

[@vongsodani4854]

😢😢💔

[@cusimilooking4965]

He was heart broken and needed to have his parents help him pick up the pieces. His dad said something to the effect of " by the age of 30 you have nothing left to give". Try 58....we turn into icebergs and we stop loving ourselves and possibly others destined to cross our paths

[@vivegan1086]

Cusimi Looking help him pick up the pieces of his broken heart - priceless... he was still a child and already went through that outstanding love and just lost it...

[@rimsanchez4364]

I cried when he said that 🥺💔

[@nancyces1666]

When Elio calls his mom to get him and his voice cracks because he can hardly keep it together MY GOD!!! I FELT IT!!!!! MY HEARTBROKE!!!

[@HotBaconStrips]

Nancy Ces same omg i was trying not to cry, and when he repeats the question about his passport showed that he really cared :(

[@touchsky4779]

I have never seen that part without crying...he doesn't know what to do...he can't believe he just left...he doesn't have the energy to walk back home.

[@asteropea]

It was just TOO powerful raw. Just like someone was fraying my soul. This movie is a masterpiece. I am completely shattered since I watched it.

[@DBPeque]

I remember thinking "Nah, I'm not gonna cry.. no, I won't". And he cracks and I was crying my ass out!. Damn it. What a beautiful story. Totally in love with it.

[@quasar4601]

His mom must have sensed they were far more than just good friends. Don't mother's know more about their kids than fathers

[@2godless]

When that boy put his fist on his throat, that was everything.

[@suveshan_]

I know right

[@un_cog9677]

sheeeesh

[@mscott3918]

It's as if he was choking

[@humminbird6990]

No words came out to say goodbye. It is so painful for both. Hope they will see again.

[@geethakrishnan9857]

Yes. Good bye is very painful 😥

[@thomasverschaeve3841]

I love how his mom is understated. It’s she who he calls... and without saying a word, she did it al.

[@skyejacques]

Hmmm. True. In the book, different ending. Mum isn't much in the picture xx

[@cdgh99]

Understated not underrated

[@hildziam8590]

0:37 when Oliver tries to pull away and Elio puts his hands around him and Oliver smiles... It's so pure...

[@awokwok1029]

Omg i didn't notice... This is so beautiful

[@alifianurallimah]

Agree...

[@awokwok1029]

@@alifianurallimah hayo lohh ngapain kamu nonton beginian????? 😂

[@alifianurallimah]

Filmnya kan bagus

[@syafiqfaqih8671]

@@alifianurallimah bagus banget ancurrr

[@jonatassilveira3969]

they never said "i love you" to each other. they just did.

[@scottpedro6092]

Jonatas Silve I don't think they could ever say Ilove you to each other because they're not in a true relationship. But they're more than just friends and that's the most romantic part in every relationship

[@333br]

Have you read the book? just asking.

[@jonatassilveira3969]

Yummy Sounds no, i didn’t. i was talking about the movie. the book was just released in my country (im from brazil, btw, so sorry about my english haha)

[@333br]

No worries your English is good, i'm Mexican but i bought the book in the USA, hope you get to buy it someday, i imagine you already know but there's a few audiobook videos here on youtube read by Armie Hammer :O

[@devon2732]

Yummy Sounds i think they didn't say "i love u" to each other in the book too. But yeah. That's most prettiest thing in this masterpiece. They felt it. But they were lost in each other. So they were not sure bout what they're feeling. These are my thoughts.

[@reesedavis4877]

The way his voice breaks at the end calling his mom to pick him up- his acting is ✨immaculate✨

[@pouetpouetdaddy5]

its perfection in acting...that moment

[@mikymoust3149]

I like how they didn't use some melancholy/dramatic soundtrack here. I think this perfectly portrays the deafening silence that settles once someone you love leaves. Every little mundane noise seems to be a hundred times louder as if it is reality's way of flooding over you.

[@lisadalia]

He didn't say "Later."

[@mith3620]

I'm already enough broken, thanks.

[@bunkerhillguy2542]

You’re right! He didn’t say Later!!

[@tuuliamoors4134]

Oh course he didn't, it would have been entirely wrong and inappropriate for this situation. Plus he couldn't speak anyway.

[@asteropea]

YokozoBitches and I'm just crying again, it seems trivial but it's a testament about how real it is what they felt. Stupid glorious and amazing love!

[@canakcakaya9382]

YokozoBitches why did you do that, im cry again

[@theotherpr0mise243]

Timothée is absolutly stunning in this role. When his voice cracks... How can we not be devastated ?

[@Milfuelle100]

Man they are such talented actors. Also I know Timothée wasn’t much older than 17 but he did a PERFECT job at portraying an adolescent boy. He’s body movements, his awkwardness, his confusion, his vulnerability...it was all perfect.

[@sebastianjdillingham]

For the record, the character was just over 17, Timothee was 20 at the time

[@wesloucaballa9015]

Torturing myself during quarantine.. the best movie of all time.

[@timtonruben359]

The part the gets me every time is when Elio's mom runs her hand through his hair and he starts to ugly cry and you tell Mom is trying to keep it together herself....I just can't deal.

[@victorcoutinho408]

Paul Chouinard That scene crushes me too.

[@alexslingluff]

the crying is so realistic too, like it looks exactly like someone really crying

[@eumerrmo3383]

Paul Chouinard except there's no ugly crying. Ugly and Timmy in the same sentence is just unimaginable

[@tawnysierra9481]

that scene gets me everytime I tear up!!

[@bywaternyc7856]

@Alexslingl13 - When a actor is fully "in" the scene-as Timmy is here-the emotions and the tears are real. That's what good acting is all about! : )

[@reng935]

I like to think Oliver also cried the whole trip.

[@marcosfariasm]

Me too!

[@TehilaS100memet]

He did, trust me

[@jojsjo]

@@kiebr8766 We're bringing the movie to life🤦🏽 don't think that deep into it

[@TehilaS100memet]

@@kiebr8766 ok boomer

[@CountryCowboy008]

@@kiebr8766 no he didn't. This was actually Armie's last day of shoot and that train brought him back straight to the US.

[@lilymariekay5177]

I can’t be the only one who can like smell and feel every aspect of this scene

[@ekdud2772]

i love this scene so much because on one hand we have elio. 17, heart seconds away from being broken, vulnerable and trying so hard to repress his emotions but they spill over just barely enough to notice because he is still so young. then we have oliver, the adult of the relationship. his facial expressions are much more intact because he is trying to be in control of the situation, trying to be strong for the both of them. however you can still see the pain and sadness behind his reassuring smile and it hurts just as much seeing elio’s wandering eyes and clearly disappointed body language. basically what i’m trying to say is the acting in this movie is phenomenal and these two actors are irreplaceable for their roles.

[@eternamarcos2467]

I agree oliver is armie and timothee is elio

[@seorin__]

exactly!!

[@alessandraa.l.4100]

When he says "Listen, mom.. Can you come get me?" my heart was broken..

[@alexandraemj9031]

Alessandra Lembo same ifeel this💔

[@rahimarahima3593]

I felt same too

[@feefeegirl]

The way Elio put his hand under his chin and pressed it against his throat, attempted to smile and tried to give eye contact and blinked really fast trying not to cry; that just FUCKED ME UP I cried so hard when I watched the movie you can see the hurt it's on his face and pouring from his body. It's hurts to watch.

[@royallulu6721]

Yes. That little gesture was heartbreaking.

[@Eyeswide39Open]

YES YES YES. Every time I watch this scene I wonder what ( Timothee) must have been thinking about. So simple. So beautiful.

[@Eyeswide39Open]

But also it’s the moment that is prelude to this: when Oliver is watching Elio sleeping and their brief love plays out in a series of memories, the train horn sounds and then summons his attention, prematurely ripping him back into reality, the fact that he must leave. This links so beautifully with when Elio is watching the fire at the end, and his mother begins to call him after we sit and watch him fall apart: he looks over the same shoulder ( after breaking the fourth wall ) and acknowledges his name, again, being summoned into reality. I don’t know if it’s too far to suggest that it’s almost as though he doesn’t know his own name anymore. Urgh, that’s my “two cents”

[@feefeegirl]

dead39bunny are you trying to make me cry lol

[@Eyeswide39Open]

Felicia Dew haha, I needed to share this with someone! I am beyond addicted to this film 😭😭😂

[@nova4005]

I love how they just nod to each other, their communication clear and acknowledged, without words.

[@gleefarina8968]

This whole movie is just art in itself. A untouchable masterpiece

[@ray-alexander2808]

My poor Elio, my heart just bleeds seeing him crying, due to the lost of his true pure love for Oliver...

[@elivlogs3171]

danielleaparis can you shut the fuck up, I’ve seen you comment rude shit on this video.

[@twilightfades_7]

danielleaparis You have some issues…

[@gz9035]

Ray- Alexander 😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔

[@quasar4601]

Don't Worry every girl in LA and NY is probably after him. Elio can pick between thousands of girls or boys or men

[@YrahSGLH]

hydrate your soul It's love! No doubt about that!

[@snowfish2103]

it's Oliver's t-shirt. "from Elio to Oliver"....i'm crying :(

[@cusimilooking4965]

I still have a garment from my old lover. I also have his blood on a piece of cotton , from a tshirt.....a small drop or so from a nosebleed caused by tears and crying. I cut a small area from the T shirt he was wearing that day. I also have a box of " memories", an extra ring he gave me, a piece of wood he carved, notes, music and CDs with his voice and pictures. I am not sure what I want to do with all of those things. Expect to leave the US in a few years and I am too afraid to let these things go. Perhaps I should burn them, perhaps I should sink them in a lake. Perhaps I should send them back to him....and then wonder for the rest of my life if his wife will forgive him all over again. It's been a long time now, but not enough to heal. I am working on it and occasionally purge myself in tears: Movies like this one. Movies like many others. Movies of love and deception. Movies that remind me of how lucky I was, that I experienced some sort of " love". The caresses on my lips and the sound of my name, over and over again in his made up phrase in Spanish. I yearn the warmth of his hands close and on my face. Strangely, he was the first man I kissed in public and the first man I also held hands in public. Little did I know that a married man could bring me more out of the closet. As I reflect, that is the kinda life I would like to have....holding hands and displaying affection for my lover. Not all was lost. It redefined my convictions and I now know that I will never again become someone's secret, as secrets destroy lifes...

[@DongExplorer]

Cusimi Looking 💔😭

[@marissariggs309]

Omfg😭😭😭

[@SJ-vv8vt]

@@cusimilooking4965 Keep them.

[@zahemi914]

@@cusimilooking4965 and I thought i was behaving peculiarly still keeping the last boxer he wore with a stain on it for the last 17 yrs... :'(

[@Samuel-xu1jr]

The quality makes it look like a 90s movie and i love it

[@Samuel-xu1jr]

@@Peachelliver yes, i am aware that the movie is set in Italy in the 80s. I’m just saying that he quality (low res) of the clip is making it looks like a movie shot in the 90s, which gives off a certain aesthetic.

[@ClairDeLume]

Yes! Before I ever saw this movie, I originally thought it was from the 80s or 90s, but nope. It's from 2017. Surprised the heck out of me

[@TheDoglover159]

That's exactly what heart break and goodbye feels like, no words spoken because nothing could express the real pain of it all. That hug when Oliver first grabs him he lets his arms hang and then when he grips at his shirt, its so raw and pure. You feel every second of it.

[@joseaod15]

When Elio called his mother my heart just cried with him.

[@MrBruceForte]

Jose Olivares, that scene broke me up too

[@user-wh8pl2zo9p]

Jose Olivares xxx

[@rusann7546]

Honestly. So I’m commenting on this for you guys to watch it again.

[@Stefarooh]

How the hell did Timothy Chalemet not win the Oscar for this film? I mean Oldman was good but he wasn't this good.

[@Silver-qk8gl]

Stefarooh exactly!!

[@rollydoucet8909]

My thoughts, exactly.

[@emanueldpc5504]

He's too young, academy likes to honor older / senior actors

[@LucasLima-ov4mq]

@@emanueldpc5504 Academy likes to honor famous public figures, if Gary Oldman wasn't playing Winston Churchill, he wasn't to win that oscar. A shame because Gary Oldman is one of best actors of his generation, and one of best actors of all time. Sadly the academy give Gary Oldman an Oscar just because he played Winston Churchill

[@cherylhulting1301]

Yes, I can't help but agree. I love Gary Oldman as an actor but Timothee's performance was the best work I saw from any actor that year. An astounding performance in every way.

[@faithgarza3064]

the light and accidental "oh" while Elio is sitting on the bench brings the cold but humane feeling of heartache setting in. phenomenal acting

[@briannabrittany3127]

You really feel the initial shock and the reality setting in, the hurt of Oliver being gone.

[@ishikasingh5909]

idk if anybody noticed but at 0:47 Timothee puts his hand to his throat and starts to sort of push back the pain or tears. THIS is exactly what happens when we cry. There's like this burning ball of fire in the base of the throat threatening to just come out in full force and i can't- This movie was THE best in terms of acting man. Just. WOW

[@hipnhappenin]

The way Elio tugs on his shirt when Oliver breaks away the first time....

[@touchsky4779]

No one would have played Elio better on the planet than Timmy did. He made me feel in a way I have never felt before about any movie in my life!

[@princessofpink2093]

Touchsky same!!!

[@charleshash7381]

When Elio's mother caresses his hair in the car and Elio breaks, I weep.

[@rakshyak.c4747]

I will never recover from this scene

[@hurst-cs2jh]

Hi, how are you doing?

[@leftyla]

My god... what a powerful scene. When they nodded at each other before they parted because they can't express their emotions publicly. Ugh... so heartbreaking.

[@maxie2go]

CMBYNers, I don't think it's a matter of them not being able to kiss or be more expressive at the depot. Don't forget they talked about that event... so I'm sure they agreed to not make things any more difficult to say good-bye than necessary. I can't imagine how difficult it would be for Oliver to board that train had Elio said even one spoken word after the "Do you have your passport" which Oliver said yes to with a simple nod. When you look into your lovers eyes you see all you need to know. They did that. They held each other's gaze. on the train Oliver had to be just as dead as Elio was standing there watching the distance between he and his love grow wider and wider. Even on that bench, Elio may have expected to see Oliver come walking back to him, and saying, I just couldn't do it. There was no corner in Oliver's life in the States for Elio. Love doesn't conquer all. However, these two loved for the ages, it was a tacit love once Oliver boarded that train. While we can see Elio's hand come to his eyes, I'm sure Oliver was doubled over in pain on that train. He loved Elio with a more calm love; he had from the time he arrived. He was just waiting for Elio to grow to the feelings he had inside with more clarity. I will never understand Marzia's place in this movie. for me she's just a nuisance. An unbearable nuisance at that. She took away from Elio's joy of his first time with Oliver. For me the movie ends here with Annella and her son going home. I simply find the rest of the movie too much it collides too much with my own life and my emotions. I can't wipe Elio's tears and mine at the same time anymore. Kudos to the entire ensemble of "Call Me By Your Name". The Academy made a huge mistake when they didn't reward Chalamet's work. Lllater

[@harryvaliente9425]

Don't use that as an expression because it is not allowed in the Bible OK peace

[@edgarrett8822]

@@maxie2go Your remarks remind me of the joy and pain this film made me feel. How can something that makes me feel euphoria crush me beneath it's weight? That's the power of love.

[@maxie2go]

@@edgarrett8822 Hi Garrett, you know one of the great things this film does is causes us to revisit our own loves, gained, losses, etc. It now only allows us to look at the person we longed for, we also go back to that job opportunity or that business op we passed up the child we never had. Something unfulfilled in our lives. That thing that causes us the greatest joy and disappointment. - Elio, was at a crossroads. Why were so many men showing him desire? Was it them or did they see something in him he was not willing to see himself. Perhaps he only looked in the mirror from the edge rather than the full image. What was it abut Oliver that made him push his parents toward him? Did he have kind eyes or did Elio have stirrings when viewing the picture.? Something caused Elio to say, I want to see with this man what I am. - Elio was on a journey to find himself, when he did, he rejected what he found, at first. Then he hit smack in the face with this is who I am. Oliver is who I am. He had the fortitude to go after him even in pain. Remember that night left him in literal pain, But he mounted that bike and rode into town to be with Oliver. Oh, if we had such courage. - This film is a lesson to all of us about our lives. And yes, love can life you to heights unimagined, and that same love can take us to depths that literally suck the breath out us, and leave us in a heap on the floor. I wish the film had contained the entire 4+ hours. _ The film is for everyone. I am a straight female who adores this film. It is a timeless piece of cinema that was not given the proper treatment by the Academy. Maybe it was Sony's fault. I understand it hit the voters with only 3 days left. So most of them no doubt got to see more than the trailer for it. I pray that Luca and the team made it through this virus and will produce the sequels he envisioned. Be safe... thank you. _Atalanta

[@edgarrett8822]

@@maxie2go Your insight is stirring. Your vision of this movie and what it makes you feel is so alarmingly similar to mine. I'm a gay man. 58. And I recognize that CMBYN forces me to deal with my own life. My own ups and downs. My own joy and hearbreak. My own successes and failures. Life is bittersweet. I've let people go that I now regret losing. I've kept some that should have been freed. This story of Ello and Oliver force me to revisit these days in my own life. And that's powerful. It's damning. But, it's freeing. Makes me see the painful price I call regret. Thats a debt that's never ever forgiven. You are tied to its strangling grip for eternity. Makes me see the joy and beauty in the love I hid from in fear of society's wrath. It makes me yearn for the days I've wasted seeking approval from those approval is not necessary. It makes me cry and it makes me hopeful at the same time. This masterpiece of a movie makes me want to do it all again. That's powerful. To me, that's powerful.

[@farhanrafi8481]

The way that they hug you can literally read the strong emotions the two felt..such a genuine, powerful, rare, and beautiful love that they portray..now that elio just sink in the thought of being actually separated perhaps permanently..really shattered my heart into pieces..great actors great movies great book

[@renlechu5727]

I couldn't agree more with what you said. :)

[@josegutierrez2735]

They way Olivier holds Elio and then he's leaving and Elio hold him tight to not stop that emotional hug and even then after the hug the Elio's face expression is so unique I can't love this movie, story and book enough it's just so beautiful

[@dianamatthew1747]

I don't like the book.

[@thomasthompson6378]

@@dianamatthew1747 The book really isn't as good as the movie -- which says a lot of good things about these actors and also the man who directed them.

[@verakanaan7363]

This scene happened to me in real life. When we said goodbye I felt like a sting in my heart and then I walked away, looked back and he wasn’t there anymore. I started crying uncontrollably in the streets of Amsterdam. Sometimes some people awaken the strongest feelings inside of you ❤

[@samitoumamitou7974]

Their silence, their gesture, were 1000 000 time more expressive than all the words in the world !😥😥

[@louieadam251]

Powerful scene. Intense and moving, No dialogue but you will feel it.

[@tuuliamoors4134]

Yes. It's perfect because they can't speak. There are no words for that moment anyway.

[@latenightcashews]

Tuulia Moors yeah... words often fail in the most intense moments of the human experience

[@Dannyboi2]

To Film a story about true love is hard enough, but then between two men that both genders can live without cynicism, I doubt it's ever been made until now. One of it's awkward moments, like the first kiss, how does a man kiss another when you've only kissed a women. You subconsciously think it would feel different yet, it so fluid and nonchalant as your first romantic kiss ever. The film rolls out slowly, and beautifully makes you want this love to blossom. You love for them, you want them to love each other, it's as if all the stars allied just for this summer, simple two humans that are meant to be just as natural as nature intended. It's beautifully told, you don't want it to end, from the music , the colors, the lighting, it all sucks you in, I can't get enough. I've not seen all the movies nominated for an Oscar this year, but the one's I have don't compare. What I've seen so, far have great stories, acting but they all seem familiar and have been told before, this one's in a lifetime. I do hope this inspires others that love is love.

[@zqlove2009]

Danny boi2 can’t agree more

[@Dannyboi2]

P.G. Ferret maybe you should read the book watch the movie and then you can judge with facts to back them up, but if you want my honest answer no it’s a 17 year old with a 24 year old and in Italy’s and in many states the age of consent is 16. And the actors in reality are 22 and 31 when the movie was filmed Tim was 20 and Arnie 30? And if the roles were about a heterosexual relationship you wouldn’t be asking..:

[@Dannyboi2]

I gave you my answer you don’t like it get over it

[@furdedezee]

exactly my thoughts! i felt that it was truly just a story about love and its so refreshing to see a film without any cynicism and that it doesn't exploit the fact that it is a gay film but rather just celebrates pure unabashed, unbiased love shared by two people.

[@dominicweber]

Danny boi2 I wish I could meet you, or at least just save your comment.

[@sydnaja104]

timothée's acting is just perfect and i mean it. his body gesture represents perfectly how he feels, how his character is feeling right now, and that's something rare tbh for an actor to show everything like this. it goes until the hands, his face, his eyes, the way he talks, it seems so real and so relatable, that's so freaking natural. seriously i'm speechless

[@jaysummer5980]

Lesson: Don’t fall in love to the foreign tourist

[@niceboy2464]

why just can he come back?

[@kio-ji1ye]

@@niceboy2464 He's married

[@niceboy2464]

@@kio-ji1ye with a girl?

[@kio-ji1ye]

@@niceboy2464 Yah

[@vincesonicthehedgehogfan2742]

@@kio-ji1ye But Same with Luca Paguro Was Moved to Genova

[@victoriahill3034]

When Elios's voice craks my heart breaks

[@aryanngourcuff]

Victoria Hill Alvarez That’s when my tears roll down.

[@misterenzo6823]

También a mí. Pobrecito.

[@benignofernandez5450]

me too....

[@daniellavaladez9538]

Me too. Sooo sad!

[@lovingnathee]

This movie changed my life so many ways...

[@jaehyunnna5437]

How?

[@lovingnathee]

@@jaehyunnna5437 Thanks to this film, I met a lot of friends around the world and I was able to travel to Crema to visit the places where the film is seen, among other things. 😊😊😞

[@sarahcloudberry7991]

You are killing me making me cry again successfully

[@ibtihal8617]

The way he says "Tu peux venir me chercher maman" gets me every time

[@FrankdTank-oh4ji]

Can we just appreciate how simple the love story is? Love is love. Let’s not complicate things.

[@larrygentry]

"Malfada? Mom? Yeah, it's me. Yeah, everything's fine, I'm at the station in Clusone. Listen, Mom, can you...[voice breaking] Can you come get me, mom?"

[@daniellavaladez9538]

When his voice cracked, my heart broke because the pain was just too real. This scene was just absolutely heart wrenching.

[@larrygentry]

I've seen the movie many times and see something different each time. Timothee became Elio. He's amazing.

[@TheNazareth597]

and the fact that later, in the call he recognizes oliver but not his own mother. The clear love for oliver is strong, it breaks me....

[@federicaspirito6441]

*Mafalda

[@costcofreezers]

when his voice breaks i literally cry so hard

[@kandiperfumegal]

Watching the love of your life walk out of your life is one of life’s most painful experiences no one wishes to experience ever.

[@mattbernabe]

For real. It's a like a dagger to the heart.

[@sambah517]

I simply can't believe that this is just a movie. The story, the acting, emotions seem to be so real that it make you unable to remain immotive to the story and especially to the devastating ending 😥😥

[@seorin__]

yeah, and the cinematography makes you really think you are in there.

[@arrysporras7137]

i will never be able to recover from this movie 😭

[@nicolairomanoff4652]

2000s = Brokeback Mountain 2010s= Call Me By Your Name

[@seventhdeadlysin3168]

Nicolaus Romanoff you should check out “gods own country” it’s a beautiful movie

[@Fridasofie]

Nicolai Romanoff I just watched Call Me By Your Name today, it made me feel excactly how Brokeback Mountain did when I first watched it. Devastated.

[@Jeremini]

redhob gt Brokeback Mountain is a masterpiece about the love of a lifetime, so you really should watch it when you’re ready.

[@felixlaetus]

2020s= Call me by your name 2

[@signumAc16]

2020s Find Me

[@renlechu5727]

This scene is one of my absolute favorites of the movie! Timothée and Armie both gave such stunning and raw performances. I'm very glad the film was able to get an Oscar! Well deserved. :)

[@didierbizimana2759]

Renle Chu truly heartbreaking, I actually felt like his pain crossed the screen... Painfully real, only wish I could wash away the pain (it's a movie but.. Gosh love is beautiful but hurt sometimes) well performed thimothee

[@asteropea]

Absolutely, his voice when telling his mom to pick him up. The way they look at each other. Just pure exploding emotions. Every time!

[@axr7149]

Yup. The Oscar win was made even more poignant by the fact that the screenwriter (James Ivory, who won) finally got his long overdue recognition after an amazing career. Ivory is one half of the famed Merchant-Ivory duo (along with Ismail Merchant), and neither one had ever been recognized for their work until now. Also, at 89, Ivory is the oldest Oscar winner in any category ever as a result of this win.

[@stischer47]

Thanks for the post. This and the scene right after, when he is in the car and Marizia comes to him...the bleakness in his face that reflects the bleakness in his heart is stunning.

[@LL-fh9sq]

Renle Chu that's exactly what I wanted to say

[@user-wk7sg1ed1y]

💋 Давно я так, не плакала... Потрясающе! Музыка, природа, отсутствие болтовни, игра актёров(Тимоти, шедевральный юноша, дай ему Бог!)Хаммер, красавчик. Вообще, очень удачный подбор актёров. Посмотрела фильм (НОНСТОП 4 РАЗА, опухла от слёз), на вокзале, Элио, рукой пытается протолкнуть ком в горле и не заплакать. Как сыграно! Пила капли.👍💋

[@nicolodeon05]

I just watched Luca and this scene and *that* train scene in Luca are an exact parallel and it makes me wanna sob.

[@hurst-cs2jh]

Hi Nicole, how are you doing?

[@darksky1186]

Cried for both Oliver & Elio in this scene. However, I was left being more worried for Oliver. Elio has his parents & a loving upbringing to carry him through a little better. It's clear that Oliver doesn't have the same. The only way he probably knows how to survive is to hide who he really is/what he really feels. Maybe he thinks he knows better & feels like he doesn't want to ruin Elio's life by being w/ him. Either way, in the book, the only thing they do is to cope being without each other for the rest of their lives, which is tragic.

[@tuuliamoors4134]

I agree that in many ways it's much worse for Oliver. Elio has many people who know and are supportive and love him, while nobody in Oliver's life back home knows, nor can they know, so he lacks all the support, acceptance and compassion that Elio has.

[@a.paulafernandes]

The author said that the book has an open ending, that they may very well have ended up together.

[@AnzuBrief]

I do believe they will end up together. How many gay men married a women and had children, only to divorce her and end up with a man after homosexialy became much more acceptable in society?

[@asteropea]

I totally agree and I get mad when I see comments of people saying that Oliver was selfish, and that he just played with Elio. These people didn't understand a single thing about the story. Besides, Oliver was more mature, he experienced this love in other terms, he was scared of how intense the feelings were. "Do you know how happy I am that we slept together? - I don't know - Of course you don't" we are watching the story from Elio's perspective, but you could feel, if you pay attention, Oliver adored him. Completely.

[@russelgriffin2709]

So true. The majority of comments focus on Elio's character, his grief and misfortune. After watching the movie several times, the Oliver character is just a rich, maybe more, for analysis.

[@renesolano7438]

This scene is very sad...I actually could feel the pain that Elio felt :'(

[@tuuliamoors4134]

And Oliver.

[@quasar4601]

AT least nobody died !!!! Plus they have been together on the road for several months after everyday promoting the movie lol

[@11Garrett11]

Fuck Oliver! He took advantage of Elio and then his pussy ass couldn't live an honest life & went running right into the closet! Barf.

[@fabriciogallardo3733]

I think everyone could feel the pain that Elio felt.

[@joysinon2599]

Me too it literally takes more than days to feel okay honestly speaking

[@HenkBartl]

I like that in the movie Oliver becomes so much more likable. like in the book he seems like this coward who runs away and escapes in this straight marriage while in the movie you actually see him struggling and suffer from the departing with Eliot.

[@tommyreysons4942]

Watching this again makes me cry cause I had the same goodbye with my boyfriend, the train and everything... it was the last time we saw eachother before I left to another country. I was Oliver and I cried the whole way on the train for a few hours… I never cry like that before and I probably never will again.

[@DamonAndJo]

Heartwrenchingly beautiful.

[@whitemilfcharlene8703]

This gives me a feeling, almost like sick to my stomache, but sad to my stomache, so painful. I can’t freaking explain it, but when you know the time is up, you remember the moments when you were actually together. Every time I feel great, I think about how I will feel later, and how I’m in the moment now, but sometime I won’t be in that moment. And when time has passed, so quickly, you envy your past self, actually living that moment. Time passes by so quickly and it’s so crazy how sad it can make you, because that’s one thing you can never get back, moments. I hope someone out there knows what I’m talking about, but at the same time these thoughts consume me. I envy my past self actually living the moment with someone I loved, whom now I won’t see for a long time. It’s crazy ‘cause at one point in time that was actually present, isn’t that crazy? How time works? It’s mind boggeling and depressing

[@apricotsapricots472]

this was beautifully written.

[@ikikeudobong9529]

beautifully said

[@MicaRayan]

What an incredible romantic love story! The screenplay is timeless and carry everything essentials with memorable delivery. 2 hours 10 minutes are not enough really. The film is brilliant. Every little scenes complement each other. Armie and Timothée were both born to play the character 💌

[@astrobalsilverio6782]

I can’t get over the film. So beautiful that i bought the DVD, elio’s talkingheads shirt, book and movie poster. The truth is, i’m still heartbroken.

[@pyt5809]

Anyone who has experienced true love and heartbreak understands that just because your heart wants and yearns for love to last it doesn't always work out. Sometimes you have to sit and accept that you might not ever get the closure or the answers to help make sense of the loss of a relationship. One of the hardest things in life is to have love in your heart for someone and I mean that deep can't get you off my mind type of love for someone and come to terms with the fact that you may never hear from them again or that you may never experience a love like that again. It hurts bad, really unexplainably bad. To have a heart full of love and nowhere to put it is tragic and I wouldn't wish that on anybody. Life isn't always rainbows, unicorns and butterflies. I think that's why I can really relate to both Oliver and Elio in this movie. It was so easy for me to feel their pain because I'm living through pain just like this. Even with all the pain I wouldn't change things and I don't think Elio and Oliver would either. For it is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all...

[@vivegan1086]

I’m not sure... I mean it was so hard to handle the lost of my love, first years I didn’t want to breath and live, 15 years passed and I didn’t love anyone else.. I still remember everything and that movie brought me back into those feelings of outstanding pain, several weeks ago I watched this movie and I still can’t get over of the feeling that something important is missing and I could never feel the same again, it’s breaking my heart

[@lavenderreadings7275]

WELL SAID!!!!

[@mscott3918]

Brilliant comment. Absolute gold.

[@mateopo2566]

I felt it.. acting was soooo great.. my eyes won’t stop crying.. 😢

[@fredperry7272]

you still cutting onion till now prolly?

[@juliomorales2752]

9

[@lalaking7974]

SUCH fine actors!! Man! - No words used... ALL the emotion portrayed through body language, expression and silence. Exquisite.

[@24Sevyn]

I just went back and watched this film for the 4th time and this scene knocked me off my feet. They had an entire conversation without speaking one word and we understood every part of it. Timothee’s acting is out of this world and Armie as well. I think Armie doesn’t get enough credit for his acting in the film.That scene just before the train as he reflects on saying goodbye and the look of grief on his face as he sat down next to a sleeping Elio on the bed. 💔 This movie is just too good.

[@skyejacques]

Agreed. Amazing acting from both of them. Although different from the book, stands strong as a film. One of my favourite ones

[@parodiaspopxd4672]

whoever that dares to call a gay person sick or evil or perverted seriously cant see the kinda love we can feel. Im proud and out :) ,gorgeous movie.

[@finnkyle5552]

I kind of wish that the reality would be that they can't see it because there's a chance we can enlighten them about it. But the reality is that the people do see the love that we feel. It's just that they'd rather turn their heads away out of ignorance and bias. :--(

[@ShrayMaheshwary]

Movies rarely portray Gay romance accurately. This one has done the Justice in every possible way

[@corinam.2633]

Ok, so i'm a straight woman, but this movie will haunt me forever. That good it was. And btw, everybody deserves to love and be loved.

[@DL-wu9kk]

this scene is so damn beautiful. so many nuanced movements from both timothee and armie. i love how no words are exchanged but so much emotion has passed between the two. the way elio holds onto oliver's shirt and taps on his back. the way elio nods as if to say ok, you can go now because i'll let you go now. the way oliver holds him so tightly. damn this was so good. it also makes me think about how their journey as actors was also coming to an end and i wonder how much of this scene was the two of them expressing the friendship they developed as people over the course of the few months. it's a no wonder that they're still close to this day. they were truly wonderful dance partners. you have the wild and free elio and the more restrained yet deep oliver. i love it.

[@marcosfariasm]

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[@Puty0urlipstick0n]

This!!!

[@cd1051]

KZbin recommend: “are you ready for your daily dose of depression.” This movie hit me harder than an arctic truck.

[@missmimi6817]

Lol true

[@eddiebm4701]

Hahaha love your comment

[@kayliean]

This. This was love. This was real. No bullshit. No cliche. Raw, pure, untamed love. And they never said it once.

[@luba8244]

On the train you can see Oliver through the windows tearing up 😭😭

[@xavb7867]

Actually if you look at this scene at exactly 0:34 you can actually see Oliver's eyes are already filling with tears.

[@noelsrx376]

I love how supportive his parents were :')

[@vedikas4230]

Oh God! It's been so many years but I am still stuck with Elio and Oliver!

[@AM257.]

when elio holds his hand against his neck trying to hold his tears.... thats beyond acting. thats timmy becoming the real elio

[@ksclaplace]

He so deserved that OSCAR

[@neelima6460]

No...don't cry don't cry.. But I am still crying. Even the Titanic tragedy didn't made me cry like this.. It's so raw, pure, natural,.. I wish for the viewers relief, they should make a second part to this where Oliver comes and wipe out all the tears and agony of his Elio. 😢😢

[@angedz9347]

Being French, the"tu peux venir me chercher maman?" (Can you come and get me mom?) With his voice breaking is so heartbreaking

[@jazg1622]

the way you can just feel the want/longing and the hurt at the same time 💔

[@cuzimnotlaughing]

When Oliver tried to move away Elio just grabbed him tighter from Oliver’s back. He did not want to let him go, and you can see Oliver smiles knowing Elio doesn’t want him to leave.

[@giordanos391]

I just can't watch this without tears what an AMAZING movie i'm emotionally broken after this movie.

[@HotBaconStrips]

Its so beautiful 😭😭😭 im so sad about the ending! Good thing theyre planning on making a sequel!

[@pierrefireball2505]

Timothee Chalamet was so wonderful in this film, it was a role made for him, along with Arnie. They were perfectly in tune with each other. Timothee looks so stunning, in this role. I'm a very much older gay man (68 years old) I own the video of this movie, I have watched it many times since then. Yet it still seems so fresh and so beautifully made. I just wondered why Timothee did not get the Oscar for his performance.

[@mr.scoups4190]

Alright it’s been two years and my tears still falling.

[@godsowncountry3605]

the way Elios voice brakes while calling his mother is heart breaking. The same as after the peach scene when he falls in Olivers arms crying and saying " I don´t want You to go" Masterfull acting!

[@thomasthompson6378]

I think, in all honesty, this is one of the most painful moments in any film I've ever seen.

[@kayjay12341]

One of the most beautifully acted and set scenes of the movie. Absolutely stunning. This movie should have won a lot more awards than it did. It’s a master class on acting

[@charlesdarnay5455]

Rather than a sequel, I'd like to see the same story retold from Oliver's point of view, starting in the states, maybe another argument or fight and breaking up with his girlfriend again. Pressure from his parents to hurry back from Europe and be ready to settle down and start a family. Then he arrives in Italy at this perfect villa, these amazing smart and open and accepting parents and their precocious, talented son. He's never felt this free in his life. He is fascinated by this professor's son, as much as the son seems to be fascinated by him, and he talks to Elio's Mom about it. She reads him the same story about the knight and the princess, long before she ever reads it to Elio. And that sets the story in motion from Oliver's point of view... When he returns to the states, his father immediately starts up again with settling down, starting a family, etc. Oliver tries to resist, he really doesn't want that, but eventually he caves in to the pressure. Now he has to figure out how to break the news to Elio...

[@leftyla]

Wait, I just notice this...is Ellio wearing the shirt Oliver wore when they first met???

[@renlechu5727]

yep! that's why it's so big on him :)

[@tuuliamoors4134]

Yes, and after they made love for the first time Elio asked Oliver to give that shirt to him before he would leave. Elio later received it with the "for Oliver from Elio" note. Can't get any more perfect than that.

[@thebibibliophilicloner5478]

Why did you let me know that 😭😭

[@wintermacca]

It's Billowy, Oliver gave it to him.

[@mohafar4975]

Ohhh tnx i didn't notice it before

[@suzycreamcheesez4371]

TC should've gotten the Golden Globe and the Oscar.

[@preetisingh-qp1rh]

That scene is really hurts me ... you can only feel that ,its hard to describe

[@johnkeating362]

I can’t watch this film. I fell in love for the first time in the early 80’s. I’ll never forget seeing him for the last time. He died in 1986. I hope he knows how much I loved him.