Weak men are slaves to women

[@symboIiq]

Needed this.. lost myself in women. Only happy when I get one, extremely sad when I lose one. Very toxic place to be.

[@isdenn7]

@John m watch the video again, then u know it.

[@devingildner8328]

Same here brother. God speed. We’re all rooting for you

[@buttheadmcge9400]

Seen people throw their whole life away jumping between relationships like a bad soundtrack

[@primalg1237]

if a girl is losing interest in you.... you're spending too much time with her. spend time building yourself up. Law 16: Use absence to increase respect and honor. Law 11: Learn to keep people dependent on you. God first.. then yourself... stay on your grind and purpose! Yes, care for them.... use 'selective caring'

[@udaffka666]

Man, I'm so lucky to have you guys. Monkmode community is hands down the best online community I've ever been a part of. Lifting each other up, getting strong together, having a greater purpose. I'm currently reading 48 Laws of Power and it's so dope to see other men who read and practice the same stuff. Especially during these fucked up times when the world is literally going mad and is turning away from what really matters. This is fucking sad, but it's very uplifting that there are like-minded men becoming stronger. Even though we'll never meet each other, we still are all connected 🔥

[@primalg1237]

@@udaffka666 salut brother. always share and help a brother

[@adriantaylor4896]

What book is that?

[@primalg1237]

@@adriantaylor4896 The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

[@grim3016]

Can you write out the laws by any chance?

[@SpecialAbonnent]

-Neediness is weakness -The man must be the less caring part in the relationship (It won't make you a bad person) -> Still care about the well being of an individual -A woman won't complete your life, she can be a "vision" -Start caring about something greater than only a woman -"A strong kingdom doesn't need to be defensive" -> Control your emotions (Don't be distracted) -Don't chase a woman -Be a strong man -Be aware of the Seven Deadly Sins

[@BasedBrothers]

Been off the internet for a week. What a blessing it has been. Meditated 1 hour in the morning, 1 hour in the evening. The screens can enslave us and as Elisha says, they have the capacity to deplete our mental faculty. So much clarity and rejuvenation of the spirit gained when I logged out of the internet. Highly recommend for those who want to return to the source, the natural state of peace, for those who want to be reminded of your harmony with the universe. I realized more deeply than ever before: Life is great, now. Stay Based

[@zaynumar0]

Wow. One whole week. That sounds amazing . I need to break up with tech

[@BasedBrothers]

Zayn Umar recommend AF dude you will gain so much clarity

[@tezr0ck]

A man does not go to a woman to get his strength, he goes to her to offer it. -John Eldredge

[@thestoik5440]

"The strongest among you is he who can out wrestle his own emotions rather than he who can out wrestle other men." Giving in to either end of the emotional "spectrum" is weakness. Rise above it brothers! You are not your emotions.

[@sosilverraider7119]

Well put man self control is clarity without it you can never be so sure you’re making the right decision. I’m angry myself takes me over I’m 19 far from beatin it.

[@thestoik5440]

@@sosilverraider7119 You will get there brother as will I it takes time and patience. If life was easy it wouldnt be worth living.

[@isdenn7]

@@sosilverraider7119 self control is the key.

[@21Seamoney]

become conscious of your emotions, and then control them. youll quickly find out you dont need to react to almost anything (including your desires and need to be liked)

[@sw3tfilth207]

How do u control then

[@ceckolalovia]

@@sw3tfilth207 Observation without story behind it

[@jamessushch9148]

There’s only one source of order, strength, peace, joy, and truth. Really enjoyed the video bro. God bless

[@jamessushch9148]

DawerDebully The point of my comment is for you to fill in the blank, to think about it. And yes DawerDebully, I do believe in God.

[@captainalex157]

@@juzleo90 Heisenberg

[@ryan_the_overlord]

It’s crazy that there are shame tactics aimed toward men who are assertive and individualistic, but universal acceptance of godless, unfulfilling, modern lifestyles of reliance on pleasure

[@赤帝-g8u]

Thank you Elisha for the timely reminder. Some reflections of my own: Tradition - set of values and behaviours that constitute a way of life (presumably good) Men need to discern good from evil. The times are such that what is natural has become unnatural and people have lost sight of what is good and what is not. My personal basis of this is that good is what builds a person up - physically, mentally, spiritually. Bad is effectively anything else that does not serve this purpose, because if you are not going up then you would naturally be falling behind. The only way is forward. Tradition is the clear line that divides oneself and the world. Anger - the emotion of change Anger arises when one cannot accept the circumstances and is most prominently manifest when men can't stand sadness i.e. Suffering. To use anger correctly as any other tool, we must first become present and aware of what must be done and use the energy and drive that anger gives to do something that results in good. However, falling back to the previous point. The worth of what we allow ourselves to get angry at should be taken into account. We should only allow ourselves to be angry at things of true value (which we should also consider why we value what we do). This is the function of tradition as it clearly defines this. Anger should not be confused with bitterness. Bitterness is hatred of being and results in self-defilement in all aspects. Lastly, as a reference to Elisha's video on the Socratic phrase 'Know thyself'. We should aim to truly understand what strengths and weaknesses that we have and not be afraid to confront the possible lies that we've imbibed from self or others. In the world everyone knows enough to pursue what he does not know, but no one knows enough to pursue what he already knows. Everyone knows enough to condemn what he takes to be no good, but no one knows enough to condemn what he has already taken to be good. - Zhuangzi, ancient Chinese philosopher.

[@Breaklimitingbeliefs]

I think channels like this which not a lot of people watch or have discovered are the true treasures.

[@alextrainor2552]

There were no princesses in the movie 300 and that is the ultimate mans movie.

[@appledrug2]

Perfect video elisha. I met this girl while traveling, i like spending time with her but for me shes just an addition to my mission. I want to get better at skateboarding and eventually do a job in that area! Maybe a nutritionist for pro skaters or a video editior.

[@ElishaLong]

That's awesome. Happy to hear you had a great trip. Btw have you ever tried riding a "onewheel" or a electric unicycle?

[@appledrug2]

Elisha Long nah man. Saw a bunch of them in the streets of hamburg in germany. I remember when casey neistat was getting into them. They are not my vib though. But probably for filming lines with fisheye such a thing would make alot of sense

[@datguy9408]

Dude that’s sick asf!

[@emanuel81111]

Conan is a high thumos movie, in comparison of disney stories, conan is a story of a man who wants to be recognized by god as a worthy man , no women or men stood in his way to his goal . A man , his god and the tradition.

[@gameart-no8td]

Idk about other religions but in Islam God says something like who is worse than those who take their own desires as their god and then says whoever stays away from my remembrance(God's) indeed they will have a depressed life and these verses hit me hard like it flipped my whole life around. I literally stopped simping trying to get closer to God. So as Elisha said establish God in your life and you will find inner peace and your true purpose :)

[@thestoik5440]

That hit me hard, thanks bro.

[@thewolfofmalkara6203]

totally agree with you man, im glad that i found your comment, i dont feel alone now :D

[@AIRSOFTRAIDERS1]

"A human must first make peace with men, before he might abide in the peace of God"

[@shayz6801]

ALHAMDOLILLAH!!! BEING GRATEFUL IS THE KEY TO HAPPINESS BOYS

[@csj9619]

I can attest this to be true!

[@Nukleozy]

This is the most intelligent monologue I've seen in years. Nice guys, please realize - the woman energy will trample you if you let it. Stay strong.

[@xaviermolloy8724]

It will kill you, your spirit and your health. Been there done that.

[@Ali-fo4uv]

@@xaviermolloy8724 wdym

[@jackharley742]

Wow this is true man, even the quote “happy wife happy life”. Like no. Focus on something greater, her happiness is her responsibility

[@Grindsetillionaire]

The way you choose your words so carefully gives them so much more power and impact. I got distracted from the content for a moment because I was just impressed at your choice of words. That's a real skill, man

[@MarkusSsZ]

Holy shit, this hits me so hard. I definitely needed this now. You're hands down one of the best youtubers dude.

[@Picardssiette]

chilled, laid back, casual. Facts. The masculine energy here is very high. Stay focused, men.

[@isdenn7]

Its incredible how much of a blessing you are Elisha, following you for some years now. but im at a point of my life where I really need to weight things up and decide what's good and important for me in the bigger picture and not in the wants needs and greeds. I will always be thankful for you and giving us these lessons. Bless UP!!!!

[@septronix4132]

This video really confirms a lot of thoughts into a nice 22 min vid, thanks man. God bless

[@fj4731]

Hi Septron I need advice if can help me out.. I wish to know how we Man should react with words or respond with action 1) on my Birthday my gf did not get me a Birthday Gift and only a Slice cake that clearly she didnt prepare in advance I react badly by saying where is my Birthday present and why my Birthday is miserable with just a slice cake… What i did for her Birthday I spend $$$ and a proper Birthday with fireworks candle ..by the sea front …she was very happy …but I told her I didnt buy her any Birthday gift because she didnt even bother to reciprocate I know I feel like Shit and act like Shit What should I had said and do? 2) One day I went haircut she got herself a Take Out fast food for herself ..she used to include dinner for me but this comeback together after the breakup..she didn’t invest much on me and put little effort. I called her out where is my dinner that she got for herself only …I felt so bad she used to share and we eat together Take Out but this time unlike all our 7 years she prefer to go home and eat alone ….leaving myself to eat alone and get my own take out..I am ok but I felt Bitter why she said she love me but her action is Not much In the past 7 years it very natural to date and text her …but now she withdraw 80% .. 3) she told me she would be sociable when I saw one her picture in her phone she with a guy in the gym What would a Alpha Musculine man do ? Please help..Thank you

[@zonefreakman]

Elisha knows the Greater Game at play, and he knows the Real Solution to these modern problems. He's not hiding behind an ideology through fear, or wanting to instigate an authoritarian regime in hopes of eradicating Evil. The solution is for men to gain their inner strength back.

[@sjhewitt123]

As a kid I watched Dragon Ball Z while the other boys watched spongebob. There was a difference there already.

[@_hector__]

I watched both... 😂

[@Hero_Of_Old]

Nah man Spongebob was alpha AF

[@samuelvelazquez8834]

I watched both but DBZ is warrior shit, and I feel American people got robbed of watching Saint Seiya as kids because that went hard and glorified sacrifice and honor.

[@datguy9408]

I watched both lol. You gotta be a warrior and learn to have a sense of humor.

[@chill3282]

I genuinely love how I found this channel. I already started to feel this way at an early age but having this cool older brother dude communicate on self improvement from experience is awesome

[@JunoNH]

women: "I don't like the power imbalance, because he doesn't need me" also women: "I need someone who can support me when I'm vulnerable and you can't do that if you're needing me" they can't have their cake and eat it, but out of the two options you're going to have to take the first because its uncomfortable but not a deal breaker

[@forgottenvirtues5480]

With every video I watch, the urge get's stronger to join the discord

[@rodrick2610]

This was perfect timing for me. Thanks man.

[@GuapoJoe]

We must stay grounded... great content Elisha💪

[@LSBSKATEBOARDING]

Needed to hear this alot. I was in a such a dark place since the start of this year. Ended up injurying myself last month because of it. You made me re-evaluate what is important but also to what was I was blind to see. Your videos has helped me alot over the years. Thank you Elisha it means alot to me. High thumos brother!

[@malachibrown9054]

Great video topic Eli. Men need this direction.

[@f3arlessking2]

This might be your best video yet brother. I especially loved the emphasis on tradition. No tradition no order. Keep up the awesome work, and thanks for being a calm and reasonable voice for me this past year. Helped me mature and hold myself to a higher standard!💪🏾

[@user-tk4qd8dj1p]

This was amazing. Don’t let the Devil in. Reject Evil.

[@scottclark4798]

Great video Elisha. I used to be that guy that made women my #1 priority-only leading to bouts of anxiety & frustration. It was exhausting but I know better now. Goals are way more important than that BS

[@whoasked728]

I swear I learn more from you than I learned in school

[@gavinmarko2351]

You are such a fucking stud man I’ve been following you for years and it’s super impressive you are able to consistently crank out content that really does help center us guys into who we are meant to be💪💪 I’ve always thought of you as a friend/mentor I never had. My goal is to continue to get more calm, centered, and confident in who I am so I finally can muster up the courage to start speaking my truth about nutrition and other passions in life more. God bless brother let’s get it💪

[@PhoenixTTV.]

Thanks for the content bro. I appreciate your effort and work!!❤️💯🙌🏽

[@primalg1237]

Agreed God first brother. Good video!

[@mutemessiah6805]

Your thoughts have helped me in addition to some hard work to cultivate a more positive outlook on the Universe. Thank you.

[@jasontodd7702]

Teaching a blue pill friend how to be red pill has been one of the most difficult things

[@Monsizr]

Don't bother

[@TheYoungSavage]

You hit on some solid shit I've been thinking Elisha! Thanks bro. I've been thinking about it but I haven't been able to define what I've picking up on. You defined it perfectly broski, soak up the knowledge boys this is facts

[@panokostouros7609]

"Man was not made for woman, but woman for man."

[@marioantoniocrespoMexican92]

I’m a very empathetic man! I love helping others men can be creative & artistic person as well. I love animals & I love singing not all artistic jobs is for women. Singing is also a men job. Some men are born to be singers & creative person

[@seanjones906]

It is important to keep emotional investment in women very low in the beginning stages of a relationship. Women want a man who has life they will want to be part of, and not to be the complete focus of their man. Women want a man who has an adventurous life and they need to have a sense of FOMO in order to get attached to him. And with bitterness and resentment, it becomes easier to take a path of malevolence and you become that which you hated most. A Weak Man.

[@lydiaheppell838]

AMEN👍👍👍👌👏

[@datguy9408]

Thank you bro

[@pepeglizzy]

Stop caring. Learn to love yourself before you love another. Until you grow yourself you will not be successful in relationships.

[@WomboBraker]

solution on point, good video

[@guitardrums195]

"Hold on loosely" - .38 Special

[@Comeonemane1]

thanks chad

[@xEspada]

How do you guys go about accepting that you were a weak man in the past and have done things that bring shame to the man you are today? Thank you

[@SpecialAbonnent]

It's easy to accept, when you've changed

[@jaredvalisno7762]

Why bring shame? No past should not matter

[@amaanahmed3568]

Girl don’t love you they love the feeling you give them. When you stop giving them that feeling there is no use for you anymore.

[@abbefaria2830]

Thank you thank you thank you brother. Needed this

[@shivaindica8411]

Best video on KZbin! I'm so glad, that you mentioned God. And told us to start thinking of him and not making fun of him. So blessed video!

[@loganrea2928]

Powerful shit Elisha 🔥

[@justingeorgopoulos4875]

Thank you for your work brother. Have you read “hard times create strong men” by Stefan Aarnio?

[@goranmiljevic88]

LEGENDARY!

[@MusicLvr81281]

I was at a place when younger where i didnt care about chasing women. I always got them. I was fit , motivated and had a good strong mindset. Im now in my early 40s and am at a weak point again. I just seperated from my wife and that triggers it.

[@wasssup4436]

The most important thing is don't show up your all traits to a weak girl that makes you weak and less important or like a tool Remember a joker allways doesn't reveals all the traits and tricks so he is unpredictable and superior

[@duumek201]

Strength and honour !

[@dillonkermani5898]

GOD bless you man. This video is right on!

[@blaowbam3540]

I've actually started to become more aloof recently so I could honestly care less about chicks lol. Chicks seem to dig this for some reason so its cool I guess. Once you've come to the realization that God is all you need you start to feel indifferent towards others.

[@jojox1733]

Women will literally want you more for this. Good call, keep doing you.

[@krazualtera391]

It kinda brings me back to when i was a little kid and was grossed out by girls, nowadays i see girls and sure sometimes i get horny but most of the time its this "yuck/eww" feeling, not that im not atracted but more like i know now that that girl is not the top of my mountain. I just ignore them haha.

[@vesnavm9755]

Amazing. I'm truly fascinated😇🙏

[@osterfjordenful]

Elisha! Mostly great as always. Check out Evola the Myth of the Grail. The right kind of chivalry is part of tradition and it may nuance your view on the subject. Best brogards from Norway!

[@ElishaLong]

Currently reading The Bow and The Club by Evola. I'll check it out man thank you

[@osterfjordenful]

@@ElishaLong Interesting. Pls let us know if you find some golden nuggets there. I appreciate greatly the work you are doing for us. Keep going :-) You are onto a great path!

[@dienekesghost6132]

Great work

[@shahmir2492]

Man I feel 60% pumped up after listening to you. Hit the gym only for 40%

[@darkmattergamesofficial]

Women may leave you on read, but the Grind is always waiting...

[@Theairisalive]

Great topic dude. Loved this video! ✊

[@Hero_Of_Old]

Its definately something that can be difficult, especially when you've grown up believing the opposite. When I was 16/17 I use to be submissive and needy, I got a lot of interest from girls and a gf but it ended badly because 1. She was a compulsive liar and 2. I also acted like a weak bitch. I learnt this stuff at 19 and became a lot more confident with girls, got a decent girlfriend but I went the opposite way and was too stoic and uncaring. A common thread running through both was that I never had any purpose or mission, I was floating through life. Girls can sense that. I'm 23 now and part of me wants a gf for a partner and someone to share stuff with. But at the same time I don't because I need to sort my life out first, and they can be a lot of hassle

[@almiraj-x]

I can relate. Either way I grow too dependent. I first need to establish a life goal so I have something to focus on, until then a romantic relationship would be an energy-sucking disaster after the initial honeymoon phase. Floating through life apathetically sucks.

[@silenos9955]

I needed this

[@kaustubhsatoskar9242]

Love yo content bro ❤️ and your chalks ( they look some sort of ice cream bar 😋😂)

[@guillermoarroyocohen3373]

Couldnt help but notice the Nietzschian ideas. Keep up the good work bro.

[@Neutrino0000]

My goodness, you're right about the Disney movies. Hercules gave up his option of being immortal to be with a woman and that was one of my favorite movies as a kid. I can see why I use to so focus on women in the past.

[@T_Fizzle]

Hey, love the recent content Elisha, do you have a reading list, or recommended books? Any recommendations are appreciated, fiction or non fiction doesn't matter, I'm reading "48 Laws of Power" right now.

[@loukas1036]

every man should watch this video, we're being poisoned

[@oooweebaby4483]

Men like to be macho today which is fine to an extent but men also gotta have honor together.

[@shonuff524]

Thanks for the info

[@theotht]

These videos are so long I have to split them in two days to finish the entire thing

[@peterl830]

can you create a discord community?

[@renemaier5197]

Cringe

[@xfallapartx88]

This is a good video, well said. I struggle with this into my 30’s and I wish I had someone like Elisha to tell me this when I was 20. Young men, take note. A few other great men that have helped me, “coach corey Wayne” and “dr Jordan Peterson”. I recommend checking out their content as well. High thumos

[@xfallapartx88]

Ali hell yeah. True story, bro.

[@Then00bhunt3r]

REJECT MODERNITY EMBRACE TRADITION

[@mrshmuga9]

I’m not sure what to do with my life, it all seems so pointless. The one goal I do have is virtually impossible because it has so many variables outside one’s control, but anything less in that area is worse than a normal career. Outside that I’ve got nothing. Some hobbies sure, but nothing else I would consider a “life goal” (or at least a goal). Nothing to work towards, care about or look forward to, so it all feels like a waste of time. If this is it I might as well be dead and cut out the middle man. It’s not like I care about life anyway.

[@blaowbam3540]

Get a skill. Learn an instrument, lift weights, paint, something that will give you the motivation to get up in the morning.

[@mrshmuga9]

@@blaowbam3540 Thanks. I do have hobbies I really enjoy, but it's hard to stay motivated when they seem negligible in the grand scheme of things.

[@Blakely901]

Being a leader in your community by setting the example for others bro. Honestly, just let your life shine through to others. That never has to have an end goal but just practice daily

[@DrawingBase]

love u man!

[@joshua.johnson]

Thank you

[@peteman8160]

Great video

[@Lenny-zn8hn]

what you desire too much, youll lose. what you let loose, desires you. buddhism is probably the best belief-system around all this, women stuff and self-improvement. only thing worth chasing is buddha, he isnt a "god", he is the best version of your very self.

[@fj4731]

Hi Lenny..I need advice if can help me out.. My on and off Gf couldnt sleep at night , and affecting her mental health….should I pull away or show my love or care by initiating contact? She didn’t text me for 22days She also having problem with Neck Degeneration and back pain..she is in her Menopause age… Should I be more caring like a Beta or I should Dont care like Alpha to just respond only when she reach out She want to do her own thing and I wonder whether am I the part time bf or she only need me when she want to ? I tried to arrange appointment with Doctors…she rather go on her own but medicine or gynae or chiropractic couldnt help her …she blame me is the source of her Mental Stress by me wanting her to put more effort on our relationship she feel pressure till she break down telling me she need rest..i told her she need Love but she said she want peace and to heal on her own.. How to save the relationship with a gf having Menopause and Medical and Mental health ? Today is Day 23 No Contact She said if she miss me she will contact me

[@goldmak1]

Instead of saying tradition and god, you can just say ones values, that they must have faith in.

[@anuragpoddar8631]

elisha long,the absolute chad

[@freelanceservices8704]

Can i believe in "god" without being religious? Whenever I pray and repeat affirmations my life gets better, but Im not religious. How do I do this?

[@braulindisla-elburrodelaba5361]

Afirmations are a lie

[@RG123]

Start by talking to God as if he is your conversation partner. Tell God ANYTHING on your mind. A dialogue will ensue. Over the course of time, you will know what to affirm to yourself--and it will be based on God. And frankly, if you think affirmations are enough...wait until you see what happens after a while when you ask God to be a part of your life and guide the way. That's a whole other experience that you'll have to delay your gratification for.

[@leiftheviikiingerickson7156]

I wish I would've watched this the day it came out! When I was having these problems, Though at the point in time this video came out My relationship was already on the road to destruction past the point of no return. Now I have NO desire for a woman as of now. Though I do know My daughters should have a good female role model in their life. I'm sure I can still learn something from this video though. Hopefully I can join the patreon group soon.

[@leiftheviikiingerickson7156]

Yea I learned a couple decent points in that video still.

[@WhatsThePoint01]

Guess I’ll never be happy because I care to much 🤦‍♂️

[@ezzdd641]

yow elisha , do you still practice the guitar?

[@ElishaLong]

Not really practice man. But I enjoy playing the handful of chords I've learned

[@yato329]

Dude is on his way to be a philosopher

[@juniorm8199]

He's been.

[@scoopsmoo7812]

Elisha can you make a video for teens? Maybe what you wish you did, or what you think we should be doing with our time. Thanks

[@nickpumpeth]

2 dislikes just got rejected by their oneitis and bought gaming PCs

[@mikeforgue4677]

What Elisha said ✍️

[@sergioaguis]

How can I get rid of a girl that just friendzoned me because he doenst want a romantic relationship ever two days ago but keep talking to me?

[@blaowbam3540]

Ghost them lol. She just wants attention from you, nothing more nothing less.

[@samuelvelazquez8834]

ghost her or tell her the truth, walking away is good for you and probably her as well.

[@krazualtera391]

Dont say anything, just walk away.

[@Shukke1992]

Ignore her completelly.

[@datguy9408]

@@blaowbam3540 Fall off bro, eventually she’ll stop bothering you.

[@juniorm8199]

There is no independence in dependence

[@realwillbutler]

monkmode notification squad

[@csj9619]

Our sins have separated us from our God and that's why modern people are lost. Our sole purpose for being alive is to do God's will. Repent your sins and ask forgiveness to re-align yourself with The Most High, do His will and he will provide EVERYTHING for you. The farther people get from God, the more messed up this world gets. Without God, we can do nothing.

[@travisstewart3879]

Greetings thumos!