SINGLE MOM VLOG: 3 KIDS FOR THE DAY, SCHOOL BREAK, CELEBRATING BIRTHDAYS & MORE | Ellarie

[@indoora]

You said the right thing in your last video, some people are very sensitive and there is nothing you can do about that. You are a responsible parent, and some people are way too laxed and their children suffer from it. Kids need order because your boss does not give a care when you mess up, your fired.

[@Ellarie]

thank you!

[@cookingmyway854]

Exactly correct she has to do what a mom has to do. If they don't like what she said, don't watch. She is the mom raising her up to be a respectful young lady. So deal with it.😊😊😊

[@Miah-j4f]

@@Ellarielo

[@Sonae808]

Exactly!

[@indoora]

@@Rain0storm You replied to me not ellarie. I received a notification and this conversation is about her parenting not the length of videos.

[@MundiJae]

You were not wrong at all. Thats your child. You were not abusive, but firm. Raising teens and pre-teens is not easy. Do what you feel is best. Great job!

[@Ellarie]

thank you! ❤

[@tanyalaguer5611]

I have no problem with how you handled her in the last video. I have the same conversations with my daughter. Feels nice knowing I'm not the only one going through this because it feels like it at times. Keep up the great work!

[@Ellarie]

girl! and come to find out she got her first C! she stressin me out!

[@_.2ayle3]

@@Ellariec? wym

[@MuaTavia]

@@_.2ayle3grade in class

[@MsSummerable]

I totally forgot to comment on your video last week, but the comments are why children now are so sensitive and don’t have tuff skin (I said what I said). A lot of persons failed to realize that’s how us over 30+ and beyond where thought how to be strong. it’s from those chastisement we are able to survive in this world because the world is in fact cruel. I agree with how you handled yoshi in last week’s video, and stressed the importance of her doing her work and being responsible. My father had a saying that stayed with me even as an adult (with opportunities comes responsibilities) and if she wants to be in drama and all her extra curricular activities, she has to prioritize also.

[@Ellarie]

exaaaactly!

[@Kesha.Sharee]

I have no problem about what you said in your last video. I appreciate you sharing your life and being honest and vulnerable. You can’t make everyone happy and some people are too sensitive. People like to turn things around and make it about them. It’s not your fault They Were Triggered.

[@analissa452]

100% agree!

[@Ellarie]

thank you! ❤ ❤ ❤

[@Loclovez]

I agree. Ellarie you handled that so well. On or off camera these kids don’t like to hear the truth nor do they wanna take responsibility when they do wrong. That’s it that all. Social media has everybody triggered.

[@missone126]

Love you Ell and your transparency with parenting. My 11 year old daughter has similar behaviors as Yoshi. This development stage is tough you hear me. You and I are the same age and I don’t remember being like these new age chirren! Whew Chile…..keep being you because you’re vlogging your real life. Glad your recovery is going well. Yes we the people would love longer vlogs ❤️ ⏳

[@Ellarie]

trust me no one was like these new age chirren! lol the development stage is truly one of the toughest things im dealing with right now and grandmas these days too busy to lay the law down so i am really doing my best! honestly i know im not doing the best cause im a punk when it comes to her but im trying ❤

[@yadip5527]

Ooh. Longer vlogs PLEASE! ⌛️ About your parenting, you’re doing such a great job, whoever got triggered, I hope they heal from that. You’re doing great. It’s not always sunshine and butterflies when raising kids, you’re sharing the good, the bad and everything in between. Thank you for sharing. ❤

[@Melaninmonroe0708]

Chile parent YOUR child how you want and show what YOU want us to see. If they don’t like it, tell ‘em don’t look!!!! People nowadays are too sensitive. More concerned about being their child’s friend instead of actually being a parent! You did absolutely NOTHING WRONG!!!

[@Ellarie]

people sensitivity gets worse every year i dont do well in those environments! thank you ❤

[@brandyparker7217]

Amen

[@jamielajones3435]

You did good with Zara and how you handled the situation. A lil embarrassment has served us all some good in life, ESPECIALLY when it's mixed with praise and love! I'm a mother of four (between 17-8), so I get it!

[@Ellarie]

ahh-grreeed!

[@mbalim.4180]

Ellarie is never ready for Cali's responses😂she's so funny

[@Ellarie]

her mouth is unpredictable!

[@Lifewithbrooklyn84]

Omg cali had me dying when she said “yo mama’s yo maid yo sista yo maid yo daddy yo maid” she had me on the floor kept having to watch that part cause it was to funny for me omg 😭😂😂😂😂. Nori got so big omg I can’t wait until she turns 2 and she grow a lot more teeth omg💝😘.

[@brandyparker7217]

I completely understand as a mother of a teen girl. We have to be clear and direct especially when the kid is privileged and are given so much more opportunities we didn't have. You give Yoshi so much love and support, you share her accomplishments and you shared being a responsible black mother when she needed it. You are a real mother with legitimate concerns and i respect your honesty and transparency. Sending positive vibes to you both!

[@DP-ln4vc]

Where ever I did it is where I got it. Personally I feel that that what's missing bc some of these kids are so disrespectful bc CPS stepped in and gave this kids the go ahead to do whatever with no repercussions for them and everything for the parents

[@Ellarie]

girl these kids these days are built DIFFERENT! It truly makes me sad that lack of responsibility, independence and lack of fear of repercussions they have. i would never try my mom how she try me

[@aryanahogan2698]

I love the way she talks to Zara and she is a awesome mother. I love her so much .❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kariswoodward380]

I like when you show your conversations with Yoshi it’s refreshing to see a parent actually parent

[@Milah81]

Chile dont let these ppl make you feel bad , its your kid 😂 she gotta learn, our parents were worse & some didnt care . She will be ok . Love the vlog❤❤

[@Ellarie]

thank you ❤

[@Loveacuban]

Parenting is hard- It’s the relatability that we love. Seeing the real & not the cookie cutter life. Keep parenting how you see fit!

[@aneesapaul2873]

I am currently at that stage with my daughter and so much of what you said resonated with me. I'm trying to prepare her for the real world but I also know she is spoiled a bit and has a nice life so the lessons I'm trying to teach her I have to remind myself often whenever I get frustrated that she will learn and develop at her own pace but whew chillllleeee! You are a great mom, raise your child the way you see fit. I saw nothing wrong with how you handled it. Unhealed ears will always hear from a place of hurt...

[@briana8286]

The the Doux Mouse! It works sooo well with no other products needed. It doesn’t leave the hair crunchy, and dries fast. I have 4b-4c hair and love it!

[@mizzmek1]

Hey !!! Try The Doux products! They are great for her hair type! They have a wash n go line. It’s great! Also the mousse called mousse def. She needs something that’s has a slight gel like hold. But be light with it.

[@Ellarie]

i never heard of that i hafta look it up!

[@MuaTavia]

@@Ellariethe mouse is sooo good and moisturizing I just put that in and twist or coil my hair and I’m good

[@karmikarm1079]

I left a comment on the other video too. You’re a good mama and doing the best you know. No one has all the parenting answers and we’re figuring it out along the way. All I would say is, don’t show us the discipline as we may not have the entire context. I think that should be private. Just something to consider is maybe save a convo like that after school. Sometimes I have to bite my tongue in the mornings because I don’t want them to start their school day in a bad mood. She was clearly upset which can affect her productivity, how well she does on a test, her social interactions with classmates. It just can be a domino effect. You weren’t wrong about anything you said. It was the timing of the convo and the camera but it’s really not our business to judge ❤❤

[@barbarabrown7276]

Hi Ellarie🥰 you are doing a great job raising Zara stay firm and loving it will definitely pay off as she grows older as she matures Zara will never forget what she was taught she can carry it throughout her life🤎🤎🤎

[@cookingmyway854]

Baby u did what she needed to hear. She is getting older and u have to do what u need to do its real life. 😊😊😊

[@youaintgettingmyhandle]

Glad you’re doing better and cleared up last week’s video. Continue doing you and being the best Ellarie you know how. 😊

[@Ellarie]

❤ ❤ ❤

[@tiyyas3022]

All the sensitive folks need to go to therapy to cope with their own stuff. You're doing great and actually showing the realities of motherhood. The kids will test your last nerve and so will folks with their opinions.

[@Ellarie]

❤❤❤

[@bnskipper]

⏳ I love watching your content. I’ve been watching you since the makeup videos, I even had your lip gloss collection lol. You remind me a lot of my sister. You are you 100% of the time! Keep it coming!! 💛

[@mckenziestocabocasinging4240]

That little Callie so sassy, but I love it😂❤🎉

[@CarinRenee]

I think about 30-40 mins is nice for my weekly dose, but I’m always down to watch my faves for a good 50 to an hour as well⏳

[@shelbymcgarthy4268]

Honestly I wish my hair looked like yoshi when it’s wet but what I do to “enhance “ my curls is braid out or twist out and the products I like the most is aunt Jackie’s don’t shrink it keeps the hair shiny and gives it a wet look and as I am leave in conditioner too. I hope that helps 🥰

[@Drjohnson166]

I agree with everything you said. Parent how you want. Nothing seemed in the wrong to me. Only thing that was wrong was “ yo mama is your maid!” Had me dying lol 😂

[@bakeiacollins-perry364]

Ellarie My good Sis, You do what you need to do as her Mother!!!!!! You are the only one rising this little one ! Kids don't like anything that doesn't bring them fun ! Life is not a bunch of fun all day !!!!!!! You did right!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@nikkij5871]

Hi Ellarie, You are a great mom. I didn't see anything wrong with how you handled things with your daughter. You do what is best for your child. You don't owe these people no explanations. One of the main reasons these kids are so disrespectful today is because parents do not discipline their kids. Keep being you and take care of yours the way you see fit.

[@macara6561]

The word “triggered” is sooo overused. This is your channel. We all have some type of childhood trauma. However, nobody has to tiptoe around our feelings for the sake of not being “offensive”. If people don’t like the way that you parent, they don’t have to watch you. Simple. As an educator, parents like you are very appreciated. That’s why Zara doesn’t act up in school, bc she KNOWS better. You’re a great mom❤️

[@Khadijah_time]

PERIOD.

[@yemiscorner1261]

⏳Always here for longer vlogs!! I watch each and every single vlog btw!❤

[@christainyancy54]

😂😂😂😂 that convo with you and cali in the car was everything!!! Love it

[@186toy]

People are so weird; I, myself, enjoy real and relatable moments because that is when I connect as a viewer the most. Please continue to do what you’re doing; I believe in correcting my child when she’s wrong in that moment. Whether it’s in private or public, verbally expressing the wrongdoings and my expectations of her, she takes offense to it. My baby is too sensitive, and I will not be walking around on eggshells because she can't handle reproach. I used to get it worse from my mom growing up, so my daughter has it made. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@CarinRenee]

Ellarie done had surgery and gained a whole sweet tooth 😂 Glad you are doing better too 🫶🏾

[@lashawndacooper4396]

Hey Ellarie!! Glad you are doing well..and yes to longer vlogs!! ⌛⌛

[@Ellarie]

❤❤❤

[@TheMrsJMay]

Them parents are SENSITIVE and have issues. That is why some of these kids out here killing people because they don’t get disciplined!!! YOU DO YOU!!! That is your child and this is your channel! If they don’t like it, they don’t have to watch! I LOVE EVERYTHING about you and your channel!!!

[@delishasmith4354]

⏳ love watching your vlogs. Yes! Make them longer 🥰❤️❤️

[@Ilovesoupandicecream]

I love the longer videos because they make my day more

[@simoneandrews215]

U r just find in how YOU (mom) spoke to UR child regarding her Home Work .

[@Ellarie]

❤ ❤ ❤

[@Elleev8]

Giiiirrlllaaa you are doing what you know to do for your child. At first, I thought I was the only but I’m glad to know that I’m not. It actually got to the point where I had to go up to the school and sit in classes because I’m THAT mom! She had went through some heavy transitions but even with therapy and extracurricular as an outlet she had to get it together! The ones that get it get!!!!

[@JourneeHoward-vq1tx]

Your such a great aunt then kids probally get spoiled 24 seven ❤

[@Ellarie]

my babies! ❤

[@Kiara0515]

You're doing a great job Mom. And the people who were triggered need to get their lives together. You're raising a teenager and you have to guide her so she can learn these things now. So she can stand on her own. And at least you know that you have done everything you can to help her along.

[@taereecutie97]

for yoshi's hair try using a botanical gel or foam and then have her sit under the dryer for it dry like 80-90% of the way and then it should stay!

[@taereecutie97]

innersense i create hold is really good. the doux foam is also good, that brand also sells gels that you could use with the foam if desired.

[@Ellarie]

i didnt even think about puttin her under the dryer after! thank you

[@dricka1870]

El, this video says 37:14. Last video, WE agreed on an hour long video. What happened, ma'am😂

[@Ellarie]

i had already started filming this video when the last video went up this one dont count! imma hit 40 next time 😂

[@shandreasenieves5697]

My daughter's hair is just like Zara's. I use Bee Girl honey curl custard. Day one hair is a little crunchy, but it relaxes as time passes and the curls last at least a week.

[@MuaTavia]

I’m 25 and came from an abusive household and am an older sibling who has chastised my younger ones . This particular conversation was not bullying or traumatic at ALL. You literally were saying that she needs to get school together before doing extra curriculars

[@lifeofdayya]

⏳I always enjoy your videos

[@Ellarie]

❤ ❤ ❤

[@Shermarial]

Agreed. Everyone is not going to agree with you. Whether they’ve worked through their trauma or not. That’s ok. They can agree to disagree. I personally enjoy having that content. I have niece I am helping to rear, and they are close in age doing the same things. We watch your videos together a lot, and we actually have conversations about this very topic and its importance to stay on top of your school work etc. I’ve never used the product you were asking about. We love when El gives us the ⏳vlogs.

[@MieshaBluitt]

Try The Doux Crazy Sexy Curl setting foam for Yoshi’s hair.

[@Straykids_Fanpage_143]

Girl I luv yo vids keep going in life

[@Ellarie]

❤ ❤ ❤

[@carleneclark1702]

Stay healthy be careful and blessed 😇 ❤❤⏳🎚️✝️💟☮️

[@Ellarie]

❤❤❤

[@teresasimpkins4713]

Longer please they short ones feel a little cram...LOL

[@Ellarie]

lol i dont be cramin tho this be all the footage i got! I gotta just try to keep the camera out longer

[@Rain0storm]

⏳ I love your content, so yessssss to longer vlogs!!! ❤

[@BRANDIWINE_79]

There was absolutely nothing wrong w/ the convo you had with your daughter last week. When she's older, she'll realized that.

[@indoora]

If there is a natural hair salon near you they would ve the best to help you with Zara's hair. You could make it a girl's day.

[@Ellarie]

girl these good natural hair sylists be overbooked and busy its so annoying

[@indoora]

@@Ellarie I know your pain.

[@laurencolbert7118]

I love the 30-40 minute vlogs but I won’t complain if they are longer ⏳

[@MsFafo]

Hey Ellarie, totally agree with the methods, but yeah, tweens will be tweens lols mine is 15 and still needs all the stern talk❤

[@Ellarie]

tweens be tweenin for sure!

[@CarinRenee]

Lookin at her curls on the sides, it doesn’t look as coily as 4C..but we can also have different hair types in different parts of our head. Also, the products you use are gonna be more based on her hair’s porosity than her hair type..try the cup of water test to determine whether her hair is high, med, or low porosity I think going through finger coiling her hair with the product may produce better results than raking the product through her hair if that makes sense. ☺️

[@NeshaJay]

Wow! No way. I made my 6 y/o daughter watch. Not to be a "bully, rude, chastise, etc." But for her to understand what truly is important. I agree with your last vlog. You good 👍🏾

[@CarlyBb-uo8po]

Can u do 4 kids for the day pls pls

[@Ellarie]

omg!

[@MsJennyb]

I’m sorry I forgot what you said to put, but longer 😂

[@Ellarie]

😂

[@courtknee491]

I would’ve loved to give feedback on the Caudalie face mist but $50 😅 I’ve been wanting to try it so please do a review!

[@Ellarie]

lol girl so far all i know is it smells like i sprayed a bougie spa on my face and the mist is really fine so it may last a while so thats good! i gotta keep using to notice more

[@queendollfaceetv]

Girl, this generation is sensitive & soft! You don't be hitting that girl & you didn't even curse her out on camera... So I don't see what the issue is. People praise you for being real but then criticize you for keeping your parenting real on camera😅 Can't seem to win for losing, like make it make sense. I think you're doing amazing! I love you & Nori's relationship lol. I think 45min & under vlogs are sweet to me! If every KZbinr made 1hr vlogs, we couldn't find enough time to watch them all😂 Maybe one , 1hr vlog per month wouldn't hurt, but I personally love your current time frame.

[@BeComingNyrell]

I have REAL tears Nori was on her way baby 🤣

[@jasminebenjamin6042]

You didn’t say anything wrong your last video. Sometimes you have to put things on blast asap so you can fix the problem right then and there. Your daughter will definitely understand and respect you more as she gets older in life. You’re doing a great job as a parent so don’t let these people discredit your parenting. Also yes the caudalie face spray is really good but I’ve had cheaper ones work just as good.

[@aryanahogan2698]

LONGER VLOG ELLARIE pls. WE NEED LONGER VLOGS.

[@coralieciceron6855]

Caudalie is really good, I use there brightening dark spot serum. You are doing great Mom, Yoshi will thank you later.

[@Artisha.V]

Yes longer videos!! ⏳

[@Lifewithrenee-]

11:35 honey Cali was going in all the way😂😂

[@DestinyIrene8]

I don’t see the issue with how you handle Yoshi in the last video. I have an almost 13 year old as well, so those who get it, get it…..I literally laughed out loud watching you chase after Bertha 😂😂😂 oh and ⌛️⏳⌛️⏳

[@naturallysweetT7]

Try uncle funkys daughter gel and camille rolls naturals honey spiked mousse for zara's hair

[@bahatiwilliams5362]

Yes, long vlogs ⏳

[@Ellarie]

❤❤❤

[@cece_]

Love your parenting && yes girl YOLO 🎉❤️😂 ⏳⏳⏳

[@Riteideas]

The problem with today’s parenting is …They ALLOW the inmates to run their ASYLUM! There was NOTHING wrong with your car convo with Zara! These were always in my holster as a MOM: -Truth hurts -Your lack of planning doesn’t constitute an emergency on my part -That’s good for your friends -Clean your room -Go do your Homework -Always ask, there’s a 50% chance that you’ll get it/wont get it but a 100% chance of not getting it if you don’t -NO -YES -I am sorry -I LOVE you STAY LOCKED & LOADED ….there isn’t a do over in parenting!❤

[@savannadelvalle4651]

That’s a good idea for the save money ideas

[@deborahheflin8005]

Girl , you weren't wrong. You are a great parent, you are doing what needs to be done in order to raise a productive, kind, and respectful young adult. For those who were 'triggered", they will get over it, they are not your responsibility. You need to nip the rolling of the eyes, smart comments, etc in the bud now as it will only get worse. The teenage years bring on the "I know more than you and the "I'm going to do it how I want attitude". I don't think the way you speak to her is inappropriate or disrespectful, she has no problem jumping in when you are filming and it doesn't even involves her, so she shouldn't complain when you need to parent on camera. When you need to really make your point (in your serious mother tone) you have turned off the camera as so not to embarrass her. As for your breakdowns, I've had them too when I was a single parent. Every once in awhile you need those (and a good cry), especially when you don't have someone to give you the break that you need. Keep doing what your doing, she will get it, it will just take some time and consistency. She just needs reminders that she is not an adult or one of her school friends. ⏳

[@allthingsnatural3882]

Girl, you did nothing wrong! There was no bullying, or over chastisement etc! 2:29

[@xosdot]

Exactly! Ellarie you are doing a great job!

[@Ellarie]

appreciate that!

[@allthingsnatural3882]

@@Ellarie Np!

[@Itgirl30000]

You aren’t wrong that’s your child and nobody can tell you otherwise

[@indoora]

Ms. Swan, I love reruns of Mad TV.

[@Ellarie]

where do reruns show?

[@indoora]

@@Ellarie Yhat was years ago not sure about now.

[@maeieshiedawson3466]

Best day ever after sister

[@MustLoveJones]

People bringing up laws relating to the situation definitely did too much lol. I think considering your content is usually titled mom vlog it makes sense that discipline might be sprinkled in. I did share my opinion on the last vlog but I don’t think the situation was so deep that I would have if you hadn’t asked. For what it’s worth it’s very clear that you’re a great mom and auntie. I don’t even have kids and I personally enjoy seeing you navigate motherhood.

[@tweety83627]

Naw El you was very correct and right on the last video, don't put the camera down that's what's wrong with ppl now they are soft on their kids. Wherever you act up is where the correction will be period, ppl act like you were cussing her out and belittling her, she was acting up in school and you got it together and in this video, Cali needed it too lmbo...as a single mom of 4 you are doing great issa balance with these kids!

[@carleneclark1702]

Try the black hair care products. Like ; Tracee Ellis Ross, Taraji P. Henson and Beyoncé new hair care products.. ❤❤❤They should work for y’all hair..✝️💟☮️💖

[@Ellarie]

❤

[@lovelyleah4685]

Heyyyyy family❤❤❤❤

[@Ellarie]

️♥️️♥️️♥️

[@tyoniagardner614]

What I got from it was, Yosh is comfortable enough to say I don’t like doing this on camera… I have a 11 year old daughter and I be like lordddd if you want me to go to jail just say thaaaat! Cause do lil momma wanna fight meeeeeee???? Meeeeee! A lot of us had horrible childhoods but nothing you do As a Stranger I’m literally watching at my own will can trigger me! Butttttt when ya assssss faintedddddddd I was like Nowwwwwwwwwwwww wait a minute

[@Ellarie]

lol they be wantin to fight for sure! but imma win mama so dont trrrrryyy meeeeee!

[@indoora]

Yeah. I have a look that I give kids and they know to stop whatever it is they are doing because they know I follow-through on the look and they will not like it.

[@Ellarie]

i try the look thing! my auntie and mom had one but these kids be lookin at me like 'what you lookin at!'😅

[@rarissime]

@@EllarieExactly, the look don’t work no more 😭😭

[@jaminaglover2676]

Girl parent your child your doing your job

[@Ellarie]

❤❤❤

[@carringtontaylor1304]

I love you ell.

[@Ellarie]

love ya back!

[@carringtontaylor1304]

@@Ellarie ❤️

[@delilahfoster5492]

Pls do 4 kids for 2 nights pls😂💋🫶🏾

[@Ellarie]

two niiiiggghhhttss?!?

[@Khadijah_time]

@@EllarieOh, they trippin’. They trying to unalive you with all that lol…

[@delilahfoster5492]

@@Ellarie yesss plss

[@MaryWilliams-uz4xz]

It's fine.I love you guys yo.Shi da.Oh shi da yo shi da

[@ThisisNylaasworld]

You and yoshi are two pretty girls

[@DreaLatrice]

Ego gel works wonders on 4 hair!

[@adriennedeontesmith2020]

I want to see Callies easter Sunday performance! Please.

[@YOFAVV_AUTUMN]

try to Babysite cail and zara and nori and also niylah try to take all of them bye ur self lol😄

[@Ellarie]

that sounds stressful!

[@YOFAVV_AUTUMN]

Lol

[@mamabisa]

Nah these people being extra . Some kids will not like their behavior corrected in front of people for anythingggggg and that’s more damaging. Like you reiterated, it’s the lighter stuff like past due homework so they need to relax lol. Yoshi has always given perfect child and we love that for her but stepping into high school era takes a lot of action correcting , you’re doing great Ellarie🫶🏽

[@Ellarie]

thank yoooooooooooou! i got yoshi lookin perfect thats wild lol

[@Loveacuban]

Once in a while ⏳

[@2cool4school345]

the baby looks like cali smmm