How Long Until He Comes Back Around And Why Sometimes He Never Does

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

They come back when the other woman doesn’t want them

[@j-tenn226]

All that behavior and mess is called grown boy behavior. Ladies it is NEVER worth it. Pick someone who picks you the first time around. Confused men need to be left alone.

[@akuasalaam490]

You're absolutely CORRECT!

[@moonshine2603]

Hmm probably yes.. but he drove 120km to me after 3 days of chatting much. We had deep talk, the time went soo easily and fast, he said. He made compliments how good i smell and how i‘m looking. We were holding hands, we cuddled at the sea. I felt connected. He said that he wants to meet me again. But than he became sick and he started to reply every 3-4days. „Too busy, sorry“ - he‘s just a student like i am and i usually reply within 6hours. That was in november 2021. till now he just wished me „merry christmas“ „happy new year“ when i decided not to response to his one-two word messages. Now he only reply every 4-6weeks. Than he asked me if i‘m dating other guys - yes. He won‘t he would just focuss on himself. Sometimes he send me a song in the night and said that he wished to have me by his side. Than i react like „ohh how cute. This would be awsome“ and than again got ignored even when i asked him for another date. I thought he could be my soulmate. I‘m a shy person and he is so open and so communicative. ..

[@nofybn7794]

@@moonshine2603 Move on. He is not interested. I'm Sorry. He sucks. He doesn't communicate. 4-6 weeks is a long time.

[@yellowtheresunshine]

@@moonshine2603 he sounds avoidant to me, as in dismissive avoidant attachment style. Learn about attachment styles; there's 4 different ones.

[@moonshine2603]

@@yellowtheresunshine maybe you can be right.. his father left them really early. He is from sybirian but came to Germany when he was 6-7years and he also moved early in a flat by his own. Do you know more about it? If it fits? His last relationship is 1year ago.

[@FM-zg5hz]

THEY COME BACK WHEN THEIR LIFE IS MISERABLE. KARMA, BABES.

[@KierraLovesHipsters]

Always

[@pugz910]

Im happy you said sometimes they dont. I see a lot hoping and waiting that in a month they will be back and happily ever will happen. No it really wont be happy. After 2-3 weeks, it will be same old same old. If he wanted you from jump, he would still be there.

[@FM-zg5hz]

It’s the same as for example me not suddenly liking a guy more if I already don’t like him. If you think of the situation logically and put yourself in someone’s shoes it’s easier to see the circumstance for what it is. I won’t suddenly wake up and like a guy one day if I already didn’t like him much to begin with.

[@funnygirlever]

They all have come back for me. Sometimes just to tell you the truth. Sometimes to see if you will take him back and Sometimes to see if you will still be stupid enough to still be their victim but whatever Reason know your worth. Do what makes you happy and your happy without him, stay there and continue with your happy new life. ❤

[@taminutall6241]

You hit my whole last 4.5 months on the head in just 6 minutes!! Thank you for this because i was hoping he'd "wake up" after our no contact period this month.

[@annab2796]

I haven’t heard from him in 45 days. We saw each other for 6 months. He turned out to be an impotent at 54. Good looking guy but each time we tried, nothing would happen or it would happen fast… he kept telling me, he’s nervous… I was patient and understanding, never pressured him. He just disappeared. Never been in a situation like that but I feel that he should have communicated he’s having an issue and things wouldn’t work between us, I’d respect him for that. I know it’s not me. I could have dumped him right away but decided to be patient. Now I learned my lesson to never give anyone that chance, no more men with ED problem, not wasting time!

[@Patricia-cp2zg]

We dated for a month. We went on dates, talked on daily basis, and had dinner and slept on each other's house at least two or once a weak. Suddenly, he doesn't know what he wants. He says he really likes me but doesn't know why he is feeling this way. I tried to understand and even had the instinct to try to convince him, but that's the abandonment wound talking. So I leaved it there. Is not fair for me to stay in a situation of confussion.

[@kurisari1937]

Guy flirted for a few weeks, but never “came back”. Yet I owed it to myself to clear the air and face my disorganized attachment style by being honest and telling him I’d like for him to contact me sometime. He never did, I cried about it, lived and accepted it wasn’t meant to be. Rejection sucks, but it’s a growing experience, so keep your heads up!

[@inyouall]

*FRIENDLY REMINDER* | Life is trial and error. Every relationship is not meant to work, sometimes you’re just meant to learn the lesson.

[@Layla-hg4ux]

Yes, I agree with you. I called him out and left him like that, I didn't contact him at all and he blocked me. 30 days later he showed up like nothing happened but I acted like I don't know him and just ignored him

[@susan5048]

Ladies ! If he DISAPPEARS on you then he’s NOT that into you.

[@KierraLovesHipsters]

If they like being around you like the time they spend why is a relationship so scary?

[@sylviab.791]

I wish he would come back around so I can tell him to get lost.

[@CleanSweetHome]

Elliot never disappoints us😇 thank you for the advice, but we ladies will keep doing ur thing 😅

[@LadyTaurus95]

How can you build attraction? How can you do so with someone who likes you, but clearly not enough to date you? (Please point me to a video if there is one)

[@mermaidthea]

I get it now! So when I told him that I don`t love him anymore he just went away and never return, because he didn`t want to deal with me! Even that I was his lover for more than 20 years. He was gone after I told him that I don`t love him anymore.

[@n26c88]

So what's the case when people come back later on sat after years?

[@iamgoddessoflove]

Constantly looking at things that remind you of your ex is not going to help you to get over them. You must discipline yourself not to do these things as this will help you to heal and move on from the hurt and pain. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@MsRipley76]

The hair is still fine Elliot :). So next question- if you blocked him and he comes around again- suggestions what to say and do? And I know you have older videos on this from but nice with new thoughts from you 💕🌞. And would like to dive in to it more. Espeially the time frame and how to know if it's b och for real.

[@alisinger007]

I feel conflicted. My ex and I recently started talking after 3 years , we both miss each other and are going to give it a read good go. I also dated him 10 years ago. Were both almost 40. Just curious to know what you think about those timelines.

[@salenaculpepper6533]

He just totally lost all contact with me and blocked all my accounts. He stopped pulling away for a awhile then he pulled away and blocked me and hasn't contacted me in 2 days.

[@346azul]

I think me and a girl ftom my gym had something.I pulled away because she wouldn't stop talking to a guy that clearly liked her. From my pov yes he initiates but she entertains it that why he keeps coming back. So as long as she would entertain him I would never make a single drop of effort. Honestly it killed the attraction for me after a month. I just buried the whole thing before my feelings had a chance to cement

[@fishstickbio594]

Once again …..thank you for your love / sex scheme explanations….I understood is all about power , control and money mainly ….then is only about sex after that if he still comes around .

[@juliethomas1811]

What if you dump him? And you apologize?

[@mongoliagolia9172]

He doesn't come back because he doesn't want you. Why is this even a question lol

[@j-tenn226]

98% of men do come back at some point, or at least try. Even if it’s years later

[@Sam-ks6yt]

@@j-tenn226 they always come back when their life is miserable 😂

[@kourtenayt1927]

@@j-tenn226 i agree. Toxic dating coach says dicks are like boomerangs lmao

[@TravelBug189]

@@Sam-ks6yt So true! They never come back when their life is awesome and they want to share the good stuff. It’s always when they just had a bad breakup, a girl they really wanted rejected them, something sad happened and they need consoling, sex was bad with the other girl, etc.

[@janestreet2634]

@@TravelBug189 Yep. My ex came back today because his life is miserable, he crashed his car, and sex with the new girl isn't great 😃

[@sammyocgirl7411]

LOL guys that really like women don't play games

[@Shanaevaz]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm laughing right now I don't know why but you are right .he only comes around when thinking he can get something lol he didn't come around cause he loves you My ex went back to his ex when he lost his job before he lost his job she was the worst person to him lol It's funny but I get it now

[@MsCutepandalove10]

Very true

[@Idontgothatway]

ASSets

[@UniversoSpiritualUnido]

You are obsessed with your hair and it ain’t that great lol

[@j-tenn226]

Agreed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣he’s a dating coach, not a model. He purposely brings attention to his hair

[@nicolemenard2550]

He’s got a good hairline tho can’t deny that 😂

[@Sam-ks6yt]

I do this all the time being obsessed with you hair won't do any harm? 😂

[@j-tenn226]

@@Sam-ks6yt he obsesses over it on camera in almost every video. He is purposely drawing attention to himself, like he needs validation from women who watch his videos. Which is odd because I thought he had a gf.

[@fergie614]

why y’all hating 😭

[@nwandobabes6527]

Elliott with good good hair