Embarrassment of Dentures

[@robertschafer8734]

I’m 43,I just got full set of dentures 13 months ago! still trying to learn how to live with them,still cannot eat with them,even soft foods are difficult. also still having a little bit of trouble speaking,and I didn’t go with the low end dentures I spent over two grand on just the dentures alone not to mention what I spent out-of-pocket on extractions! I thought this was gonna be a better lifestyle but at this point I’m still in complete regret mode! especially trying to date!!! not going to lie I was on a date a couple months ago and within eight minutes of sitting down at the table the girl literally asked me so are those implants or dentures??? And the embarrassment I immediately felt was almost unbearable literally felt like getting up and walking away… your videos are a huge inspiration to me and I can’t wait until I can afford the implants that I desperately need! thank you so much for being an inspiration to all of us and I’m so so sorry for your loss.🙏

[@sharonparsons3018]

You should have left...This person was extremly classless

[@TheRapnep]

Don't give up! If it's the fit, please go back to your dentist! You should be further along in your recovery than this. Hopefully, you just need an adjustment. You cannot live like this and it's fixable. Let us know how it goes. Good luck!

[@joankirkland6255]

@@sharonparsons3018 I agree,I would never make anyone uncomfortable with a personal questiom.My sister embarrassed me asking strangers at her house for dinner if they knew I wore dentures at 24 yr old.I would have got up and left her sitting at the table

[@wolfprud3]

I wouldn't even try going on a date, so youve got that at least! that's something.

[@jenniferb6109]

@Robert Shafer as a dental assistant of 30 years working with dentures, and having them myself...I highly recommend that you wear them all day and force yourself to eat with them, as that's the only way we adapt to all the foreign plastic in our mouths. Practice eating things at home like crackers, chips, etc, as you can use the plastic palate and your tongue to mash them. Practice talking and singing aloud as much as possible everyday. The more you wear them, the faster you'll adapt. You'll need denture adhesive to start eating better and if you have sore spots, be sure to return to your dentist for adjustments so you're not in pain. I KNOW it's easier often times to eat without them, as you can taste the foods much better, but you're putting off adapting to them. Are the current dentures the same set you got the day of your extractions? Lmk if you have any questions. I know the frustration all too well from a personal and professional aspect.

[@dannettepeters1507]

You are a wonderful, beautiful young lady! I first came across your channel, exactly 7 years ago. I was just a couple of months from turning 65, also going thru some major life changes and about to have my teeth extracted for dentures. At a time that I was feeling overwhelmed, I met you on your videos and was glued to your channel through my whole denture process. This ole lady felt like you were my big sister, showing me the way to get through! Today I learn, that we are both Christian's and that you had a conviction about doing your "denture channel", which makes me even more certain, that YOU we're a Godsend in my life!

[@kalinjax]

I’m so glad the videos have been helpful to you! I helped my parents through their process because I went through it first haha. God has a way and I am here for it! Take care. ❤

[@treehugginhippie420]

Thank you for your videos and for being so open and candid about your experience. I lost my teeth at 34 due to chronic illness. My dad literally had the nerve to ask me last week if I lost them because of “all the crack I smoked”. I think it was somewhat supposed to be funny, but totally missed the mark. Wow, what a punch in the gut. Never did drugs and have always been so embarrassed about wearing dentures. After over 5 years of wearing dentures, finally looking into implants. So thankful.

[@JavierTorres-py6rp]

Be careful. Implants are the most troublesome "medical appliances" ever created. Look into this before you get them. You MAY be making a huge mistake.

[@kellymayfield2898]

I have been binge watching your videos since I discovered you about a month ago. Because of you, I am ready to get my rotten top teeth extracted and get dentures. I have been putting it off for so long because of fear. You are so relatable, so compassionate, and so real. I would not be ready emotionally without you. Still working on the finances before I take the plunge. Thank you so much for sharing your story!

[@beccijordan1085]

How did u cope with your immediate temporary teeth i feel like a horse xx

[@octopusarms3197]

I find your videos so refreshing. It's making my transition into dentures a little easier. Since I'm in my 40s and have lost my teeth to periodontal disease. People assume I lost them to meth or drug use. Which isn't the case. The world is a harsh place. I just keep in mind people who make fun of others are just making fun because of their own insecurities.

[@kalinjax]

Yes, exactly. Let them assume. Life can get rough but we are all strong and capable to overcome. ❤

[@siteshaonly1]

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[@amarashojan-ph4un]

Than you could have brushed your teeth to prevent periodontitis

[@steeleye2112]

@@amarashojan-ph4un You can take every dental health practice that exists but can still get it, not that simple unfortunately.

[@amarashojan-ph4un]

@@steeleye2112 are you from ohio? If yes than keep your mouth shut because periodontal is caused by plaque buildup,if you lost your teeth because of drugs or some genitics issues than don't scare people like that otherwise,even my great granpa and even my mother's great grandmother (never saw her tho) died with thier natural

[@steventhyssen7013]

Thanks so much. I’m 51, and soon-to-be a denture wearer. I’m hooked on your vids. Thanks sooooo much. I gain so much knowledge through your vids. 🙏

[@skydoring7103]

I'm 53 had really bad teeth for my whole life but am finally going to get dentures. I appreciate your honesty. I am scared but am more hope with every video I watch. Thank you!!

[@wendybutler2359]

Good luck. Don't be scared but be patient during the adjustment.

[@maggiewaye]

Thank you so much this is a Gift! I'm 34 and on Jan 11th I'm getting the rest of my teeth removed and imediate dentures. This has weighed on me so heavily being young and unsure. I see so much of myself in you we both literally have the same story I was the same as a child and a teen and I relied heavily on the opinions of others and would spend hours replaying conversations in my head picking it apart and beating myself up.. that has followed me into adulthood not as strongly as it was but it's still under the surface. Hearing you look at it this way and really unpack everything so beautifully has given me a brand new outlook and I have so much hope now. I won't allow this to dictate how I live my life but use it elevate myself to new heights! Thank you so much sending so much love God Bless!!! ❤️

[@kalinjax]

Hey! How did it go?!

[@GoFarFarAway.]

How are you doing now?

[@TheSpaceman332211]

Hi Any update? I hope it turned out well for you. I'm 37. Destroyed 20 of my teeth due to botched work abroad. Dentures/implants are my only solution. So I'm at the beginning of my journey.

[@steeleye2112]

For all of us, it sounds trite and is definitely easier said than done, but if you can love, accept and value yourself you can deal with anything anyone else does or says. Then you can be you and those that don't like it will fade out of your life and those that remain are the ones worthy of your company. Took me 30 years to learn this but being true who you are and liking yourself because you're being genuine is the key to most things. For me it addressed all the following issues which blighted my adult life for decades, Depression, Social anxiety, generalized anxiety, motivation to exercise, being able to live for the now - not dwell on the past or worry about the future, getting into toxic relationships, phobias, Co-dependency and overall energy levels and drive. But the kicker is acquiring self- esteem enough for it have an effect is far from easy.

[@cntryshane81]

Just wanted to thank you for your videos! I'm 41 and getting 20 something teeth extracted next Tuesday with dentures. I've been scared to death and embarrassed. Your videos has made me feel so much better! Keep up the great work 👍

[@sarahgluckman7320]

Thank’u!! Its amazing and helpful and gives me will power to continue wearing it with a happy smile 😊

[@lauralou9330]

I think you have found your purpose my dear. You have helped me more than words can write. Thank you for being you.

[@rosemoore5364]

I am very sorry for you and your family's loss. Hugs to all. Thank you for all your videos. Your raw honesty is wonderful. Your videos have been so helpful and has lessen my anxiety so much. Thank you again.

[@kellys617]

I had all my top teeth and 4 small front teeth extracted Dec. 14th. I'm so blessed I found your video's I didn't have a lot of time to get stubborn my infection was effecting my heart. My kids are grown up I'm 56 years old I made sure they all got there's done I ignored me for way to long. I'll stay brave as I journey forward. Ty for you videos it really helped me.

[@kalinjax]

Yes, Kelly! So happy for you and hope you're doing well!

[@marymaryquitethecontrarian]

Day 5 and feeling great. Thanks for being so positive and encouraging.

[@christinalemmo2332]

Hi Kalinjax - This is my first time writing to you on this channel. Sorry to hear about your loss. I am two weeks into my journey with my lower denture. I had my first soft reline today. Lowers are tough to gain control over. Trying to always maintain a positive outlook on things. With small "baby steps" I can do this.

[@AspieGirlArianaHale]

I was in my 20’s when I had to have a full dental clearance; having chronic illnesses, I was always getting sick & some of my meds caused further damage to my teeth (until they all rotted & caused terrible pain). Even more unlucky, I was told my palate is too flat for any dentures & we could never afford to get a full set of dental implants. So, I’ve since learned to live without them. Kind of embarrassing in my 20’s-30’s, having no teeth whatsoever, but it’s not like we can do anything about it. At least I know it’s not my fault, though. 🥺🦷🤷‍♀️

[@Blessd-savingrace]

Mine were removed during covid so I got used to wearing mask& not my dentures now I wear my uppers but don't like it Ugh. Lol

[@jessb465]

I’m so sorry that you’ve had to experience that mental hurdle as a youngin’. I’m 34 and had my taken out today, due to 26 years of an eating disorder and shit genetics. I feel too young to experience, but have learned lots of younger folks 20/30s have to get partial, dentures, etc. I hope to one day get implants, but I’d only ever be able to save up for a few years for the bottoms. It’ll be many years, but guess I’m stuck without teeth my entire life, so there’s time to save. I hope one day, as you get older, you’ll be able to find yourself able to save little by little. Or, find a doc who makes deals. I hope the best for you and thank you for sharing your experience. You just gave me a reminder to be grateful for what I do have-even though I hate them. 💜

[@Jr-sr8iy]

I'm getting my dentures this Tuesday An watching your videos have helped me big time. Thank you:)

[@Henri377]

I know this is 2 years later , my comment is that no one should EVER feel embarrassed about wearing dentures . The opposite! To go through the process is evidence of how strong one is , and courageous. Thank you very much for this video ⚘

[@28_Bones]

Thank You so much for having the courage to share. I am going through the process and it is great to hear you talk about this and remove the taboo.

[@boldwarrior2196]

Was scared of the pain but once got threw the healing and better talking I love them

[@mysteryvideos7181]

Kalinjax, I've been watching your videos for years, and they've helped me alot. I'm about to get 12 implants to support upper and lower bridges. It's hard to know what the right thing to do is, I've heard good and bad about all the different procedures, I just wanted to say thank you for your bravery and wish me luck...

[@easternncbigfoot1288]

I'm glad I found your channel. I have sort of the same situation as you (I watched your other videos) and at 39 I need full extraction and dentures. Nothing in particular caused it my teeth were just really week and started breaking when I was 18. My grandmother had full dentures at 35 so it runs in my family. Just wanted to say thank you for doing these videos to help people like me. Also I heard you say Jacksonville, I'm gonna assume you mean Florida, that's wild , I'm from there too. Lived there over 20 years.

[@kalinjax]

Yep, I'm in the area! Lived in Jax many years but am now over the line in Clay county. Hope you're doing well!

[@lostarsm9240]

This was all beautifully said and I will hold it close in my thoughts as I continue my journey. I have four more extraction appointments to go; two finished. Your words have assured me so much that it will be ok. Thank you and I am so sorry for your loss and I hope you are feeling better soon.

[@GracetheWestie]

Your KZbin channel is very helpful to me. 4 weeks ago, I had 19 extractions and a complete set of dentures. Today at a cookout I had a hamburger and chips. I had to use a fork to eat the hamburger because I can't bite into it. I have moments of worrying if I'm on track but I keep moving forward.

[@kalinjax]

Hey, whatever gets the job done! Keep practicing at home and you’ll find easier ways to bite into those things. Glad you’re on the road to healing!

[@stantonsshenanigans1362]

I love my dentures my top is completely all dentures. My bottoms is a partial. The dentist was able to save seven of my front bottom teeth. It’s so nice to eat without my teeth crumbling and breaking. Thanks for sharing your journey. I’ve had my permanent dentures now for a year. The only thing I hate is adhesive. I wish I didn’t have to do that.

[@syndihanson5710]

Hi I got top bottom dentures and have 7 bottom teeth left, I have lost so much weight, I am to the point of giving up, anything I eat taste terrible. I want real food but my taste buds are gone, so frustrated. Any suggestions? It's been seven month now.

[@stantonsshenanigans1362]

@@syndihanson5710 well I think your weight has jumped on me. But I also quit smoking a week before I had my teeth done. So weight has kinda snuck up on me. Is your bottom teeth a partial and is it your front bottom teeth. And also how long has it been since being pulled. Are your teeth your permanent dentures ?

[@syndihanson5710]

@@stantonsshenanigans1362 got my top pulled 7 month ago, have upper dentures now, to afraid wearing them, I live of protein shakes, mash and chicken, but my appetite is less and less, everything taste terrible, no flavor. I am exhausted,, no more energy. Looking for answers, looking for weight gain products but nothing seems right.

[@stantonsshenanigans1362]

@@syndihanson5710 man I’m so sorry you’re going thru all of that. I had a hard time eating when I had a temporary partial. But once I got the permanent I can’t eat without my teeth. Can you eat anything with your teeth in? Cottage cheese and Greek yogurt are really high in protein so maybe those will be better to eat. They helped me as well as scrambled eggs and cheese. Rice dishes like rice a roni and such. You just have to keep at it using your new teeth. But start out soft and work your way up to what you can tolerate. Again I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this.

[@syndihanson5710]

@@stantonsshenanigans1362 I do eat white rice, soups and I want everything taste so spicy as I can, it's just so frustrating to not able to eat what I really like, I hope other people with my issues read your answers and know they are not alone. YOU are the first person giving me positive advice thank you sooooo much.. I got to get myself together., I need to get this under control. I have to start wearing those upper teeth, not giving up yet. Lost way to much weight , this is not me, I am a strong person well used to be. You know what's funny but at the same time it's not the dentist does not tell you what will happens after you lose your teeth`s. I will keep in touch. THANK YOU SOOOOOO MUCH

[@tasiakaytaylor1]

Girl I love your outlook in life. You have help me in so many ways on my journey with my top denture nowI need a bottom. Thank you so much

[@randiedgar4659]

Kalin, I don't know if you read these comments, but I want to thank you for making your videos. I've had horrible teeth for many years, & have finally decided I was tired of avoiding people & not smiling, & all the things that people do to hide their bad teeth. So I decided to take the plunge & get dentures. None of my teeth are salvageable, so I'll have to have them all removed. As much as I feel this will give me a more normal life, I'm scared. To me, this is a prosthetic, & the thought of having one in my mouth is overwhelming right now; yet I want it more than anything else. I just found your channel today, so I've only watched a few videos, but already you have helped alleviate some of my fears, so I'm grateful. I also saw that you have videos on dating,etc. with dentures, a topic I really want to learn about. I googled how does it feel to kiss someone when you have dentures, & came up with nothing, but it's an important topic! I don't know what I can afford, but I am going to make an appointment & learn my options. So thanks again, & God bless you for starting this channel!

[@FrostyNyUK]

So glad I found your channel I’m 61 & need to make a decision asap regarding my teeth! I have to chipped side teeth & I feel them loosening more & more. I’m so very fearful of the process & cost! I’m looking online for anywhere that can help with cost, it’s the worst feeling ever being afraid to smile or talk! Your teeth look absolutely amazing!! I would be so happy with a beautiful smile like yours. Thank you for all great information you provided. 🙏🏼

[@kalinjax]

I hope you find the help you need! Don't overlook dental schools. They often have lower fees than a regular dentist and are under the supervision of a professional. It's worth looking into! If you have to get dentures for now and implants later, do it. Getting rid of broken or decayed teeth really eliminates half the battle!

[@FrostyNyUK]

@@kalinjax Thank you so much!

[@JamieReneeVonTeez]

So sorry for your loss of your step father. God bless his soul and God comfort you and all that loved him!

[@XZZ77]

I'm on my journey now. I go in November for my impressions thank you been following you since 2010

[@tjl3979]

So glad to find your channel. My story is pretty similar to yours. Poor dental hygiene, drank soda like water, started smoking young. I got my upper teeth pulled and got a traditional denture at 33 because i wanted to be able to smile in the pics of my first child. It's now 3 years and I'm experiencing pain on my lower arch. I know there's to much damage and I'm have to get them pulled. Looking into getting snap in dentures now. It's nice to know I'm not alone.

[@TonyWalgraeve]

Even at 60 im going through everything your talking about , thank you for speaking the truth its hard to find these days i know i have to make this choice thanks for making it easier

[@christinalemmo2332]

Hi Kalinjax - I am watching this a second time. I still really like it. One more new change in my life - next month I have to lose all my upper teeth. I need treatment for osteoporosis and that treatment is with a medication that jeopardize the health of iffy teeth. A catch-22. I only hope that the uppers are easier than the lowers. I am in my 6th month with the lowers

[@robinford336]

I recently had emergency surgery which requires me to chew my food really well otherwise I could get into some serious issues. I'm chewing the best of my ability and being very careful. I'm sorry I didn't follow thru with my dentures a few yrs ago, would've been a expert by now ( that it's extremely important due to having a ileostomy). Most of my back teeth were pulled, still have some front teeth but my bite doesn't line up very well. And I am really trying to do everything right while I'm recovering, getting proper nutrients is difficult. I got myself in a bit of a pickle now. So, yeah, there's that and extremely embarrassing on top everything else I'm dealingwith ( to say the very least). Thank you for sharing this video, its excellent, appreciate it very much.

[@amywood71605]

Im going through the process of getting new dentures now. My first set was years ago and I was not assertive enough in things like the color, how the teeth looked, etc. I was just so happy to have teeth again that I didnt care. Now I regret it but it will work out. Thanks to my job and its good benefits it wont be anything out of pocket (I am the billing dept of a healthcare center that has dental too - we get $1000 per year of "credit" to use on anything - medical, dental or even in their pharmacy. Plus, since I do not buy the health insurance they offer and have my own I get an additional $1700 on a prepaid card to use. They also have a program that can reduce the cost of services based on income, so by using all 3, its basically free - I am SO thankful). I dont feel embarrassment anymore - more like the attitude of "I have to have these, I deserve to have ones I am truley happy with". I can wear mine with no issues now - can eat anything, talking is fine. I dont even have to wear adhesive anymore because I am so used to them and how to do things with them.

[@SnowS162]

You are wonderful. I wish most people were as caring and thoughtful as you are. It's sad that it's rare. I hope you continue posting videos to help educate people about it and break down the shame and guilt. Thank you for treating the subject seriously with sensitivity.

[@kalinjax]

Your kindness means a lot to me! Comments like yours are literally the reason I continue making my videos.

[@evanmcroberts5427]

23 here- literally same story. I’m as happy and goofy as I can be but ultimately (given my teeth are shit) there is always that holdback. Ultimately I am going to get my mouth situated but as of now and the recent past… I have been “happy” but not as happy as I know I can be. All because of some pesky little things known as teeth. It’s a shame so many can Judge others over bad teeth. In a lot of cases (including mine) it is genuinely biological/ hereditary. We bad teeth people try try try but ultimately fail. Others need to understand, just like anyone else’s “unfortunate biological problems”, people with bad teeth need to be factored and loved as well. Us humans determine our future but no matter how much we know, have and try… there is always something we can’t control. ❤❤❤❤ your content -Evan

[@ickleandie]

Hi, I am 48 and have been going through treatment for the last 3 years, finally on Tuesday I had the last 4 teeth removed ( leaving me with a total of 6 teeth) and my dentures straight in, I cried my eyes out in the dentist and repeatedly thanked him as I could not believe how nice they looked, I can smile again, something I have not done in ten years, I have a way to go as just days in but wanted to thank you as came across your channel and no longer feel totally alone in this new world with dentures , please don’t get me wrong I am so lucky to have a supportive partner and family but it’s that stuff I have kept inside for so long on how I felt like nothing and just not worthy of any love xx

[@shenanigansnsuch1442]

Condolences. I appreciate you. Going through this is quite humbling. Still in healing dentures and had them pop out mid song at karaoke. It was shickingly embarrassing since i dont embarrass easily. Finding ways to put weight back on because i lost 30lbs. Boost or ensure really help get proper protein because chewing with these is VERY hard. The lisp with D's being someone who sings for a living is pretty embarrassing as well. Get real dentures started the 31st. I feel instantly handicapped to be honest. Socially, functionally.

[@lisanagle7893]

So sorry for your loss.

[@loue6563]

I hate my dentures. I hate having them. I had a horrible experience getting them and I have very little bone so they don’t fit well. I could only afford the cheapest ones I could get. I hope it gets better. But it is embarrassing especially when I am talking and they move. Even with adhesive. But I know this is reality and I know I will adapt and learn to live with it.

[@anedhsae]

I can so relate. I started these procedures in 2020. Have changed dentist 3 times!! I have an appointment this Friday, again, for an adjustment. I pray I can get the dentist to listen to me. I've lost 25 pounds, which is not all bad, but I sure would like to be able to chew properly. We'll see. Wish you the best and hope things get better.

[@loue6563]

@@anedhsae for you as well. It is a hard thing not being able to chew your food anymore

[@pcman500]

@@loue6563 Hey Lou, i got my first dentures in July. I hate them too, like alot. But what helps me mentally is reminding myself that its more hygienic and it will get better. Have you talked with your dentist about getting those snap-on ones? Im considering that alot! What i am trying to say is actually: Dont worry about them too much, there are worse things in the world( you know...)

[@dorothynicolos1944]

Thank you so much for your videos. They are helpful beyond the dental experience with loosing teeth which is kind of like an amputation really, it's loosing a part of your body. I love though that you teach you say how people can feel, the mental anguish that comes with deciding to have teeth removed especially at a relatively young age. It's a very hard thing to wrap the mind around. Thank you for all the great advice! You Rock girl.

[@loue6563]

@@pcman500 I can’t get implants I don’t have enough bone. Well I may be able to for the bottom but I have to wait and see if the bone grafts worked or if I need more but they just isn’t enough even if I had grafts to get implants on the top. So just not enough to even hold the dentures in very well. I can’t eat with them. And can barely talk. And the dentist that made them just doesn’t really want to listen. They never fit right he even had a hard time getting them in. He pushed so hard he bruised and cut the inside of my mouth trying to make them work. I just don’t have any more money to try and get new ones. At least for now. But hopefully I can in the future and find a dentist that will listen.

[@kathymoffatt3960]

I’m in my early 60’s and had my teeth extracted almost 3 years ago. I have had 4 sets of dentures made for me so far and the immediate dentures were the only ones that fit me correctly. I just got my a new set from Aspen Dental, they were the most expensive ones (hoping they would finally be the right ones). I had asked them to make them look more natural and to push them out more than my previous ones (which I’m still wearing), they actually made them straight across which makes them look fake and pushed them in further so when I smile you can see there’s a gap between my teeth and my cheeks, all of the teeth are so rounded that I can’t bite into anything! My newest set are slanted and for some reason everyone can see it with the exception of everyone at the dentists office. Also have not been able to eat since my teeth were extracted. I have spent a fortune on dentures so I cannot afford to get implants now! I just wish that I had gotten the implants when I had the extraction done. I would love to send pictures but I don’t want them on here. Thank you for your videos they give me hope in the future.

[@dianegoguen2766]

Sorry for your loss ❤️

[@probassguitarsound]

came across your channel tonight great videos, You seem genuine and no agenda to sell anything so just very smart advice thank you

[@heidibradley4424]

You have helped me alot. I just got my remaining teeth pulled and got top and bottom dentures. I got implants on the bottom but they can't be attached until 3 to 5 months until they fuse to the bone. I am not crazy about them but I am being patient and see how they turn out

[@Ashanti0826]

Just got my upper dentures few days ago Thank you so much for your videos it really helped with the anxiety and fears.. I put it off for years.. I love them so far ❤️❤️

[@kalinjax]

I'm so happy for you! Whenever you encounter a struggle, and there will be some along the way, just remind yourself that someone out there has faced it, endured it, and overcome it, and so can you! Good luck!

[@lorrainebettencourt8009]

i have to get upper dentures next week xo

[@Ashanti0826]

@@lorrainebettencourt8009 good luck to you well worth it

[@adamdejesus4017]

I'm glad I found this channel. I'm 48, I'm in constant pain with my failing natural teeth and discussing implants with my doctors. Money isn't the object but I am in fear of a) living with non-functional teeth for many months after my natural teeth come out and b) post-operative pain. Embarrassment is a thing too. I'm going to watch some more but if anyone has any words of encouragement I will take them.

[@kalinjax]

If you have the option to get implants, don't give it a second guess. It should be the standard of care in this day and age. If you get implants, just remember, someone else is taking meds to regulate their blood sugar, someone is taking meds to lower their blood pressure, this is just treatment for a medical condition. Teeth are a part of our bodies, period. You're just treating a medical condition. Don't ever feel bad about that!

[@adamdejesus4017]

@@kalinjax Update: picked up a partial immediate denture today, one week until extractions and bone grafts. All my worries are gone, there is no way the post-op discomfort could match the discomfort I feel now. Genuinely looking forward to the next phase!

[@lillianhernandezpaz6410]

My condolences to you and your family for your loss, I know it's a difficult time for you, but I just want to say that when I first came across your videos 8 yrs ago, I was researching dentures as I needed to have my teeth extracted, and your videos really educated me to where I was confident on how I wanted my teeth as expressed that to my dentist, now after 8 yrs I'm looking to have implants and wanted to say thank you for educating your viewers. You are a wonderful person with a beautiful soul and smile, God Bless you and your family🙏❤

[@kalinjax]

Yay, Lillian!! Believe me when I say I understand the joy you're feeling and the obstacles you had to overcome to get where you are. Your kindness is so needed in my life right now, so, thank you and best of luck!

[@lillianhernandezpaz6410]

@@kalinjax Thank you, I look forward to your videos. stay strong, and positive...🙏❤

[@naokookadahill5639]

You have very good confidence 😊 I am going to research the best Denture Doctor !

[@debbiedalton8846]

I have enjoyed watching you for a while now and I have dentures and you've been an inspiration to me thank you so much for caring and telling people about them

[@isol]

You are the best, it was because of your videos that I found like 10 yrs ago that I lost fear and was able to fix my teeth.

[@kalinjax]

I'm so glad! Congrats!

[@PamelaBrandonChromeFoto]

Awesome video, thank you for sharing your experience and fears you went through, you are right about the humiliation, shame, and how ppl can be cruel and insecure about themselves and try to pretend to project that their life is a bowl of cherries when it’s not. I applauded you for continuing to motivate and educate people that are going through a difficult situation and the decisions we are faced with with failing teeth.

[@kalinjax]

Thank you for your kind words! Just remember, EVERYONE is going through something. Our problems sometimes feel larger than life but everyone has something to deal with, even if it's not so obvious as teeth. Blessings to you!

[@Hope-zz9eq]

I just heard your story. It randomly came up in the feed. Just wanted to share that there is a link between root canals and cancer...there's a strong correlation. So it sounds like you had a lot of root canals, so as far as I know the only solution is to pull them. If we look at humankind as one body, we have to learn from each other's mistakes. Maybe one day there will be public service announcements about soda and tooth decay and maybe those things will just not be allowed to be sold in stores. My mother got stage 4 cancer around her mouth after she got extensive dental work pulling out her mercury fillings. I think the mercury contaminated her mouth. There is a lot of danger holding on to toxic fillings and root canal teeth. So I see what you did as healthier than trying to live with those root canal teeth.

[@williamcondra3811]

I’m glad for your journey but the one thing that always gets overlooked is the cost of implants. Everyone beats around the bush and hims and haws “Well it might be this or could be that” but the fact is and I don’t know why they can’t just say it-“95% of people can’t afford implants!” Implants are just another thing designed for rich people. Simple implants that aren’t much different than dentures that you can remove yourself are around $15,000. Implants that are screwed in you’re talking $35,000 and up according to the strength of the material. Not to mention the cost of regular visits to have them taken out and cleaned. Not trying to hurt your feelings but you are an attractive woman and have had a lot of help along the way with the cost of your implants. Most of us have to foot the entire bill and it’s just too much. I’ve watched so many videos on here with dentists talking about how great implants are but they just never come out and say it- sorry, you can’t afford this. I had a couple of prices on removable denture implants- one was $13,000 and one was $15,000. I saw a commercial on tv for a clinic in Ohio that talked about getting your implants and your denture in one day. I made an appointment and dove 2 hours to this clinic. They were very nice and gave me a tour of the place and explained their procedures. At the end when I finally got to talk to the dentist I was kind of excited. I told him that I hated the fact that you can’t get a good estimate over the phone. I said “ You know if I called up here and you told me that this was going to be $20,000 I wouldn’t have made this drive.” The room got completely silent and after a few uncomfortable moments they told me I was looking at $40,000. My 2 hour drive home seemed like 4 hrs. And just so you know that was just for an upper denture. So I guess the moral of my story if you’ve lasted this long is that all these videos about implants give people hope and they get excited thinking they can get themselves back to normal, when the fact is implants are just a dream for most people.

[@manowar2884]

The implant thing isn't simple it seems.. they're punching holes in your jaw, and that's a new invasive procedure in the nasty dentist's office.. it's not a simple procedure like getting a tattoo.. there are serious nerves and veins there.. there may even be complications.. also there is no guarantee that these implants will last decades.. even if I take good care of them, maybe they can cause problems in the future.. which means the dentist's office again.. removal of problematic implants, maybe new holes in my jaw.. ​​that means continuing torment in the disgusting dentist's office for the rest of my life.. This makes me think, dude.. so never mind the fee.. Is it really worth getting my jaw bone drilled? I can eat whatever I want, even without teeth.. So is it just the feeling of embarrassment about a classic denture? I'm sorry to the girl but she seems like someone who cares a lot about others.. seems to have low self confidence.. maybe she got bullied when she was younger.. This implant thing is not very attractive to me..

[@kirkwilliams5740]

Wow, my sincere condolences to you and your family, please be strong, I certainly miss you. Yahshua Hamashiach guidance.

[@billyjewett5006]

I found your channel before I decided to rip out my remaining teeth and go with an all on four zirconia route. It’s been five months and I just got my final zirconia set this week. I WOULD DO IT AGAIN IN A SECOND! That first day or two leaves you sore but after that and the swelling goes down, you have a new face. I used a National chain in San Diego and it cost me $50k and change. I put $6k down and I pay $700 per month at %3 interest, if anyone wonders what it runs monthly. Well worth it. My jaw is lined back up like it did before I started getting any tooth pulled in Mexico that had any issues. I own a successful (knock on wood) business and I was embarrassed to talk to anyone face to face. I mumbled and stopped laughing so people couldn’t see my crackhead looking mouth, and could no longer eat anything stiffer than a soggy tortilla chip. I hated people lumping me in with tweakers when I don’t even drink. Anyways, thanks for all your info. I would never had “done it right” if I hadn’t found your channel. Thank you and good luck to anyone pulling the trigger. It’s a life changing procedure.

[@kalinjax]

I'm so glad you're in a better place, now! Hope you're doing well!

[@yuppystick]

Your family is soi lucky to have you. 💚

[@appsr8519]

hi kalin so glad your back!!! I am having such a hard time finding a dentist that would make detures estetically pleasing,,like yours!!! any suggestions?? thx for all your input

[@blkbeauty1016]

I was just told that I need all my teeth extracted and I’m terrified, I don’t know what to expect thank you for your encouragement

[@JeanWhite-v3f]

Hi, i have worn detures for 15 years. I was married. My husband never kissed me. I am now single and terrified. For the last 8 months i cant eat, or wear my teeth for long. 4 dental appointments and 2 doctor appointments later its no better. Im totally isolated. At 62 i am facing life with no teeth. Any help would be very welcome

[@todddomke58]

Second video i watched of yours thank you. Just wanted to tell you about the respatory issues i used Ivermectin and all covid symptoms gone in 4 hours. Media lied about ivermectin over 4 billion people have succ ssfully used it no side effects. Just sharing this since youve been so helpful. Your personality is such im sure people levitate to you, but ive come to the conclusion certain people arent able to communicate then others like yourself have the gift. Funny how we find our purpose. Your smile really is beautiful.

[@kimberlyk3928]

I have dentures but I’m seriously thinking of getting fixed implants. When you went from dentures to implants did you notice a shrinkage around your mouth?

[@caroledavis3741]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[@coleparker]

No its snakes, not something deeper. I just getting Dentures, and I am 70 and I hate it. But your video makes me feel a lot better.

[@judithaltoft4690]

Hi im in england and have worn dentures for 40 years ive just got new ones and cant talk or eat properly i was really thinking about implants (top) ive gone through life never wanting to smile always felt embarrassed with my dentures, im thinking implants is it worth it im in my 60s, i love watching your videos your smile is beautiful

[@SarahWilliamson-mm4kh]

Thank you for this, i am 37 i have lived with a single top front denture and struggled massively, i have a really delicate dentuee on the NHS which has broken numerous times, ive hidden it from friends, some family and partners and strugtled with social anxiety either due to eating around others or the fact it often becomes loose and all that kind of stuff Yesterday due to gum disease i los t my other top front tooth and have soent all day yesterday and night ceying, absolutely distraught and fearing now having two dentures, worrying how it will look, how i will navugate dating, eating,.social situations etc like many i dont have the money to go private or get implants and im literally beside myself and my self esteem is literally in the gutter, ive contemplated giving up work, ending relationships and friendships just so not to be around people. Right now i feel i just wwnt to disappear and i dont know what to do

[@todddomke58]

Sorry you had to experience so much that hurt. Life is hard and i try not to judge either. Even because somebody hasnt been through the same things i have doesnt mean it wasnt as hard or harder than what i went through. Everyone has their own walk and what may be ez for me not so much for someone else, so i try to stay aware of that before i judge..

[@janetallison363]

I get my last 7 bottom teeth out and bottom dentures in two weeks and I'm terrified that I'm going to regret it because I'm afraid of them hurting, not fitting well, all the things I hear from other denture wearers about bottom dentures. I don't know if I'll ever be able to afford nice ones or implants after wearing the first ones or if what I get at first will be my only ones. It's just a scary thing but I have to do it. I eventually need the same done with my top teeth and that's just a whole nother set of fears😬

[@lifewithkirsten7670]

Im 21, about to turn 22 in August. Ehlers danlos syndrome, gastroparesis, 13 "cavity facials" on majority of my top teeth that i didnt need, and a few other factors destroyed my teeth... I was told yesterday i need all of them removed. My parents dont have teeth and growing up its been my biggest fear especially because my mom cant talk or eat with hers and they cause her pain. Im not sure why my dad has dentures. But my mom had a condition that made her teeth rot from the inside out. Im terrified of hating myself, not having teeth for months until i do get dentures, my husband changing his mind about me when i dont have teeth. Im scared... On the other side im in severe pain, can hardly eat anything at all, i want to be able to smile and take pictures with my husband and have teeth im not ashamed of... But it feels like the negatives outweigh the positives...

[@travismartin9322]

You gave me hope. My teeth have been soft and brittle for all of my life (43 years old). Now I need dentures/implants. It is becoming a big negative part of my life and how I treat myself. Any info you could send me would be abundantly appreciated.

[@WonderfulTruck-fi8lo]

That was the best Video! aww 🤗 thankyou it really did help me wow

[@triciazeyer1880]

I respect all of your views. It's like watching myself!

[@riskromer9773]

Can you please make a video on how to learn to smile again? Because of the state of my teeth for years I avoided openly smile. Once I got my dentures I feel like I can't smile anymore, it looks awkward.

[@lauraclegg794]

I'm exactly the same. Can only do a fake closed mouth smile

[@suesmith3744]

Yes , I’m having difficulties with this very issue ‼️

[@lindaobrien8538]

Condolences.

[@johnnylemoin19]

LADY you are POWERFUL. And Not Just about Dentures. you are speaking my Life . Yes I am and Money Plays a big part . But about Life it self . You are Very Smart. I Dyslxia and angzity . and I wish I had seen what you seen about Life and People WOW ! Your Videos are a Blessing young lady . I have Fought every day of my Life with People and Life and had no clue what to do . THANK YOU . Now how do you eat with these things and get the glue out your Mouth ? and How On Earth do you deal with Anxiety , because It is Kicking my rear end Big time .

[@gerlinevulne3483]

My condolences 💐

[@elderviking31]

59 year old guy. Full dentures just shy of 60 days ago. Embarrassment for me has primarily been over speech. People say it’s not too noticeable but to me it is really bad.

[@rhondaphillips432]

I found you today, had temporary top denture over a year. Covid affected my thinking when I had the top teeth pulled. Before we left the dentist parking lot I realized I had made one of the worst decisions I could have made. I HATE THEM, FEEL LIKE MY LIFE IS OVER. I want permanent implants, will have to get sinus raised etc. The money is the problem, my Husband is on disability, I'm not able to work, fear of what's going to happen is terrible. I can't eat certain foods, I'm miserable. I need your help, I really feel alone and hopeless. I live in Georgia and I know there has got to be a way out, just don't know what. Rhonda

[@kimberlyk3928]

Rhonda im going through the exact same thing! I've been hung up on getting implants too because I hate dentures. I can't afford it either & it's really hard trying to adjust so I get it!

[@rhondaphillips432]

@@kimberlyk3928 Implants seem to be my only option. I'm trusting the Lord to work it out for me. I've seen him come to my aid with other bills, miracles.

[@lband5196]

First, I’m very sorry for your loss.🥺 Lost a parent not too long ago and it’s very difficult. I know you have implant dentures now but how did you go about choosing your dentures when they were the removable type? I’ve seen lower cost models $700 and more premium models for around $3k. How were you able to get your dentures to always look so good until you were able to the implanted ones? I’ve been isolated for several years now. I honestly don’t go ANYWHERE except for doctor appointments. I don’t even go to the grocery store anymore and I used to be a very social person. I was considered a very attractive person (according to other people) so I even have these feelings like there are people that would love to see me ugly now. I know it’s trivial compared to the grand scheme of things, and I too am strong in my faith but I’m simply sharing my innermost insecurities right now so ANY help or advice you (or anyone) can give would be SO greatly appreciated!💗

[@moondog9086]

Ditto...everything you said & more. How are you doing?

[@timmzwrld]

Love your videos and would like to ask you if you have to pick a certain company to do all your dental work what company would that be??.. I'm in Orlando FL and just shopping around but not sure who I can trust!!

[@kimberlyk3928]

I liked my immediate dentures way better than my permanent ones. They're not as soft and more uncomfortable. They do fit well so I'm thinking it's just me.

[@97warlock]

I havent been able to smile in over 40 years. Spoke with the dentist, close to 5k, At this point I just want my old ones OUT. This is like life changing. I want to feel like Me again. Im 5000 away from that door.

[@pamgrace6185]

Hi, I am sorry for your loss .. My bad teeth were genetic, 3 weeks ago, I had all of my bottom teeth extracted and some on top extracted and had immediate dentures and partials .. I am so embarrassed and self conscious of having to wear a partial on top and a full denture on bottom .. I feel ashamed and embarrassed, I don’t talk to anyone because I feel as if I talk funny or smile showing my teeth because I feel as everyone will know I have dentures and judge me..

[@honeyowen3163]

I'm older and am thinking of getting false teeth as I'm slowly losing them anyway. My entire life probably the worst repeated nightmare is the one where y teeth are falling out so I'm terrified of the effect this will have emotionally. How did you get such natural-looking teeth? EVERY person I've seen with false teeth they're a straight row and so obvious.

[@thehaysfamily8429]

I love watching you , you give me hope I don’t have money to get my dentures but I have only 13 teeth left and I’m having them pulled tomorrow and I’m so self isolating now when I don’t have any teeth left and no dentures I scared I will not want to be around anybody do you have any advice

[@frankieromantv7653]

This what I’m feeling about getting my dentures is how I feel about them being embarrassed isn’t a good state of mind to be in

[@moonlight_haze]

im only 18 and i have a really bad cavity in one of my bottom molars. i haven't been to the dentist for a few years but i have a horrible feeling im gonna have to get the tooth pulled once i go to the dentist (idk when that's gonna be thanks to the cost). and im worried they're gonna have to pull more than one tooth. im so ashamed becuz i haven't properly taken care of myself for a few years cuz of my mental health. and now im having so many regrets, that's for sure. idk what to do :( im also worried that the bones in my jaw are gonna weaken rlly bad if i get any teeth pulled. i rlly wish i still had my baby teeth cuz then at least i'd have a chance to keep my teeth but since they're all permanent, whichever ones i potentially lose will never come back. so i'll have to get those teeth replaced somehow but dentistry is so so expensive and scary

[@ambergrunwald8292]

Heyy girl!! I really love u n ur videos! Sorry for ur loss. I was wondering do u have any tips for bad breath and nasty taste n my mouth since ive had dentures? I soak them overnight and i dont use any adhesives so any tips? Thanks

[@lalathyravong247]

I received dentures about 6 months ago, and can’t get used to them, so uncomfortable. They don’t want me wearing adhesive for a whole year and they want me to sleep in it. It’s so difficult to eat with. I would rather eat without it, just gumming at food. I’m so miserable, lost my teeth due to lupus. I wish I could get implant but I wish my dentures were comfortable. They feel so big on me, they already try to fix them, but still extremely so uncomfortable.

[@tiffanynfl]

Girl I’ve been thinking about ya and the family lately. Hope you guys are doing well!

[@juanitamejia5669]

Hi Kalinjax I have dentures on top and implant on bottom but they fell off due to bone loss l am so embarrassed to talk in front of others what can l do l isolate myself all the time

[@Stevenassar001]

I am54 old , I wear regular denture on upper , and the lower is partial denture over the K9 teeth with clasps ( only 4 teeth in my lower jaw). I like your attitude and acceptance. I wish I could have the all on 4 system , I know it is not covered by dental insurance. I work hard and I might be able to pay for material cost … yet the total cost is way too much . I hope I can get some help from the company as a promoter for their product ( before and after ). I live in connecticut.

[@jurgenr.4062]

I'd not be embarrassed with or without dentures in my mouth. And I'll never understand why a loving wife or girlfriend could be embarrassed to be seen without teeth by her husband or boyfriend.

[@suesmith3744]

My husband doesn’t even notice when my dentures are out 😂😂

[@maryfragain4812]

Thank You You're helping me not to just give up on my Snap In's

[@ChristyRenea86]

I just recently got Dentures and All I have heard out of everybody is your to young for this! Ummm, it’s not in my Control, I didn’t do anything to cause this, I just got really sick and then my teeth started failing me. They were rotting from the root down so there was nothing they could do. I paid $1,400.00 and all they give me was my Immediate’s and now I’m going to have to wait until after the Holiday to start saving up to try to get me a set. I’ve Always wanted the All-on-4’s and there is a Dentist about an hour away from me that do them and I’m going to try my best to get me a pair. I’ll be saving up for a while. Ever since I’ve had my teeth done, my Boyfriend has acted different and he’s even said some really mean thing’s to me and I could Never do him like that. I just Pray God has a Plan for me and helps me get through this. I Love How Educated You are about this, I’ve learned a lot from you, and I’ve also read and did some research of my own. I Love them.

[@jurgenr.4062]

Kick your boy'friend' in his ass and dump him. He deserves it and you'll find someone who loves you with dentures. George

[@valerieo1483]

So when people talk about pain for months and not being able to get used to wearing their dentures to eat, is it mostly because the fit is incorrect?

[@kalinjax]

Usually it's the fit. I really can't think of much else that could cause that pain months in. Our bodies are incredible at healing from things like this. Digital dentures are the future and usually provide a way more accurate fit than taking manual measurements so if anyone is having problems getting a good fitting denture, that would be my recommendation.

[@JessieLin1984]

I just had mine done Jan 23rd and I can’t even wear the top… so big. I go back next week to have them fixed but it’s mentally draining that’s for sure and I am embarrassed I wear a mask 😂

[@thomaspboyd]

I just found out yesterday that I’m going to be getting dentures. I’m terrified and was given so much information at the dentist in such a short visit that my head was spinning and left the office in a daze. I just found your channel and wanted to thank you for sharing your journey and experiences. I’m about a month out from getting my extractions. Do they always give you temporary dentures? After the conversation with my dentist. I had it in my head that I’m going to be toothless for 6weeks while my gums heal? I still don’t know? Thank you again

[@FrazzledVirgo]

I got dentures then a rare cancer so my teeth were last thing on my mind …but my ex made some comments etx and I only wear mine to go to store I may have ruined them cuz my ex helped me make them into horse shoe I don’t regret it as all I did was gag!! But i have to wear adhevise…anyway now I don’t go anywhere ….I’m scared to date I’m a mess

[@kalinjax]

Heaven, you're a beautiful person, worthy of love, teeth or no teeth. Forget everyone else's comments. This is your life and every single one of us has a limited amount of time here, even your ex. Find the solutions you need and don't wait for the approval of anyone. Smile and be happy.