HOW CANCER HAS CHANGED US AS A COUPLE| VLOG PART2

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[@rburoughs590]

I know you're no longer here Emily but you still are impacting people's lives through your vlogs and your strength. You have definitely left your imprint on this planet. Still watching in 2020. Rest peacefully Emily. You are missed!

[@sleepyanna8188]

Still here in 2023 ❤

[@katepalmer2104]

I’ve been watching Emily’s old vlogs since her passing... live life to the full it’s short x

[@josephbader1243]

June 26 2019 marks a year Emily hayward passed. I can't believe a year has passed. I rewatch your vlogs. And still cry. You are my super hero. Everyone needs a Emily in there life.

[@charl366]

It’s hard to believe someone with so much life in her is gone. So so sad 😞

[@lynjones9339]

So sad miss you and AISHA June 2020 xx

[@jensjourney8184]

3 years today 2021. Still watching 💪🏼🥰😁🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

[@sueallen7750]

She loved life and Aisha. Emily fought so hard to live & be cancer free. She & Aisha will forever hold a place in my heart. I'm beyond thankful Aisha is a mom to a beautiful baby boy & has a lovely home they live in. Emily is is loving them from the Heaven above. 💜💙💜

[@lunis471]

Its just so lovely to go back and visit your Vlogs. You were a wonderful woman. RIP Emily. Xx

[@cindyhorst3555]

I still can't wrap my head around the fact that this fireball is gone 😢

[@justagirlwholovestitch3217]

I know exactly what you mean I cry everytime I watch her videos shes such a beautiful soul and so inspiring.... her and Aisha are such a beautiful couple

[@vallib.1328]

Never forgotten Emily. One year to the day this came up in my suggested videos. Miss your videos and your infectious smile lots. Keep up with Aisha on her IG and you must be so proud of her living life to the fullest while always keeping your memory close to her heart.

[@shell2727]

Hey - I think about Aisha all the time and didn't realise that she was on Insta. Could you please tell me what her name is so that I can go follow her? THANK YOU!

[@fabulouschinny3251]

shell2727 aishahaywardhassan

[@rhondawhatley1591]

They really did make a great looking couple attitudes and all

[@Toffee146]

You absolutely MUST tie the knot! Don't let circumstances stop you! You're such a lovely couple, and so fun to watch!

[@melaniewalsh1467]

2024 and i still come back to emilys vlogs alwayys remembered and certainly will never be forgotten rest easy emily.

[@anniepuckett8947]

Just a thought as to why Aisha is feeling sick also. You two appear to be deeply emotionally connected. When I was pregnant my husband gained the same amount of weight that I did and he had morning sickness and fatigue too. Our doctor said he has seen this many times in couples who are particularly connected emotionally. Perhaps that is why Aisha seems to be having some of your symptoms too Emily. Love you both. Keep on keeping on!

[@nnicollan]

I love Emily, and I love London.. That's why I keep coming back to these vlogs.. The energy in both is amazing.. My role model

[@LiveLife287]

LOL!! “ you tick every box”. Just love you two and want to adopt you ( and bring you to Canada! lol 💕😂

[@TheresaDeVries]

This just came up in my suggested video's. I'm super sad because Emily is no longer with us. 😞😞😞😞

[@hamidakhan37]

Rest in peace beautiful

[@Maevemcelwain]

Hey Emily! I’m vegan and have been for around a year now (was veggie for 13 years previous). I know it can seem daunting initially, especially to people who love meat, but by gradually cutting out meat and dairy products I found that it was really a lot easier than you would think! I think the trick is gradual substitution rather than immediately cutting out everything at once (might just be me though). Especially now that it’s becoming so popular and there are so many alternatives (almond milk etc) that are readily available. There are so many health benefits too (I’m sure you’ve read up on this though). Maybe you could give it a trial period like a week or something and see how you get on. No pressure obviously as I know it’s not for everyone. Love the vlogs! :)

[@chronicinokla]

Talking about how we like to see more of Aisha in the vlogs at 12:17. Really good angle of her here lol.

[@susanrapley3223]

Hi you two, new subscriber here from Houston Texas, just getting caught up! About the vegan thing... if you decide to go that route, check in with a registered dietitian to make sure you are getting enough of your other nutrients (vitamin B12, iron, etc). Or maybe start by narrowing it down to only organic, hormone-free, grass fed meats? Love watching you both. You are an inspiration! Happy Easter~

[@stephaniejohns5435]

You two are so amazing together!

[@Secular-Serenity]

After watching many of your videos, I like to walk around the house using your accent. I love it!

[@dn351]

Loving it Emily! Thanks for keeping us informed! X

[@kimolender1810]

Hi emily. Can i just say what a funny and amazing young women you are. I look forward to watching your videos. My husband has cancer and my son is a vegan so i know what page you are on. Tesco do a new tasty range of vegan meals they are called wicked. They are realy tasty you should both try them. Also holland and barrett cater for vegans. Please ask if you want anymore information. Lots of love kim x

[@killerqueen-ut5ch]

I love the strength you have. It is most inspiring. 🖒💪Cheers, from Niagara Falls, Ontario Canada.

[@lynnhamps7183]

You make a very beautiful couple...wishing you strength and all good things x

[@isabellaryan8418]

Ohmygodddd, you guys are the cutest couple! I luv you both. Emily your attitude dealing with your cancer is just so AMAZING. How does the CBD help you? Does it help with pain??? Seriously enjoy your videos doll! When do you guys plan to get married? Much love♡

[@Toffee146]

All that food looks amazing Emily/Aisha! I'm stuck in Sheffield with my mouth watering!!!

[@joannegollsneider6349]

Still watching in 2022. Love you.

[@karencurtis2697]

Yehhhhhhhhhh great weekend girls and it's always great seeing A in the video Lisa calls her " a little ray of sunshine ☀️ " think she has a little crush ohhhhhhhh yessssssss . Haven't been to London for at least 20 years. Maybe this summer will be the year fingers crossed. The fitness instructor in these videos is fab 🙂 keep looking after each other x😉

[@vickyrogers3690]

You are both so cute together! You need to tic the marriage box! Lol

[@sherrys.96]

Hi Emily, I’ve been vegan for years. I have two different heart defects, so the last thing I need is animal products. I have to admit, I feel so much better and have much more energy. Another benefit I’ve noticed is my allergies are so much better and I never get colds or flu. I do believe everyone has to make their own decision on their nutrition though. God Bless you!!

[@riawallace7560]

Great vlog. Love to you both…the simple things of life are the best & most memorable I feel! ✌😘✌

[@ElaineSharon358]

Keep up with the videos! Love u and Aisha to pieces💕

[@cori020065]

How is aisha REALLY holding up?

[@soo9939]

Hi Emily. My husband and I were 'vegan 'or ate a plant based diet ( i still wear leather boots and wool etc )for a year after I was diagnosed with melanoma. We both felt pretty good. I stared having stomach issues this November so went back to eating animal products in December -thinking it may be related but I'm still having issues so probably not. anyhow my advise, for what its worth, is that it's best to listen to YOUR body. Youve done GREAT caring for your body this far. AND i recently discovered info on a doctor in new york who had great success treating cancer naturally( using enzymes as well as other things) and he had 10 diet profiles which would be given to different patients and he found melanoma patients often did well on red meat. ! So just goes to show there are a million ways. Trust what your body tells you. It's tough to question and over think these things. Been doing it from day one :( the best thing we can do is have fun and enjoy our lives I think and maybe have an occasional green juice or not. 😚

[@rosemarys2465]

Thanks for the tour. Now I want donuts. :)

[@bellaangus1213]

I’ve been watching too. After her passing. :(

[@theursine1]

I always like the beats on your videos. You have good taste in Beats...... ......Beeeeeaaaaaattttsss!

[@emilybarrett464]

Aisha looked so beautiful in this vid, love that lipstick on her. You guys are so great with your attitude. I did have a question about a previous medication you mentioned... i get pain from my MS and they have offered me to change to tablets instead of my injections to slow down my MS, but there is a risk of PML (fatal brain infection) with the tablets because it lowers your lymphocytes so much, but apparently they dont have the side effects of being in pain like my injections do. Trying to weigh up the pros and cons, but im thinking of staying on the injections and trying pregabalin. Did you find it helped you? (I think thats what u said u was on) and also did they make you drowsy and zombie like? Bit worried ill slur my words even more when im on them! Haha. Any advice would be great, thanks em xx

[@007janerussell]

Miss you both

[@traciprovins3221]

Yes we have urban outfitters!! Reminds me: 1. Is porridge oatmeal? And 2. Does “half of 1” mean 12:30? Or 1:30? I just want to spend time with the 2 of you because you’re so positive and seem so fun so I enjoy the vlogs! Definitely would love to see London one day!

[@marthacarrigan8349]

Hi Sweetness(es) ! We have Urban Outfitters here in America too. I scanned the comments some & saw no response to that question. I love your spirit, the both of you .💗 rock that "List" & have fun

[@nikigarcia1766]

Great vlog :-) Really nice to watch except for the fact that I now keep thinking about donuts 🤣🙄

[@clairecarey8004]

Definitely worth checking things out like the vegan diet, why not, like Ayisha says there are positive stories, I keep hearing about turmeric bring a real cancer deterant ... I put it in anything I can .. No real taste just yellow in colour so add it to milky drinks, soups maybe even porridge 😉 great vlog Emily learning more about London as well which is really great ... I need to get out more ! Thanks 👍☝️😘

[@serinat2181]

I like putting your videos on in the background whilst I do sixth form work

[@julieann5381]

I spent the first half of the video reading all these positive comments so now I have to watch it again 😝 Love you two. Have a massive wedding and invite us all 🎉👌

[@jessej.m.e8430]

Pushing it hard at the gym 💯 💪 Love seeing Aisha in the Vlogs again! Love Ya Guys xx xx

[@cori020065]

We do have urban outfitters

[@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780]

Yes Em.... we do have AMERICAN Eagle outfitters here lol . I watch an American vlogger who has cancer and is vegan/ vegetarian and well...... he's off chemo ;) Aisha you're smashing it at the gym! Love you both!

[@staceyjames9482]

I sure miss you two. 💔

[@laurajeanbotha5321]

I can't believe a month after your devastating diagnosis you never gave up your gum sessions. So brave through all that pain 🌹🇿🇦

[@cherylcampbell7495]

Watch Chris beat cancer. My hero. I’m vegetarian. Organic everything.. lots of fruit. Organic turmeric. Hemp seed for headaches , magnesium...love you both.. love LONDON.

[@carolboland2690]

Love them both so much ....life is so unfair ...... Wath a women ....😔😔😢😢💔💔❤❤

[@wendysherbert3257]

We have Urban Outfitters and they are popular here!

[@laurenbell4414]

Hi! I started eating vegan just a few weeks ago. It's actually a lot easier than I thought it would be. There are some great alternatives to meat and dairy out there and I've really been enjoying the diet so far and had some epic meals!! If you think you'd struggle going completely vegan, why not have a cheat day like you would on any other diet that way you're reducing your meat and dairy intake but still having what you enjoy. Xx

[@ashleygawler1056]

How does Aisha look so good after the gym! 😍 also Emily can you recommend any gyms in Canterbury please? I had a baby last year and am so nervous to get back to into it and would help so much to know, thanks x p.s you’re doing amazing!

[@prescotlove1009]

Love to both of you ❤❤❤.

[@tayler8377]

Yes Whole food plant based!! Also try accupuncture it helps your body help to heal itself!! Im vegan! I call myself whole food plant based though because ive eliminated processed food. I highly recommend you do it- it lets your body work optimally!

[@marybeazley7741]

Hi Em please keep the weigh on its important that you do......i have never seen a couple meant for each other as you and Aisha you have a great girlfriend.....love you both.....xoxo......Mary..... Canada

[@jimmyjohnstone7258]

Live well each day.

[@MissAnatance]

Jimmy Johnstone love this comment xx

[@mjd2491]

I am also a "porridge" (oatmeal) girl. Since my cancer diagnosis (stage 3 breast cancer, through treatments, but who knows what the future holds?) oatmeal is one of the few foods I can count on enjoying! I put sugar (or brown sugar or maple syrup) and raisins on it, and for an extra carb load, add a couple of pieces of buttered toast!!! LOL I also love how you do lots of Starbucks action, just like we do across the pond. I'm from Minnesota, so my weather is much like yours..... OK, it involves more snow. I can't lie about that. :)

[@dashortnails]

Hey Mary, i dont wanna be annoying but, dairy is #1 foodsource linked to breast cancer and some types of autoimmune diseases. Why dont you give a dairy free week 🐄 a try. And you will really benefit quitting the starbucks as it will help you staying on the alkaline side better. And dried figs, mulberries or dates would be a better alternative than the brown sugar because unlike brown rice which is a healthier version of white rice, brown sugar is not a healthier option it is just white sugar mixed with molayses. Stay strong and be on the green side of the world they will help your body heal itself.

[@julielynn86]

Yes we do! Urban Outfitters? Yes we do!!! Gleefully I state....lol

[@georginataylor4617]

You two girls are such a lovely couple. x

[@mscavsfan]

Vegan viewer here! Yes, we have Urban Outfitters in America. It's actually an American company started in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Quick question for you- when you eat porridge, I'm wondering if that's what we call oatmeal in the U.S. or is it a different kind of grain?

[@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780]

I believe its the same.. The different names for things is really interesting!

[@wendyhawkins1838]

Love you bothXx

[@usavegan8228]

I love watching your vlogs. When I see Aisha, I see angel arms wrapped around her. She is amazing! Keep the vlogs coming! Oh...and go vegan.

[@georgehope5477]

Emily I want you to know that you inspired me to take care of my health. I bought an exercise bike and some weights, I only wish you were still here so you could be my personal trainer. Is the internet good in heaven? Love you.

[@katsj630]

Will you be having chemo therapy? What happens for you guys now treatment wise?

[@triplet3mom]

RE: going vegan..I say do what ever you think will give you the best chances to fight your cancer. I'm vegan and have been for the past 6 months. It's not that hard and you can easily make plant based substitutions. I'm a new subscriber and just love all of your videos! You an Aisha make a beautiful couple. Wishing you nothing but good health!

[@winterwitch9060]

I wish we could press the like button more than once 😁💕 Loved seeing you both enjoying time in London together. I’m vegan have been for a long time and was vegetarian before that so it wasn’t that difficult for me also I did miss my cheese lol. Vegan cheese isn’t the same but you get used to it. I chose vegan because of the treatment of animals but definitely feel healthy on it. Try for a week and see🙂. ..oh and please get married soon we’re all waiting 😉☺️🤗👰🏻👰🏽💖 Aisha ‘tick all the boxes ‘ lol love that xx

[@Staceym123]

You are both awesome and yes get married

[@BellasLife97]

Would you ever do a meet up in London ? Like an opportunity to meet your subscribers.

[@gilliansgoggleaccount7657]

Love your new coat...what make is it? Funny when your walking along swigging out of the morphine bottle 😂😂 (it's obviously not funny why you are doing it ...just looked funny)

[@sharonplant4102]

Hi I’m not vegan but I don’t eat meat.as had jaw replacement from arthritis in my jaw I couldn’t open my mouth so couldn’t eat much hard stuff. Had my jaw replacement 2 yrs ago still don’t eat meat you actually don’t miss it after 4 yrs.

[@juliaputman]

I'm not vegan yet but have been seriously looking into WFPB (whole food plant based) eating. There is a LOT of evidence of it being very helpful for cancer. I gave up meat this year, but haven't been able to quit all dairy yet. Read up on it, Em. Watch the video link I emailed you a while ago - fascinating!! Hugs from Austin TX :-)

[@dashortnails]

Sally Jackman wohooo you go girl!

[@stephenblake8708]

Loveeeeww u xxxxx

[@TammyGrosso]

I feel totally stupid asking this question. But it might just be, because I’m from USA that I don’t know the answer. Anyway, when you say that you ate porridge for breakfast... what exactly does that mean? Is porridge granola with raisins, fruit, nuts,etc? Or oatmeal with raisins fruit nuts etc? Or something totally different? All this past summer, when I was in the hardest part of my cancer treatment, this time around, I craved oatmeal with strawberries, blueberries, BlackBerries, bananas and walnuts with a bit of almond milk and cinnamon to top it off. But then for about three months straight right after that, I craved granola with just about the same things on top, heated up in the microwave. I was wondering if, maybe there are thing in it that we are craving, because our bodies are deficient in it. Actually I’ve been craving that for the past few weeks again. But unfortunately, My teeth are too brittle and weak to bite down on the nuts and hard granola. This is caused by past cancer treatments, along with many years of having anorexia nervosa in my adolescence.

[@pippajolly8712]

Tammy Grosso oatmeal

[@cammeronwall5841]

Wifey!!! Love it! Do it do it girls!

[@suziqoozy]

Get married you too! 😊😊😊🌹🌹🌹

[@eyelove808]

I'm vegan and I watch you :) I recommend reading Dr. Gregers book.

[@LenkaSaratoga]

Hi there 👋💚 Still vegan?

[@monaebreak561]

When you go vegan, not only do you feel sooo much better physically but also mentally, thanks to the peace of mind that comes with not supporting the evil meat/dairy industry.

[@stag_gt]

E Quality it’s not evil . You vegans hate everything. Honestly as someone who owns a farm and knows thousands of others who own An work on farms , there aren’t a lot of nasty things going on .

[@sarahkendall3882]

There’s so many conflicting opinions about Meat & Dairy and about Vegan diets I’ve recently watch the documentary What the Health It’s excellent and I would definitely recommend it I’d also recommend Dr Greger How not to Die book and his you tube videos and website nutriotionfacts.org He has spent his life promoting a plant based diet and proving that plant based diets CAN reverse damage to the body and prevent diseases. 🙌🏻😊🙏🏻🤞💙 Keep strong Em you’re doing great xxxx

[@beelarehman5992]

And check out nalie Agustin on KZbin as well xxx

[@carolehanrahan]

I hope you don't think this is a rude question and, if you do, please feel free to just not answer it and I apologize. I was wondering how you and Aisha can afford to eat out and go on holiday so often. Do you both make that much money at your jobs or do you have a secret stash of cash you can dip into. hahaha I am very poor and I love watching your adventures since I can't travel and dine out nearly ever. You two are such a wonderful couple and were obviously meant for each other. Thank you for sharing your journey through the nightmare of cancer and turning it into a relateable life story. Love to you both.

[@RachelDex]

Speak to the professionals where you get your cancer treatment, Emily. They'll confirm that going vegan won't do anything for your cancer. Enjoy the foods you like to eat and eat them when you want. If you want to eat cleaner, maybe switch to Organic where possible and try to eat more natural foods and less packaged foods. Don't restrict yourself unnecessarily though, it's not worth it. 💜

[@jennifer007007007]

Just wondering where exactly in Asia is Aisha from ?

[@Maplelust]

I wonder that too. she looks middle easternish or somewhere around there.

[@sarahkendall3882]

Hi Emily I’ve emailed you x x x

[@martageraldes]

💚😬🤗🇵🇹

[@mimibunny3057]

Pistol squats please!

[@beelarehman5992]

Hey! If you’re interested in veganism check out Tim Sheifs KZbin channel. I think u will like it xxx

[@sarahmilner8483]

Hard to believe someone so vibrabt is gone. Emily was full of life and enthusiasm but Aisha doesnt show much emotion at all..always seems flat..I guess its the situation

[@mathematicalmuscleman]

Impressive bench pressing. Well done.

[@bamog4560]

First signs of speech starting to slur

[@arsonfly]

That's an odd thing to say

[@christennant8690]

Slurring of speech can be caused by many conditions. I sometimes slur my speech and I do have some medical issues but cancer is not one of them.

[@ourcorrectopinions6824]

@@arsonfly It's not because they're probably referencing the brain tumours that Emily was about to learn had multiplied. They affected her speech and the onset was a bit before this, but here it's becoming noticeable.

[@sukilui33]

Why didn't you go to Nandos then? Lol

[@mypersonalpainpoint]

going vegan is always a good idea! #govegan :)

[@geraldinemaigne8463]

You don't need to go vegan, you'd be missing so much nutrients. Go for quality meat, poultry, dairy... organic if you want to be sure. Love to you two girls.

[@dashortnails]

Géraldine Maigné literally the worst advise you could give to a cancer patient, if you are not sure what you are talking about then just dont!!

[@MVIsland]

It is a medically proven fact removing meat from a cancer patients diet significantly slows down cancer.....so if YOU don't know what YOUR talking about, then just DON'T

[@arthick6466]

Géraldine Maigné you must be an imbecile for commenting something so stupid there's absolutely no nutrients in meat and dairy that doesn't come from plant

[@lindamoon920]

You vegans are so sure about everything... fanatics, me thinks. Everything in moderation is the key. Balance.

[@ukeelady]

August Jensen sadly this is exactly the arrogant know it all attitude that puts many off a vegan lifestyle. Contrary to what you espouse, I've had several friends who successfully beat their cancers whilst eating certified organic grass fed/free range meats. Though I agree diet & nutrition changes can go a long way (sugar being the biggest demon) so does one's attitude and spirituality. Everyone's body is unique to them and what works for one may be for another. It's called RESPECTING individual rights of choice. Something you've clearly not learned.

[@dashortnails]

Please go vegan! It would literally be the best thing you can do for your health! And i will email you about it!

[@joshdean9105]

Seda Korkmaz no it wouldnt

[@cruiseylee]

Josh Lawrence That would be amazing if it helped.

[@cruiseylee]

Helen R That’s why I said it would be amazing.

[@Earthly_Being]