TYPE OF PEOPLE YOU SHOULD NOT DATE | PASTOR EMMANUEL IREN LIVE |

[@Makiaogenyi]

One year later and this video still reeks of so much wisdom. I think what stood out for me was not marrying a man who doesn't have a clear sense of direction. A husband is primarily a leader and I sure do not want to have to lead my husband. Thank you Pastey.

[@glee4327]

2years now

[@ayobamidivine9866]

Run from ppl who punish you with silent treatment once you have an argument, or you start seeing him with another lady in less than a week

[@calebinspired]

Pastor has been a blessing to me personally... A liar and a flirt is a bad option.. I remembered how I used to date myself alone 🤣🤣thinking I had a partner who couldn't even make me known to her people.. She tends to look like she's still single to everyone out there and that's flirt...

[@oluwatobitamabiodun6342]

Please do a youtube live on Healthy Boundaries to set while in a Dating relationship and healthy boundaries to set while Single. This video was really profound and my generation seems to like practical points.

[@preciousdiamond_eloghosa]

Please do

[@aimahbeauty]

I just saw your post on Twitter regarding jobs in tech and found you here too,😂😂🤣. Good to see you here.

[@beforethefall_]

You can check out a video on this channel “The Oludapos”. They talked about boundaries they set while dating

[@oluwatobitamabiodun6342]

@@aimahbeauty 🙂

[@oluwatobitamabiodun6342]

@@beforethefall_ thank you, I’d check it out

[@calebinspired]

And I think it's okay to heal before you leap for another relationship..

[@Bobby_Matthews]

THIS VIDEO WAS BROUGHT TO YOU AND SPONSORED BY GOD; ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT HIS CHILDREN.

[@promisenyah8175]

Love is not for a week, neither is it for the weak, it's also not for those whose primary food is peak. #Twos-day Motivation 😂

[@umohvictoria1834]

Bars

[@oluwasekemiajayi7558]

🤣🤣🤣

[@The_goddess_of_light]

Lol. Great rhyme!

[@estherajemrona2069]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@favourjames5385]

Let’s have it😂😂😂😂

[@fatoyinbodavid3518]

I remember when I thought I could date a girl. But she covers up many things even when it’s not necessary. So happy I’m a Guy that doesn’t take time to spot these things. I just had to withdraw from that friendship.

[@alexieuma]

So I’ve been with 1. The emotionally unavailable , very toxic ones and 2. The ones that just want to play, everything but not the commitment. Thank you Sir , it was all worth it a time. Learnt a lot even about myself.

[@comfytaless]

Please what are signs of an emotionally unavailable person? I don’t know if I’m in one.

[@ayobamidivine9866]

Same… grateful I left that situationship, it drained me

[@alexieuma]

@@comfytaless they don’t call , always have an excuse for not taking your calls too. They are never there when you have something to share or talk about , it doesn’t really concern them what you do with your day , infact , it’s just the title without everything else .

[@funmilayooyekanmi]

Thank you for these wonderful pointers Pastey✨

[@progressolaoye4391]

For someone trying to do marriage God’s way, it really was worth it. I figured that it’s not being picky, it’s knowing things in people that do not settle with the word.

[@abiolaarikawe4318]

Like I’m being told now that I’m picky, listening to this message now , I know for sure that I’m not being picky. I choose God’s Standard over all.

[@adenreleanthony8097]

Women that you shouldn't marry: - The one who says I'm not ready - Avoid the chronic flirt - A woman who is materialistic - The liar Men that you should not date: - Men who are married but separated - One who is not ready for a relationship but crowds you - The selfish man who isn't introspective - One who is just a dreamer but never does anything or isn't consistent with his ambitions - The emotionally unavailable man

[@princessibironke-yekinni7641]

Insecure man or woman

[@garrickkyle6391]

I have a question what will you say about a lady that's not open (I mean she doesn't talk much about her self much) is it right to enter that relationship with her

[@kehindeegbeyemi1252]

Thank you.

[@gaamuli]

​@@garrickkyle6391 The nakedness of Adam and Eve in the garden is what should keep any family to thrive. In fact the moment one is naked and the other is not,it doesn't matter what name you give it, that's a door to let in the devil! When you are ready to spend your life with one other,you're going to ask God not only to be able to be open enough but to have one who is open also.

[@glee4327]

@@gaamuliyes but he’s talking about entering the relationship to begin with. I believe it depends on the kind of person he is and also pray to God about it

[@ladunorole6760]

"Butterfly? That's running stomach. Treat that condition!" 😂👌👌👌 yassss!

[@eyuwaarieko9320]

I once had a situationship with a guy that was insecure about every thing, I could not hangout freely with my male friends without thinking about how he's going to react, he had trust issues also and it was the most emotionally draining "situationship" of my life....we were not even officially dating, so I was like oga, you for like calm down? Well long story short, I thank God for God and for saving me from such. I ran for my life.

[@umohvictoria1834]

😂 you for like calm down??

[@amarachiekwegh]

I recently learned that situationships involve sexual intimacy. You might wanna change your use of words?

[@eyuwaarieko9320]

@@amarachiekwegh it does not necessarily involve sexual intimacy per say, but when you both have feelings for each other but the relationship is not defined, that's like the concept of situationship.

[@amarachiekwegh]

@@eyuwaarieko9320 this is what I have in mind when I say it. But then someone else corrected me and I looked up the meaning, so according to pop culture, there's almost always sex involved. I think your definition can stand as well, it's just for people not to misunderstand you in the future. Cheers🤗

[@factsandopinions577]

@@amarachiekwegh according to pop culture, relationships can not be done without Sex so I think it just depends on the context and the person saying it....

[@miracleidum]

‘Heal before you deal’ very important! Thanks Pastey for the amazing teaching. Please how can one deal with insecurity arising from broken trust in past relationship despite the fact that it’s several years after?

[@adedejiracheal541]

I'm glad I'm here.... it's not too late

[@Annabellescorner]

Even tho this video was published a year ago, it blessed my heart and gave me a better understanding. Thank you Pastey.

[@ubochichibuzo8718]

Thank you for lifting up my sense of human

[@gracerichard9259]

This is absolutely 💯.... The rocking chair,😂 made me laf😅 Hmmmm 🤔 Emotionally unavailable Men!...

[@terhemengabriel9491]

Thank you Sir. Most christians do dating like people outside of the church. It's not different most times. It's unfortunate what we see in church these days. Sometimes, church people are worst than outside people. Am sorry for saying these things but that's were restoration comes by first telling the truth to ourselves. Shalom.

[@mailearningsolutions]

This was definitely worth the time sir. Learnt alot and what to consider and watch out for. Listening from East Africa

[@FavourBenjamin_]

Pastey, what's your advice on 2 believers who love each other but from different religious doctrines e.g catholic and Pentecostal. Especially when the guy is saying he'd appreciate a catholic wedding. The lady isn't in for that, yet he proclaims love. The lady sees it has a future problem

[@RevivalMoments]

It's always good be in a relationship with someone whose spiritual values and convictions are alike. Although& such hurdles can be overcome and worked out, it's better to avoid it altogether if you can.

[@amynaturale5684]

Grabs popcorn 🍿 becauseeee

[@KaytezKanu]

Pasteyyyyy! Shebi we will not do this KZbin live every two days? So much wisdom.

[@onyebuchichantel8348]

Great session Pastor❤️ I have a question, sir What are the stages that a relationship should pass through before it's ready for marriage? I want to know how advancing a relationship works, especially one with the aim of marriage.

[@Mirraccleee]

Friendship dating courtship marriage

[@precioussodipo3588]

Thank you pastey for this You did not just shake some tables, you shattered them 😂

[@abasionoodiong7615]

Butterflys are sings of a running stomach, 😊 let them know

[@dawnimmanuel]

I have a question, Pastor. Can two believers be “unequally yoked?”

[@pst_iren]

Well yes. Even though the original context of unequal yoking was qualify as being “with unbelievers”.

[@SuperiorClothing001]

@@pst_iren hmmm Yes Sir Pls I have a question my girlfriend find it difficult to pray with me She doesn’t want to pray with me at all I don’t knw why She always claims our beliefs contradicts

[@pst_iren]

@@SuperiorClothing001 If she doesn’t want to pray with you ‘at all’ that’s serious. Spiritual compatibility is a thing o

[@ugochukwuekene4319]

@@SuperiorClothing001 Bro, God has just spoken to you in clear terms ,with loud speakers ,you are a lucky guy

[@kwabenagyempeh2753]

⁠@@pst_irenplease Pastor I have a question Please there is this lady that I have met and we have been friends for about 8months now and I want to take initiative to propose to her for a relationship but whenever I try to give her a gift or try to even visit her, she tries to give excuses about the visiting and she won’t take the gift with an intention that men don’t give or do things for free but she goes on giving me gifts without me being aware of it (example money transfers etc).So please can I go on to make initiative or propose to her for a relationship?

[@sundaydavidbassey5547]

At the mention of the "The Materialistic" I think some persons are irked off! 😂😂 I'm watching with my friends by the way and I had to pause to drop this comment. Argument in the house.😂😂

[@Joy-kl6fz]

Thank you Pastor, always a blessing to connect

[@okimeobia]

Thank you sirr! I learnt so much from this😊. God bless you!

[@udyfrost6380]

First time listening to you. You sir make a lot of sense

[@joshmatiluko]

Sincerely, this is a blessing. I would always return to this video every once in a while.

[@olawuyirachael1713]

you right on point sir... pastor Iren is a blessing honestly 🙇🙇🙇🙇....I acknowledge his wisdom

[@calebinspired]

If she's serious with you, she'll be honest with you #ladiesyoushouldnotdate

[@blessingadeniyi1096]

Pastey😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️ I love you daddy

[@tobilobadearest8846]

Thank you pastor

[@start-up2383]

Good evening Pastor, please I’ll love if you pay attention to this sir. I received a sister since 2019 and I told her Gods mind about us 29th February this year. She gave me a yes; but that she’s not ready for a relationship, that she’s not ready for the responsibility yet, but that she’s sure I’m God’s gift to her. Up till now we’ve faced many challenges up and down and still in same circle over the months. She’s still not ready. I don’t know what to do. And she’s not even being a good friend at that. She can be away for 1 month, no chat, no calls and our house is just like 15mins walk. She doesn’t care not supporting my ministry I’m just so confused about what to do. We spoke earlier today she’s still on “I’m not ready for us”

[@oyedeleemmanuel8777]

Leave her sir focus your mind from her sir , God always give the other person a responsibility of chosen the other, if God said this is your wife if she says no then go back to God there's always a replacement and then , if you're ready and she's not ready sir based on experience leave her don't even bother her about it , she might not want you to feel bad by saying no to you directly sir , but with her attitude towards you she already gave you the answer, move on sir Go back to God sir and not to the woman,

[@enogelaojima1095]

I learnt that while going into a relationship, we must keep our eyes open and reasoning intact so we are not swayed by our emotions instead we consciously decide on who we want to spend the rest of our lives with and how it should turn out.

[@adeolaobasekola]

Pastor, I have a question please. How and/or why do we fall out of love? Especially when the other person isn’t toxic also bearing in mind that we know we deserve good loving. This is coming from someone who’s had to deal with a bf who just stopped loving her. Unfortunately, someone else has to go through the same thing with her. She wish she could get better but she’s tried.

[@juliustemitope9233]

Had this same question in mind 🤝🏽

[@The_goddess_of_light]

i don't have the answers. But I've heard that these things happen when the relationship wasn't really defined for marriage in the first place.

[@francesmbewe8457]

"All those butterflies, that's running stomach" 🤣🤣🤣

[@foyinlolasworld6072]

Thank you sir 😊

[@faithbuoro3530]

Very much Worth my time

[@SUCCESSOGBOYE]

Good evening just getting to watch this now . If I may ask how can one deal up with a situation of a guy treating his girlfriend with silent treatment during issues then after resolving the issues he chooses to apologize.

[@odupeleprecious]

How do you know when you’ve healed from a relationship hurt?

[@thedigitalbabe1]

Thank you pastey!!❤️

[@thelegendarybettyfoxx5603]

Learnt a lot and the lessons validated a tough decision I had to make. I'm going to wait for God's Best and I won't be settling for less.

[@faitholuwadunmininu9127]

Congratulations sis. I wish you the best

[@victoriagbadero5907]

Am blessed with this message.... God ll continue to uphold u sir 🙏🙏 I ll be happy 🤣😁 if u can help us with More of this sir

[@olawuyirachael1713]

God has a lot of heart to take care of to be honest 🤲

[@josephjamala2204]

Last person in your village to join🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chinazoucheaga4825]

..."you don't have the right to fall in love" took me out 🤣🤣🤣

[@toritsejueyide3712]

Thank you Pastor. I have been so picky. Thank you so much. I couldn't find words to why i didn't want any of them, but now i do. This is words to my actions.

[@calebinspired]

Many Men are married but honestly are separated and sometimes it doesn't mean he's a bad man, However even while he's a good man, He should've put away the formal person If you must consider him..

[@eddieudoh911]

Yeah yeah, I learnt a whole lot. I was greatly blessed Thank you Pastor Iren

[@abungjosephine693]

Oh wow. Saw this and started laughing 😂. Had a discussion with a friend on this 😂. Yaay! Time to watch !

[@khalifire]

In This Situation In 1976😂😂😂

[@emmanuelonwuaso4769]

Kai, this blessed me big time, thank you so much Pst Iren.

[@olawaleolumide8399]

You don’t have the right to fall in love😂😂

[@ritaokolonwakaego51]

The woman that you gave me hmmmm

[@KaytezKanu]

This was definitely worth it, Pops.

[@blossomukam5527]

Thank you so much sir. I have a question. As a lady, is it advisable to marry someone you don't love, though the marriage is God's will and he's "husband material" in every sense of your teaching tonight?... And I'm not saying maybe he's been in your life for weeks or so, but for years and you still don't like nor love him.

[@enny_vicky]

Don’t marry someone you don’t love babes🙂 there are plenty of God’s sons out there that you can fall in love with🙏🏾

[@oparapatience2095]

John 3:16- For God SO LOVED the world... As much as love is not enough, it is needed. Even God loves you.

[@factsandopinions577]

LOVE IS VERY ESSENTIAL

[@tegafavour356]

Worth my time...

[@francesmbewe8457]

We don't need labels 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@gracerichard9259]

This is absolutely 💯.... The rocking chair,😂 made me laf😅 Hmmmm 🤔 Emotionally unavailable Men!...

[@ezehgloryishioma1381]

Thank you sir This is insightful... I'm glad I came across a video a very good friend sent to me Now I just want to keep growing❤

[@kaletv7648]

why will i kneel and beg my husband to touch me😂😂😂 make hin dey play.... rubbish

[@gistwithjimmie3331]

Sir what about in case where you as the woman in the initial start of the relationship you are the opposite of all what you started here for a man not to marry but you later find out that is this man that is really not ready for the relationship because is not that he’s not a Christian,he is a Christian,but he ask you for sex before marriage and he see nothing wrong that even when you try telling him that’s not right he wil then make you feel bad,and he as point it out clearly by saying it that this is him and you should not expect him to even change after marriage so you better know this and not blame God tomorrow for bad marriage,he doesn’t believe that a believer should pray,read the word,have personal fellowship with God,even when you try on several occasions to do it together he said he’s not use to it and that you are the woman and you should be the ones praying,he’s not a praying man and all that.He believe that a man can still love his wife and cheat on her,you the woman goes all out to satisfy him when it comes to matters about home but when it’s your time he will say ge doesn’t have and he will not even try to help out. So now you the woman has decided to just keep quiet and watch him do his thing but he keeps telling you that he want to many you in the next 5years and all,you should just pray for him to have money,he will marry you the year your birthday falls on Saturday and all that. So is you withdrawing and giving yourself time to reflect if you want to continue with this person and move out ,does that make you a bad person?

[@deboraheleanor4509]

Madam how can you still be asking a question like this? Read all you said again, how is this person a Christian?? Maybe he is a Christian because he says that’s what he is or maybe because he goes to church but that’s it. Please leave such a person, any true believer and child of God can see it clearly that such a man is a mistake for you. I hope you don’t make a mistake oo.

[@deboraheleanor4509]

1. A man who asks you for sex outside marriage and when you correct him he manipulates you into thinking, it’s you who is wrong. That’s why I said why will u be asking such a question, you should know the answer, as a believer. Don’t you know your body is the temple of God? Why will it be used to give pleasure to a man who is not married to you. Just a regular dude, because he says he loves you? Common now. 2. A man that does not pray or read his Bible 😂😂, this one is the funniest. It is clear he doesn’t have a relationship with God. If I had you as a friend won’t I want to be with you or text you or call you? It’s the same, if he truly had a relationship with God and is a true believer not just a church goer, he would always want to fellowship with God. Is that the man you want to be a father to your kids? A man who does not pray? please oo. To answer your question, please ma, it doesn’t make you a bad person, please withdraw from this person, make yourself available so you don’t miss your true husband by focusing on this person.

[@LoveChukwukere]

I’m the last person in my village to join oh no😭😭😭😂

[@mosesstanley5472]

Good day. As a man, how do you deal with a situation where you are friends with 2 ladies (not dating any) and you are ready to commit, but they both check all your boxes, how do you decide who to date and further marry

[@hottrends4681]

"You don't have the right to fall in love" 😂😂

[@helenobinna4128]

Hi Patey i just joined and i watched this particular clip.... My question is all these tips given those it also go for university students

[@michaeldogara3951]

Thanks for shading more light on these signs. It's enlightening and helpful. I have been a victim of most points you highlighted. I wish I heard this message before now. God bless you for what you do

[@OghenevwarhoOnashe]

Lovely

[@theijeoma]

Just got to the emotionally unavailable 😂😂😂😂thank you Pastey 🙏🏻

[@cynthiaolukoya5598]

So if you are in a relationship with someone that is insecure is ending it the only solution

[@ebunoluwakolade1250]

It was worth my time. Thank you so much, sir.😊

[@fejiroaramiyor7442]

The video is worth my time, data and attention. Thanks for sharing value.

[@chiiinazaa]

This video was very impactful to me to be honest Thank you so much sir for these wise teachings🤍🙏🏽

[@OlaideTaiwo00]

Hmmmm Singles get in here. Thank you Pastey

[@chiderapromise4605]

❤❤❤❤ This teaching was worth my time

[@sochimachioba1446]

Thanks pastey for this... Always insightful and helpful

[@chiomaezeokeke9073]

"butterflies are running stomach"🤣😂 Sir, duly noted.

[@beeartsentertainment202]

Haaaaa. You are a good guy. I don’t see you that way

[@favcanva6675]

Hello sir, I'm favour onyema thanks for sharing this

[@salometsado928]

Thank you, Pastey. 🎉

[@sharonuja1683]

A very timely message. Thank you so much, Pastor Iren for sharing

[@queenbenson9618]

Always a pleasure to listen to you, Sir.

[@victorianjideka7003]

❤️❤️❤️🔥💯

[@oluyedemayowa5365]

Learnt so much from this. God bless u pastor

[@estherannuduma]

I'm really the last person in my village to join. lol

[@karachiokereke2919]

Please how long should the two parties date before getting married

[@theijeoma]

Thank you Pastey for emphasizing this.

[@ririuwa5108]

God bless you sir for this can’t wait for the next videos

[@peteradeleye5713]

Thank you sir for this. I find this very educative and informative sir. God bless you Pastey. Please sir, when is it the rightful age for a guy to date a lady?

[@eloquencewithabimbola]

Marriage deserves ALL the seriousness.📌

[@ipuolececilia2099]

Thank you Sir for this teachings.

[@oluwadamilolakolawole9227]

What if the guy is shy ?

[@cynthiaalex620]

Heal before you deal

[@dayoadeneye]

This just popped up on my feed right when i needed this

[@yvonneomiete4612]

Last person in your village to join in.😂😂😂😂

[@temiladedeborah]

Thank you, Pasteyyy

[@alurejapheth]

Thank you sir for your time and thank you sir for the truth