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Icamagu Heritage Institute Director, Dr. Nokuzola Mndende responds to eNCA caller Keneilwe and her views of older African women as she speaks on the generational differences among African women and the realities and challenges that face each generation.

[@tkctkc5805]

The host is being very rude, childish, immature, disrespectful, and unprofessional. Why bring a guest on to your show if you are not going to allow her to speak? Much respect to Dr. Nokuzola Mndende for maintaining her stance and dignity on this show even when she was being disrespected on numerous occasions by this unprofessional host.

[@tshikilafambamily293]

I so agree worst host ever. Hated watching this she was forcing herself on Dr Mndende.

[@ezamabona7940]

She should've just interviewed herself - such a disrespectful. she spoke more than the interviewee

[@BabaYaggah]

Too true ...the respect for elders is gone with westernization, they ask to be taught and we reject teaching them the new ways just because we are triggered. Mama has a point, in my culture a woman led the community and there are legends of women...I do not see how women were oppressed back then, the issue is the adoption of the western thought and ideals. We should address our issues based on this past reality that I believe was the best in contrast with today's world. Back when women were seers, diviners and chiefs. But I guess we are so embarrassed of our culture let's just shun it out.

[@mvuyisikahla1699]

Yah Malaika is debating not interviewing the guest. She should have just shared her views and not invited the good Doctor

[@muziwakhilekhoza192]

Ft Dr

[@yolokazimfuto8370]

Malaika came to this interview with alot of preconceived information about Dr Mndende hence she is not giving her a chance to explain. she is not even listening to understand rather to respond\

[@mohlomphehi]

God I love this wonderful lady. Pity the presenter wouldn't allow her time to speak.

[@sanelecebodauwa8038]

That was not an interview, that was a monologue for the host, Dr. N Mndende was just there to witness the argument skills of the host.

[@aphiwempahleni1587]

My worry is that you can't talk about the today without dealing with the past. The sad thing is that the host had told herself before the show that she will deal with her guest hence she is not granting her guest enough time to talk.

[@FumaniBaloyi]

What was the point of having a guest? Seems like the presenter only wanted her arguments to be heard. Constantly interrupting

[@ismatka-mbonane7843]

OMG! The host is super duper rude and unprofessional. She is constantly interrupting her guest but she makes it a point to be known that she can't be interrupted. I'm all for a good debate or difference in opinions but there's a proper manner to do so.

[@thulanisingapi5949]

New knowledge to a kid can make them think they got it all figured out. As a bad host u r you'll grow up my dear.. keep learning more n not only about the info itself bt the delivery u'll mature soon. THX

[@surrealtalk9779]

The Host is indeed colonized and disrespectful.

[@projectikamva]

Yhuuuu Malaika! What a missed opportunity to engage and learn from uDr Mndende. I mean she spent 95% of the time talking when she should be listening.

[@Hazelbeing]

Being educated and informed is sometimes a curse. This host went there armed and ready for a fight which is not existing. I'm truly disappointed by her, she's talking over this woman and it's useless. She's actually using twitter logic, waste of time.

[@peacheskong2245]

I think she represented the current sentiment of a group of women and did it well. It's good to bring the elders together with the youngings so that they can correct us or teach us and we can show them as well how we're doing.

[@123ndindi]

akanambeko ke uMalaika... she loves the sound of her voice

[@prudencedantye9297]

This interview was so painful to listen to because the host kept on talking over the guest. The big words are well and good but they all went to waste. I wanted to hear the guest's views but she was not given enough time to speak.

[@mangoyacho]

Dr Mndende is ver wise. What a pity she was given enough opportunity to present her thesis without interuption. I hope she will be invited again, We want to hear from her.

[@sanelethwala1179]

Exceptional responses to Doctor Mndende

[@leeiam978]

"The problem with our young people is they are not teaching us, they are forcing us." UMama is so right. I can give an example. My 90 year old black grandmother through proper conversation understands the plights of the LGBTQIA+ community, is knowledgeable, all because I 'taught' her, not forced her. I'm classed as 'liberal', but it's starts with empathy, and an intention to listen not this disrespect. I doubt that the host is well-read on the works of Dr. Mndende. Honestly, this is wasted wisdom.

[@leeiam978]

Also, the assumption that Dr. Mndende isn't knowledgeable about the topics mentioned in the 'modern idiom' is an insult to her intelligence. Also, since when did an opposing view warrant a complete shutdown. People that give textbook definitions of political ideology annoy me. We know that. That's a lecture, this was meant to be a conversation.

[@lindokuhlepetuniazwane664]

"Teach us do not impose". Very critical. I love how mama Mndende carried herself throughout the interview but I still did not get her fundamental argument, ber advocacy.

[@johnmhlanga8153]

How could you if she couldn't even make a point at all

[@sidwellmaqoko5540]

the guest should be given enough time by the presenter.

[@yolandayalezo3497]

The host was very disruptive. Although the arguments she was making were quite valid and I feel Dr. Nokuzola Mndende didn't fully make her point on any of her answers even when she wasn't disturbed.

[@sanelethwala1179]

Doctor Mndende is very knowlegable about this isssues.. but the host seems to be wanting to give lecture and not absorbing information.

[@matshabalalaeleki]

I won't bother going all the way because I concur with the comments.

[@jackiemwangi8963]

“Young people are not teaching us. They are forcing us.” The lady is forcing her opinion. She should have taken a deep breath before saying anything.

[@projectikamva]

Then she insuates that uDr Mndebde is being 'violent' for suggesting such... kanti what must happen?

[@malibongwematutu8830]

Malaika is presenting her muster so one should not expect her to respect mama .

[@kennethvolwana7799]

Why did you call her 🤷‍♂️

[@khanyamazkhali6949]

Who is the guest here na kanti? She doesn't seem to have been given enough air time . This interview is a joke. There is a lot to be learnt from this elderly person.

[@mpingampinga8635]

Am sorry Dr you so knowledgeable try to engage with old people what we are listening hear Yoooo sisilungu santoni na esi kubantu abamnyama, yiyo lonto udibana nabantwana abalahlekileyo, njenge ndoda mama unyanisile lo uzawubethwa ngamanyange ngamathongo ungakhathazeki ngenye imini uzakuthi ndicela Dr Mndende sizothetha

[@everythingispolitics6526]

The host was talking AT the guest which I found extremely distasteful. The caller was beyond condescending. What's a shame. The Dr handled herself very well. The arrogance of the younger generation will come back to hurt.

[@nyende158]

Was this an interview? 🤔 😳

[@babsie3235]

Yho am not sure what this whole interview was about mntakabawo omnye uthetha phez'komnye but the answer is no, elders are not the guardians of patriarchy.

[@asivekonkenontombiwani6882]

Uyaphoxa lo Presenter y can't she give a chance Gogo?

[@mpingampinga8635]

Dr

[@sisekosivuyilemkhululimali3698]

This host is irritating and unprofessional

[@yoknyamdabale4753]

The interviewer is horrible, oh my God! Why bring someone to your show and not allow them to talk?

[@siziwetobie5818]

This lady is very toxic! Malaika wakhona wow rude as hell

[@vuyisilesilekwa9292]

akanambeko lomntwana akakwazi kusebenza umsebenzi awunikiwe tu unobuntwana.akenzi njengosasazi

[@nonujako3557]

Malaika waAzania took it to herself, Dr uxolo shem; hat interview was not yours..

[@bulitm1]

The host should not have invited the guest if 80 % of the time she would be the one speaking

[@ncumisagarishe2733]

uKrwada Man losisi

[@kennethvolwana7799]

Too much

[@peacheskong2245]

I don't understand why people are so disrespectful to the host. She did a good job coming with counter arguments and allowing her guest to speak as well. It was a good debate where different povs were presented I don't agree with her even but I think she did well bringing up her points. THIS is how we can learn and remain open for teachings

[@tshidiso9653]

She did a bad job with weak counter-argument

[@mpingampinga8635]

Ndiyarhalela sithetheni 0791382044 uze egqibile to deal with umama Mndende

[@athiluyololupuwana4242]

The presenter is so unprofessional, she is a typical example of a lost youth generation.

[@ayandaandisiwe2859]

Malaika you are disruptive.

[@tshidiso9653]

Very bad hosting skills