Ending Codependency - Dr. Judy Ho

Dr. Judy Ho is a licensed and triple board certified clinical and forensic neuropsychologist. She graduated with her Psychology and Business Administration degrees from the University of California, Berkeley and Masters and Doctoral degrees in Clinical Psychology at the University of California San Diego School of Medicine. Dr. Ho is triple board certified through American Board of Professional Psychology, National Board of Forensic Evaluators, and American Board of Pediatric Neuropsychology.
Her new book, The New Rules of Attachment, Dr. Judy Ho teaches us a revolutionary approach to attachment theory that guides readers on how to heal their inner child to change their anxious, avoidant, or disorganized attachment style not only in relationships but also friendships, at work and at home. Through Dr. Judy’s innovative program, readers will learn to identify their attachment style, recognize their core needs and wounds, and implement evidence-based practical tools to heal their inner child as they develop the secure attachment we all need to thrive.

[@_rhapsodist]

You forgot to put the link to the quiz into the description 😔

[@mariekitty]

W

[@kevinacapps]

Wow, this was eye opening for me. Thank you guys!

[@yasmeenyaqub917]

Just saw you post this on instagram! Watching now! Thank you!!

[@melodyvovan9205]

Thanks Doctor Ho ❤

[@halosandhugs8129]

this is incredible 🙌 grateful for y’all sharing this insightful conversation

[@user-fq6mm6kz5o]

She is the cutest psychologist ever.

[@angelchadha]

No link for quiz!

[@cadillacdeville5828]

I needed this

[@adrianhayton9883]

Thanks for bringing this to us x

[@riseupwithaman1506]

Great stuff

[@tjokinen670]

Im 64. Grew up alcoholic father and emotionally distant mother. I was oldest of 5.Two sets of twins after me. I got married at 20. We knew each other for 2.5 yrs. We had 3 bio. & 3 adopted kids. Parenting filled my cup. I gave my life to patenting the kids to have a good basis. After 43 yrs the kids are gone. My marriage is in a ditch. I feel stuck. Like my life is over. Im not happy.

[@laurahook8279]

Love yourself, start loving yourself, like really loving yourself. Find activities you like, that make you feel good. You can be happier than you are now but it takes work ❤

[@alexandrugheorghe5610]

Dr. Judy Ho rules!

[@alexandrugheorghe5610]

P.S. well done, Dr. Judy, with the videos you made and uploaded on your KZbin channel

[@darksora763]

I hope they share the quiz link. I would really like to know my attachment style.

[@JR-rg5ob]

I would love a book ❤️ congratulations 🎉

[@irenerobbins4789]

I don't see a link to the quiz

[@dianearena2516]

I can't find it either

[@_rhapsodist]

Me neither 😔

[@irenefinch7024]

Just Subscribed To This

[@justdoingit4034]

Important to know our secured attachments YOOOO THAT GAVE ME CHILLS, VER6 GOOD HAHA VERY GOOD...and LINK!!

[@mollysueist]

I don’t like books but I need this one wow

[@yasmeenyaqub917]

Where can I find the video where you talked to teens about substance abuse and rehab? I was put into rehab 4 times before the age of 18 and would like to listen to it. I have 2 years sober now! And a wonderfully determined 2 year old 😀 learning to help myself and be better for her❤️

[@justdoingit4034]

Important to know our secured attachments YOOOO THAT GAVE ME CHILLS, VER6 GOOD HAHA VERY GOOD

[@artpsych71]

Please include the link to the questionnaire to help determine our Attachment Style.

[@alanirons]

My attachment style is anxious avoidant

[@sstritmatter2158]

Mine is primarily anxious with secondary avoidant. I like to be the nice guy, it comes naturally and was raised to be this way, while at the same time not to be a cry baby and to pick yourself up and be a man. So, that is where avoidant comes in. I have also come to believe I have significant traits of borderline (discouraged type mostly with some petulant traits/some risk-taking traits). My parents were great raising me (maybe some issues I am not aware of, but they loved and cared for me for sure), but I have had a big struggle having healthy relationships all my life and I am middle-aged now.

[@mickeysimi272]

how have you coped with this i relate to this very strongly

[@pennymcdermott1883]

I'm honestly not sure what my attachment style is but I'd love to find out.

[@mariekitty]

Where’s the link to the quiz?

[@nataleecervantes9731]

I feel like i have a mix of anxious attachment and disorganized attachment

[@lizzettemichelle]

I think I'm super codependent.

[@lynnetterowden2469]

My 3 children are adopted all have Reactive Attachment Disorder. Nobody knows anything about it to give healthy therapy.

[@lizzettemichelle]

That's sad. I hope they get the help they need

[@adrianhayton9883]

I think I’m a mix of at least a couple of them .

[@James-lw1ug]

Link?

[@AndreeaCe]

Disappointed in many of so called "licensed" therapists, psychologists. The internet is filled of these life coaches. Some call themselves experts.

[@sunshinerainbows4627]

If you work with all kinds of people in the general public for years and someone does something very nice and follows with something equally terrible and the terrible makes you want to not be near anyone anymore, what does this mean? How can one sentence erase years of hard work? Or has years of abusive behavior hit its peak and this was the straw that broke the camels back? Some say it's codependency.

[@tedlogan-xd1vv]

why doesnt my doctor look like judy?holy smokes

[@justdoingit4034]

JUDY HIT THAY RIGHT...DESPITE BEIGN SO INDEPENDT...yeah I do need reassuring every now and then and being hypo manic. Good hit Judy read me well. I know my childhood eww