Who would one reach out to have a calm conversation for help? If youre 18

Can this just be a trait and not a disorder?

"It's just your imagination" is one of my favorites from my mom. With a smug victorious tone of voice. Signing off, a 51-yr old (who moved 2,300 mi away from their hometown 2.5 decades ago!)

People who have D.I.D, i have a question, many people who claim taht they have D.I.D have claimed that they can go to different headspace's, is this true, I don't think its true because its a mental disorder

I sometimes feel ill WITH my phone - especially since the election!

Yes my mom instilled a lot of fear in me 😢yet kicked me out as soon as I graduated college she’s so crazy

Wow this sounds so much like me I never even knew it was a thing 😢

I almost got kicked out of a homeless shelter last year because I was mad that they wouldn’t let me leave to go get a phone charger. But the thing was, they all had their phones, they were talking about a parade or something all night long so we couldn’t sleep. And then the people who checked us in and refused to let us leave, left and someone else came to spend the night. I was so mad and they wouldn’t even let me have a panic attack in the bathroom. 🚽 So I ended up yelling at the head guy and his wife finally said, “well we don’t even get paid to be here.” So I calmed down and they left. The next day I left early. Couldn’t drive around much because I was almost out of gas, so I went back to the library by the church. I couldn’t get a hold of my husband. The library only let us call 211. So I went back to the church and called him. I couldn’t get ahold of him, so they sent me back to the library. A woman came by and said that she heard from my husband and he was coming by the shelter that night to give me money for gas. I couldn’t transfer any funds without my phone so she gave me a few dollars. I also logged into the library computers to cancel work for the next day. My husband had to take me to get a new phone the next day. It’s really is almost impossible to live without a phone.

I was diagnosed with this after being abused and neglected as a child and going through a domestic abuse relationship. I was also diagnosed with Emotional Unstable Personality Disorder also known as Borderline Personality Disorder

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This short doesn’t really educate on anything. I’m not sure the point of posting this

How many traits do you have to be diagnosed with BPD ?

Trained Psychologist here. I've found, in my many years of first hand experience, that it is becoming increasingly common for Psychopaths (actually not a fan of the Personality Disorder definition) to label themselves as Neurodivergent. "On the Spectrum." Autistic and so forth. And Psychologists are perpetuating this cycle of misdiagnosis. Don't get me started on how many Psychologists are Psychopaths.

Thank you، ❤

I once had a conversation with a coworker about how I would clock out at work, only to have to clock back in at home and it was like having a 24 hour job. The "Dredd" for me was when the phone would ring. She would call me at work, and I absolutely sucked at setting boundaries, and would take up 3-5 hours on any given day of work time spent listening to a bunch of negativity. Then I would get home, and hear the exact same complaints that were mentioned during the "phone call" again. Then it would be the same thing the next day. Next week. Next month. My phone would ring, or have a notification chime through for a text or missed call all the time. It got so bad, even if it wasn't her, I would hate just the sound of the notifications. My phone was literally on vibrate for years...

I lost custody of my children. I was married with a bpd for 25 years. Together for 28. Since we were 17 years old. I didnt know what she had for most of the the time. In the end it got out of control. She got more and more physically violent. With weapons, throwing things. Wrenches, hammers, other tools and heavy things. Like clock work i was trying to get out to survive. When i told her she threatened to "send me to jail". I didnt understand at first so i said she couldnt do that. And she responded with a "oh yes i can" that startled me. The way she said it. She was threatening to make false allegations. I waited and the next time she got violent i called the police. They didnt believe me. She put on a crying act and i got arrested. Felony. Dropped by the da. But she was out to get me now. She filed a restraining order and her lies held up in court. It went to trial, but i lost. 3 years. I can see the kids for 3 years. I dont get it. If she isnt a monster, then what is she? I simply wanted to leave but she blocked that. Then i call for help, she stops that to...... i found found out some more stuff from one of her sisters.... she told me that as a teenager 16-is she got pregnant. She claimed it was due to rape and she got an abortion. The guy went to jail. She told me this and i had not mentioned anything. So when she told me "oh yes i can". She was telling me ive done it before. I can do it again..... oh and one more thing just for good measure. Our supposed youngest is not biogically mine.... i think she is a monster.

YES YES YES AND YES 💯💯💯🫡🫡!!!!!

I cut my dad off today … I got tired of his attitude, underhand disrespect, and putting me down. I am not proud of myself for telling him off but I couldn’t keep silence. I told him to go to hell. I hope God forgives me for this mistake. I’m grateful I was raised by my mom and not my father.. He’s such an ass. It would take days to go over everything he’s done.

When they are the one who discards...its so evil and heartless. They want to see you suffer even if their own child is in the cross fire

I had a staff performance review two weeks ago where I had written on my questionnaire that I wanted to get to the next level (room leader) and my Director told me (in front of the area manager) "There is no room leader" when the company is advertising for the role and the ad is still on the online job board. The next night was our staff meeting where the Director told the whole staff that they are still looking for someone. The day after that I was asked to "fill in" for a room leader who was going on leave for two weeks. My director is interviewing for the role yet WILL NOT consider me. I know that my director has gaslit me because it was verbal and not in writing and that the job is still being advertised and they haven't found anyone.

It's true. If your were abused or bullied as a child, you need to get therapy and start the healing process, because unresolved childhood trauma/bullying will SERIOUSLY affect your health when older. I'm a living example of it. 10 years of bullying (trauma/abuse by assholes in school), had affected my health, starting in my early 20's.

You can hide it if you isolate yourself. If no one misses you enough to go looking for you… you can be missing for years…depressed asf!

I think I have a mild form of depersonalization that stems from my social anxiety (and maybe my autism). When I'm around people, it feels like there's a barrier that goes up between my emotions and actions. It's like when I get dressed to go outside, I also cover my feelings so that the rough outline of them is still there, but there's limited details. And it has a similar effect that alcohol can have, wherein I can use it to push through and do a thing I know should make me anxious, with the full knowledge that I'll be having a panic attack about it when I get home. It even impacts some of my sensory issues. My brain decided several years ago that when a shirt collar comes up above my collarbones, I'm obviously being choked, but I can wear stuff to work that don't bother me at work but as soon as I'm about halfway through my drive home I have to hold my collar away from my neck to keep from panicking.

I’ll give you example I spent six days in the hospital having part of my lung removed when I got home she called me up and told me she was coming over and told me to start making dinner. I said I can’t do nothing. I said I just had surgery I can barely move and she got all mad started calling me useless and I was no good and what a loser I was and I haven’t heard from her since, this all the time And she never called me or visited me in the hospital to see how I was and I been with this woman for like eight years

I completely understand why some people can no longer continue. I am there right now.

My brother has been making my life and my sisters life a livin hell since we figured him out 4 yr ago , he lives minutes from the both of us and gets the local low life dryg addict to burst our car tyres theres about 32 screws in total been used . The police r not intrested as we have no evidence , i bought a security camera but i live in a block and its 2 high up to pick up on any motion , its never ending we cant get away from him . We know its him it has caused so much trouble in the family wer our youngest sister thinks it could not b him and my dad also sides with him.they always have. I really cant cope or take much more of this 😭😭😭

Try Covert Narcissism. That’s fun let me tell ya. Discovered my “best friend” was manipulating me.

Yeah, this is super hard to watch for me. I don't fit all of the categories, but disorganized and does not follow through have caused me and my spouse more problems than I care to think about. Have tried many strategies and meds, but frankly its a challenge i'm going to have until I depart

I had a lot of people pretend that they were under the influence of things and I bought drug test and sent it to a lab they've been lying since the 7th grade and they were just hurting people and becoming physically violent for money trying to lie and cover it up I'm glad that you recovered but I have a bunch of younger ones that are extremely abusive for money and lying constantly

I stopped going to the doctors years ago but I wonder if they thought I was faking it when I was getting an X-Ray when my leg was bad, they said nothing showed up Had an accident years ago

This is not FDA approved so no insurance coverage. I'm going to try esketamine because it is FDA approved.

She’s just a ball of happiness isn’t she??

Number one way to spot a narcissistic person is see of that person is female.... that will solve majority of your narc cases

It’s gotten so bad to a point where I consider suicide, Feeling so unwanted and an utter failure, only to realise that i am fine and don’t need to be admitted to a hospital because i got my freaking period. It’s literally a sigh a relief every time i get my period. And life gets back to normal as soon as i am done with period, i am optimistic, extremely productive, grateful, grounded and full of energy again. Only to be in the same situation 2 weeks later.

I like Narcissus. In the mythology he doesn't hurt anyone but himself and anyone who falls in love with him. He doesn't encourage anyone to fall in love with him. They do it for themselves. In short he gets a bad representation in these videos and it's too harsh. They need to choose a new name for the people you are describing. I have one "cuntists".

What’s with her 👀? 😂ya label the other person a demon or narcissist because you got scammed. When in fact you just didn’t know how to say “no” or stand your ground.

They literally despise their victims who they gaslight endlessly. I left and he turned into 10 times worse because as someone said they feel entitled to abuse you

Sorry for misinterpreting the eagle and the wren. I thought being an eagle was a good thing. I didnt understand the concept. I hope you have sympathy. I condemn myself. No more pride. I humble myself✝️

I'm just tired, I'm broken.

My siblings and parents are the worst of the worst when it comes to narcissists, and its been a very lonely experience because there are no healthy lebel of boundries that allow them in my life. I have always been penned as dramatic, dofficult and down right bitch because i rejected the game.

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Good point a empathic kid will not turn out to be a criminal!

Fascinating discussion.

So true...partners often interpret inattention as "not caring".

She didn’t pay attention to detail when she put on makeup on just one side of her face. Sorry, Doc.

Two words: vocal fry. Please work on it. Your vocal style makes it difficult to absorb your message.

I wish I had had help getting these horrible things in the past. I encourage everyone to seek as much help as possible. I legit feel like I have a semi-PTSD from how horrendous getting of opiates was. I’ve never experienced anything remotely as painful and spiritually challenging in my entire life. Ppl who’ve never experienced it don’t understand how psychologically challenging it is. It legitimately gets to the point where you do not care if you die, you’re pushed to your limits and if you died right then and there you wouldn’t care at all

If i stop eating junk food i will get skinnier... if i stop taking the pill, then i will die....

This is great, I appreciate you creating these videos! Thank you ❤

Can being in a romantic relationship with a narcissistic person cause this over years of abuse?