"Endless effort: Butterfly and engineer in search of a way to happiness and marriage"

In this exciting and shocking KZbin video: the devoted engineer, with excitement and joy in his heart, finally receives the answer to the test, the answer that removes all the problems and obstacles that existed to marry Maryam. With a smile from ear to ear, he expresses his gratitude to the doctor and walks home with light and happy steps. He gives the good news to Maryam's family and after that, they both leave for their neighborhood.
Inside the house, the engineer, with energy and enthusiasm, tears the wedding items that his father had prepared for him and turns them into old and worthless things. This action shows that he no longer needs his father's approval and his decision is to achieve happiness and true love. Then, with a small flower that he bought in the city, he goes to the butterfly house. The engineer wishes to make the butterfly happy with this flower and show that his love and loyalty are still constant.
But Parvaneh has no more feelings for the engineer and pulls him out of his house with an upset eyebrow. This tension and inconsistency at the heart of the story continues to make the story exciting and full of ambiguity, and indicates the continuation of the dangerous and complicated story that takes place between these two lovers.
#Laboratory love
#barrier_destiny
#dream_of_happiness
#contradiction_of_feelings
#Decided_on_love
#non-stop_effort
#Marz_Partgah
#freedom_of_love
#borderless_love:
#desire_search:
#complicated_destiny:
#strong_days:
#hidden_story:
#love_code:
#master_of_love
#Eternal_Link:

[@annewallis5728]

You have done the right thi g Mrs Parvena. Don’t doubt yourself for one minute. You have been gracious and kept your dignity.

[@user-qd3iw6dc8b]

У инженера чистое сердце, за это АЛЛАХ ему помог.Салам из Дагестана. ❤

[@Z9MOketZ]

I’m fully respect Miss Parvena!!! She’s respectful, smart and independent woman . She’s also very intelligent. She know that she can’t trust engineer. Engineer is trying to impress her but she knows and that turns her off.

[@user-bs7ss2xx7v]

Huhhhhh😮??

[@adaborgia1956]

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[@bedreddintokmak4416]

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[@sheriheuettnitsche-zini2977]

Too much Drama

[@laurabobay5607]

Parvenah, You were NEVER his second choice. You were always his first choice. The sad thing is that he is not a grown man enough to fight for you. He is a coward, hiding behind a piece of paper to show he should not marry his cousin. And now you know where you stand...he will choose his father's wishes first. It is good to know where you stand before you commit to someone. I am glad you are wise enough to know that. I am sorry that it has come to this. I know that you and the children love him very much and that he loves all of you too. God Bless you all. Stay strong, you are doing a great job.

[@rosariamarino4592]

She is wonderful lady and smart ! Stay strong 💪

[@fidelcrichlow3442]

She is right you need to make your own choice

[@kaytate7572]

So proud of you Mrs Butterfly. Never be second in Engineer life. Whether it be his parents or Maryann. Im afraid Engineer will always put his father first. Im sad all this happened, but you are correct. Grown men need to make their own decisions, you made yours without your family. Thank you for showing women of that country they do have a voice and they are not servants 😊

[@wilsom.barbosagomesgomes1029]

Ela nunca iria ser a segunda pois ele pediu ela para fugir e ja tinha dito que qieria casar com ela bando de idiotas que não entendem neh a historia

[@erlindahow7361]

Kneel down and beg Engineer,let her know she is the one you really love and care 😢!

[@theresa.leriaalexander5680]

Congrats to you Ms Butterfly, you prove too me & all the youn girls in your country you was born with your own brain, ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊🎉🎉

[@candyrieschel9386]

I understand him wanting to honor his father , but he is a grown man and this is his life you only get one . I understand why butterfly's upset she feels like second place , he should have just left home and married butterfly .

[@ClaudiaMora-lp9lj]

Beautiful lady and a smart even a like the engineer, but he needs to put his belt tie in his stand for what he wants not by what other ones for him💐

[@estherperri4818]

Ms. Butterfly is an independent, intelligent woman ! She’s had to many problems with her ex husband, she doesn’t need any more with Mr. Engineer!! Take time , don’t rush into anything!! ❤

[@michellecousinohettrick2077]

Parvena is a mature, wise woman, and experienced with people. After her first marriage, she’s far wiser and aware of what’s not good. Because of the entire situation with John’s father, she now sees a side to him that wasn’t apparent before. He has a lot of growing up to do to be a proper, strong man. Anyone can help the poor but not anyone can be the right spouse.

[@CarolWilliams-zd1lq]

Just take parvena and go and get married from her fathers house if your father doesn't want to go thats his hard luck just be happy

[@ildikomeszaros4847]

Kedves Mérnök úr! Nagyon nagy hibát követtél el! Apád döntését elfogadtad, de ezzel megsértetted kedvesedet. Nem harcoltál érte, ő lett a 2. számú kedves. Egy kész, felnőtt, szerelmes férfi ilyet nem csinál. Ha valóban szereted, akkor harcolj érte, tégy meg érte mindent. Nem lesz könnyű, az biztos, mert Ő egy önálló nő, saját gondolkodásmóddal. Értékes nő, aki nem fogad el alamizsnát és jól teszi. Ha majd úgy érzi, hogy Ő lesz az 1. számú kedves, akkor lesz minden rendben. De ehhez neked dolgoznod kell minden nap, minden percében.! De ha csak valóban mély érzelmeket táplálsz iránta, akkor harcolj érte tűzön-vizen át!

[@annewallis5728]

Mr Engineer your father doesn’t care bout your happiness he only cares about what’s right for himself. If he was your real father YOUR feelings would be more important.

[@user-uy9xd8rm3u]

Как я рада за тебя сынок, будь счастлив !❤😅

[@user-zb8hc7tq6q]

I'm praying for. You my new friend. Our creator is merciful ❤❤❤❤❤

[@teresalau86]

You did not stand up as a man to defend your true love therefore you do not deserve her love, too bad you did it to yourself not only you don't deserve to marry her maybe you will be cut off from visiting the little boy too😢😢😢

[@absaroka5123]

Ms Butterfly will not take you back because you didn’t stand up for what you believe in your heart and soul. You gave in to your father’s demand to marry your cousin when you did take a blood test. Whatever the test result was it only show that you don’t have the back bones to make a hard decisions for yourself. It proves that you’re a push over when it comes to your father. You are not the right man for Ms Butterfly. She’s looking for a man who is independent, loving, generous, kind, hard working, honest with a strong conviction of what he believes in life. I admire her for standing up for what she believes in her heart. Her conviction is very strong and unshakable.

[@marycoleman9273]

I hope the butterfly finds someone who is not afraid to stand up for her and the children and really love her and them. She deserves better than this weak man!!!😢

[@user-hg2oe3xb2w]

祝你永遠快樂幸福

[@katerinasdaraki5802]

Unbelievable that girl he didn’t want her and she was crying how ashamed! How desperate a girl can be ! Mrs Butterfly good for you. Youhave a lot of dignity!

[@cheryldrake2108]

Father went to bank and put a bank card in her name, $$ she almost had money. That changed things with her I say I say that is not good!!

[@marilynrosado2905]

Miss butterfly he never wanted to marry his sister he did the blood test on purpose that was the only way out of the marriage to prove to his father. Yes, he could have stood up to his father. I agree, but you were always his first. Please marry him😢

[@Pilarsisalinas]

A

[@barbaramartin9264]

I AGREE WITH BUTTERFLY!!!

[@oliviapizana1022]

Mrs. Parvena don't take this man child. You deserve a man who will fight for you. Please start a KZbin channel Mrs. Butterfly

[@goricamilosavljevic7367]

I mi smo srecni zbog tebe sto nisi ozenio devojku koju ne volis❤❤👍👍👍👍👍👋👋👋👋👋😘😘😘🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀💖💙🩵❤️🙏🎈💜🇷🇸

[@melrosefalconer2235]

Mother you should be ashamed too because u help your conniving husband decorate for wedding

[@_Dina.6193]

Cómo cres que se siente ella de saber que aceptaste casarte con otra mujer ,ella esta dolida y decepcionada de ti ,no eres un niño para hacer lo que tu padre te dice por favor !!!!Me rompiste el corazón dice , tú de lo rompiste el corazón a ella primero al aceptar casarte con otra ...

[@user-gk5ir6uo5n]

Да. Согласна с вами. Ему надо было против отца идти. Не соглашаться на женитьбу с Марией. И я бы так себя почувствовала, сам не принял решения. А если бы был тест положительным? Женился бы...

[@belneluxlg3649]

BONJOUR Mr.Ingénieur ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@theresa.leriaalexander5680]

You are a your lady after my heart you wants his love not his world's goods,you are not for sale,let that be know period,understand sir, you need too be a man not a boy, not a yes dad no dad you not negotiating business,.it's your feature. Good luck.❤❤😊😊

[@DeloiseJonesXES51]

Miss Butterfly 🦋 I am so glad you informed him how you feel , he is not the man I thought he was ? He is a little boy in a man body who let's his father make life changing decisions for him , he is not a man nor did he ever love you ? REAL 100% LOVE ❤️ No parents , no religious, no one can detect how and whom you fall in love with and no one can change your mind to the point of marriage ? He live at home , he never dated a women, he don't no anything except throwing $$$$$ Around to show ppls that he is well off ? Don't married him , cut off all communication with him , go on with your life and you do not need him if you have a desire to help the underprivileged children's learn how to read , you can do that on your own , He is not the man for you...he can't deal with life situations nor can he decide decisions for his self and he is a spoiled cry baby...LET HIM GO...if you want peace in your life...he is not for you...thank GOD you found out this now .....

[@BlumarSanchez]

Que mujer tan inteligente ..tan i dependiente que bueno que todas las mujeres iranies tibieran esa decicion ...te felicito mujer eres digna de ser una supermujer ,, que Dios te bendiga gerrera verraca mucha salud

[@mirisdunje]

E neka ti je rekla 😂 pametna žena, a ti nedoraslo stvorenje, navikao da dobijes sve što hoćeš i kad hoćeš..da je test bio pozitivan, ti bi se oženio radi oca, ne razmisljajući o Leptiru...moraš se naučiti nositi s problemima i sam donositi odluke, bez da ti se itko miješa u život, i utječe na odluke, konačno odrasti i budi muško

[@iyamanchannel]

Much respect to this teacher lady parvaneh .She talks a lot with sense that seems the engineer simply cannot understand. He always talk about the result of the test is negative. what will he do if the result is positive?

[@kameliacuisine]

Je la comprends tellement. Si le test était positif, vous auriez épousé votre cousine... pour plaire à votre père et donc, cela signifie que les anciennes coutumes continueront d'exister malheureusement! Vous auriez dû prendre votre décision vous-même et ne pas attendre après une prise de sang. Vous êtes en âge de choisir pour vous-même. Ne laissez personne choisir à votre place!

[@carmenrocha1115]

Creo que Paravena es una mujer madura y correcta, si ella sufre como puedo ser feliz a costa del dolor de otro, segundo y si hubiese Sido positivo que desiciob hubiera tomado .tres un hombre que más allá de decirse enamorado debe también demostrar madurez y jugarsela.Dele el tiempo ingeniero a qué ella cubra su dolor y vea claramente no la hunille diciéndole que va a comprar la casa , ella es independiente y letrada no necesita que le compren nada es inteligente , hermosa y sobre todo madre y mujer .téngalo presente defienda su amor no se haga el ofendido ❤

[@user-gk5ir6uo5n]

Надо Марьям замуж выдать. Бабочка сказала ему, я не могу радоваться, если Марьям плачет

[@mariadelaluzhernandez5246]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@melissalevesque3677]

I hope she can forgive the engineer after all she was the one he wanted to marry all this time and i pray they are able to work this out

[@dianareedy7213]

Mr Engineer don't you realize you wounded Miss Butterfly's heart when you agreed to marry your cousin. You gave in to your father's demand. You were giving false hope to your cousin too. You still don't have your father's blessing and this will cause family problems towards Miss Butterfly with your dad. She is correct to really think about your character and ability to stand up for her and the children. You could lose her by agreeing to the marriage. 😢

[@user-nb3sj6qe3f]

Not his dad! It's his UNCLE that married his Mother after his Real Dad passed away.!! These countries that allow this kind of marriages are sure to have high rate mentally illnesses a d deformaties in children ..One does not marry the same blood..It is called incest....But I do understand it is thier old culture, they really should think about all those children that it hurts....

[@liberadellamalva4036]

1😅a

[@margaretcoyle4224]

He should follow his heart his step father won’t live forever an mr engineer will be bitter and miserable what parent wants that ?

[@janethasler1217]

What a carryon , he dodged a bullet ! Why is she upset ? She knew they should not marry when they had blood 🩸 tests .

[@estherhle1]

Too bad

[@davidecuscito5033]

Il comportamento di questo uomo non mi piace è un bambino non è un uomo la signora parvena è una donna bellissima e intelligente

[@ouardakheddouci8873]

Madame bravo à toi pour t décision puisque ce genre d’homme est soumis et restera soumis au détriment de son père sans personnalité sans autonomie au courant de tte sa vie. Bien parlé t’es une femme compréhensive cultivée réfléchie à ttes tes décision Tu as bcp de dignité bravo pour ton courage

[@mariadelaluzhernandez5246]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@user-mm8xc7oj4j]

Очень мудрая женщина молодец

[@rosariogarza6339]

No se desespere ingeniero Dios lo va rencompensar tanta buena obra que Echo usted merece lo mejor tenga paciencia❤❤❤❤😂❤❤❤

[@jenniferruiz249]

Megusta está señora es muy respetuosa y moderna ojalá i se casé con el ingeniero😊

[@SarahNicoleL2024]

Ok Mr. Engineer this is what your going to do. Pull yourself up by your boot straps, dust yourself off and move on. Looks like the butterfly might fly away. Get back to what you do best, helping those in need. Go back and get to know the single girl raising her sister's kids. She was charming or just take time for yourself. I realize it hurts, I lost a love when I was younger. I have been married many years now but still remember how sad and lonely it was. You'll find someone, you respect women and love children. Stay positive. God Bless! ❤

[@celinemalili1784]

Yeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssstessssyessssssssssssyessssssssss That’s right That Girl Is Better Mr Engineer❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️yes I Know He’s Father Will Like That Single Girl That’s The One MtEngineer ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@user-rp6wp6bi8e]

Парвене, ты права. Если бы тест был положительным, он бы женился. Он просто трус, побоялся остаться без денег отца

[@teresalau86]

Yes he did not stand up as a man forget him cut off the relationship a man like that who knows even if after you too get married who knows maybe he's force to take a second wife 😮

[@vikakett1999]

Трус он или нет ,а вот кто она?белая и пушистая? Идеальная ? Каждый в своей шкуре,важен результат,он верующий,и конечно надежда на бога,и вуаля ,он свободен,не надо искать в нем трусы,он почитает отца ,мать ,и попав между 2х огней не нашёл выход,все у них будет хорошо,

[@EliseDefer]

La falta de empatia por parte este hombre, su nivel de manipulación y caracter caprichoso, que las cosas deben siempre ser como el quiere y cuando quiere, su egoismo, sin importarle los sentimientos de los demás, etc...Ella se ha dado cuenta hace dias que el no es hombre para ella. Me parece increible lo que voy a decir, pero he entendido al padre: Su padre conoce a su hijo mejor que nadie, y sabe como es, y también sabe que solo una mujer joven e inexperta (y de la familia) podrá aguantar las actitudes inmaduras y egoistas de su hijo. Es como si ella lo estuviera viendo todo desde una distancia fria emocionalmente hablando. Por fin estamos viendo como es este hombre.

[@therealpollyanna5846]

I completely understand the butterfly's reasoning and she is asking for days to think about things. That is not asking too much. If those test had gone a different way, he would be marrying his cousin and not her, to appease his father. He came to her saying, I can't marry my cousin, so now I can marry you. That is second choice. He is a grown man, being controlled by his uncle/father, even that situation is weird. The second biggest killer of babies in Iran is birth defects. But the older generation still keep planning these marriages and interbreeding. The engineer did not fight for what he believed in and loved. Instead, he allowed himself to be locked up and badgered into accepting his cousin. Science got him out of that proposed marriage, not the love of the butterfly. It reminds me of some words I once read, "It is better to die on your feet, than live on your knees". He should have stood up and fought for what he wanted, regardless of the outcome.

[@user-jq1mo9bj1k]

Как базарная баба, сам собой любуется, сам себя хвалит. Он если любил эту женщину, не должен был согласиться на брак, сестрой😮😮😮

[@elidiacarranza7153]

Good for you, Mrs Parvaneh.He only went to look for you because the blood test came negative, and they were not comparable, and I highly admire you for being a highly principled lady.

[@andreag.3845]

He has a fiery temper. Not good at his age. A good marriage is permanent work, respect , forgiveness, tolerance, Gods blessing ( on earth, the blessing from father and mother ) and dont loss your humor. God bless you, specially today.

[@abdelhalimstaifi9846]

Mme parvaneh a raison de réfléchir avant de donner suite pour se marier avec l' ingénieur.

[@mariadelaluzhernandez5246]

Un abrazo con mucho cariño a la Señora Mariposa, súper culta, educada, respetuosa e inteligente!!! Mi apoyo desde México 🇲🇽

[@catalina9468]

أنا سعيد جدًا بالمهندس 😊

[@lorettaconte]

Caro Ingegnere, sei molto spontaneo e buono nel dire subito la verità alla tua amata ma dovevi riflettere prima di compiere i gesti spontanei.Dovevi fare un poco di discernimento sulla tua relazione con l'altra persona.Ci si sposa solo per Amore 💘 e non per alternativa!Dio ti benedica ora lascia che lei rifletta un poco e piano piano le cose si sistemeranno se Dio vorrà.Un caro saluto affettuoso da nonna Loretta (Napoli) Italia e tanti auguri.

[@lupitadominguez2187]

Tiene toda la razón la sra Paraven ,el ingeniero no tuvo voluntad propia e hizo lo que el padre le dijo ,eso demuestra que no es tanto el amor por la sra Paraven porque se dejó manipular por el padre y la prima que horror ya sé veía casada con el ingeniero si ella es joven y estudiada ella sabía que eso no podía ser es contra Dios y lo peor la prima sabía que no la quería y que está enamorado de otra mujer y aún así siguió con los planes del tío entonces ahora que hace llorando la ridícula y muy bien hecho por la sra Paraven no debe de casarse con una persona que no tiene voluntad propia ,es muy buena persona el ingeniero , pero le falta mucho madurar y darse cuenta de que ya es un hombre no un niño

[@andrewleo9820]

Muy de acuerdo el ing estaba disfrutando de su paseo con la familia comprando anillo y vestidos. El no aceptaba esa boda porque la veía como una hermana y después lo pronto que cambió de opinión al decir que se casaba pero no quería tener hijos es decor que si pensó tener relaciones con su prima ingeniero leas los mensajes

[@ivonetecastrolima2745]

Borboleta parabéns por você ser essa pessoa racional , não enxerga as coisas com o coração e sim com a razão, as pessoas daí tem tradição,acho lindo um filho abedecer os pais,mas a atitude do engenheiro foi covarde se ele sabia que teria que ser assim porque e tradição,porque envolveu você nisso , brincando com os sentimentos alheia tanto com seu como o da prima ,ele tá perdido não sabe o que realmente quer 🤷

[@hebaalturky1545]

الف مبروك مهندس بهمن يااااللفرحة

[@user-jy5gy9gg2e]

God already gave you the answer by putting the love for ms butterfly in your heart and you ruined it.

[@beverlygillenwater8537]

Mrs Butterfly did exactly what she should do. Would he have married if positive. Be a man. Make your own decisions. What will happen if she marries him later with major decisions.

[@liannacrazyhead5591]

Sí está molesta por lo que le hizo su papá usted luche por su amor

[@jorgelarzabal]

you see sis the honor does not have anything to do with happiness or love now you have lost someone you love cause of the decisions you made. I don't blame her for her decision you made her feel like second best.

[@patriciagoodman937]

He dosen,t understand ,that he didn,t fight for Butterfly ,he was obeying his dads wishes an he would have married the other woman ,if the test went the other way . Butterfly is a lovely lady an he should have fought for her . an she tried to explain that to him ,but he still didn,t get what she was saying that she was his second choice

[@vivfortier2071]

What a drama queen this guy is😮

[@JennyThomas-nv8zh]

He never wants to take the Blame for anything . Always puts it off on other People.

[@luminitapaduraru7218]

Ma bucur pentru fericirea îngerului ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@user-jn8cc7gv3c]

Сынок бог помог тебе избежать неприятности.Радуюсь за тебя.

[@lauracarrillo5343]

I'm so happy you went to the Dr's It is Not Right To Marrie YOUR COUSIN

[@gracielabrown8466]

You are right lady . Let him suffer just a little bit because he needs to be more thoughtful and be a man. It’s obvious that he really loves you, but he needs to learn how to treat you and how to talk to you.

[@dorothyclarke588]

from day one she led the Engineer on...now she say, "i think about it" !!

[@user-pn9zq6jo6v]

Да Славо Богу,молодец Инженер,Бог есть и будет всегда тебя спасать,благослави ❤с ❤❤❤❤с Богом,молодец я рада прелесть,победа твоя❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ayseakcay1657]

Öğretmen hanım %100 haklı testin sonucu pozitif çıksaydı evlenecekti babasının sözünden çıkamıyor hangi yüzden çıktı öğretmen kanımın karşısına çocuk gibi çok ayıp Türkiye'den selamlar öğretmen hanım çok akıllı biri

[@matildakallay8528]

What are you talking about? She agrees that he listened to his father. God turns everything around because it's ungodly for him to sleep his cousin. Nonsense. Why is she acting to be hard to get. If this misses help God send through his son ,she will never get a man to marry her to their ungodly culture. Infact she wanted him so bad. She should know their culture, this man tries to respect his father , give his father condition, look you forcing to marry Maryam, let blood and even if it positive he will not child with her. Now what else can a man do. After all in their beliefs culture, they practice or allowed polygamy having multiple wife's.

[@cheryljones7066]

She is right no woman wants to be second and you aren't man enough to make your own decisions. She want a grown man not a boy.. never choose second place. She is good for him to make a man of

[@alinata9941]

❤инжинер Порвани,она вас тоже любит. Пусть немножко все успокоется и вы будете вместе

[@user-wn5zu1tk4x]

Тебе Аллах помог ты хороший желаю счастье огромное!

[@fidelcrichlow3442]

It is not about the test result it is about you not standing up to make your own choice

[@markcousino2519]

He's weak and deserves no woman. He dug himself a deeper hole everytime he opened his mouth. She's too strong and independent for him. All he was saying was he would have married his cousin if the blood test came back different

[@user-jy5gy9gg2e]

Right! Lol

[@mariadelaluzhernandez5246]

Tu error, desde mi punto de vista es seguir hablando de Maryam y lo que hubiera pasado si no hubiera salido negativo los resultados de los análisis. Eso significa para Mariposa, que terminarías dándole gusto a tu padre. Por tal de no hacerlo enojar terminarías casándote con esa tonta a la que también le falta carácter, de pronto parece entender el problema, pero luego llora y se enoja porque en el fondo también quería casarse contigo. La Señora Mariposa es muy inteligente mi querido Ingeniero, creo que te supera en mucho porque tiene y manifiesta muy claro su manera tan madura de pensar. Sí en verdad la amas, no te hagas el sentido, acepta lo que ella te hace ver y partan de cero pero elige: tu padre o ELLA. Entiende Ingeniero!!!

[@jorgelarzabal]

wow there is a god so happy for you God bless.

[@angiekrajewski6419]

Why not have two cars one for you personally !! At your age you should have a car if your own and not depend on your uncle’s car!!!

[@marionszabo7588]

Bravo lovely teacher ask Jim if test was positive what he would marry cousin I respect you lovely teacher

[@jenniferevans2046]

Mrs Butterfly is a highly intelligent and independent woman. She is far removed from the very old customs and all she wanted from him was to stand on his word ‘NO’ to marrying Maryham and not stand on a stupid blood test. I can see her point. He did not make a 100% decision to marry her by going along with Maryham and a test.l. His behaviour to Maryham was bad, and for her mother and his own family. He should have loved Madam Buttefly more than he loved his uncle’s old customs and stood his ground. But he didnt. He passes everything onto the test, or God - but took no real courage and responsibility to stand up for himself. She would be mad to marry what seems to be a grown up child who is quite manic and over stimulated about everything - he does not come across as emotionally balanced. What would he have done if the test had been positive? He would have married Maryham, right? Or would he have had the courage to stand his own ground - that way, he would have proved to Butterly that he was totally sincere and had the courage of HIS OWN convictions.

[@annewallis5728]

Totally agree with you!

[@tootsiepop5532]

I couldn't agree with you more. Very well said.

[@Anna-uu5mf]

La signora è madre di due bambini, è matura e responsabile, lui un romantico e ma poco responsabile.e delle sue azioni, succube delle decisioni che non sono sue. Deve crescere e sapere quello che realmente vuole.

[@viloliv3446]

Magoou uma mulhet por causa de um pai que não pensa em sua felicidade. Agora aguenta as consequências. Borboleta é uma mulher inteligente, sábia e digna. Precisa lutar para merecer. Seja homem de decisão e não um que não tem atitude. Fraco!!

[@user-fg7ll7oi2c]

I understand both sides. She thought he made her a second choice but he thought proving his point about genetic problems would change his father’s understanding why this was worse than wrong. This was a way to have harmony with his choice of who he wants to marry. Without that blood test, he would loose his family. Now he has a way to have both. He knew that test would release him from “ tradition”. It’s fact. She was never a second choice.

[@dianareedy7213]

She told Mr. Engineer she wanted step-dad's blessing. Step-dad has not given it. Step-dad chose niece over Ms. Parvani. 😢 His choice was cowardly for a family you supposedly love for life. 😢

[@mbpicorelli8284]

hiciste bien señora mariposa, tu honor por encima de todo

[@michaellewis4297]

The father has insulted the teacher so much that she also thought that if she marries to the family she'll have problems later on because of her two kids which the father had really stated. SO BE IT ENGINEER, TOO MANY FISH IN THE OCEAN..

[@marycoleman9273]

If he really marries his cousin I will unsubscribe

[@margarettesimon1110]

Butterfly you made my day. You are so poised and smart, and patient. I would have discussed him a long time ago. This is very smart the way you handle him. Bravo. Engineer admit it you are a Mommy’s boy, you need to grow up.

[@ankagajdosova8066]

Inzinier mal bojovat o svoju lasku a nepostupovat žiadne testy ,a bojovat proti tymto zastaralym zvykom

[@jessesherryl]

You blew it John, she just wanted to see you stand up for yourself, put her first,😢

[@carmenmartucci4429]

Signora Pervaneh E stata sempre esemplare e aperta al dialogo dimostrando di essere una giovane Donna e mamma aperta e un modello per sua figlia e tante altre Donne. Ha accettato le parole dello zio anche quando l'ha offesa con le sue parole ,e li ha contrabattuto una donna divorziata non ha il diritto di rifarsi una vita ? Lei 🧕 meglio di me sà che questo pensiero viene da un uomo che ha avuto dei valori umani immensi di un altra epoca ,che lei sa bene anche il come maestra perché questo succedeva . Oggi l'evoluzione della vita ci da una finestra temporale più realistica e più elastica , e in questo senso ci muoviamo e coltiviamo la nostra vita. Mettiamo un punto fermo e un tassello importante e che lei 🧕 Signora Parvaneh non è la seconda scelta no cara lei è la prima scelta del Signore Ingegnere. Il Signore ingegnere è una persona estremamente onestà corretta con un grande cuore generoso inoltre è un Uomo di Dio 🤲 Lei 🧕 ora è ferita ha il suo orgoglio deluso per quello che è successo. Mà la causa non è l'ingegnere lui ha sempre detto nò ... Non ha mai nemmeno un secondo ignorato il suo grande amore per lei🧕 e i suoi figli . Mi creda onestamente . Con il test, lui ha usato questo test per fare capire allo zio e ad altre persone che non si può decidere per altri sarebbero infelici . Lui avrebbe detto nò e sarebbe venuto da lei 🧕 Lui sapeva questo da sempre dall'inizio . Quindi lui ha rimproverato lo zio di avere detto quelle parole a lei e di averle spezzato il cuore 💔 E anche ha sgridato il cameraman di avere dato l'indirizzo di casa sua . Signora Parvaneh si prenda il suo tempo e decida per lei e per i suoi figli . Mà , si chieda perché e venuto da lei con fiori bianchi e pasticceria con il cuore ❤️ in mano ... La carta era un esito autentico certificato leale fedele verso di lei Signora Parvaneh gli ha sempre detto la verità . Questo e il Signore Ingegnere. Le auguro di prendere una saggia decisione 🤲 Dio vi benedica siate felici l'amore vince su tutto 🩵💙💝🩷

[@Antonia.torres]

Yo tampoco hubiese aceptado, de buenas a primeras, así que aplaudo a la señora parvane, ella no quería un papel solo quería las flores a su hombre amado, si esa prueba sale positiva, no lo hubiese vuelto a ver, porque el se hubiese casado con su prima, no decidió por el mismo, fue gracias a que ese análisis salió negativo. Bravo bravo por ella, es una mujer que sabe lo que quiere, que tiene personalidad y decisión propia, ella a sido honesta y transparente, lo a puesto en su lugar, aunque ella también esta enamorada de el, ahora le toca a el esperar la respuesta de ella

[@JennyThomas-nv8zh]

Ms Parvaneh is absolutely right about the engineer. . He can't think like a mature Man. He is still a child Man. If the test had of came back different. He would have married Maryam . Even if it didn't make him happy He would have did what His Dad told Him to do. . Ms Parvaneh wants a Man that can stand up for His self . . How could He take care of Her & Children. ? . She is a wise Woman. . if she married Him. She would always have to listen to His excuses , as to why He can't always deliver , What is expected of Him.

[@charlesworthvarlack4687]

I agree with you to a certain point, we have to understand and take into consideration the customs and traditions of their country. Having said that, he is a grown man should stand on his own. I do feel that there is true love between them and that Ms: Parvaneh will come around and there will be a wedding.

[@user-nb3sj6qe3f]

Engineer, Dont get ahead of yourself...The butterfly was deeply hurt ..You should have stood up that day and took control , you might have to start over with the dating thing.She has to regain what she lost in her heart..

[@Anna-uu5mf]

Hai ragione.

[@melrosefalconer2235]

So true he of to take his time to win her heart back hope she understands that he couldn't do anything yesterday

[@gramsim-jw9xq]

Oh no, happiness then sadness. Poor Engineer, his stepfather had hurt his life. 😥😥

[@jankanator1138]

konecne aspon jedna zena u vas v tyhle klipech co uvazuje racionalne! dala muspravnou otazku co by udelal kdyby test nebyl negativni a on ani nedokazal odpovedet a aj v tom ma pravdu ze je obezretna protoze jeho otec ji urazil a on nebojoval za svoji lasku ale se podvolil otci a proto zekla ze se nerozhoduje sam ale jeho otec zanho. ma pravo byt obezretna protoze by se mohlo stat ze po case jeho otec nebo nekdo jiny mu neco namluvy a on to udela pak by mnela pani parvena problemy a ty ona jako rozumna zenanechce mit . liby se my jeji mysleni a ma pravdu taky bych o nem pochybovala po tom vsem co jsem vydela jak se choval. do ted jsem mu fandila za to ze pomaha lidem v tisni ale ted uz tak nadsena nejsem taky pochybuji o jeho pravomocech o vlastni osobe.

[@anna_marie77]

Perfectly said!👍💯

[@yeseniamontano2789]

Ingeniero fallaste que hubiera pasado si el examen daba positivo para que se casaran un matrimonio, no depende de los resultados de un examen sino del verdadero amor

[@user-wz9hd7ts7e]

Надо было Парвене хоть забрать цветы и сладости,а то ещё и этим его обидела до глубины души. А вроде такая рассудительная,но тут гордыня взяла верх

[@vikakett1999]

Он такой простой искренний,добрый,наивный,всем хочет и отцу и бабочке и 2 ой сестре угодить ,НО так не бывает,учителка принципиальная и не любит его по настоящему как он .Да он ей симпатичен,с детьми хорошо ладится,

[@soniapaz8057]

la verdad la señora tiene razon si la prueba hubiese sido positiva para complacer a tu padre la boda se hubiese celebrado tienes que tomar decisiones x ti mismo no x tu padre se hombre lucha x lo que quieres

[@JeaninePourquie]

Vous avez raison M Papillon si le test avait été positif il aurait fait abstraction de vous ,c'est un peut lache de ça part il ne sait pas prendre une décision tout seul. Je suis de tout coeur avec toi ❤❤❤😅😅😅

[@lydiamarcos5708]

Sono felice per te Engineer John poi sposare la madame Butterfly ❤❤❤