ENFP Through the Eyes of the 16 Personalities

[@TheQwuilleran]

Layered opportunity for "enfp REACTS to 16 Personalities' perception of them"

[@michaelajacobsen3619]

It would be a three hour long video and we'd eventually forget what we were even talking about in the first place 😆

[@jamesporter2788]

@@michaelajacobsen3619 exactly xD

[@sarahberkner]

Her ENFP portrayal is funny but not the most accurate imo, some ENFPs are a little crazy but some are very intelligent and hard-working (and some are all of the above).

[@TheQwuilleran]

@@michaelajacobsen3619 i forgot about the "SQUIRREL?" energy XD

[@ElizabethWalters-yk4ui]

ahh yes the glorious Enfp a genius who has a huge heart and also forgets things mid-sentence 👌

[@coin3720]

Hey I mean we don't forget things that

[@flusel4949]

@@coin3720 You know I wanted to comment the exact same thing but then

[@ElizabethWalters-yk4ui]

these are the best comment responses made me-

[@waftsofpetrichor]

😂

[@pockeentoslab2357]

@@flusel4949 lol you guys are so

[@abesapien9930]

An ENFP that develops their 3rd and tertiary function (extraverted thinking), is a force to be reckoned with! By developing that function--often through reading, discussion, and competitive games--they can begin to develop their reason. Along with this comes the ability to be more decisive, a greater care in their choices, and the ability to temporarily mute their feelings for greater clarity. Their lives start to mimic the focus and follow-through of an INTJ or an ENTJ. This ENFP has finished writing a 200+ page book, as well as several successfully funded Kickstarter campaigns. The laser-focus and determination of Te is an irreplaceable tool of the happy, motivated--and calmer!--ENFP.

[@StevenPJames-fl1un]

100%! For me, it wasn't so much about learning to use Te as learning to use it in a healthy way that doesn't shut down the other functions (ie, not getting looped) or overestimate what it can accomplish. But you're right, when we learn to balance Te and Fi, we can become as or more productive than any ENTJ!

[@abesapien9930]

@@StevenPJames-fl1un Well, I wouldn't quite say as productive as an ENTJ, but maybe someone out there will prove me wrong. The only ENFP I've seen in a major executive role is Walt Disney. It's actually funny to watch some of his interviews. Despite his corporate dress and demeanor, you can see all the zany ideas and childlike zeal bouncing around in his head. Some of his early interviews from the 20's and 30's are actually kind of cringy. I'm like, "This guy must have been a disaster. A 100 ideas he's excited about, but no real organization." His brother (a J), really helped!

[@letfreedomring7330]

My husband is an ENFP who uses his Te quite well, when he's not under too much stress. I'd say he's more ESTJ-like though. He values Si a great deal more than an ENTJ (like my dad, whose Si blindness is real and baffling to an ISTJ like me). He makes thorough lists and takes great pains to be organized because he is well of aware of his tendency to forget details.

[@martinisawe6300]

I'm an ENFP 3w2 that has developed his TE and SI pretty well. Even though I'm open talking about emotions(FI), I'm more determined to focus on achieving my goals and to make a routine of it. My NE makes doing a task dreadful but understanding how to deal with my NE, it makes achieving a task more doable.

[@letfreedomring7330]

​@@martinisawe6300If you're like my husband, I'd guess you feel a constant need to plan the next task(s) rather than follow through on the current one, so focus is a big challenge. He's getting better and better at overcoming that.

[@trinaq]

I always love ENFPs, they have an enthusiastic zest for life, reminding me of a Disney princess. That's probably why I vibe with so many of them in real life.

[@jashepoon]

ENFPs are the best ❤

[@Lemondrop_andBerry]

Aww that's so sweet.😭💞

[@los-lobos]

“enthusiastic zest”

[@augustinensang3109]

Ariel, Anna and Rapunzel - ENFP Disney Princesses

[@Pinkywinkykinky]

yes feed my ego

[@purgatorysystem2126]

It's like watching myself from 16 different protagonist POVs. I've had verbatim conversations like this with most types.

[@JohnLoKie]

As an ISFJ male, the “no one will ever realize the internal suffering you go through” line, always cracks me up especially with that facial expression. Kristin nailed that and I don’t know how she came up with something so true. My interactions with ENFP’s are always vibrant and carefree. But they strangly include making weird almost psychic connections in terms of evaluating people and things. Hence the accuracy of the vid. We relate in unseen and unpredictable ways and sometimes can read into each other’s souls. At the same time, we could have completely different interests and lives.

[@purgatorysystem2126]

@@JohnLoKie Haha, I completely get it! One of my brothers is an ISFJ and I can just feel them thinking what was in the video internally often.

[@juliadavidking23]

There will always be a special place in my heart for my ENFP.😊 - iNFP

[@firespawnie537]

ENFP here , this is literally how every personality views me.

[@Okoi05]

ISFP and I have a female friend, not very close, but we hang out at parties, who is ENFP. And people sometimes say "ohh hahaha you're so alike!" and I think "well-- n-not really..." but I know that for others ENFP looks like this and ISFP looks like this often too

[@sarahberkner]

My mom is ISFP and brother is ENFP and I would say they're switched here, my brother seems a little more rational and grounded than my mom.

[@agnieszkadrazba9583]

I absolutely love ENFPs, they bring fun and joy in my life. They also handle social situations for me INTJ female

[@kanaotsuyuriofficialchan]

same here lol I thought INTJs hated ENFPs and I'm like "Okay, no way I'm an INTJ"

[@НевенаНиколова-к6ы]

I am an INTJ with an ENFP daughter. That brings parenting to a whole different level. You cannot imagine how many times a day I have to cut a runt with "Stop and think what you want to tell me!"

[@meiulleyl]

​@@НевенаНиколова-к6ыwow! It's the same with me! I'm the enfp daughter and my father the intj!

[@correoordinario2010]

My mom is an ENFP. My dad an ESTP. I'm an INFJ. I swear being 16 years old and having the feeling that I was taking care of two 44 years old teenagers. Even today, my parents are 62, I'm 33 and I see them both as young spirits, while I look like an 80+ years old lady. My mother is just as you portray them. My God you are so good 😮 They will always be the funny kids in the room.

[@isabelleskiss]

This story delights me. I am already middle-aged and still get excited about the same things with the same exuberance as when I was a young adult. I shouldn't worry anymore, I must be a completely normal, insane ENFP.⭐

[@mimimo555]

😂Take good care of your parents 🎉 -ENFP

[@nitzan3782]

ENFP in most people's eyes: an unhinged dumpster fire on wheels traveling at 100 miles/hr down a main street ENFP in the eyes of other ENxPs: THEY UNDERSTAND ENFP in the eyes of xNTJs and INFPs: The greatest threat of them all.

[@Nihilist-F8]

Much love to all the ENFPs out there! Sincerely a slightly annoyed INTJ 😉

[@michaelajacobsen3619]

Only slightly? We've been slacking! ENFPs assemble!

[@abesapien9930]

@@Nihilist-F8 Slightly disappointed ENFP 😜

[@hi-yo1kq]

I’ll never get over the way you captured the ENFP from the ENTPs perspective. It feels like every conversation I’ve had with my best friend

[@Sofiarey285]

My INTJ best friend talks more than I do, that's why I love being around them, I can relax, and don't have to be "on". Take it away! Take the lead, let me chill. Teach me something, pick the video, food, activity after I suggest 5. I'm a willing participant. Edit: I'm ENFP

[@ppminny8841]

Yes my INTJ husband too. He talk more than me when we are togather. And no one believe it! (ENFP)

[@hvghost]

INTJ are capable of talking A LOT. If they respect you and love you and think you are capable of understanding what they say.

[@simplymadebyhand]

I know a couple ENFP’s me being a INTJ it would be nice to have a personality that doesn’t have trouble in social situations.

[@Sofiarey285]

I wish I was more like INTJ, being “okay” being alone, avoidant, intelligent, witty, caring about work (more than most things), the way you guys articulate. I think that’s why we complement each other. My superpower is I’m nice to people (I love people, especially the odd ones out), that’s not a great superpower imo. Trying not to generalize here, but it sucks when you love people but everyone around you doesn’t understand you, or they suck, sometimes it would be better to not “need” social interactions to be content.

[@er6730]

ENFPs have trouble in social situations, it's just a different kind of trouble.

[@m_n_a_b]

Oh, we certainly have trouble in social situations. People cannot track with my thinking (because the connections are so widespread, big picture and seemingly unrelated to them), and my brain makes those connections so fast that I talk fast and they struggle to keep up or follow the path of the connections. Also, in my specific case... due to a past trauma... I struggle with small talk and am very awkward when I first meet people. I hate small talk and would rather have the deeper conversations... but most people don't like going there. ENFPs also struggle by being a weird mix of extroverted and therefore needing socialization, but also needing a lot of introspection. So, we end up getting overwhelmed by too much socializing. Then, we crack if we don't manage to crawl into our cave and hide for a while. Nothing social breaks my spirit and brings pain to my soul quite like having an event already on the calendar and then arriving at the day to realize it is a day where my entire being is screaming to be away from the people and stay home to do absolutely nothing. If I don't make plans, life is too busy and it won't happen. If I make them too far in advance, I won't know how I'll feel that day, and I'll end up just enduring rather than engaging. It is tough to walk that odd line of being an "ambivert". We are the most introverted of the extroverts, which I have found to mean that the other extroverts talk over me and I'm left unheard and frustrated. Yet, I'm also too much for my introverted friends sometimes. So, I don't feel like I truly fit in with either introverts or extroverts. However, I simultaneously understand both sides and can even help translate what it feels like to need the alone time or to need the socializing. For example, my Mom is ISTJ, my brother and father are ESFP... my brother could not understand why my mom just "wanted them to be quiet every time she got a headache" and why she "couldn't handle them even talking." I explained to him that when she hits her social limit, it is physically painful for her to continue even having social interactions, let alone loud, boisterous headache increasing interactions. Anyway... my INTJ husband certainly has his social struggles, too. And after 14 years together, he has had a front row seat to my own set of social struggles. He finally understands why I simultaneously have a lot of people who genuinely like me, yet I feel so incredibly alone because my heart only truly connects with those who will willingly go deep and are authentically themselves. I can count on less than one hand's worth of fingers the people in my life who I can truly share anything with and who also share everything with me. And with each of them, I am often too much, because they are introverts. So, I feel so very lonely. He sees it and he understands. We are both encouraging each other to connect more with friends, because we have both been super lonely, even though we are always connecting with one another.

[@GiraffesOnFire]

ENFPs are my favourite kind of friend. ❤ ~INFP

[@il5702]

Soooo apud this vid, the most positive outlook on ENFPs is (apart from ENFPs themselves) by ENTPs. And I'm so here for it, I love it, it totally checks, my bff is ENFP 💘 ~ ENTP

[@livviemitchell1426]

ENFP married to an INTJ with an ENFP bestie. Can confirm those last two are accurate. BTW Kristen, thank you so much for keeping this up while pregnant. I'm not sure how much longer till baby, but the fact you are still going is incredible and awesome. Thank you again!

[@jijitters]

As an ISFP, you're on point but in addition I find them strangely attractive lol Like idk what's going on there but I keep looking on with fascination.

[@isabelleskiss]

Thank you for this loving comment! 💛 As an ENFP, I have a soft spot for ISFPs and I fear that they think I'm too weird.

[@jijitters]

@@isabelleskiss I would say ISFPs like weird!

[@summero-my5in]

Can confirm as an enfp who’s dated isfps

[@CCAAJaja]

I am an ESFP and me and ENFPs just seem to match. Two of my best friends are ENFPs, love both of them so much. They‘re just so damn adorable and so much fun to be around

[@arcadianfox8127]

It's okay ENFP, most people just sound like static to me. - INTJ Also side-note, could you collect your tears in a cup please? Would be a waste to let such high quality condiments go to waste. Thank you.

[@cifilifestylewolf]

i know right? tears do be pretty tasty. -enfp

[@m_n_a_b]

Oh my goodness! 😂 Why, though??? Just why? Drinking tears... as a condiment??? 🤮 Is a condiment obsession an INTJ thing? My INTJ husband puts obscene amounts of barbecue sauce on everything. Lol. My parents ask him if he would like food to go with his condiments. 😂 Also... your comment reminds me of something that just happened in my household tonight: I sit here with my INTJ husband and my budding ENFP niece. She discovered neither of us like feet. Being 11, and loving to instigate her favorite uncle, she decided to put her foot in his face while she giggled like a mad woman. He retaliated by licking his hand and reaching for her face. As she shrieked in horror, their rivalry took itself downstairs and she grabbed a spray bottle of water to start spraying him. A few minutes later, she runs back upstairs and asks me, "How do you get him to stop with the spit hand? It's so gross." I laughed and said, "You raise the white flag and surrender." She deadpan stares at me and says, "Never." Their skirmish lasted several more minutes and ended with her telling him she will never surrender. Yet, she sat down to play a game instead of continuing further instigation. Then, she asked me what I would do if he ever did that to me. My response, "He wouldn't dare. He knows that is so thoroughly disgusting to me that it wouldn't end well. Plus, I wouldn't start out by instigating with something he finds disgusting... so he wouldn't feel the need to retaliate." Plus, he adores me and goes out of his way to respect the things that truly gross me out. He's good like that. He adores her, too. But... she started it and he knows she loves the game of picking at each other. I do my fair share of instigating him, too... and he loves that, as well. But, I don't use gross things to do so. I am ENFP, as well. I say all this because... your comment simultaneously cracks me up, grosses me out, makes me think of my INTJ's excessive use of condiments, AND his gross tactics of winning a sparring match with an 11 year old ENFP by licking his hand and later on spitting in it before chasing her through the house. He definitely won. She was more grossed out by that than he could ever be by feet... and he hates feet as much as I do. 😂

[@BlackSailPass_GuitarCovers]

0:14 R.I.P. Te users

[@karolzinhxz]

YES????? LOL ~ ENFP

[@jimclayson]

Ex-wife is an ENFP, so I have mixed feelings on the type. Great people, for the most part, who typically love interacting with others... but also headstrong and (I think unintentionally) emotionally manipulative. They can see different perspectives, but they can rarely separate Ti from Fi, and nearly everything they process is filtered through Fi. When they're right, they're right, and when they're wrong, they're wrong, and getting them to shift their stance in either case is like pulling teeth. -- INTP

[@exnihilonihilfit6316]

They don't have Ti. What's there to separate? No shit they're processing through their Fi. So you're saying she was an emotionalist who couldn't/wouldn't (re-)evaluate the rationality of her values and change them if needed?

[@jimclayson]

@@exnihilonihilfit6316 No, I said nothing specific regarding my ex-wife... hence the word "people" and pronoun "they" as opposed to "she" in my post. I made general statements regarding my personal experience when interacting with ENFPs as a group. My ex-wife isn't the only ENFP I ever met in my life, and not even the only ENFP I ever dated. As for "they don't have Ti"... everyone has Ti, even if it's in last place in their cognitive stack.

[@bethanycoon7550]

From an ENFP, this is something I work hard on!

[@emajaneee]

i love enfp people as an intj!

[@obadijahparks]

Enfp is an instant little sibling, enfj is the fellow babysitter. -INFJ.

[@kitkat351]

I'm an ISTJ and my son is an ENFP. I don't understand him AT ALL, but I love him so much! We both drive each other crazy though LOL

[@ponchoking55]

im an INTJ my mom is an ENFP. I am like one of those inflatable bouncy castles to her

[@stevenkinscherf6642]

ENFP through the eyes of the ENTJ, is one of my favorite scenes in all of Kristin's skits! That description with the marker and paper is amazing! 😂😂😂

[@_amalya_nix_893]

I love how both ENTPs and ENFPs invite each other into the metaverse, it's insanely cool.

[@suburbohemian]

INTJ: "was she talking to me? Well, at least I know I didn't miss anything important"

[@cifilifestylewolf]

as an ENFP, TYSMMMMMM (i love isfp’s scene yes i am at the hospital)

[@zapzapfishes5878]

I felt that INTP one. So many weirdly dogmatic axioms about "the truth" held underneath the submanic energy with absolutely no explanation whatsoever

[@Animesther]

As an enfj with enfp, infp, infj, isfj, intx etc friends, I find enfps the nearest best buddies that I can relate to and hang out with. I love my infps, but enfps are the type of people who I can 'bug' with social activities when nobody else has the energy for it while they are still intuitive. Tho I must say I often end up seeing through their actions and behavioral patterns even before they realise what's going on like in the video, but they are also younger than me, so I just take it as a sign of being the 'parental' friend.

[@crayon8749]

ENFPs are very funi best people ever the greatest beautiful creatures but only if you are an ENFP

[@edmis90]

Ohh man I so want more of those ESFP music shows

[@jackies1729]

I always seem to hit it off well with ENFPs 😊 they are fun and get me out of my shell ❤ - a shell-less INFP Cancerian (gimme back that shell 😀😊❤️)

[@anjanams9332]

How is life as infp cancerian 😅

[@kindauncool]

+@@anjanams9332 emotional, probably.

[@jackies1729]

@@kindauncool emotional, but we don't always share that emotion with others because we get caught in ourselves or are wounded so easily. With the knowledge we get about personality, I'm able to overcome a lot of it, which has been great and is enriching my life by helping me reach out more ❤️ and in appropriate ways I'm learning that not everyone is a mind reader..... Fancy that! 😂

[@connergoldberg]

ENFPs are so much fun to hang out in the metaverse with. They're such a vibe until they cry.

[@m.oniker8989]

INTP with ENFP partner, who is brilliant, and focused, and... "Squirrel!" so the INTP's view of ENFP: "Yup."

[@njcava-sn4mq]

Casually dropped a banger with the esfp

[@AFLoneWolf]

"Still doesn't make any sense." An ISTP

[@lastraven7205]

what don't you get

[@SlipsunLightOfHeaven]

My best friend is an ENFP! Looking forward to knowing how other's may see her.. and seeing if you got how I see her right >:)

[@alyoshaty8823]

Rapper Kristin is awesome.

[@Majestic_Sam]

I loved this vid, thanks Kristen

[@thewolf8660]

INxJ: I'm attracted to idiots. ENFP: **exists** INxJ: **In wedding outfit** That'll work.

[@ParteniaAjmaq]

The morning after their wedding night, our innocent hero discovers an entire annotated philosophy library on the side of the ENFP's bed. The horror is just beginning... (so many questions to ask, now forever attached ^^ introvert 😈 ).

[@WoozyYami]

Except ENFPs are actually very smart, happy and creative doesn’t equal stupid

[@waftsofpetrichor]

😂

[@waftsofpetrichor]

​@@WoozyYamiVery true!

[@obadijahparks]

At least when they cause trouble, it isn't because they simply want to..... the right type of idiot can be a nice hobby.

[@tile-maker4962]

I feel the energy and know weather an ENFP is authentic or not. Some things however, like ideas, are important to me, so I take into consideration talking about them with ENFP. But not actually doing them unless we both know it is for the hell of it. (INTJ)

[@The_Firevenus]

If the 16 personalities are character from alice in the wonderland, ENFP is the mad hatter - ENFP who's favourite character is the mad hatter, ( I aspire to be THAT unhinged)

[@isabelleskiss]

As an ENFP, I recently received a similar compliment from a friend, she said I was like Alice in Wonderland...the whole story.⭐

[@The_Firevenus]

@@isabelleskiss HAHA love that!! Honestly Alice in wonderland as a whole story could describe us is some ways, it riddles with ridiculousness but then you looked closer and there's method (or layers) to the madness and wonderful world

[@supersoup4672]

Let’s see, we got: Aang, Soos, Mabel, Daphne Grimm, Spider-Man (Holland, and Tom Holland too lol), Michael Scott, Rapunzel, Jo March, Ariel, Lorelai Gilmore, Akko Kagari, Anastasia, Jake Peralta, Naruto (reportedly idk I’ve never seen), Gregory from OTGW, Truman (Show), Pinkie Pie, Anna (Frozen)…. Any else? (Hopefully no fights are started, unless someone says one that is wrong lol- cough Peeta jk haha, but he’s enfj)

[@ness8776]

Phil Dunphy From Modern Family. I personally never seen someone so ENFP . actually it looks like every character are just a stereotype of their MBTi personalities in this serie.

[@leedlbagginshield8492]

Andy Sachs from The Devil Wears Prada

[@augustinensang3109]

@@supersoup4672 Phoebe Buffay and Cat Valentine

[@ConanCoffee]

Walt Disney

[@m_n_a_b]

Pete Lattimer from Warehouse 13, Lilo from Lilo and Stitch, Kimmie Gibbler from Full House...

[@marumidesun]

Thanks Kristin, great compilation! ❤❤✨✨👏👏

[@IndigoBellyDance]

Luv how when 2 ENFP’s meet up it’s all rainbow happiness & cloud cuckoo land 🤣🤣🤣

[@chahdrhazouani]

idk why but whenever im around an xntj my word filter goes off and I start saying the most unhinged stuff without really thinking about the consequences even if they didn t even ask

[@ZuerstJesus]

Yeah, this is a great compilation! I needed this video right now. Thank you!

[@TheFren]

I am ENFP on the edge of ENTP which makes for the following changes: * really amazing discussions with INTP & INTJ * somehow ALWAYS clashing with INFP * rest pretty much as shown

[@The_AgentSmith]

the INTJ is on point

[@HollyDawna]

I have a tab on my 'favourites bar' for medical resources. I put this video there. I laughed and cringed so much watching this, and getting to see how others saw me all these years. This has been scarily accurate. It was extremely entertaining, and I hope this little ENFP learns something from it! 💜💙

[@JackyVSO]

Videos you can make without getting up from the couch

[@opossumsrawesome6860]

The intj blocking out the talkative enfp is funny, but i thought enfps and intjs were supposed to be a good match. 🗣️🙉🤔😂

[@MoPoppins]

Same! I do adore them, though they wouldn’t make good collab partners when something actually needs to be accomplished. 😂 The Te would protest.

[@michaelajacobsen3619]

​@@MoPoppins Te: we need to get stuff done. Me: but we did stuff yesterday! Te: (rubbing its temples, exasperated): yes, you kind of have to do stuff everyday! Me: ... Me: *sheds a small tear for the injustice of it all*

[@MoPoppins]

@@michaelajacobsen3619 😂 😂 😂 I’ve always had a soft spot for ENFPs, and can spot a “typical” one in the wild, due to the bubbly, social butterfly qualities of this type. We can’t be all things, and you guys occupy a unique space in society, so just use your charm to team up with people who can fill in your weak spots! It’d be like assigning an INTJ to a full-time job of being schmoozy & fake-I’d sooner DIE, and there are plenty of people who not only have the charisma to pull it off, but can do it effortlessly & endlessly. I think it’s wise for us all to develop a well-rounded set of life skills, but only to use our weaker ones in a pinch.

[@michaelajacobsen3619]

@@MoPoppins yah! So what would you say our "spot" is? And what is yours?

[@MoPoppins]

@@michaelajacobsen3619 Whatever you feel yourself pulled towards that energizes you and makes you feel aligned with your purpose, is your “spot.” It could change from day-to-day, maybe hour-to-hour, but I totally understand the want & need for novelty, and there are plenty who exist to maintain routines & provide predictably & security. I’m an INTJ-C (creative subtype, according to Dario Nardi’s research), and I NEED novelty daily. I establish that by feeding my Ni-it gets dark QUICKLY when I don’t get to learn something new every day…for me, it’s not worth living. I’ve done the 9-to-5, and if I were to leave when I felt I’ve extracted all the value possible, it could be one day, one week, one month, or one year….TOPS. Basically, after the completion of one full cycle, where I’d learn what I needed, I was done-I'd become a zombie after that…I couldn’t fool my soul into believing that I wanted to be there, but I always gave 110%, on principle, though inevitably, my health would suffer. I thrive in a project-based life. I need a defined beginning & end, with something tangible to show for my time & energy-there’s no getting away from the demands of the Te. I love that I can be both structured & loose-I’ll start by making lists, providing as much detail as I might need, then just totally wing it later, depending on how I’m feeling the the VIBE or FLOW-the lists are there as contingency plans, since I’m better with having *some* preparation. For types who can think on their feet, that may not be necessary. I love serendipity & spontaneity, and it makes life feel so open, free, and expansive. As long as I feel that I have something to show for my efforts, and was able to learn & grow from an experience, I’ll feel that it was worth my time. I can easily be spontaneous, but must ALWAYS consider the ROI-there has to be at least one takeaway.

[@CarolinaFlorezCoaching]

Wow this video is so creative!!!

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

Oh, dear...Dr. dear kristin. Earlier today, I may have misread your title this morning, thinking this was an updated Through the Eyes of an ENFP; however, I might have read it correctly relative to falling on my head 20 times before reading...the first 4 times was because of U.S. celebrating our Independence day, and things went wild with the fireworks, and the next 16 times... in anticipation for your 16 personalities vid...maybe you can tell me, what's up, doc? Ok, your ESFP was my overall favorite character for the longest time with the highlight being ESFP seamless fourth wall break in "Writing Greeting Cards" being my favorite (My all time favorite segment is your "Otherwise I'd just be a girl sitting in my room talking to myself" in the "Kidnapping me" one).... ...I think...if I said something different when I was out of character....or in character, out of character...where does it start and where does it end, like how many licks it takes to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop, the world may never know, so it would mean the world to me if you could figure it out, Dr. Dear Kristin....Ne-ways...point is! Your ENFP Lizzy in your 16 personalities Interacting while pregnant gave competition because she was hilarious! I was so stoked cheering for her when she didn't back down compromise where she was listening and reacting to everything with her "Hey, look! A triple word score!".....that was amazing, Kristin...but back to it....why she gives your ESFP competition: "You know what? Yes, I DO want a gender reveal party. AND I won't be going to the doctor." Not even remembering your next character reacted to her saying "preach it, Lizzy." Is she gonna be the ranker? When you asked for questions, I really wanted to know what your favorite performance was. I really want to know what you were thinking with that one because it was so funny! Totally worth it imo! Thank you so much for making these every week! Hope you and your family are doing well! You're my all time favorite actress and....if you call yourself one, comedian! Also, your ESFP character is still my favorite, especially you bringing back part of her "Through the Eyes" song here! It rocked, and you rock! I would have gone to the doctors and to school more if...I gotta go!

[@NyanRainbowPrincess]

Hey look, it's me!

[@TestaRosssa_]

This is hilarious because one of my best friends is an ESTJ and I have NO CLUE why she likes me, as she hates everyone else and I go against everything she stands for with my messiness! 😂

[@m_n_a_b]

My ESTJ friend adores me, too. She also is afraid she will be too harsh for me, since she finds herself annoyed with nearly everyone else and knows she gets too intense. However, I think it works because all of our cognitive functions are the same, just in opposite order. She told me she is drawn to me because she knows she needs to be able to relax and not be so uptight. She sees that I do that naturally. It's like breathing for me. And she simultaneously admires and envies (in a healthy way) it. She takes notes from me and is learning to let go. Likewise, I see her master level organizational skills and learn as much from her as I possibly can. And when we have conversations where we discuss "why" we think something... we simply "get" each other because our shared functions mean we process similarly, even if in a different order of priority.

[@sarahberkner]

I'm an ESTJ and I'm guessing hate is a strong word for the ESTJ you know; hating people is a waste of time, unhealthy ESTJs moreso get easily annoyed at people or just ignore them. Personally I think ENFPs are hard to be upset at even if they're disorganized and sometimes say irrational things, and they're often sociable and easy to talk to because we have the same functions, and they often have a good sense of humor.

[@TestaRosssa_]

@m_n_a_b this actually makes a lot of sense, I haven't thought of it from that perspective! I love being able to get along with different kinds of people. 🥰

[@TestaRosssa_]

@sarahberkner thank you for these insights, that makes a lot of sense! I am grateful you think we're difficult to be mad at haha I think a lot of people in my life feel that way and I'm so grateful because I think people would be mad at me a lot if they didn't feel that way. 😅 I try really, really hard, though! I think that's why my ESTJ friend is also merciful, she sees my efforts. She also tries to help a lot because my parents died during the pandemic, my friend was my stalker, my family moved out of state, I broke up with my long term boyfriend, and generally everything fell apart. I think she sees my effort despite that and extends mercy and help because of it. She is a very kind, loving, and generous person. 🥰

[@helenshianimation7567]

I love how ENFJ only hang out with her for case study so the ENFJ can watch from afar and see if their assumptions about her are correct. I have an ENFJ mother, she rarely cuts people off even if she doesn't like them, but she just uses people for Se data so then she can use her Ni on. I am an ENTP, and most of my conversations with ENFJs (including my mother) are just discussions about other people, we have so many inside jokes that other people don't get, ENFJs are great banter buddies for ENTPs.

[@ramzansson395]

I can't believe I am roasted for about 3 mins and 17 seconds 🥲😆😭 You're criminal 🤓

[@peliniremorhan9270]

Could you please make part 2 of these videos? So funny

[@redroverly]

The ENTJ and INTP is funny. It's like Here's X Then, there's you.................

[@niabadb]

enfp is a mutable sign from the eyes of intj

[@azarishiba2559]

We are chaos, random chaos, lovely chaos, caos en español, fun chaos, incomprehensible chaos, 日本語での混沌、cozy chaos... We are ENFP!

[@KatelynnDubow-s2j]

This explains the people around me

[@laurawallace4345]

I'm an ENFP and the colleague I've been having friction with lately is clearly an ISTP because everything they say to me always every time is "that makes no sense at all".... Even though it literally makes ALL the sense. Dear Kristen is scientifically proven to be true... Also my ENTP bailed in a strangely similar manner 🤔

[@sarahberkner]

That seems like a poor way to type someone based on one phrase that they say, unless you're joking or you have other reasons to think they're an ISTP. It's funny because someone made a list of phrases for each of the 16 personality types based on what they picked, no joke, my type the ESTJs picked "That doesn't make any sense" and I do say that a lot.

[@laurawallace4345]

@@sarahberkner oh yeah I was totally joking 😃 it would indeed be a poor way to type people! I'm still not sure of their type but things don't make sense to them unless it's something they personally understand and sometimes have had direct, hands on experience with which might suggest Ti and Se. Who knows. I sometimes wonder if "that makes no sense" is actually code for something! I've seen some of the things each type says and the only one I remember was ENFP: heart rate of 5000, yep

[@JungINFJ]

Fi in a word: "yay!" 😂

[@JadedeaJade]

I'm pretty sure my bf is an ESFP, and I have a friend that's an ISTP and about 40% of the time we don't know what we're talking about lol.

[@jamesporter2788]

Good remix

[@shena5360]

Is this video purposely added to the "The 16 Personalities Tier-Ranking the Other Personalities" playlist?

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

what. You're re-doing this? Somebody gave me the literal and metaphorical heads up. okey dokey. gotta go...Igor is already removing the ESFP eyes. He's trying to make the Best Type of Frankenstein's Monster, and I already told him, he's already metaphorically playing with fire, and I'm literally going to whatever choice he makes since....I saw the movie...Ne-ways...I'm off to Se what ENFP graves he's going to! I'll try to hold him off! He keeps giving me an Ni that's not so friendly! Based on your beautiful thumbnail, he ain't no ENFP angel...along with the you know....I gotta go.

[@Chillipep]

I also react to the ENFP like the INTJ does. ---INFJ

[@PabloHernandez-yp1uf]

LOL INTJs always picturesque

[@SamBsound]

Ahh... so basically... ADHD

[@lloroarcoiris]

Kristin, what do you think about the latest Charli XCX album? I feel it's so ESFP and you might like it

[@nonchalantd]

❤

[@gracie_5]

I always would be interested you to test to shan and dave in the ops system. I live in germany, brandenburger area and a lot of older esfps, especially 9w8s are se-te masculine mixes, act like fi inferior and are stoic and so often fat, its like you get the Homer and winx club ogel version. In contrast, se-fi feminine is often more creative and emotional, sensitive or sporty and social.. its crazy for me. Its like the total opposite person stands there. I always question if you are no enfp for all your ideas and your feminine face, but im just a viewer

[@imadeyoureadthis1]

0:31 She has potential as a rapper.

[@thepickles8833]

(hits the Mute button)

[@smilesmile1237]

the ENFP I know are always so serious, can someone explain?

[@marinyan5472]

Not all Enfps are the same. The stereotypical persona of enfp "AKA happy-go-lucky" is just one version of Enfps. I'm an enfp myself, ppl say I'm fun but equally serious and mature. It's more about whether you feel their functions, just because they're being serious doesn't mean they're not using Ne or Fi, could even be in a loop yk

[@smilesmile1237]

@@marinyan5472 hi, im still not sure how an ENFP functions. What are his main motives and what are his strengths compared to other types (INTJ for example)? from my understanding after work ENFP would always be outside trying new things/traveling?

[@crystaluwu1012]

lets just say ENFPs core are there ideas they love expressing it, but if its not something related to there ideas they are most likely going to be silent especially if in a crowd with more extroverts (they are the most introverted extroverts) meaning if there are more extroverted people out there they are going to be the once to be quiet. So if you want to talk to one you have to find out there topic of interest and they'll be more active but ofcourse these is also subject to the context. If in a crowd filled with Introverts they are going to be the once to talk alot but if in a crowd with extroverts they are the most quiet.

[@macklyn]

INTP here still LOL! You said "nothing" very well!

[@PigeonTree8183]

Yap me as an Isfp/Istp, enfps are a little bit 🐌🐌🐌

[@lifeasapotato2049]

as an ENFP how do i get estp to love me?

[@fraserdab]

as someone who has seen all the other 16 videos properly, i dont feel like watching this ....sorry

[@KatelynnDubow-s2j]

I’m sad now

[@LiliyanChowdhury]

Damn why am i proud of being a complete idiot?Welp i forgot

[@evey89]

Lmao I feel so seen

[@KeiPyn24]

I think she doesn't like ENFJs

[@kickinghorse2405]

Insulting, at best Do better, lass.

[@YotaQuebill]

all type got a ranking episode except ENFJ, do u really hate enfj that much T,T , ~ cry in Enfj

[@YouilAushana]

Obviously, we can judge all we want. Fi and Te users are selfish and self-centered people. In this Ne world. Also, my mom is an ENFP