ENG SUB【Nothing But Thirty 三十而已】EP34 | Starring: Jiang Shu Ying, Tong Yao, Mao Xiao Tong

[@starinvirgo]

That moment when Man Ni's dad gave her the dowry made me cry so much. A sign of a father's love and support for his daughter even though he is heartbroken by her decision.

[@vicki17antonia]

Omg i thought it was only me cry a river

[@monamoonshineta5172]

The Barber shop Uncle is the best from that town. I'm glad Ma Ni is goign back to Shanghai to start over. She just needed a break.

[@choybo1]

i think thats her literal actual uncle

[@bettinaorevil5056]

I hope it’s not the bad uncle that was planning for her grandpa death for 50k

[@emonypemony]

"People can't just get married for family. Two different people getting married will be more lonely than when they were alone" PERIODT, TELL IT MAN NI 📣📣 never settle ladies. i respect her decision to go back to shanghai to start from scratch and find her own independence than to live in a comfortable town where everything is done for her. there is no right or wrong answer here, if a woman wants to live in the big city in search of herself, there's nothing wrong with that. yall comments shaming her bc she finally knows what she wants.. bye

[@heythave]

She would die by being at her hometown another minute.

[@yvonnettabushell6040]

Love what you said ..so sad so many viewers were negative about ManNi

[@joyb2285]

I totally agree with you 100%.

[@lilmamagc]

I realize the family at the end has everything all three of these women want to posess. And the family doesn't have something these 3 women (seem) to have: money/wealth. Yet, they are the happiest ones of this story. Just shows you that love will still be there whether there is money or not. Money is something, but it is not everything. True love (not just romantic type, I also mean family love) is essential.

[@Protecting_hands]

Amen

[@bettinaorevil5056]

Yes very true, they love each other very much and it’s true love.

[@TheIrishAnge]

True, they always seem to be smiling whenever they're together.

[@Channel-rb6ch]

I want them to get their own show 😆

[@Lalalala-jz3gf]

@@Channel-rb6ch then they’ll have more problems lol

[@kayland.5724]

Xiao Qin, Gu Gu and Ni Ni are an adorable trio. I felt all giddy and excited watching them reunite with Man Ni. I'm also excited to watch the village's hard yet beautiful work.

[@jacquesvandermeer6668]

The screenwriter (or writers) are quite thorough in exploring the depth and subtleties of the principal characters’ relationships. Time is taken for scenes to develop and for emotions to be portrayed. This may seem like an obvious agenda for all writers and actors, but it’s so well done here that it bears commenting. ‘I can’t fulfill your hopes for me, I can only fulfill my hopes for me.’ Didn’t I say that to my father?

[@TheIrishAnge]

Script is super, as is the acting by all. Even Gu Jia's young son is excellent!

[@Pantoufle8]

Those scenes in the tea mountains and the sleep over are my favourites!

[@Mel-qq8sb]

Ma nis situation is too real, im in a similarr situation of staring over in my late 20's. Where my parents very vocal about the comfort of living at home, but at the same time the reality of not having opportunies for financial/personal growth if you stay. I'm happy her parents understand her choice, from the moment she returned they knew something was wrong.

[@BridgingGabs]

Can’t wait for Gu Jia’s husband and his girl to get what they deserve.

[@julissatingling5688]

Me too

[@ktp20101]

I regret that Gu Xia didn't catch them in person while they are into one another 😕 😔 or it would be too painful for Gu Gu. ! !!!

[@bridgetkyeibaffour8778]

This episode is so emotional…I cried when they screamed”let us start thirty over again”😭😭😭

[@MissUniverse1111]

Ni ni has guts to go back to Shanghai,the scene with her parents was so 💔 and relatable I was bawling y'all 😭😂 I was in a similar situation with my parents early this year, sadly I wasn't as brave and my parents weren't as understanding, let's just say I didn't get my way

[@TheIrishAnge]

Great acting in this episode, especially by Ni Ni and her parents at the end 👏🏻👏🏻

[@luvpeacesmiles223]

I hope the mistress goes crazy and exposes the husband asap

[@lilmamagc]

I hope they both drown in their mistakes and lies

[@Lifedisabledd]

Exactly my thoughts. I hope she becomes psycho on him and he loses everything his wife has worked hard for.

[@iziaduadio9167]

Gu Jia' s hobby is a foolish man, if not how could he not have known that the girl he is fooling around with is sick. Imagine her trying to displace Gu Jia, by asking him if she could come and take a look at his house. How?

[@TRUTHx247]

She’s already Crazy from he start from what we’ve seen thus far 😂😂😂😂 Now it’s just waiting for her to implode and expose out of spite and revenge.

[@talk2ronke]

Exactly I think it will happen so

[@GeoCalifornian]

If Man Ni lived in a comfortable community where everything is done for her, she would atrophy, wilt and die... Life has already trained Man Ni to overcome hardship. That is her lot in life as a mature adult.

[@harrobye8233]

Cant tell if chen yues bro is sneaky or smart w how to win women back lol

[@MM-ManifestingMiracles]

He's both sneaky and smart.

[@mangachanfan1556]

lol... thats an awesome (and dangerous) combination, no?? dk.. I think I want it temporarily lol

[@AdaTheDiva]

He’s annoying and a pest!

[@evasavonith6234]

Gosh! I thought I would have seen enough sad Moments in Moovies, but when Man Ni left her Parents, the Tears of her Father made me crying my Heart out. 😢😢😢

[@purpleheart2914]

Ma Ni's farewell with her parents was so touching ; - ; They're still very understanding of her decision

[@chinnyrox2022]

This would be my ideal end: The 3 of them stay single, working in the tea business. Coffee guy, the journalist are just their friends. ^^

[@kayland.5724]

I'm kinda sad about xiao qin's boyfriend no longer being her boyfriend. But it really is hard to keep up with someone like him. Besides, she hasn't healed from her divorce

[@akmaliafatimah6557]

I love it when the 3 women hanging out together

[@crestm1384]

So many comments angry for Ni Ni going back to Shanghai. The entire time she's been in her home village she was miserable. She only came back because that was what her parents wanted. So is she expected to sacrifice her happiness for the rest of her life just to make the parents happy? Marry a guy that she feels nothing for just to make her parents happy? Sorry no. Ni Ni has the right to be happy and she never would have if she stayed there. Her soul would have slowly wilted and died there.

[@kayland.5724]

*You You:* I am quite sad about my boyfriend having a wife and child. Even though I knew he had a wife and child when I met him. Even though he told me to leave him alone because he has a wife and child. I moved to an entirely different city to be with this man (who has a wife and child). Woe is me

[@TheGLOSSette]

She's disgusting! He told her to leave him alone.

[@mangachanfan1556]

🤣🤣 UU be like: Where did I go wrong?? Didnt I read all the signs? LMAO Shes psycho

[@crestm1384]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jseitang]

Yeah 有有 SUCKS

[@ktp20101]

@@TheGLOSSette he was too weak! He came to her apartment each time he had a chance! When he rushed back home minutes before Gu Gu and pretended to horse his son! How lower can he stoop 🤮🤮🤮! Men like him disgusted me!!!! Just a cheater! He was the reason homewreckers had chances!

[@arielzshell]

看王曼妮离开家的这一段我也是哭的不行，心里面感触好多好多想到了，自己离开家的场景，现在我好像已经在中国没有家了。

[@eden9821]

arielzshell 我也是，回去过，真的不适应又走出来了……妈去世后觉得国内永远没有家了。。。

[@panda3C]

@@eden9821 是我们自己抛弃了那个最爱我们的人。我们在国外，真的就一定比国内幸福吗？国内幸福的人家很多，不过是我们自己不会幸福地活着。我们在国内没有家了，都是我们自己折腾出来的。我也一样，我错了，再也没有机会改了。如果有下辈子，我永远不离开我父母生前所在的城市。这世界我见过的一切风景 都抵不上我们一家人在一个饭桌上吃饭的样子。

[@rzphys]

@@panda3C 这种体会只有在你已经见过年轻时想见过的那些风景以后才会产生，如果从来没有离开过父母，也许也是永远的遗憾。

[@yinghuang8160]

我一点都不后悔离开。在国外比在国内开心太多了！

[@ballyjames2904]

When the cat's away the mouse will play himself out till he's caught

[@nancyjanepaige200]

I want friends like these three ladies!

[@Dani-pt4yp]

I kinda wish for Xiao Qin to stay single for a while or forever lol her ex husband is a good man and Xiao Yang too but now she realized she is too dependent on others and if she stays single she will learn to live on her own and know herself better and then she will be able to love someone but knowing what she actually deserves

[@henryhe6103]

回家乡疗伤可以，别搞得动静那么大，又相亲，又谈朋友，还吃了同事那么多餐饭，欠了那么多人情

[@meilin8654]

尼尼跟家人告别的那段很感人，父母只有她这一个孩子，所以父母想要留她在身边过安稳的日子，父母的心情能理解，我也佩服曼妮的勇气，换做是我，我会因为父母的眼泪而心软，而妥协…

[@DP-oi9nd]

i hope she still visits her parents like geesh you dont have to leave them for dead

[@lynnz1987]

Chen Yu is NOT a good fit for Xiao Qin. He treats her like a child constantly - even when trying to win her back. "You can't drive." "You don't know how to read a map." Whereas Xiao Yang encourages her independence and imagination. Chen Yu does small things for her to keep her dependent on him. That is NOT a good way to be a partner. What happens when he dies before her? How will she ever know what her heart desires? I hope she can see through this and end the show happy and single.

[@Channel-rb6ch]

He didn't want her to read it so he could make extra stops to surprise her. He wanted to propose.

[@nikkobali4103]

I like Xiao Qin. She is so cute I loved their friendship

[@clarinetisfying]

Gujia’s hb and the mistress seem to go well, he doesn’t deserve Gujia.

[@LawalSophia]

This amusement park lady resigned from her job and became a full-time mistress, this is definitely not love, i hope she can keep the same energy when president Xu go broke

[@serenak6977]

很感动的一级，大家在忙碌中迷失，又在前进中找到自己。

[@just_a_childowo3855]

看陈屿再追小芹立刻感觉男人只有在追的时候才不遗余力啊

[@MM-ManifestingMiracles]

UU wench wants to see his home to plant something so his wife or maid will find it.

[@iriscastillo1613]

Since the first episode I am hook

[@CM-jg4zp]

Same

[@mingkong9109]

姐妹们开始一场说走就走得了旅行真好！

[@just_a_childowo3855]

出轨男想清楚吧，小三永远都是一开始说什么都不要，就要你，接着就会什么都要，不断突破你的底限直到搞的你家破人亡。天下没有免费让你爽的好事，做做梦就好，不要真把自己辛苦拥有的幸福都搞丢了

[@jinlu5364]

ED Family 3 kids 说得太对了！

[@scilla134]

Zhang Zhi was in a relationship by himself talking about some 1st public gf 🤡

[@CM-jg4zp]

😂😂😂😂 lol he is a clown. Talking about "you are my first public girlfriend ". His celebrity status in their small town went to his head! 😂😂😂

[@msaja]

KMusicTaste He’s a better and more reliable person than MaNi’ s greasy ex- lover

[@clevergamer6704]

@@CM-jg4zp he's a good guy, I'm sure there are plenty other women want him in that town

[@mercye6151]

I actually liked him, it's just that him and man ni are not compatible

[@CM-jg4zp]

@@clevergamer6704 I get you. Theres someone for everyone. I am just like Man Ni. Yes he was reliable....but too full of himself. She was an urban girl he was a rural guy. She hated the attention and he definitely would have been a controlling guy. They were so contrasting it would never work. I am glad she followed her heart.

[@chloem.s8273]

王的父母在小镇的日子一段时间会有点难过，邻居的闲话免不了，不过人不能只为别人活着，自己不开心，旁边的亲人朋友也不会开心的。

[@traceya573]

Haha we need some spoiler alerts on these comments

[@lilmamagc]

for sure haha. I'm not even going to read further, thank you for telling me!

[@audreygao4420]

折腾过帝都、海外之后，现在想说：给我个张志吧……

[@eyin9451]

给你个张志，然后呆鹤岗，你乐意？

[@乌雅成璧-g7m]

张志是个好人，但是打官腔真不招人喜欢

[@rzphys]

人各有志

[@jasonjia3898]

看到曼妮离开家的情景，我想起自己出国时，登机后和妈视频，娘俩哭红了脸，哭的稀里哗啦的

[@hindhandouch1599]

My birthday is on 12 march so I'm 30 soon no job no marriage I'm kinda lost watching this drama hit hard

[@anitarichardson1670]

Love this show ❤️❤️❤️

[@lucydr.7397]

我觉得这是江疏影演的最好的一部剧了！ 小三林有有好猖狂啊！年轻就可以这么毫无顾忌地破坏别人家庭吗？！

[@YZhMaoInDe]

现在哪个小三不猖狂？😂我听国内朋友说的都不觉得这个林有有很厉害。我就觉得林有有有什么可以哭的，自己选择的路，一点都不给这种鳄鱼的眼泪任何的同情。

[@allyinthewonderlandz6675]

据说还有小四小五的呢!

[@AL-cr7uc]

好先生 江疏影演的也不错 任性又深情的大小姐

[@maewest4192]

Writers gave up on the poor ex-wife’s character arch. Sad how they did the young 25 year old suitor. Really 👍 him

[@wendyge6662]

这集都是快进，想直接跳到顾顾手撕小三

[@DreamsOfFrozen]

I feel no pity for the mistress. I hope both the husband and her receive their punishment soon

[@meilin8654]

这三个女孩我最喜欢顾佳-大气，有大格局，独立，坚强，有担当，果断，善良，自信！

[@annechen5266]

为什么要清空鱼室啊！大神你不要开玩笑啊！你知道你的鱼室是多少养鱼人的梦想啊？起码留两缸啊。我心都滴血了😭

[@lucass583]

上海到浙江这么近 想想我们这些在海外漂着的

[@li88415]

Lucas Shao 我也这么觉得，坐个火车一会儿就能到的，至于这么伤感嘛，这都不算异地，让我们这些海外的情何以堪。

[@Almei43]

So QuZhou is Ni NI's hometown, I wondered what it was. Actually Wikipedia says it borders HangZhou which is very close to ShangHai. She could take a day trip to QuZhou and Back to ShangHai anytime she wants. (＾Ｕ＾)

[@fengshi4284]

The one way trip is no more than 2.5 hours by high-speed train.

[@Almei43]

@@fengshi4284 Shang Hai to Hang Zhou is 45 minutes or two hours depending on which train you take

[@fengshi4284]

@@Almei43 Yes. I mean Shanghai to Quzhou by high speed train.

[@nicosfunlearning6229]

最好还是十几二十岁多玩多折腾几下，趁着年轻尽快填补人生经历，赶紧长大，别到三十后才终于看清自己是什么样的人。不过就算三十，也是挺年轻啊，再闯荡个五六七年，努力积累资本，挺好的呀。

[@alyssalin6687]

其实很多男孩女孩一旦走出大山走出村落，很少回得来，现实中人都是这样的

[@gossip_2023]

每次叫顾顾的时候－我都会想起过儿

[@哈哈-q4j9i]

对呀 每次吓一跳

[@emonypemony]

unpopular opinion but i think the girlies should ditch their mans and date each other👀 i read a comment in chinese saying someone shipped xiaoqin and gu jia and i was living! who needs men when u got amazing bffs like them tbqh

[@lilpopstarr4]

Can i just say, i have been reading all the eng comments on every ep and yours always give me LIFE! i got sooo annoyed at stupid chen yu just showing up like that like HELLO leave them ALONE!!

[@emonypemony]

@@lilpopstarr4 LMAO thanks girl!! makes me happy knowing that someone appreciates my comments! but yes girl mr chen yu needs to try HARDER for real, hes sf stupid (but keep watching u may see some growth ngl lol)

[@maggiesu561]

陈域这样的改变有什么意义呢？他的错误就是只想着自己要什么，而不在乎对方想要什么，不管自己给的是不是对方想要的。现在不还是一样。从没问过小琴的想法，不仅自作主张设计对方，还是由第三者在指挥。没有什么善意的隐瞒。如果是我，知道自己被设计了，绝对会非常反感。

[@AL-cr7uc]

失去一次 就知道多重要 最开始小琴想改变还开始做饭了 多尝试多努力一下 总比不尝试的强

[@kdhj88]

This!!! 💯🙌🏽

[@hindhandouch1599]

Ma NI scene with her parents is heartbreaking

[@kuowu317]

好喜欢钟晓阳哦💕💖❤️

[@hanangelika4986]

kuo wu 我还是觉得钟晓阳好，晓芹真傻，又掉回同一个坑了。

[@miss985]

Han Angelika 我也喜欢钟晓阳，不喜欢陈宇

[@krystynarakowiecki2558]

Qu'elles sont belles en amities, magnifiques !

[@elaineni4588]

好喜欢这一集啊啊，闺蜜间的私房话。。

[@yanyanzhang3986]

好想父母😭真的像妈说的凡事多为自己考虑 孩子大了有自己的生活

[@anxigu1574]

Oh the mistress is a lunatic

[@greenanna1402]

觉得王曼妮就是离不开奢华的上海。哪怕不属于她。就是越靠近心里越踏实

[@flyinJJ]

其实挺能理解曼妮她爸妈的，辛苦把女儿养那么大，就希望她少吃苦，早点安顿下来。曼妮由于自己还没有孩子，所以思考的东西都是”我想我要怎样怎样”。当她有了孩子就会发现，很多人结婚生孩子并不是”我想怎样怎样”，而是”我想让我爱的人过得更好”。她爸妈永远在支持她和她的决定，而她对自己爸妈呢？爸妈老了也不考虑一下自己是不是应该生活近一点。她自己没做过母亲是不知道的。顾佳这边就一直在为她爸爸着想。哪天她自己有孩子了，父母都走掉了，自然会明白做父母的不易。

[@mmuller1651]

自己的人生还是要自己掌握，不可能总围绕别人打转的

[@flyinJJ]

susi z 其实两者并不冲突。爱一个人未必需要围绕着他们，也不需要失去自我，具体怎么做到，是需要点能力和思考的。

[@shanfan3926]

susi z 说的太对了。孩子长大了就是要自己去天空翱翔，飞出去，寻找自己的人生轨迹，生命是自己的要活出自己想要的。不能天天围绕着父母转圈圈。父母应该自己活好自己的生活，不应该用自己的思想去圈固孩子。

[@allyinthewonderlandz6675]

真是这样，没经历过好难有感受，可惜到懂了，又没法改变。

[@sophiedu9793]

能回家其实挺好的，外面也并不容易

[@grammole5234]

Can't stand scenes of the mistress and cheating hubby. Just speed forward.

[@TRUTHx247]

Same. Can’t stand it so annoying. Her face just rubs me wrong too 😂

[@maggiesu561]

三姐妹在床上嬉笑打闹的场景好美。

[@AL-cr7uc]

青春的感觉

[@elvann2745]

在老家的曼妮，就是一个没有灵魂的躯体

[@哈哈-q4j9i]

Eve Zheng 哈哈哈哈 人各有志嘛 没什么不好

[@gracyd326]

The mistress is trying so hard.

[@LINDA-gn7pc]

张志的想法没有错。只是人与人之间并不是只有一个定论：……成家-立业-生孩子……

[@rebeccachen497]

支持王曼妮回上海。之前回家就知道她是一时间逃避，不可能呆的习惯的。

[@lifeincanada6395]

看曼妮告别哭了，感触好多

[@salinawang8197]

所以我们最好有两个孩子，一个聪明的一个笨的！可惜的是我只有一个！没得选

[@kyvswe17580]

欧乐播放器 播到43集了

[@elainephu]

Lol Chen Yu brother :))))))

[@momo-ed3nz]

陈屿的感觉像吴秀波没胡子的时候

[@msaja]

momo酱在法国 He looks like Yuan Hong

[@momo-ed3nz]

msaja ja haha a little bit

[@meilin8654]

看着她们三个闺蜜，真羡慕呀，我觉得她们可以不结婚，一起干番事业也挺好的

[@wingstacy5041]

现实中没有这样的

[@harrobye8233]

Chinas big but its not like she cant visit them from shanghai lol. Its as if they acting like she going to live in UK or sth I get it they old. But at least they have each other. Other elderly r worse off

[@kyunghi]

its different. parents always want the best for their kids. manni's parents don't want her to suffer all that starting over again and living frugally in shanghai compare to where she can live in the small town comfortably. that's why were sad, sad about manni might suffers all kind of things in big city again.

[@rukagi]

Starting from scratch is not easy

[@danfuchs9220]

我会选择留在小镇生活，简单幸福是我的追求。

[@yinglu7]

陈屿戴眼镜好看多了啊

[@rcwu5834]

真的，感觉好夸张啊曼尼她爸妈，至于么哭成那样，离得那么近俩小时就到了🙄🙄

[@ashtonmasekera3928]

Chen yu is romantic

[@saotee194]

what was the family at the end making? I couldnt catch what was soaking...

[@rukagi]

I think soybeans

[@alefreinar7569]

Chen Yu still doesn´t realize she is not the same..but he still committed the same mistakes, being distracted in a bigger plan and forgetting the details to listen to her. I´m glad NiNi found her way to Shanghai and Gu Jia is now very strong to break cleanly from that cheating husband. Hope that harpy just commit a mistake trying to reclaim that man from Jia

[@harrobye8233]

Rly dislike xiaoqin n manni’s characters lol. A stark difference . Their flaws made them like this but gu jia did so well on her own only to have a bad husband does her no justice

[@heythave]

Ugh, there are women out there in real life who are like those two women.

[@lindatang7122]

Money 在耍人家玩儿呢吗？没那心思就别开始！

[@jonyu3597]

Xiaoqin im so disappointed in you :(

[@MegaVistaman]

tbh i think the ex husband deserves better

[@fengqiu9634]

@@MegaVistaman At first I thought the ex husband was the main problem in their relationship. Now, I think Xiaoqin was the main problem in their relationship. Keep asking without giving.

[@batian2375]

@@fengqiu9634 What do you mean keep asking without giving. She did alot for his family, especially for his brother. Which sister-in-law would do that! Her ex-husband is a loser!

[@msaja]

Ba Tian How is he a loser after solving the counterfeit case that helped clear her reputation and then coming to her rescue again on the dark road?

[@emonypemony]

@@fengqiu9634 um what? xiaoqin did alot in the relationship and in the beginning, chen yu was very oblivious and selfish. i mean yes down the road he did fix himself but he only did that AFTER the divorce, he didnt cherish her during the time they were together SO

[@kenishasunflowervokhiwa9413]

I just can't wait for Gu Jia to kick that brat of a husband out. How could he cheat on a loyal, brave and hard working wife like her. And as for Xiao ching and that Chen yu, I don't support their relationship but the younger one satisfy the needs of Xiao ching, she just doesn't know it yet. But overall, I love the show and Zi Yan is just sooooo cute🥴🥺😖🥵

[@suldanoabdullahi8148]

When is going to start

[@liyuanluo1393]

什么时候撕小三？一集都拖不下去了

[@vivianwang8938]

顾佳和她老公儿子出去旅游，小三为什么突然间出现在他们家楼下的？

[@夜晚的微风]

晓阳啊，💔💔

[@DoraG568]

晓芹在感情中存在很大的问题

[@liyawong96]

林有有发疯的时刻开始了

[@Loyaldark]

现在出行不就搭个飞机啥的吗。。 一个月飞一次在加一天PTO 假期。。。。每个月也可以见几天

[@aleciakadjei4901]

Thus is the same video as episode 35

[@ahhpeck1940]

The mistress have psychological issues.