Two rings are just a construct to make more $$$ for the jewellery Industry
@loulalucille89465 жыл бұрын
I cannot thank you enough for this video!!! My boyfriend didn't understand what ring was what. This video explained it in "guy terms".
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
Haha love this! He's not alone, I get questions about this from my clients more often then you may believe :) Glad I was able to help!!
@a0043 жыл бұрын
Tbh I'm still confused
@kwasidapaah83832 жыл бұрын
I came to get clarity as well lol
@Strikes_Midnight3 жыл бұрын
You need the wedding band to do ring exchange at your ceremony people! You don't need two but the wedding band is usually the more simple of the two and completes the look.
@matg38023 жыл бұрын
Shout out to my fellow guys learning something new today.
@shutdowngoogle2 ай бұрын
Yes! That we don't need to have 2 rings to marry 1 women. Women need to learn to appreciate they even got a ring and value it.
@joseph49644 жыл бұрын
Multiple people have tried to explain it to me and i still had so many questions! Thanks for giving me all the facts in a quick easy video!
@abbysparksjewelry4 жыл бұрын
Haha it can be hard to wrap your head around at first! 🙂Glad I could help!!
@shutdowngoogle2 ай бұрын
You only need 1 ring! Not 2 or 3. If they don't like or appreciate it. You are with the wrong woman PERIOD!
@alexandromontoya38394 жыл бұрын
I was so confused with the 2 rings thanks for this video
@abbysparksjewelry4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching, happy to help!
@MedicatedGamerr4 ай бұрын
Same 😂
@shutdowngoogle2 ай бұрын
They only need 1. Just like in the old times. Don't let jewelers ruin your life
@alyssa5685 жыл бұрын
im fine with just getting one ring tbh\
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
Totally! I know lots of people who only get one ring, and they didn't think twice about it. There is no "right" way to do it, whatever feels good to you is the right way :)
@18404374 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah
@DPLmainYT3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, two is too much for me.. keep it simple 😉
@halamadrid67334 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice, I was thinking to get the engagement set and that way it comes with engagement ring and the wedding ring together and never thought of my gf actually going out and looking for a wedding ring
@supernova117112 жыл бұрын
We ordered a set. It’s better that way (IMO) because then they accent each other and fit together perfectly.
@lapisthehuman Жыл бұрын
@@supernova11711my question is this if I get a bridal set and it comes with her engagement ring plus wedding ring yeah they accent and match each other but what should I do about my ring? Because the ring the set come with has these gems all over and I’m wondering if a plain band for me would be right? Or should I match our rings up seperate from the engagement ring?
@tranquility93255 жыл бұрын
I dont see comments right now but yes Abby it all depends on personal preference. Hugs, have a good week!
@jdubdoubleu5 жыл бұрын
So, does she wear two rings together, or does the wedding ring replace the engagement ring during the wedding? What if im not buying the two rings as a set, do i purchase the engagement ring, then later purchase the wedding ring? Im overwhelmed!
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
Not to worry! The only ring you need to get her first is the engagement ring. You can shop for the wedding and engagement ring together, but typically women like to help pick out the wedding ring. Make it easy on yourself, get the engagement ring first, pop the question, and then go shopping for wedding rings together. Typically women will wear their engagement rings with their wedding ring together, not as a replacement. But it's also a personal preference! The process of getting engaged can be really overwhelming, but I'm sure you'll do amazing! Just focus on getting that engagement ring first. :)
@ameliemarez22063 жыл бұрын
Why can the same ring you propose with be the same one you use at the ceremony... like why spend so much money!
@Muzicboy3 Жыл бұрын
I’m with you jdub … I’m with you brotha
@Countcho11 ай бұрын
This is so beyond confusing. Is it a set? No idea.
@chretiensmith33253 жыл бұрын
That helped me out so much, next year in going to propose to my girlfriend and don't know much about this stuff
@kariay503 жыл бұрын
Congrats!
@bakidkurosaki11825 жыл бұрын
Glad my friend recommended meet this video it was really helpful thank you 😊
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Thanks for watching 🙂
@kidustekeste589210 ай бұрын
Very helpful! I was a bit kinda stressed either I need to do surprises on both. But yes, more collaborative work together on the wedding ring just sounds perfect!
@Henrys.slots1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Really was confused until I saw this video.
@Disappearit4 жыл бұрын
What if the engagement ring doesn’t match the wedding ring? Or like fit together?
@mysticallavish13603 жыл бұрын
My bf proposed to me and chose my wedding ring with me. I'm ok with no engagement ring. I still will buy his wedding ring but we haven't chose his yet.
@tiffanyann82585 жыл бұрын
When does the male receive his ring ? Do we go shopping for his afterwards or wait until the wedding day ?
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
Traditionally they would have purchased the wedding ring before the ceremony, and then they would actually receive their wedding ring at the wedding ceremony and wear it from that day forward. However, I've seen more and more men going against tradition and wearing a ring like their fiancé wears an engagement ring before the actual wedding to show their commitment with their partner. You and your partner should do whatever feels right to you! If you want to start wearing your rings right away wear them! If your man wants to wait until the ceremony, that's ok too. It's about what feels right for your relationship :)
@brittanyrix98035 жыл бұрын
No u need to have the ring before the wedding lol
@mariorodriguez14764 жыл бұрын
This is great and it answered all my questions thank you
@hectorruiz12914 жыл бұрын
So just wondering I'm going to upgrade my wife's ring for our anniversary. But is it necessary to get a wedding band or just a really nice ring?
@JMac-273 жыл бұрын
Does she want an upgrade, girls can be very sentimental. Depending on what you are getting because the rings need to sit flush which means they nestle up next to each other without a gap. I'd tell her you are going to get her ring cleaned and take it with you to purchase the new ring and have them tell you what will work design wise.
@hectorruiz12913 жыл бұрын
Well it's for our 6th year anniversary. So kinda wanted it to be a surprise.
@lindsayfloyd22994 жыл бұрын
Thank you. The pressure is off of me. Lol
@choshow862 жыл бұрын
So when I buy her engagement ring she wears that until the wedding and at the wedding does she not wear the engagement ring or does she just put the wedding ring on with the engagement ring?
@alexcastillo20763 жыл бұрын
Thank you for explaining which ring goes first :)
@Sarahlivingmagically3 жыл бұрын
Do you wear the ring on the wedding day or does he put on the ring and band on her together the day of the wedding?
@MilitantTalker3 жыл бұрын
I've always wondered this too
@omarperezrodriguez18278 ай бұрын
Thank you for the information
@tinkerbell28825 жыл бұрын
So how do i wear my rings the engament goes on first then the othere peice at a ceremony
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
Great question! Some of my clients will wear their engagement ring on their right hand on their wedding day so that the wedding ring can be placed on their ring finger during the ceremony, and then they'll put their engagement ring back on stacked on top of their wedding ring. But I've also seen clients who just wear their engagement ring normally and have the wedding ring stacked on top of it during the ceremony. It's really about whatever feels comfortable to you!
@THX-1138 Жыл бұрын
Legendary video right here
@caecae27263 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! I thought it was only one ring now I find out there's three rings. 😱
@YourMaj3sty110 ай бұрын
I don't get it. So on wedding day, do you tell your fiancé to take off the engagement ring? I'm confused
@abbysparksjewelry6 жыл бұрын
What did the process of getting your own wedding ring look like?
@mabelidove68139 ай бұрын
Can one ring be used as both the engagement and wedding ring?
@zachgeballa478022 күн бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH
@Exploer85913 жыл бұрын
I still don't understand which is the engagement ring and which is the wedding band. Is the engagement ring the one with the larger diamond?
@abbysparksjewelry3 жыл бұрын
Typically the engagement ring has the larger center stone, and the band is more simple in design with smaller stones. But really these rings can look like whatever you want them to, these "rules" are just a tradition and by no means a one-size-fits-all approach. Things are definitely changing and people are more and more getting rings that appeal more to their personal preference.
@ufuomaogbonna2981 Жыл бұрын
Am I to put on d engagement ring before the wedding ring
@Nahnod225 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@jzjxjsj28164 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice!
@abbysparksjewelry4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! 🙂
@taniahurtado66243 жыл бұрын
Can I use an "engagement ring" as a wedding ring instead of the typical wedding band?
@leroyatleroys5 жыл бұрын
The love of my life is particular. She is not materialistic. She actually hates expensive things. So I have decided to make the rings myself. She also has jewelry allergies so I am going to have to get very creative with the metal I choose to use. That being said, since she doesn’t like buying expensive stuff, should I make the wedding ring or should I just make the engagement rings and then let her tell me what she wants for the design of the wedding ring?
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
That is such a thoughtful thing to do! I bet she will love it, especially because you made it, that makes the ring so special. Some tips for metal that are hypoallergenic, go with palladium or platinum and you shouldn't have any problems. And then wether or not you want to loop her in for the wedding ring is up to you! I know in my video I mention that she'll have opinions, but there is no "right" way to do this. Go with your gut, if you feel like she's going to enjoy making that wedding ring with you then wait on the wedding ring, but if you think that she'll love the surprise of both rings then you should surprise her :)
@leroyatleroys5 жыл бұрын
Abby Sparks Jewelry Thanks for the input! :)
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
@@leroyatleroys Of course! Glad I could help!
@lyfestylemuzik7931 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Abby 😉
@muhingirajeremih77524 жыл бұрын
On which finger do you wear the engagement ring
@lmaobroz99013 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the info
@Muzicboy3 Жыл бұрын
Is the wedding ring just the band?
@emileagenor56835 жыл бұрын
Would you suggest purchasing one online and which online retailer? James Allen?
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
Hi Emile! Great question! I usually recommend seeing the ring or the materials being used to make the ring in person if you can. If you do decide to go the online route, you don't always know for sure what you're going to get, so make sure the jeweler you choose is someone you can trust. Read lots of reviews, do research on the quality or ethics factors that are important to you, and ask a ton of questions!
@emileagenor56835 жыл бұрын
@@abbysparksjewelry Abby, I appreciate the quick response! I have a very specific budget and enough details (4Cs) to make an informed decision. I'm just struggling with finding legitimate assistance with finding the most authentic and beautiful wedding ring I can find with my specific budget, can you help me out?
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
@@emileagenor5683 I would love to help! It might be easier to give us a call so we can get all the information about the ring and your budget in more detail, then we can better help direct you towards what you're looking for. Our phone # is on this page: abbysparks.com/contact/
@DayNja1423 Жыл бұрын
do you need to get another ring , ie cant we just use the engament ring as the wedding ring?
@rocketfatts77695 жыл бұрын
Everybody should know this
@jasmineb47874 жыл бұрын
Not trying to be offensive but nobody knows everything
@ygbodybuilder3023 Жыл бұрын
So the engagement ring can be returned to the store
@derricklawson46142 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Salih.EduBlock2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽.
@TycoonstoryMedia-gd9nu Жыл бұрын
The ring is presented as an expression of betrothal, representing two hearts pledging themselves in marriage until the circle of life is complete. As a visible reminder of their connection and union, this small but significant gesture will proudly signify that special bond for years to come. - Tycoonstory Media
@nathanielcopperfish9124 жыл бұрын
How does the guy get his ring? and he buys 3 rings? One engagement ring and two wedding rings?
@abbysparksjewelry4 жыл бұрын
Typically what I've seen is couples will get their wedding rings together, after the proposal with the engagement ring. Usually my clients pay for their wedding rings together, as a team. But it really just depends on your relationship and how you and your partner want to get married! There are no rules :)
@nathanielcopperfish9124 жыл бұрын
@@abbysparksjewelry Does the guy get an engagement ring?
@abbysparksjewelry4 жыл бұрын
Historically/Traditionally no, typically men will only have a wedding ring. But I'm also seeing this start to shift in today's society since now both partners in a relationship are much more equal and traditional gender roles are no longer important. I've had couples where a woman proposes to a man with an engagement ring before he proposes, or they both propose to each other, in which case then yes, he does get an engagement ring. Ed Sheeran and his fiancee both wore an engagement ring, so times are definitely changing
@codliverwell18322 жыл бұрын
So, I hope you guys understand that it's not the ring that makes a wedding perfect. Weddings can be perfect without a ring too
@alexloera2013 Жыл бұрын
Cheap bastard
@eddierodriguez404 жыл бұрын
This helped lol thanks
@laurakhan4 жыл бұрын
I need to buy 2 rings-
@Cheese_crackers Жыл бұрын
Does the man buy his own ring? How does that go?
@joseestrada32904 жыл бұрын
So when I propose should I give her the ring with the diamond or the band ?
@abbysparksjewelry4 жыл бұрын
Traditionally speaking you would propose with the ring that has a diamond or gemstone on it, and then give the band during your wedding ceremony. But nowadays it's really up to you, do what feels right for you + your relationship. It also doesn't hurt to talk to your partner and find out what they are expecting for each ring, and this may take some of the pressure off of you too to have to just guess what it is they want
@emilendahunga3 жыл бұрын
@@abbysparksjewelry ☝️🤙❤️👌✅ I love this.
@Stacy9673 жыл бұрын
I’m married without ring
@AKSBSU5 ай бұрын
Thanks for the explanation, but I have no intention of buying multiple rings. That is absurd. A nice wedding band will have to be enough. I can afford platinum and diamonds, but I'm not blowing excessive amounts of money on this nonsense. Neither of us currently wear jewelry of any sort. She occasionally wears some clip-on earrings for special occasions. I'm probably going to just buy some really nice platinum or gold bands, wedding bands only. We've been in agreement this is something between us, not a spectacle for others. Going for the most basic wedding ever (her request, actually) and some simple but very high quality bands.
@MrDonwholio5 жыл бұрын
So if im trying to surprise her how do i know what size to get so that i dont have to later go get it resized?
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
Don, I talk about this exact dilemma in this video! :) ----> kzbin.info/www/bejne/poOmqml6n91knNE Hope it helps! Let me know if you have any questions after watching!
@MrDonwholio5 жыл бұрын
Got it thanks. Was hard to hear with the volume on high and the phone in my ear. But thanks ill see what i can do
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
@@MrDonwholio This is really great feedback, I'm new to KZbin and might need to invest in some better sound equipment. Thanks again for your message and feedback! Glad I could help.
@MrDonwholio5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the help andx replies
@shaherharden96364 жыл бұрын
hey thanks a lot !
@kadianedwards6325 ай бұрын
What if there are 3 pieces?
@ismaelcuadrarivera69913 жыл бұрын
so the wedding and engagement rings have to match?
@abbysparksjewelry3 жыл бұрын
Not at all! Some people like to have them match but it's totally fine for them to be totally different, it's just up to personal preference!
@crispybatman48010 ай бұрын
Maaaaaaan. Why is she the only one who gets engagement drip?
@markmiller-lm3gg5 жыл бұрын
thank y0u for your help...n0w ikn0w what to do.✌
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Happy to help :)
@mahiyatsafiyullah7103 Жыл бұрын
Why do I need both rings why can't I just have one ring to buy?
@paulvelez62567 ай бұрын
What about 3 rings
@Federico-zm1ym Жыл бұрын
I want to get a women's proposal ring and then engagement ring for me for myself
@mcruz44673 жыл бұрын
The 3rd ring will be SuffeRING! lol
@BloodAndGutsTV2 жыл бұрын
Are they suppose to look different? Can a wedding ring have a diamond?
@abbysparksjewelry2 жыл бұрын
They can look however you would like them to look! Wedding rings can have diamonds, gemstones, a unique design in the metal, or just be plain.
@xav1er512xo Жыл бұрын
I was thinking anout getting married but now i dont 1700$ engage ring then 5400$ for a wedding ring just way to much
@JoHn_01222 жыл бұрын
lot of people choose that engagement ring and wedding ring is the same
@abbysparksjewelry Жыл бұрын
So true!
@hectorjimenez1012 ай бұрын
Aww hell nah I thought it was one of
@AudioAndroid5 жыл бұрын
A Wedding Ring needs to be made so that every 10 years another ring is made to connect to it, that first connecting ring needs to represent what the couple has gone through as Husband and Wife during the first 10 years of their Marriage. When 20 years have passed a second connecting ring is added that also follows the same theme as above but representing the 2nd 10 years of their Marriage. In the end a Woman's ring should be able to tell her story, a story that could show Love and Determanation or the Birth of their First , Second, Third Child etc. Seeing a Woman wearing a ring made up of a combined 5 rings would let anyone know she has been Happily Married for 50 years and that message and show of rings on its own would be a driving force for any couple, a goal and a message for couples to work through their hardships and to achieve a 5, 6 or 7 Ring standard or more. P.S. the Young Lady in this video has one of the Prettiest Smiles I have ever seen, she is definitly the Second most Beautiful Woman I have ever layed eyes on.
@abbysparksjewelry5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@supernova117112 жыл бұрын
That’s really sweet except…who would want a ring that thick?!
@AudioAndroid2 жыл бұрын
@@supernova11711 it would be more in line to those Rings that are made to combine with out any discomfort.
@ibrahiymghany49964 жыл бұрын
Lol. And how I know
@thechampion19183 жыл бұрын
Two rings 😭
@rebeccahermes99703 жыл бұрын
WOW... I will Yes Marry One Day I believe I have Hope, Faith, I Believe....
@joeybaseball73525 жыл бұрын
Why am I watching wedding ring videos? No girl is ever gonna wanna marry me.
@braiansingh97305 жыл бұрын
We are two dude...
@schooloflove70764 жыл бұрын
You need to change your mindset and have a little more confidence. What you think, you will atrract to yourself. Think like you have a bunch of girls that want to marry you.
@inee1074 жыл бұрын
not with that attitude! women like confidence
@joeybaseball73524 жыл бұрын
@@inee107 so you speak for all women?
@joeybaseball73524 жыл бұрын
@@inee107 it was a joke btw
@Qwertysamu Жыл бұрын
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@lf5592 жыл бұрын
I think an engagement ring is just a pointless tradition of the West... If you know you're in love and you know you want to get married... What's with all the getting on one knee drama and crap. Moreover... Wedding ring holds more value because it binds the vows made on the wedding day..... Can someone please give me a different opinion in the comments? Do you agree or disagree?
@XxN3RD Жыл бұрын
Your teeth are blue...?
@TG_FreakyTalesАй бұрын
Who the hell said i cant wear a sparkler on the altar , say I Do, put the sparkler back on and wear that sucker til death do us part. And be buried with that shiii-?