Hayden Panettiere Says Losing Custody of Daughter Wasn't 'Fully' Her Choice

[@chasepierce0919]

I was on this episode. She was so sweet. All of them were very kind and understanding about my sister's suicide. This whole episode was top tier.

[@BaileyGianniniTalks]

It’ll be great to see her in Scream 6. She was amazing in Scream 4.

[@chasepierce0919]

@@BaileyGianniniTalks I know! I got to tell her that! Lol.

[@BaileyGianniniTalks]

@@chasepierce0919 Ok then, if you have her phone number or her agents’ phone number at least, then call her up. You can get a hold of her agent through IMDB Pro, but it’ll cost a little bit of money 💰. 😂

[@Lovelyonuoha]

So sad to see child hood actors, going through the most toughest traumatic situations… Been a fan of hers since remember the Titan’s

[@eachres835]

The worst thing is watching this knowing ppl made millions off of this interview just to exploit her. It’s sick because everyone involved makes money. Many ppl might relate to her but will never have the same resources as her. Sad all around but I love Hayden and I appreciate her strength: hate the networks for thinking this is going to help the ppl that actually need help that they won’t actually help.

[@WhiteRabbitDreams]

@@eachres835 She didn't have to do the interview if she didn't want to

[@gaila.9852]

@@eachres835 You wrote that as if she was held at gunpoint and forced to do the interview. I highly doubt she would be there if she did not want to be.

[@olivialovesdesign]

Exactly - she chose to do this interview - maybe she considers it will assist other women and it actually made me feel better that “high-ranking” (higher than my public persona/profile I mean) public faces deal with this too. I dealt with it when I was only 20 after having a baby at 18. I’m much better now and have a beautiful relationship with my 20 year old daughter and a beautiful 2 year old daughter and due to have another baby - a boy in January.

[@mistyvaughn6356]

I remember her on Guiding Light when she was Lizzie Spalding. I watched it as a kid with my grandma when I stayed out sick.

[@flavs9548]

You can really see the sadness on her face and hear the knot of anxiety trapped in her voice. I hope she gets the help that she needs and fully recovers.

[@Starlight-mp4pk]

She’s an actress

[@bernadettedeady4909]

@@Starlight-mp4pk so god forbid she can ever show her emotions?

[@Starlight-mp4pk]

@@bernadettedeady4909 no one is interested in her emotions. If we’re interested in anything it’s facts. She had a chance at a beautiful life, and wasn’t interested. I struggle to muster much, if any, sympathy.

[@bernadettedeady4909]

@@Starlight-mp4pk trusted adults on her team were offering her pills, encouraging an addiction as early as 15. you sit behind a phone with no actual knowledge of what her life has consisted of. Does that not make you feel a bit silly?

[@beatrizgh6983]

@@Starlight-mp4pk ffcggvvvvvvvvvvvv. Vvvvccc. C. Ccccccc. Ffcv. ❤ lol

[@dmvbawse4265]

She was depressed and abusing substances the father has the right to gain custody of his daughter. It’s like people would rather see the girl with the mother being not taken care of than with the father.

[@althea1557]

Agree, the daughter is in a safer environment being with the father.

[@jonathannocon]

For the time being as mentioned in this video hence why she didn’t fight it which I give her props for. The father should have done it the right way though instead of resorting to false impressions and tricks which is a serious red flag for me.

[@dmvbawse4265]

@@jonathannocon what did he do that was a trick or a lie? She’s trying to spin things now. If she fought she would have lost bad in court and now she’s pretending he did something wrong when in reality she made drugs a priority over her children.

[@jonathannocon]

You clearly don’t understand addiction... Yes she made mistakes, they both have which is to be expected. That doesn’t make her the villain here. She stepped up and made the right choices, which is better than how he’s current methods thus far imo. She would be in serious psychological/mental strains/pains rn after losing a huge part of her soul like under these circumstances. Which I give her props for making those hard choices like that. Stripping a mother’s rights like how he did it is a big NO NO to me. If he had been honest and told her the truth and gain custody that way, that would have been better for him and earned him some desperately needed credibility in the process. Instead, he made her believe it was short term even though he knew otherwise aka calculated deception/intended deceit. Were you even paying attention when you watched this srsly?! And FYI, given the circumstances in that part of Europe rn. Idk if that’s the best/safest place for a developing child. Not to mention that she was the one that looked after her child this whole time until these recent events. There should be grounds for visitations, custody switch, etc... (supervised or otherwise). If he truly wanted the best for their child, these things ought to be common sense at this point tbh aka act civil and mature instead of both of them taking cheap stabs at each other which how these things tends to go unfortunately. If and when she fights this to court (in due course), my money is on her winning custody *hands down* 👌🏼

[@OliveCandy38]

@@jonathannocon thank you for explaining this so eloquently. I'm still so surprised with the judgey attitude people have.

[@vera8656]

Having Kaya be with her father was the best decision. Hayden may not have seen it at the time, but a mother with postpartum depression and a severe alcohol addiction CAN NOT adequately take care of a baby, especially if there is another parent (who isn't struggling with those same issues) that can. Yes, it wasn't her idea and she may not have fully wanted it, but giving up custody was what was best for all involved. Hayden wasn't doing too well until recently, with her trying to get sober and being with an abusive partner (not the father of her child btw) we don't know how long she has been sober and regulated (probably with medication) so I doubt that Kaya being with her is better than her being in a safe country with people that love her taking care of her (we know Kaya isn't in the Ukraine, hasn't been for a while). Hypothetically, let's say they share custody. With Hayden's ex's situation (the political entanglements of him and his brother during a time of war) there is a chance that something could happen to him and if it did, Kaya would need her mom to be prepared for what it is to be a mother, which I don't think she would be. Because honestly, I don't think Hayden really fully grasps what it would mean to be a full-time single mother to her daughter, since she never was before. Her stepping into that role would be tremendously overwhelming and could potentially undo all her progress and push her back into addiction. It's definitely heartbreaking to think abut what she is going through, but it is what is best for the kid and even Hayden has to acknowledge that. That doesn't mean it isn't painful. (Also, I acknowledge that Kaya is probably traumatized due to her parents' situation, but I firmly believe that Hayden needed the freedom to step away to get better and if she hadn't, then Kaya's trauma would have been a million times worse) Take all of this with a grain of salt, since I'm going by only the details she and him have shared and I obviously don't know every single detail...

[@meganbrumley3395]

Safe country?? uhh... 🥴 They did say she was in Ukraine, right? Or did I totally miss something lol

[@vera8656]

@@meganbrumley3395 she is no longer in the Ukraine. I don't want to say where she is, because they kept it quiet for a reason, but she is definitely in a safe European country

[@samg873]

Honestly what Hayden wants doesn't matter right now or possibly never

[@JustLikeAFlower]

@@meganbrumley3395 they moved from the Ukraine before that happened. So they could both be in their child’s life appropriately

[@Starlight-mp4pk]

@@JustLikeAFlower she can hardly be in her child’s life if she lives on a separate continent, and if the kid’s dad ever finds a stepmother for the kid and marries her Hayden will never see the kid again.

[@rosecoloredtimes]

A decade or so ago she told a magazine “I’m no Lindsay Lohan, you won’t see any rehabs or duis for me” I hope she’s learned to judge less.

[@autumnskai6383]

Many women aren't prepared or truly ready for motherhood. So much changes mentally, emotionally and physically... The biggest sacrifice we make in life, cause we truly lose ourselves.

[@cockoffgewgle4993]

Then they shouldn't choose to be Mothers. Especially single Mothers, which most do nowadays.

[@Justadbmum]

She seems very brave opening up and showing her vulnerabilities. I hope she is able to get joint custody x

[@BaileyGianniniTalks]

I agree.

[@Starlight-mp4pk]

It’ll never happen. Too late and far too disruptive for the kid, not to mention completely impractical given that she lives on a different continent.

[@BoudicaJ]

Why?

[@jonathannocon]

Damn, I feel for her so bad. Hope she pulls through. My thoughts and prayers goes to a speedy recovery to recover that huge part of her soul no doubt.

[@linapesz313]

You should feel sorry for the daughter...She is playing a victim...She was addicted to the drugs ....that is why he took the daughter away....Good for him to protect the baby...

[@Digger-Nick]

Feeling bad for the celebrity but not the people she hurt... Typical deranged sheep

[@jonathannocon]

I stand by what I said, she needed help and she’s getting it. The biological father is not perfect himself either, let alone the way he opted to acquire custody which could have been hella ugly if she chose to fight it. Instead she did the right thing (for the time being) and for that I give her mad credit.

[@samg873]

@@jonathannocon a judge would side with him. Anyone that puts drugs or alcohol before their kids is trash

[@jonathannocon]

Perhaps from your neck of the woods it’s like that, but dependencies is a very common thing globally and as long as the one aforementioned is being treated by a sanctioned/credible facility/personnel then there are grounds for visitation at least. Statistically, a court of law tends to lean on the biological mother more than the father despite of the mothers shortcomings. Just the fact that she didn’t fight this (for the time being at least) shows to me and no doubt many that she is making the right calls here not only for herself but the child itself until she gets at a more stable position. I’m just not a big fan on the fathers methods of obtaining temp custody here, one does it right from the get go especially if it’s your own child on the line. I truly hope they keep civil and support each other for the benefit(s) of their own child though through this ugly situation rather than taring each other as these cases tends to go unfortunately.

[@kram9076]

Didn't even know she was going through this 😪.. I just decided to stop drinking because my health totally got affected. Never been so scared in my life, addiction is a thing. I don't have kids so atleast I wasn't hurting anyone but myself in the process. Now that I think of my future I need to slow down, control my anxiety and start a fresh. Jesus is love and I trust and believe whoever is reading this will be healed if you believe you can. Don't lose hope 🙏 Amen.

[@kitteekittee4010]

Thank you for your beautiful comment 💙

[@kazb4496]

I didn’t even know she went through that she’s healthy now good for her ❤ she was a good actress

[@wendyburke2210]

She IS a good actress . She got herself together . Good for her !

[@angeliquebloom1241]

I wish her nothing but love ,light & happiness.. She's so cute and a good actress

[@mikebasil4832]

I wish her exactly the same. Godspeed, Hayden. 💚

[@kcurtis5197]

She was in a bar brawl earlier this year, I think she should be able to see her daughter supervised. I don't think she's ready for custody kid is better off with Father.

[@ambirules]

Wladimir did the right thing in getting custody of the child. It’s sick how she’s trying to paint him in the situation. You‘re drinking excessively, using drugs, fighting outside of bars, on top of being in an abusive relationship ....he did the right thing by removing his child from the dysfunction and trauma!!!!

[@alainag744]

there's no sign she ever hurt the child. taking the daughter away from her was a very selfish thing he did! im sorry but im on her side. the girl growing up without her mother is traumatizing especially if he hurts her and the mom is not there to protect her

[@smileyfacewithsunglasses7613]

I always admired her. How heartbreaking 🥺

[@packnetadaija]

My heart breaks for her truly. She made the best decision for her daughter but that still doesn’t make it less sad, especially with everything going on in the Ukraine as well. I pray her and I hope she gets custody back with her daughter

[@rainstorm571]

Her daughter is better off, stop making it sound like her daughter is suffering. She probably doesn’t even know her mother

[@francih923]

@@rainstorm571 which makes her father a disgusting human being and a poor excuse of one

[@emlee5905]

She chose to continue her career .She is nothing to be admired.

[@Starlight-mp4pk]

Far too late - it would be cruel to pull the kid away from her father to go and live in a foreign country. This woman had a chance at a perfect life and blew it.

[@almadmn1995]

We don't know the full story I think there's more to it she's a petite female her ex is a large male maybe she was intimidated she needs her daughter I hope she gets her back she fucked up but I've seen others get their kids back so why shouldn't hayden????

[@likmijnreet4542]

"the most selfless thing to do would be to work on myself" I swear, this woman has never thought of anyone but herself and she acts as if she should be praised for it.

[@selenediaz5997]

Down playing the situation as if she was forced to give full custody. It's been years and still hasn't fought to get her child back, she's content but acting as if she was forced to give up all her rights. Give father's the respect and the same appreciation single mother's get. I'm tired of woman leaving their children and crying wolf, she could have worked on herself and still been involved in her child's life. Why when man dip they are dead beats and when woman leave they are some how strong for making such a tough choice ? 🧐

[@bigNo13]

100% She is horrible and wants to somehow steal be the victim, when in reality the child is the only victim. And the poor ex thank God he step up and took care of his child

[@se7nn1120]

Depression and addiction are two lethal combination. To oneself and to other people. Her addiction forced her to sign those papers. I've been dealing with alcoholism to cope with my depression since I became legally allowed to drink. I'd go to classes in college with liquor in my water bottle. Just abusing alcohol to the point that I feel numb. Within 3 years of drinking I was hospitalized and told that my liver was in danger of failing, among the other illnesses I've developed due to alcohol abuse and I've been on maintenance ever since. And the withdrawal was as painful as needing to drink even though I knew it's life or death for me. Now I only drink religiously on 2 occasions: my birthday and Christmas. But every time it goes down my throat I start to drink heavily again to the point that everyone would stop drinking so that I would have to stop drinking myself. She didn't leave her child, please don't say that. She signed her away because she knew, as how she is/was, she wouldn't be able to be a good mother. This is why people with addiction are committed to rehab centers, because they need to work on themselves and focus on their road to recovery. People who never experienced depression and/or addiction, I envy you. Because this shit is not easy and we deal with this every single day and it's never easy.

[@redheadedfreckles2]

You want to know why??? Because women have the pain of growing a baby in the womb!! We go through something you will never understand nor comprehend. I had no father , my mother had no father now my daughter has no father! They all “ dipped” and are deadbeats. Most women stay around the number of single moms that are raising children far outweighs the number of men ! You know why because women form an actual bond with a child they carry through oxytocin. It’s highly abnormal for a mom to “ dip” . The statistics don’t lie .

[@marianaagudelo8688]

You guys act like you know her or were there to witness it all? you shouldn’t judge…

[@elisabeth_montgomery]

I used to like her until I heard her kid was in another country with the dad and that was before she gave up custody. And why not get help but keep your rights as a parent. She just threw in the towel. No one forces you to sign those papers.

[@sldavina7073]

It's a good thing to be vulnerable and speak openly about what you are going through. It allows you to heal and help others do the same. Wishing her the best and hopi g she can gain custody of her little girl at some point ❤️

[@tinahoffmaster7243]

Thank you. I went through something similar and I'm glad I'm not the only one that went through that.

[@tinahoffmaster7243]

@@TswanaSands huh.

[@fehyndana7725]

@@TswanaSands she was taking about post partum depression 🙄 But yeah judge something you’ll never have to experience yourself!

[@samg873]

@@TswanaSands exactly. I have depression that stemmed from a string of health issues. I'm better now but never once did I wanna pop a beer or pill bottle. There's other ways to deal with mental health issues

[@samg873]

@@TswanaSands I will admit I hit a low point this past September but that was cause it's been a year since I got sepsis and my doctor basically told me Sam you need to do stuff you enjoy not be the person everyone wants you to be

[@samg873]

@@TswanaSands not a wanting to die low but I just started sobbing

[@teresaroubal7237]

It was her fault, a child is the MOST IMPORTANT person, thing in your life..

[@silverkitty2503]

strangely the father doesn't seem to realize that .....because he hasn't acted in her best interests ...the kid is going around calling random women mom ...that should tell you she is traumatised ...hayden is no angel but he sounds ...as if he lacks emotional intelligence ..and i get the impression he planned this like a chess game and used his brothers powers in ukraine to manipulate the situation ...it feels like he never loved her ..and used her body to get a kid

[@Rhydumb_18]

@@silverkitty2503 wtf no the man is a good father and saw best interests of his child he saw that the mother of his child was incapable of raising their daughter and was an addict so he took full custody to protect his daughter…the courts saw this and granted him custody …the child doesn’t need a parent if the parent is useless and an addict this would cause more harm than not having one …u wouldn’t be saying te same thing if the mother was given full custody if father was an addict

[@silverkitty2503]

@@Rhydumb_18 Dude ...he doesn't live in the same country with the kid and never has even before the war he never spent time with her he went all over the world leaving the kid at home. Plus in the full interview it comes out he joked on the phone that the kid was asking strange women if she could call them mama .and he laughed about it...and hayden said she displayed other signs of trauma. He is not a good father.

[@emlee5905]

Her career was more important to her.She didn't have to give her child up.

[@martychambers8927]

@@silverkitty2503 sound like you making every excuse what has Hayden panettiere did for the best interest of her child being an abusive relationship chose to drink and not get help for the sake of her child

[@lisachristine2098]

Well it sounds like she made a selfless decision at a low point in her life when she really wanted better for her child . She wasn’t abandoning her she was trying to do what was best even if it meant giving her dad custody. God bless her and her daughter . Praying she can rebuild her relationship with her daughter soon.

[@johmayo7042]

Not surprising, but also, she was not being a responsible adult and parent. The best thing she did was surrender custody.

[@SarahDIrish]

I loved her in heroes and in nashville I hope she gets more healthy and successful in life

[@Maddie9185]

I hope she’s able to re established a relationship with her daughter because she did what she thought was the best for her daughter at that time.

[@di942842]

It was your choice to be a mom or to continue drinking. Vladimir decided to be the responsible parent while you chose the bottle. I sympathize with what you went through, the demons you face on a daily basis, but I think losing custody of your daughter was the best thing for your daughter. Sure, it was not the best thing for you, but it was the best thing for her.

[@cecarblanco9933]

Yes, it was her choice. We always have a choice.

[@samg873]

@@cecarblanco9933 her daughter was born in 2014. That's what? 8 years? So her daughter was put on back burner for that long

[@sofiamartinez3742]

He failed her as a husband. She has expressed how he didn’t recognize her struggle for what it was: post-partum depression. He had a mentality that “she could deal with it”, and in that lack of support from her partner she relied on the only other thing she thought she could. So many men dismiss mental health in their wives as if it was something of a “choice.” It’s not something that can be turned off or fixed with a “brighter” mentality. So much easier for him to say “go fix your problems” and take their child away than to recognize he too failed her.

[@samg873]

@@sofiamartinez3742 you said she turned to alcohol. She had a choice. Choices have consequences good or bad.

[@sofiamartinez3742]

@@samg873 With no support system anyone has a higher risk of coping through substance abuse. It’s not so much of a choice when you are downing and your partner, the one person you should be able to rely on during your hardest times, dismisses you. By your logic, it was also a choice for him to ignore her depression, and the consequences are her wife turned to alcohol instead. That makes him a BAD husband, and a bad father as well because instead of even attempting to help the mother of her child he left her to drown. Everyone will bash on her but forget parenting is a two way street and he clearly failed as much as she did. Except he did so with a relatively healthy mind state while she didn’t. Such a cope out to say “she chose this.”

[@skyblue8622]

This whole thing is disturbing. Everyone on this clip are lost. Desperately please, don't think like these people!

[@christinagoodwin6742]

Wow you are so strong I don't have words for how u have handled this situation

[@ericeandco]

3 years before custody was taken. She’s still making excuses.

[@merima6184]

When you see a drunk person on the street, do you say it's so sad? Are you heartbroken? You just run away. So these comments make no sense to me.

[@happystar7777]

I agree.. I strongly think people should exercise the same compassion they have toward celebrities, towards the people in their own neighborhoods. Why not? Could've been you

[@Bluemoon2000x]

You’re right

[@PreppyPrincess777]

The father made an excellent decision. Kudos to him

[@AJ-pi9qh]

What? she was the most selfless to give up her daughter because she knew she would have a better life

[@intrepidtomato]

What a hard thing to go through. Addiction can be very, very hard to break. I hope she gets better but going public about it will certainly help other people get honest with themselves and take a good hard look at their choices.

[@denorwhi]

When you're Juliette Barnes in real life!! All women just aren't maternal and that's okay. I'm glad she was smart enough to give custody to Dad. She's probably better off just visiting because she was just out drinking and fighting with her ex. Imagine all the crap her daughter might have been through had she stayed with her. She's the same age as me and we had our babies around the same time. Please get your life together so you can see your daughter more. You can't fix the past but atleast you can form a great relationship now so she will allow you in her life as an adult

[@GlynisMarthinussen.]

She isn’t healthy enough to have custody. You chose drugs over your child and that unfortunately is the reality she needs to get to. Drug addicts will always play victim and seek empathy from others. She has been on drugs for years. This isn’t a postpartum thing though

[@tj4787]

Thank you ET . Love you Hayden you got this , life , decisions , not easy ! But you always have to put yourself first ! So she definitely did what was best for Kiya ! God Bless 🙏🏾

[@selenediaz5997]

When you're a parent your child comes first.

[@selenediaz5997]

When you're a parent your child comes first.

[@javiruiz8365]

Not for the elite!!! They call the addiction depression!!! And all the sheep feel sorry for them because they are famous!!! Always an excuse for bad behavior and then they profit

[@Handleisnotavailable1]

@@selenediaz5997 putting yourself first is putting your child first. An unhealthy mom can't raise healthy children

[@samg873]

@@Handleisnotavailable1 well Hayden isn't raising her child

[@w8nc82]

The fact that she's on Jadas show talking about this says a lot. Jada is the last person I'd be talking to about motherhood & family etc... in my opinion. Dont be blaming the father for anything when he actually stepped up when you couldn't. I truly hope she gets better mentally for the sake of her daughter

[@w8nc82]

Everyone's perception is different

[@samg873]

@@countessofmontecristo3849 she should have gotten help before it got to that point

[@avabear8074]

I feel for her . This is beyond sad .

[@trigremlin]

Her ex is at war fighting for his homeland she's creating drama for herself.

[@bernadettedeady4909]

@@trigremlin she can't have her own problems because other people have it worse? That's stupid.

[@bribriannita7935]

@@bernadettedeady4909 no, the baby's father stepped up and took full custody of his child because shes In no place to care for her daughter. This man is a hero and she's now trying to paint him as a an evil man who took her child away. It's pathetic. He is an example of what it means to step up and be a responsible dad

[@bernadettedeady4909]

@@bribriannita7935 how is she painting him as evil?

[@bribriannita7935]

@@bernadettedeady4909 she's basically working the story as if to say he took the child away from her against her will. She singed the documents and he was right for sending the documents and seeking full custody in the first place, this woman was unfit to have a minor in her care and wasn't and still doesn't provide a safe place to rare a child. Sure she's tangled up with some other dude and a domestic abuse case now.......the father is a hero and has saved his child from witnessing substance and physical abuse... Whereas she has been involved in disaster after disaster chasing a bottle and dangerous men

[@alycialuke6322]

It was a year before I realized I had postpartum depression 😔 was so hard and unreal....Iooking back thinking it was just a dream. Can't say I would go as far as giving up custody....but I understand its different for everyone

[@ml-kt9rj]

Opinion: Most likely the father wanted the abilities to make the right choice for their little girl if things went one way or the other with her recovery and the consistent up and down battles. children need healthy consistency. I have been in a similar situation with family and there are moments with the other parent when they are in recovery that can be awkward because the child looks for that kind of security when they know things are not right. It is in the child best interest to be in a healthy and secure environment and for nothing to tamper with that.

[@JuanaLucia1996]

Actually, I have more respect for someone to do whats best for their kids when battling mental illness drug addiction instead of dragging their kids mistreating their kids abusing etc., to do as she did and I hope she betters herself.

[@mikebasil4832]

I’m so sorry, Hayden. 💔

[@GGCanLove409]

How sad! I remember her from Guiding Light when she was just a little girl...no older than her daughter now.

[@harpergrace5846]

Once you sign over rights depending on the country that’s pretty much it

[@snsn7251]

N he's a piece of work

[@MM-ly3by]

Not true

[@dmvbawse4265]

@@snsn7251 piece of work? He’s the parent that should have the kid. He isn’t dealing with drug addiction and depression like she is. Y’all hate fathers so much lol

[@kamaramlochan6871]

I hope you truly get through this 🙏

[@susansmith493]

I'm glad the child's father got custody. The right decision.

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

I pray everything goes well for her health ,and future endeavors🙏🏽.

[@jbt6007]

Very sad. Get well Hayden!

[@MsEnglishtea]

I think what she did by giving Wladimir Klitschko custody was the right thing to do as a mother, she was not in a healthy mental space, and wouldn't be right for her daughter to be caught in the middle of what she was going through, she was also in a relationship with someone like Brian Hickerson who was arrested on domestic violence and assault charges, yeah someone you don't want your kids around either. I do wish her well in recovery if she is still on that path.

[@Shesawakeandyouredumb]

I know Kelly Osborne is pregnant but what the hell happened to her face???!!

[@susant1323]

Is that Kelly Osborne? I was wondering who that was.

[@ghostface3254]

I thought it was Kirstie Alley

[@kryskos5182]

Kristie Alley died long time ago​@@ghostface3254

[@brittneycunningham8375]

Just pointing out a double standard here but why in this situation is she deemed noble and brave for choosing to relinquish custody of her child, but when a man does it they’re deemed a deadbeat. If just looking at your child isn’t enough to straighten up your life, then she is a deadbeat in my eyes too!

[@selenediaz5997]

Amen!

[@jennifertamez5285]

I’ve only been taught a deadbeat is a parent to abandons their child, doesn’t pay child support, and wants nothing to do with them.

[@davemcg915]

A deadbeat is completely different...

[@sigco1019]

Hayden didn't just leave, she signed over parental rights and she still pays child support.

[@brittneycunningham8375]

@@davemcg915 How so?

[@DraziwLestat]

Amazing how people eat up her bull💩! She plays the victim to get a pass on abandoning her daughter while she’s running around on vacation with her woman beater bf! Get over yourself Hayden, grow up and take care of your daughter!

[@DrWisteriaRose]

I am from Ukraine and was curious for a long time what happened and if that was a joint decision to raise their kid there. Now, everything makes sense. I admire how honestly she shared her situation.

[@texaslife956rodz6]

I want to hear her ex's side of the story.. i bet its not as she claims... Just sayn

[@DajiaStar]

I did not know she was struggling with addiction. This now answers why she does not have custody.

[@michelecoulter9284]

What a brave and beautiful woman

[@graphicteeconvos9491]

Stay strong girl loved her since bring it on ❤️ 🙏🏾

[@kamaramlochan6871]

Ikr 🤗

[@andreasmeelie1889]

I loved her since both A Bug’s Life and Bring it On!😍

[@felin_de_la_nuit]

I loved her since Remember The Titans

[@pippilotta853]

Thank god Vladimir took care of the child

[@linapesz313]

She is still delusional....shifting the blame on to him...he protected the baby from addicted mother

[@BaileyGianniniTalks]

I’m sorry this happened to her. This movie is quite emotional.

[@randysuggs7591]

Wow as a dad that went through the same thing, that hits home hard. When my little girl was born I was going through a very rough time. I was depressed and i was trying to kick my addiction. My fiance left with my daughter and wanted full custody. I was heartbroken but i knew in the state i was in it was the best thing I could do for my little girl but i hated doing it. I knew i had to put her first regardless of what I felt and wanted. I just wanted to do right by her until I could get in a better place mentally. But damn did it hurt

[@Existentialnausea]

She's now saying he manipulated her into signing her kid over, but a few months ago, she was praising him. Kinda weird.

[@fehyndana7725]

She’s not saying he manipulated her, she simply stated that he made the choice for her and it wasn’t her decision. What is she supposed to say when people ask her why she decided to give up custody? Lie?

[@samg873]

@@fehyndana7725 be honest and tell them she has an addiction to alcohol

[@jonathannocon]

She’s only human, ppl makes mistakes and from the looks of things. She’s making the right choices/decisions. If they can both remain civil about this matter, that would be the best outcome for their child imo.

[@samg873]

@@jonathannocon from what I gather she had 4 years to get clean before dad took custody. Kaya was born in 2014. He took custody in 2018

[@jonathannocon]

Addiction is not only psychological & physical, it typically is a lifetime henceforth of challenge to stay sober. Not to mention relapse, 💩 life throws at you, etc... My point is 4 years is actually a relatively short time given Hayden’s age. There’s also her immediate family who has no doubt played a huge role assisting this situation as per usual. The father can take custody by all means but he needs to make sure they are both in the child’s development in a relatively accessible distance. Preferably not exceeding international borders if he truly wants what’s best for their child. Any reputable shrink, family therapist will tell you a very similar note to just that.

[@bigherm70068]

She has a drug problem. I think the daughter is best with the dad.

[@javiruiz8365]

She was a bad mother!!! What can we do

[@Nolanoyayo]

I hope her little girl will forgive her one day. She really failed her. Everyone has demons to face but when you're a parent your children need you to step up

[@dagoberto-g2q]

Regardless of the reasons, being away from a child is a pain that I wouldn't wish on anyone. kisses

[@blueknight3393]

You feel sorry for her story. Until you see a TMZ video of her and her now boyfriend getting into a fight outside of a bar only 7months before her red table talk. She doesn’t say how many doctors she went only that she reached for the bottle.

[@BaileyGianniniTalks]

She was amazing in Scream 4 and I’m very proud of her acting, I also saw her in Bring it on All Or Nothing (2006)

[@KeepingIt-zq5bk]

Damn stop blaming other people

[@nextdoornikkixoxo9806]

It’s not a good thing to really say but it’s refreshing to see even celebrities go through these things . I have a lack of a better wording . I don’t enjoy seeing these things but I can relate . . I feel very sorry for her .

[@heycharnay9180]

I love her she was on remember the titans and a bugs life … hope she get it together ❤😢

[@mjohar5]

I will always be rooting for Hayden, can’t wait to see her in scream 6!

[@migueltorres8655]

about the 1000s of men who lose there kids everyday to custody battles .also still punished with child support .of course some women lose there kids but the difference the court makes sure the mother is a unfit mother when it comes to dads,if we can't prove the mother is unfit we have to let go our kids ..

[@cathy.peterson9756]

I needed to see and hear this

[@Sarah8561]

People like her really bother me, going back to her abusive boyfriend over and over again while her daughter has no mother. If she had tried as hard with her kid as she does with her abusive toxic ex (probably boyfriend again) maybe her child wouldn’t be asking strangers to be her mommy.

[@cockoffgewgle4993]

You have to be a hell of a failure at life to lose custody of your child as a woman.

[@NealFry]

I'll Always Love you Hayden Panettiere

[@NealFry]

You're Adorable Hayden Leslie Panettiere.

[@NealFry]

Hayden Leslie Panettiere, I'll Pray for you Tonight.

[@Zoey-te6wc]

Oh please I’m so sick of these so called mothers crying claiming to love their child but they chose to give them up. If you really love your child you do not want to give your child up, you want to be with your child every day and raise your child, giving your child up would never cross your mind. She’s just a dead beat mom that didn’t like motherhood.

[@americalopez265]

They chose to give them up because thats what was best for them, she clearly states that she was battleing addiction that changes everything would've been more irresponsible if she didnt , and im sure she didnt just "give her up" im pretty sure shes still part of her life just not as the primary parent.

[@ellebasdeo5679]

Obviously you've never suffered from PPD. You have no right to judge her cuz you never know when you could end up like that.

[@MM-ly3by]

You’ve never gone through addiction issues or PPD ,don’t judge

[@martychambers8927]

@@MM-ly3by she needs to get better and go after custody of her child not complain to the world

[@MM-ly3by]

@@martychambers8927 Who’s HE?Half the people didn’t know that she went through this and she did one interview with Jada so I don’t think she “complained”to the world.All im trying to say is have some compassion!

[@weightycarlos]

She didn’t even try to paint her ex-husband as a villain here, why are people so aggressive to her? Wtf. He took full custody of their daughter as he should. It’s just the way he revealed it to her that was so disappointing. If he had a decent conversation with her about the custody then it wouldn’t be a problem, but that doesn’t make him a villain nor did Hayden paint him one. 💀 Y’all are so dramatic.

[@nealfry2230]

If I was Hayden's Husband and with my Blue Cross and Blue Shield with my "Sweet Blue Eyes" being my Precious Parents Care Giver for Over 21 years, I'd Love to be a Guardian Angel For Time and All Eternity. " I Promise, " Neal Patrick Fry from "Heaven's Hands". "I'll Always Love you Hayden Panettiere" "I Promise".

[@Sarasapien]

She seems more sad that her brother died than loosing custody of her daughter. Having postpartum depression is real but her daughter is now 7……that’s not postpartum.

[@raqlew7021]

Wow that’s tough. I think in the middle of my postpartum spiral if I had lost my baby too, I would of just died.

[@Wolf_Song97]

All i can think is her role in Nashville, hit close to home😢❤

[@Hartleymolly]

It doesn’t matter…get your child….get yourself together…

[@Maxon-x3t]

Glad Klitschko has custody and not the woman in active addiction.

[@kcee9111]

That’s the problem - self over others

[@kimraymond6825]

This is just sad for the kid …. Not her. I will never respect her!

[@angelcraig9912]

So why haven’t u got her back or tried. I suffered post partium with my daughter Abby i had drug addiction. And guess what I was going threw my dad commiting suicide and my mom died after that and I still got clean and did the best for my 3 kids. U don’t give up. That’s an excuse u didn’t want to be a mom evendently cause u would of got help from family or someone and gave temporarily custody and got ur kid back . I did do that I still was a mom I did everything fed changed I was a functional drug addict I bought clothes diapers food everything for my kids before my drugs I would be suffering sick my mom moved in help whenever I needed Her but she died and my dad and I got clean right after and I’m glad I’ve been 10 years clean

[@momwhoknowz3758]

Hindsight is 2020 as they say she should be able to maintain a healthy relationship tho

[@DallasTexas8888]

I wonder what abuse Hayden experienced in Hollywood.

[@musicfan07058]

That tells me the kid asked her dad not go back so he probably seeked sole custody she needs to rebuild her relationship with the kid over the ex

[@ghostface3254]

I thought Kelly Osbourne was kirstie alley

[@7Messia]

Wasn't she a alcoholic on the show Nashville? Art comes to life

[@glamrgirl08]

yeah right, she don't want custody back. girl please.... you lose custody of your OWN CHILD, you sus

[@Handleisnotavailable1]

She looks really really unhappy as in smiling was nearly impossible. Omg! She unfortunately will probably never regain custody. She signed the papers and I'm sure he had some important clauses in the documents that will make it nearly impossible to fight! Especially when he is at another country. Custody battles are harder when the other parent has the means for really good lawyers. These precious years she is losing of her daughter's life are devastating. But, imagine the dangers of having a baby around a mom that is constantly drinking and depressed. Plus she was in an abusive relationship. Hopefully she can find a solution for her mental and addiction issues and find peace. Everything happens for a reason and hopefully the baby is having a better life with dad.

[@raqui174]

It was her choice she singed the paper

[@ericjay6021]

Sadly shes not recovered yet. Pray for her to get the help she truly needs

[@quelindamichylee2908]

Wow it’s only been 1 yr and look at Kelly she has changed a lot!!! Also Hayden this was 1 yr ago and she has completely changed as well if you just watched her new interview with people her attitude and her vibes just aren’t the same I feel so bad for her and all she went through

[@jademcqueen5474]

Wlad is a great man and great father. Jada can stfu, she didn't go to visit, she went to her dad because she couldn't look after kaya . Wlad is in no way a bad person or done wrong, she was the alcoholic, had depression and needed help, I'm happy she is looking well and working on herself, but I cannot stand these stupid red table gossips.

[@Anonymous-xl9pq]

Exactly. He's never been in any scandal in his long career and had a much harder life than her but never turned to drugs and alcohol. If there's one fact that's undeniable, it's that she didn't do all she could for her child. My sister was recently in a similar situation and became addicted to alcohol after her child was born. Her husband at the time warned her that he'd leave her and take the child if she didn't get her act together. She's paralyzed from the waist down and came to live with me and asked me to take her wheelchair from her and lock the doors so that she can't go out of the house to buy alcohol. That's how much she was willing to do in order to save her relationship with her husband and child. It was extremely tough for her but in the end she overcame her addiction and she and her husband got back together and they've been a happily married couple for 5 years now. If a paralyzed woman can do it, with her husband's family constantly telling her she shouldn't try to be with her husband again because and able bodied woman would be a better mom, then she sure as hell can.

[@spats2323]

But you signed the papers…

[@katharinee.spencerkelly843]

Wishing you the very best of healing. 💗

[@genericwhitemale909]

This is stupid. Jada The Baldie should apologize to Chris Rock.