Low Self Worth + Chasing Women NEVER Works - Do This Instead

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

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[@kekeivopatzschke4879]

Hey Richard, is there a possibility to translate this book into German? Thanks for your great help and advices in your videos, greetings from Germany 🇩🇪

[@thesnowghost1]

Hi Rich how do guys recover from being used by a Ex wht the sercert to that

[@ApexMaleLife]

@@thesnowghost1 if you want to get over her, get UNDER 5 of her friends. Spin More Plates until you don't care about that Ex, let alone any particular female that doesn't prove Her Value to you. You are the prize. Get a higher Notch Count to own that Frame.

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

A man who lacks purpose, distracts himself with pleasure.

[@hardwiredtoselfdestruction3401]

That's real shit

[@CarbonConscious]

Did Rich say this? I didn't catch it in the video.

[@MaxPayneInTheAss]

Honest question. You constantly post the same comments on other vids and other channels. Do you follow your own advice? Last thing I’d be doing if I was “ON MAH GRIND” is post the same comments on different vids in the same day.

[@sudeeppatel7463]

@@CarbonConscious no sir it was quote by someone

[@crustydinglecherry3451]

My dude just summed it all up using 9 words, a comma & a period

[@JRico92]

1) Stay on your purpose 2) Go to the gym 3) Have hobbies/Fun life 4) Go out alone...get rejected you will become immune to it 5) Women will chase you 6) When you feel like it go with the chick you choose at the end of they day 7) Stay high value kings ✊🏻

[@martinocampo6531]

You keep dropping this 👑

[@marcusp905]

8) bum them on the second date

[@roosterjackson7258]

I'm trying to get over a loser beta infatuation...I've started going running, to get fit and lean. It feels good to develop your own hobbies and purpose, independent of women.

[@stoicg6970]

This is copied

[@marcuseiland9737]

Now that's the right way of doing things as a man. 👍

[@maxpaws3977]

I missed out on so many opportunities and women when I was young due to low confidence. Ditch it guy's! Life is far too short.

[@nonebelievingbeliever3753]

Love that profile

[@RolyTheHolyPaladin]

Overcome it, not ditch it. Lol. You can’t just say oh imma drop my lack of confidence, you’ve got to fight to overcome it.

[@kerryviens7049]

So did I. I still suffer from my insecurities in my middle age.

[@kerryviens7049]

So did I. Wish I could go back and do it all over again.

[@avatar19822]

It's not a light switch

[@jmw1982blue]

Reminds me of a Tom Leykis qoute, "The only reason to put a woman on a pedestal is look up her skirt."

[@surfshack2]

Haha

[@cyclop41]

Thinking about it from that perspective, if she's up on the pedestal then all you're going to get is just a glimpse of what's under her skirt! LOL

[@Vkob]

That's some pretty toxic shit right there...

[@austindavid1862]

@@Vkob cry about it

[@Vkob]

@@austindavid1862 yeah one day you'll find out that it's okay to cry, but real men are so comfortable with themselves that they don't cry. They don't judge anybody for crying though. Only weak losers judge people for their chosen lifestyle

[@rajakghosh6602]

"When a person can't find a deep sense of meaning, they distract themselves with pleasure".

[@CarbonConscious]

Did Rich say this? I didn't catch it in the video. It's a great quote.

[@marcuseiland9737]

Great point.

[@nic9356]

@@CarbonConscious it’s Jordan Peterson

[@CarbonConscious]

@@nic9356 it's Viktor E Frankl apparently.

[@nic9356]

@@Jonathan-jp4zz I wouldn’t qualify something generative as distraction (aware that we’re sort of splitting hair leaves here and I’m not trying to be d***

[@exquisite7856]

right now my confidence is at its highest in like 3 years, i almost forget women exist till i run across one

[@crustydinglecherry3451]

Sorry to hear that

[@nonebelievingbeliever3753]

Are u braging...being proud of something negative isn't good

[@1sotheary]

How would having confidence make you forget about women?

[@exquisite7856]

@@1sotheary my life rn is so good that getting laid or flirting doesnt even concern me

[@IEEteammateMATT1]

Sounds gay

[@kirkworthley3221]

I really wish KZbin and channels like this existed when I was younger. I'm glad I discovered the red pill and found channels like this but kick myself for wasting so many years in my 20s and 30s chasing women instead of working on myself. Its never too late to improve though.

[@troytanner1693]

Ignore all of them in public & just go to the nudie bars like me

[@caw370]

I hear you! I feel the same way.

[@dimetriwatt7334]

I get what you’re saying man. Let me ask you, how old are you? Btw I’m 31 and what advice would you give to yourself at 31....

[@kirkworthley3221]

@@dimetriwatt7334 Hi Dimetri... I'm in my mid 40s. First thing I'd advise is to put yourself first in relationships. Be a bit more selfish without being a dick. Don't get hung up on one woman. If she's not on YOUR page, don't be afraid to walk. It will actually make you more attractive/high value in the end. #2: Work to get better at your job/career or find something more interesting to pursue. Don't settle for a job where you have to just grind...even if it pays well. #3 Watch the partying/booze. You're not a kid. Act like it. Alcohol and drugs (even taken responsibly) slowly steals from you. You need to keep an eye on it. Your health affects everything. Take care of it. Finally, DO NOT MARRY unless you want to start a family. If you do, choose wisely. A bad marriage can ruin you. But you already know all this from watching Red Pill content. Pass this advice along to younger men as you go through life and best of luck.

[@GLDn1]

A man on focus will change his life within five years.

[@panjacek6674]

Easy to give that advice when you are middle aged and I'm saying that as a 40+ dude. When you are 20+ with all the testosterone buzzing in you and sex being still a novelty, it is as telling yourself to postpone chasing food when you are very hungry

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

He said it was simple, not easy.

[@danbrown1344]

Have to find more productive outlets for your testosterone surges than thots. If you find a proper lady, great. However, a thot will drain your time and energy then say you were the problem when things don't work out.

[@jacklauren9359]

@JackBauer137 he takes testosterone to look for shortcuts when he’s not competing in any sporting events. Of course he will think he’s still in his 20s. A bit deluded really. Life is life

[@saif9amar417]

Right plenty of Testosterone , lack of guidance, misinformation , Gaslighting and female manipulation tactics blind young men.

[@doubledollarman2727]

This has always been the problem

[@jman2k0]

Just got outta of a LTR. Going in to "monk" mode before I put myself out there again. Need to level up first before I settle for dragons lol.

[@Sanguen666]

1 Don't help women. 2 Don't fix things for women. 3 Don't support women's issues. 4 Don't come to women's defense. 5 Don't speak for women. 6 Don't value women's feelings. 7 Don't portray women as victims. and 8 Don't protect women.

[@briancooper6608]

I don't mind doing some of those things but they eventually stop appreciating it

[@liberator9248]

​@briancooper6608 i need to stop doing this .

[@HarrisonLanes]

Doing semen retention for a period of time can drastically increase your opinion of yourself, gain confidence and improve all aspects of life

[@jack_galt]

What has been working pretty well for me is limiting myself to once a week, and no porn. For me, this has felt healthier and more satisfying, affording me more mental clarity and focus.

[@realdaakuu1843]

Bas karle beer biceps rulayega kya

[@David53D]

It made me sgressive and angry.

[@blair5475]

@@David53D use that anger on something productive

[@Amctothemoon]

Correct Plus when your always doing it , you start to chase it , it becomes unhealthy.. I stopped and as hard as it was , after a few days I felt loads better

[@arnarnie6844]

Can’t lie, lately my confidence has been dead since I’ve lost both my front teeth in a car accident, and it’s so expensive to fix teeth. So I’ve been hesitant to even try, not just with women, but talking to people period has me insecure.

[@publicenemy4102]

Start a go fund me page?

[@TheAbc2500]

Medical tourism might help?

[@CybrZone]

Turkey may help tbh.

[@p3u3g3poultree7]

2200 each tooth to get implants. They are good for 25 years. If you can not afford it you have other issues.

[@cyclop41]

ORRRRR....you can make some awesome fake story out of it as a conversation starter, but then at the end tell her the honest truth and that you just wanted to chat her up to get to know her ;)

[@slartibartfast2452]

We all started off hard core blue pilled. Otherwise we couldn't have been red pilled.

[@mentainment6134]

Focus on getting better eat better , go to the Gym , find a hobby , read books do anything but chase women .. let them chase you .. cause in the end if you waste your time obsessing over women your just setting your self up for failure..

[@Amctothemoon]

Amen

[@manfrombritain6816]

i do all this stuff but women dont chase me cos i dont have the right look. sooo...

[@ThorMaximus]

Hang out with guys, friends, and have fun. When you’re shit is together & having fun, they are attracted to you.

[@beetleything1864]

Treat 'em mean - keep them keen.

[@avatar19822]

I've been mean to girls and they go oh you're too mean and stop talking to me afterwards. Funny because I thought girls liked being treated like crap

[@briancooper6608]

@@avatar19822 it only works after you give them "great sex"

[@Robbinsffxi]

If I had a Mr. Cooper in Red Pill studies (if I may call it that) back in school, I'd be off to the races a long time ago. Instead, school held me back and wasted my time, my youth! I think lots of guys wish they' had learned all this at an earlier stage in life. I'm certainly one of them. Your influence is gaining foothold in my mind, I'm changing. My understanding of how people works has given me confidence. Things seems more predictable now. Got two copies of your book. The other copy will donated to a young man.

[@KakashiHatake-xq6wx]

I’m at the gym right now I put this on my Bluetooth while working on legs. 💪🏼

[@David-qf8pr]

Its actually weird that when you DO chase excellence...the ladies come. Its almost like they know from a 6th sense. Being 30 i said f it, lost 20lbs and got the 6 pack, started my own business while still doing my day job, ect. Now when i go out they flock. I feel like they can smell the fact that i have other priorities and goals than them.

[@danbrown1344]

They're like cats. When you walk straight at them and try to hold them, they run away. But when you just mind your own business and they're around, they creep up to you.

[@ThorMaximus]

6 pack is overrated. Too much work for too little reward. By time a woman saw it, I already had him in my bedroom.

[@satamoto6488]

Or you just became more attractive objectivly after u went to the gym , and has a business = more money , don't need to be that complicated and mistical lol. I know dudes with no money shit job and no social stus that pull tail like mad 🤣🤣🤣

[@CybrZone]

he's doing well better than me, I'm 22, broke with like 1 friend. I'm not fat or anything, but struggling to build some money. Money seems to be the problem for me, as my family are broke as shit and won't be able to leave me anything at all.

[@bedadays1763]

Similar problem

[@JureJerebic]

Check out the I Will Teach You To Be Rich book, fantastic stuff

[@CybrZone]

@@JureJerebic thanks will do

[@rickc303]

Read Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

[@jasondressler563]

You're young buddy so take risks now because all you have is something to gain and nothing to lose. There is genius and magic in boldness my friend. Good luck!

[@issacmaynes3101]

This was great shit. Man, I really wish dudes in our age group had men like your self in our 20's. Thanks bro

[@mjbuisse]

I wish I had access to this type of advice when I was a young man. This is gold.

[@tonyh1345]

I’m confused why you guys care so much about women? (For Rich I understand because this is a niche/demographic for him to monetize through incels). I realize there are animalistic primal drives for companionship, sex, love etc. But if you’re depressed over the lack of women in your life then that means you’re not content on your own, and imo that should be focused on first and foremost

[@davepazz580]

That's basically what Rich said...

[@Abadon852456]

Dude you just answered yourself, biology, "focusing on yourself" and "becoming the best version of yourself" is unnatural, people used to just get together and make a family, we didn't need to do all of this, i am not against it but it IS unnatural

[@Yalbou]

@@Abadon852456 very wise and smart response. In the previous generations it wasnt so complicated to get women. In some poorer countries yoy never had to "be the best version of yourself" to get women. Basically women in west now have huge egos and expectations, and we dance to their tune begging for their attention

[@MrMushy1993]

@@Abadon852456 i don't think that's completely true. I'm sure people wanted to become better hunters/trappers, home builders, get stronger ect...

[@dre4505]

Are you discombobulated?

[@sookmahroot]

Treat em mean keep em keen ;-)

[@divinevenus7850]

I really enjoy listening to you! Thank you. Your candidness is so refreshing. Keep it up. 💪 Yellowstone is legit.

[@robertszabo1965]

Never been so early. Glad to be first here :D

[@animestarlord9021]

I'm 44 with my house paid off. Have three nice cars all paid off, great job, no debt and plenty of $ in the bank. My notch count is only one. Ladies have always turned me down saying the same exact things every time no matter the chick, no matter the age. They need a man that's highly educated, who has a really good job such as, doc, coorp manager, gov worker etc. They are also big on the six foot thing and he can't be more than three years older or younger. Plus he always has to vote blue. So I landed a trailer park chick in my 30's once. Got rid of the v card but also have no dating experience and clearly no smv. I'm 5'11' so I'm too short, fit but semi muscular also. Not the build or height any lady wants.

[@waynenikolaisen5246]

Yo! If you want to pick up woman just do this. DANCE! Woman love to dance , most men are too self conscious to dance. If your not a good dancer , take lessons. Every one night stand I have ever had has been from asking a woman to dance. It’s that easy

[@cezarypruszkowski9523]

6 women is a low notch count??! Lol. I’ve only been with my wife for 10 years. Divorced now but hey, I would love to even start dating one. I wish I had 6 lol.

[@braqmorphie6434]

there is this beautiful crush in my class...and i dont have the stomach to ask her out... coz inside i know that i am a complete loser and have like 5 failed exam in 3 semester and currently living with my parents money..... i jst dont feel like i am worthy enough for her....

[@johnnyr3340]

Just ask her to come get some food with you if she says no, that’s HER LOSS, you’ll find a better one if you keep looking around man!

[@JohnSmith-qx8ll]

Perfect thumbnail for this video. The transformation of that character (forget his name) through a long road of humiliation, pain, loss & hard lessons was one of the best parts of the show.

[@hawlikd]

You put a photo on your KZbin feed of an actor (from Brooklyn NY) who is currently on the tv show "Yellowstone". The actor's part is a beta male cowbow!

[@the100radsstalker93]

Dudes just trying to sell a book.

[@HeavyMetalRonin402]

Rich mentions "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. I can NOT recommend that book enough. ALL men should read that book, especially in their late teens to early twenties.

[@g-man2507]

Lol he sounds like he is ahead of the curve in doing the more challenging things in life and struggling with the easier things. We see that a lot. He is far, far better off being where he is now than being a broke flunkie with a 100+ notch count.

[@OnderHassan]

Lately, I’ve been seeing so many cute girls with guys who are fat and/or unattractive that i’ve come to believe that confidence doesn’t come from muscles or looks. It all stems from self-acceptance and being ok with who you are.

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

I dont care , I care my physic mental financial health first , girls come next . And if girls dont appreciate or know my worth , just leave them alone . Are those fat dudes have money and purpose ? Are those girls have money and purpose ?

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

Disrespectful girls no need time to worry about

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

They are everywhere

[@yonatan3001]

Stop putting women on a pedestal. A fact that a girl’s cute doesn’t mean shit. Maybe she’s crazy? The guy’s rich? There are too many variables for the naked eye to see. Therefore focusing on the result of two people together is stupid.

[@robertoferrari5397]

..were they driving Ferrari?

[@user-nh4tm6hh4j]

Hey Rich, Just a take on some of your oneitis comments. Imagine your a young guy you find a great gal and fall in love. As you begin your journey together she is supportive, kind and does all she can to help you with your goals. She doesn't nag at you and understands when your ambition keeps you working 60 hours a week. It's no time and you have children and she couldn't be a better mother to YOUR children. You look up and thirty years have gone by and she is still supportive and great. You've been able to chase your dream always knowing she will be there for you. Do you think a guy would have had a better life had he dumped this chick in his twenties ? I know your thinking "Dude that's one in a million" Well that's what happened to me. It can happen. That being said I tell every young guy I know check out Entrepreneurs in Cars. You hit the bulls eye most of the time. Maybe I found an old fashion gal who understood if you support your man you are supporting your family. That seems to be a thing of the past.

[@BrainWasherAttendent]

Sounds like 1 in 10 million

[@adamwarlock5286]

Congratulations you are a very very lucky man but times have changed

[@josephparra7655]

There are two things you should never chase buses and women. You will look stupid chasing both.

[@ultrahighgain412]

Rich, I needed you as a wingman 25 years ago. Made all the mistakes. Lived for all the wrong reasons. Made decisions based on fear. Only thing I can say is that I’ve never been divorced and I have no children of my own.

[@bolt9110]

I don't agree. If I had to pick one of : Affluence, Muscles or Game. I would pick Game. And you only get good with girls by..... talking to girls. Yes Money game works, yes good looking game work, but Game is better. And you will get you the type of girl you want, instead of attracting the kind that is attracted to money/muscles. Avoid the Field of Dreams trap, of "build it and they will come"

[@ThorMaximus]

I love Rich’s mindset of not approaching women when you’re not ready. It’s like training for a title match in boxing. You’re gonna lose if you haven’t prepared for the fight.

[@xoukilong]

I read this once and kept it in my repertoire.. "fluttering butterflies are hard to catch, work on your garden and many will come to you"

[@troytanner1693]

How about the strip clubs instead

[@xoukilong]

@@troytanner1693 STD's is gameover

[@troytanner1693]

@@xoukilong the exotic dancers are way hotter though, only chance to be with perfect tens

[@beavischrist5]

i spray them with pesticides, so you can pick them up.

[@xoukilong]

@@beavischrist5 that reminds me of a pickup Iine i use... "does this rag smell like chloroform?"... They fall into my arms every time!

[@chriswilson1383]

Love your videos. I wish someone had broken down this stuff for me 20 years ago!

[@vladusa]

It's not about finding hot women, it's about finding the hot women that are already attracted to you.

[@joseph-the-seventh]

I’m 41 and this video had some relevant advice. Trust me, guys will prioritize chasing women well past their 20’s, most likely to their own detriment. It’s a huge distraction.

[@TS-es5xu]

Try a sexual thought cleanse. No sexual thoughts, feelings, notions for 3 days. then 1 week then 2 weeks n so on. You will transform your mind. As it says in the Jewish Talmud " control your dragon, or it WILL control you".

[@cphp1034]

Started watching your videos recently and liked what I been seeing Just purchased your book and Looking forward to reading it, when it arrives. Brad

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Hope you enjoy it! Leave a review on Amazon when done.

[@derboy3363]

No Bullshit, this is a true question. There were 3 people who didnt know each other who had asked trough the last 2 years how it is that im so confident, and i always respond that im not confident i just dont care. Is that confidence or is this some kind of bitterness i wonder?

[@danbrown1344]

I relate to this. Through grade school, I was very hypersensitive to other people's opinion of me so I was reluctant to be assertive. Then, I had some bad experiences that I allowed to happen to me because of that lacking. So, I didn't necessarily start thinking more of myself, I just started getting more and more apathetic about other people's opinions of me. Like a laborer's hands becoming developing calluses, I got numb to offending other people when I wanted to speak out. I was also supposed that for every 1 person that thought I was a dick, I had at least five more who respected me for my newfound assertiveness and I like that ratio.

[@derboy3363]

@@danbrown1344 interesting, I would say I was hypersensitive as well and got numb than

[@siegfriedo]

I stopped chasing women and chase Playstation 5 now. Is that a sign of progress?

[@PaulRockey]

6 is low notch count? I’m 38, and my notch count is 1. Lol.

[@scootypuffjr.]

L-O-S-E-R, lol

[@seanbeebe8095]

I’m a crisis worker and use both alpha and beta skills. Kinda have to take charge and be non threatening at the same time. Women like talking to me because I navigate emotions well, but it’s a quick trip to the friend zone. Doesn’t bother me at the moment because I’m not ready for the drama. Sometimes women hold me in contempt when I demonstrate my emotional depth. Doesn’t bother me one bit, but I do recognize the need to man up when the time comes. I’m in no hurry, I’ve been through a lot and my career is bringing me to high value status. I attract and reject alpha females, and there’s no forgiveness there. My emotional side protects me from manipulation, I can beat them at their own game.

[@nickpeluso7511]

First mistake. Why are you approaching them? They should be approaching you. Work on yourself. Better clothes, haircut, workout. Smile, be social. Just goof around with girls. Everyone likes to laugh and smile. That's just to start.

[@saif9amar417]

If you don't approach them they will approach you...

[@rf3899]

Yellowstone is a great show! Just ordered your book on Amazon. Thanks for what you are doing brother!

[@scorpnz4433]

Talk to the checkout operators of super markets. Hell man you can talk to random fellow patrons at supermarts. Working retail or in person customer service is the best way imo to loose the shyness of talking to girls. One thing to always keep in mind treat all women the same whether you think they're good looking or not, skinny or not

[@submit56789]

No fap is just an extension of discipline and not putting the tail on a pedestal. It's great for many things including longevity.

[@TarkMcCoy]

R&D = Rip off and duplicate I'm stealin' that!!!

[@universalg_]

Rip off and duplicate. That one made me chuckle

[@slartibartfast2452]

That's the thing about talking to women. If you approach and they want to talk to you, there's no struggle in keeping conversation going. Try, but don't try hard, as that's just transparent and elevating her. She's just some chick, no more, no less.

[@iknowbest5034]

I'm not a big sceptic but I think it's not the best advice you gave him there. If you have to act like a bad boy to get a woman then you will have a crappy woman who likes bad boys. Is it really that bad in America that you can't find normal girl who doesn't like cars, cash and all that loud "alfa" type people?

[@derkvaider6756]

So as I look around the narcissist capital of the US. (Vegas) Seems I have to rate myself a 5. 50yo, 9-muscle, 8-game, 2-bank. Blue pilled my ex and basically zeroed out. I have a business that I will get paid 100k over the next 3 months. Have some ideas to level up and invest. Seems bank holds more weight than anything.

[@sdws17]

Well, there's knowing what to do... and then there's knowing how to convince yourself to do it. The second part can be a bit of a mystery...

[@peanutgallery4159]

You are absolutely correct! My time was different, last of boomers, with my 1st wife since 12 yrs. Old, believed soulmate bs, divorced at 32! To this day best friends, after I never chased a chick every girlfriend sex partner chased me

[@Gonzo_Bubb]

Buy my book, then 13:07 Love you but c'mon man.

[@ToyotaTuned]

my wife's boyfriend says I'm not allowed to watch your videos anymore :(

[@DPMusicStudio]

Lot of good advice in here… but I especially loved how he ended the video. TAKE ACTION. Just start approaching and talking. 1000 times. You’ll get bored of it. Then you’re in the zone.

[@mauntaxthelegend3188]

FIND WHAT YOU WANT!DO WHAT YOU WANT! ACHIEVE WHAT YOU WANT! You will feel the power and reliev in your life.

[@stevec3526]

Dude, if you have confidence you really are NOT concerned what she thinks. Be a great guy and not a damned wimp. Women do not respect men who are too agreeable. Read Dr Glover’s book.

[@wandersonfcastro]

Of all the influencers in this subject I like Rich the best, his demeanor is beyond reproach yet his message is what every father should be teaching his kids. Chase excellence? Do not be defined by women? Become the best version of yourself? Level up every area in your life you can control? I dare you to find any flaws with these teachings. We MEN have been unappreciated without true representation for too long. Rich is doing humanity a great service with his content.

[@luxither7354]

Most guys pretty much know how to flirt. They're just too scared to flirt. ARC's mode one is amazing to shed shitty mindsets, as Rich says, and become better with women. One area I do disagree with rich on is dedicating time to women. Yes, women shouldn't be your focus, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't dedicate time to it. Like how you would set time for a hobby, set time to approach, and that's what women should be: a hobby.

[@kekeivopatzschke4879]

Nice jacket 🧥 👍🏼 the secret to happiness: stop comparing yourself with others, improve yourself, best version, greetings from Germany 🇩🇪

[@js100serch]

I've watched a couple of this guy's videos and they all come down to "buy my book". I mean it's ok, guess we have to buy the book to get this guy's real advice and thoughts on the subject, he won't give it away on youtube. I just hope that book doesn't ask me to buy another book or pay for an online course.

[@sst6416]

His book is 15 pages and after you read it and still have questions, he will scold you for having questions and order you to read hia book again. This guy is a farce.

[@manfrombritain6816]

congrats you found the manosphere grift. "buy this soap, change your outfit, read my book - you'll get the pussy you always wanted!" thing is though most of the guys DO give legit advice

[@jimihob143]

The book is well worth the price and yes he does cover most of the topics in his videos, highly recommend it !

[@LIVdaBrand]

I’ve found that it’s important to take your time with women. They like to keep things moving-I saw this in a red pilled talk. You have lots of time-they don’t. Eventually all their ego issues become their achilles heel when they hit the wall.

[@thevanman4498]

Pretty simple really, Richard teaches you young pups the right things. At work saw lady worth talking to. My workload and purpose filled my weeks so I didn’t sweat it. After about 6 months i started getting a handle on things and could start looking at freeing up a bit of time to take a closer look. She gave me lots of signals, but i stayed on my purpose until a couple of weeks ago. I casually from a position of plenty said that maybe we should get a coffee some time. Today she came up to me gave me a little note with my name and her number folded inside. She asked me to either text or phone. I said i will do either in a day or two. So now the fun begins. She is smart as a pin and shared so much with me in our little conversation. Going to go hiking this weekend and have me some fun!

[@russellfrederick6973]

What's the status Now? $he loving ya?

[@thevanman4498]

@@russellfrederick6973 things going great Russel. Turns out she is traditional. Loves cooking and caring for people and as a nurse enjoys people and treating health issues. We both enjoy gardening, walking and interesting discussion. Over a year into our relationship and it feels very comfortable and we respect each other’s space living in our own homes and balancing our free time.

[@otbjh7870]

Yellowstone is a great series. I'm about as old as Costner so I dont put up with all that dating nonsense anymore.

[@Nevirate]

Isn’t that Jaime from Yellowstone on the thumbnail? Because his character in that show basically sums him up in this video.

[@isaiahjames93]

Thank you so much for these videos mate!! We need a masculine figurehead leading the charge, who has been through the ups & downs of life. Your videos are reassuring in these strange times. Much love from Australia 💯

[@dolanSWEG]

you do whatever and dont follow anyones bullshit as long as youre happy

[@user-sl4ul4nc3t]

You'll ignore red/yellow/orange flags.. don't do it.

[@kenmaller2456]

That’s why they sent jimmy out to the 4sixes !!! To become a man .

[@patrickkolk9794]

The guy in the email sounds a lot like me, this video came at a good time. Thanks.

[@michaelmagic5669]

I struggle with anxiety and it’s kept me from obtaining the one thing missing from my life. I end up dating losers and train wrecks and am so over it. Been seeing a therapist for 2 plus years and it’s slightly better.

[@Josh-fp2qn]

I am 35. Low self esteem, low confidence, and social anxiety disorder all my life. Life is hell. Dating is impossible. I can't move things along with a woman to date her.

[@user-sl4ul4nc3t]

Jimmy.. thats an unfortunate look alike.

[@kellzndacut]

im 21 broke with no money lost, dont gaf about females but still dont know how to implement your videos smh

[@bryanr9082]

Just ordered your book Brother.

[@broadchavez2303]

Today i realized that my confidence is shallow because i started losing hair and all the women I've been with before complemented tf out of my hair so I'm kinda losing it

[@broadchavez2303]

NVM i still look good

[@Mrxplosiongaming]

First comment. Already know it’s gonna be a good video.

[@betserv.1187]

Wow! you know the tricks, man.

[@davidlindsay131]

How much is it to sponsor a video anyway?

[@michaelsoler2621]

These letters you get are WAAAY too Looong.

[@jamesedwards1528]

The three f rule find them f!@# them forget them

[@4ws0m0]

Paraphrased from David Deida's book, The Way of the Superior Man- masculine purpose is "to know where you are, where you want to be, and what you need to do to get there. If you don’t know one of these, then you need to discover it by any means necessary."

[@monterey356]

Do you ever not plug your book ? 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️... it’s not the bible pal

[@henriquetenso]

NOFAP is actually useful for people trying to stop watching porn, which can be a bad habit to have...

[@andrewmontgomery8428]

Like them, but don’t love them

[@danielsosa5145]

I would love to see you and Todd Valentine site down and just talk. If you don’t know him he was part of RSD and was a top coach there. He moved on and has starting his own branding. I mention this because you have brought up RSD in past videos. I believe you would appreciate his style of approaching women and the mind frame it comes with. Also, he has very unique approach to his teaching method. It’s funny to say but he comes off very intellectual in his method of teaching how to approach women. First time ever invested in such a post lol but Todd the real deal. I had the pleasure of doing the immersion program in Vegas for close to two months. Principles I’ve take from that back in 2013ish of approaching are same principles I use when networking in my business. Very happy I ran into your channel, refreshing content. Eager to read your book as well. Many blessings 🤟🏽

[@sqlb3rn]

I have been having good practice chatting up cashiers. We have to talk to each other, so it's easy to be like "you new here?" and go from there.

[@David-eu1ms]

If you have expendable income you can have a nice gf, otherwise you are just asking for trouble.

[@jjames6554]

When comes to dealing with women, Lead, Lead, Lead. Initiating contact, setting the date, the interaction letting her do 80% of the talking while you be a mystery to her, in the bedroom. Women don’t want to be responsible for anything. So be the Leader. Never chase, only lead.

[@samuelboateng6829]

I need help with know how to make money

[@tigerjin6086]

I don't know. I think it's best to take these letters at face value unless you have a good reason not to. What would a letter look like from a guy who has money and everything he wants except girls? Both you and Apex Mindset have been talking lately about rich celebrities who only lack game. This guy might only lack game inspite of having money figured out.