How Men Can Be Seen By Women WITHOUT Simpin'

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[@hardeez1]

Disabling comments on your videos is weak Rich. What are you scared of?

[@anoopmohite961]

Hello Sir, what about the Hight? What if one has good career, savings, additional income but not tall e.g 5 feet 5 inch tall?

[@sloppyjoe400]

Don't ever worry about "winning a woman back"... have some self respect.

[@Joe_Dirt82]

I pissed off a hottie. Didn't wanna deal with her so ignored her. She came crawlin back apologizin. I'll put up with her til she flips her shit again, but so far so good.

[@Gaara7809]

Exactly my brother!

[@h2oboi531]

Always remember when she left you, she had no respect for you.

[@Gaara7809]

@@h2oboi531 Exactly, so many smart man here!

[@panserspikes6011]

Oh I have falled for that trap in my younger days. Not good

[@anti-narc1343]

Hit the gym Follow your purpose Make money Stop simping Don't put women on pedestal

[@Levi-1992]

Say less.

[@georgebutler7850]

This 100%.

[@everydayfun9531]

F agree here!

[@birdo623]

Eat food

[@porgyjr.7737]

As simple as that

[@malone4735]

“If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.” -Albert Einstein

[@selfiekroos1777]

Albert was a low key player actually

[@VinceFS]

Einstein understood that real power is internal and not external.

[@pulsar01z]

@@selfiekroos1777 lmao. yeah he was a trumpet and piano player.

[@joeybang1000]

Only a super player would marry his cousin 🤣

[@your.dark.lord.]

did he say that? not doubting it, just curious. I read that Einstein had an arrangement with his wife, she had to turn a blind eye to his numerous affairs with students. Einstein was very chad.

[@annatar6453]

Top 30 RP quotes 1. Alpha bangs, beta bucks 2. She’s not yours, its just your turn 3. She doesn’t love you; she loves what you can provide 4. Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally 5. If she cheats, she belongs to the streets 6. Men care about a woman’s past, women care about a man’s future 7. If you couldn’t have her in her prime, don’t accept her in her decline 8. Women are born with value; men must create theirs 9. Men age like wine, women age like milk 10. Why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free? 11. Marriage is an insurance policy to protect women from the depreciating value 12. It is foolish to sign a contract that rewards the person who breaks it 13. Single mom’s aren’t looking for love, they are looking for help 14. Single mom’s are for recreational use only 15. Marrying a single mom is like paying full price for a used car 16. The Wall takes no prisoners 17. There is no such thing as love, only leverage 18. Men lead, women follow 19. A woman cannot serve two masters 20. You will lose money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money 21. Women wait in the finish line and bang the winners 22. A King can marry a peasant. A queen won’t look a peasant’s way 23. Treat her like a queen and she will treat you like a peasant 24. Who ever cares the least in the relationship, has all the power 25. Women need attention like a plant needs sunlight 26. Women would rather share a high value Man than be saddled with a faithful loser 27. Make up is war paint 28. Whatever she says her body count is, multiply it by 3 29. Men are romantics pretending to be realists, women are realists pretending to be romantics 30. Women are sex objects to men & men are success objects to women

[@stub4488]

Can't wrap my head around #29

[@kendiesel8]

Nailed it!

[@briansorensen5969]

@@stub4488 It is because men love idealistically and women love opportunistically. Evolutionary biology at its finest.

[@stub4488]

@@briansorensen5969 Thanks!

[@TikPizza]

31. Women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas

[@mrleomich]

I absolutely agree, that a a woman that dumps you has no respect, admiration, or desire for you. I’ve been there, and I took her back, married her, she cheated on me for 10 years. I either had no clue or believed her “higher than thou” lies. We divorced. It took me 3 years to recover, until I found the red pill.

[@mrleomich]

RUN, FOREST!

[@mmaslav6176]

She cheated on you for 10 years! How is that even possible lol.

[@goshochernii]

@@mmaslav6176 not funny.

[@loubentodias]

Hey bro, what matters is that you found the right path. Keeo going!

[@carljohnson6264]

Glad you made it brother. I’m still stuck in paralyzed mode.

[@josepherwin5122]

I’m currently in the process of ignoring a woman who is trying to ’win’ me back. My life no longer has a reverse gear. “That’s not going to happen.” is apparently not computing. It’s sad to watch.

[@hyedefinition1080]

Good point. Only way she can have you back is if she can reverse time and undo her mistakes lol

[@drewchorlton342]

@@hyedefinition1080 I grew up going to church and learned from Jesus how I should forgive one another. The only problem is when I keep giving chances to people who are clearly abusing me. What wasn’t taught me as a child was having good boundaries and self respect. Had to learn that lesson the hard way unfortunately. But God brought me through it.

[@Chonstantin]

You should ignore her because you got better things to do, not because you want to ignore her.

[@shtfvan8084]

@@drewchorlton342 forgiving someone doesn't mean you're bound to them. Forgive them, but move on.

[@lathamrowe]

Tell her straight my man. Only get one time around that we all know of. Its a solid to you both.

[@VoiceOfThe]

I’m finding NOT having Instagram is making me stand out. Girls become very curious when you say you’re not on it.

[@smilodon92]

Lol. Me too. Sometimes not having social media accounts does make you stand out. But unfortunately, many surface level women or people in general, will think "oh he got nothing going for himself, that's why he doesn't have IG" or whatever

[@VoiceOfThe]

@@smilodon92 I totally get why it can work for some men. Personally, I’m just not the type of guy who feels the need, nor desires to display my life across a social media platform. Not my style. I’ve nothing to prove to anyone, besides I don’t want everybody knowing my business. An interesting story for you… met a girl online, she asked if I had it, said I didn’t. Wouldn’t shut up about why didn’t I have an account. I mocked her. Got her on a video call instead. A few weeks later she ended up driving over 2 hours to visit me at my place at the first time of meeting her. You don’t need game if she likes what she sees enough and you can string more than a few words together. I was almost 48 & she was 31, if that matters.

[@l-train7876]

I don’t have an IG and I don’t want a guy that’s into social media either.

[@DBUP-l8h]

@@VoiceOfThe This, I've never had to try much with women. Comes down to personality from my experience. Not 6 foot either and still never had trouble with that. I honestly think the whole 6 foot thing is some kinda blackpilling operation to further put a divide between the sexes. Women have gotten much worse since I was younger with social media and current "liberation" culture. Harder to find a decent women to wife up, but rather being focused on that crap, men these days should be more into making their lives good. Never settle for less, only take the best and keep kicking ass. WE GON RULE THE WORLD BROS!

[@livestock9722]

If a woman is building you up in her mind via social media, sure as ship(t) when you slip up and get lazy while you're together (and she consequently doesn't have to work to figure out your mysterious side), she'll be back on that game with someone else. Genuine burning desire is displayed by constant interest, not fleeting interest that social media panders to. Easiest way to weed out low quality = no social media.

[@Son-of-Krypton]

The more you chase women… The more women take you for granted… So Chase your passion and excellence… Women will chase you 😎

[@PkatsOG]

Bloody hell man, just came back from my 9 hour shift and was thinking to skip my training today, fuck that I will go to Train right now, it's all about excellence!!

[@zzospreyzz55]

This is so oddly true.

[@garypelled6243]

I dunno if I agree with the basic premise women chase you simply because u chase excellence. They'll never SEE your excellence OR even see YOU if u r dating online. That being said, chase excellence for yourself sure. I know a bunch of millionaires that can't even get women to reply online and forget meeting hot younger women in person. Maybe where Rich lives, not here in LA

[@rbfarrell1]

And if she does not chase you. You have the money for a garden tool. Take away sex and women are not much use to a man in a relationship.

[@everydayfun9531]

Don't chase women let woman chase you what a neat sentence bruh 💯.

[@puffypopify]

Lift. Eat good food. Make good cash. Drive a cool fast car. Don’t give a fuck what people think of you. Live a peaceful & interesting life. Simple as.

[@andersstroem8310]

Driving a fast fast car is a not the simple choice. People drive a fast car to show certain thinks and to create an image of themselves, which means they do give a fuck

[@Senorzilchnzero]

Dont forget to ask yourself a very tough question. Why are you doing all those things? If youre doing them to get attention of a woman, then youre lying to yourself when you say "im doing this for me". Something i struggle with

[@h2oboi531]

Preach it

[@ThorMaximus]

Fuck the fast car.

[@Evanderj]

As a man, if you can experience owning a supercar, experience it.

[@almaghnatees]

From personal experience, the moment you stop looking they start seeing.

[@livestock9722]

I have empirical evidence to support this phenomenon as well.

[@samrapheal1828]

Correctamondo.

[@michaelbanks2401]

I second everything that's being said here, focus on yourself and stop giving a F about women, and for some reason it will rain

[@nostalgicgamer9619]

This channel is by far one of the best channels for male development!

[@ethanoptimized]

I'm so grateful my younger self got into these communities at the age I did. Only had to get f'd over by my first girlfriend to learn a LOT of lessons from men like yourself Rich rather than needing several years of personal trial and error. To all my brothas reading this stuff really does work all the mantras of ' sacrificing comfort and focusing on yourself' make dating so much easier later on🤝

[@adam84657]

I agree with the premise of your comment. However, if you need to date women, always put on the red pill glasses and watch red flags. Women are after a man's resources. Proceed with caution.

[@GraveRave]

💯🔥

[@jackquentin1950]

I'm 25, just got off a 4-year relationship and now I'm here. I think I'm a little late but better now than 10 years later.

[@ethanoptimized]

@@jackquentin1950 100% agree better now than later. Plenty of guys get in only after a divorce with kids and everything so we're the lucky ones bro!

[@justinjohnson8373]

How’d you get fucked over?

[@daviddixon2209]

Not giving a shit was the key that unlocked permanent happiness for me. That and realizing that other people cannot make me happy; happiness comes from within oneself.

[@CEWIII9873]

I agree. Have your sh it together, and do not give a f uck is a great life

[@sportsfisher9677]

Rich is spot on, as usual. Social proof is smart too.

[@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels]

*Health:* enough sleep, balanced diet, exercise daily. *Wealth:* maximize your earnings, save, and invest. *Wellbeing:* relax, pursue passions. Enjoy your own company and that of good friends. That's my top 9. Women are no. 10.

[@terkelalgevind529]

Elimination pricessed carbs, same with; salt, fats. Eat fermenteret foods, easy to make as garnish to resterende beneficial biome. Stop stressing out, kortisol incr visceral fat to. All disease stems from the Gut. Human cells in the whole body is vastly outnumbered. Feed the beneficial community bacteria, yo become the govenor.

[@Buildingexcellence11]

If your real world self doesn’t match your online self, then it doesn’t matter. Meet women in the real world where it matters.

[@DBUP-l8h]

THIS! So much better getting to know people in the real world. Easier to gage attraction and you get an idea of what you be getting off the get go. Online dating is shid and too much work. Easier to deal with women in person, seeing each others personalities first hand and stuff. Easier to build a bond too than over text on a screen. Technology has been a blessing and massive curse for society.

[@livestock9722]

@@DBUP-l8h Yes! I've concluded that the worst of the worst seem to float around the virtual dating pool.

[@georgesontag2192]

Tom Cruise is not boring but he cannot stay married. I think women get bored with their man no matter who he is. It might take years, but they still want different.

[@williamhermann6635]

Tom Cruise might not be a good example. Hes known to be a raging lunatic.

[@Andy-vy9vf]

“Women fall in love when they do things for us not the other way around” omg this is gold! So simple le lega y and yet compelling! Always have to keep that in mind. That’s y u want to start asking women from early days of dating to do things for you to see how compliant she is and how likes she (or capable in general) to fall in love with u

[@udditsachdev1148]

The only time you are trying to win her back is when you don't have options and don't hold a high opinion of yourself Loved this

[@alanscott8067]

Be aware what ppl think always about you but do not own it as truth or internalize it! When your own ideas and opinions of yourself become louder and more defined then the ppl around you your well on the path of self mastery.

[@Imagineitwrite123]

I came to this channel bcuz i saw things in my relationship that had me questioning things, a new relationship at the time, just to realize that my woman is great. Ya there have been a couple red flags but after talking the issues out we are good. There were things she had questions on also. Talking about things that are uncomfortable sometimes and seeing things from each others eyes and understanding their outlook is huge My woman cooks, cleans, makes an honest living. She isn’t afraid to get her hands dirty, farm girl, and when i was down and out for a short time she was right there to lift me up. Ya she has flaws and so dont i. We have a lot of things in common, important things, but also have different passions. But are relationship isn’t perfect and everyday we have worked together to make it better. The most important thing i find is that we both hold one belief. We dont need each other to survive in this world but we want to be in each others lives and be there for each other. Ya i still watch these videos to show support Be true to ur self and the rest hopefully falls in line.

[@nomaam5736]

Facts, been with my girl 12 years, married for 4. She’s feminine, great body, works hard, pays her way, cooks and cleans, even mows the lawn lol. We’ve built a good life together. No she’s not perfect or a unicorn. RP content has made me realize she’s pretty damn uncommon though. Also made me realize all of my mistakes in retrospect. Moving forward with this knowledge is 🔑

[@StariYTube1]

Blahhhh you add nothing of value .. your a w0m3n

[@tperceval]

Great comment man. Out of interest, did your woman have daddy issues? I find so many women have at least some. Ideally they have a good relationship with father who was there for them. But sadly, a lot of men were not there for their children. I think this is starting to shift now, and fathers are becoming better. But men are to blame here. There have been a lot of bad male role models in recent decades.

[@freeman37]

Exactly. Don't chase. Attract.

[@ZaccheusMukahiwa]

Your dedication to your purpose is paramount and optimising your SMV will yield more options. A man with options and standards has no need for validation or approval from females.

[@dpstrial]

Unfortunately, most men define themselves by having a woman on their arm.

[@ZaccheusMukahiwa]

@@dpstrial That’s a sad truth but I believe as more men become red pill aware this will change

[@dpstrial]

@@ZaccheusMukahiwa I am not certain it will change that much. What the pandemic taught me is that most people are stupid and will blindly follow the mainstream narrative.

[@ZaccheusMukahiwa]

@@dpstrial You’re right, there will always be those who are not ready or even want to be unplugged from society’s social constructs. However the red pill is saving lives at a growing rate, change is happening. The same way you and I searched for answers and found them, so will other men.

[@dpstrial]

@@ZaccheusMukahiwa I would like more young men to be red-pilled before the event, so to speak, not after the train wreck. It's a slow process, but the Internet is definitely helping.

[@brianscott3503]

Men that get “caught in their feelings” will almost always get played...Women don't respect men that act & feel like women...if she knows that you can walk away at any time she will not try that BS...but unfortunately most men are weak when it comes to women 💯

[@padrinozerocool]

Take JD for example. And Will Smith as well. Both fall in love and see what happen to them.

[@brianscott3503]

@@padrinozerocool Exactly

[@dmlueders]

There’s a point that I think flies over all men’s heads because we extremely rarely ever see this. A real woman will do something for you and enjoy watching you being happy from whatever that is. My wife will make me something to eat that she’s excited about making and will wait to see my enjoyment from it. IF you find a woman that receives pleasure from making you happy, that’s a good indication of a keeper. Not the end all be all but if you ever get the opportunity to have a woman like that, it will amaze you.

[@terriseverson3873]

Best insight to a loving woman ever. Now with grown sons and their family's I still get no greater joy than the opportunities I have to give my time, meals, and Gramma time. Create a secure environment for a woman to make herself vulnerable enough to share what she has to offer and it's a win win.

[@porgyjr.7737]

Love Rich, straight to it, my man! Rich said, there's no winning her back.

[@spaceork6973]

Rich has entered his Steve Jobs phase, I dig it

[@lucylou4973]

Must be cold up in Canada 🤣

[@Savage_Thinker]

Fucking right lol

[@gentlemenlab5603]

at least hes no wearing the "wife beater" tank tops anymore...

[@Erick-di9gm]

Just hope he sees a doctor if he gets cancer.

[@everydayfun9531]

He Innovated the R-PHONE 😂.

[@arturorocha1047]

Ignore her and stay on your purpose it’s really that simple. Keep these woman guessing your next move guys!

[@supgizmo5021]

Disagree completely with the insta social proof. Everyone is desperate to get likes on various social platforms. Unless it's your business account, get off media and live in the moment. Women have always acted very favorably when they can't find me on these platforms like 99% of the losers they meet. It's rare to meet people who don't fall into the social media trap.

[@Erick-di9gm]

Facts.

[@tperceval]

Well said buddy. Social media can really be a total waste of time. All ego and images of past moments. Live in the real world!

[@theharshtruth8563]

I agree about getting women to do "simple tasks" for you early to see if she's worthy of your time. In the past, I've only found out on birthdays that she expects to be queen for a day on hers but on your birthday, it's "it's just another day". Every man should put a woman through a lite "shit test" early so you can save yourself a lot of headaches later.

[@anchorsaweigh9893]

Chase Excellence NOT Women. Do things that you love to do. If your having fun the rest will fall into place.

[@Rakyr]

I think the best thing that hits the nail on the head for all of these things is having a KZbin account. Think about it, these you tubers travel, meet other famous youtubers, they have a decent instagram following and they choose photos that depict an epic life. So perhaps that is the way to hit multiple areas effectively.

[@TokyoRake]

This way your best video I’ve encountered. 💪🏼

[@ALNAKSHBANDI]

"A man then, must stand erect. Not be held erect by others" Marcus aurelius, stoic philosopher and Roman Emperor. Think of this quote everytime you crave validation from others.

[@georgesontag2192]

I lost my house, land, savings.... everything in family court. I cannot change the past for me but I can help young men. Signing the state contract is just dangerous and their is no benefit to the man. It eliminates sex , not guarantee it. Look out for yourself and tell any women that wants marriage that you will when she hits 75 years old. You want to know if she plans on leaving or staying.

[@sophieartmusic]

Marriage only guarantees government control on your assets. don’t get married, you’re just giving away your control to the government. love & romance is over rated. Not sure why people focus so much on trying to be so valuable to someone else.

[@jasonrocksvegas]

Life is cruel and unfair to most men. If your young and handsome or wealthy and high status you'll attract lots of women. If your ugly, too old or poor you wont.

[@jons1992]

Having a higher view of yourself is called self confidence. You need to work on that self confidence before ever getting involved with another woman. Focus on improving yourself and learning to have that self confidence that Rich talks about. Giving zero effs and using the effs you do give sparingly.

[@AlexCWill]

Rich can you make a video on how to be that “red pilled gentleman”. I know it’s easy for lots of guys to misinterpret your advice and just become assholes which neither benefits them or their life.

[@k.alipardhan6957]

13:00 summary 1. RP aware 2. Look good 1.6 golden ratio 3. Top earner 4. Status 5. Game 6. Frame 6. Dont be boring

[@llineedsadragstrip4089]

Rich as always excellent content.... Keep up the good work. I've learned a lot from your channel and navigating The dangerous Waters of dating and women that are not mentally stable......

[@zacharymchenry1272]

its nice to feel the rewards of knowledge, this group is in fact that

[@chrism4008]

I dont want to be watched while enjoying my mcflurries, but you do you brother!

[@LatimusChadimus]

Emitting msculine energy without looking as if ij the hunt for a woman sure helps

[@GLDn1]

And turn down sex a few times. Drives em' nuts that you can't be led around be your wrong head.

[@maxpainmedia]

The golden ratio is truly mind blowing how it can literally apply to everything in life even your physique.. 1.62 shoulder to waist.. wow i will remember that always as my weight fluctuates alot

[@Highinsight7]

really great teacher... straight forward... easy to understand... and to the point... and told in way EVERYONE can understand!

[@PURGE-3000]

Men. dont live by illusions that women truly love you. better to let them go early than later. dont ignore the red flags and if your the only one initating then your just a pass by to her. she needs to match your vibes.

[@nic867]

She dumped me, stayed in contact. Told me I was her love of her life. She said she has no more respect for me. That she knew I was trying to get other girls but they wouldn't want me. I still tried to get her back but now realise it made everything worse

[@droy9559]

I disagree with you on Instagram being public ;some people are just more private and some of us have stalkers or crazy ex-wives and we don’t wanna share certain aspects of our life with toxic people

[@blair5475]

True, that's why I put my account on private

[@Holypikemanz]

Either double your income or "remain broke" Says Rich Cooper

[@stephenfloyd315]

Thank you, somehow, this video also made it to me today, which I needed greatly!.

[@lakshanperera9735]

this guy spitting truth, thank you for content

[@AG-io5wr]

Solid and valuable information worth adhering to. Cheers.

[@dougackerman4182]

Awesome video Rich

[@MrShakNasti]

Thanks Rich for another great video

[@herbigp]

Good reminder for me right now!

[@StockTraderClassLive]

Awesome content, we should be teaching this in 1st grade, because I remember in first grade my teacher was trying to find faults in the way I learn lol.

[@karlbrown4635]

Be a leader in your industry

[@LatimusChadimus]

Last I looked it is 14.5% if men in the United States are 6ft tall or taller, and roughly 9% of all men in the North American continent, which puts the average height between 5 ft 8 and 5 ft 9

[@hyedefinition1080]

They want the 666, she devils haha

[@LatimusChadimus]

@@hyedefinition1080 double lol 666666

[@rebel8211]

6.3 feet ✔ 6 figure salary ✔ 6 inch fun ✔ Where are all the girls 😄

[@LatimusChadimus]

@@rebel8211 put a picture on your profile and drop your address here haha then just wait a day or two 🙃🙃

[@ytsur549]

I love your content brother. I wish I would've found you sooner.

[@Szarko32c]

Standing desk? I like it.

[@johnsmithiii6472]

I was in a very similar situation to this guy. Despite me doing everything to try and "prove" myself, she still walked all over me. The key is to definitely pursue purpose and chase excellence. I'm not even worried about not having chics right now. I'm striving to get to a place Rich talks about. You must become happy with yourself before you can expect a chic to see your value.

[@mminniear984]

I denied this kind of advice for years. Didn’t make sense asked on what you typically hear. But when you apply these skills correctly, they work very well. Even for guy who aren’t very good looking.

[@fernandogalicia2565]

Keep up the good work rich 👍 👍

[@Lessk69]

I completely get all this stuff. The part I can never wrap my head around is how to make money. I'm 6'5'' and good looking, when I actively go to the gym I look great. I get looks from women when I'm out in public. No game at all, divorcing after 16 years right now so I can acknowledge and learn about that. But the money part escapes me. I barely pursued a career but that's not even really the best method. Having your own business and side income is the ticket. Got nothing on that....

[@RK-db4oq]

Become a plumber or finish carpenter, and eventually own your own business>

[@Lessk69]

@@RK-db4oq You can make a lot of money in the trades but they are not interesting careers to women when you first start dating and you talk about what kind of work you do. Women want to be able to brag to their friends about who they landed. "He's a plumber (owner or not)." doesn't inspire the jealousy they desire from their friends.

[@RK-db4oq]

@@Lessk69 You are trying to impress the wrong kind of woman. Just stop--there is never any long term joy in it.

[@Lessk69]

@@RK-db4oq I'm not trying to impress them. I'm saying that's what will happen to most people. I have no interest in that type myself either. But I would like to make the money to afford the international travel I enjoy so much.

[@fishin4bogey]

Yep.....took an Ex back. Bad idea. Bought her a ring, fiddled around trying to wife her up. Thankfully she ended it not really wanting to be married. Now 13 years later she's 45 with a 14 year old, still living with her parents, and her boyfriend that she hates.

[@DBUP-l8h]

Sounds like a wonderful life she has lel. You didn't lose out on much.

[@timothymckay5594]

Rich ,I bought your book, seen your videos, now any advice for a 70YO trying to connect with women my age? How about a video

[@nephilimshammer9567]

I have given up on women. And because I dont care they never say hi because men need to do all the work. Im bored and done with games and chasing women.

[@srhenderson]

it's the man's job to do all the work, what ever that work is. the man that complains that he has to do all the work has got some bitch in him. to expect, and even trust a woman to do it is ridiculous.

[@steverapos3904]

Sorry for going off topic Rich but that scam video you published recently was just f***en amazing - great job!

[@kranerwheatens]

In my 50's now and after a 30 year marriage... TOO much headache to be in a relationship... I tend to concentrate on other things. I might reconsider in 30 or 40 years. lol

[@57054]

After 50, you find more interest in hobbies ie, craft beer, cycling or motorcycle, bbq and grilling etc.

[@joevaccaro6655]

Getting over oneitis gives you a double feeling of happiness and anger. You are happy that you are free and living a more fulfilling life and you are angry because you wish you did it sooner.

[@AZrakoon]

Rich, the mcflurry is not a good test. She could say the ice cream machine is busted, and that does happen all the time, fries would be more feasible....lol

[@manuelrocha9477]

Thank you Rich, it never occured to me to make a woman invest in me. I always was the one who invested 100% on a relationship and lost every time, and women walked away with a smile on their faces. But not anymore. Blessings.

[@mahonrimartins1767]

The fact that this guy wrote a long ass email book about it means he is not a high value man.

[@57054]

Never expect to be on the receiving end when being married, NEVER!

[@hsk8787]

Thr problem is him. He values the girl higher than himself hence over investing.

[@Thus_said]

The world has been starved of masculine blessing and affirmation. The gentleman who made this request sought after an elder's blessing and affirmation that his progress is tremendous and should continue. Thanks for not demonizing his request and affirming that he is well and should keep things simple.

[@ChrisRamirezOnline]

It’s working Rich 😅 They crave my attention and seek it. I give 0 attention and they validation seek

[@matthewkuligowski2238]

Just focus on being a better version of you’re self, The rest will come

[@Kteeee]

Damn I didn’t know Steve Jobs grew his beard out and got on the carnivore diet. Props to u Steve

[@j.borchard2208]

I reinvented myself in June of 2020. Career wise no because I love what I do! That’ I think is critical for any man to succeed in life in my opinion. I moved to a Very Rural county in Southern Nevada from the Northern Socialist State of California that’s 100 square miles larger than the State of Massachusetts and only 6K people live there. I bought the tallest house in this little valley that you can see It up to 4 miles away. I’m not saying this to brag but I think Men if they are not happy in their lives just simply need to “CHANGE IT UP A BIT” whether you’re single or in a relationship or just dating. It’s done wonders for my mental health esp. at 3600 feet And only 2500 amazing folks in this Valley as compared to living in the SF East bay(Martinez) the last 10 years and having to deal with awful Political and Social behaviors that are associated with that State. Good subject Rich!

[@michaeldost8155]

Sounds like a dream, Brother. I cannot wait to experience similar things in my life once my hard work has paid off!

[@mariog3326]

Even if she caters to you, you need to be careful. She can do all the nice things for you and it still can be fake just to take your money because they all have an agenda for their own self.

[@PartTimeBallroomDancing]

thanks for sharing. this helps.

[@GLDn1]

HA. Don't worry about it. They're already looking and gossiping to each other.

[@HellenicWolf]

More or less do what you can to improve yourself, and make sure to market that the right way

[@samsmusichub]

Good advice.

[@tiberiusmorris4401]

Great video

[@damionjackson1743]

This is a really good video thank you.

[@ethanhitchcock5431]

I wear thrift store used designer clothes , Calvin Klein underwear etc... it makes me feel ' wealthy & successful '.

[@jong5156]

Winning a woman back is like tunneling back into shawshank.

[@timothykangethe7700]

😂 Great 🎬 🎇

[@Ejr82u]

I dunno all I see is marriages and relationships failing like crazy either ur poor mid class or rich nothing is working. Money and status brings women cool but it doesn't last because it's artificial. It's a big mess lol

[@ogad84]

Better to find a woman that doesn't work and has the same ideologies like the many. Look at them, they rather say yes to their boss than to their husband.

[@briansorensen5969]

It is an interesting change to be with a new plate and I wake up on the second date to find her missing. She is up at 4am washing the dinner dishes to surprise me. Date 4, movies and chill, I offer to let her use my washer and dryer (since I won't be using it until a later date) and she insists on doing my laundry too. Surprises me with gifts, etc. The genuine desire is something that can not be equaled. In fact, we were spending the weekend together and she had a grooming errand and kind of threw in a sh*t test into the mix. When she walked in and I was just finishing up a load of laundry, she asked, "what are you doing." "I thought it was time to do a load of my laundry." The panic and squirrel cage activation was an interesting thing to watch.

[@briansorensen5969]

@@meghanbenson6837 If she has ever had a ONS, first date, or 2nd date hook up, she no longer has the right to put it off without it being a stupid game that will win stupid prizes. She can do what she wants, but wasting my time playing baby games is not something I have to accept. If she is not attracted in that way, then that is cool too, no harm, no foul. For myself, if I don't detect the genuine desire on the first date, there will not be a second date. I won't press sex on the first if I think she might be relationship material as my nod to the past, to give her a plausible deniability pass, and to allow me a chance to vet her. When things get physical, it is her responsibility to stand out from the crowd and to influence her place in the rotation and how many are in the rotation. If she is fun, brings benefit into my world, while not disturbing the peace, then I am grateful and we reward each other accordingly.

[@iammaximus614]

….. keep your distance 📲

[@JV-mv3se]

Funny how this guy hasn’t made a video about Kevin samuels yet.

[@gilvan295]

He says I need to become a top 10% earner. I guess I'm screwed lol

[@readingthebible5413]

Yeah, I’m not sure about that. I’ve heard countless women say they don’t like the bodybuilder look but yet bodybuilders don’t have any shortage of women giving them attention. Even the women who’ve I heard say that have gone after bodybuilders. Now maybe it’s the subconscious recognition that bodybuilding takes loads of commitment and work and women like that. Maybe that’s some of it. But overall, don’t fall for it gents, I’m not saying look like Mr. Olympia, but don’t be afraid to get as big as you feasibly can.

[@srhenderson]

he never said become a bodybuilder. that's just what you heard.

[@petertensuda1192]

They will tell you they don't want a bodybuilder while they are with one. Just saying.

[@LatimusChadimus]

I'm 5 ft 6, well-built and well-dressed, I also have a very approachable personality and I do not have issues getting women. Maybe with online dating because of my height but other than that I have no issue, and I rarely use the dating apps because they aren't for dating as much as they are for other things.. I also do not make six figures every year and having been born blonde hair blue-eyed, I am predisposed to having sensitive skin and sensitive eyes, and even when I was a teenager, skinny as a railing with lots of acne, I still didn't have trouble getting girls, because a lot of the time you need personality but since I spent a lot of years working on my physique, my health, my personality, and my appearance, I would wrap myself an 8.5 while also being in agreement with what others say that it is better to be with a pleasant 7 than a contentious 9. 100%. 100%. When Rich tells you to do the work, DO THE WORK. I figured that out many years ago long before I even heard of the Red Pill community.

[@nothing9271]

what's up bro the thing is attraction is not just looks is also how you act around women doesn't matter if you are tall or good looking if you are annoying or a coward for not approaching them you're not getting laid

[@LatimusChadimus]

@@nothing9271 good thing I can read typonese but yes, looks&wealth might attract, but to keep them around, or to progress further: game&frame

[@LeadLeftLeon]

Height overrated. Physique and style tells your story

[@Yarmox]

@@LeadLeftLeon its not. Look at that jail lady threw her whole life away for an otherwise ugly guy but he was 6’9. If he was 5’8 he wouldve been just another inmate to her.

[@LeadLeftLeon]

@@Yarmox 6'9 damn. She musta been a height queen. My point is height isn't the end all be all. Different females care about different things: face, clothes, muscles, height, etc

[@garbajful]

Social media is a complete and utter waste of time unless you're making money with it(business)...Almost any woman you find on Instagram is just going to be rotation material, not for ltr.

[@seanmoray881]

rolo tomassi is such a life saver for this guy cuz all he says is in that guy's book.

[@TheThingIs415]

Does Rich even get girls? Doubt it

[@jwlove66]

I had a girl argue that I was really only 6 feet and not 6'1 ..... so dumb. (I get measured every year for a fitness test).