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@claudeyaz2 жыл бұрын
Do people really pay 80 dollars a min? Like no hate. I am just very curious. I wonder what sorts of places you can speak at, where the protesters don't ruin it all.
@catra195 Жыл бұрын
You'll pee in a public urinal but you won't take it home for your personal bathroom. It's as easy as looking at a public restroom and a private
@jasonlee8156 Жыл бұрын
@@hiqhduke I hung around with guys who would have disagreed with that one. A high interest in sex was considered normal. If you had no interest in sex or getting laid you were looked upon as a queer. These were the Don Juans and playboy types, or that's what they fancied themselves as.
@adad-ec6ht Жыл бұрын
I like sluts and prostitutes though, but not as my wife.
@SouLoveReal Жыл бұрын
Chlamydia, MUCH like Herpes, NEVER leaves the body. Whether during outbreaks, between outbreaks, or in long-term (even a couple of years) "remission," it is THERE. It is NOT as harmful in the long run as HIV, but it remains permanently.
@axq38372 жыл бұрын
"Men have to create value, women have to preserve their value" - Rich Cooper
@theoneaboveall67682 жыл бұрын
@@jameslave98 in 2022 man as no value in the world. He gets value if he succeeds in school , excel at work , in business, etc… compare to a woman doesn’t have to go to school , can stay home doing no work, nothing all she as to do is be pretty and she will be under someone arm who does something most of the time someone wit ressources because she knows she pretty. I mean you smart you know exactly what this guy meant don’t act smarter we don’t need to start yadi yadi y’a about men bring value in strength bla bla bla. You know damn well what we are talking about. We all understand
@gunsandcommissions2 жыл бұрын
@@jameslave98 Fair points, but how is what you said in contrast to this talking point? Real men will judge women based on everything discussed by Rich in this video. All of which are about a woman who pisses away her value and then wants to be judged like she didn't. Or, even worse, judged as if she still has the same value as she did when she was 21 and hadn't pissed away her best years riding the cock carousel.
@samrapheal18282 жыл бұрын
@@jameslave98 Seek professional mental health help for your cranial rectal inversion. Stat✔✔
@knowledge_driven2 жыл бұрын
@@gunsandcommissions do y'all think women should study philosophy to become powerful thinkers in society?
@gunsandcommissions2 жыл бұрын
@@knowledge_driven Not sure what point you’re trying to make with that question, but they can do whatever they want to do. Whether the world listens or cares about what they say and do is a different matter. The video was a response to a clueless woman who thinks that bragging about her body count and stds puts her in a moral position where she can question men who aren’t impressed with her lack of humility and self awareness. If this is what she thinks makes her valuable to quality men with options, then she can be the greatest philosopher in the world and she’s still not going to have any value to quality men with the option of being with a woman who isn’t a great philosopher, but isn’t a clueless, used up, egomaniac.
@innocentrage12 жыл бұрын
100 men? Imagine if she used that energy and time to do something constructive with her life.
@samrapheal18282 жыл бұрын
Jesus will return first 🎯
@Freedom-Fighter12 жыл бұрын
Yeah like build something and be productive
@vincentharris7909 Жыл бұрын
Not much energy required to lie down and spread eagle for 100’s of men
@altom4295 Жыл бұрын
it takes no energy for her..if any she sucks energy from him..
@howtobe_rich Жыл бұрын
Totally!! Imagine how much better she could have been as a partner if she spent her time off social media and instead working on her femininity, submissiveness, and taking accountability.
@gregcurnett1632 жыл бұрын
I belong to a Facebook group. A large number of the women in this group are proud of the fact that they have a high body count and get rabidly mad when anyone questions them on it. America is in a sad state where it comes to our women.
@flowerpt2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like that group is a waste of your limited time.
@neoreign2 жыл бұрын
Yeah Greg but this is happening because men haven't realized there's a whole word you can find a wife in. My uncle married a chinese woman and he's super happy.
@billcooper67392 жыл бұрын
Exactly.. had an older woman tell me she's slept with every guy she wanted to, knew that was a lie because she's always been over weight and even if it were true she's clueless to think that's a bragging point.
@socrabate2 жыл бұрын
A woman being proud of promiscuity is like spoiled child being proud of eating too much. There's nothing glorious about that, easy access, lower value. -"But, but, why are men not judged for having lots of experiences??" -Well, why is it not easy for men to acquire those experiences as it is for women??
@gregcurnett1632 жыл бұрын
@@flowerpt no it’s actually rather good. It serves as a reminder of the mindset of women who are single in my area.
@MrFastFarmer2 жыл бұрын
When I asked my son why he hasn’t got a girlfriend, he said “I can’t find a virgin”
@therightisright82762 жыл бұрын
Good kid but the sad reality now is he would have to search elementary schools. He must accept he may not find one.
@omarrocha-rodriguez21682 жыл бұрын
Sad reality
@sandeepr1253 Жыл бұрын
What happened to your son's mother?
@MrFastFarmer Жыл бұрын
@@sandeepr1253 no idea what that means, but she's fine.
@AmanSingh0699 Жыл бұрын
@@sandeepr1253 bro! What? 😂
@robthebomb9 Жыл бұрын
I starting dating a girl last year. At that time, I was 22 and she was 23. After a few months of being together, body count came up in discussion. She pridefully stated she had sex with 22 dudes. That was the first time being in a situation where my partner had a relatively high count. Things just didn't feel right after I found that out and I had to end things within a couple weeks after finding that out
@markusk2289 Жыл бұрын
I don’t get the pride about it. I also don‘t think it is something a guy can be proud of. All it means is that one gives it away for free basically. Women seem to think a high body count guy gets cheered on by other guys - that is not what happens in most circles, maybe among a bunch of Chads, but not in general.
@Mark-eh1gt Жыл бұрын
If she said 22 the reality is probably 50+
@innavision1920 Жыл бұрын
That’s a high count for 23, and likely she rounded down. Good onya I would have done the same. These women don’t know how to value and respect the act of sex it’s just recreational activity for them
@HenrySomeone Жыл бұрын
@@Mark-eh1gt Well, maybe not if she said it full of pride. In which case 50 would have been even "cooler" and she would have stated it.
@whizkid235 Жыл бұрын
Bro my ex told me that she’s slept with AT LEAST 80-90 guys, probably more. She said it so nonchalant like she had no idea and it didn’t matter at all. We were 26 at the time and apparently all those guys were during a total of a 2 year period (non consecutive) between ages of 19-26. I say non consecutive because she was in a 1 year relationship, then “a few” 2-3 month relationships, then a 3 year relationship. Bro I was disgusted. She kept giving me shit for not being okay with it and shaming her but honestly I blame myself till this day for staying with her for almost another year after finding that out.
@scrambler3502 жыл бұрын
Men don't want an "experienced" wife, they want to give their wife those experiences.
@ronh18502 жыл бұрын
Damn, you can't say it any better than that. It is sooooo true.
@jasonlee8156 Жыл бұрын
Maybe some men do.
@michaelbarker6460 Жыл бұрын
Yeah most men don't care. At all. I feel like there's all kinds of lies and bad beliefs on the feminist side but this is one of them on the other side. Men don't care how many sexual partners a women has. Women deeply care because it means "they're easy" but those are feelings they have on their own and will continue to have. A lot of variables go into attraction but once a man is attracted to a woman knowing how many partners she's had isn't going to stop that attraction. It's fun to say because "we have principles" but nah, it's a lie.
@ronh1850 Жыл бұрын
@@michaelbarker6460 you would marry a woman with an extensive sexual past? You're playing with fire my man. I know of many who got cheated on extensively. A couple paternity fraud cases. Former 304s or party girl types will always feel that itch, or just get bored. It's just a matter of time before "hot girls" need attention. That need for validation ebbs and flows but never goes away. Very risky.
@shanequigley7552 Жыл бұрын
Well Said Sir
@Imhotep3972 жыл бұрын
The problem is that it takes “ZERO EFFORT” for a woman to sleep with 100 men…the effort for a man (that’s not famous) is almost Herculean. (Edit) To add here…In no way was I intending to say that men should pursue sleeping with 100+ women, all the same potential physical jeopardy, health risks, self-inflicted pain you judge women for STILL EXISTS FOR YOU. THE CRITICAL POINT IS THAT THESOCIAL WEIGHT OF ENGAGEMENT ON AN INDIVIDUAL’S PSYCHE IS NIGHT AND DAY for men and women in regard to this.
@pumpedupbro42002 жыл бұрын
I agree
@brianwaller73832 жыл бұрын
Yep if you’re average looking you’re going to struggle no amount of game is going to change that, it might increase your count 5-10% that’s it
@TheZooBrooksAB2 жыл бұрын
@@brianwaller7383 not true. I'm average and I've slayed hundreds of dragons.
@brianwaller73832 жыл бұрын
@@TheZooBrooksAB stop the cap 🧢
@Delimon0072 жыл бұрын
@@TheZooBrooksAB Dude, that means you're not average. Bro, I'm still a virgin and I generally have 6-8s come after me, sometimes even a 9 once in a blue moon. If I wanted to smash and dash, I 100% could have. I can tell that I'm above average in terms of my personality and looks based on the women that come after me and what I could actually get. I didn't smash because I actually value myself a bit and I don't feel like getting an STD.
@ryanbarry49162 жыл бұрын
She is prideful of her past, it protects her from her emotional hurt and emptiness. Anybody who refuses to grow emotionally wont make a good parent.
@tdrive3982 жыл бұрын
"She is prideful of her past." Anyone (*especially* a female) who is proud of purposefully cheapening and degrading themselves, all while doing something literally any adult human can do (it's not like she cured cancer or anything...) and using other people... is not someone to take seriously or allow into your life. Definitely not worth investing your resources into.
@your_royal_highness Жыл бұрын
Definite lack of insight along with a strong dose of self-delusion
I'm so tired of hearing people use the term "exploring" to justify their behavior. It doesn't erase what you do, actions have consequences. I'm waiting to hear it used as a defense in court. "Your honor I was just exploring my murderous side". "Oh okay, you're free to go then".
@puppylove37812 жыл бұрын
"Your honor, I was just out exploring with Ted Bundy and Charles Manson! I swear it was no big thing when we were doing whatever and killed the guy, honest!
@Bluzian74 Жыл бұрын
Oh, it's already happening. The crown attorneys, duty counsels, and judges are all women now. And they're all in collusion with each other. (speaking from experience).
@janmolekula3900 Жыл бұрын
I was just exploring my neighbor's house and his TV and stereo.
@pandemicneetbux2110 Жыл бұрын
A lot of things came about during the admission of divorce, right after WWII. That's when shit hit the fan, and it was the Beat generation including that pedophile Allen Ginsburg that helped set society on the path to destruction. Fuck I hate Keruoac, God that guy was, maybe not an outright hack, but he wasn't a great writer. It was the start of the self indulgent white people generation(s) that would eventually become the sheer godless perversity that is zoomers and millenials. And it's afflicting both sides, btw before anyone starts some horseshit about politics, you're part of the problem. The literally nation wrecking terrorist Trumptards and dildo fascist eunuchs or whatever you'd call modern progressives are both to blame, and they have their roots ultimately in soft core nihilism like post modernism and critical theory, which erases the distinction between fact and opinion, and calls all things relative, and does so in service to the self and therefore service to the ego and to modern desires, hedonism, greed, lust for power over other people, indolence, deceit, apathy, "nothing is true and everything is permitted." And that ball that really got rolling with the beats then got amplified by the freaks, aka "hippies" who would in turn be these planet wrecking viagra popping retards insisting climate change isn't real while still trying to maintain the same self serving horseshit they did when they were young, serving their own craven desires trying to act like doing narcotics was "mind expansion" or rampant fornicating was "free love." You know that's the most outrageous thing too, and why I can't fucking stand these rainbow flag wavers calling it "love" no, no it is fucking not, barebacking your fifth dude this month is NOT love, it is the OPPOSITE of love. These people don't know what loving relationships with other people even are, and so they state these insipid things like "polyamory" (which never works, it's always going to default to pair relationships like it's been for the past hundred thousand years with us only they're too chickenshit to call it what it is, which is unfaithfulness and being too big a pussy to outright end it) 100% of which are again the Service-To-Self Satanic paradigms of eternal self indulgence like a Slaaneshi cultist. THAT'S why I hate those "love" flags so damn much, it's acting like pure unadulterated lust is like love, which is funny when "I'm into sex I ain't into makin love" or "fuck the pain away" are some of the lyrics to songs they fill the heads of the youth, but it's like everything with them, complete cognitive dissonance and utter disregard for the concept of fact or truth, so liek the gender shit they'll first try to make an artificial distinction between "gender" and "sex" (gender=sex) and so then they can start attacking the gender roles part, and then parade some poor little boy on the Today Show because "he liked wearing his sister's dresses so clearly he's a girl" and finally start saying such psychotic nonsense as "there's no such thing as biological sex." I think it's hilarious watching the trumptard phenomenon because this thing really just became the Republican version of applying every single cancerous toxic thing that's inherent to Progressivism onto these alleged "conservatives" and fully radicalizing them into Stalinists. When you talk to one of them, the boomers, it becomes painfully clear how outrageously damaged they all are, spiritually and mentally, and how much the males are incapable of logic and basically think entirely in the logic of their own emotions overlayed on whatever narrative is convenient for them and their feefees at that time, while not even recognizing they're doing and believing the stupidest shit to satiate their emotions, not for logic or fact. The same is true of liberals, and I definitely mean American white people. It's the saddest thing to me, watching how they gradually destroyed the black community over this last century, until there's so much modern women there too and shitty manbabies but at the same time, it's become clear to me why the Satanic path is to shoot up black churches, because the average black American still thinks about Jesus; the average white American does not. And even if they did, they'd just turn it into more godless political "alternative facts" and not even read Scripture nor ever apply it in their lives.
@wisdom121withmichaelgrima3 Жыл бұрын
Make no mistake about it as it is as bad as murder by divine law.
@goodtalker Жыл бұрын
My wife and I went through 4 weeks of pre-marital counseling and the topic of promiscuity, abortions, and sex in general was front and center. She lied, lied, lied but then came clean after we got married. We were married for a long time, and I guess you could say things were alright.....but it was always like a skunk had shown up to a beautiful gathering and the stench never quite left. Thanks for reading.
@Cameroonian Жыл бұрын
You mean ex wife?
@goodtalker Жыл бұрын
@@Cameroonian Yes, I eventually did divorce her. I think that Rich is correct--and I hope I am not putting words in his mouth--but promiscuous women are either twisted in the head because of promiscuity, or, promiscuity makes their head twisted. Thanks for reading.
@stunningbeaute1037 Жыл бұрын
If you don't mind me asking, you divorced her because it turned out she had a high body count? Or you couldn't deeply bond with her? You mentioned the fact that promiscuity messes up women's head... how so?
@goodtalker Жыл бұрын
@@stunningbeaute1037 IMHO I eventually divorced her because she really could not ever tell the truth--about anything that was important. I eventually read a very good book, "People of The Lie" by M. Scott Peck, MD. Changed how I view dishonest people and what they are up to. Thanks for reading.
@davewhitehead5116 Жыл бұрын
I had a different experience. When we got engaged my wife said, “I won’t ask about your sex life if you don’t ask about mine.” I knew then she had had more sex than with the bf she admitted to. I was well into double digits so I agreed. She was and is absolutely committed to our marriage. Over the years I learned she and a girl friend spent her 2nd year in college going to bars, getting drunk and hooking up. I never pressed her for more information: but one morning she stated that during that year, “I was loose. Very loose. Very, very loose.” I’m pretty sure her body count maybe tripled mine. After that year she ended her loose ways. When I came along after her 5th and final year, she wouldn’t sleep with me on our first date. That was 45 years ago.
@Johnboy63462 жыл бұрын
My ex had a very promiscuous past... Including an abortion paid for by her then bf who she cheated on and said the baby was his... It wasn't. What disgusted me most about her past was if we'd be out together and some guy she knew would say hello to her I instantly assumed he had smashed her..9 Out of 10 times I was always right, I just couldn't shake the feeling these guys who saw me with her either were laughing at me for dating a woman they got for free in her party days or they felt sorry for me for being with a woman who had been with half the guys in our hometown.
@skennedy2042 жыл бұрын
And you signed up for that???
@IHateLife132 жыл бұрын
If you have a KZbin channel or social media platform. It would be beneficial for other men to hear your thoughts on this subject. Especially young men in their teens and twenties. Your experiences can go a long way in helping guys.
@Johnboy63462 жыл бұрын
@@skennedy204 try to keep in mind It was a 2 year relationship where I found out small bits of information over time, I didn't know all this going in. And I knew nothing about the red pill then
@Johnboy63462 жыл бұрын
@@IHateLife13 I could actually tell so many stories from This one relationship, this relationship was what woke me up to women's true nature
@Profitglutton902 жыл бұрын
How soon after discovering her past did you break up with her?
@OrwellsHousecat2 жыл бұрын
He was "very controlling" means she wanted to control him and he resisted
@RwP2232 жыл бұрын
Can be described as "projection". Avoid these demons. I've dealt with too many as a mechanical engineer lost multiple jobs over calling them out using logic and reason, then in termination meetings I'm painted as a terrible person, there is a public depo after I sued a company for wrongful termination, if you read it you'll conclude I am a piece of shit, also I could not respond to any of the lies they told colluded against me.
@zero11882 жыл бұрын
Controlling typically means she cheated or was trying to cheat and the man saw red flags and tried to confront her. She gaslit him and said he was controlling. He backed off then she cheats
@neoreign2 жыл бұрын
BINGO, they love the reverse uno card.
@bigvic9502 жыл бұрын
Controlling means he didn’t let me be a 304
@pelagic62 жыл бұрын
Expertly described
@CyclingMartialartswithMusic2 жыл бұрын
I once dated somebody who said her last bf on their 1st MEETING they slept together. It bothered the crap out of me. I always think there are more things that she did that she didnt tell me. Glad she is gone. Womens past matter my bros.
@pandemicneetbux2110 Жыл бұрын
It's not even just about that, but about how long. Like I wouldn't even care about that, had they gotten together and STAYED together for the next 2-3 years. That's something I'd be completely ok with. I think some shit like that might make me believe in naive shit like love at first sight again. It's all about commitment. It's about the complete lack of commitment, loyalty, honesty, and trustworthiness of a person, their dependability, intelligence, planning, and basic common sense. And this really does affect men about equally too btw. Like, am I about to let some fuckboy put his dick in me that can be crawling with lice and chlamydia from the last skank he slept with. Is he dependable, honest, trustworthy and loyal? Does he have character and integrity? Is he just lying to get into my pants? It goes both ways. And I think it's gotten clear to me how unbelievably shitty the dumpster women are picking through really are, that there's guys out there trying to expect some woman to be a pure hearted virgin and not question him and meanwhile he's fucking 20 different girls. You aren't so likely to be getting what you want, and your next three marriages will fail, precisely because you don't have any standards for yourself. People that do have some kind of standard don't generally wind up with people like this unless they are very naive, very childlike, or very deeply flawed.
@caucasianafrican1435 Жыл бұрын
I never get past that point. One comment like that, and a run away too quickly.
@chrisolson842 жыл бұрын
Men aren't sitting around rationalizing why or why not they want a girl with a high body count. When I find out a girl has been around, I feel repulsed by her. That's it, its just simply in my Nature. I don't need to explain that feeling any more than I need to explain feeling hungry, or why I feel attracted to women in the first place. Nature has more experience than me, and I trust it (not that I can change it anyway). I can sit here and try to rationalize why you shouldn't feel repulsed by cockroaches, but it doesn't matter, you're still going to feel the same way about them.
@xsamitt4 ай бұрын
Very wise words!
@KateFentyАй бұрын
You feel Repulsed by Women? Date other Guys then 😂
@chrisolson84Ай бұрын
@@KateFenty Just the sloots. Gee, I wonder why you would be triggered by that?
@Petrol_Sniffa14 күн бұрын
@@KateFenty He said a girl who has been around. Believe it or not some women respect themselves and take their future commitments seriously. If you aren't attracted to a fat 5'2 pimply faced ginger I don't want to hear what I am allowed to be attracted to.
@smexyapman2 жыл бұрын
I do not want an STD, and I want her to be able to emotionally bond with me, so high body count is a no from me dawg....
@TomNook.2 жыл бұрын
The problem is, how can you tell? This is why you never marry. Don't commit to someone whose history is unknown.
@IHateLife132 жыл бұрын
Totally understand and agree with you. Unfortunately, any man that decides to date or be in a relationship in today’s society. Will end up with a promiscuous woman. It’s become the norm.
@Son-of-Krypton2 жыл бұрын
This woman is for the streets period 🙄
@neoreign2 жыл бұрын
@@TomNook. Tom, 1) Get a remote job (tons of them) and 2) If you're a white guy, move to the Philippines/Thailand but I would recommend Philippines for my white brothers. A lot of Swedish dudes are recently marrying Thai women to the point there's a discussion in Sweden about 'limiting' the number of sponsorships lol imagine that you want to limit what men can do
@mhaas2812 жыл бұрын
@@neoreign are swedish women not likable? I'm curious if they are as bad as US/UK women? When I was younger I had a very strong feeling for Asian girls , I ended up marrying a Mexican lady. Been married 27 years.
@mchevalier772 жыл бұрын
In my 20s, I had a girlfriend who had been promiscuous and had a high body count, and a kid. At least 70, according to her. She wanted an LTR and all that. But once a sl*%, always a sl*%, the behavior didn’t stop so I ended it. Women don’t change their habits just because they are in a LTR.
@samrapheal18282 жыл бұрын
Old adage: "the stripes on the animal never change."
@who_is_dis2 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who’s in an LTR with a girl who’s had 19 bodies and told him outright that he’s not her “usual type” dear god.. I tried to kind of warn the guy but he ended up brushing it off. They’re still together. I just hope she doesn’t fuck him over.
@rollinOnCode2 жыл бұрын
they become even more lax especially if men allow it.
@frustratedplayer2 жыл бұрын
@@who_is_dis unfortunately she will and it will be devastating.
@ChrisLee-yr7tz2 жыл бұрын
@@samrapheal1828 A leopard never changes its spots.
@ozzycortes2 жыл бұрын
Women are never going to understand how being promiscuous doesn't make her GF or Wife material.
@joeskeptical47622 жыл бұрын
*I disagree, almost all women understand VERY WELL, the reason women hide it.*
@ozzycortes2 жыл бұрын
@@joeskeptical4762 No reason to hide it. If they understand very well, they wouldn't be single in their late 20's or 30's making tiktoks wondering why Men won't commit.
@joeskeptical47622 жыл бұрын
@@ozzycortes *There's a HUGE reason to hide it. Revealing a larger to high body count with many hook-ups included (always the case) means no marriage and no lopsided benefits or goodies she can extract from marriage.*
@ozzycortes2 жыл бұрын
@@joeskeptical4762 Which he's going to find out about all of that sooner or later which is the reason not to hide it. She might as well confront herself which most Women don't do. It's her problem and she shouldn't be investing in hook ups in the first place. Plus Men are starting to wake up and realize that marriage in the West is bad deal and doesn't benefit them at all.
@gunsandcommissions2 жыл бұрын
Whether subconsciously, or consciously knowing and being in denial to protect her ego, she most definitely does. She's clearly projecting it in her email. See @Ryan Barry comment above.
@DJ_Mooseknucks2 жыл бұрын
Women like that can make a man's gut twist up in discomfort in the wee early mornings when you wake up before your girl and you're just kinda looking at her thinking about life
@brandonpetersen57102 жыл бұрын
When I was younger this thought never really occurred to me. I was always absolutely disgusted by a woman who cheats on their partner because my mother was unfaithful and it completely destroyed what was quite a healthy, happy and financially secure household. My Dad is one of the best men I know, he is an absolute catch. He built us a home, provided three children (myself one of them), and just generally added so much security and order to the household. Couldn't have asked for more right? My mother cheated on him when I was 10, I found out through the loud yelling and screaming I heard at 2 am when Dad got home early from work and caught her. My youngest brother was only 1.5 years old. Next week we sat around a table and discussed there would be a divorce happening and poor 10 year old me had to learn the hard way what consequences it would have on my childhood and future. It destroyed my life, my Dads life, and my Mums. I can't imagine where life would have taken us if that never happened. Just a sad, sad, waste. Anyway, I always had a distrust of women since then, so when ever I encountered them and started dating, the idea of being cheated on just sent absolute chills down my spine. But I was living with fairytale hope in complete naivety that these things actually were common. Again, I found that out the hard way as well. I took a girls virginity when I was 16, and so was she. We were together for 2.5 years and I thought she was the one. But she cheated on me. Stupid me took her back & guess what, it happened again, except this time it was an online relationship she was having with a guy I used to play ONLINE GAMES with. The shock horror on her face when i mentioned that I knew him well was priceless. He was a bro as well and was so sincere apologetic that he was exchanging nude photos with somebody he didn't know was my partner. He blocked her on all social media and we are still good mates to this day. We both have gone completely Redpill. As a young guy a woman's body count never concerns you because you often associate another person's experience to be similar to yours. In my case I was 17, had one sexual partner and assumed everyone's number was similar or the same. How couldn't it be? As I got older though and continued dating, I encountered more and more woman with progressively higher body counts that my own. Let's say mine is 10. Each of those girls 1: I was dating 2: Wasn't one night stand 3: I remember very very well 4: I pursued a future with all of them as best as I could. But then I meet other woman, now in my mid-20s. And they throw out numbers like 45-50. They can't recall their names, they dated about 8 out of those 45-50, and on multiple occasions it was at a party when they had just met. I just can't relate to this. More so, it is gross. Deep down within my soul I feel an immediate sense of dread when I'm with a girl and learn she's "been around a lot". It's almost like an internally wired system in my brain that starts sounding the alarm. "It's time to go. This one is not yours" it screams. Then without any effort, I lose interest. Sure, I still find them attractive and may even consider sex if it's on the table, but I'm certainly not putting myself in a vulnerable position around them. I always think about my experience with divorced parents & how badly it fucked up my mental health and childhood. I have fantasies about meeting a cute girl who works the late night drive thru & studies medicine, reads books and introvertly likes to spend time in her apartment watching cool shows or putting jigsaw puzzles together. But we all know that woman like this don't exist. Especially not if they're beautiful. But I wish they understood more that's what men want from them. Sex isn't such a priority as they think it is. They put themselves up to such high body counts because they're Insecure and feel like they need external validation, and want to "lock down" the the guy as soon as possible. So they fuck him. Only to be disappointed. And on to the next. Men want woman that have preserved themselves. A few partners isn't bad, but 45-50? My grandmother probably didn't even reach half that number in her whole life and she died at 89!!! Whatever happened to sex being a very intimate and explosive moment two loving couples had on special occasions? Now it's just a casual thing chick's do. I legit know a girl on my Facebook who intentionally plans every fortnight to go out on Thursdays and get hookups with her hot friends. That's literally how they function. And they're near 30 yrs old and no sign of slowing down either. Such a waste of so many potential, beautiful young wives, completely shattered by indecency. Society teaches them woman to just " go, you do you, experience your youth & have fun, off you go!" Little do they know the consequences this has on them later. And the most ironic and funny part. Most of those dudes they're fucking are 10's, not just in looks, but in other aspects. Good house, good car, good job. That didn't come from nothing. These men are self made, they've clearly been on the grind and they've worked very hard for it. But the girls have wasted 10+ years of their youth being a slut, they develop zero personality, no social skills, poor manners, and have uninspired lives. The only thing they've learned how to do is make a dude happy in the bedroom. It's simply just not enough of a reward for a self made, hard working man. He wants that cute girl at the drive thru who's gonna be loyal. He doesn't want that super exotic 10/10 chick who has 10,000 followers on her only fans.
@arifamammadli2825 Жыл бұрын
Poor man. You need to get out of America. Travel, sign up for dancing or literature classes in a foreign country. There are decent, nurturing, beautiful virgins out there in the great world. Try Russia, Belorussia, Ukraine, Azerbaijan, Central Asia. You will be amazed how much you have been missing on. In my country girls learn to be loving, dedicated, chaste wives since cradle. BY THEIR MOTHERS. American women are doomed.
@bigal3248 Жыл бұрын
So sorry about your life experience, my son has the same experience as you and I can truly relate to your dad. I found my ex was cheating after 20 years and 3 children. Knowing that she also had a long list of men in her past did not stop me from marrying her but I thought that would be left behind. Hoo boy, was I wrong. It's been 12 years since the split and I have not even considered dating again. I would rather live a celibate monk's life than to go through an unfaithful partner again. Besides, I'm trying to be that model of morality since I have full custody of my kids. But I would say stay hopeful and pray for that godly spouse the you deserve. I see good marriages appearing out of nowhere. So there's good women out there (in churches, civic groups, etc) God Bless!
@L0lLmao Жыл бұрын
@@arifamammadli2825 No, Virgins for virgins. He doesn't one especially since he's a whore.
@L0lLmao Жыл бұрын
So you sleep with women and then complain that there are no women who are chaste? and you think you deserve a chaste woman after all your antics? LMAO r3t4rded m0r0n Goodluck finding one.
@HOORAY4BOOTAY5 Жыл бұрын
@@L0lLmao Good luck finding a therapist with that English. Real mature of you. To make up a point then making fun of another, you've already exposed yourself and lost the argument. You don't break character when in an argument, you child.
@BossManSays2 жыл бұрын
They've literally fucked around and now they're finding out.
@Remember-Death2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@pilgrim422 жыл бұрын
and yet they still don't get it.
@IStayTrueToI2 жыл бұрын
🤣👌
@DTreatz Жыл бұрын
200IQ quote 😂😂😂😂
@BossManSays Жыл бұрын
@@DTreatz my job here is done.
@legate71582 жыл бұрын
The answer is simple. The no.1 trait of women we want is loyalty. Knowing she can discipline herself to stay to me and me only. We'd rather teach a woman who is not experienced than have an experienced person leave us for some chad-from-the-pub.
@rollinOnCode2 жыл бұрын
loyalty, purity, feminity, fit and friendly. men really do not ask for much. really the woman's bodycount signifies whether she respects herself and her future husband, children and family.
@CommentorX2 жыл бұрын
So a woman was supposed to be loyal to you years before she knew you existed? She's supposed to remain chaste, turning down all men until your little 4-inch Wonder Worm pops onto the scene? And then magically give it up on your 3rd date to Appleby's and Netflix? Conceited much?
@rollinOnCode2 жыл бұрын
@@CommentorX a woman bodycount shows whether she has any respect for herself, her family and her man and future children and offspring
@rollinOnCode2 жыл бұрын
@@CommentorX oh and you know what the bodycount of high schoolers and women were in 1950s? most of the women were virgins! the girls knew if they slept around then they would be properly shamed by everyone and would never be able to find a husband.
@Preciouspink2 жыл бұрын
Mostly loyalty genes didn’t carry on. Invading tribes, killed the non cooperative
@PhantomFilmAustralia2 жыл бұрын
Just know when the woman finally settles for you, she will be comparing you to the several hundred previous and will be secretly burning for any of them.
@stunn3r3122 жыл бұрын
Never thought of it that way. So damn true.
@IHateLife132 жыл бұрын
FACTS 💯
@patrickmullen29382 жыл бұрын
Not a problem if your better then all of them
@eazymethod012 жыл бұрын
@@patrickmullen2938 being better than collectively 100 people is pretty hard. Women who have 0-10 partners are far less crazy than 50+.
@Profitglutton902 жыл бұрын
@@patrickmullen2938 your dreaming. She’s formed a habit of wanting random D and no one man will satiate that desire. The saying can’t turn a 304 into a housewife is true for a reason.
@lilyblagonya6329 Жыл бұрын
I have a certain male relative that met a woman.. he was 19-20 and still a virgin. She was 24-26 (idk for sure, she lied about everything) and very promiscuous past. She even said she was drawn to him because he was so innocent and inexperienced. I think it's more of a parasite-host relationship. Well anyway, we all tried to warn him to stay away from her, he didn't. She intrigued him with all the sexual things and he married her after a few years. She's crazy. Bipolar, manipulative. Greedy. She's made him cut ties with the whole family, she never comes with him and the kid to family functions, she's even gone as far as forbidding him to come. And we have suspicions that She's cheated on him a few times. But he's deep deep in denial. Anyway the whole thing is sad, like watching a train wreck in slow motion. And he's a fairly good looking guy. She's like a 3.
@MH-et5sn Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a BPD chick. I almost got trapped in a situation like that a few years ago but I knew it would be hell so I ended it. Poor guy.
@lilyblagonya6329 Жыл бұрын
@@MH-et5sn what's BPD? Idk
@wiseonwords Жыл бұрын
She sounds like Meghan Markle.
@GreekRedpiller Жыл бұрын
@@lilyblagonya6329 Borderline Personality Disorder. Somewhat like narcissism ,stay away from them. They lovebomb you until they have you by the guts, then the disaster begins.
@chrisruth7057 Жыл бұрын
@@wiseonwordsI think it's great that she has all that extreme experience as long as she is single there absolutely nothing wrong on what she's doing & as far as old fashioned out of touch controlling men go they're all peices of 💩 = Facts
@lakelanddentalarts2 жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter why a man doesn't want to be in a relationship with a woman who was promiscuous. What the woman needs to be asking herself is why she thinks she has the right to dictate to a man what his thoughts and feelings should be, especially when she'd never put up with a man trying to dictate hers. I wouldn't want to be with the woman who wrote the question, because after she's been with 100 men, her definition of intimate-relating won't match up with mine. For me, sex is making-love and I have to be emotionally-bonded with someone to share myself at that level. If our basic definition about what sex means to us doesn't match, that's a huge level of incompatibility in a relationship. I have a right to not engage in what I feel is an incompatible relationship that will be unhealthy for me. If a woman doesn't like that, she doesn't need to be talking to me about it. She needs to be discussing her power-and-control issues with a therapist to find out why she has a double-standard about people telling each other how to think and feel.
@sethaldrich69022 жыл бұрын
High body count = more likely to cheat It's just that simple. Those are good for FWB or ONS but not for relationship. This woman sounds like she's already been pumped and dumped, she's already 31 and no one wanted to keep her around.
@Mast3rBlad3 Жыл бұрын
Is 5 a high bodycount for a 22 years old?
@Mies78 Жыл бұрын
@@Mast3rBlad3 These days thats Maria level.
@Mast3rBlad3 Жыл бұрын
@@Mies78 so its low ?
@Mies78 Жыл бұрын
@@Mast3rBlad3 imho yes
@Random_Blip Жыл бұрын
"High body count = more likely to cheat", also: she's more likely to have an STD she's more likely to turn frigid (in a monogamous relationship) she's more likely to baby-trap and/or commit paternity fraud etc, the list is long.
@brianmcg3212 жыл бұрын
“I’ve had my fun, now I’m ready for a safe and dependable guy to fund my retirement”
@Lightningslick Жыл бұрын
No thank you.
@jello7281 Жыл бұрын
Common Tinder lines. "Tired of the bar scene, looking for something serious." "Are there any good men left?" "No hook ups!" (those are the ones that will hook up). "Take me on an adventure." (translation, I'm boring and have no hobbies of my own)
@GhostSal Жыл бұрын
…and cheat on the side.
@johnbennett7407 Жыл бұрын
@@jello7281 There are plenty of good men. They are with the good women.
@DrKeith2024 Жыл бұрын
Yip, dating apps are full of women like that; merely looking for a pension/sucker!
@TomNook.2 жыл бұрын
Good grief, how can you be 30+ and still not be self aware about this?!? "I'm fortunate enough only to catch chlymadia once" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Remember-Death2 жыл бұрын
Women live in a perpetual echo-chamber, where they only hear what they *WANT* to hear.
@ssgansta-m-j-t2 жыл бұрын
Bruh
@blakecheboygan2 жыл бұрын
So gross
@Asafo872 жыл бұрын
Yea I literally busted out laughing when he read that lol
@davidlewis7172 жыл бұрын
She was fortunate it wasn't HIV!
@aliakseilapitski8992 жыл бұрын
Who knew ?! See she doesn't regret riding the carousel, she only regrets the consequences. It's always the case when you see a video from a woman "regretting' her past. She doesn't regret it. She only regrets that she can't continue doing it forever and that this has consequences for her as a newly wife material ready to settle down. No thank you. Go back to your 100+ guys and try to lock them down or she will just lie most likely.
@markwhitlock50652 жыл бұрын
Exactly. She apparently is doubling down on her lifestyle because she realizes there's nothing she can do to erase it. So rather than acknowledge the mistake and put into effect a change, she is proud of it and wants someone to be her LTR that is in the same boat as her. She is seeking validation. Same thing as all those women on Only Fans.
@davidlemaster20342 жыл бұрын
The best analogy for this is car shopping. Women hate this metaphor but it happens to be true. Say you go out shopping for a nice used sports car. You find two corvettes at a dealership. Same year, same model, similar price. Basically in the same good condition. What's the first thing you're going to look at? Of course, the miles on the odometer! One car has 13,000 miles.....the other car has 194,000 miles! Which one would you buy? The answer is obvious. Why would you ever commit yourself to the car with several owners that's been driven to death? Because it's just good common sense that the car with all the miles and 17 different owners is likely going to be much more trouble than it's worth. It's going to break down a lot. It's likely going to consentingly require some type of maintenance or repairs. A woman's past most certainly matters. ESPECIALLY if you're talking about marriage or a committed relationship. If it's just a pump and dump or a smash and dash....fine....in that case it really doesn't matter. But never commit to a woman who's has way too many miles on her.
@georgevue81752 жыл бұрын
Boston, MA - My youngest son is a sophomore in college & I asked him about girls, and he said dad I can't find a girl with a body count less than 20, that's why I am not dating anyone.
@Josh-fp2qn2 жыл бұрын
I think they all follow their friends down the road of hook ups and casual sex. They don’t have a spine to say, no thanks that’s not for me.
@LARULES100 Жыл бұрын
Tell him that's going to be really tough.Most women will lie about that when they're ready to get married and think they found the guy.Most women these days have 20 bodies before they finish high school.
@michaelcivitella911911 ай бұрын
Smart man!!
@rogerbartlet57202 жыл бұрын
A woman that had that many partners is a broken sociopath. I wouldn't say guys like that are any better.
@TheCarpTrails2 жыл бұрын
The amount of unhappy woman there will be in the next 5-10 years will be hilarious
@RealLifeFinance Жыл бұрын
A Tsunami of 40-55yr olds
@DTreatz Жыл бұрын
Unhappy, useless, homeless, desperate, and having existential crises Winter is indeed coming.
@swagmasterswag122 жыл бұрын
Imagine your body count being able to overstaff a warehouse
@InfuzeDcyphR2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@olanderdecastro522 жыл бұрын
“Hello Amazon? No worries about running the fulfillment center today, I’m bringin’ my own crew.”
@woodside4life2 жыл бұрын
When your body count can stage a union strike, that’s a problem.
@swagmasterswag122 жыл бұрын
@@woodside4life I imagined that visual it’s horrifying
@ronh18502 жыл бұрын
Bus loads is another good metric lol.
@mikerotchburns420692 жыл бұрын
Past indicates future. A man’s past of hard work indicates a future of hard work. A woman’s past of sleeping around indicates a future of sleeping around. A person’s nature can change over time, but that’s often the exception.
@aaronnathananderson42302 жыл бұрын
Well said Mike! I always tell people the greatest indicator of future performance is past performance! Nate
@Coyote-wm5op2 жыл бұрын
I’m an older millennial and it became popular to tell women “you’re perfect the way you are.” And “one day you’ll find the right guy.” when I was growing up. Do either of those phrases sound like accountability or do they sound like do whatever you want and you’ll be accepted for it? Their own mothers, teachers, and coaches told them that nonsense. I went to public school and was taught sex education. A larger neighboring town did not teach sex education and single mothers and teen moms popped up all over.
@dmytrykkara2148 Жыл бұрын
you're SPOT ON, dude; your articulation of these matters is divinely accurate
@oracleforman71892 жыл бұрын
I’ve known a girl (my crazy ex’s best friend) who slept around with a bunch of guys and got herpes back in 2016. She’s dated at least 8 different guys since then, and it amazes me that each one one of them would risk getting one of the worst possible stds just to sleep with a girl who is a 4 on a 10 scale. 🤮 It’s just goes to show how easy it is for girls to sleep around. Imagine how difficult it must be for a guy with an std to find a girl.
@theodorelaurence17902 жыл бұрын
If she got an std from sleeping around with guys, then guys are the ones that have her the std, so apparently men with stds aren’t having any difficulty getting sex. You make no sense dude. If a woman is having sex with a man, than that same man is having sex with her. You Al make it sound d like she is the only one having sex when she is with a guy. If she is with a guy than a guy is with her. You make no sense.
@mauriciolguin2 жыл бұрын
Sje never told them. Since that thing only appears once in a while those guys didn't realized, however, they could get infected. It is like the cold sores, only appears rarely, but you can infect others by sharing a glass of water.
@camels96542 жыл бұрын
@@mauriciolguin Women never tell you about STDs. If you do manage to catch one from her and confront her about it, expect to get ghosted, no apology.
@who_is_dis2 жыл бұрын
Pretty naive to think she’s telling them 😂😂😂
@ronvaughan80412 жыл бұрын
One in four American women has herpes. Remember that the next time you see four women together in the lunchroom or standing around visiting after church.
@ragnar.danneskjold2 жыл бұрын
I don't want to share a space that other men have been in. It's a turn off.
@PassionateSpirit882 жыл бұрын
One of the worst things about a promiscuous woman is if you got her pregnant because it would be sad and sacrilege to have your son or daughter be born from a woman who has been with many guys or really anyone at all.
@IHateLife132 жыл бұрын
True. But most men in our culture still don’t get it or sadly don’t care. I’m glad there are men like ourselves who understand and will continue to inform guys about the truths of female behavior.
@rokyericksonroks2 жыл бұрын
That’s the breeding pool of today. That is what bears children of tomorrow. It’s a frightening picture.
@davidlemaster20342 жыл бұрын
It always goes back to the classic line. "If a woman didn't give you her prime....why should you volunteer for her decline?"
@daveleighton46832 жыл бұрын
With every man a woman sleeps with, her oxytocin level drops and her ability to emotionally bond with her husband when she finally decides to settle down is much more difficult than a woman who limits the number of her partners. Hook ups are damaging to her final choice of partner, plus a man will see her as someone who will probably not take intimacy seriously.
@puppylove37812 жыл бұрын
There is a study way back in 2008 that definitively proves that every man who has ever even entered the vagina leaves his cells behind. Therefore, not only does a woman have sex with every partner that you did, the cells can incubate in the womb for an indefinite amount of time. This is why other people's children, even of other races. will suddenly pop up and fertilize the egg cell. The more people you've slept with as a woman, the more of those chances you take. Is it 50? 75? 100? 250 chances on the roulette wheel where every one is a loser and "chad" or "tyrone" is the winner? Angry yet?
@bigal987612 жыл бұрын
Sleeping around with multiple people makes it impossible to bond with anyone
@Mast3rBlad3 Жыл бұрын
Is 5 bodycount as a 22 years old woman a red flag ? Will she have bond issues with me ?
@krichd1 Жыл бұрын
@@Mast3rBlad3 With 5 bodycount she has 20% chance to pairbond with you.
@Mast3rBlad3 Жыл бұрын
@@krichd1 so should i leave her ??
@dale5497 Жыл бұрын
I dated a women once in her mid-twenties who had many partners and several abortions. I was always uncomfortable about her history, but the sex was good, and she was beautiful. Finding out about the abortions was the final straw, our relationship lasted less than a week after that. I later dated a woman about the same age with NO body count, who had been saving herself for her husband. We've been married now for over twenty years. The "ex" has been in and out of relationships ever since.
@mhaas2812 жыл бұрын
I'm a very rare case for modern times. Been married 27 years. My wife didn't have sex until after we married at age 27. She was raised in very close Mexican family in central Mexico.
@puppylove37812 жыл бұрын
LOL I've been on the west coast (practically Mexico for real) almost 20 years, and girls lose their virginity at age there at age 5 or 6 there. Probably has a kid at 12 or 13, and then she has a quince party at 15 to honor it on top of that. Your wife ls clearly the exception, not the rule. Most of them are still barefoot popping out 2 to 5 more kids by the age of 25 with more sanchos than you can count! Nice try, though.
@csx69102 жыл бұрын
In part, guys don't want to pay more than any man before him. When she's ready to settle down, she places 10,001 expectations on that man that she never placed on the guy that she just wanted to be railed by earlier in her life. Then there's the fact that she's likely broken emotionally and bonding is difficult, if not impossible. And, of course, STD's are a concern. Or abortion which hints at a whole other set of emotional concerns. Even more, something that's had by many men, has lower value. No one wants to take the village bicycle home to give it a paint job, new tires, a seat that isn't worn out etc. They'd rather just get a new bike.
@garybulwinkle822 жыл бұрын
Guys, never be afraid to just walk away!! Once they go crazy, doing something weird, just leave; don't look back!!!
@walterpont28822 жыл бұрын
@@garybulwinkle82 they are all fuking crazy.
@philip41932 жыл бұрын
Yep; any guy who hasn't "settled down" by his early to mid 30's (ie: has never married/been in a LTR & had kids) has probably already snorted the red pill and come to the conclusion that he is indeed "king of his own domain". The older a dude gets, the less inclined he will be to submit to the financial & emotional strain that a LTR with a 30-something woman with baby rabies will inevitably bring.
@Jabmil232 жыл бұрын
That's me. 31, no kids, never married. Came close to getting married, but thank God I changed my mind. Definitely dodged some bullets.
@stevenbrooks12432 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@cookncrook69022 жыл бұрын
37. One kid that’s 16 (almost done with child support!🎉). Never married. No way I’m dating a single mom or anyone over 30 🤣🤷♂️
@Johnboy63462 жыл бұрын
I'm 36 and women around my age are Complete Nightmares to be with... Life is much more peaceful this way, spinning plates and having fun without having to commit to any of them.
@dpstrial2 жыл бұрын
I am a bachelor at 61. I was red-pilled before the expression was coined. I could see where things were going years ago with the demise of the traditional woman. Don't get me wrong: there are still some high-quality women about, but they are snapped up in their twenties. Women still on the market after thirty present a high risk.
@MatthewStJames-pd3xy Жыл бұрын
As a newly single dad whose ex has a past so disgraceful i can barely think about it without puking in my mouth, this video really hits home and shines light on the huge mistake i made years ago by giving her a chance!
@Bthe312 Жыл бұрын
Why did you marry and reproduce with someone so repulsive? That was YOUR choice! Perhaps you should have waited to have sex with her just as you're demanding women do? Then, you would have gotten to know her and preserved your OWN dignity. A single dad is not more attractive than a single mom, and hearing a man describe the mother he chose for his wife thusly is itself - repulsive!
@MatthewStJames-pd3xy Жыл бұрын
@@Bthe312 I fully admit my poor judgement and lack of standards at the time. As for having a child with her well, let's just say she "forgot" the pill. Twice. And I never married her.
@haroon4567 Жыл бұрын
@@MatthewStJames-pd3xy I feel bad for you man.
@MatthewStJames-pd3xy Жыл бұрын
@JISHI K I was weak and I turned a blind eye. But this experience has strengthened me. I'll come out on top whereas she will always be trash.
@haroon4567 Жыл бұрын
@@MatthewStJames-pd3xy Good for you . Stay strong.
@1856outlander Жыл бұрын
I'm off put by both men and women having numerous sexual partners.
@Jasmine-qv9gq2 ай бұрын
Me too! ❤
@gumnaamaadmi0072 жыл бұрын
The sad thing is that even someone like her will probably find a guy who is desperate enough. They always do.
@ChrisLee-yr7tz2 жыл бұрын
Yep, and then they'll screw his life up.
@georgesontag21922 жыл бұрын
Divorce rate for second marriages are +70%. That is why you see old alcoholic men in the bar all day long. They fell for the marriage crap the second time to a 304.
@Rennsport-Media2 жыл бұрын
I have a very young school-age daughter. As a father, I believe it is my duty to have this kind of conversation with her at some point later in life. You speak the truth brother!!!! Thank you for the content! 🙌🏼
@PhantomFilmAustralia2 жыл бұрын
The best advice I've gotten was to place less emphasis in how beautiful your daughter is. She'll get enough of that from her mother. Instead, a father should always tell his daughter that he loves her, every day, because if she doesn't hear it from the man who truly loves her, she's going to believe it when she hears it from a guy who doesn't.
@Libertarianmobius12 жыл бұрын
From the age of 10 to 18 you must interfere with her peers. Children should always be with adults as it has been for thousands of years prior. There wasn't any kind of educational system way back the 1800s and children mostly learned everything from their adult peers. Children are not meant to be around other children. They don't know what the hell is life like in adulthood and will learn and make horrific mistakes at young age.
@novemberzed91632 жыл бұрын
Best of luck though. There's a whole societal system who's working against you in this one and nothing will please them more than to see your daughter "liberated". They are many and will stop at nothing. Better steel yourself for the nightmare that you will be fighting.
@excelself2 жыл бұрын
My kid is 13 soon to be 14. I had a talk with her about the type of women who are promiscuous not only that she has real life examples of what’s happened to those women.
@truthteller44422 жыл бұрын
Without a doubt. It’s so important for fathers to educate their daughters about things from the male perspective. Just make sure she understands how important it is to NOT be a whore, and also how important it is to be feminine. Obviously don’t be preachy about it (and word it better than that, of course), otherwise she’ll tune you out. But yea, it is so vital for fathers to maintain a great relationship with their daughters and mold these girls the right way. When this is done right, she will never want to disappoint you, which obviously means she will be set up to have a successful life. Just make sure she understands that liberal beliefs are false ones and that it’s only a path to ruination and you only have her best needs at heart.
@modrribaz16912 жыл бұрын
I don't care what they think or how they feel about it, I'm determined, disciplined and look down at those who're not.
@johnhawke31312 жыл бұрын
A lot of women would be infuriated by this video Rich. Because deep down, they know that everything you said is true. Always enjoy your no crap approach and loved the book. Greetings from Australia 👍🇦🇺
@wisdom121withmichaelgrima3 Жыл бұрын
The truth only hurts those who live a lie. I am from OZ too and read his(Rich) book within 24hours a very good read.
@ViralKiller2 жыл бұрын
It's simple really, if a woman asks 10 guys for sex, at least 8 will say yes....As a man we would have to ask 20-50 women before one would say 'yes'
@HOORAY4BOOTAY5 Жыл бұрын
Holy crap, I didn't expect to see you here, Mr. VK.
@HenrySomeone Жыл бұрын
And that's if the guy is pretty decent looking. Below average ones would need to ask more like 300, while even a flat out ugly girl would still get 2-3 out of 10.
@caps900 Жыл бұрын
Because men are more promiscuous and will sleep with almost anyone 😴
@excelself2 жыл бұрын
I call it “The sandwich theory” it’s simple: How many times does it take for someone to spit in your sandwich before you don’t want to eat it. The feeling is pretty similar as to how men feel about their woman’s body count.
@TheZooBrooksAB2 жыл бұрын
On a scale of analogies, 10 being the most apt.....I'll give this one a 3.
@Profitglutton902 жыл бұрын
@@TheZooBrooksAB I’ll give it an 8.5…
@7S5y3X.0th2 жыл бұрын
Unless you are the one who gets to spit on it and then it's somehow ok, only when other guys get some - it's bad.
@Delimon0072 жыл бұрын
@@7S5y3X.0th Uh, if you're not the one eating the sandwich it's still not okay. You do realize most men don't like chad or tyrone either right?
@mhaas2812 жыл бұрын
Dam dude that's a good one lol
@squadgeman32472 жыл бұрын
Regretfully, I've been with a lot of women. I didn't gain any worthwhile experience by being with a bunch of random women. The experience I gained was from long term relationships. I was with my first girlfriend for 7 years. I had had sex with her thousands of times. I've had several other long term relationships where I had sex with the same woman hundreds or over a thousand times. These were the learning grounds. Having sex once or a few times with a hundred different women taught me next to nothing. And the women who had had the most guys, prior to meeting me, weren't among the best lovers I've had.
@TheZooBrooksAB2 жыл бұрын
After being service by so many guys, they become dead fish.
@squadgeman32472 жыл бұрын
@@TheZooBrooksAB I think they just didn't learn. Sadly, common things are valued less. Women don't value sex, because they can get it whenever they want. They know men want it, so they hold it over our heads. They give the bare minimum effort most of the time, because they can. When you have several women on the go at the same time, it raises all of their games. That's the truth! When they see you as easily replaceable, they don't bother trying.
@mauriciolguin2 жыл бұрын
Pardon me, don't get confused by this guy young fellows. It's not to get experience but for fun. Its good to be with many woman. It is what men do. On the contrary, for a long term relationship we expect an inexperienced woman. This is life.
@samrapheal18282 жыл бұрын
@Squadgeman ~ "Correctamondo maximus." I hate to use the term "ditto" (never listened to Rush, though many i flew with did), though your synopsis mirrors my journey(s). Somewhere (unknown) i read that clinical studies of the human brain (via various computer aided imaging platforms) note that at >65 sexual partners, the brain begins to 'rewire' the pleasure center (amygdalae). I began to notice my change started at >45 women, and subsequent relationships began to shorten from months to weeks to days. No relationship for two decades now as i went through my own reconnecting/re-grounding. Also, the more 'broken, damaged' a woman was, the greater the initial sex was. The healthy (non daddy/drug issues) ones seemed "boring". I was wrong on my assessments & choices/decisions regarding women & sex😮💨 Fortunately, no ex's/children as i never married. God really did "bless" me as mucho damaged could have resulted.🤔 Btw i am not an exceptional man in any way, shape or form.
@who_is_dis2 жыл бұрын
@@mauriciolguin Yep - and it’s not a “double standard” like women will knee jerk because we’re built different and have different advantages / disadvantages- it’s a completely different game.
@Logik2252 жыл бұрын
Definitely have been with a woman with a high notch count that I overlooked and that is how she acted, proud of it and that noone could judge her for it but wanted a family at 27. And I overlooked it because she was fun, and eventually paid the price in the end. Wish I had this knowledge 10 years ago!
@Sketch_Sesh2 жыл бұрын
What was the price? Divorced graped?
@hv31152 жыл бұрын
Yes do share with us exactly what price you paid?
@shazzadhasan39702 жыл бұрын
@@hv3115 Divorce most probably.
@wmanuel57322 жыл бұрын
Wish I'd have seen this, and read your book, 25 years ago.
@spaceengineer1452 Жыл бұрын
My gf's in my 20's f^cked around on me, behind my back AND in my face. It hurt a lot. These exotic creatures who seemed so nice, but were in fact evil, selfish, lust seekers. Really messed w my head.
@damianstachelski7752 жыл бұрын
Remember that one dude who went by the name of “Personer” who thought a girl with a 200 body count didn’t matter 🤣🤣🤡
@dennisrobinson80082 жыл бұрын
how did the story play out?
@normangoldstuck81072 жыл бұрын
Every girl coming into puberty should be told the "lock and key" analogy we all know. She can then decide if this has meaning or not for herself but will have told that promiscuity is not good for men and women but definitely worse for women.
@tray644111 ай бұрын
@@Scottydoesntknow1989*A father that actually gives a fuck. You know many women that are loose WITH fathers. Im even puzzled on how tf does a women get loose while having a stable ass family and good background
@sergiogonzalesYT2 жыл бұрын
So, The Wall hit her, and "now she's serious"? Shoooooooooooooooooocking!! :)
@merhafigloti92652 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. As a woman I see both sides. But ultimately reserve yourself
@tikihutdweller5944 Жыл бұрын
Women are telling you that bedroom fun is just something you do. Like having a dinner, getting a good night's sleep, going to the movies or a day out shopping. This should show you how much it really means to them. In other words, not much. It's just another activity in life. Just something you do.
@smasherjosh50002 жыл бұрын
Virgin women can add more to their value by being polite, kind, respectful and a good cook, which is a lot of men love. A lot of women don't seem to understand that men like these types of women and not like the women in this video
@kochamboga3230 Жыл бұрын
They understand but simply don't care because it need's to take some effort. Listen what women say about make-up: "I don't do it for men". Most women think we are useless and very easy so why bother? Green/blue short hair, piercing everywhere, dress like a man...they simply don't care if we like them or not.
@smasherjosh5000 Жыл бұрын
@@kochamboga3230and a shit tattoos
@malone47352 жыл бұрын
“A woman is interested in a man's future and there's a reason why men are interested in her past. Because he wants purity and he wants innocence. That's why women are considered beauty objects.” -Rich Cooper💯
@martinskanberg28662 жыл бұрын
Yeah yeah, we get it, it's biological incentives forming a Psychology on humans. With that said it's something you have to have a relationship with, you can't just be all in on accepting your monkey brain characteristics. I wouldn't value a women that's a virigin more then someone that explored her Sexuality. That said I obviously would have all sorts of confidence issue's with this particular woman in the clip. Also the ideal partner isn't just some home trophy wife. I would like to have a partner that where interested in exploring the meaning of life with me. I know it feels like women can't connect with you on that level for alot of guys in here, but I would say it's bc you buy into this alpha gorilla wannabes (naming no names). This guy's don't date normal women, they date the most shallow clientel obviously with there Lamborghinis. The good women aren't obviously the bimbos that have spent there whole life being served compliments and what not. Fuckin hell, it's like we as a species can't live in a balanced way, we either have to go full blown retard in a matriarchal way, or full blown patriarchal way. And all this talk about the man should have the last say in a relationship? Are you fuckin for real? Equality isn't a bad thing to strive for you know? Just bc the woke Crowd are retarded doesn't negate that fact. How could you live with yourself in a relationship and be ok with always have the Last word? Fuckin Empathy man. A partner is an equal. Now come over to my podcast and argue with me if you have angry alpha Complex.
@J.J.Redick2 жыл бұрын
“wash my hands of that disgusting non sense” 🤣
@johnroberts7910 Жыл бұрын
I like this guy a lot..I hung on every word he was saying..and he’s 💯 percent correct..so true.thanks man.
@chillonfunsmart4929 Жыл бұрын
Every woman I slept with in my twenties I wanted a relationship with but none of them were interested in long term commitment. They always wanted to see if they could do better and what more options were out there. Oftentimes sleeping with someone else and then wanting to come back to me. I stopped sleeping with women because I realized they were just using me. I will only have sex with a woman who actually can demonstrate The attributes that would make a good long-term partner. Sleeping with a bunch of guys demonstrates the complete opposite. Frankly if a woman can't go 6 months without sex That's a pretty big red flag. Because I've been able to wait a whole lot longer than that despite having opportunities.
@adamorly29712 жыл бұрын
You really don't want a woman who has a high body count. You have to imagine just how much insecurity those experiences have created, and now you have to deal with ALL of it. Plus, she gave away her value to all those men without them having to "pay for it." Now, you're the one who pays. Big bill, boys.
@RANDYFRANCISMMA2 жыл бұрын
"I've only had chlamydia once and a reoccurring yeast infection.." I can't tell if Rich is getting trolled or not lmfao
@alexj18972 жыл бұрын
To be honest, what's sad is that women fall victim to this due to not being given the whole truth about how life works. Yes, they receive the message that they should be able to sleep with whomever they want whenever they want; but that messaging includes nothing about the consequences their choices will have down the road... No one tells them the part where many desirable men will be uninterested in building something long term with a woman who has a promiscuous past.
@cmair77 Жыл бұрын
Lol your reference to SATC, the reboot is "And Just Like That", lol i like to call it " and just like that your old" 🤣
@LWNightmareSheriff2 жыл бұрын
I'm not working my tail off building value in my life just to end up with used goods
@hawk51832 жыл бұрын
I watched a documentary about Pan Am Airlines and one of the stewardesses said "A different City, a different man". Since Pan Am only flew international flights you can bet she was probably referred to as "easy" and I would suspect the pilots let each other know who to call. It wasn't Ghostbusters. Yep, she had a notch count.
@craigsmith27552 жыл бұрын
So that's how EasyJet got it's name.😂😂
@rekartrustee2 жыл бұрын
Imagine eating a sandwich 100 people have handled, let alone been intimate with.. That's a hard pass thank you very much.
@Jasmine-qv9gq2 ай бұрын
I agree, and feel the same way about promiscuous men
@HOORAY4BOOTAY5 Жыл бұрын
Many women nowadays don't seem to understand, what a man wants in a female partner is her contemporary and her trust and personal value of how she sees herself.
@c.s.s.17232 жыл бұрын
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Spot on analysis of the body count conundrum. It really seems to have become the elephant in the room these days. This, consequentially, has morphed into a true point of contention for people single and over 30. There is no solution, no answer to fix this, you just need to realize where you stand and how to make intelligent decisions.
@tomasurge6145 Жыл бұрын
Problem is most people dont want to realize where they stand.. it requires a little bit of selfreflection and humbleness.
@topper19582 жыл бұрын
What’s the difference between The Statue of Liberty and Madonna? Not everyone has been inside The Statue of Liberty!
@woodlandwonders68872 жыл бұрын
No different than buying a used car. Everyone is looking for low mileage.
@craigevan96492 жыл бұрын
A man’s notch count: divide by 2. A woman’s notch count: multiple by 5.
@25-82 жыл бұрын
I don't think anyone can explain this any better to them... This is going directly to the favorites. Thanks Richard!👍
@DARRENMILLS-i6w2 ай бұрын
RICHARD ONE more thing you could add to the thought process about a high value man. *** if he’s the type of individual that is seen in the public eye on television, Internet, social media, etc. The last thing he wants is a woman standing next to him that he chose, that everyone has had.
@h2oboi5312 жыл бұрын
If the whole community knows she’ll loose and he’s the high value guy with a money and a name, it’s embarrassing if she takes in your last name.
@russellg73822 жыл бұрын
A key that opens many locks is a good key. A lock that opens for many keys is a bad lock. I say this all the time with a female friend that has a similar past and she hates it. 😂
@craigsmith27552 жыл бұрын
You could also tell her to keep her options open and her legs closed - not the other way around.😂
@Pedi98 Жыл бұрын
LMAO, We have the same saying back home too.
@SuperSymbiote1 Жыл бұрын
That makes no sense, a master key can open many locks in a mansion..so that’s worse.
@russellg7382 Жыл бұрын
@@SuperSymbiote1 you’re not getting the point. A man can sleep with many woman and not be effected in the ways she will be. I don’t know many men that find a woman being with lots of men a quality they would like. The point of the saying is a key(man) that opens many locks(sleeps with lots of woman) is a good key but a lock(woman) that opens for many keys(sleeps with lots of men) is a bad lock. Simply a master key is good a lock that opens to lots of keys won’t keep anything safe… it could be explained a million ways.
@SuperSymbiote1 Жыл бұрын
@@russellg7382 Yes we are affected in the same ways & guys are attracted by those types of women for many reasons. Such as experience and not playing games on multiple dates. That still doesn’t make sense because if that key gets into the wrong hands it’s just as bad.
@RedPillGrimReaper2 жыл бұрын
It’s pretty simple, actually. There’s no sense in paying someone for something they’ve already given away to 100 different people for free, especially if you can get something similar from someone else for free
@JackIsNotInTheBox Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for the guy who is going to financial support this woman after her youth has been used up by other dudes.
@cheecharron124411 ай бұрын
A promiscuous woman is not looking for love. She doesn't know what love is. Ever.
@Zanatos92 жыл бұрын
Men will ride the town bicycle, but no guy wants to be caught with the town bicycle as their main ride.
@mark3002 жыл бұрын
I have a theory and would love some opinions. It's always said that women with a high body count aren't able to emotionally connect. My theory is slightly different, they can emotionally connect BUT, it's in a very unhealthy way. Think about the "stalkers" you've had, they are emotionally connected with you but in a very negative way. The ones that drive past your house at all hours of the day/night for no reason, the ones that text you a hate message one day then love bomb you the next. Unfortunately you typically don't see it until you end the relationship. Then the behavior can't be controlled.
@Hechangethnot2 жыл бұрын
Interesting insight. Imo when it comes to an emotional connection, if it's unhealthy then it's a demonic soul tie. That's why they'd stalk you all day. Unhealthy soul ties arise when you pair bond with a woman who's emotionally and spiritually wounded and refuses to heal but wants you to take care of her past baggage. A true emotional connection is supposed to be genuine and is all about positivity(love,peace,joy)from that person and yourself as well.
@IHateLife132 жыл бұрын
@@Hechangethnot How are men going to emotionally bond with today’s women? When most of them are promiscuous. What are some suggestions do you think can be helpful?
@michaelewan52652 жыл бұрын
I'll add to that theory of yours... I'd suspect that a high percentage of those high body count women also have borderline personality traits. Impulsivity and poor decision making along with fear of abandonment and loss of connection coupled with decent looks equals a recipe for a triple digit count.
@Hechangethnot2 жыл бұрын
@@IHateLife13 tbh with you, most women these days are not worth the risk of commitment by men who are super aware as we are. Even in 3rd world countries with feminism spreading as it had, many women are super thots ngl. I speak from experience as I am from an African country but I am now I Canada and I see no real difference between women here in the west and most in Africa. Sure there is the .1% of women worthy of commitment with low notch count but finding them is like finding a needle in a haystack. A practical suggestion I can give if you're serious about settling down with a high quality woman is to vet her for as long as you'd like and be wary of the bait and switch game they can pull on you. On top of this, put parameters in place like a prenup just in case. No government involved as well. Truth is, a woman with Thot tendecies won't hesitate to show them down the road and as long the parameters are still in place and your frame is strong and congruent you'll have an edge nonetheless.
@blacksquid2702 жыл бұрын
@@IHateLife13 Unfortunately with the current iteration of feminism they aren't any easy answers. There is a toxicity toward men and families in general with the destructive mindset that a woman can have everything even if it's at the man's expense.
@jameshanson3759 Жыл бұрын
My sister was very promiscuous and bragged to her brothers. This was very damaging to us boys who did not need to hear such things. Lots of needless anxiety was created for us brothers.
@Michael-fc4ch Жыл бұрын
This guy is spot on reminds of a girl I once knew, not saying don't have fun but know when to not spoil yourself that goes for both sexes.
@doubleg1239 Жыл бұрын
Always good stuff, I wish there were videos like this back when I was single. so now I forward your stuff to my son and grandson.
@dmuzik37402 жыл бұрын
I think it’s going to get even uglier, tbh I think there will be some successful unions as far as good solid men and the rare virtuous women, but there’s going to be even more complexities moving forward due to the fact that alot of women in their 20s just don’t seem to care until their 30s, even with women themselves who truly regret being promiscuous who are in their 40s and 50s putting out videos on the reality of the wall through videos or just getting the message out.
@TamarPassley-f3d Жыл бұрын
Its not cool for a child to have a promiscuous mom. The embarrassment.
@HenriZwols2 жыл бұрын
"In fact I also prefer my partner to have a high sex count" Means: I'm aiming for the top of guys that every other woman also is aiming for.
@ChrisLee-yr7tz2 жыл бұрын
I think its also because she knows no other man will accept her behaviour.
@PipeFighter83 Жыл бұрын
Amen brother. You are great resource for young men trying to navigate modern American relationships.
@4eyemustsin Жыл бұрын
“I’m 28-30 now & I’m starting to imagine what it would look like if my legs were closed every now & again”.
@youngorion15242 жыл бұрын
I wonder if the woman listened past the language that said "it's her fault" Women don't understand how inherently shallow they are while simultaneously demanding men not be so. I'd be surprised if the woman asking the question in this case actually learned or thought about this instead of getting mad and blaming men.
@merinajalaya740 Жыл бұрын
Gave my virginity to a man I married I was 23 when I gave it up and when I got married. Should be single soon at 27. His choice not mine. He simply don't really understand that marriage takes hard work and there will be good times and bad. He wasn't a virgin when we met. My body count is 1 and my next husband won't be like my first. I believe I know what to watch out for now.
@erwangaillard1637Ай бұрын
I'm sorry for you you deserved better, hope you find a good husband while keeping a low body count. Just don't go into "rage mode" and waste your body on one night stands.
@jameshedrick44902 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely in the top 10-20% of guys my age and I'm finding all of this to be very true. The majority of the women who approach me for sex or a relationship I find myself rejecting simply because there are so many of them I don't want them all. A lot of the time when I turn a girl down it is because of he sexual past. If she's been with 3 guys before me that's probably a no. More than 3? Out of the question.
@emperadorzar20232 жыл бұрын
hello father, adopt me hahahaha I need 1 million dollar
@mpa8336 Жыл бұрын
For one thing, they know short term, not long term. When I hear women like this... I visited Austria, years ago, as part of a honeymoon [she went nuts, I had to divorce her for my own safety] We did the Sound of Music tour, which is nice. We saw the palace in the movie Amadeus. The von Trapp house in the movie had a front from one house, and a back from another house. Nice tour. At one point, the tour guide bemoaned the loss of Jewish merchants- who always had low prices, were great businessmen. There was a concentration camp not far from that area. Over half of SS troops were Austrian. All I could think of, was, well, it's not like your people made Jews feel very welcome, did you... I am so very amused, listening to women ask where all the good men went. Uhh, yeah. The good men go dark, they drop into brush, and vanish from view, as any prey animal would, when a predator is around. Years ago, I went to a martial arts class, in a college town. There were women 30-60 there. All poisonously feminist. And... and... all of them knew that Prince Charming was right around the corner, waiting for the right conjunction of Venus and Mars, to marry them, put them on a $5K/month allowance, buy the big house for them, the vacations in Europe, and to lavish attention on them, despite their constant disrespect for him. They based these on the documentaries they watched- you know, soap operas, Hallmark movies, romance novels, and so on, which are always precisely accurate depictions of real human daily life. And the only reason they didn't have that fairytale life was male oppression. I put on my cloak of invisibility- aka being a beta male- and just listened. I learned much. Of course they later decided that the instructor, a black man, was somehow sexually harassing them during the course. I have spent enough time on VisionQuests and other spiritual stuff that I can lavish love on people, just be turning on the flow. Around those women? Cloak of invisibility. If you need to get rid of a woman fast- just start crying. Works like a charm. Or otherwise act beta- you know, talk about your feelings, just like the feminists tell you. They're gone. I remember a woman about 55 in college- like this- she was desperately dating professors, to find Mr. RIghtWallet. They'd date her, but cut her off after one date. She had a little problem- nuclear waste grade resentment, plus a drinking problem. Oddly enough, Dr. RightWallet was doing his risk assessment. I had no status- just a student assistant- she invited me to dinner, I brought my girlfriend at the time- and Madame Battleaxe got sarcastic, and abusive, to the point we had to leave. THis was like 1981. Women wanted everything men have... now they have it, and they are upset... 1 in 3 women have had an abortion, has an STD... 80% of women consort with 20% of men. 10% of men are 6'1". Women find 80% of men ugly. My grandmother worked. AT HOME. Monday was wash day. No washing machines; it was done by hand. You had to scrub out stains- by hand. Tuesday was ironing day- with flatirons. It took a while. No mixes back then; you bought your flour and sugar in bulk. In 1944, it cost 8c/lb. Only after WW II did prepackaged mixes come out. Wednesday was mending day- clothes were expensive, they had to be repaired. Thursday was baking day, you baked bread for the week. My grandmother taught, before marrying. Her husband told her he made enough money so she didn't have to work. Which delighted her- this was luxury, not having to work at an outside job. I met them, in the 1960's. Yep, still in love... My gramma was a widow about 1940. She had to work. My father was still young; he had to work, got a dime an hour, to clean off old bricks to be reused- and he said he was glad to get it. My mother made 25c/hour, in a grocery store- she would get flour "from the bottom of the barrel", put it in a bag. My father made 25c/hour as a night watchman. He got into college, at the height of WW II... he wanted all the college he could get, before being drafted. He wasn't drafted. He finished high school in 3 years, and a 4 year degree in 2.5 years. Socialists want everything to be free. Great idea. Native americans had that system. But their tribal villages were deeply mutually supportive, and spiritual... Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels originated socialism... based on studies of the Iroquois... and they COMPLETELY MISSED the spiritual side of Native Americans. In a Dakota village, a prime cut of buffalo meat was put outside the tipi of a widow. Kind of like what happened in the small towns my parents grew up in- a widow known to not have much, would find groceries outside her door, from time to time, because that's just what you did, then. Women wanted to be equal to men. Cool. It's not so much fun, is it? Where are the female bricklayers, plumbers, roofers, etc? Even today's feminists have a plan, though- marry a top 5 percenter, because they are all 10's, even if they are 50 kilograms/110 lbs overweight. The "wage gap" exists- women are paid more than men, for the same work. In the military, women can do half what the men do, and get promoted timely. In Paul Revere's day, life expectancy was 43. First menstruation qualified a woman for marriage- you had to get moving, to have your kids early. VIsit a colonial house museum- we have some in my area- or even civil war era- people worked 6 days a week, often, at least 12 hrs/day. In the 1820's, they had DVD players- aka Shakespeare's plays. Alexis de Tocqueville noted this. American women in the 1950's had a life better than that of 70% of women worldwide. But they decided that women needed men like a fish needed a bicycle. No problem, get down to it, bicycles don't need the fish, either. I do not know any single men over say 35, who has any interest, at all, in a committed relationship with a woman. Single men over 40 that I know avoid women, as the massive risk they are. All that resentment, and false claims, and so on... Men are forced to assess risk. Relationships with women? "Achtung, minen" [Warning, active mine field]. Too many women seem to have completed their BSC degree. B*t Sh*t Crazy. I have never slept around. My first & second wife did play around... I cut them off. Not time for that BS, or for the MS- degree- More of the Same- or the PhD- Piled Higher and Deeper... Modern women are not making men walk away from dating, no no. They are making men RUN away from dating, at top speed, evading fire, and taking cover. Every now and then I speak w/teenagers, or young men in their 20's. They seem to have the idea that oh yes, prenuptial agreements stand up in court, they aren't the 50 meter target on the firing range- for women- the target nobody misses. When I was young, I got older guys, and even women, talking- to learn. I knew I was totally ignorant, and needed to learn. The veterans often had great wisdom, and were willing to share it, with someone who listened. The wedding stores in my area have all gone out of business... if that's not an indicator of issues, I don't know what is. There ARE no soulmates, any more than there is a Santa Claus, or Easter Bunny. There may be compatible ladies, guys, whose minds and hearts aren't totally toxic, but all relationships are imperfect. It's just the way our world is. We live in a world where: Body count is something to boast about. Milage on a car doesn't matter. Rain does not wet the ground. Fish fly a mile high over the ocean. Fast food is nutritious. Poisoning one's soul with hatred and resentment makes a woman far more attractive to the alpha male she wants. Adorning one's body with toxic cosmetics doesn't poison the liver and kidneys. Pouring out hatred and resentment on men makes them want women. Hallmark movies, Soap operas, romance movies, Disney heroines- are all documentaries of how the world works. Yes, Virginia, there really is a Santa Claus, and 20 years of throwing away your value absolutely gets you Mr. Big, just like it happened in Sex and the City, which is also a documentary. But let's make a comparison. Let's imagine a rabid Wolverine, so violent that it has to be caged in a cage made of logs. Would you risk your life, to be around such a creature? Maybe not. I don't play with poisonous snakes. When I was young, I was allowed to play with tiger kittens, but even then, I had no idea to be in the same space as adult tigers. Yes, lady, there are creepy people out there, and you are among them. The Romans used to line the Appian way with the bodies of crucified men, as an object lesson. Divorce courts perform the same function, in our society.
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Nope...How are proud about it & nervous about being judged at the same time? If you’re proud of it stand on it.