Men Must Stop Making THIS Mistake When Dating

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[@andrzejgoota6478]

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[@Mrbfgray]

I'm older and never had half these problems with exception of a very youthful "one-ittis" and shy around girls I liked--going promiscuous for a few yrs cured all that....put book in shopping cart finally anyway. :D

[@jasoncornell1579]

Dating IS the mistake!! U are like an atheist schilling for the Vatican!! U know nothing is there so why bother?

[@soydansogukcesme470]

i would realy like to know.. you say men go and date multiple woman.. but woman dont date multiple men.. you said its another topic.. i would realy like to hear that.

[@Mrbfgray]

@@soydansogukcesme470 He said "'it's a given that women ARE dating multiple men'"...how'd you manage to get that backwards?

[@rexduranzelandony]

You will never achieve happiness through a woman. Find your life purpose and go fo it. Women will follow, if not, you'll still be happy

[@Bob31415]

Best comment I've seen here so far.

[@Rwizzzzzy]

Well said brother!!!

[@zbrown72]

Untrue… married my high school sweetheart at 20 years old, best decision I ever made. She is a massive source of my happiness!

[@ventolus2068]

@@zbrown72 but not true for all of us.

[@dreamteamacademy]

True for men and women

[@alexneigh7089]

There was a joke about a woman telling another woman about her dream: "I want a man to be handsome, rich, athletic, witty, popular, good dresser, good f*ker, generious, I want him to love my children and to love me, to be faithful and devoted; but the main thing is I do not want all those men to know about each other".

[@JohnDoe-fx9eb]

Original🙄 ......wow

[@RomeliaGomez-Calmell7934]

🤔😁

[@metalmike570]

They got betas during the week and Alphas on the weekends too.

Looking for Mr Right is more of Mr Right now

[@TheTAEclub]

​@@metalmike570they also make rules for betas and break rules for alphas

[@Osiris909]

"See women don't want to be with a guy that nobody wants." All so true.

[@kalasatwater2224]

Story of my life haha

[@Norcal1990]

Well this generation is diffrent

[@LoudWhipzTV]

Idk if anyone wants me

[@MegaAbgt]

They are disgusting people

[@Neeeg]

Cause she can’t brag about it to other women.

[@jameshedrick4490]

This is a mistake I made in the past, becoming too invested in one girl too quickly. It's a terrible mistake to make but I did learn from it. I always date and talk to multiple girls at once now, and they are plentiful. Another lesson I learned which Rich touched on in this video is, the woman should always be the one who asks to become exclusive. If she wants me to stop spinning plates and just be with her she has to ask me and accept my response. A man should never ask a woman to become exclusive. She must always be required to come to him.

[@bigneiltoo]

Exactly, she has to ask for the commitment given she is the one who has it 30,000% easier finding sex. Only then can she "cheat".

[@nikitaw1982]

Easy since majority men checking out. Don’t blame them

[@hardstyle8184]

FACTS…. I’ve made the mistake and it’s unattractive to women when guys ask the girl to be exclusive

[@sweetloveya1]

I do exactly the same and I´m a woman😂😂😂and I also made the exact same mistakes😉

[@Shaara1]

The fact that the world got to this that exclusivity has to be asked at all, is sad. Humans are disgusting.

[@bigd1223]

One thing I've learned about women is there is ALWAYS another guy. I don't care how strong you think your relationship is. She has a few Chads in her phone who she'll go to if you piss her off. Chad doesn't care if she's your girlfriend or wife. He'll invite her over to "chill".

[@timothygibney159]

If she does that dump her. Women with no integrity will drop you in a second. Not all women. True there is an orbiter but girls with morals will give you a shot. If she has any history or is dishonest who she is texting DUMP her! Seriously if she is a liar she is Chad chasing

[@ARTDEVGRU247]

Not true

[@cccbeats_]

This guy I know said his ex girlfriend who's 24 has a house and a kid with her boyfriend and she's still messaging him on the low about "meeting up", even though he's in a relationship and also has a kid now. It's insane how girls will never be happy with what they've got, and not only that, they also see that their ex is in a relationship and has a kid, but still shoot their shot.

[@Jakeneil]

What if "Chad's" just stopped doing that? Would the world be a better place?

[@ARTDEVGRU247]

@@cccbeats_ wild

[@TheMongoNetwork]

When I was dating I never wanted a “girlfriend” or a “relationship” because I knew of this as a teenager. Pay attention, see the signs, and don’t let a nice pair throw you off your goals.

[@nelsonhibbert5267]

I had a nice pear the other day. That'll do.

[@JeffreyGillespie]

Word! Women are goal kryptonite

[@qua7771]

It's hard to tell when one that respects you likes you. I can appreciate the quiet ones.

[@BobbyHo2022]

@@JeffreyGillespie yep. you need to focus.

[@JS-jh4cy]

Damn nice pair 😉 can be titillating and distracting

[@moolis]

“Women choose who they sleep with and men sleep with who they can.” Unless if the man is top tier, most guys will have a starving mindset with women. Most men may already know she is not the best option but will try to justify and complicate their life by force fitting her.

[@targetegrat]

Thats why its important for a man to have things going for him. Not to impress women but there is a certain type of energy that women find attractive when a man is on his purpose.

[@unvaccinatedmgtowfitness]

Hmmm, wonder how all those jobless non-top tier guys managed to find women they impregnated.🤔

[@thalmoragent9344]

Yeah, can't have that, for real. I've got standards for a woman, and I do my own stuff on the side. If she doesn't meet them then I'm not gonna beg or try to "change her", just move on. If it means a long search through dozens of them, so be it, but I'm not gonna waste my time with a woman who's not a decent human being

[@yeo5962]

And we decide when to make her our girlfriend wife. We have more power

[@thalmoragent9344]

@@targetegrat Yep, true. I've got goals and ideals in mind, and while a great wife would be ideal for my plans to hopefully have kids, well, women won't be my priority as of now. Definitely have stuff going for me right now, for real 💯 so if any women want in on it later on, they gotta make the effort too. Men need to have higher standards, ask for what they're worth, cause many men undervalue themselves, and it's tragic

[@Chuck_N0rris]

One thing I learned in life so far: No girl is so perfect that she cant be replaced. If she isnt treating you right, its better to see the red flags early rather than realizing 5 years later that she lost interest in you 4.5 years ago. Talking from experience. Those are some hard life lessons. If a girl makes you feel bad, leave. I left a girl after pining over her for 4 years. She was pretty and charming but she wasnt interested in a relationship. I wanted to be with her but realized that I had to go to protect myself and create new opportunities elsewhere. Since then, I never fell in the same trap again.

[@kevinmurray8537]

Abundance mindset.

[@blackcub3s]

Chuck norris doesn't date. He makes children by himself.

[@tunegrohermoso_rd283]

Great job man,, god bless😤😤💪🏽👏🏽

[@b.1099]

Yeah that's a bad sign right there: If you're pining, she's not synchronizing and you want her too much.

[@rgn87654]

The more desperate and horny you are, the harder that will be. You will never get rid of horny, so you have to work on being desperate. TBH, most dudes won't be able to pull this off, and then they will be bitter and angry about blowing their chances.

[@yasenyuliev5248]

I see this line "Women are never single" everywhere and it's not that it's wrong, but there is one word at the beginning, that's always missing and it's "attractive".

[@brozjoszip6401]

I guess those do not count because those who are not attractive (at least in Eastern or in Central Europe) are not even visible. They are like ghosts, most men do not even see them even if they come to their face literally.

[@mrnygren2]

Even ugly women have men thirsting for them.

[@weareallbeingwatched4602]

Ah no, you see, (pardon my prejudice) you will find that the fat goth girl is already married to a celebrity in her dreams, like a stalker, because of her inner beauty and chutzpah. There is a bonus layer, which is that you can make jokes with the less attractive ladies - they are allowed a sense of humour by the women's groups. Now... how's about this as an idea - why not go watch dating advice for women by women, if you really want to get the psychology... Don't listen to this guy, he's perfectly horrible. I am a fat lesbians. I'm not* but I might be** in fact I speak with the voice of the almighty, buried in my thighs, it's almighty nice to pull the left of the cosmos until the joke falls off (cue: "the front fell off" by Clarke and Dawe about concealment of negligence in the mining industry... mine's a conflict mineral hidden in a smartphone saying "help! Help! Get me out of here! It's haunted!"

[@DavidIbarraJr]

i call on ALL men to delete all dating apps ... uninstall them all. it's time to take our choices back and this is a good place to start. watch what happens

[@kevinward3088]

I wish they would do that AND .....STOP friggin' simping !! This is why even the most mediocre woman tends to have a huge ego !

[@CalikoTube]

I found out recently that there’s less males than females. This means males are more valuable and more rare. WHY THE FUCK are males acting like females are the rare treasure?!?!

[@jackmemphis777]

@@kevinward3088 exactly pimpin never simpin

[@tolloromassi99]

Imagine all men in the world stopped giving af about vvomen and their needs? B* es would literally die.

[@valentin19998]

lmao imagine everyone would do that and stop liking girls pictures on Instagram. mass suicide 😂

[@MrBacus72]

What a disgrace!!! Comparing starting a relationship with a women with buying a new car. Cars are sacred man.

[@contourman6692]

Lol

[@slaytanic921]

Had me in the first half.

[@TomNook.]

" the average Joe downloads a dating app, gets a match then he goes all in on that girl" That's because the average Joe is lucky to get even a single match on the apps.

[@vileproductions8511]

this is 100 percent correct. i’ve seen it happen to multiple friends of mine

[@Arejen03]

thats true lol

[@DrAJ_LatinAmerica]

Then become Better than Average. Be the best you that you can be.

[@vileproductions8511]

@@DrAJ_LatinAmerica amen 🙏

[@manabouttongue]

Dating apps are eventually going to become passe when a critical mass of average men come to realise they don't work for them.

[@alexbigday1587]

Girls usually say that they are single, knowing that at any given time they want they can go back in the game and have a line of dudes begging for her attention ; On the other hand, when dudes say they are single, it's 100% true, because if they quit the game, no one is going to come and knock at their doors. So you have two different notions or perspectives on what being single is depending on who is talking.

[@louisels6450]

That’s is so true. There is no such thing as a single woman. There are single men but no single woman.

[@kevincosgrove948]

There are. Fat, feminists.

[@kathyhernandez6733]

Not true !!

[@davidkeys4284]

@@kathyhernandez6733 hahahahaha

[@teddaduke574]

@@kathyhernandez6733 evidence, otherwise it’s just heresay

[@Lvatopesado]

@@kathyhernandez6733 - What?

[@smh6016]

Why men are so resistant to the idea that women can never be trusted because they are always open to the next best deal…. Blows my mind! Stop! Giving you undying loyalty to someone who will never earn it is just silly!!

[@edheldude]

Because men love idealistically and think women work the same way. It's the romantic lie that was sold to men because it greatly benefits women.

[@user-ku7pm9zv4m]

That's because they (woman) are made out to be perfectly innocent 'angels' that can do no wrong. You see it being portrayed in movies, tv shows, and other media outlets - women who do 'cheat' are always seen to be victims whereas men who are 'players' or have 'affairs' are seen as pigs and dirtbags....but they always forget to mention that these are the types of dudes that women love to be around! Everything is in reverse with the female mind..

[@amrdel2730]

Thats your western society problems in muslim or conservative countries when mariage forms a coupne its a link between their two families and its there to last

[@TechnoMageB5]

Underrated comment. Trust, commitment, respect are EARNED. That which is not earned is not valued.

[@bokohara620]

@@amrdel2730 western society is so degenerate and fucked up, its crazy...that kinda of society can't last long

[@mmontagart]

ironically everyone's grandparents did courting. It was basically radical ruthless plate spinning. only difference was no one got physical or if they did it was on the lowdown.

[@gordythecreator]

Thanks RiCH! I'm 44, but wish I believed this at 17yrs old. Now I can see ALL the chix "in love" with me. I don't have to do what I'm programmed 2do.

[@Damitsall]

richard cooper the pooper scooper

[@neomacchio4692]

Amen to that and ditto! Plus it mitigates getting completely FUCKED over!

[@martinroncetti4134]

Agreed. Knowledge is power and I was "powerless" late-teens to late-twenties.

[@jameshumphries5059]

How do women respond to you at 44? What aged girls do you date.

[@HIRISK]

Nigga u should be retired. Not working on pickup lines

[@pfschuyler]

Soooooo true, hilarious. Every guy spends weeks assessing the pros and cons of cars. 12 levels of in-depth comparison and analysis, but no time whatsover evaluating women.

[@daviedood2503]

You have to remember that yes, you're poaching her from someone else. There's timed where YOU will be better than the other guy, and there's times where the other guys will be better than YOU. It's her preference. Forming a full on relationship that WORKS and for a good while, is actually kinda difficult. They end up revealing SOEMTHING fd up about themselves, and it ends.

[@marcb1890]

wise words. Great perspective

[@daviedood2503]

@@marcb1890 of course. I'm a very wise man.

[@CharlieSheensTigerBlood]

Maybe when guys realize this, is when boys become men and start reevaluating how they carry themselves.

[@usarmymedic07]

I agree. If I go out with and sleep with a girl, she’s already met the basic criteria and is on “potential gf track”. It’s up to her to simply not F it up from that point….yet they almost ALWAYS manage to F it up.

[@daviedood2503]

@@usarmymedic07 this is very true. But what's happening, is the women take that exact same stance that you're taking. If a woman has genuine desire for you and not using you to waste time, get free stuff, you WILL know. They'll try to make u happy, they'll be thoughtful, kind etc. A woman has to love the man's character. His base character. This may change, but it suppose to _"Refine"_ over time. Honed in and slowly improve. He grows into a very great Man. As long as he stays true to himself, she will "Always" have attraction for you. Even if something better may come along, she can't see herself without YOU in it. It feels daunting to her. Dread. Fear. Hopeless and very sad. She will easily cut out the world, just for YOU. This means she's content and happy. Feminist have corrupted and eroded away the word "content" and shamed a woman labeling her as "settling". This is why they don't like being content. They must be deprived of the spoils they have, so they can find a new appreciation for them. Sets a marker in their minds from that point on. _"I better not do THAT. Last time I lost EVERYTHING and life sucked very badly for me. Let me behave myself. I'm not a teenager, I'm a full grown woman now."_

[@henrikzetterstrom278]

You are so right. A girl/ woman will never stop looking around for other men till she find a man who has “everything” she wants a man to have. I am talking about material things. It does not matter if a man is nice, the best listener, can understand her, can walk with her and look for shoes/shopping for hours… she will stay with the man who has the biggest house, the largest apartment, has the best financial/ social status, unless she is 30 + and still have no children, then she start to become more desperate to find a man. The only time when HOW a man is, nice, good listener and so on, becomes important, is when she had children with this financial /high status man, and she is over 40, and divorce, and does not want more children. That is the time when a woman is mature enough to look for a nice man, who does not necessarily have a big house etc. of course there are more men to every woman. We men are not looking for the same as women are. A man can be a doctor but marry a nurse, or a pilot can marry a stewardess. But a female doctor would never even date a male nurse, also because of her friends will say “you can get a so much better man then him”.. in a sense a much more “successful and rich” man. “Men are looking for beauty, and women are looking for money to secure her offspring”. And it does not matter if she is successful herself. She will always look for a man who is in “same or higher” social and financial situation as herself is. And no “feminism” has changed that. When I was a pilot, I could date women who were engineers, doctors and even law graduates. When I was driving bus, no one in that category of women even wanted to know me. So I have experienced this at first hand. I am the SAME man, nice, good listener and have the patience to go out shopping for ours. But it does not matter unless you have a profession and the MONEY: that comes with it. Sad, but true.

[@bradleyjackson7168]

Don't be her shopping buddy. Screw that unless she gives you that time for your activities

[@mayorofthenonsense]

The funny thing about men who competently and successfully spin plates to avoid committing pre-maturely, is that they are the ones who actually appreciate the seriousness and consequences of a monogamous relationship. People will accuse them of having no appreciation for monogamy, when in reality it is precisely the opposite. That's why they do it. An LTR is a catastrophe waiting to unfold unless the boundaries and expectations are clearly defined with someone who's all in and capable of walking their talk. It's basically marriage without the legal liability, and thus not to be taken lightly.

[@kazkikongokiller6447]

They appreciate monogamy, so they actively engage in polygamy. Are you listening to yourself???

[@jkfd97]

Another important thing to note is that even if you are only seeing one woman, whether casually or as a girlfriend/wife, she must always BELIEVE you have other options. She needs to SEE you flirt with other women, she needs to be fearful of her chances to keep you all to herself all of the time. Every time I reflect on the subject of preselection, it goes up in my list of importance when it comes to things a man needs to obtain a woman's monogamous investment. So much so that if a woman you're seeing views you as her ultimate alpha and she asks you whether you're seeing/interacting with other women, if you give her a flat-out no, her attraction for you will DIE in that exact moment if not shortly thereafter. The social circle/hierachy is a woman's ENTIRE existence. They are created by nature to maintain the cohesion and unity of the group, as individuals they are completely worthless and they all know it. This is not a blight on women, this is just an objective, facts-and-science based description of the truth. Every single decision a woman will ever make will require verification by friends, family, colleagues, you name it... she needs to be reminded WHY you are her ultimate alpha, and the best way to cement that in her mind is to have other women that want you.

[@Autonomous_Don]

Bingo!

[@xquisite9764]

🎯.. well said

[@aspalt228gold]

U do realize that’s borderline manipulation

[@petelee2477]

@@aspalt228gold doesn't matter it works and women feel no shame manipulating men.

[@rollercoaster8881]

The man I wanted seriously for the first time in my life got options but I didn’t cared that much, I don’t know why. Once he even asked me if I cared and got confused when I said no. Maybe I was not in the right moment mentally but that was funny asf lol

[@66block84]

Would have been nice to hear this 52 years ago when I was 17 / 18. At this stage, I don't even care anymore.

[@brocklanders3616]

Enjoy retirement and maybe a young escort every so often. Back in your day, things weren't so complicated and use to be more enjoyable.

[@TCS_Aquatics]

And women have been using this for ages, but to satisfy their hypergamy. I am 39 and I remember dating an older female when I was 16 that clearly explained her positive view of casual dating. She was basically spinning plates, just with a different name.

[@joebeta1837]

I've watched Rich's entire video. I was in a relationship with a woman for a long time. Never got married. We broke up after more than a decade of being together. What Rich had said in this video is very concerning. If I were to date again, according to Rich, the woman is likely seeing other men. Nothing new, but I'm used to being with one woman. With what Rich has said, I'd rather live alone. I don't want to go through the disappointment of thinking this one woman likes me, only to find out she has stopped talking to me because she was dating someone else, too, and chose that other guy. I don't really need a woman in my life, especially if we're going to go through a lot of arguing, whining, and nagging. I'll wait for the right one, and if I have to wait a lifetime, oh well.

[@brunetteordie]

If you date multiple women, the odds of that disappointment diminish. It sounds like you are going in too deep from the start. Whether she accepts you should be a secondary goal. The primary goal is to find the most acceptable one, to you. And the more women you date, the better your chances of that.

[@shivanebangkok2008]

@@brunetteordie agreed that’s my game plan too and just be open to the other dates that your meeting other women too (that is if they ask since no obligations or commitments as Rich mentioned in the video..)

[@angiehitch6807]

Rich is wrong. There are truly single women who aren't talking to multiple guys.

[@joebeta1837]

@@angiehitch6807 Thank you for that hope. I, myself, if I were to go out with a female, I'd be available to her only. I'm not going to go "female-shopping". Going female-shopping (dating) maybe the efficient way to go for a lot of guys and girls, but I wouldn't be able to do it. I've got hobbies, an important job, a house to clean, and last but not least, mental resetting (sleep) to do, that I don't have time to go out with several women. I understand I'm missing out on potential mates, but I'm not going to lose my mind over females.

[@bashafitness]

@@joebeta1837 I am glad that there is good men out there like yourself joe! Not all women are like that. this is just insane This Society lacks morals/values it’s just shameful smh 🤦‍♀️

[@purplebear445]

As a woman i can say this is 100% true for high value women

[@b.1099]

I agree with this. High-value women are less humbled.

[@haywood4299]

I'm glad I'm at the point where I don't even care to spin plates. Most of them are already broken anyways.

[@felicitymasiu96]

That's what u men do to women .don't complain about brokenness.

[@aaronm.2718]

I’ve had my fill of crazies for the last few decades as well. It was like a parade of routine, useless broken American whores for 15 years. Now I have a peaceful, pleasant life with no lunatics or NPCs👍🏻✌🏻

[@kylefiedorowicz9657]

I liked this answer. I’m 34 no kids never married with plenty of options. Still I have this desire to find one women. That being said I usually feel guilt when going on multiple dates in a week toward a woman I was starting to like. I then find a woman I like more. This video makes me feel great about the path I’m on. Keep in mind once red pulled, blue pill tendencies always want to creep back in. I keep watching your videos to stay red pill strong

[@Mrbfgray]

Caffeinate the hamster in her head. :D

[@LiftOffLife]

...and read the Rational Male book by Rollo Tomassi.

[@thinclient5318]

I'm exactly like this. But I take my dose of the pill every other time. I don't want to be a playa but it's the world we live in. The game begat us.

[@HIRISK]

Same. Meeting the bitches parents today. And I’m just thinking about all the guys who ran through that didn’t meet them

[@FunnyAsian00]

women do what you do all the time! you are good, man!

[@SALFXEF]

That is correct women are never single I tell my 26 Year old son she's not yours it's just your turn. Last year he met a 19 year old hottie at work they were having a very good relationship but she was headed off to college I told him to not get emotionally involved sure enough he found her in a hotel room with some guy from school It hit him hard but he learned a valuable lesson now hes taking after dear old dad

[@paulophilip7948]

So true. You can never go wrong with an abundance mindset.

[@ADSCoachSimonB2112]

I think it’s important to note that dating multiple people is vital to your own mental health your not over investing and depending on the person’s you are dating they have an agenda to move things quickly to have you become more invested to eliminate competition. I was dating 3 different women just coffee and conversations and two of them after two months were already expecting a a full relationship status. I set boundaries and found out all 3 were single parents. I was not sleeping with anyone. I like to get to know people for 3-4 months before I do anything for this reason. I gave up dating the normal way. I have a girlfriend from my Harley owners group that I was just mates with and went on rides with as part of the chapter.

[@TheMasterd333]

online dating culture feels like a great way to either ruin your self-esteem or boost your ego to unhealthy levels.

[@SaxSith]

Online dating is made to destroy our society. As all other fb and other shit . Can’t you see it?

[@Hunter-yy4es]

what is even an unhealthy boosted ego? lol more confidence in yourself isn't unhealthy if that's what you mean.

[@tubester4567]

Its a great way to get an STD.

[@MR-fn7rw]

@@Hunter-yy4es I think he is speaking of women who think they are way better than they are.

[@Archabolt]

Personally loyalty means everything to me. I have never dated more than one man. I rarely date anymore, because there's always some scam. I haven't bothered dating in years. I see how unhealthy hook up culture is. Why would I want that mess in my life for myself or in others? I want what doesn't seem to exist in today's hustle culture a real emotional connection. I'm probably wasting my time stating this. I prefer a friend before a relationship is considered. I'm old fashioned, I guess. My Personal peace comes first, if you bring all kinds of self created problems into my life, I'll probably leave. I like to help, but there's a point where it's just who they are and I know better than to think I can change someone's habits. I learned this from dealings with family over the years. You can't help someone who won't help themselves too.

[@robchurch881]

I agree with most of what you are saying. As an older man, I dated for two years and around 200 women in that time. For me, dating doesn't mean sex. It is only dating and getting to know the person. Often times, I would not allow it to get past the first date. There were even times when the woman I was seeing wanted intimacy and when I said no, I was called all kinds of names and my sexual preferences were often challenged. I didn't want to get into the intimacy part until I was sure the woman in question was the one I wanted to be in a relationship with. Many women could not wrap their head around the idea that I was choosing the woman in my life and I was not the one being chosen, where I was settling for a woman I did not want. I am very successful financially. I own my home outright and I have very good morals but I also dated 5 to 7 women at a time. It was quite exhausting. I finally did find the woman I wanted. She does everything for me and she is very feminine, never argues and is very fit.

[@sheknows9704]

@Archabolt i get what you are saying. And i think there are men out there that value the 'spiritual' part of the relation more than the sexual part. I say that because i for one do. Obviously I like sex, but plain sex just doesnt do it for me. I had friends with benefits twice. Both times i gave up on them because meaningless sex is just not satisfying me at all. I seek that friendship connection. I think most of this hook up culture is because of our times of social media and all those advertisements that make it a very materialistic world.

[@richardw3347]

@@robchurch881 - nothing wrong with that. whatever works best for you.

[@richardw3347]

@@sheknows9704 - society thru media, etc., conditions many to be dysfunctional. why the world is the way it is.

[@LifelsGreat]

Don’t give up, plenty of guys like me would appreciate that greatly. In fact we refuse from dating anything else.

[@redrocks1983]

"Nice guys finish last" has been around a long time for many reasons. If you're a nice guy, it can be hard to change that, but 'nice' can be nuanced in ways.

[@jimbeam7160]

It's good to finish last if that means you're not tied to bimbos, narcissists, and predatory manipulators. There is victory in losing out on all the garbage and unsublimated illusions.

[@castusdariah2434]

Let your money do the talking . Go with where your money takes you or who your money will let you play with

[@johnr5847]

Honestly, there is never any monogamy. Even when married, she's flirting at least.

[@ahaok6245]

And probably being smashed by someone who doesnt deserve it

[@TheoOJamaloO1]

Monogamy menas one partner for your whole life. Most people go from relationship to relationship.

[@EadsB7002]

women are far more likely to be monogamous than men. this guy thinks he knows women and he is wrong about SO much!

[@johnr5847]

@@EadsB7002 must be a lesbian

[@EadsB7002]

not even close. women aren't nearly as promiscuous as this dude claims them to be. y'all need to be more mindful of who you listen to about women. this old, bitter dude is clueless /spewing nonsense.

[@mdo5121]

IN STOICISM....IT SAID " DO NOT TO CHASE AFTER WOMEN BUT CHASE AFTER EXCELLENCE"

[@HellenicWolf]

WIsh I had done that in my 20s, but I have another shot in my early 30s, and plates I will spin as soon as I get my wealth and fitness in order.

[@waragainstmyself1159]

i dont care if you are rich, middle class, poor, or even completely homeless vagrant. No woman is loyal completely, its not wise to totally devote yourself to one. Any time down the road she will blow it all up and leave you holding the bag.

[@DrAJ_LatinAmerica]

"holding the bag" - like what? If they leave, NEXT and so on. Not sure her leaving or me leaving her would be any different. Just keep all financial items separate

[@Lvatopesado]

@@DrAJ_LatinAmerica - I think he's talking about married women.

[@DrAJ_LatinAmerica]

@@Lvatopesado right. That the reason for a prenup : ) let them leave. Next. Have three or four or five wives. What is the issue?

[@lgodlike2324]

20 years old, I have never spinned plates, thank for your ultimate wonderful advices !

[@DJTEE357]

That’s some real talk. Don’t lock in too fast. Don’t lock in with your emotions. Create options and date different women. 👍🏾

[@marknewton6984]

I locked in too fast. Wasted a lot of time. Now I know.😮

[@terreneofficial]

I can't tell you gentlemen how many times I've had men who I didn't know existed inform me in my life that I was sleeping with their girlfriend. The classic "Oh he is just my friend" or "We are on a break." I know not all women are sinister like this, but man does it seem like a substantial portion of them do not give a single **** about your feelings. Half of them treat men like their objects. Oh I'll be your object sweetheart, but you'll be mine too

[@ShinkuGouki]

I swear like 95% of women I've been with always try to sell me this story about how "it's been years since I had a relationship" bullcrap. I'm like "yeah yeah,now lay down."

[@matthewbennettdavey5864]

9:10 I agree with 95 % of what you have to say and teach. In this case I don't agree. I've had an incredible amount of success telling the women I'm dating that I'm actively dating. The first question they each have asked every time is "how many?" I don't answer directly because I've shown the level of respect they are entitled and they're really not entitled to know more. I'll say the truth but not give numbers. I'm going on dates with some and some I'm in the first date stage. or just started talking. In each case they've thanked me for being candid and each asked the same question again..."Will you please let me know if you are getting serious with another person?" I always say "yes of course. I'm trying to keep it real and respectful." The question I have after I tell them is, "Are you going to show me the same respect ? OR are you going to do the same exact thing I'm doing except lie to each guy your dating that your not dating anybody else?" About 10% told me they're dating other people too when I'm sure it was 100% of them were dating other people. You know what happened and what happens? Some will say thank you and then act in a way that says they will leave without it being exclusive yet no conversation about exclusivity has taken place... but they don't really leave. They're pretending to try to gain control. Don't let them. If they try to take control let them go. But most will fall in line and actually be ok with you dating other women as long as you're not exclusive. In most cases the women become MORE interested in you. They instinctively know you're a high quality Man if so many women are also interested AND because you aren't a needed beta boy who can't walk away. The importance of self respect is critical to being a healthy Man. So just because you, or me, or anybody has the option to fuck them all doesn't mean you should. That may seem like a good idea, but it's not. That's a porn fantasy and you're not a porn star, and you shouldn't try to be. You'll end up hurting a lot of people starting with yourself.

[@kenmorgan316]

I didn't know that I was an alpha male when I was young. After two 4 year relationships I became a Beta. You just reminded me of who I was. THANK YOU SO MUCH! I've taken my Red 💊.

[@ispeakmandarin]

What betatized you?

[@CharlieSheensTigerBlood]

It's crazy...I did this in high school and thought I found the one. I dated different girls but found one I put in all the effort with and we ended off on a bad note. Afterwards I stopped dating with effort entirely.(about 7 years) I'm not a big muscular guy or some rich kid, but this has been more of a hard wakeup call to the soul tbh. Like I got a little mad at myself because of how on point this is. You nailed it on the head though and I thank you for making this upload :)

[@operanonverba4781]

....I've had many cars the last 32 years, but only 1 wife...we're both in our fifties, married at 21. So yeah, I'm the one who went all in on one. Love is much more than a pleasant emotional feeling. What did i get for that 32 years with the same woman...3 daughters, 1 son...2 sons in law, 1 daughter in law, 2 grandsons, and 1 granddaughter...all worth it, especially at the holidays

[@generfeld]

well said, great explanation. A guy doesn't owe anyone the mentality of restricting his own options

[@materiialart8226]

I had kids with the wrong women and it really put a toll on me and still is.. I'm focusing on myself and self-improvement..

[@b.1099]

Still your kids, better if they're not daughters.

[@genuinsanity]

I know a guy that tells EVERY girl he goes with in the beginning " You are out of your mind if you think you are the only woman I am going to have sex with for the rest of my life ". Up front , no bullshit , no sleazing around when nobody is looking.

[@IanHilsonTO]

Problem with spinning plates is trying to keep track of all these different women. The conversations and what you say or do with each of them. Honestly I can barely do that for one women. I'm not super bullish on the thought of trying to do it with more than one woman.

[@lyricaldetective4310]

I just can’t be bothered talking to low value girls right now and developing a ‘relationship’ with them, I’m on the GRIND 💪

[@marcellusrobinson1465]

My Brotha literally about to drop a chick cause she's a distraction to the hustle!!!

[@malonjehhutsonhachuma8420]

Interesting show. Much love from Lusaka Zambia. Africa is watching

[@sifu_xander]

Women are never single, many of my dates already have a boyfriend or husband, at that time it didn't bother me, I enjoyed it and so did they. Listen to Cooper !!

[@genuinephoneware2641]

The last two women I dated made way more money than I did. The first relationship lasted six months and she ended up leaving because she was tired of being the one with more money. The second one dated me for three years and I don’t know why exactly she left but I do know that me making less money was part of it. It really motivated me and inspired me to build my business and put the pressure on. I somehow attracted financially wealthy women into my life twice in a row. Thanks for all that you share

[@somewhereinsthlm2153]

Spin plates? I can't even get one plate that I'm attracted to and feel desire for. I do get matches and have conversations with young attractive women, but then I ask for a date it is silence, sometimes they agree to a date and later then I want to schedule it's silence. Have no problem getting dates or hooking up with less attractive women, chubby/overweight women or foreign women. As I have no interest in them I put them on ignore.

[@stevegrantland1201]

"You are just dating!" Thanks Rich!! We aren't boyfriend-girlfriend. Just dating.

[@karenschulz6733]

An emotionally mature man who is looking for a life partner can tell the truth… with his eyes wide open… and trust himself to handle it when he encounters “players”. Others’ bad behaviors don’t have to dictate the way he interacts in the process of sorting through his options on the road to a committed relationship. A man with integrity is irresistible! A man who doesn’t sleep around is a treasure. But, yeah, if you’re just looking for a good time, you’ll probably need to know game strategies.

[@denisgitau7120]

Such a Karen. :)

[@AdamPG14]

Crazy man, you’re spitting facts. It’s over for these women now. This video is restoring power to men!

[@romerospeech8623]

In conclusion : Men most of the times complicate their lives by focusing in "understand" one women .

[@ThatDoesntWorkForMeBrother]

Oneitis

[@JayJay-two]

Al Bundy "don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate them" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@c.j.2262]

I've spin plates for about 10 years now. Honestly I'm looking for a LTR in the process but I can't seem to find that. Woke culture is absolutely destroying the market if you want something more solid. Plenty of fun but no soul.

[@NigeloWalker]

Rich woke up today and chose to speak facts🙏🏽

[@billblass5961]

I just don't think most guys have that much quality action going at once. I naturally gravitate toward the best I've got and put the energy there. Never single, totally true.

[@paulprice1705]

I was watching someone else's video covering Tik Tok videos and one girl showed: She had downloaded Bumble the night before, and she was maybe a 7 in looks. She showed her phone in the morning and she had over 1800 messages waiting.

[@Nostradamus_Order33]

Label on the Shake Weight “Women are never single”

[@nightowl6811]

I’m glad i dated hundreds of women and now I’m 49 and never had an interest in the marriage boring life! No thanks! My only son is 19 now. Zero college scam for me either! I’m happy 24/7 super healthy and debt free. Life is great at 49! Lots of women in 20s and 30s want to hook up daily 😎. I’m going to die happy and free for sure. Everything I own is only for my son 😎

[@MA-yr8cd]

Jesus loves you now and in the afterlife. Happy when you die then face God.

[@TokyoTaisu]

@Edward Will dress for status

[@richardw3347]

-what part of the country are you from? guessing around L.A.

[@HIRISK]

Adopt us then.

[@nightowl6811]

@Edward Will they everywhere bro, don’t dress up nice either, and don’t need lots of money 💰 either. U can do it. Just talk to them that simple

[@slayer7682]

If I ever get back to dating, the only way I personally would get serious with a girl is if she erased all dating apps and social media. I don't know if that's asking too much, maybe she isn't posting sexy pics of herself and just uses it for whatever else you do on Instagram and others, and I'm not on any dating our social media. I don't know, woman have too much to pic from and I stand know chance it seems like. But I can stay solo and be fine

[@DsLink1306]

This literally proves humanity is doomed. We are soooo dumb.

[@christopheperron-martel4089]

A big thanks to Rich ! His book is simple, easy to read and is very popular now. It's like red pill in a nutshell for the public. Very good contribution.

[@ola...o1009]

Thank you sir. Hard to let go of religious teachings and societies so called morals. Women don’t play fair, guys should simply play the game the way they do. Always have options

[@jrhamilton4448]

Rich spelled it out right there. Women want the kinda men that other men want to be and other women want to Fuq. I didn't get that until age 33. I was always the skinny nerdy dude from the hood who was funny. Women would always laugh at my jokes and say you're so funny then go bang some other dude. I just didn't get it. I wish I would've had Rich's book back in 2007.

[@FredTechSc]

Same. But these days those same women look and live a mess making those same men (Chad's) life a living nightmare over there kids ! I can say I'm almost at that point of success across the board and a top 10% earner !

[@jrhamilton4448]

@@FredTechSc I'm definitely not a top 10% earner I make about $70k a year but I'm 44 I'm not looking to get married have kids or any of that garbage. I date a few women here and there but for the most part I'm focused on working on my car and self improvement, learning about crypto and that kinda stuff.

[@FredTechSc]

@@jrhamilton4448 honestly man, I'm 35 and I just want 1 or 2 boys. If I didn't want kids.. I wouldn't bother ever! And if I can have one by 40.. I'm done like you. Hopefully by that time I have a great amount of investments and able to travel 🧳 the way I want but living great in Thailand or Brazil

[@mf198]

Not necessarily. If everyone can have him I don’t want him…especially if I he’s got community cock. I am successful with or without him. You can be beautiful and successful and not need to be taken for a ride. My peace is non negotiable.

[@jrhamilton4448]

@@mf198 That's just it, everyone can't have that type of guy because he's a high value man. He's only going to date top shelf women. It's only the dudes who grab for the low hanging fruit that are your community cocks, that's just the way it is.

[@Sean-hk8rz]

A girl that sees you as a first option will make it simple. She won’t speak vulgarly about previous sexual encounters, mention ex’s, and will be overly feminine. If a girl in the initial dating stage is doing this your not the first option.

[@TheFeelGoodKid]

Best advice on the Internet. I was single off and on for a long time till I was 37 years old. It was only until I dated multiple girls at once I found the one. The moment you go after just one girl she can sense it and runs a mile and if she does date you she will put herself on a pedestal and the relationship is already doomed. You’ll probably find when you end it at that point she’ll finally start liking you but it will be too late then as you’ll already be too pissed off to continue. Hope this helps someone out there, peace

[@whatisthisevenfor26]

i need advise I'm a 37-year-old male haven't dated in forever is there any advice you could give me ? feel like I'm gonna get old fast! and feel like im gonna have to come to terms with i might be alone for the rest of my life, I feel i won't be able to have a family I'm getting up there in age I don't have a whole lot of experience in dating any advice will be appreciated, i don't want to be stuck seeing upscale sex workers /Escorts and wasting money.... my last and first serious relationship was from 2009-2014 , how do you approach modern women today??? I don't drink never smoked etc. and I'm not into bars, i go to the gym and eat really healthy and I'm slim... I'm only into skinny blondes and brunettes oh and where do I even go these days to meet a nice chick ?? i don't have tattoos, I live in the United States and I don't want to be stuck seeing sex workers for the rest of my life... I just feel like this whole Modern dating thing is not working out.... am i weak for wanting a woman?

[@TheFeelGoodKid]

@@whatisthisevenfor26 the way you meet girls is on dating apps like tinder and bumble. I’m from uk and standard here is so high that older guys don’t get many decent matches unless you have really good photos and your in decent shape. If your area is the same I would recommend trying out other areas. I actually found my GF on tinder whilst I was on holiday on dubai. You need to find a place where you get lots of dating app matches and hang around there going on multiple dates a week. If all fails just go to Thailand

[@jimbeam7160]

@@whatisthisevenfor26 Remember...western women are a pain in the ass. You need third world women. Latinas, Asians. Women who don't compete with men, and aren't sluts for attention. That's your target group to filter. Stop wanting blondes or western women. You don't want to go there unless they are christians dedicated to having a monogamous family. What is "Holy Matrimony"and is it a good idea to ensure marital success?

[@markwilson2805]

WOW ive been spinning plates many times in my life and never knew I was doing that....I just thought it was the definition of DATING. Unless you both commit to each other or get engaged then there is nothing wrong with spinning plates or dating.

[@tiehnporesources7078]

I was taught to have as many girls that are friends. However sexual intercourse was frowned upon until you were serious about one woman. Marriage is long-term commitment to procreate and have a family.

[@andersnielsen6044]

So true. There is no such thing to a woman as unconditional love. It is not a part of their soul, brain and body.

[@epluribusbigly1354]

One of the all-time great yt videos. This my friends is GOLD

[@mediaguy4037]

Don’t feel bad if you are talking or seeing multiple girls. Guarantee they are doing it themselves. No shame no pain.

[@xeropunt5749]

In short, men have to aim at a target of one. The most eligible candidate. In your city, in your areas of movement. Or being ready & open for a true mutual “fall”. Love exists. Love from God, the platonic love from family. Love is there but very very rare, but all you need is that one.

[@stevecooper7883]

Just remember: Abraham and Isaac had multiple baby mommas

[@bradevans3815]

I've read the book and liked it. Had a problem of trying to spin plates as it didn't seem FAIR. It felt like being a cheater. Now that I viewed this video, I get it. The explanation of why you should spin plates is excellent. Thanks Rich.

[@NicholasGeorge-cg3cf]

The sexual revelution and family court laws make modern marrage extremely dangerous.

[@Charvisgreen]

Just made this mistake with a 32 year old single mom, I’m only 24 was only seeing each other for 4 months she ended it Monday and I agreed. Time to get back on the grind

[@Bob31415]

So much wisdom packed into such a concise package. Wish I had practiced this years and years ago. The part about so many guys getting too excited about and focusing on one woman really resonated with me. Thanks a lot for this.

[@Ratkwad]

I find it really confusing and complicated dating multiple chicks at a time, can never remeber what I have told each one. Fuck it, just enjoy pluggin the one at a time, but I guess always have a backup plan

[@Magpie-wr8gg]

I don't think men have the options to "plate spin". Most men don't have a lot of options and rarely have an abundance of women interested in them. Just what I heard from men.

[@charlescollins9694]

I recently became unplugged and finally see that women play hard. Dating is a waste of time . Pick up at bars is the way to go

[@harrisonmixer9583]

I’d say “hot women” are never single. The others are…

[@unvaccinatedmgtowfitness]

She doesn’t need to be hot. Even moderately attractive women have many options.

[@marklally90]

Very true

[@FredTechSc]

Even a dam 2 got options these days!

[@godspeed6302]

Women are never single... ❗

[@elihuwilliams9346]

The one thing I will say about this whole concept is that I know from experience that there are women who are the exception to the "women" concept here. It's my opinion that those are the women worth pursuing, and that the best way to make yourself ineligible for such a woman is to be a "player" in the sense that is being described here. And don't blind yourself to the logical fallacy that is, "sleep with every woman you can but a daughter shouldn't lower her value by sleeping with lots of guys". If guys are being players then women are being encouraged to lower their value. That's the end result of this. You think the music stops and you will have the high value woman... that's borderline psychopathic thinking. You're damaging yourselves and everyone else.

[@mawesmo]

This comment speaks volumes and the truth about what this video is encouraging.

[@ShiShiWorld]

amen : )

[@davidmunn4409]

Exactly. This video is such backwards thinking. Spinning plates just complicates things and undermines any trust that could be built which is the basis of a LTR. No mutual trust no LTR. Just because this worked for him doesn't guarantee it'll work for everybody else. If I have to become a player to find the right person for me then I'll just stay single. People need to rethink their morals regarding dating. It shouldn't have to be this complicated and it should never be machiavellian. This dude's perpetuating the same toxic dating culture that has ruined dating and sustainment of relationships.

[@MafiaMTGA]

I think that is one of the problems I have. I have no desire to be a "Player" it has never been in my nature.

[@matthewjanosco8669]

I've gotten to the point where I'd rather just be single.Tired of the BS.

[@jimbeam7160]

I'm proud of myself. In my earlier years, I saw the writing on the wall. I knew, marriage would be painful and explosive. I never got married. I was smart beyond my years. I'm proud of myself.

[@TheLode1978]

my experience with dangerous women...2 woman when i was around 30 years really chased me. after a few weeks and dating i was like ok lets try a relation. after 1 week the 2 women were gone..ghosted me and I was not really intrested at the beginning 😂 when i said ok they got i was not the man that paid everything...i was not romantic but before it was all good for them. strange creatures some women

[@motocash]

My experience is that dating apps are for the lazy. I didn't achieve real results until I decided to really get out into the world doing things, skiing, biking, volunteering, jogging, etc. Basically, doing things I'm passionate about. The relationships I made this way are longer lasting and much deeper than through an app. Now, if your passion is video games, you're probably not going to have good results.

[@circus3422]

ski resorts are overrun with men, biking overrun with men and lesbians, I volunteered before, then when I showed up all the other volunteers were men, I went to lunch with a few of the dudes and they all said they thought volunteering at the cat shelter was a good way to meet women. so there were no women volunteers and since I was new, I was always in the back scooping poop so I never got to see anyone who came in. All the group runs I go on are about 25 men all trying to hit on the same average jane.

[@motocash]

@@circus3422 I guess it depends on geography. Jogging 5Ks and such were quite fruitful in my region. Mountain biking, even more so. In retrospect, perhaps it was also, my "I could care less if you like me" attitude. Not rude, just busy doing my own thing.

[@KryssN1]

@@circus3422 then go to the gym, library, concert, theater or even gaming event if you are into gaming and talk.... talk to ladies there, invite them to a drink or hang out. just dont be serious about it or they run. women like complements and honesty, thats usually my starter. something about how gorgous they are and how i could not focus cause she on my mind or how i had to talk to her or i would regret it for rest of my day if i wouldn't. if they berate you, just play it off...playfully, they like it. especially the serious type :)

[@circus3422]

@@KryssN1 thanks for the suggestions. I have tried most of that. I have had some success lately meeting women at Golden Corral for the all you can eat buffet. haha. just kidding. but buffet loving fatties are about the only chicks that are interested and don't look like they want to puke just because I approached them at the library or concert or whatever.

[@jmr5059]

Dude this is the best comment on here

[@muffinman9098]

Damn I was this way back in the day and lost it. Thanks for reminding me now that I'm 60

[@itsoktobehappy461]

I’m amazed so many men simply put this much time and effort into dating in general.

[@3liBrns]

Here’s my issue with plate spinning; you’re ruining several females’ ability to pair bond with their future spouse. How can you expect to find decent women when you’re contributing to their downfall ?

[@Flashback_Jack]

All this gamesmanship are character faults of western women. European and Asian women often don't BS men like this.

[@3liBrns]

@@Flashback_Jack I’ll agree with that. But who allowed western women to begin acting like that in the first place? Weak western men

[@KryssN1]

Women make the market, men only abide by the rules women set.

[@paulcosta8297]

I agree only if they are virgins. Almost always though, they have already whorified themselves. But yes I would not feel right deflowering a virgin girl under false pretenses. But zero sympathy if they've already made their own free choice to sleep around.

[@DaRkJaWs42]

@@Flashback_Jack how fucked up we know western society is, is also being reflected in how fucked up their dating and marital relations are. You get videos like this that forms the new consensus on how to deal with women. But in societies where old traditions remain to some extent, these are problems with women you don't have to worry about. Then again, you also generally have masculine men in those kinds of relationships that keep their women in check at all times when it comes to even basic things in life. But it's not just the man, but social norms and values that also does it. We are so, so fucked up here it's sad.

[@rnt45t1]

Welp, I haven't had a relationship with any women in over a decade...

[@sheadailey3155]

My dad taught me when I was 19 after crying about a girl. He said you want a girl knocking at the front door and the back door at the same time. Don’t just fall in love you don’t know what it is. So I did picked up two girls that knew each other, it was like they were competing for me.

[@jamescrosswell440]

Just got "The Unplugged Alpha" on Audible, look forward to listening to it.