Loneliness & Delusion Among Modern Women

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[@pk3522]

Women with a public profile should be blocked.

[@pk3522]

Sad part is, even some of your followers may have messaged her 🤷‍♂️, all we can hope for is man to female ratio is 1:1,000,000.1 man for a million woman, that’s when things will really actually change for the better.

[@mrquackers8986]

Yea most woman I know, cars have all types of scuffs, scratches, dings and dents. 1 woman was getting n my car, I told her to watch ur bag, I don't want scratches on my car, she got mad and said: "it's just a car, who cares, u can't take it wit u wen u delete, u want ur car to look good for who?!" Yea of course she didn't care when her dad paid for her car, like the more dings etc u have on a car the less money u get wen u want to sell it for the next car, why don't they understand that?.....

[@alexandrezanol]

@EntrepreneursInCars Rich, please fix the volume of your "tune" at the end of each video. It is way too loud, much louder than your voice (makes no sense and the speakers rattle and annoy me if I am listening to your voice at a reasonable volume)

[@christiankalb]

Her clip sounds like a WEF commercial

[@raycortinas3271]

People who are happy don’t have to make videos about how happy they are…

[@TILLEYJS]

Exactly. It's pure cope.

[@ChrisPTY507]

The more they brag online about being happy, the more unhappy they really are. One of these days she’s gonna asphyxiate for inhaling so much copium.

[@TILLEYJS]

@@ChrisPTY507 for who needs it.... Quick way to circumvent their bullshit. Ask this question. Name 3-5 things you hate about your life on a date. Listen to her answer. You'll be able to actually assess their situation.

[@rdcivil]

Nailed it!

[@pilotembgamers4644]

Excellent point!

[@CanoeToNewOrleans]

She isn't "saying" anything. If you listen to her words, she's just repeating (parroting) lines that are floating around in pop culture. These aren't her ideas. She's just the vehicle for them.

[@0ccam5Raz0r]

Yes. 100% reciting inspirational quotes. Might as well have said "live. Laugh. Love"😂😂

[@caucasianafrican1435]

Indeed, she is an empty vessel, filled by bs.

[@thomasmulhall4873]

Vehicles

[@NOTDivorce3]

Smart

[@drcox012]

It's really interesting and I wish someone would study one's opinions vs "how locked into the Internet" one is. I'd imagine the results would be downright fascinating. I actually posit that half the internet opinions said on socials these days are just for clout and no one actually takes those proclamations seriously.

[@gd515051]

People who are happy aren’t on social media seeking validation to fill their insecure misery.

[@ivanr4300]

Excellent!!

[@John-kz5tm]

100% true. She needs social media to validate her insecurities.

[@John-kz5tm]

​@@InjectBleach-em9tg So according to your logic, you also, are seeking validation by commenting on others comments. But your probably too unintelligent to realize you just made yourself look like an idiot.

[@paulmunro3175]

Nailed it!

[@shanea9613]

Beautiful. Sums up my life. Ditched it all 5 years ago and never been happier.

[@NicholasAlt]

She is staring in her mirror repeating “I’m happy, I’m happy…”

[@darlisadebose9208]

😅😅😅😅

[@MishMash22]

She has Stuart Smalley syndrome 😂😂😂😂

[@Gizziiusa]

rents a high priced flat. living paycheck to paycheck. you'll own nothing and be happy.

[@Andy-vy9vf]

Used to live in Toronto. He is 100% on point. Moved to Mexico. Different quality of women here. Highly recommend.

[@kaleeysmith8801]

how is mexican women, for blacks and asian men? Toronto one of worst for pickups or to meet decent women, they all have a list of 100 items they want a man to be, while they only fit 5 items out of 100 list themselves.

[@fps6612]

Totally. México is the best

[@Gizziiusa]

viva el Mexico !!!!! Salud !!!!

[@silviosarunic6709]

Beware of cartels…

[@TacticalStrudel]

Can’t raise a child with the “life of abundance they deserve” Children don’t give a shit about “abundance”. That stuff is for the parents’ ego.

[@bjkarana]

Father of two myself, and I can say: well said!

[@The2ndFirst]

Well, as a father I would want the best things for my kids I could get them. That said; There is a brake pedal that has to kick in. I would've liked to have more than I did. Who doesn't want more presents at Christmas?

[@The2ndFirst]

@@bjkarana But given the choice to provide well or poorly for a child, you'd choose well, wouldn't you? In terms of material things? Like certainly you'd spare your child the cesspool the public schools have become?

[@johnnyappleseed6960]

Bingo!... And the selfish attitudes of the parents are the real reason the children suffer.

[@bjkarana]

@@The2ndFirst I hear ya, but I don't make my kids an extension of my ego. They benefit from the nice house my wife and I were able to afford in a safe area with excellent schools, but I'm not one for spoiling them with material goods because it kills their drive to succeed on their own. So to your point, it's wise to set your kids up with plenty of tools for their success, but let them actually earn it. That's my philosophy on it anyhow.

[@SouthernIg]

"I choose to honour their (ancestors') legacy by putting myself first every single day." lol. Since when has selfishness become something noble?

[@AQBPlays]

She honours her ancestors by letting her lineage die out lol

[@markaurelius61]

It's the worship of the self, a total loss of perspective on life.

[@ArmyWolves]

Yes.. Right before that statement she said it would be selfish to have a child just to have someone to hold her hand at her deathbed and then says she wants to put herself first. The irony

[@firstspar]

I LOL'd when I heard her say this. The level of delusion and copium here is at unmeasurable levels.

[@bobdobalina8910]

What I find thought provoking is just how fast will she lose all her pretences when SHTF. Where did that independence go? Living in the city when say the Rule of Law breaks down, or there is a Cyber Attack that wipes out the Internet, or Banking System, or Power Grid etc, things will get tribal PDQ. So STUNNING. So BRAVE. So STRONG. So INDEPENDENT. For those of you out there that think everythink is fine, that nothing is wrong, that the Power Grid can't go down, that the Banks are Impervious, that the Internet and your Social Media will always be there, read up on the History of the world. Many civilizations fell when they were at or near their peak, with little to no warning, many others take decades to crumble. Hard to tell where we are, but the Higher things go, the Farther, Faster and Harder they Fall. It's been a House of Cards Financially since the '99 Dot Com Bubble. It's still building Gents. It will Burst. Not if, but when. These women? They are less than a Dime a Dozen. They are everywhere. Curious how fast it will take to lose the attitude. Good Luck to you.

[@paulettemcnaughton8202]

I’m a sister of two brothers…. I know how bad it is out there. Don’t get me started about divorce/child support court…. These men are telling the truth…❤

[@KarenLopez-in5ih]

Be very careful these women will jump on you ..for going against their benefit s.....easy life...and revenge mechanisms...

[@BenWyatt05]

Couldn’t have said it better myself. It’s nice when a woman can have the courage to speak the truth. Thank you

[@ggee7391]

My uncle [Sapper Royal Engineers] was killed on D Day clearing mines for the Canadians on Juno beach - thank God my Aunt is not around to see what Canada has become.

[@zero1188]

The loneliest women be the ones that keep bragging about how happy they are being single for years. Its a cope

[@robertlucky781]

Let them say what they want, just as long as they leave the men around them alone!

[@walterhorn5567]

Misery loves company.

[@MaseratiRick-ok5oj]

Humans will do anything mentally to justify whatever it is that’s in front of em

[@faux1989]

True. Sidenote I thought your profile pic was an eyelash on my phone screen haha😅

[@rgn87654]

"My kids are the best thing in my life" "I can't live without my husband" "YOU'RE going to end alone, while I have a family that will always love me" "Being a mother/father is the most fulfilling thing I've ever done" "At least I have a relationship/marriage" are all examples of copes as well. We all live our life through coping. Embarrassment is always lurking around the corner.

[@miloskovacevic2245]

Rich you just described 97% Berlin chicks aged 20-40. Feminist, blue hair, artistic, woke. Except they don’t have money for 37$ salads.

[@Goodman849]

I'm guessing Germany's economically screwed

[@miloskovacevic2245]

@@Goodman849 Who needs enemies when you have USA as a friend 😏

[@CielVenus1]

What's wrong with female artists?

[@miloskovacevic2245]

@@CielVenus1 Nothing wrong mate, the combination above is bad.

[@jim-se5xc]

The blue hair dye, especially on old ladies, seeps into their brains.

[@mhsmith1234]

My niece is exactly like this woman right down to the drinking cart, the salad, the latte and a peloton bike instead of yoga. I find it impossible to have a conversation with her. When I do see her my thought is - "I pity the poor b@stard that marries you"

[@cptcurk192]

She sounds hot…go on….😂😂😂😂. Kidding

[@MVProfits]

They are such trend followers Not only the same ideas as simple mantras, but the same drinks, hobbies, look, etc.

[@themetalchronicles.9557]

Peloton bike…💀

[@randybobandy9828]

My sister is like this to an extent... She is 38 no kids and sky-high expectations out of a guy. She makes almost 150k a year and I felt like she priced herself out of ever getting a husband but somehow 8 months ago she managed to find some 30 year old guy to deal with her and I'm pretty sure they are going to get married. I personally think it won't work out because why would a guy so young want to marry a 37 year old? He seems to be successful with his own business but I haven't met him since they live a few states away. I find my sister insufferable when it comes to her views and personality

[@rgn87654]

@@randybobandy9828 She doesn't have sky high expectations. She is embarrassed to admit she wants to be single. See how you are speaking about her as if there is something wrong with her. This breeds embarrassment, so she will have to be less than forthright to avoid being embarrassed. Most relationships are built on this foundation. We are exhaustively embarrassed to end up "alone," so we cling to anything that comes by and then shake our heads at others who didn't act in desperation. Horniness, desperation, and embarrassment will get you down the aisle, not love. Love is a cope to explain the other three less than desirable reasons.

[@lesterdiamond6190]

Let’s not forget that Toronto’s army of Becky’s will still vote Liberal in the next election. They’re THAT far gone.

[@John_Caravella]

Of course they will. Trudeau identifies as a "male feminist." Canada better smarten up or 3rd-world-country status will be imminent.

[@Case206]

100!

[@shawnwright5332]

Criminal

[@MakeYouFeelBetterNow]

Ignorant and heading for self destruction.

[@corywalker9498]

Blame yourself 😅 there your sisters

[@dakotaescher1]

We are a miserable society (lonely, anxiety, etc). We worship self, money, and possessions. We are addicted to social media.

[@stephenholmes1036]

Well said

[@raymundogonzalez6450]

Move overseas!

[@dougbrooks2501]

and narcissistic.

[@Jughead24]

​@raymundogonzalez6450 best move I have ever made. It's amazing here in the East. Except that if enough come over, they'll ruin this too. Stay home and fix it.

[@cristobal.ashton]

The West is dead

[@CosmosChill7649]

Independent and / or wealthy women can NEVER stay in a marriage Divorce rates among independent women is almost 100%, and it is important that men realise this danger before falling into a relationship, especially marriage

[@briandavis1115]

Agreed.

[@maxamillion6958]

Is it better to just stay in a relationship -Just because.?

[@dougkrk1]

Generally speaking, these women want Platonic friendships to start out. Then they may choose to have a romantic relationship with one lucky guy if he measures up to her standards.

[@maxamillion6958]

@@dougkrk1 - is that terrible?

[@kartolux]

Why marry an independent woman?

[@arturosalazar4890]

Massive massive cope. Truly happy people don't need to announce it on the internet.

[@roses6564]

Her saying "I am happy to live by myself for now...etc" is not an actual claim of happiness and you know it. She is implying she'll make do for now but she remains open to a satisfying relationship. She'll believe it when she sees it. If she can feed herself, why settle for a relationship that would leave her emotionally and spiritually frustrated? Men and women no longer need each other in economic ways, but they DO need each other in emotional ways. Men should try it sometimes.

[@khanhcao3123]

​@roses6564 No, we don't want be emotional abused.

[@TKnuckles333]

These women are all over the place now. I live in Bend, OR. It’s a nice mountain town. I see these women in shops, and so forth. I make eye contact and smile. I’m lucky if I don’t get a look of annoyance. Women seem to have this seething, angry attitude. “How dare you look at me! Creepy dude is looking at me!”. Sad.

[@Erlymroz]

This is so true. I actually tested this out the other day. I went to the grocery store and instead of trying to avoid eye contact with people around me, I decided to look up and smile at some of the guys that were around me while walking by. Their faces lit up! They just looked happy someone acknowledged them. I even said “hello how are you” to one of the guys in the meat section and he started a whole conversation and thanked me afterwards. Men are very deprived of genuine connection with women and it’s heart breaking.

[@ma3stro681]

Give them absolutely no attention … 💀

[@johnhounslow-robinson9294]

Look and then look away. That pisses them off.

[@steveterry7222]

Bend is one of the greatest towns on earth.

[@andrewpizzino2514]

I remember I took a flight awhile back sitting next to one of these types. The visible angry energy was hilarious. She was waiting for me to start a conversation so she could go off. Can’t fix crazy.

[@KingCarFlips]

Matched with a single mom (who admitted her baby’s father was a druggie) she used to be a Hooters girl to “pay the bills” and our first phone call she pretty much right off the bat and said she wants her partner to “worship the ground she walks on” and then proceeded to say “you’re not taking me back to your house on the first date” when she told me to buy her Oreos from Walmart so we could eat them together she said “we will eat them in your truck”. I put the Oreos back and told her how much it turns me off when women are too structured and kill the vibe with all the rules like it’s some sort of negotiation. Proceeds to say it’s just a boundary and then I told her “I never said I wanted you back at my place. I never invited you back and I don’t even know if I like you or trust you enough to have my address. Just keep that to yourself until I invite you, you have the option to say yes or no”. Let’s just say it ended well that night and she’s never talking to me ever again.

[@AlyssaIrvine]

😂 This story is funny. I would have bought the Oreos still but that's because they are delicious 😋

[@KarenLopez-in5ih]

Oreo cookies coo coo.

[@SmooveBee1]

I know. We call that a near miss; who knows what she says on the phone to her sister that night, there is no telling.

[@KarenLopez-in5ih]

Cookys. ..and crazy cream Oreo cookies

[@mikeconcino4022]

Good story. Should have bought the oreos, handed them to her, then tell to call a cab. She can eat them on the way home.

[@rahabd]

She's Worldly and selfish. She's only fooling herself and seeking validation. What a sad existence.

[@michaelragell]

I live in Toronto. And this is literally the most common woman you will meet. They are insufferable to deal with or be around. I left Toronto last year mainly cuz i cant stand these kind of people and worse i cant deal with the consequences of what they vote for. Moved to a small town over and hour away. Happiest I've been in years

[@Rymorin4]

small towns with good recreation and clean water, air, food. good choice for this time in the world.

[@MakeYouFeelBetterNow]

Yes, get out. They now have a "rain tax".

[@elcuencodelafelicidad]

The same here in Berlin,Germany...these are the most common women.

[@corywalker9498]

And still haven't found a woman 😅

[@jerrysears7607]

😮

[@sergiofedele6811]

This video by the Toronto woman reminds me of a Latin expression "excusatio non petita, accusatio manifesta" (= an excuse not requested is an evident self accusation). Happy people do not need to do those videos and don't even think about doing them, they simply live their happy life.

[@gd515051]

That is literally all of social media. The whole thing is a sham. 99% of women on TikTok just narcissists making videos about themselves.

[@ernestbuckley8671]

And you my friend have pointed out exactly the sad state of this channel. The host is constantly berating women in his passive aggressive nature and feels the need to constantly create repetitive content and yet he’s “successful” and a “coach”. Best to move on from these toxic channels.

[@TheAustrianPainter87]

​@@ernestbuckley8671And yet here you are😊

[@Wise-Lady-La-Aura]

That’s genius! Love that phrase! Thank you! 💕⭐️🌷

[@ernestbuckley8671]

@@TheAustrianPainter87Not exactly sure what you’re saying brother but if my comment triggers a response from you, then there may be some truth in it. 😉

[@dirtysouthtiger]

She wants a man to “lift her up and add value” 🙄 KEEP GRINDING BECKY!!💪😂

[@keithcourneya4900]

Whats funny is even if she met that guy she wouldnt respect him. These women dont even know what value is🤣

[@davidexperiment916]

Hahaha nice

[@brucesmith9144]

That’s why there’s OF to give them constant validation by thirsty men willing to give her their money.

[@calibre_au6183]

Women that need uplifting will likely drag you down in the process, just like Newton said!

[@Case206]

@@keithcourneya4900 100!

[@TheStackBoy24sev]

Whatever someone tends to overshare on social media (amazing vacay, amazing relationship, etc)...u can assume the exact opposite is the norm in their life

[@megandeuse]

I dont find an issue with her being single, but listening to you makes me see how all these people in these videos are alone. There is no interaction with family, friends etc. So the message is stay in a small place, isolate yourself sourounded by expensive things. Who does this message benefit besides marketers, antidepressant manufacturers & population control. Thanks for the new perspective 👍

[@upcups9319]

Packaged as “self love”

[@alex-p]

"New perspective" ...???... lol ...Have you been living under a rock for the past 10+ years? ...Well, better late than never, I suppose.

[@roses6564]

Pop control is great. Now try it on all groups.

[@megandeuse]

@@alex-p I've always been aware of the pop control etc, but I didn't really pay that much attention to these videos besides seeing them as 'self care' messages. After watching this, I saw it very differently. Not all of us learn at the same speeds. Be kind in your comments because I see many of them are passive aggressive. That's not how you help people wake up. You just push people away from watching this type of content.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

The media is wierd, when a guy like nick cannon who's got millions of dollars to take care of 100 kids, they act like him having the kids is terrible, if I was rich, I'd have 1000 kids.

[@johgndavis8159]

As a Russian 50 y o woman who has been living in US almost 20 years and been happily married american husband and being a home stay mom for our 2 teenage boys from the day one I approve this massage!

[@ma3stro681]

Wives should massage their husbands daily … 😂

[@hikingpeaks4377]

Who cares what mail order brides got to say..

[@igor0545]

Умница 👍

[@wanderingwarrior5626]

The U.S. will eventually drive you insane, and you won't notice it, because, everyone acts in the same manner. So it will seem normal. I took my Russian wife out of the U.S. 13yrs ago, we are very happy living abroad, among other Russians. That say, 'This is the best country for life'. Most westerners (including Canadians) have become unfeeling, non-thinking robots, that are always looking for a high from getting the best, getting it, then, still not being happy, start looking for something more, to be happy. Never ending circle of unhappiness, craziness!

[@wanderingwarrior5626]

As for rich guys, I live among them. Yet to see a happy face. These guys own the mega yachts. They have a wife, and girlfriends on the side, that the wife knows about, but ignores.

[@pxlmvr7]

She literally didn’t grasp the irony speaking about her ancestors and also declaring that her line that has existed for thousands of years, ends with her.

[@talibanParade]

Remember, a woman will be believed anytime she says she was raped, even when married. False accusations never get punished either.

[@josephtomaselli9181]

That liquor cabinet on wheels brought back some memories 😅 Standard issue for cat ladies.

[@justdewit]

Imo the liquor cabinet and the apartment are little above her pay grade though. She probably got 50% from the previous "safe relationship"

[@uniktbrukernavn]

Comes home from work, stressed out, pours a big glass of wine from box that sits on the counter, mumbles into the glass as she brings it up to her mouth "mommy needs adult juice, yes she does". Takes a big gulp, wipes her mouth, the lipstick smears. She walks over to the couch, picks up the cat along the way "you're my little baby, yes you are". Pats the cat like it's a dusty pillow. Cat runs away. She spills wine on the couch "look what you made mommy do, you bitch!" she screams - her once girlish voice now aged into something resembling a rusty bile-trumpet. Several glasses later she's asleep on the couch. It's 7pm.

[@josephtomaselli9181]

@@uniktbrukernavn she’s still empowered and strong and doesn’t need no man!

[@richardyardley5127]

She lives the paper thin life that so many single twenty something's live each day. They validate their lives on Face Book and KZbin etc. and yet are just one bad pay cheque away from being homeless. They make no plans for their own future security and just live for the moment, drinking designer coffee from designer jam jars. They walk from the train station to their average non job office work parading with their Starbucks coffee takeout held out in front of them like a trophy. They have the latest iPhone on contract, when their previous iPhone was fine. Their car is on lease or hire purchase. Their credit cards are on or near limit. Their whole life is fake. An illusion to fool and impress their friends and when it eventually goes wrong, they'll either run back home to mum and dad or get pregnant or live with the first beta man they see who has a roof over his head. Very sad.

[@al1665]

"Add value" means give her your whole damn paycheck

[@Johnboy6346]

It's like that scene from game of thrones..."any man who has to say I am the king is no true king" so any women shouting about how happy she is...its usually the opposite

[@donniejunk2860]

I dated the same woman for 7 yearss Working and building on the same goals she transferred from community college to the university and less than 4 months later we were split and this is now her current existence

[@senort7529]

Mexico City counts and is North America’s largest city, putting Toronto in 4th

[@ZerefCifer707]

I'm so happy, let me post how happy I am for everyone to see so they can validate my illusion of being happy with my beliefs Cope cope cope

[@George-ri6vg]

Oh yeah, it’s very common. I grew up in Greece, but I have been living in the south here in America since 2005. You are the first one to discover after I went through a divorce seven years ago I can say that your videos have a very big impact in my life and I’m so grateful to have found your channel. Yes everywhere around the world women are like that nowadays I think it’s because of the Internet they watch videos from other countries and they’re just like “Becky.” I’m sure there are good women out there but I haven’t had any luck unfortunately

[@MarkSt.Germain]

Hell ya brother loved it!!!! You make so much sense, Vancouver is full of Becky's.

[@jibril2473]

She’s not lonely. Brad the hedge fund manager comes and goes whenever he pleases.

[@DerrickRuiz]

I read somewhere on a red pill site that Toronto was one of the worst cities for men

[@MakeYouFeelBetterNow]

It is. Compared to everywhere else, even in Canada, it is a city of loneliness.

[@JackAndTheBeanstalkr]

yes, you can't find a good one anywhere

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

Toronto looks like immigrants just came in and destroyed the whole place, you go there and it's a bunch of foreigners, mf you weren't born in Canada, you don't even speak French lmao

[@dr.manhattan6278]

As a 43 year old man who is also single, childless and lives alone, I have no issue with how she lives her life. Unless your life is like a romantic comedy, and you meet your "soulmate" in the dairy section of your local supermarket, children and marrying the wrong person would definitely make people like her and myself more miserable. It's definitely not a coping mechanism.

[@coderman4315]

Yeahhh, it's not a problem but she's a influencer who's role is influencing other women. I he recent videos, she tell to rat whatever she wants, she's fat rn and all girls appreciating her for that...she turned into such a unhealthy person, saw her few years ago in person, she looked into good shape but now with all stupidity, she is messed up and messing up other women's thought procedure too!

[@LittleHatori]

That's how I feel too. Sure, I'm some people r not genuine on social media. But I feel like the tide is changing immensely when it comes to Western culture and values. She probably is being very honest and I think as long as she has her retirement set up, she is doing fine and I'm happy for her.

[@lot2196]

There won't be any western culture because of narcissist like you.

[@dw4956]

Don't compare men and woman. Thats like comparing apples with bumper stickers.

[@coderman4315]

@@dw4956 u made me laugh lol

[@jasonweishaupt1828]

How many happy videos does she need to produce to convince her that she is happy?

[@The2ndFirst]

It's just narcissism. I have been single since my 2nd divorce, thankful that I didn't fare worse than I did. Largely I am alone. It's a relief. I've moved twice and might be coming up on a third time, seeing and actually living the whole of the US. After 20 years of thinking about others first, I now think about myself first. I am first, my dog is 1st 2.0. I have tried to work with these women, and it's just not happening. I always end up on the business end of the deal. I was largely alone as a kid, and now I've sort of come back to that as an older adult. I'm happy. I own my truck. I'm debt free. When I was the age of the young lady in the video, I was not happy being alone. I don't think she is either. She just doesn't have the emotional means to sustain a relationship. In fairness, I don't either. I get what she's feeling, but she has a lot more to lose than me.

[@Goodman849]

Sometimes I was alone as a kid. Helped me prepare for my 40s

[@The2ndFirst]

@@InjectBleach-em9tg I'm not saying it's not me for sure. I had a hand in it. The second one. The first one was a bad choice.

[@roses6564]

It's kind of crazy that men are allowed be to be like you, but women should not be allowed to make the choices this woman made? Why would she have a lot more to lose than you?

[@alexlight7254]

Why she had more to loose then you?

[@JackAndTheBeanstalkr]

why is your dog 2.0?

[@mithicash1444]

To be honest with you, most people conflate single with independent. As a guy I thought becoming single improved my life, but after a couple of years of going solo i realized I was missing the independence of being in full control of my life rather than being simple. This is why when you look for a partner you want someone who has a life outside of the relationship.

[@jkbrown5496]

An observation from the 1920s when it all started: "Maiden aunts and unmarried daughters were leaving the shelter of the family roof to install themselves in kitchenette apartments of their own. For city-dwellers the home was steadily becoming less of a shrine, more of a dormitory- a place of casual shelter where one stopped overnight on the way from the restaurant and the movie theater to the office. Yet even the job did not provide the American woman with that complete satisfaction which the management of a mechanized home no longer furnished. She still had energies and emotions to burn; she was ready for the revolution."

[@misscoutts6193]

Back then, there was a shortage of men after WW1 that's why so many single women. That's not the case now.

[@katemoffitt1641]

This is so sad. There’s nothing that can replace love. Nothing! A good start is 2b the loving, kind, caring peep that u want others 2b. I surround myself with loving peeps. It’s a veritable love-fest on any given day… of ALL genders, ALL ages… & ALL types of relationships. But it starts with me. AND it works✔️ Yes I have to weed out some shallow, uncaring, nasty, back-stabbing, callous peeps… and yes I have been hurt by some of them in the past… but I get wiser & more loving as I go along… not less loving… not closed off… and especially not more materialistic. Love fills u up✔️

[@siriusfun]

Couldn't agree more, Rich - Toronto's a toilet. I grew up here, played in bands in the late 80s/90s when there was a scene, and have watched it burn to the ground for all of the reasons you mentioned (and quite a few you didn't but I suspect you're keenly aware of). As for 'Becky' - yes, all the conspicuously vegetarian dishes, a bar cart that rivals Motley Crue, invoking all the requisite terms such as "abundance", privilege"... yeah, I'm good. All the best, chica.

[@quinnrivera5075]

I’m 54. Kind of in a spot where my friends are mostly women. Either exes or women I’ve hooked up with and stayed friendly with. They are all happily single. But they will come by and have a drink or smoke 💨 a number with me and they are all lonely. They are in their 40s. Decent looking. I try to tell them thier lives are front loaded. When you’re and beautiful and a woman the world literally seeks to serve you. They think the free ride will never end. Now they are looking for the nice guy. When they say that “I am looking for a nice guy “ I tell them they have had plenty of nice guys in their pasts. And they left them for d bags . It’s sad. I live in Thailand now. Some will come and visit me. They love it here. But they realize they can’t compete with the women here in SE Asia. I tell them men have the upper hand here. They realize it. And a few have even admitted they screwed up along the way.

[@michaelsix9684]

most women who are single after 35 are single for a good reason, you're seeing them show up later

[@baffinsansterre]

Can't save them all, it's "triage".

[@ADobbin1]

But they are still unwilling to change what they are doing right?

[@JackAndTheBeanstalkr]

Thailand is the best

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

At a certain age men don't find women attractive and its because of biological needs to find women that are capable of having children. Men do not marry women that they do not want to have kids with, 99% of men won't anyway. Marrying a woman you don't plan on having kids with, for what? Taxes? Lol

[@undertheblue2006]

Modern women just seem so unhappy don’t they? Their lives lack meaning so they lash out with social media, tattoos and yoga. Very sad.

[@mariahjordan5232]

😂😂😂

[@lincolnlawyer9704]

I’m a guy and I was thinking the same thing about men judging by this guy.

[@junetaylor8396]

All men think women need men to find meaning. Men destroy meaning.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

Yeah, what's their goal in life without a man and children, what about grand children? They miss out on their entire purpose in life. If I had to save 1 person from a burning build and there's 2 in the building, 2 women, 1 has children and the other doesn't, I'm saving the one with kids.

[@829001333]

Pure gold you're talking about! Respect & thanks!

[@noahberndtson4170]

The common denominator is me me me. Clear case of Humpty Dumpty syndrome. Broken beyond fixing.

[@benjaminadams_]

23M law student here in Melbourne, Aus. Recently I have been doing clerkships at these ‘top tier’ law firms in Melbourne. Firms now are about 60/40 female/male, getting more skewed. While some of them are of course very smart, it can be very uncomfortable and a bit sad to see these girls grinding into their late 20s, 30s, while displaying no intention of marrying and having kids. Eventually you start hearing rumours of eggs being frozen, and it all really makes me want to avoid these top tiers at all costs, despite the pay and status.

[@Liverpoolaussie21]

Come to Sydney and you will find the exact problem

[@TheFunkybert]

No matter the insanity of the modern construct you stay focused on becoming the best version of yourself. It’s an honor.

[@vincei4252]

freeze the eggs then what ? I never seem to get a clear answer.

[@alex-p]

My friend, you seem a little confused. Those are not "top tiers". But you are still young you'll learn... hopefully not the hard way.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

​​@@vincei4252They get them thawed when the mom to be is ready. I'm not a medical guy though I think it is similar to freezing sperm, or reversing a vasectomy. Chances of success go way down. This does prompt the question - why can't they be the way (women) they were designed to be? Eventually they will get tired of wearing a mask to the world, and themselves. Invest in anti-depressants (& cat food, & boxed wine).

[@aek72]

As a european: now i understand where Troudo gets his votes from.

[@hv3115]

Trudeau

[@thomashowardmd247]

Becky? Is that you? We all prefer the European spelling over your Toronto one.

[@pablogats4627]

Women and minorities 😂

[@JackAndTheBeanstalkr]

are you from the same continent as Franco, Mussolini, "Hister", Tito, Milosovic, Orban etc... check the beam in your own eye before you see the splinter in others'

[@aek72]

@@JackAndTheBeanstalkr yes. Iam from the continent that supplied the killers of Indians that colonized Canada. Thanks for reminding me.

[@M0viLover]

Ha, ha. I *also* caught that liquor cart in the video! And, yeah - she won't "settle." But, as Rich pointed out, and as The Godfather used to quote: maam .. you're average *at best!*

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

The word settle assumes the person is in a higher position, old women need to take what they can get, the men who settle for women that can't give them families, that's settling, just for the company. Got 40 year old women out here acting like they can give a man 5 kids and a happy home, when all they do is drink, lazy pt, complain, and can't even have kids, the least they could do is cook, but they now just order food lmao like wtf does a man get from a woman like this? Why would a man invest any time or money?

[@Thetruth588]

I’ve had two LTR’s that produced 3 children. And I’ve also had countless girlfriends. And women absolutely suck. Ive been done with them for years now. The bachelor lifestyle and my peace is heaven. My soul is restored. ❤

[@andrewk2663]

I'm good enough. I'm smart enough. And doggonit, people like me.

[@michaellott1333]

"A cat or three", literally made me laugh out loud!! Good shit.

[@Shudderetal]

It's good to have a simple sense of humor

[@jvillalaz44]

I live in Everett, Washington. (Seattle area). Yes there are many Becky's around here.

[@chronicfatiguehermithiker3022]

Men live their lives. When men involve women, it’s so she can give him more of what he wants, quietly, clean up the mess, keep out of his way and don’t interrupt him with her problems. She said that she’s tried to connect to men that she has dated unsuccessfully. She gave up. All that is complicated. If she’d had children, it would have been more complicated. Rolling out of bed in the morning with nothing to do but whatever is not complicated. There is no one to shut up and serve, and clean up after, and get ignored by. Tranquil nothing, peace and quiet. Yes, being loved would be nice, but it’s never going to happen, because for that to happen, a man would have to bother, and is that ever going to happen?

[@tammielisa]

‘The kinds of men these women want…’. She literally said she’s out of a long relationship and not interested in another one. Do men even pay attention to anything women say?

[@Steevy84]

yeah, women never lie or cope of course... 🙃 Just look at her, nothing is genuine about her attitude or any void statement she made. Making a whole video about "how happy you are being single while getting older" for the internet to know is one of the most disingenuous and depressing things I have ever watched

[@StreetFig]

Yup, that's Cope 101 For Beginners. Class is in session, ladies

[@enjoybendlife]

The large majority of profiles I see on dating apps start by listing all the things they won’t do, then explain why they don’t need a man. It is a non-starter in terms of dating, but most of them will never respond to a message anyway. Women in the dating pool these days are delusional.

[@robertlucky781]

It sounds like the women in the dating pool are also chlorinating the dating pool themselves.

[@JackAndTheBeanstalkr]

they should become vagitarians since they are all goddesses

[@stevieG.]

Based on what I see in England most of the 'Becky's' are early 30's, they seem ok when they are younger when they don't have that bitterness vibe.

[@Steevy84]

"they looked ok when they WERE younger" We pretty much have the same ones in Paris as well, they are lazy and have 0 will to go to the gym, or eat some broccoli, but would die for a guy in shape, I fucked many of those on dating apps, had just 1 who knew how to cook but was born and grew up in eastern Europe, so doesn't count, all the others were ordering uber or any delivery food, they are useless, old, average looking, often single moms, but expect something serious from men 3-4 leagues above their's

[@kbuss10]

A LADY IN TORONTO... god in heavens. need we say more? any additional information needed here ?🤣🤣 just straight up clwn shxt :D also shes not shure about capable of raising a child in a proper standard of living while living in a 30th floor full panorama condo in her early thirties... her disconnection from real world and the hardship of ppl is next level

[@omegajoe7014]

Toronto is the coldest city in the world. And I'm not talking about the temperature.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

I go to Toronto and I'm like wow where, are all the white people.

[@trevorstevenson4772]

When they drop the word 'partnership'. Hahahaja

[@03edgex600]

First time I heard" my partner " from a girl I thought the was a lesbian. Found out she wasnt then I was like she either lived in Toronto or was from there. I was correct

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

Partners assume we are equal lol its so silly that women ignore biology but will brag about how educated they ate.

[@rudyrey5600]

The reality of those who talked publicly like that is usually the opposite of what is coming out of her mouth.. People are so dishonest to them self, only dilutions, so broken inside, miserable, is only a faceit And you are right about Toronto, lived there for 40 years, in good neighborhood I left that city, now I'm 5 hours away and couldn't be any happier

[@fishin4bogey]

More power to her. As a guy in his mid fifties, when they get close to my age, they're an easy pump n dump. I know a bunch who are desperately trying to make up for lost time. It hits them like a dump truck speeding downhill when their friends are off to the kids houses to have a get together for whatever reason, and she's home with her cats and box wine. For a lot of these older single women, The Golden Girls are going from a TV show to their reality.

[@alexlight7254]

Kids leave and have their own life... Her friends ,who dedicated 20 best years of their life to raise the kids ,will see them twice a year for Christmas and Thanksgiving. Not like spending their golden years with their children like in India or some other 3d countries. So she doesn't choose this investment of her life .

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

If they would know their place, they would enjoy their lives, to many people telling them they are up here, when they are not and need to kneel. It's that simple, a woman's life becomes easier when she follow her biological function with a man, and instinct. All this social construct shit is making them single, playing on their ego.

[@Rennette-td2mq]

Thanks Rich. I have two daughters and they were very nice, well adjusted girls until they went to university and became indoctrinated and brainwashed. Now they worship abundance and narcissism. This world is fast becoming a sad place

[@edwin8657]

The touch the coffe was priceless 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Psmitty97]

No wonder the fake Yoga isn't working. How could it? Look at all those liquid calories

[@Techelettt]

Being single doesn’t require that you be a self-centered narcissist. You can be a caring contributing member of humanity even if you don’t have an SO…volunteer, donate…give back in some meaningful way.

[@plawikonik1247]

I feel like she's trying to convince herself that she's happy.

[@kurts6741]

I know 22 women between the ages of 26 to 62 who have never been married. I have never seen 17 of them with a man in their life. I would say 7 of them are physically attractive. The others have never been in good physical condition. 18 of them have either a cat or a dog. I estimate 5 of them have good careers with decent net worth. The others have always been financially struggling and should have realized their only hope in having a good life was to find a successful man.3 of them are interesting with a variety of interests. The other 19 are sadly empty vessels that don't have much to create chemistry with a man. They have lives of quiet desperation.

[@roses6564]

Because you hear their "quiet desperation" ...that's how quiet it is. rofl Do you realize how many poorly married women live lives of quiet desperation?

[@kurts6741]

@@roses6564 Pick your mate and cats carefully.

[@roses6564]

@@kurts6741 So which one is it: should women settle or not? Because "picking carefully" means refusing to settle for anyone other than someone who feels just right, without whom the woman couldn't imagine spending her life. Make up your mind. Or is your ego playing tricks on you, causing you to rationalize that a woman who "picks carefully" is one who wouldn't hesitate to pick YOU, but she would think long and hard before getting fixated on the Chad you subconsciously fear as competition? Silly coping men will have to come up with another silly manipulative trick because the cat threat cope is wearing thin. Do better, think in colors. Creativity gets you closer to Chadhood.

[@kurts6741]

@@roses6564 Do these women know their real value. Or are they overvaluing themselves? 95% of them are not some prize for any guy. They are a dime a dozen.

[@roses6564]

@@kurts6741Depends on the woman. They range from delusional to highly realistic. Some have reduced self-esteem relative to what they have to offer. Feminism pumped up silly women's egos and while you may see lots of bravado on the surface because of that, most still know instinctively what is realistic for them to hope for. Quite a few are still very self-conscious and sell themselves low. It's not about transactionalism, it's that if they don't like him, they don't like him. The end.

[@minboborox2179]

She's lost, confused, for sure in absolute pain & misery... feel so satisfying to see toxic feminist losing, but off the screen she definitely cry alot

[@IAO94]

She probably does not cry man. Women like that are disconnected from their emotions completely and are fully immersed in their delusion. Any time you try to help them make good decisions or believe their bull shit you loose.

[@alexlight7254]

Why is it satisfying for you to see her in pain? She has her own life- you have yours. Find a girl with the same traditional upbringing, or who wants kids and marriage and be happy

[@shikhasophia2784]

Toxic red pill men💩💩

[@shanea9613]

"Becky" would take it everywhere from anyone after a glass of wine. I love disposable "Becky's" and keep meeting them.

[@galenyoung7917]

Woman strongly believe in equality until it comes to picking up the check. 😂

[@thaneknight]

If you have to sell it. It ain't worth buying. Most people's lives are boring and mundane, punctuated with moments of tragedy or ecstasy.I'm too old and have lived too long to know that people who have to work to convince you of something. Are often lying.I could be completely wrong,but when people lie hey have to fully convince themselves first. Some people are happier alone. She sounds jaded having been in relationships that didn't work out "toxic" etc.She clearly wants a relationship and says it. Eating a salad alone doesn't seem like a vision of happiness I want to aspire to.

[@yarossnydertime6225]

Liberal mindset is SAD 😞

[@windsong8275]

Why are the type of men who follow these types of channels so bothered by the fact that many women sincerely mean it when they say they are happy single and or without kids ? I don’t get what is so hard to believe. I was the woman for many years. Being single after a bad relationship was pure freedom and peace. Pure pure peace. You can’t put a price on that. I’m now in a healthy relationship and I enjoy this as well. I’m able to enjoy it because I was able to enjoy being alone. Maybe that’s the issue. Maybe the men who don’t get it are the men who don’t enjoy being single so they can’t fathom how women are able to be .. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@DimitriTheBarbarian]

You are not single, you have all your girlfriends and occasional friend with benefits. Nothing wrong with being single. Children is a whole separate discussion and everybody knows kids is the only life purpose humans have therefore denying it is just delusional

[@lynnferry291]

@windsong8275 I think you hit the nail on the head. The entire channel is about how horrible women are, but how can I get one. The fact is, women don't really need a man, but men need women. The kind of men who watch these kind of channels want a maid, secretary and sex partner on demand, and are bitter that women are no longer willing to perform those roles. They have yet to open their eyes to the fact that if they don't provide value to our lives, we don't want or need to tolerate them.

[@windsong8275]

@@DimitriTheBarbarian you’re making a lot of assumptions about me and you have no idea who I am. I’ve never once in my life had a friends with benefits. I’ve only ever had a husband and a fiancé. I was celibate for 4.5 years before meeting my now fiancé. My best friend is a virgin and will get married this year at 29. She wants kids and I don’t. We are both happy with our decisions. We are both what you all would consider high quality women yet we both talk often about how messed up the mentality is amongst these groups. You all talk about good women being rare and not being able to find them. That’s the kicker. We exist. We just choice men who value us.

[@DimitriTheBarbarian]

@@windsong8275 so you lying. First you said you single now you have a husband and a finance. Typical woman all emotions no logic

[@windsong8275]

@@DimitriTheBarbarian I said I WAS single. As in past tense. Your poor reading comprehension doesn’t make me a liar. 😭

[@stevemiller1345]

Omg. Imagine listening to that every day

[@baryl3969]

A lot of guys when they are young date these kind of girls. I always wondered why. When I got older I realized guys are naive and mature later so they’re not even aware of what they’re dealing with. Then I meet older guys like you and some who are divorced and wasted their youth with these kind of girls and I’m like “Ah, these are these young guys awake 20 years down”.

[@ginor8416]

$800,000 for a one bedroom plus den in downtown Toronto with a 50 year amortization. You couldn’t raise a family in that any how

[@Psmitty97]

Wow, they do 50 year terms? Holy cow

[@ginor8416]

From 25 years to 30 to 50 and soon 100 years. The intent is to make us all renters while corporations and billionaires own everything. Even if you already own property they will tax you out of it

[@joshn5073]

my last GF (7 months long distance-ish) had a problem with me not texting her when she was sick (within 24 hours from last text) . she says "It doesn't feel right, should we separate and be friends?", I told her that I hope she feels better, thanked her for the great times and said bye., she thanked me and we did not speak since, she tells her girlfriend "he doesn't like me" you just cant win she has an apartment in the city, small dog, watches the view and the bachelor

[@chasefamilyracing8008]

I'm already such a perfectly balanced man, Money, confidence, abs of steel, growing career... this channel can't teach me anything and I refuse to settle for content that isn't perfect for me! I will wait around until the right channel finds me.

[@anitamcginnis8028]

Impressed. 😀

[@dwtees]

I kmow a woman who is a becky, She lives in a condo by herself, She is an uncompromising alfa widow know it all, has all the answers. Yes she lives with her cats! After her break up with her alfa guy no one can measure up and she would rather live with her cats than compromise. She is now in her late 60's. So sad.

[@obakhanjones2869]

It’s soo funny, this describes my ex-girlfriend (nurse, yoga “instructor”, not really fit but skinny, living in Hawaii on her own) and the ironic thing is her name is Rebecca and only goes by Becca. 😂

[@JackAndTheBeanstalkr]

Aloha!

[@ariedeknaller88]

The very last thing you said about the girl and the Lexus.. It's really a metaphor of her life. She thinks she's accomplished this amazing vehicle/way of life by bumping into everyone/not caring. Meanwhile, all panels of her car/facets of her life are dented and damaged. Couldn't be more symbolic to me, Mr. Cooper.

[@iamspartacus3114]

The key question is: 'do cats really reciprocate'?

[@TheUltimateCruiser]

You are apt ON with every analysis you make! Love your content!!!!!

[@anniealexander9616]

She could be cooking, cleaning, changing diapers, and dealing with a man who only stops playing video games to chat up women on Facebook. This woman chose correctly. All men do is ruin your life. This weekend, I told my exhusband to go be happy. We've been divorced for over 20 years. He misses being taken care of and screwing up our lives. But he can't do that after the divorce. He has to take care of himself. He can chat up whoever he wants. Now, I'm going downstairs to make my coffee. I'm going to exercise at 10am. After a shower, I'm going to a nice lunch.....at a place my exhusband would hate!

[@Pala-t2p]

"All men do is ruin your life." Don't speak for all of us now 😘 lol

[@jacksonjacob7791]

I'm sorry you feel that way. I guess you shouldn't have picked the Chad's and Tyrone's. Now your experiences with them has made you bitter.

[@anniealexander9616]

@@jacksonjacob7791 It's reality! It's not Chad and Tyrone. Men are selfish and only think of themselves. There are 7 million work aged men who have opted out of the workforce. They are a burden on society and the people supporting them. They are being studied and report doing very little of anything constructive. They report lots and lots of screen time. Video games/ porn. How many does it take to stop blaming women?

[@anniealexander9616]

@@jacksonjacob7791 Women are buying homes at twice the rate of men. Men are living with Mommy for as long as she can take care of him. Do some research.

[@rickbergstrom3859]

The wall comes fast lady

[@mikeingeorgia1]

I usually go “out” once a week. I’m very talkative so I chat with lots of women. The number of them that have told me they take head meds for “anxiety” is very disturbing. I just don’t figure a truly strong, independent person would need head meds regularly. 🤷‍♂️

[@DimitriTheBarbarian]

I’ve been on Benzo meds prescribed by an evil doctor and I will NEVER ever again go on another medication that can alter my brain function.

[@derrickreed]

😂 that liquor cart tho was shaky at best 😂

[@brianbard3410]

Happy being single, but actually not happy at all .

[@christinemadrazo6755]

It’s very sad because she’s profiting from selling women lies.

[@smokyquartz5817]

This dude doesn't cope to live, he lives to cope.

[@MW-eg4gu]

"The abundance the child deserves," says who she is.

[@nationalscholar]

Lives of quiet desperation. No judgments. Life is tough enough.

[@bendigiorgio2830]

Very interesting . More of these video diaries of under 35 women trying to justify their lonely existence through their lifestyle and possessions -- please .

[@saccitygrl01]

As someone who has been single for 30 years I echo the "becky's" sentiment. Never been happier--love my single life and 6 figure salary. Raised two daughter, imbued them with the same attitude. Proud to say they are in their 30s and single too. Always told them life with anyone who thinks and act as entitled as most men these days is hell. Single life with a few good friends is VERY much preferable situation and women these days don't NEED men, they have NOTHING to offer than can be bought on your own.. Sorry our gender has finally figured this out and it peeves you guys.

[@user-nx4el1vo7o]

To answer your question. I live near Winnipeg Manitoba. About 15 years ago when I was in the dating world there was a trend of women becoming nurses of all types. Mostly general nurse and psychiatric nurse. The women I dated then, seemed to have a common trend. Which was get a good job, tell the world about it, make people praise you for it, and disregard any male who helped them get there. Most of them had a bad relationship with their fathers and blamed their upbringing on them entirely. By the time these women were 23 years old they had dozens of short term relationships and were almost impossible to discuss any topic seriously past what Netflix show was popular. Very hard to get along with to say the least. They almost all had multiple male friends as well. Most of which they knew as too well. Even as a young man at the time I knew to steer clear. Now it's a huge problem young men face now and divorced men face.

[@Michael_RareZebra]

Nurse was all I had to hear. I've dated a couple of Nurses in the states and never again. I'm sure there's some good ones out there, but a lot of them are off their rockers.