EP 1: Sin and Saint Syndrome; authentic desires, societal guilt, & cycle of pleasure

Pleasure Principle Episode 1: Do you find yourself caught in a cycle of pleasure and guilt? Do your desires feel both thrilling and forbidden? In this episode, we dive into the Sin and Saint Syndrome, exploring how societal expectations and internalised beliefs can sabotage our relationship with pleasure. Get ready to question what you've been taught and embrace your authentic desires.
Dawryn Nyiramugisha is a wellness practitioner who champions the idea of Embodied Connection. Through her work at WellnessTogether, she guides individuals and couples towards a deeper understanding of themselves and those they are in relationship with.
Nyiramugisha believes that many of us live disconnected from our truest selves. This disconnection can stem from a variety of factors, leaving us feeling incomplete and impacting our relationships. Embodied Connection, as she describes it, is a path towards reintegration. It's about exploring our physical, emotional, and spiritual selves to find a sense of wholeness.
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[@henryo2596]

I must say Dawryn is amazing. Adult conversation in a relaxed and dignified manner. Who says we can't talk about sex and pleasure with openness and dignity. Kudos to both of them.

[@TheJagero]

Thanks alot.

[@hjssemmanda0]

In Uganda sex talk is very open. its hardly a day passes by without hearing a sex related topic...

[@joshuaodongo1231]

​@TheJagero 🎉

[@emilyomondi9247]

I just love the openness of Jagero and his innocent spirit that makes this conversation so authentic, so natural and relatable. And Dawryn is just a breath of fresh air she has transformed us in major ways in a calm manner, such an expert.

[@TheJagero]

Thanks so much for the kind words! We definitely try to keep things genuine on Dialogues With Jagero, and it sounds like Jagero's openness and Dawryn's expertise are really resonating with you. That's fantastic to hear! Jagero does have a way of making things feel relatable, doesn't he? And Dawryn's calm approach is such a great counterpoint to his enthusiasm. They balance each other out perfectly, I think. Is there a specific topic they discussed that you found particularly transformative?

[@MsMurithi]

This outfit on Jagero is 🔥 brightens his looks in a good way. The lady is Elegant in that dress❤

[@TheJagero]

Thanks alot for the compliment.

[@throopasahdew2477]

she is elegant by nature

[@user-wj1lz6mm1u]

I almost hesitated watching this, but finally won a subscriber

[@TheJagero]

Thank you

[@atienolynne]

Welcome back, Dawryn , Much love from 🇰🇪 , I love how your raw talks just lighten up the session , woow! Dawryn, I don't get enough of your lessons , please Jagero bring her on board more often 😅

[@TheJagero]

Hello there! Thank you for coming back!

[@bernardkiarie5662]

Dawryn is one very informed woman the honesty is out of this world.

[@TheJagero]

Right?! Dawryn knows her stuff! I almost feel like she should feature often at DWJ.

[@RuthKemigisa-lx4fu]

Wonderful wonderful wonderful ❤️ 😊 ♥️. We want more of this.. I am being deeply educated

[@TheJagero]

More to come!

[@adriankanyi4476]

Thank you so much I was beginning to hate my sexual desires because I thought it was unwise and naughty in the eyes of our culture but now I will own my desires cause that's the love I want to share with my future partner

[@TheJagero]

I'm so glad this video helped shift your perspective. Our desires are a natural and beautiful part of us. Owning them is a powerful step towards healthy relationships. You deserve to share love freely and authentically!

[@celestinenadia4798]

Dawryn and Bobbie can be a good vibe ❤️💯

[@TheJagero]

Absolutely

[@shelleyking4118]

Watching from London, very interesting conversation! Just subscribed and looking forward to other episodes

[@TheJagero]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@user-qm1kw1nt6e]

Loving this podcast more please

[@TheJagero]

Thanks alot .

[@lennywilliams9675]

Amazing conversation

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for watching. I hope to bring these great conversations to you.

[@dianeseromba5743]

U never disappoint gal❤❤❤❤Dawryn u are gifted.

[@TheJagero]

Thank you ❤️

[@isismob7379]

Thanks for sharing with clarity. 💙

[@TheJagero]

You’re welcome.

[@bernicefenton]

keep doing what you're doing sir. my favorite part about this podcast is watching you trying to be emotionally accountable. also, she's definitely on to something with salads.

[@TheJagero]

That's the plan! Thanks alot

[@nicemoraa3979]

Mmmh, nice! Educative indeed.

[@TheJagero]

DWJ is humbled by your positive feedback.

[@naggayialice1850]

I have really loved this.

[@TheJagero]

Glad you loved the episode

[@gregoryyegon5044]

One of those well edited video 🎉

[@TheJagero]

Glad you think so!

[@contentsofjoy]

Wow... You are the first person I've met that actually has excellent knowledge about men

[@TheJagero]

That's really kind of you to say. I guess I've picked up a thing or two along the way

[@FREDRICKBENZ]

I like how passionate she is on her explanation😂..Sex must be a very dynamic topic.

[@TheJagero]

😂😂she is very passionate.

[@lindigamedze5873]

i'm loving the vulnerability that is blossoming with our brother.... it gives me the hope that our african men are waking up to truths unknown before. the trajectory is that the societal walls between our men and women begin to disintegrate and that real vibrant family/partnership love begins to flourish and one day become the norm. i love that africans understand the issue of respect for men which is sadly lost in western cultures where our black sisters in america are by and large rejected by their own men...for this simple reason. we have a headstart but now the humility of removing the masks must begin

[@TheJagero]

Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts! This is a really interesting perspective on how vulnerability can impact relationships. You raise a great point about societal walls coming down and fostering stronger partnerships. I'd love to hear more about what resonated with you in the conversation, and maybe Jagero and I can explore this concept further in a future episode. On the topic of respect, it would be interesting to see how different communities navigate this idea. What do you think?

[@TenaloBariyima]

we need to learn and be educated on this very topic

[@TheJagero]

Yes we do. DWJ is committed to bringing you bold and educational content.

[@janetanjichi6558]

Yeah ,i also like leaving not being left,coz i give my best in a relationship

[@TheJagero]

The confidence is great!

[@janetwanjirunyaga7310]

I just love Dawryn Nyiramugisha.....❤❤

[@wellnesstogether5922]

I love you too darling ❤

[@praisepheonah337]

She is great

[@TheJagero]

Much love to you ❤

[@amossambo9808]

Thank u so much

[@TheJagero]

Most welcome 😊

[@ruto7571]

We asked, you delivered.Very authentic conversation!

[@TheJagero]

Thanks alot for watching.

[@collinsElesu]

My first time to listen to these two people I got a lot of interest listening to every point of discussion and now iam able to follow every program

[@TheJagero]

Thanks please consider subscribing

[@milltracy3462]

Thks but still waiting for another part for satisfaction from Uganda thks alot

[@TheJagero]

It is coming Monday

[@Evelynokwa]

It's indeed like engineering 😂😂😂😂 it really takes us long to study our own bodies for sure the only thing i love about aging is knowing your body how it works wahat it wants and what it doesn't but of course it's for the curious,being open to learn from those who know It's been long since i listened to such info Glad am on board again Love from Uganda

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for watching yho. Please subscribe

[@beverlyneadhiambo3224]

Jagero is pleading the 5th on the question of having more than one wife. So hilarious!!😂😂😂Great open conversations of pleasuring our reproductive system👌🏽

[@TheJagero]

I'm glad you found the conversation about pleasure interesting. It's an important part of healthy relationships, and one we often don't talk about enough. What other topics would you like to see us explore in the future?

[@murah]

Unfortunately most viewers will not get how divine her message is, communication communication communication is the key. This will go over most folks head fortunately and unfortunately!! Unclear Is not Kind Asè

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for watching. Please consider subscribing

[@celestinenadia4798]

How i love listening to you guys cheeei😂😂 i can listen the whole day ❤️❤️❤️❤️ #thesaintsinnersyndrome 😂😂😂

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for watching.

[@gracenjoroge5470]

❤ own my pleasure wow. Very informative

[@TheJagero]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@maggynowak3555]

Watching from Jamani

[@TheJagero]

Jaman mashine!

[@Trailblazer100]

Very good💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾👍🏾

[@TheJagero]

Thanks 💯

[@ngutjiuangutuazeratueutjiu7691]

Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for watching . Much appreciated.

[@lane1703]

Listening, attentively, while working...this is a necessary distraction 😂

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for joining in.

[@lane1703]

@@TheJagero you have quality content and great guests....

[@MsMurithi]

I love her❤❤❤

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for watching. Consider subscribing. 😊

[@judithouma1133]

Niko hapa already 😊

[@TheJagero]

We see you!

[@judithouma1133]

I love the new set. Well done Jagero.

[@IBeJay859]

London is watching

[@TheJagero]

Thank you mate!

[@naikeyuwimana4726]

Alot has been said here.% true people are closed to culture...they like what they can't discuss with their partner..but with girls friends...plz poeple comunicate...its the key of satisfaction and happiness...much

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for watching and commenting. People need to communicate for sure!

[@DzivhuluwaniPhaswana]

You know when i started to watch this show now. I thought our guest is wearing a sleeping gown and she's in the bedroom looking at those decorations there. I was like wow wow i love her summer slerpware even the color of the robe. Eish am getting old🎉😂❤🎉😂❤ I really enjoyed the topic we learn everyday fantastic❤

[@TheJagero]

Oh my 🫢🫢🫢🫢

[@francistwahirwa5810]

You should invite Dr. Stella Nyanzi to join your program.

[@TheJagero]

I would but I cannot reach her

[@lucillenkojoana5854]

South Africa is also learning

[@TheJagero]

Welcome to DWJ.

[@africangirl189]

Seven? Have heard 9 and so far so its seven ala!! have experienced two types 😂 i need to experience the others before i die.

[@TheJagero]

Don't worry Africa girl.

[@Ladyynonchalant]

✝️🩵🙌🙏✝️🙌🩷🩵 salvation is by Grace , not by our own righteousness, for Our own righteousness is filthy rags 🩵✝️🙌🩷🤍✝️✝️🙌🩷🩵✝️🙌🩵🙌🤍✝️✝️🩷🩵

[@TheJagero]

Maybe our good deeds are like... slightly less filthy rags? Either way, grace is amazing. Thanks for sharing!

[@LAVENDERATIENO-ml6uu]

Hello jagero. I like dawrn next time kindly ask her how women should keep themselves after giving birth especially the tummy area, zingine hukua kubwa na zingine hubaki tu better

[@TheJagero]

Noted

[@mahlatsemakgalemane4184]

@@TheJageroplease include age, fitness and menopause, comorbidities in both men and women, thanks.

[@bathbae6086]

When is she coming back to Uganda

[@lindigamedze5873]

keep up the dialogue unlocking as many layers and stripping the facades. strength and joy to you!!! and wonderfiul healthy sex 😊

[@TheJagero]

Thanks so much for your positive vibes! I love that you're enjoying the deep dives into these dialogues. Unpacking hidden meanings and challenging facades is definitely a big part of what DWJ is aiming for. As for the healthy sex part , that's a topic that can definitely come up in exploring relationships and intimacy. Maybe it's something we can touch on in a future video, depending on where the conversations lead us. In the meantime, keep those comments coming and let me know what other layers you'd like to see peeled back.

[@Sarai465]

I need your advice on this because am in a season of my life where I want to do this and on the other side I can't do it because it might result to that so am literally confused , for example I have never slept with anyone and I feel like maybe I should try but on the other side am afraid of what it might result to like I feel that once I sleep with anyone I might end up wanting more.

[@rogath_silayo]

I don't recommend someone to sleep with somebody for sake of sleeping with him... Nothing you have missed just cool down and you will do it when convenient don't feel pressured....it depends what you need in life coz if you will not be careful you may get STIs and it won't be a good experience.

[@rogath_silayo]

Those are normal body desires, the urge of you wanting sex is normal and naturally....

[@gracenjoroge5470]

Don't succumb to peer pressure or be lead by emotions, one thing when you experience that it should be because you have found the RIGHT person and in a union for the sake of your safety and sanity. What most people dont say is that in sex you give a piece of yourself .

[@TheJagero]

This is such a relatable topic! It sounds like you're having a battle between curiosity and caution. What are you most afraid of when you think about "what it might result in"? Maybe talking it out a bit can help you decide what's right for you.

[@TheJagero]

This is a totally normal feeling, and a lot of people go through this internal struggle. I can't give advice on such personal matters, but taking time to explore what YOU want (outside of relationships) and what kind of connections you're looking for can be super helpful. It can also help you decide if you're ready to take that step.

[@bundy254]

you wake up in the morning there's stiffness....🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾🚨....

[@TheJagero]

hahahaha!

[@wtve1228]

Is there a link to the first episode they are referring to?

[@TheJagero]

Check on the playlist. You’ll get all the episodes for the series.

[@williamransom2920]

🇺🇲 where is a woman like u ✊😊 I'm looking 4 her 😅

[@TheJagero]

😂

[@nandiswaduma4293]

How do I join Dawryn's programs when I'm in South Africa. I'm struggling to get hold of her.

[@TheJagero]

Please check available programs on her website. Here: www.wellnesstogether.co.ke

[@bechimba]

Jagero which is the paybill for buying your book?

[@TheJagero]

hey! reach me on 0721168693

[@meekeei]

I also need the book Jagero

[@Leleikjl]

Jagero please don't leave her...she doesn't have a man now at least,!

[@TheJagero]

Hehe. Calm down bwana.

[@Leleikjl]

@@TheJagero she is killing ....I am looking for a third wife in either Rwanda or Uganda .. hey i want to feel it.

[@bettymissy1091]

This is the comment I was looking for🙈It's evident they got niiice chemistry...one must be very disciplined to stand such conversations for long...Jagero stay stroooooooong😅😅😅😅

[@oluwagbemigatoluray]

Great conversation, but with all these knowledge, expertise and therapy, why hasn't she been able to keep a man permanently in her life as an husband? It shows that it takes much more than sex and good body to keep a man...😢

[@TheJagero]

Thank you for the insight. However, her focus on DWJ is on empowering individuals, not specific relationship advice or her personal life. #growth

[@bentutsibensamale7520]

We need a show on gukuna,kunyaza a practice kenyans need Especially those in fgm regions And even male foreskin removal takes away 50% of pleasure The host needs to shangazi(rwandese sexologiste)

[@TheJagero]

You're absolutely right, gukuna/kunyaza is a topic that needs more open conversation, especially when it comes to female health and sexual pleasure.

[@dorothmbaiza9098]

This is the missing link in medicine, as a doctor I wish everyone wld watch this,sometimes we over prescribe medication

[@TheJagero]

Prescription is not always effective in some cases. Could this be why there is an increased need for holistic and CAM approaches?

[@abahene1773]

wen he said its like engineering🤣

[@TheJagero]

🫣🫣🫣🫣

[@lennywilliams9675]

Did she do the pulling while in Uganda

[@TheJagero]

She mentioned that.

[@divinezoe9543]

The facial expressions of Jagero!!

[@foxnpsibisi7824]

@TheJagero, in the name of constructive criticism please allow your guest to speak much more than you, currently you speak much more than your guests and we want to learn more from your guests than you. Please let the guest answer each question fully without you distracting them. Please don’t ask 2 - 3 questions at the same time yet distract the guest in the middle of the 1st answer rather ask one question at a time because as your viewers we want to hear all the relevant answers to all your questions. Lastly ask short and articulate questions. Below I will send a link of a perfect example of a host that asks short and articulate questions but allow the guest to completely respond without interrupting them. All with good intentions. Thanks kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHupg4aEncd0pdE

[@TheJagero]

You're absolutely right, I can definitely improve on letting my guests shine more. Honestly, I sometimes get too excited in the conversation and jump in a bit too much. That link to an example host is fantastic, I'll definitely be checking it out to see how they structure their questions. Short, clear, and letting the guest take the lead - that's the goal! In the next video, I'll be more mindful of asking one question at a time and giving my guests the space to fully answer. This way, you guys can hear everything they have to say.

[@lucyasimo9858]

About balls by the way….. just stay away from them😂😂😂😂😂 I died.

[@TheJagero]

😂

[@steventumwesigye8756]

You look beautiful madam and the size is portable

[@TheJagero]

Appreciate it

[@rmshivo]

Jagero should let the guest flow with her thoughts and insights. He keeps distracting with new questions and leaves most unanswered. Poor interviewing skills

[@TheJagero]

Thank you for the review. We are working towards ensuring the guest is not only uninterrupted but given more space to explore their insights, experience and knowledge.

[@IBeJay859]

@rmshivo ....that is supposed to encourage you to pay for Dawryns services and get all information, she is only doing 5%. It's Jageros channel so....yeah

[@rmshivo]

@@IBeJay859 it's his channel, we're the audience. He asks for feedback.....yea

[@waweza8347]

Much love to dawryn drop your social handles

[@TheJagero]

Thanks alot for watching. I appreciate it.

[@Ladyynonchalant]

Every good and perfect gift come from above 🩵🤍🩵🩷🩵🤍🤍🩵🩷🩷🩵🤍

[@TheJagero]

What's your favorite gift you've ever received (besides coming across this awesome channel, of course )?