EP 17: Good Things Come From Pleasure

We are back with another amazing episode! Samia has the amazing Shelah Marie on the show! Y'all know her as the founder of the Curly Conscious Movement & The Unruly Retreat and author of "A Positive You." We're diving deep into topics from gaslighting to trauma to manifest masturbating as a couple, we cover it all!
Here are some of the highlights:
(2:35) People tell me no all the time, and that’s OK!
(3:57) After having a baby, Shelah helped Samia regain her confidence and find her inner power.
(4:42)Today's Adult Tip of the Day: Stop Gaslighting yourself and start believing in yourself.
(8:35) Black women gaslight themselves the most and it's time to stop.
(15:43) Do all women have a little gay in them?
(19:40) Does the Bi-romantic vs Bi-sexuality conversation perpetuate misogyny? (Tweet)
(28:35) Shelah shares her trauma and how she’s worked through it.
(32:49) Samia opens up about her trauma to Shelah and references the back story, which is detailed in Episode 1.
(37:18) They discuss alternative healing methods as an alternative to religion.
(43:57) Samia explains EMDR and they share their experiences with it.
(52:28) There are other options for therapy, such as using scuba diving as a therapeutic session.
(57:21) Astrology is a language - if you don't "believe," just say you don't speak it.
(1:01:16) Shelah shares a scene from her past life regression session, which was a powerful and transformative experience.
(1:06:00)In today's Spiritual Tip of the Day, they discuss masturbation and manifestation as a couple and how Shelah used it for goal setting.
Refer to Ep. 6, for the Natal Chart explained in the Spiritual Tip of the Day
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Dr. Rahmani was on Red Table Talk discussing the difference between gaslighting and lying.
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[@TheresaHunsuckle-cy6kv]

You can not get to where you want to be unless you accept where you came from. The scares you have are not to hold you back the are to remind you of where you don’t want to go back too. I love this show today. Watch you show just sound like what tell people all the time.

[@moonlover1144]

Omg! Shelah is the reason I am aware of Samia. Thanks to the virtual retreat a couple of years back! I love this!

[@jasminebrown803]

We need a part 2. ASAP

[@CT-hz6mz]

This made me wanna cry. I turned 30 this year and socially everything you said is so on point. I can't stand ppl who talk big shit and don't understand how self awareness, truly being honest with yourself and accountability of self all correlate. I'm not filling nobody's void anymore! Perfectly healed. 🎉🤘🏽

[@TheresaHunsuckle-cy6kv]

I love you watching the show. Talking about the narcissistic behavior is real and how they take what you question and stir the pot. I am also an Aries who knows who she is and doesn’t take what others want to take from me. I see narcissists and cut them off.

[@Reeses710]

I just luv Shelah's energy, I wasn't even sure what she did....but her anytime I see her, her energy is always so loving, fun & light! OMG ladies, this was amazing, such a great episode Samia, keep doing what you do sis!

[@ksb3581]

Love Love Love me some Shelah, Samia please let Shelah talk more. The listeners want to hear what she has to say. Great show!

[@shannonh8492]

This is the feedback I came to the comments to add. I'm having a hard time finishing this because Samia is doing ALL the talking.

[@NaturalJournee]

Soooo many gems dropped!!! And the way I just went to search for this blue top and found ittttt!!! Yass❤

[@cjeff002]

9:30 timestamp is everything ✨as an avid listener of the pod I resonate with your thoughts about being unapologetic with my communication. Im in college and got my headddd in these books , im learning the art of semantics on my own . It’s crazy bc while It’s true our words are our words , information is processed uniquely from person to person . Sometimes the context you’ve mentioned a subject in is not always the same context that’s triggered in someone else. I’m leaving room for grace w communication - not including the trolls chile.

[@TheresaHunsuckle-cy6kv]

I agree that I have also been unlearning a lot of things over he last few years.

[@13ikea]

Such a powerful video

[@cassieforrester]

I love Shelah ❤ I have her book, a personal journal from Amazon and it’s really a great tool.

[@forevergwladys]

Loved this episode! Thank you both for being so vulnerable.

[@stokedtv1284]

I loved the conversation! Wish I could have heard a little more from Shelah without interruptions but either way message was received! Great job ladies.

[@mychelleshenae]

Keep walking in y’all purpose. As a matter fact…. You can ,walk,run or be ❤ is this moment Blessings on you journey Beautiful Kisses..Until next time.

[@tanneshacarney9915]

This was such an amazing episode, with two of my favorite fellow Aries sisters that I love and admire so much! Thank you ladies for touching on topics that are important to talk about. Y'all had me in my feelings lol. So much to unpack. I'm so grateful for these types of conversations by black women who honors sisterhood. 🤗💖💖♈👑👑

[@marceudnicabrice4402]

Love this episode ❤ gain a subscriber so therapeutic and informative regarding trauma love to hear more !

[@sw8508]

Love shelah ! I look forward to hearing her speak more and share more if her journey ☺️. Great topics it was needed

[@TunisiaNicole]

Shelah is amazing ❤ excited for this!

[@jutunntaylor9402]

I loved this episode

[@acapricornworld]

Oh my goodness! This was such a powerful conversation, I love both of your energies together!!!! Can't wait for part 2

[@victoriousvkw]

Thanks 💐💐💐💐💐👸🏾👸🏾💖💖💖💖💖

[@Chase_Dapremont777]

Lemme sit my pregnant ass down and watch 🙌🏼❤️

[@toniciahubbard9126]

Where are these healers and astrologist. I want to go to one

[@jsquad2372]

you have to talk into the mic its low or bring the mic more in front of you

[@Kurlyrosa1982]

Aries women are powerful!! 4/8/82

[@abigaila2024]

So how do you go about finding a healer??? I would like to find one ??

[@_jennem_]

L O V E ❤

[@deewash-30G]

💜💜😋🤤SamiA🍑🍑💙💙