Ep 17: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

[@bm.artist]

Selfie! That's my new single called 'BM - Selfie'! Join the challenge and send us your dance videos #BMSelfiechallenge

[@tajsingh409]

Says the same lyrics over and over

[@almightywick9563]

SELFIE! 🔥🔥🔥

[@SiyoyoStofile-kw6yh]

On it already here in SA🇿🇦.... you'll be the keynote speaker at the men's conference and plz share tips on how to bag such a classy lady😅

[@DearDextra]

fire single, didn't understand most words but sounded good.

[@ChiKa-j3n]

Congrats to ur hubby!!!!❤

[@rachelacevedo1447]

“I’m a alpha female that’s also in tune with my divine feminine and masculine energy.” “I’m somehow more confused.” HE’S SO REAL FOR THAT

[@tourezee]

lol yeah seriously when most men hear alpha female it’s a big turn off.

[@IloveJesus777j77]

Romans 10:9-11 says, "If you confess with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved".Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone. 18 Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works. 19 Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble.​@@tourezee

[@alexchui3511]

Masculine energy is a definite NO. Two people can't be wearing pants in the same house.

[@Delicouscake]

Just saying the dumbest stuff they see on social media cuz what?!!! 😂😂

[@CherryDelight-r5c]

😂😂😂

[@tyresebenson2896]

This is prolly the worst group of women ever on this show

[@tinybrit3225]

You’re forgetting when they had 40 year olds with chest tats and multiple baby daddies

[@Kyla23455]

lol nahhhh but also yeahhh

[@bobbyjenkins6017]

I agree 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@kenneyp.9456]

Gotta disagree episode 13 definitely had the worst group of women in the show

[@ismaelsedoc4947]

Yup

[@kierrajefferson5987]

Worst line up this season😭 Twin #1-superficial airhead Twin#2- Couldn't put a coherent thought together, but seems like the more level headed twin Yellow dress-Best dressed, cute and polite! Bring her back! Red dress- no personality! Dull and dry Red top- Did she even want to be there? Brown dress- Wanted a viral moment, but its about to backfire on ssa because the jokes weren't joking. Blue dress- Immature! Come back in a few years. Green dress- Just reciting stuff from tiktok. If you were really in your divine feminine you wouldn't have to state it. I didn't see the feminine energy at all.

[@Salem-cb9kq]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@thevalsir]

Lmfaoooooooooo this is sooooo trueeeee

[@qhoffa9568]

🎯

[@ebonysimpson7504]

I 100% agree with everything you stated here!

[@veronicagiron3486]

Yellow dress was amazing! I was so sad the green shirt guy didn’t choose her!

[@UL439]

Rejecting a good looking aerospace engineer, entrpreneur, psychology student based on the shoes he's wearing was absolutely wild. He dodged a cannonball in that room.

[@tashanixon1651]

I know. H All of the men seemed reasonable to me. They were all successful in life to me

[@liverfailure1597]

He dodged more artillery than the surviving soldiers at Normandy

[@10AKey]

Some of these heffas be straight goofys

[@reginaldthomas2022]

Man knock it off, why would you come on the show dressed and looking like that. If you been around women. You understand more of what women look for. The least you can do is dress to appeal to a woman. Even if you aren't the most handsome dude all you have to do is give her something to work with. If you can't dress, at least be groomed, if you goofy, show a more serious side etc.

[@BlacqueKatt]

@@liverfailure1597👍🏽

[@archwodrichemond-fils6187]

“I love me, it’s okay if you don’t love me” A person at peace with themselves

[@iamlovesessence]

This episode was GOOD. Quality men for the most part. Best one I’ve seen in a minute.

[@cellyszn20]

What timestamp was this?

[@JAYLIMITLESS17]

@@cellyszn20 9:49

[@7arb-f-15]

@@iamlovesessencequality men. But what about the women are they also quality? 😏

[@cellyszn20]

@@JAYLIMITLESS17 thank you 🙏🏾

[@iamBreeLynn]

1st guy had a great sense of humor. He’s a lowkey gem.

[@tiste6770]

Black girls can’t do the dorks

[@SuperDevildog2009]

I really don’t see why women thought bad of him. I’m scared for myself as a single man

[@msunapologetic7949]

I was feeling his energy. 😂 And funny. I cracked up About the flat shoes.

[@jasminem4853]

Dude literally is a software engineer building a start up, aesthetic can be worked on & he seemed chill enough to adjust if needed. Definitely someone worth considering. Wouldn’t cross it off just because of the outfit

[@DanielleS1001]

Indeed. I personally love nerdy type guys. Give me a nerd any day!

[@guy9146]

Guy: "I'm an aerospace engineer with a start up tech company." Girl: "I popped my balloon because I don't like your shirt"

[@tctopcat1981]

🤣 you can't make this shit up.

[@pawyork7681]

@@tctopcat1981 😂😂😂😂 emotional damage

[@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty]

So do men choose women just because she a good woman and he’s not physically attracted?

[@deondria97]

@@EnlightenedGoldenBeautyno, and if they do they cheat.

[@lorenzomartin6217]

bruh lol

[@biancabriggs]

"I love me" and "Kindness is my type." --- what a lovely soul.

[@aainventors745]

@10:01 is she your type?, I like his answer "Next question"😅😂😂😂😂😂

[@Tuff0x]

All these woman gonna be single forever, the first guy dodged every bullet.

[@Miss_Loving]

He sure did.

[@sisteryael9802]

With a dog!!!

[@africanhero1988]

They denied an Aerospace engineer LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@jbway86]

I wouldn't say single forever. I would say unhappy. Women will always find a bad boy but ultimately they will never be happy/satisfied because you can't turn a thug to a good man just like a man can't turn a h** to a housewife (but some will; both sides, low denomination). Women are programmed (post civil rights) to cater to rough guys and try to convince themselves to make something out of him.

[@CallMe_Oso]

He wasnt toxic enough lol

[@The_Harylaba]

Rejecting a good man over outfit is really stupid. I mean, style can always be changed and improved on, but a healthy person is hard to find.

[@Terrence-m2p]

It's ok to reject over outfits it's not like they are some where random they are on a dating show they should dressed to impress

[@goby1764]

@Terrence-m2p if the outfit is horrible and inappropriate sure. Otherwise it's a dumb thing to pop for, a lot of them use it as an excuse because they're not attracted. If Chris Brown came in wearing the same clothes they're not popping shit

[@Terrence-m2p]

@@goby1764 of course Chris Brown is a celeb that would even apply for lil Uzi vert. You can't be mad that they want someone with style or more their speed you want a sexy red type chick to pick the first guy they come.from different worlds

[@Simoneegyal]

Thisssssss

[@LOSTGPS]

Let em learn the hard way 😂

[@thomasejore1714]

The chick with the brown dress is very childish, disrespectful, and clueless on what she wants

[@theBarbieStone]

And her outfit. Those shoes are soo 🤢

[@th8981]

It’s call low self esteem

[@th8981]

She know she won’t get pick so she disrespect them first

[@kaithvision]

You forgot to add annoying too 😭😭😭

[@vainhalloffame]

And her ass is hanging low off her body

[@vaniatewelde8499]

I like the first guy! Makes me reflect on how quickly we judge others, then can’t articulate why we are judging them

[@rianstorm4401]

Say that!🗣👏🏽

[@NetaaD]

💯

[@Menooy22]

The first guy was an absolute catch, funny, witty, intelligent, honest, down to earth and in touch with reality 😊

[@kieshaname604]

and was a cutie that was wild he is a vibe

[@ranathomas3204]

Yes I agree

[@Menooy22]

​@@Oldmanriver33He's not a Muslim, so no.

[@Airianaloniece_]

@@Menooy22perioddddd lol

[@girlmom3686]

​@OldheadRoy43 lol...I was thinking that same thing with all these comments about him.

[@hyacinthcllad8549]

The first guy had the best sense of humor and confidence.

[@rhondaphillips1479]

😍

[@rareflower1479]

"I'm not looking for friends, I'm looking for love..someone to marry"....❤ I love it🙏🤞

[@kashanie5414]

That line was winner. I was annoyed anytime one of them said "but we can be friends" huh? Why?

[@catmother03]

I can't believe they rejected an aerospace engineer due to how he dresses. I find that insane.

[@og_carlie]

Yup because it aint nothing to buy your man some clothes or show them a diff style.. But honestly idc about that as long as when we are at a formal event you are dressed well ( I pick my Man's shirt to match my dress when we go to our friends' weddings only so he can match me) who cares though LOL . Just shows how shallow people can be.

[@catmother03]

@@og_carlie agreed

[@OGFyah]

They probably don't know what that is... they're too superficial, more concerned with aesthetics than actual things

[@iamforgod8893]

The kind of men they chose as baby daddy's and rejecting there guys says alot about their mental state

[@TheLuvAngel22]

You want the. To like him because of his career or him as a person?

[@thandiledondashe1637]

You can tell when the age group is below 25 years. The balloons get popped as someone walks in - with grown folk, they at least hear you out

[@stassthescientist]

i was just thinking this, this episode was kinda immature tbh

[@omarpaul563]

Trur

[@cierraporter1090]

I agree

[@millyofori7729]

😂 some looks older than their age

[@THEsoulquarian]

Word. Plus they had basic ass, generic responses.

[@Zee_Babyyy]

These were the worst batch of ladies!!! Especially brown dress 🫣

[@engineeringdesigns4056]

I’m saying!!

[@alakazam25yearsago8]

With her meaty foot self lol

[@BarkheadEnterprises]

Worst ever. My first ever complete let down on Arlette’s picks for an episode.

[@dwaynerobinson537]

BBL crazy

[@sammuyingi]

@@Zee_Babyyy how about the lady whose an alpha🤣🤣🤣🤣?since when did women become alphas?

[@YellaRoseBliss]

Brown dress tried to create a moment but she just came off like a cringy weirdo 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@10150403]

FACTSSSSSSS

[@anthonyt425]

Trying to go viral. 😂

[@inthelifeofcolby791]

The way them toes hanged over them shoes is crazy work lol

[@ecclairmayo4153]

She was lame

[@jarodorla6949]

Exactly she was a cringy weirdo

[@curiouskittenn]

I LOVED THE SECOND GUY sooooo much, Nothing sexier than a man in God's will, literally nothing

[@ashleymarie7280]

You can tell the girl with the Brown dress was trying to make a “Funny” viral moment with every clap back, but she failed.

[@princessnatashabals]

exactly!!!!

[@a_83567]

Are you talking about the part where she called the guy skinny? I felt secondhand embarrassment when she said that. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@MsKells78]

Miserably! I haven't read all of the comments yet but I just knew from the jump, people were going to go in on her for various reasons.

[@kar5431]

Her feet must been hurting, Bcuz she switch her heels to flats after the first round.

[@audreymai2773]

​@@kar5431she had 3 different pairs on through this video. The white pair her toes were touching the ground.

[@DeeJayTos]

My fav part of this show is the obligatory "But you're pretty/handsome" after they say they're not attracted to them lol

[@lkjp07]

It is a way if staying polite. In general they don't mean it but I think you know it lol

[@johaunallen8581]

I think women find you attractive when they say " sexy" or fine" they can call anybody handsome because it's the polite..you got to be fine to get smashed as a guy​@@lkjp07

[@moveitsthen-y-s-s-a8202]

I don’t get it it can’t be both it’s either you’re handsome or you’re not

[@moveitsthen-y-s-s-a8202]

@@lkjp07yeah but that’s dumb. This is why most relationships fail cause there’s no honesty. Be honest with people you know?

[@KanoniNaire585]

@@moveitsthen-y-s-s-a8202You can be handsome and not attractive. Attractiveness does not solely rely on looks. Energy/ confidence plays a role as well as other factors.

[@collettemagana7193]

I'm in my 20s but far much prefer episodes with participants in their 30s-40s. The clear difference in respect, grace, and maturity is so refreshing! It's also a great realisation that I still have lots of maturing to do, lol😂 Great show either way.

[@ahmeddaou8369]

40s popping ballons? smh

[@cedricbost4478]

Now you see why the black women marrige rates are so low maturity is rare, but those older women were red flags too especially last week it was baby mama central.

[@Rumbu_P]

You my friend, have good observational skills 👌🏿

[@killamonkey7767]

30s-40s are just as bad. Have you not seen the other episodes 😂

[@youngsimba6714]

​@@ahmeddaou8369ikr

[@rarebreed6449]

Rejection is protection 🙏🏾 god has better for that man. He’s about his father’s business and I love it! ❤ pray that he finds what god has for him.

[@buffon139]

The lady mocking the military guy claiming he looks skinny was defo trying to be funny and go viral. Never seen anyone take a rejection so bad. He wasn't even remotely skinny lol

[@soniarodriguez2271]

100% agree

[@RioSTKO]

Yeah in the black community she's "thick", but everywhere else she's clinically overweight and probably weighs the same as him while being several inches shorter.

[@gigiromelus4662]

she was obviously mad.

[@biancawilliams748]

That girl is big forget thick and I'm black

[@celebritykarma1]

Bad built women behavior

[@UnsungGoat]

First brother is an aerospace engineer. Easy 6 figures. Nerdy and funny and real. He gon marry a non black woman and all them sisters gonna still be looking for their aesthetic after 35 😂😂😂

[@raydennis16]

facts

[@brandonclark8395]

I was thinking the same. He might get an Asian.

[@Snickerdoodle_gurl]

I’m a woman and deadass this the truth. I found me nerdy man it’s been 💯 ever since

[@chaichai012]

They weren’t attracted to him, ppl are allowed to have their preferences. It’s plenty of women who would be great wives but are passed up everyday because men aren’t physically attracted to them and men aren’t browbeat for choosing their aesthetic.

[@dantern6168]

@@brandonclark8395 wait why an Asian

[@Big_Sizzle_]

Imagine being a whole aerospace engineer getting turned down by lash techs, “content creators” and “models” all who are single BM’s. The dating scene is beyond cooked 😂

[@shymeilsailor321]

Who a single baby mama cause I ain’t got no kids LMFAOOOO

[@KJ81574]

"All who are single BMs"? Since when is 2 out of 8 "All"? Weird generalizations are cooked.

[@Thebluesky0311]

Exactly.. That dude was a catch

[@HolyScript.]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@loverofhumanity]

No it doesn't work that way just cause you are an aerospace engineer doesn't make you not a dweeb. I agree women's standards are too high though but come on this was the most extreme nerd that's come on this episode. I'm not saying he can't get a girl but none of those chicks even match his personality. He needs to match with a girl that's also a bit nerdy. Trying to match him with these types would be awful for both parties and actually it's good they rejected him because it would be disingenuous and make no sense.

[@shakiriaandrews]

The second man was definitely my type. Like he was perfect for me. County, Christian and very nice. These ladies don’t want to be lead & dont want someone that respect them. A God fearing man is everything. Someone that can pray for you and love you is everything.

[@shakiriaandrews]

* Country

[@FlyingWithPurpose]

Aerospace engineer aint missimg nothing. He just dodged 8 bullets 😂

[@MiguelLosRudos20]

He was laughing now cuz he knows they finna cry later.

[@peterdavis8471]

Popping the balloon show I never seen this before 😅😅😅

[@missyazz83]

Agreed!

[@Ravenhill_]

Agreed 😅

[@360MediasBoss]

8 billets and a grenade

[@stanbrooks7923]

The woman is yellow is the sweetest and most level-headed of the group

[@maryelizabethprice896]

Agreed!

[@chalieboii4]

True… hopefully she comes back and finds a match.

[@ceecee2171]

And she’s so pretty!

[@Ms.Seraphin]

I agree

[@MissRolle767]

Facts!

[@shaunesseyfruean]

"I'm a water baby....." and in the next breath "I can't swim" BRAH 🤣🤣🤣

[@Christystcyrallen]

I’m the same way 😂 love the water but I will drown if I don’t have a life jacket lol

[@clarke4400]

Loving the water doesnt mean you can swim. Its common sense

[@TheCritter001]

AND a Marine lol

[@Vexed711]

@@clarke4400 right i don't have to be an astronaut to love space

[@zeeqq105]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nadogrl]

First guy had a great personality! And he’s too smart for that panel of women.❤

[@ohitsNastasia]

Let’s bring these men back. Give them another chance with a BETTER line up 😒

[@michellemccook2943]

Didn't like this line up at all

[@DeaconSwerve77]

I agree this line up was bad forreal. The girl in the yellow dress and the light blue dress I thought were cool tho.

[@LawQueenBee]

Yeah. I said these guys are more compatible with the women from the last episode.

[@paulj2948]

Agreed! Next episode will be single woman contestants.

[@Brooke-8701]

EXACTLY. These girls suck

[@HBell-q8h]

Arlette is something else. Always dresses amazing, so beautiful, radiates positivity and joy, and her laugh is so fun. What a good host.

[@sindiswa.dlamini]

The girl in the brown dress can't deal with rejection in a respectful and kind way

[@leartrice]

But why does she keep changing shoes?

[@mayberryfiya3528]

She kinda miserable 🙄

[@latrishahayward9359]

She doesn’t make any kind of sense. Just very silly

[@harrietholder5889]

No she can't and she looks silly

[@themelanatedsistah]

She doesn't even respect herself let alone expecting someone else to with everything out. 😢

[@nadogrl]

2nd guy dodged a bullet too…handsome, mature, and levelheaded.❤

[@UnapolegeticallyAProblem]

He was low-key arrogant. Can tell he’s the type who is extremely judgemental. I can guarantee it will not work with the girl he chose.

[@lovejourney4344]

"Kindness is my type" was the greatest response EVER ❤

[@onslaugh99]

His such a sweetheart

[@Giasemi55]

YES loved that!

[@tritonlowe]

"I'm 205 lbs btw." Had me 💀💀💀. That woman was ridiculous.

[@tinky0485]

And she has a bbl

[@Blingblow_779]

@@tritonlowe she was the worse one.

[@nessacorinne8911]

She’s beyond insecure and takes rejection really bad.

[@Olutife]

@@tinky0485 you forgot to add ‘botched’ 😅

[@Duane-e6c]

She petty

[@Wizdomizfacts]

Brown dress is a weirdooooo and Red dress is the ultimate red flag 🚩

[@LolaBunny-q3v]

Right! Just rude for no reason. A future bitter baby momma

[@ShaeOutlaw]

They so aggy 🙄 like why you even come in the first place . As a female they don’t even give off a good vibe to even be friends with

[@TopLion-y2f]

They think they could do better. Social media got them pumped up when it’s simps in their DMs and not the guys they want. If hey could get men they want they wouldn’t be on here unless they admit to doing it just for clout. Shit is insane.

[@CairoJames9]

Agreed

[@Diivasatti]

She look like she didnt wanna be there

[@alicemartinez7806]

That first guy is gonna make some woman soooo happy one day !! Such a catch 🙌

[@edwardconnelly4350]

A white girl always wins those types of high educated black men and black girls hate the couple but love the cute light skin kids they create

[@MzMiaTheGreat]

So far She’s said, “ I’m domineering, “ “ I’m an ominous,” “I’m a switch,” “ I have divine fem energy,” “ I’m masculine,”….. 🥴🥴🥴😫😫😫No Paris, you are CONFUSED! This panel of women has got to be the wackest group so far

[@Edelweiss16678]

😂😂😂 that’s African American women for you, I’m so glad I don’t have to deal with them 😂😂😂

[@lifewithyanna4774]

Beyond confused 😭🤦‍♀️

[@MsTAmazing]

She damn sure confused me

[@Lachantefleuriee]

Reciting stuff from instagram

[@daniellesantiago5722]

No seriously

[@IAmMsErika]

Yellow dress was my favorite. She should come back. She was so sweet and humble. Brown dress was a hot mess, trying to be funny & looked like the joke😂

[@jterry6511]

very much so, she was so genuine the whole episode & even came from Georgia to find somebody for her

[@trendyvideos5707]

What killed me abt her was how those toes were gripping the ground when the 1st guy walked past her … SHEESH

[@Licia.S]

You forgot to add looks old and a lil tacky, Dirty miss Brown dress

[@jasminharris9903]

I thought I was the only one that noticed...her toes were trying to save her ankles​@@trendyvideos5707

[@raymatt2927]

I'm glad the 1st guy said next question on her fast, when the host ask is she someone you would approach. After using the scenario if they was in a different life time lol

[@edwill718]

“Is she your type?” “Uhhhhh next question” 😂

[@Vlindertjeab]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Diopocornie]

I know she felt that😂😂😂

[@mingsgaming3814]

Nah FR

[@Shayy.smithh13]

Im CRYING

[@ChrisDaAce27]

Best moment 😂

[@mirandalinton3068]

Girl in the brown’s toes were gripping those heels for dear life

[@mrs.daniellequintanilla4635]

was waiting for someone to say this. she also changed her shoes multiple times lol.

[@OGFyah]

Looking a mess with a mess coming out of her mouth 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@chanthal.gee9227]

@@mrs.daniellequintanilla4635waiting to find this 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ashleamartin9081]

😂😂😂 I noticed that

[@IbelieveinJesusAmen]

First dude trolled them all and they were each too dumb to notice… 😂

[@beasonthe]

I loved him for that 😂😂 they crazy for passing him up. I love an intelligent man

[@VirgosKnowEverything]

I peeped that TOO! 😂😂😂😊

[@Mahatmaghat]

Went over all their heads 😂😂

[@angelaspalace7988]

😂😂😂😂I loved it!!

[@gabrielwelch6483]

😂😂 facts

[@Jbuckmire1]

The first guy is definitely husband material. He is going to make some lady happy one day. He has a great personality and a good sense of humor

[@Stressless2023]

@@Jbuckmire1 And well educated with a decent career path that can pay 6 figures 💯 Those little girls had nothing to offer him and he was absolutely out of their league.

[@thomalex8932]

These are the last people who should be criticizing the way people dress.

[@dajlove7104]

Exactly 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@trendyvideos5707]

TAUH… FAX 😂😂😩

[@777YOUniverse]

😂

[@samuelbonsu5863]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MrSport.content]

The brown dress Girl was trying very hard to be a comedian, she can't handle rejection😭😂 saying that young strong king is skinny

[@JobyJay]

she annoyed me the whole time... she said the weirdest things

[@JaDedby88]

Clown 😂😂😂

[@No1sProfit]

BTW the bbl was crazy work 😅😂 I don't like when they hang off the booty like that😮

[@beautyme1983]

Right!!! She was thinking about the bedroom. Especially when she mentioned about dudes beard 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@pro-muffins2721]

😂😂she a makeup clown 🤡.

[@SunnGodis]

I loveeeedddd the first guy!!!! When that girl said she had “big momma” energy and he said “I don’t even know what that meansssss” exactly all these chicks were a dub

[@JaDedby88]

And when she went into the dominant and feminine mess he said now I'm even more confused 😂😂😂

[@uno1728]

@@SunnGodis that guy was funny 😂😂😂

[@dannystanley_]

That was a really great gut

[@servantofthelord25]

😂😂

[@LIONSUNRISING]

😂💀🤣

[@Yajeeb]

These woman reminded me to pray for the 5th time today and Thank God for my Wife. When i saw that these ladies passed on the first guy who's an *AEROSPACE ENGINEER* , has his OWN BUSINES and healthy hobbies, just because " like, the aesthetics wasn't giving💅🏽", i said this generation of women are cooked😂😂. Brodie is steady walking further in the 1% lane. I guarantee if they fully knew/or understood what he said and how much he's making, his "aesthetics" would've magically been the best thing they've seen🤦🏽‍♂️. Bro dodged 8 bullets

[@icontrell3683]

🎯🎯🎯

[@brielecaples9974]

Facts bro the ignorance!!! It’s actually sad!!

[@alisahinton5666]

💯

[@HazerVasquezReyes]

Women are about the looks now not the intellect, obviously sad🥲

[@Syriaaa1]

This line up was genuinely scary. 🫥 Kevin Samuel’s was right.

[@WhateverBella007]

I totally thought that the 33:43 green shirt guy was going to pick the yellow dressed girl. They would look cute together ✨

[@ToriUptown]

he should’ve but of course he picked the mixed girl. yellow dress was prettier tho

[@WhateverBella007]

​@@ToriUptownmy take is that he picked her because she made herself to look "easy" 🙄

[@TheEverydayPreacher]

I can't wait to see that Christian brother find him a Christian woman. I'm grateful these women knew they weren't ready for that commitment and were honest.

[@shanny0971]

Me too

[@alyssatorianna]

If we’re being honest I don’t think true Christians should be on this show looking for a match. The environment just doesn’t seem fitting but there was a recent proposal so iguess God works in mysterious ways

[@CeMarie1024]

✔️

[@aaricwhite5833]

But they were lying about that part, they know they weren't prepared for greatness. That brother was completely on his ish.

[@Itsabdirisak]

@@alyssatorianna 100p

[@jeffreyfoster5031]

This show is the best cause Arlette sets the tone of professionalism that can’t be matched by other shows.

[@boblansonfig3972]

Other shows are too ghetto , respectfully lol be acting like straight immature kids .

[@dominiquejack6828]

Thank you!!! I have been saying this.

[@titanjake8640]

💯 agree

[@CashMyChecks]

Bot comment 🤖

[@Mimi_hollow]

Right it’s like a actual tv show 😭.

[@hndrxx30]

All these women were a waste of an hour edit omg Arlette plz run it back with a 30+ group 😢😢

[@Elena-no7ti]

That’s what I’m saying!!!

[@baldcheddar]

Umm they were a mess too so no

[@Monique670]

Exactly!

[@ericalashay0209]

Exactly! They were not it!

[@VivaLaDaniii]

Yess! This episode just wasn’t it at all

[@jessicamartinez3613]

The eyelashes are out of control on this show! He is an aerospace engineer with a personality! Ladies what is wrong with you?

[@trem8887]

The first guy is a gem! He’s the type you husband up! You can fix a wardrobe we all know the black wife effect

[@condesabeatriz9303]

💯

[@monacyrus11]

Facts! He seemed like a genuine guy

[@KingNez89]

You have your head on straight, kuddos to you mam...women like you will have men that will last

[@asiyanyasiri4219]

True.. plus he has a great sense of humor 😂

[@carline0301]

Exactly!!!!!!

[@Lovelystar00]

The first guy was so handsome and seemed , well mannered , warm spirited and kind hearted. I hope he finds someone who is willing to give him the same respect in return.

[@baldcheddar]

He will find a nice girl outside of his race

[@alexisrobinson121]

@@baldcheddarI was just about to say this!

[@Westendways]

@@baldcheddarwhy do u say that ?

[@alexisalexisbfrazieryahoocom]

Ikr he was a good match they popped way too soon

[@alexisalexisbfrazieryahoocom]

@@baldcheddarlmao

[@ilfouco1541]

90% of these girls came here to play, wasted an hour of my life. S/o to my Christian bro really felt inspired 🙏

[@JustineWord]

Yes, wasn't he so refreshing? We need more men walking around like that.

[@Patricia-mm5cf]

That’s what I said….. wasted except the girl in the yellow dresss… I really liked her!

[@ilfouco1541]

@@Patricia-mm5cf she and that other twin who got a date were really serious. Some of these people aren’t there to find love and it’s getting boring now

[@ProdBySam74]

Facts,need my time back

[@jasminebolden668]

They came for clout

[@theblessedblackwoman]

Popping for outfit is the most juvenile reason! He said he can cook and went to culinary school and then they popped him. Utter madness! Girl twin in white top had her hand ready to pop before all the guys came out😢

[@daisyholicduke]

She talking about him being skinny but if he called her a big back buffalo she’d be rolling on the floor in tears

[@HandsumJustin]

Lmfao

[@valentinaosicne8644]

😂 exactly what I thought

[@PlatinumHustle]

Bruh 🤣🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Amberkay862]

🤣🤣🤣 not a big back buffalo 🦬 lol 😂

[@deanmonite7638]

Hes not even skinny 😂

[@eerthangel]

Mr 2nd man, the way you represented God boldly and unapologetically… 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I hope He honours that by blessing you with the wife He’s preparing for you. I declare and decree that you will be connected to her before this year ends! I pray the veil will be removed from both your eyes so you don’t miss each other. Thank You Lord for blessing Your son, in Jesus’ name, AMEN!

[@Kingdomdaught3r]

Amen🙌🏽

[@guguthabapelo4952]

Amen

[@lifebetween6080]

Amen

[@RumiRenea]

Literally‼️💪🏾 & he was very handsome

[@gloriavall54]

Amen!!! He's going to do it!! In Jesus name!

[@iiB3DAB3ST]

The girl in the brown bodycon dresss changed shoes 3 different times. Her feet were fighting for their lives in those heels😂😂

[@thesupervisor3270]

Baby we all have social media and this video has been up for 2 weeks, u not breaking no news 🙄

[@tonijay3801]

Lol, I didn't even notice .

[@Shaza04]

@@thesupervisor3270who peed in your fcking cereal

[@TheYesiloks13]

Thought I was the only one that noticed 😂😂😂

[@favoredone1222]

Ayo I didn’t notice. I’m crying. She went from heels to flats to furry slippers😅😅😅😅

[@kishmamills4420]

Praise the Lord! What a testimony... continue with the work of God. He will give You the desires of your heart.❤

[@Nwakaego_]

The cameraman or lady deserves a raise for always zooming in for us lol.🤣 The first guy is a gem. He’ll find a great woman one day.

[@MentalFacility-u7o]

Snowbunny loading... Becky would definitely be keen to hear about how the Boeing Company is fucking up commercial planes.

[@LuLuSprings]

For real! Two episodes or so ago someone mentioned the dudes chain and of course they had to zoom in on the chain LMAO😂

[@FLAWEDANDFOCUSED]

FACTS !!!! I always LOL when they do that 😂

[@5.10brwnskin]

@@MentalFacility-u7oi was coming to comment this lol and I wouldnt even be mad at him

[@betoeri]

I think it’s Arlette’s husband BM 😂

[@bosssrg8007]

Wtf. The skinny jokes made to that man was crazy. If he commented on her size she’d flip

[@annagabri3ll3]

She’s immature she tried to disrespect that man because he popped her balloon

[@isisisi.]

@@annagabri3ll3yup! My thoughts exactly

[@macmini2307]

That’s a lil girl I’m glad he paid her no mind

[@brandonharris965]

Yeah she would have made his life miserable!

[@angelawilliams9088]

Exactly!

[@prettykati_4449]

The girl in the brown dress changed her shoes 3 times 🤣🤣🤣 wearing furry sandals for a dating show is crazy! 😭

[@NIKO_1986]

she gives off scammer vibes to me

[@zero1188]

Its said that be on set for for 5-10 hours.

[@Jenni742]

Ran to the comments to see if anyone noticed too 😭😭😭😭😭

[@jermainegriffith1714]

The guy popped her balloon and then she had concerns that's crazy lol

[@b294-r7q]

​@@zero1188cute sandals will do, not fluffy slides

[@LindaEledan]

That first twin will never be satisfied

[@Clemsonjmal]

Right! She was getting on my nerves. Always the first to pop lol.

[@itsmebambi16]

Please bring back the 30+ crowd asap! These younger singles are just not there

[@Igetsitin89]

facts they the ones not serious at all about dating

[@nhcp371]

Agree!

[@WatWarrior22]

Agreed

[@PrettyInkinPink49]

Tuday!!

[@Karma87Lover]

Exactlyyyy

[@tanyacivic]

I must say...Arlette is SERVING every episode. Hair, makeup, style... PERIOD.

[@valeighh3800]

!!!!!

[@TishikaMiller]

EVERY SINGLE TIME 🤩😍🤩🙌🏾🤗🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾!!!

[@josesandoval359]

I’d hold onto my balloon just for Arlette

[@user-eu6wp6ws7c]

🌈

[@HumbLeeTV]

“I wouldn’t approach” 😂 he ain’t wrong! This was the airhead lineup

[@NikkiBX]

Facts! I had to fast forward😩

[@JB-xc8xf]

Airhead line up I’m weak 😂

[@financialregurgitator8574]

facts gotta respect thst lol

[@animezae]

I cracked tf up 😂

[@winniewera2510]

“Airhead lineup” 😂😆😂

[@sweetlikeapplepie]

all beautiful women but whew😅, yellow dress needs her own segment. So sweet, classy, and well spoken. I love her!

[@chocochoco1381]

The girl with the brown dress is tryna get a viral moment. Glad these men are mature enough to handle her ''trying".

[@Sonny2Solid]

She was doing too much. What a confused little girl. She didn’t even know what shoe to wear with her heavy indecisive self, how is she suppose to know what she wants in a man🤦🏿‍♂️

[@selyhernandez3718]

i agree.

[@janaejohnson7136]

From Macy's to this 😂😂😂

[@kendra8662]

To the 2nd young man! God bless you. He’s given you a gift not only to sing but of discernment. Thank you for speaking Truth and not being ashamed to come on this platform and show the love of Jesus. They not ready for a man of God. But someone who will use them ,abuse them and move on. .

[@ladiisagi7353]

Yes amen!!🙏🏽😊

[@Co2DaJo]

Well said!

[@winniewera2510]

Facts !

[@AniyaPittman]

Honeyyyyyyyyyyyy you ani’t never lied!!!

[@nadejetuitt76]

Amen I respected him so muchhh

[@judithmuyunda6618]

This is the best set of men i have seen so far and the fact that there was only one match is unbelievable

[@K_Lavette]

Literally

[@sinarindah4440]

Because the set of women aren’t as equal to most of them ♥️

[@stuckinthe90sThegoldenera]

Damn only one match. That's wild. I need to finish watching.

[@jojodelrey]

Yes! They were all handsome with nice builds, nice jobs, well-mannered. I’m still shocked.

[@agnieszkaweronikajakubowsk6671]

That’s what I was about to say!

[@rebeccadixon4645]

Can someone PLEASE tell me WHY Green dress and Brown dress came on this show? Brownie already got on her BEDROOM Slippers! She could have dialed this in! and the Green dress simply wants EVERYONE to know, she has male/female energy, vibes AND dominance! HOORAY!!!

[@michaelngosa6423]

- "Is she someone that's your type" -"aaahhhhh next question" 🤣😂😅 Smart guy

[@eddiecampbell9663]

In other words he didn't want to be rude 😂😂😂

[@mannogeffrard1040]

Lol. I like this answer.

[@anthonyt425]

Perfect response. 😅

[@bribrown5370]

Which guy said that ..I forgot lol

[@theingiaye3819]

​@@bribrown5370the first guy

[@amyes150]

Brown dress seemed bitter 😭 the 3rd guy is not even that skinny to where the blow away joke would even be funny

[@6lackirish173]

He’s 205 pounds there was absolutely nothing wrong with him he was a healthy weight. Her on the other someone check her bmi

[@fitzmorris6813]

If she blink enough he might get blown away by them fuckin ceiling fans attached to her face.

[@cameronkeller8965]

& she wasn’t even all that

[@thatsSWAGGERY]

She was hurt he humbled her 😂

[@joannacarrasco5354]

She’s wearing slippers and then she changes to hills she’s too fat to stand in them the whole episode I was waiting for someone to throw shade on that shit

[@zesuper]

First man’s personality is top shelf. Chill, humble, humorous, likes to chat…

[@Emprez247]

The first guy really dodged the bullet they going to stay single he such a sweetheart and have a personality

[@brittanypierce2391]

Ladies!!! Stop saying you want good men and then pass on them. This video is the prime reason yall single

[@Godlike901]

Mane what, all those brothers were solid

[@b.michelle2393]

They fav line “He not my type” and that is why they single in a line waiting to get chose

[@denisemezynski8014]

My Exact thoughts!!

[@marcusdavisdavis8986]

Good solid brothers were they intimated

[@hersoulMusic]

If they not feeling them then it's no conversation about nice guys. People have to feel connection. Also, if these girls are passing up good guys then good for the guys. But not everybody will align.

[@Kentuckyfriedchick]

Please stop bringing women in their early 20s on the show. They're always superficial, have vague, repetitive replies and seem like they don't know what they want! Side note: Nerdy/dorky guys make the best partners!

[@katrinagarnett3256]

This

[@parisTheDoll07]

i agree .. should be 25+

[@Juliaa__T]

It goes to show that a few years of age difference shows where people are at in life!

[@TamishaHerd]

Yes!!! I love me a nerd. I’m attracted to intelligent. In addition, he can provide and he was not ugly. They all looking for f-boys.

[@shannonbuff587]

These women here was like listening to a bag of rocks

[@jakemccoy]

The first dude is the type of guy I would want my daughter to be with. He is genuine, honest, and funny. I went to school with dudes like this, and they are all multi-millionaires now.

[@thagrandpubah]

As a father, I would have to agree, but BW would utterly destroy any man that is not damn near a serial killer or rapper type like they’re used to dating.🤷🏽‍♂️

[@realtalk6720]

She'll be with a pookie, unless you teach her some world sense

[@jakemccoy]

@@realtalk6720 She is not attracted to Pookies like you.

[@michaele5588]

They will want him after birthing pookies babies out of wedlock

[@eldizzy6437]

Me too, brother. I graduated with twins that are both millionaires.

[@QUEENSHXT]

Ill take the second man yalllll trippingggg !!! A cowboy and a god fearing man !!!

[@googleuser6490]

“It’s the outfit” “it’s the aesthetic” but they came onto the show wearing SHEIN outfits 😂

[@patjackson6997]

lol ridiculous

[@womanofgod2948]

What's wrong with Shein clothes 😭😪😭😪😪😪

[@seekeroftruth1484]

🤣 lmao

[@Kayletsgo2012]

I’m on the floor!! 😂

[@alexsiitia7848]

so tired of the clubbing fits lmaoooo

[@justchante]

That first dude was a pro. He joked his way out of 8 pops & left laughing.

[@MamvuraTerry]

SMART AS HELL

[@paulj2948]

Last girl in green talked in circles. Glad the first guy told her he had no clue what she's saying.

[@analogueconsciousness8112]

She's into that dark feminine. They're all double minded

[@bataemmanuel2350]

Very confused lady😂😂😂

[@RealNatureSounds1]

Omg I said the same thing lol 🤣🤣😂🤣

[@DarkkusPangg]

And she's Finnishes what she's saying with a "yeeeeah" whichs means she even confused herself

[@ChicaCheek]

She was a walking meme!

[@amandarenee1887]

Best line up of men I’ve ever seen on this show

[@sindiswa.dlamini]

I Like how light - hearted the first guy was to the ladies. I observed that he was most bright to the more polite critics

[@Delicouscake]

Being caught up an “aesthetic” instead of someone who’s gonna love you 10-15+ yrs from now when you’re not as attractive as you once were is insane to me 🙇🏽‍♀️

[@miag4295]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@cephasmee6456]

They're just piggybacking off each other. This is why you see men separate the girl they like from their friends or groups. Women influence each other, shits crazy, like kinetic energy.

[@Allthingsgifty]

@@Delicouscake exactly! I guess it’s easier for us to say watching through the screen? It must be a different experience for them being in person because some of their reasons be way too shallow.

[@gabriellelevaud9141]

Say it louder ! 💯

[@Donoloui]

They still gotta be your type physically though. Looks of your type dont fade due to age, they just become more seasoned. But things like hair and clothing, I agree, is insane

[@AprilLeon]

The girl in the brown dress is wild she tried to disrespect while wearing some furry slipper shoes to a show smh

[@ONLYSEEUS]

Lol thts the 3rd pair she had on for 1.

[@Pmr44]

@@ONLYSEEUSthought I was the only one who see this 😅😂

[@nikhilgrobes7544]

Nbs lol she got nerve

[@nikhilgrobes7544]

And she talkin bout only 6ft and up😂

[@bigrowdzx3796]

The guy really didn’t look skinny! He weighed 205lbs, she was acting like he was malnourished or sutten!

[@basecampguesthouse6763]

Guy #1 Moses! What a breath of fresh air. Bring him back on!

[@tayymarie3524]

Girl in the yellow dress is adorable and you can tell she’s super sweet. She has that southern vibe.

[@xoxo9972]

Right, I thought she was the prettiest one too

[@ndamulelohenoxe4842]

She is not my type

[@Bittertokken]

I think she was the most pleasant person

[@zazinha3810]

Fr they should bring her back and have her try again with a lineup of guys. She seemed good-hearted.

[@laqueeshamcintosh715]

⁠@@ndamulelohenoxe4842who tf asked you ?

[@NmjVelez]

if i turn my fan on & you’ll fly across the room 🙄 girl that was such a toddler joke.

[@Chanellecourtar]

Mind you she had the balloon unpopped the whole time.

[@522gem_]

And he wasn’t even skinny

[@Oliviagold__]

@@522gem_at all the man was over 200 pounds

[@carpediem8855]

First guy is hilarious! ‘Somehow I’m even more confused’ 😂

[@tristanmanuel7787]

They did the Christian guy and the guy with dreads wrong they were good men to marry

[@jenna4628]

I hate that whole "divine femininity" "alpha male" bullshit lol like what are you even talking about lol

[@Diivasatti]

I was confused 😂 each time it got worse

[@jorgelazy9250]

We have to start Ranking these, Girls. 3 worst: #1 Brown dress Girl - Go Home, childish and nasty attitude, go fix your BBL. #2 Twin Girl number 1 - Sound and act like a child, clearly, she just there for the IG followers.

[@reginalee6883]

I was screaming.

[@courtneyt1198]

I like the first guy. His humor was very funny to me. The rejection didn’t seem to bother him. He still kept going despite it. I hope he finds someone that match his fly! 🥰

[@alison3560]

these are some high quality men yall are crazy rejecting over “aesthetic” 😂

[@donavonrevels7069]

They want someone sagging turnt up cussing them out they trying to turn up

[@ouyxen]

@@donavonrevels7069then ask “where all the good men at?”

[@tf8007]

And they took that word and ran with it the entire time. Not one articulate or individual thought

[@tf8007]

Green shirt is handsome!

[@ritamodupe7343]

Mautin is an Egun name… he's from Nigeria…. Badagry to be precise

[@Ngisa]

The first guy was amazing! WTH😮 sense of humour 💯 kind 💯 witt 💯 balance of being an adult and keeping inner child alive 💯 dark 💯

[@dickbicycle9304]

None of this matters if they’re not attracted to him.

[@nhsb6428]

The girl in the yellow dress is representing us introverts and homebodies😂😂. At least she left the house😭😂.

[@tabby1986]

And she's so pretty ❤

[@Baisers11]

Yes I was thinking we would be great friends as soon as she said she a homebody 😂😂😂😂

[@naythedon2991]

I was kinda mad guy in the green didn’t pick her she wifey material 😭🎀

[@ryanc5572]

Yeah she was beautiful and sweet. I hope she finds a good dude

[@thecolormahogany2000]

“Gorgeous…….., I still wouldn’t approach” He knows game 😭