Ep 30: Tsakane Tk speaks out on her divorce journey | loosing everything

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[@tkhlongwane]

You handled y story with so much respect and grace. Thank you The Tea World for the opportunity to share my story and thank you Queen Rammy, for being such an amazing host.

[@TheTeaWorld]

Thank you so much Sis 🫂❤️

[@pogishisehata]

I love you so much this was beautiful to watch😢

[@bulelwamboyi2206]

I can relate to how refreshing starting over can be...you get to do all the things you held back on... may you find happiness you deserve

[@TheTeaWorld]

Amen Thank you

[@palesatshabalala5273]

What a refreshing woman. I want the peace and contentment she has. Wow! Beautiful.

[@TheTeaWorld]

She has been restored👌🙏

[@spm9130]

I love that she mentions that she has no regrets because she did her best in her marriage! So she's not a failure as some assume when a woman gets divorced.

[@TheTeaWorld]

Amen 🙏

[@tebogomalumane4428]

Wow Tsakani❤ I had the same wedding where there were only 6 of us in the room with my pastors, my granny and my friend as witnesses. 15 years down the line I have no regrets. I later found out God wanted it that way and I happy. I love your spiritual maturity especially the wisdom using words carefully. God bless you, sister😊

[@TheTeaWorld]

I love that, May you continue to flourish ✨️

[@nqobilemalamula2591]

I loved you from the ushering days at MIAG when I used to attend there, loved your energy in general and in my eyes you have always been a star girl and you are still a star woman, beautiful and all. Toast to TK🎉

[@TheTeaWorld]

That is so kind, Thank you 😊

[@ScissorN]

Great interview she is very well spoken

[@TheTeaWorld]

Thank you for watching 🙏

[@tumibaloyi2915]

I don't want to say I like your resilience because can we be in soft spaces and not have to be resilient, please. But, I love your ability to pivot and start over. Very admirable ❤

[@TheTeaWorld]

Thank you 😊 🙏

[@dikolizaskk5847]

No formula for the right time to get married

[@TheTeaWorld]

That's right ✅️

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

The day she was thrown out of her house.... Ahhhh marn, just want to hug her. What a sweet girl..

[@TheTeaWorld]

That must have been painful 😒

[@PhenduK]

Guys I love host. Her laughter😅 so contagious. Her bold yet gentle voice, njeee everything. Yathendeka uSisi. My first time tuning in so its my first time seeing her.

[@TheTeaWorld]

Queens notice other Queens. Thank you and looking forward to your interaction on other episodes 😍✌️

[@leratotsita26]

Thanks for sharing TK, you just took the burden of 'shame' from some of us with similar experiences🙏🏾🤗

[@TheTeaWorld]

Amen love this comment 🙏

[@giziasa2327]

Great and real conversation, thank you for your vulnerability @tk. Healing indeed a work in progress! All the best for the future

[@TheTeaWorld]

Thank you beautiful lady 😘

[@ntombenkosimamani4805]

" Love is never wasted" Put this on a t-shirt :)

[@KaraboKeepile]

Here for TK always been so supportive of all my business ventures thanks doll. PTA through and through ❤

[@TheTeaWorld]

You are so welcome❤️👌 Thank you 😊

[@zanele3374]

She is soooo pretty....such a meek soul❤❤❤❤❤

[@TheTeaWorld]

Very lovable ❤️👌

[@pulengphatedi8153]

You can never know a person. As people we change, we grow, we evolve.

[@TheTeaWorld]

So true 😇

[@thokozilemildredmagagane2041]

there's no formula. you can date 10 yrs before you get married, but still get divorced

[@TheTeaWorld]

That's true

[@user-bs4pu8vg1u]

Thats true

[@spm9130]

Oh 😭 😭 we empaths are usually the enablers!

[@TheTeaWorld]

🫂🫂🫂🥹🥹🥹

[@maleboditlopo-seeletse8213]

It's nice to listen to a healed woman. Conversation and perspective to their life experiences are different. She carries an atmosphere of peace. Her attitude towards all this negative things that happen is inspiring. It helps to look at life from the word of God side because u understand there is no mistakes if God allowed it in ur life he definitely has a greater plan about it that will bring restoration and happiness. Everything works out for our good no matter how bad and painful it can be

[@TheTeaWorld]

Indeed very nice 👌

[@thembikunene4531]

Beautiful interview and it's certainly nice to cook for yourself🙏🙏🍁⚘️🌷💖♥️❤️

[@TheTeaWorld]

Thank you so much 🫂

[@lebohangmoleleki]

I'm a first timer on your podcast.I really learnt a lot from the sisters you interviewed.Thanks a lot 😊

[@TheTeaWorld]

We are humbled and we appreciate your support 🙏 ❤️

[@Makhotso_]

Here for TK ❤

[@TheTeaWorld]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@babalwanodwengu5817]

The church testimonies “mama ke tsama le wena kerekeng” after 3 day dry fast 😭 I’ve heard this .

[@TheTeaWorld]

Yei 💔🤣 bopaki

[@pulengphatedi8153]

We are all given grace...🙏

[@TheTeaWorld]

Indeed ❤️

[@llt4726]

❤❤❤I just love Tk...feels like she is a friend.Thanks for having her here.She never goes into detail about this part of her life.❤❤❤It makes sense.

[@TheTeaWorld]

It does make sense indeed 💓❤️

[@TheTeaWorld]

It does make sense indeed 💓❤️

[@zaneledhlamini9803]

Thank you for sharing my beautiful sister. So where do we stand on the word when it labels remarriage as adultery? This is not a an attack my fellow brothers and sisters. I am just really asking. I sympathize with you my sister. This is not personally directed to you.

[@Zandile_Matshai]

Thank you for sharing.

[@TheTeaWorld]

🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@fusiflorence8123]

Queen,I don't know how you find guest or how they find you,I just believe it's not a coincidence ❤❤❤

[@TheTeaWorld]

Led by the spirit of God, like David in the Bible, I enquire of the Lord for guidance.🙏

[@beniesmatsetse2202]

My God this sounds familiar. 😢. Narcissistic behaviour is toxic. You can lose yourself beyond recognition in it.

[@TheTeaWorld]

The thanks you get from a narcissist is loosing yourself and by the time you notice it's hard to start over 🥲

[@KimmyR12]

Who came here from Tik Tok?

[@TheTeaWorld]

👌👌👌🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@simthembilengwenya756]

I hear my dear sisters story but all I want to say is in everything as Christians we should follow what God says and forget about self because we are now slaves to Christ and self is dead but all we do or say should be Christ like so we don't fall short on our purpose in our Christian journey. Remember the Bible says we are now children of the light therefore children of the world look up to us as lights that we ought to be... My point here is we all know that our God is against divorce.. 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 which says that "the Lord commands the married not to separate, and if they do, they should remain unmarried or be reconciled" so then how do we then as Christians say with our mouth that God allowed us to do the very thing he's against? How do we give him glory that we finally managed to do something he clearly commanded us not to do. Plz let us be careful of what we say or do lest we spiritually kill or encourage other spiritually immature ppl to do. I admire that tried to pray for your marriage but I also feel like u prayed for a way out more than God to restore and mend u guys and what was broken in your marriage. May God help us understand and interpret him better Amen ❤❤

[@user-vb6rt5le9j]

Tsakane is gougeous and humble

[@TheTeaWorld]

She is amazing 👏

[@annahmanone9565]

Without wasting time, i have to subscribe to this channel ❤❤❤

[@TheTeaWorld]

Welcome and thank you so much 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@esmert1622]

She is beautiful and smart

[@TheTeaWorld]

Very beautiful 😍

[@keneiloemyoli]

Have a very similar love story

[@TheTeaWorld]

So beautiful 😍

[@nokubongamkhize9783]

Nothing is wested in Gods hands 🙌

[@TheTeaWorld]

Indeed🙏

[@sheronsnethembancube2693]

Thank you for sharing, I stayed in such a situation for 14 years.... I ended up second guessing myself in most things. At one point, there was silent treatment for more than 4 months... I also was kicked out same way as you, with just my clothes and my kids. I'm still hurting but one day at a time.

[@TheTeaWorld]

4 months? 😳😳😳😳🙄🙄🙄🙄 no way with the kids though 😕

[@spm9130]

Same here, after 20 years of marriage! In-laws will never see heaven shem 😂😂😂😂

[@sheronsnethembancube2693]

@TheTeaWorld yes 2 lovely intelligent human beings. They had adapted to the situation, I have a long road teaching then better

[@thabilemkhize2585]

👌 I like this woman ❤

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

Me too. I just love her. She'll find love.

[@masandefuzile2261]

I am a Narcissist but I love church.

[@TheTeaWorld]

Get help even at church 👌

[@DiseboMtsweni]

Can't we go deeper in the main reason amongst others that drove them here like why did the man throw her out

[@TheTeaWorld]

Hi Sis, she did mention that she wasn't spiritually safe, that contributed. Please check a comment where she elaborated what she meant by spiritually unsafe

[@pulengphatedi8153]

Being decisive is important. I am struggling with that. If you can't be decisive, you come across as a liar...

[@TheTeaWorld]

So sad 😞

[@MissCombs1511]

Hi ladies, please can you break down what "spiritually unsafe" means in the context you had said it in? I'm not sure what it means?

[@TheTeaWorld]

@tkhlongwane

[@tkhlongwane]

There were different altars in my home now. My husband was now involved with traditional healers my mother in law also brought others things. I was married a Christian man and watched him change to worship other God’s. I never mentioned that part in the podcast

[@MissCombs1511]

@@tkhlongwane thank you so much for explaining. It is clear. God's plan for you still remains valid 🙏🏾

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

​@@tkhlongwaneyou are so likeable. Only a matter of time before love finds you. You remain respectful towards your husband even with your experience.

[@mahlodinorah487]

Tsakani, hv you realized the psychological abuse part. When a person despises your thinking n ideas. It's so hurting when somebody think your thinking is shallow a poor forever, it hurts so much n I suffered that so much that I was always dreading to even inform him that somebody was here looking for him. That used to be my life

[@TheTeaWorld]

Hmmmm

[@TheTeaWorld]

So sorry

[@pecumareana3936]

The truth is that most Christians ignore a scripture that says.. A divorced man or divorced woman can't remarry another woman/man unless he/she goes back to the initial partner😢😢😢

[@TheTeaWorld]

Hmmmm

[@Vv-fl2rm]

They stay right up until the last horrific moment of being kicked out and treated like trash. Before then bekezeling hanging onto a toxic man because of marriage validation. It’s exhausting

[@TheTeaWorld]

It's okay for people to share their life journey, nothing exhausting there

[@Vv-fl2rm]

@@TheTeaWorld there’s definitely a lot that is exhausting about women forever hanging onto toxic men. It’s a norm and a socialization. You never hear men uttering statements like “pray for your wife to act right and to stop cheating” 😂🤡. Women need more self love and self value.

[@TheTeaWorld]

I hear you but your comment is giving a view that women should be embarrassed for getting married and putting effort in their marriages, that's not the case, nobody marries to divorce and nobody can stay in a stay toxic place, we celebrate those who left still alive

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

Hahaha give divorces a chance.....ah I love her bethuna.

[@TheTeaWorld]

Very lovable 💖

[@masandefuzile2261]

Narcissist

[@TheTeaWorld]

Indeed ❤️

[@mihlotijoymogale]

Great content and thank you TK for sharing your journey with us. Strength to you Darling 🩵 “They say”… - pls translate hi Xitsonga… you have a radio voice 🥰

[@TheTeaWorld]

Thank you 😊

[@umduduziledwaba6769]

BArZ honey BArZ healing ❤️‍🩹 is me not hating him

[@TheTeaWorld]

❤️❤️❤️