Ep. 356: Having Kids With Your Best Friend ft.

[@lifewithkalina7305]

"this is the first time we talked all morning" I HOLLERED! ok Queen keep it real LMAO, Love her energy!

[@ashleythomas6186]

I loved how Heather said 4 and included his first daughter 🥹💙

[@CeeShelli]

It took her 2 tries.

[@jaydutch_]

She was saying she has 3, and pointed at him and said he has 4

[@nesraloo95]

Noooo way yall have Heather and TRell!! The dream link up I never thought would happen 😭🤯😍🍊🍊🍊

[@ifrr8337]

🍓🍊❤️

[@ceeceero]

When I see them on the thumbnail all I can hear is “oranges in the chat” 🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊

[@ifrr8337]

@@ceeceero Same! 👏🤣🍊

[@TheBoy-ze2fw]

Strawberries in the chat!

[@shaiallen8892]

“Give me my baby bitch “😂😂😂😂 nah that’s a serious conversation but they make it funny with they commentary.

[@Sweetheart888_]

TRELL is always supportive of Heather, that’s why she be getting to that MONEY we need more men like this, support and give confidence to your woman, woman can achieve so many great things with support

[@mitchy2311]

Women gotta be willing to lock in and support the right men, not the bums that's dickmatizing them

[@Sweetheart888_]

@@mitchy2311 facts

[@Ibfstar]

Real interview w a real couple. “ first time we talked all morning” is REAL LOVE and REAL LIFE

[@samanthajohns3490]

I love the honesty of their long term relationship. I feel like most couples on podcasts lie about things to make them look better. Coming from a 10+ year relationship myself, thank you FINALLY!!!

[@acostajhovana]

Yup same here !!!

[@MamaB_orjustB]

OMG TRELL HAS BEEN TALKING ABOUT THESE TWO FOR YEARS!! SO EXCITEDDDD THEY LINKED!

[@drewstar8611]

‘Fucking me when I had Bell’s palsy’ is CRAZY!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@BACKONFIGGG]

Yes sir!!!

[@floweroftheuni]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@anailcaudillo1055]

I have covid. The Bell’s palsy moment almost sent me to the ER. I have to come back and watch this when I’m healthy because I almost died laughing.

[@antJaxStar]

Prayers up for a Speedy Recovery! 🙏🏽🤩🙏🏽

[@karickasoul5059]

Commenting so you can come back to laugh..... because it's good for the soul. Get better soon 🙏🏾

[@antJaxStar]

How You Feelin' Today Sweety?

[@anailcaudillo1055]

@@antJaxStar you are such a sweet person to check on me like that. I feel much much better. I can finally breathe. Thank you for checking in on me. ❤️

[@anailcaudillo1055]

@@karickasoul5059 thank you so much! I really appreciate your words. Happy Valentine’s Day.

[@willowbrown6797]

I really appreciate them sharing the nuances of their relationship. Her honesty around her emotions throughout her pregnancies is important for ao many folks.

[@CedricWalton-f5w]

Nuance was great word selection I love when human beings use venactulars

[@kb51422]

This was such a real life relationship 🙌🏾 I really felt Heather, the message can absolutely get lost in the delivery and cause you to shut down and be over it

[@slo401]

“I will never date a short Jamaican in my life” 😂😩😭

[@Kblackmoss]

This is the only podcast where even guest episodes are just as interesting as solo episodes. The way y’all line the questions just flows so well!! Great job per usual ❤

[@Inspirewithkay]

The way he talks about Heather you can tell he truly loves her. They have real chemistry ❤

[@ashleymiller1210]

I don’t have kids but I really loved hearing their story especially the male perspective

[@Tyra_Night]

Apparently I’m the only one who doesn’t know this couple … but I tell ya im not aspiring for a union like this BUT I truly appreciate their HONESTY & AUTHENTICITY 😂

[@berenicei.7283]

I feel the exact same way! 😩

[@Lawa_kun]

Heather's mother being disgusted by Adam16 and Lena's line of work is hilarious

[@smome777]

Adam16 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@antJaxStar]

I chuckled at that too ​@@smome777

[@Montrealsfinest87]

STOP MESSAGING MY MOTHER ON FACEBOOK

[@cat0707]

Not adam16 😂😂😂😂😂😂 BYE

[@shimmydeens]

I love how open the couple is…

[@loveleneee]

I'm one of the female fans of BOF stream/pod and I appreciate that he acknowledges that we do need that female voice in the room even if it's just once a week. Cause I be in the chat fighting for my life

[@AlexiCalzadilla]

HAHAHA BC SAME ❤🤣

[@honeybee591]

😭😭😭😭 sameeee! 🤝

[@kendralewis7414]

When she said “this the first time we talked all morning” I fell the fuck OUT!! I mean on the floor!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@amandaworley8358]

This couple was so relatable for me! Loved the dynamic of them with M&W. ❤

[@MsBlackIntrovert]

Mandii outfits never miss ✨

[@shrewdshrew35]

i love this couple!!!! lmao The Bells palsy joke story was funny and beautiful. I loved this convo!

[@katarinaskinner1704]

I’ve been with my husband for 14 years and he is WAY better at communicating than me 😅 we have three kids and we are still working on how to better communicate with each other. It’s just a work in progress. He’s amazing.

[@amandar8699]

I can relate to Heather with being afraid of getting married because of all the divorces I’ve seen but we are now coming up on 2 years of marriage. I think the key is to do what works for yall and not suddenly shift your expectations when you get married.

[@alisharobinson3111]

This episode was so refreshing. It was so nice to see a married couple on the pod. Loved it! Keep doing yo thang.

[@ellaellela656]

Im so happy to see another couple stayin together through everything. I’ve been married 14 years and we don’t see many like us.

[@Inspirewithkay]

They’re one of my favorite couples. So relatable and I love even more that they came on here after a night of having an argument. It was like a therapy session. And they’re both transparent my bf always tells me my attitude is my downfall too so that’s so relatable !

[@vickyathena3353]

Love the transparency and how they make it funny😂

[@nicolebabi1314]

I love that u have them on the show!!!!!! They need to be at the Black Effect pod event !!! This was great and I have been enjoying the free flowing feel of Back on Figg!

[@Kiara__Says]

Yeahhh you can definitely tell they were beefing before this 😂

[@JaPaulHobson-j3p]

Love Mandi and Cream Medin tryna figure out how to get over those tough sister road bumps. Keep working girlies yall got it.

[@r.a.8407]

Damn thier signs are a perfect match it makes so much sense seeing thier relationship

[@ceelove7092]

I haven’t laughed this hard in awhile 🤣 that Bell’s palsy took me out 🤣

[@domelese]

I loved this episode!! ❤❤❤ wish it was longer

[@Mamalinds22]

Very appreciative of Heather’s vulnerability around her PPD. Sending love to all who have experienced it or are in it now ❤

[@ceeceero]

I love heather and Trell. They’re such an inspiring duo and their content is soooo much fun!

[@lovejoy6710]

I love this so much! Been following trell and heather since DAY ONE! & i must say, we all have experienced the things they go through and many may be wondering well why didn’t me and my guy/girl didn’t make it.. as a believer i feel like God is why they made it. They were meant for each other & when you’re meant for one another NOTHING can break that couple. I pray y’all get married and make it 🙌🏾🫶🏾❤️

[@savvyd2343]

My two worlds collide!!!! Super excited to watch🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 🍊 🍊 🍊 🍊 🍊 🍊 🍊

[@lorelailuna]

Aw! My favorite couple, can’t wait to see how this goes 🥰

[@natalie-rosejoseph4278]

This interview was amazing. I love them together, but this just showed them in another light that we haven't seen. I love Heather's honesty: "We haven't spoken all day till now". Great podcast. I just subscribed to WHOREible Decisions because of this interview. ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

[@capricorn0103]

20 minutes into this and I'm absolutely loving the vibes ❤ you're all hilarious and the conversation flowed very naturally. Can't wait to watch more!

[@cicelyinamerica]

Trell is a man sent from GOD! he's so understanding and i love him and heather's relationship!!

[@TKris95]

Heather was so real and raw, loved this episode!

[@brittanidavis4877]

This might be my favorite episode so far! I couldn't stop laughing. They kept it so real!

[@JavyJxnes]

As a brit the description has me DEAD🤣🤣 🇬🇧 “get off your 🐱 p “ sounds chill but… fanny??😂😂 yall got me crying🤣😭🤣

[@Valeriapeaches4]

I freaking love them !! Trell funny af

[@TheRavenloren]

Geminis mouth is crazy lmao like they literally not for the weak. But Aquarius can take it there too. Trust coming from a Libra 😂

[@Wherethebag]

Air signs 🤞🏽

[@robbinhatchett4179]

​@pjboykin Capricorn Season over here baby!! We the G.O.A.T.

[@alexisbri]

“im married ngga bye” 🙄😂😂😂😂

[@syckindahead]

Great episode that could've lasted longer. I'm not familiar with them and appreciated them sharing part of their experiences. I'll check out their socials. Thanks WD!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Ceetastic90]

Heather & Tarell!?!? Never thought this would happen. I’m so happy! 🔥🔥

[@daniellejackson1764]

Fav episode I loved this!!

[@clarissagonzalez5969]

loved watching this podcasts!! they’re always keepin it real🧡🧡also heather is so damn BEAUTIFUL!!

[@kvlcowan2537]

This is one of my fave coupes lol been following Heather since the tumblr days!!

[@antJaxStar]

Great Episode Gurls!!!! I Needed a Distraction, My Mental Health is WAY OFF!!!

[@TyraHigh]

After you go get a living trust, a will and or a power of attorney in case of medical disability you might as well get a damn marriage license! You can get married without a wedding.

[@h789456123123]

Stet is around!

[@Youadorejessy]

Loooooveeee this! Fair to say this is a great one! 🧡🍊

[@ifrr8337]

🍓❤️🍊

[@amberrenelle]

Ummmm is his side tooth missing 😂😂😂😂Ain’t no way boi 😂😂😂😂

[@Husalah100]

😂😂😂

[@TuuMammi]

My exact thoughts. 💭

[@GrowingwithRome]

Idk why I thought he had it capped the way the rappers do it now

[@itsjust_destj7189]

I love this podcast so much! Heather and Trell!!!

[@gesselberry6499]

You two always crack me up! Don't eat off Weezy's countertop and don't sit on the studio couch. LMAO

[@itsreallysho]

FINALLY yall mfers all linked up. WE LIT!

[@key_possible]

Rell always gives uncle vibes lol. Good guy. Love Heather❤❤

[@Wherethebag]

Aquarius are normally pretty open to being freaky. They are a very honest about their relationship. Not giving all the right answers. i love the authenticity

[@s80zbaybee]

I freaken love them!!!! Cheers to relationships like this and "boring s3x" we out here living our best life lol

[@baionimikhayl1157]

This episode is EVERYTHING ✨

[@BarryTaylor-b7e]

He love him some Heather!

[@shaksmartmurals8212]

Trell gotta a great one , good morals salute

[@tatyanacierra1]

Omg I’m so excited for this!!!

[@MVPBRE]

Dis was dope Shoutout Trell and Heather!! BOF

[@chanilovebreezy25]

wow been following Treather for so long since Heather was Gorcheeeesss lol I learned new shit about them today this was a good one

[@Jd-nc4uh]

Damn you must be old lol

[@chanilovebreezy25]

lmaooo 32 ,not that old damn @@Jd-nc4uh

[@robbinhatchett4179]

​@Jd-nc4uh On God, they a day one before day ones were a thing

[@machiinegunfunkk]

🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊never thought id see this crossover. c’monnn!!!!

[@MIKEFRANKK]

OH SHIT. BOF x WD 🔥

[@daniellejackson1764]

Omg yesss I can’t wait to watch this. I love them

[@almxo_]

Oh wow!!! Ayeee🥳🥳🥳 🍊 🍊 I’m here for it!

[@nareenscott2589]

This episode was GOOD! They were both cute and funny!

[@CedricWalton-f5w]

The funniest episode 😂😂😂 T rell hilarious

[@Kyshalise]

I love how honest she was

[@berenicei.7283]

I had the same question about them not having great communication skills together after 14 years. Makes no sense to me. Sounds hella toxic omg

[@thejayxo]

Yeah, not speaking until they pulled up. Going to sleep angry. Spazzing and then coming back after probably talking reckless. Very unhealthy

[@godspeedrell]

Great interview with Tiny Cuh & Hurricane Heather. 🍊🍊🍊🍓🍓🍓

[@CourtneyGoldstone]

I had the exact same birth experience but my son was slightly bigger and I was nowhere near a hospital, I was at a birthing centre and my son regained movement in his arm around 4 months through a lot of work and manifestation.

[@AJayB89]

Mandi turnt it up this episode. Looking tf goodt!

[@luisaenriquez1424]

I’ve been with my s.o to for 14 years and we’re not married either and there’s really no specific reason why. I just know we’re on our own timeline. I loved this episode.

[@elizabethharrison-lowe9596]

Loved this episode!

[@juicelynjuicelyn]

Heather saying wait it’s over?!? I felt the same way cuz y’all bearly let them get a MF word in 😩

[@bigchop1388]

Heather fried! 😂😂😂 they might be cool to hang around just for the vibes but podding, wasn’t no real intro or lead up to any questions they went right in like they wanna give Cuhh and Heather the MEOW 😂😂😂

[@Luolabutterfly]

This was so good girls 😁🥰🫶🏾

[@rainahines3515]

I’m soooooo hype yall got my faves!!!!

[@yazminlopez6534]

Great pod great questions 🔥🔥🔥🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊

[@LighthouseJaye]

20:30 Communication is important but it's a process. Mandi, that's not something you can get out the gate with anyone, it's something you build. With dating first you connect, then you see if you want to pursue it seriously and if you do, that's when you need to open that door, be patient and say "Hey communication is real important for me, I'd like to know how you are when you're emotional and how we can communicate through it. Do we wait and communicate later or can we speak about it in real time? I'd like to know how you process and how we can process together." That's something that you (anyone) need to be open to working on with that person maybe 2/3months in or whenever you hit your first emotional barrier. (Off of Mandi) I think often women don't allow men the opportunity to learn in real time. We are raised to be "masculine" and in the black community that often means being emotionless and cold. Women also aren't all emotionally adept, and also need to learn how to communicate - like with this relationship - but with time and understanding (like them) you could have a really special relationship if you both choose each other while you work on yourselves and work together by being patient and open with each other. Nothing comes as a complete package, that's a lie taught through dating apps.

[@fonneishawright4380]

Love them!!! Excited for this 🫶🏽

[@mmonitx]

What a great episode. I love you ladies ❤

[@briamonyae1396]

I’m loving this episode!❤

[@tiffanysantiago8248]

You two look beautiful. Bless!

[@LighthouseJaye]

Wow this is a beautiful episode.🤍

[@danadane84]

I enjoyed this episode

[@okaygworl]

MAAM. THE BOOTS. MAKEUP. OUTFIT. HAIR. IS EATINGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!

[@lenoxii8717]

Love that these two worlds collided! Love all y’all!

[@MsToniquica]

Common law marriage.. just write it in your will 😊