Ep 6: The UNMATCHED Women from Pop The Balloon Ep 23 | BM Talks To Them

[@bm.artist]

Who do you want us to interview next, Hubert (Ep 22) or Dorian (Ep 20)?

[@Lincholin_nams]

Hubert

[@centenoj85]

Hubert

[@hrc355]

Dorian

[@frenledarius347]

Hubert look like a princess

[@Tessthebaddie]

Dorian

[@PreciousSullivan]

I like BM, he don’t play no games. No sugar coating “what do u mean a viral moment, the whole show was a viral moment” 😂

[@GenuinelyGiGi]

😂😂😂

[@liamford6249]

Lmao

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Zero games. Hes a decent man.

[@drujay6869]

Thank you! I noticed that too, but they down played it like they didn’t understand what he said.😂

[@waun802]

🙏🏿🙏🏿 he never lied

[@jiffybd2475]

After this please Don’t bring these women back for anything related w the show ever again

[@adams8830]

This. I never want to see any of these women again.

[@rae6591]

EVER!!!!

[@Powermoves1080]

Facts! I can’t believe I sat through the whole video listening to these birds chirp 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@6ft3soldier]

Please don't Arlette and BM

[@jiffybd2475]

Single women keeping each other single

[@judahmerrell8786]

Shorty talkin bout "on pop the balloon, I prefer you to be tall, but in my real life, its not mandatory!" Girl what!?!? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 yeah these shorties got bird brainnnnnssss!!!!! 🐦🧠

[@adams8830]

Didn't even make sense. She came to promote her music career, not to find love.

[@6ft3soldier]

They silly women smh

[@leiarichardson65]

Absolutely retarded

[@lorelailuna]

Literally! And only further proving they were just saying what the other girls said

[@raykingtv2351]

This was the most lamest shhhh I’ve ever heard 😂 she def throwed

[@JReed2DC]

BM on the show: You ladies are repeating each other. The internet will notice. BM on the reunion: I told you ladies to stop repeating each other. Ladies on the show: “Like Carrington said” and “Like Carrington said” and “Like Carrington said” and “like she said” and “it’s like she said earlier” and “like her example”, OMFG!!!

[@LOSTGPS]

hive mind

[@alexisdavis7578]

🎯🎯🎯

[@mandamandamanda6722]

Y’all just don’t want to come to terms with the fact that they were saying the same things because they all felt the same way about the men. Like what different things did he want them to say? Make up the reasons why they didn’t like the men? If they all felt the men were unattractive and not tall enough then they will all say that because they were all feeling that way. Like what more do you want.

[@Hinokami777]

I can’t stand them and their sisterhood of protection and following . They so lame and can’t think for themselves. Whenever women get around other women they turn dumb. And for a woman they never even met before and probably won’t even hang out with after the show. Yet they calling eachother friends. Lmao cap.

[@Hinokami777]

@@mandamandamanda6722no they didn’t stop lying to yourself what are the odds every woman gonna have the same mindset ? The same preference? The same taste in men? You’re full of crap lol you just wana side with the women cause you’ve made numerous comments on defense of the women. You’re clearly a feminist. Go away. Nobody agrees with you. Women are weak creatures who do things to please other women. A woman can see a handsome strong tall man that she finds attractive. But if her group of lonely single friends who are haters say “ girl no he’s ugly or he can’t dress “ guess what. That girl will change her mind and stop talking to that man to please her friends and cause she’s embarrassed by their opinion instead of CHOOSING what SHE likes for herself! Do men do that? NO!!!!!! If men find a woman beautiful he will never let his friends tarnish that. If anything a man will fight his own friend for disrespecting that said woman. See the difference? You’re ignorant . It’s okay

[@jehannern27]

The unmatched men did not bash these women on their podcast episode. They literally just spoke on the experience from their own perspectives. I don’t get why they were so upset by that.

[@Wisestomatoe]

They hurt

[@pdors94]

They're obviously playing the Victim Olympics for the public eye..

[@meloran2571]

they're upset because people called them out for being exactly who they are, shallow attention seekers.

[@eon001]

@jehannern27 Right?! I thought I missed something. Did they say something on there personal IG's?

[@crystallf26]

I literally said I don’t think they said anything bad about these young ladies.

[@francisnwajei4732]

No one is upset they rejected some guys. The issue many people had was the crazy reasons they were giving like outfits or height

[@braveheart9097]

Or bald or distance

[@SouthPawGirlie]

Until the one bald guy came in, NONE of them popped. Which i didn't understand. ​@braveheart9097

[@shortyduwhop319]

Men have rejected women for being short on this show and no one says anything. Its weird

[@tfyproductions1631]

This is what ruins relationships and having men not take women serious and they wonder why so many single mothers. Their choosing to only deal with a select 2% of men that are not trying take them serious because in a social media world they only value attraction and in a world so easy to receive attention from any man at a finger tip they're confused to which can of men they actually qualify for.. Quite sad what the internet has done but this will be studied for sure... Downfall of marriage and society with single family households. Simple way to find out is ask any of these women if they know what men want and most wont know or create their own.

[@camryreliford3984]

Or you look like my cousin’s bd 😳

[@neptune8410]

This catch up did not change my mind about most of the women... just solidified my first impression. cooked!

[@honchoo732]

You're a lame that probably gets called cooked by women like this in real life

[@barryduncanjr.6006]

Yea', they mostly just doubled-down on it.

[@WittyOne37]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@RideWithSisi]

😂😂😂😂

[@johnmivule-novabow8143]

yup after this interview, only thing i got was that they TRIPLED DOWN

[@Controversyvids23]

“What did you learn from the show” “I feel like I presented myself well” like what 😂😂😂

[@MNH1198]

“I learned about production” 😂 …a joke lol

[@Hinokami777]

“ I learned the internet can be harsh “ bih you already knew that!!!!! It’s the INTERNET. And you saw the other episodes.

[@FireAngelChris]

We were never suppose to see these ladies again. This was by far the worse set of ladies collectively.

[@Thatgirl4200]

Cooked

[@adams8830]

I could have thrown my laptop, I was so agitated with these women. "Oh I don't like his shoes" or "he's too short" when he's 6ft+. Just delusional.

[@TubeManagement]

@@FireAngelChris and after watching this it’s clear who’s the ring leader …. The energy was set by Mrs “we have options” lol

[@balckfox5]

Agree

[@claudeclaude9991]

Trash. None of them are to be had as a girlfriend or wife. You just use them and throw them in the trash where they belong. They all look like call girls.

[@softdoc631]

If millions of people, males and females, called you out on something, maybe you should self reflect a bit. These ladies are walking red flags.

[@Coldkiller-28]

Kia was the only solid one in my opinion and I would hear carrington out a little bit more but I agree these women just made it worse 😂

[@FireAngelChris]

They’re ridiculous

[@MerlotBaby]

Lol. It wasn't millions of people. I personally don't care. If they don't like the guys, they don't like the guys. They didn't have to match with anyone.

[@yunglife1244]

The lack of accountability is real with these trifling poor excuse of women 😂

[@CoreyChampagneTV]

Millions of ppl can project too

[@louielou6213]

“We have options” 😂😂😂 . If you did, you wouldn’t be on pop the balloon!

[@CuteNombeko624]

Them options trash 😂😂😂

[@artiium21]

EXACTLY!!!

[@FireAngelChris]

They be having people that want to sleep with them then confuse them with qualify option of people.

[@amarie9092]

Lmao this needs to be pinned!

[@thegoodnews6682]

That's a ridiculous assertion.

[@lamontsimpson4871]

BM looks like he needs a vacation after this episode 😂

[@MrRocka12]

hah

[@gatsinsingui7638]

Right I know he is tiered of this group!! Except for the positive young lady with curls❤️

[@chaotix67]

"We have options." Says the one that travels across the country because she has too much to pick from around her area 😂

[@eon001]

And the tall woman talking about meeting 63-6'5 guy "all the time"🙄 BUL$HIT.

[@TheMaddenMarine]

Exactly!!!!😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheMaddenMarine]

These women are delusional!!😂😂😂😂

[@sassygirl340]

Yup! #delulu

[@Hinokami777]

And the tall girl saying I encounter 6’5 plus men all the time. Why you not married to one then 😂😂😂😂😂😂 clearly it didn’t work out or they didn’t want her big strong face ass

[@kilcaso9278]

These women didn’t come for love they came to be friends with each other lol

[@singmelullabies]

and for fame

[@somebodylying]

and they're gonna be single and with each other 10 years from now 😩🤣

[@Peelivision]

😂😂😂

[@damiandennis3740]

Woman keeps Other Woman single

[@frederickkgagane]

Facts! 💯%

[@jassylove01]

2nd girl talks so damn much about nothing.

[@hsplash8243]

She bugged out. Tell him how to run she show

[@jaybee3426]

She was annoying. Mouth running like a broken faucet😒!

[@somebodylying]

word salad.

[@eleseclarke6038]

😂😂

[@ES92-]

Yapper in Chief

[@fashionjunky10]

Carrington be saying a WHOLE LOT of NOTHING!! Damn girl, shuttup!!!

[@coramartin7750]

Facts!! 🤣🤣🤣😮‍💨

[@passionaterebellion]

ikr, comments full of arrogance, narcissism, unrealistic standards, and no self reflection

[@AyeVondy]

Or maybe you struggle to comprehend… because she literally said reasonable and understandable things 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@malvinelpinnoy]

​@@AyeVondydon't be a simp! We all watched the episode and she said nothing of weight, stop with the glazing already

[@daylow5207]

@@AyeVondyyou must be carrington🤣

[@Tax_Master_DFW]

Too many women complain that there is urine in the dating pool but they don’t realize the water around them is turning blue because they are the ones peeing in the pool.

[@raykingtv2351]

FACTS !

[@ThisNuru]

What a great observation 🤣🤣🤣

[@JadeissoJaded]

@@Tax_Master_DFW nope these women have standards, morals, and preferences that those men didn’t meet. Let’s be honest now when good women come on the show but she doesn’t have the body the guys want her to have and they pop y’all never make all this noise so remain silent

[@Hinokami777]

Man these women taking full on doodoo in the pool

[@asantewaakissi2650]

Barrrzzzzz 😂😂😂

[@passionaterebellion]

2nd girl trying to blame BM and Arlette for not making it regional is CRAZY. YOU GOT ON A PLANE TO ARIZONA! These women weren’t there for love, they were there for clout!

[@thelayer006]

The audacity

[@ildascott6463]

Trult

[@Iampastortanks]

2 girl is the problem

[@doodiemac100]

How you gon tell someone else how they should run THEIR platform? They gave you all the details in the description. Reading is fundamental, something apparently she lacks

[@keithn9253]

😂😂😂 I was like you knew what was up so if you're traveling then this know they would be too

[@Natak222]

BM and Arlette did a beautiful job matching these women together 🤌🏾. They ALL have the exact same level of delusion!!

[@TSidez]

Masterful. Like a James 🥧

[@coolkash215]

😭😭😭😭💯💯💯💯

[@encorewithe2482]

😂😂😂😂

[@elizadeed3836]

Facts. Had the nerve to call the comments mental ill

[@LowMax_]

What is delusional about actually wanting to be attracted physically to your partner.....

[@KingSando2200]

This is a prime example of “women keeping each other single” I am amazed that BM & Arlette managed to find a pack of wild hyenas that had the same copy, paste& post mindset😂

[@Angelique-tf5fg]

Exactly like he needs to not ever bring these girls back !!! They are not making sense and are wasting BM & ARLETTES time !

[@Livwiththekeys]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@somebodylying]

The lights are on, but nobody's home. Worst lineup of women. 🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@BigCityWorld]

Just sad...

[@shamay4893]

Only beauty to show

[@honchoo732]

They were beautiful, you probably got flashbacks of being rejected in real life by these same type of women

[@Powermoves1080]

@@honchoo732 My G take your cape off for these birds it’s not a good look 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@TheQueenrevolution]

This!!!

[@amandamadyara5635]

I wanna hear the conversation that Arlette & BM has after this call.

[@eddienkounou4801]

This.

[@StSt-g2f]

On god

[@aaronmartin3658]

Pillow talk must be entertaining

[@aguy9071]

This would be a good episode. Their personal reflections

[@passionaterebellion]

BM and Arlette were insulted several times this video. That one girl said “these are the same men you can find downtown”… so disrespectful. I know they had to be thinking “wow, these women really are terrible.”

[@regalsylvester]

Be careful BM and Arlette, these ladies seem like they’ll do a “Surviving Arlette: When The Balloon Pops” documentary one day

[@barryduncanjr.6006]

Yup

[@mr_incredibull]

🎯😂😂😂

[@Hazeypo]

😂😂😂😂

[@leiarichardson65]

Funny but soo true

[@SuperWarpath]

😂 Aaron going to be the star 😂

[@chelseabailey-lh8ry]

Haitian doll talking about her trauma with that man’s haircut. Saying it gives her PTSD. Baby girl please see a therapist

[@truthtelling1195]

Yup but alot of BM have trauma from their mama and project into BW simply because they are BLCK !!

[@feelnopain9550]

Yes! She was ridiculous

[@gatsinsingui7638]

Right and never claim a bad experience as “mine” because then you will always live in it! Because your holding the door open for it! Close it!

[@mrwintry1]

We love BM. He gets straight to the questions we all have and can tell he’s genuinely curious to hear their thought process. Also to try to offer accountability on their behalf.

[@michaelm3512]

He also keeps a straight face the whole time so you know he’s serious. He a good dude

[@wisforwumbo6408]

Shorty really tried to argue that the odds were in her favor to find a match that didn't require long-distance. The math isn't mathing.

[@_CPerk]

Lunacy

[@leeh3741]

Exactly, you fly from across the country with the thought that of 8 men, 1 is going to be from Michigan 🤯

[@lukmanshittu2275]

Her explanation started off terrible and was all over the place, but i understood a bit. Not all long distances are created equally. Michigan and Vegas is a lot

[@akeemalston7506]

Thought I was lost when she said that.

[@KINGOFBROOKLYN3]

@@lukmanshittu2275I hear that, and of course money is a factor too. But if you’re willing to drive 4 hrs for someone you might as well buy that plane ticket

[@rebeccapetty1k390]

Those women are basically bashing the viewers of the show.. because the viewers called them out on their BS .. excuses after excuses after excuses… yeah it’s not gonna get better .. they gave the worst episode ever.. worst lineup ever I don’t care

[@centenoj85]

Viewers rule ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Nestle245]

I don't know what's the purpose of bringing them back on here. We saw what they did on the show.

[@iHeartMusiq]

Facts!

[@somebodylying]

This was the ONLY episode I couldn't watch until the end. I saw all I needed to see in the first 15 minutes. I wanted to throw the TV out the window 😩😩

[@Coachwynfield]

Y’all have no kind of self awareness. At the end of the day we don’t know any of these people.

[@linlinn2323]

I don't like that they hit below the belt and attacked BM and Arlette's business - their livelihood. They played victim. I don't like that. Stay strong BM and Arlette. Proud to see strong, beautiful, black power couples. Looking forward to seeing more big, successful great productions from you both🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤ Even though I disagree with these women I hope that they find joy and their significant other. Everyone deserves love.

[@ericfowlkes6226]

I didn’t like that either…

[@FrenchyBelgian]

Well I guess the show should be renamed "Pop the balloon and find friends" then 😂

[@s55fp]

😂 Right!

[@QuiseCortez]

Yoo 😂😂

[@damiandennis3740]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@DLShoulders29]

Someone called it “pop the balloon or find the 1% man for love”.

[@adams8830]

Right! If they wanna make friends then they need to stay home. This show isn't about friends.

[@shantekaneisha3332]

He asked what did they learn and they started talking negative. These women are draining.

[@sheena.m7802]

They learned that it's everybody else's fault and they presented themselves well😂😂😂 thus video got me confused ..I never commented this much before

[@believeume122]

Very draining

[@Just_tash_]

Right!!!

[@Hinokami777]

They learned that they can never take accountability 😂

[@fredelie]

Yoooo😂😂😂😂

[@OhSoLucius]

I LOVE HOW BM HOLDS THEM ACCOUNTABLE WITHOUT BEING NASTY!!! SOCRATIC METHOD 👏🏾👏🏾

[@SatanicBeauty]

Hold them accountable for their preferences?

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

​@@SatanicBeautyright.. im like for not settling? Tf

[@OhSoLucius]

@@SatanicBeauty he holds them accountable for their thought process. Nothing wrong with their preferences.

[@shirleemyrick6106]

I disagree. He was a little rude. He kept interrupting them and speaking over them. They’re the guests. They’re ur talent. Let them speak

[@liamford6249]

@@shirleemyrick6106 he has that traditional father household mentality. Where his words holds more weight than others lol.

[@lexthestampede8252]

I love how you can tell how healthy Arlette's and BM relationship is. They truly thrive and shine together

[@Ccn421]

Food for thought; If a high percentage of people are telling you that you are wrong there’s a high chance you are wrong.

[@sylviaennis1243]

Exactly!

[@passionaterebellion]

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!

[@shynebayarea510]

No, that's what a follower like you thinks. Shouldn't care what people think

[@jstylez.z]

Doesn’t compute with ppl who have narcissistic personality

[@Astrixct]

@@shynebayarea510I can only hope for the people around you

[@TheCloveart]

41:35 I don't like how the "Protect Black Women" phrase went from protecting women from physical harm to protecting them from accountability. Y'all are adults, every action has a reaction. This is an opportunity for growth.

[@kingtchala6832]

@@TheCloveart Big facts!!! Then here come these ladies essentially throwing the men under the bus and at the same time asking for protection. This group of ladies are utterly scandalous. They learned nothing and truth is, they don’t want to grow and truth be told, they don’t care!!

[@antoinethomas9240]

i caught that. at NO POIN?T in this show did i ever feel like, "damn they going kinda hard on these sistahs" they goofy

[@RideWithSisi]

Bro that pissed me off so bad

[@FireAngelChris]

So sick of them doing that.

[@preezie7]

@@TheCloveart I agree. Why in the hell she said anything about protecting women. When it was just facts that a lot of women are delusional and don’t want to take accountability.

[@sheena-marieroots4706]

If DELULU was a lineup 🥴

[@Hazeypo]

Right?!?!🤦🏾‍♀️. They are terrible. No accountability.

[@simonsez1787]

@@Hazeypoaccountability for what tho??? 😂 What crime did they commit??

[@Lionel4482]

@@Hazeypo that’s the honest truth. You should hear their answers when a guy asks them what they did wrong in their last relationship. It’s usually something that reflects more poorly on their ex than it does them 😁

[@dalegriffith2047]

😂😂😂😂😂.......good one!

[@waun802]

I swear 😂😂

[@aprilshowers3331]

Kia looks 10x better with this hairstyle I didn’t even recognize her until she started talking💁🏽‍♀️💕

[@nishadh366]

Yes such a natural beauty

[@Lincholin_nams]

I liked how BM pointed out on the bs of the 2nd lady talking about long distance ,when this show is literally catered for the whole US😂🔥

[@ibox107]

He should’ve also called out the tall one because she said she preferred taller men but when the dude from Philly who was basically her height came out she kept that ballon

[@comeatmebro8120]

@@ibox107 There’s alot more he could’ve called these ladies out for but he called them out on the most important stuff

[@ibox107]

@@comeatmebro8120that was definitely important because she made it a point the entire episode and even here that height thing was the most she spoke 🤣

[@MerlotBaby]

​@@ibox107just because she preferred taller men doesn't mean she wouldn't make exceptions. Preference and requirement is not the same thing lol

[@ibox107]

@@MerlotBaby she basically said it’s a requirement

[@babylambpro]

The 2nd girl on the left won’t admit she made a bad choice but will blame BM, the show, the watchers…😂😂😂

[@Gennyminaj]

😂😭when she called BM I almost died because Arlette will swing her mic if she does too much

[@Natak222]

@@babylambpro Her delusion specifically is on another level like I can tell she truly believes what she’s saying and it’s scary. It’s as if nobody taught her to think critically from a young age

[@BecauseofWar]

@@babylambpro it's giving spoiled brat , has probably never been told No and is used to getting her way, therefore she feels she can do and say what she wants with no repercussions. Until reality hits, and it just did.

[@thegoodnews6682]

What do you mean wrong? She didn't want that man. Tf is the problem?

[@szyig22]

Zero self awareness

[@meaux-kneaux]

BM sounded sad AND exhausted after this 1. 😂😂😂

[@CuteNombeko624]

He is like these people are wasting me and wife’s time 🤣🤣🤣😭

[@tristanmanuel7787]

​@cutebaddie624 because he wanted the woman to come back but they said no

[@Powermoves1080]

Listening to these birds chirp I can only imagine

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Lmaoooo

[@loxsochic22]

Woman number #2 (Ishii) the spokeswoman of the group...had the audacity, the unmitigated gall to tell BM "y'all the ones that are responsible for me not having a match, y'all are the ones responsible for me deciding to get on a plane and coming to your show when no one asked me to"...ok, ok...she did not say that part 😂 but she did say...y'all pick the people on the show...y'all should do this regionally so folks feel more comfortable with the distance..." Woooow!! But it was her, actually all of them that bought tickets and hopped their butts on a plane and came to AZ...and no one told them to do that! At all! How do you decide to come to AZ on your own, then blame BM and Arlette for who else was chosen? Folks that also came to AZ willingly. You gotta expect a mixed bag. If you want something regionally Ms. Ma'am then go on a Pop the Balloon in Michigan, if there isn't one, start one...and if not, try something else. But to blame BM and Arlette is diabolical!

[@ericfowlkes6226]

What’s crazy is that she thought her odds were better by traveling to AZ to find someone within proximity of where she live?!? Like that was wild within itself

[@nyasha4964]

@@ericfowlkes6226 right? Cause whose fault is it she isn’t finding love in her region? Probably the men’s fault and everyone else

[@RealMacoyan]

Nobody wants ya’ll to come back period, so good answer 😂😂😂😂

[@shania0140]

right! they don't need to come to the reunion either!

[@WatchingPlanesnbirds]

Omg so negative and talking too much about nothing. And the one in blue smh 🤦

[@essencemariah1592]

I’ll come back after the comments have marinated and tenderized. See yal soon.

[@eni4eva770]

lmaoo

[@domisdope1743]

😂

[@Gennyminaj]

😂said the same thing aloud and boom I saw yours

[@Godslight1970s]

🤭

[@kronickintrovert]

Wisdom.

[@eljeffery]

You can tell they all got together in their little group chat before the show talking bout " let's all say we don't care about the comments even though we do rawr"

[@eannabryant1682]

Same thing I was thinking

[@thegoodnews6682]

That's not what they all said

[@versatillion15]

They all said the comments affected them except for 2 of them

[@Ahdree23]

What the fux 'rawr'?

[@melindamilonga2505]

@@Ahdree23I think it means “blah blah blah”

[@TalkswithMellow]

I’ve seen people not accept accountability, but to blame this loving black married couple has me astonished. I didn’t see the ladies taking this approach so collectively.

[@dopeplanetwatcher4471]

they was extremely disrespectful

[@Allthingsgifty]

I agreed birds of the same feather’s flock together. These women are sad.

[@rellblackthrone6071]

Blaming black men for not protecting them as black women on the internet from internet trolls is also crazy wild. The men dodged these bullets without realizing

[@StSt-g2f]

Craziest shit I heard all year 😂😂😂😂 they flipped the narrative and redirected the conversation

[@FireAngelChris]

They ridiculous in every way.

[@amarie9092]

There were a few of them that were fiiiinneee, but also most of them had great characteristics. They definitely dodged several bullets

[@rellblackthrone6071]

@@StSt-g2f it's almost like they planned their responses on their group chat before they came on

[@F_Dot_]

The gaslighting is real

[@TNDRAV]

This video didn’t help their case.

[@loxsochic]

not one bit!

[@mysterio3562]

Not at all

[@rich5248]

It actually made it worse.

[@manchild32bjp]

Nope

[@jakefarmstate6730]

Please do a follow-up with all these women when they all turn 45.

[@_CPerk]

😂😂

[@shonisanimushoma7715]

😂😂😂

[@Godslight1970s]

😂

[@ken79kj]

#Hitthewall

[@JustMeVanessa]

😂😂😂😂

[@Controversyvids23]

If they had as many options as they claim, whyyyyyy fly across the world for a daring show.

[@db3917]

Make it make sense

[@EhhRell]

He said 'what are the chances you see people from your area' she said 'you run into people everyday'....that question flew so farrrrrrrrr over her head 🤣🤣🤣 ....she then proceeded to say 'yall need to pick regionally' 😂 im on the floor!!!

[@user-cv5rb5cj1y]

Girl I dont even understand it ike wtf does that mean????

[@kittyk4488]

Absolute waffle that girl

[@alienn8218]

Extremely happy that they all are friends and share a group chat. It’s important that people like this stick together and don’t mingle with normal human beings

[@isatusjourneytoselfdiscove1307]

😂😂😂😂

[@originalblerd]

💀💀💀

[@GloriousGeeWarren]

😂

[@philmcgroin5342]

😂😂😂💀💀💀😂😂😂

[@chaotix67]

Most underrated comment here right now lmao

[@iphone-and-foodstamps]

Now BM, Arlette!!! Yall trolled us with this one 😂😂😂😂 you know we can’t stand these girls

[@TubeManagement]

Horrible set of women…. I dislike them even more

[@VivianAgyemang-nu5xl]

Say it louder please

[@hotvirgirl]

🤣

[@damiandennis3740]

I agree with you a million times

[@jeauxjeaux9439]

Thank you! I. Thought we were getting the successful ladies from episode 16!!

[@sillyme1642]

I'm a 62 yr old black woman and just listening to all those beautiful young BW made my stomach turn. The sad part is they definitely "stand on business" regardless of how ridiculous they sound. They ALL have mouths and ears so they talk a lot but can not, will not, just incapable of hearing to understand. I wish them and their cats dogs and goldfish well may they live happily ever after.

[@canandwill1]

If you traveled to arizona and flew in , what are the odds that someone there would live anywhere near you, valid question bm! But when she said very high arlettes face 🤔🤐🤨🤨🧐😒🤔🤔😬😶😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lewisartworkanddigitaldesigns]

I peeped that too. Arlette cannot hide her facial expressions and it's so funny cuz she knows these people are delusional at best

[@canandwill1]

@@lewisartworkanddigitaldesigns then gone say maybe you should screen better applicants girl maybe you should read the application lol!

[@TubeManagement]

@@canandwill1 they always look at the exemption to be the rule … she quickly drew the comparison of that one chic from the same city as the other guy as if that’s a normal occurrence …. Such delusional and mental gymnastics to be wrong smh

[@canandwill1]

@@TubeManagement what that other lady said , umm mental health all an all time high yeah this just proves it lol

[@NicknameAarie]

​@@canandwill1yea I didn't like that at all. you came on the show as is. You watched it and know they aren't matching by region.

[@SimplyPops]

That height stuff is getting out of hand! Look at the bigger picture ladies.

[@HeartstwoHearts]

Right

[@user-iw2dk2nf6t]

You don’t say nothing when the men rejected the tall girl?

[@arnabiarnab3037]

Sorry 5’1, most likely 4’11 She might not be able to reach it

[@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149]

​@@user-iw2dk2nf6t There were men who still wanted her and she curbed them over height.

[@jjayphilly342]

You matched with the BEST YOUNG WOMAN fam. Hope you and her are still going strong....

[@aluaaumade7670]

Instead of understanding the criticism homegirl blamed people's mental health 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@TSidez]

Complete delusion

[@Radiance230]

And the example she gave was a guy that has been in her life since 2021 (because for whatever reason she hasn’t blocked him). Idiots!

[@Lourdesflow]

She had a point. Two things can be true at once. People are really in the comments talking like are apart of these people lives.

[@originalblerd]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@Lourdesflowokay but the point of this follow up isn’t to respond to the mentally unwell people who have gone off the rails saying crazy shit to/about these women. Most of the criticism they’ve received is level headed and rooted in the responses they gave on the show. It’s deflecting to lump in all the valid critics with the crazies and the trolls

[@Lourdesflow]

@@originalblerd deflecting is choosing not to acknowledge all of the outlandish comments. Come on now. Most of those people are in the comments talking like they grew up with these people. Calling them 304s, saying that they are fatherless, telling lies saying that they have 3 baby fathers. All of that is nothing but projection. We don’t know any of these people backgrounds to be talking like that.

[@bevo.g]

BM and Arlette are so respectful and diplomatic. I aspire to your levels of maturity.

[@Jay-tb3ll]

BM didn't ask to bring the girls back at the end for a reason 😂

[@JustJeff777]

Yo they are literally gaslighting us rn. She's saying he's not bald like Arlette and BM weren't there?!

[@12savage68]

Talking bout she saw strands of hair ....😂😂😂💀

[@kingtchala6832]

They went through the full repertoire of gaslighting 101. BLK women aren’t protected 😂 They still telling a man he isn’t 6ft Told BM he should do a regional show rather than a national show The BLK men were two faced on their BM talks 🤯 Haircut PTSD

[@MrSamPhoenix]

@@12savage68That’s the part that had me rolling L😂L!!! She saw a man that matches her fetishes and went for it. Plus, from the her answer I could tell she slept with after the show.

[@misstiff29]

Exactly I feel insane 😂😂😂 I need Tpindell to save us

[@misstiff29]

​@@12savage68stop 😂😂😂😂 she said he got kiwi hair lmao

[@doncarrera601]

Shorty said “on the show” that height preference is mandatory…that is the dumbest shit i ever heard

[@Coldkiller-28]

That’s something a 7th grade girl would say fr 😂

[@NewWorldOrder19]

Single women keep each other single good job ladies … enjoy each other 😂

[@shysinterlude]

I love that bm stood on the long distance question. Because why fly to Arizona and only be open to distances near you. 13:26

[@dswannbeautyartist]

That was my initial thought too but when she explained I understood it a little better. Its a risk but she was hoping if it was meant to be she would link with someone maybe not too far. For example how the two people were there from Philly and matched. You just never know.

[@JustMeVanessa]

I agree. Also, if you find a great man, are you really going to turn him down because of distance. Oh please!

[@dswannbeautyartist]

@@JustMeVanessa honestly you don't know a man is great in that time frame they are in. Some people can give that off but you won't know for sure.

[@shysinterlude]

@@dswannbeautyartist I still think that’s a cop out. I would agree if Arizona was 4 hours or less from her current residence. The Philly couple lucked up. If she knew long distance was an absolute no she had no reason to fly there.

[@kilcaso9278]

She is so ridiculous lol still arguing about it she could’ve easily just said yeah the distance from Vegas to Detroit is too much however I he was closer I would be open or willing to

[@da_jamaican]

Haitian Doll: I'll date a guy in real life who's 5'6" but on the show he has to be taller Me: do u even listen to yourself 🐦‍⬛ 🧠

[@Coldkiller-28]

I’m like what lol I bet she doesn’t even know what 12x12 is 😂

[@jinae6324]

smh

[@joshmcdzz6925]

She's an airhead

[@meloran2571]

you don't get what she's saying? you have to understand how these women think. what she's saying is that she's not about to get on national tv and match with some average looking guy. its right in line with women who go on public dating shows saying the guy has to make xxx, be this tall, etc. but their dating history is noting like they're requesting.

[@ashleychamon6446]

I don’t understand why yall are confused. To me it seems as if she is saying on a KZbin dating show you are trying to pick your perfect match, this is for a couple of hours only and why not match with someone who perfectly meets your type. In real life of course it’s a bit more leeway.

[@BecauseofWar]

Ok so I'm halfway through the episode and I think it safe to say we were right the 1st time, THESE WOMEN ARE TRASH

[@BTCleadstheway]

Except the last one she cool

[@BigCityWorld]

Amen 😂

[@bataemmanuel2350]

Trashhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh😅😅😅😅

[@NicknameAarie]

The last lady was cool and seemed to be taking the feedback in stride.

[@honchoo732]

Nah.. they just didn't want to settle for those men

[@blaccfeather5803]

The heels(FALSE HEIGHT), height issues, contradictions, and hypocrisy is diabolical in this video. Absolutely INSANE THESE WOMEN!!!!

[@Thetruthlover]

Girl from Detroit smh she has “the need to be right” syndrome

[@StSt-g2f]

She need a dawg ass nigga like me 😈

[@aguy9071]

Combative. Tough. Argumentative. Women from the tough cities are ROUGH

[@jereme48]

@@aguy9071 rapper too lol

[@kenneyp.9456]

Made a comment on that on the regional video

[@KL-Lady]

@@aguy9071😂😂I’m from London and I get it

[@ce.1330]

These women are crazy AF, just when you think they couldn't get any worse 😭😭 BM we don't have a different perception 😂😂😂 they made themselves way worse

[@MambacitaSelena]

Carmina is 5'1 and said no to someone much taller than her on the show, taller than 5'6 which is the shortest height she said she would date in real life. Then, she admitted that the cameras played a significant role in her choice. This validates the point that BM made earlier in this video-- these women were basing some of their choices and preferences on what the other women of the show chose and preferred... Smh

[@StSt-g2f]

And they are disagreeing after she just told her truths they are crazy 😂😂😂😂

[@MambacitaSelena]

@@StSt-g2f you could tell BM was done with their shit

[@carlbgu89]

Talking about they were being deceitful with their height no one lied about their height

[@kingtchala6832]

@@MambacitaSelena Nothing new there. It’s herd mentality from women. I’d love to see some of their exes and baby daddies. I’m sure they are all well groomed, 6ft5+ athletic, great job, great sense of humour, initial attraction. They lacked independence.

[@TheFoolishable]

She basically admitted she wasn’t being herself and was being FAKE for the cameras. Diabolical. Most people are going to be on their best behavior with camera rolling but that woman specifically doesn’t realize what some of the stuff she says sounds like.

[@GazelleMonet]

I would’ve just been like “yeah I was buggin on the show my bad yall, my bad” 😂 The mental gymnastics they’re doing is crazy

[@GreazyDoesIt_]

That 2nd girl going to be single forever 😂

[@Coldkiller-28]

She has options but she’s on a pop the balloon dating video gthoh 😂

[@Trell1080]

She’s going to end up settling out of disparity

[@feliciahude9860]

there's definitely a simp waiting their turn and she will give him a chance when all her "options" realize she's a tooth

[@mucleboy0151]

Its gonna take them bout 10 years to figure it out sadly they will look different by then​@@Trell1080

[@judithmuyunda6618]

She's definitely the most annoying

[@FireAngelChris]

They all in that group chat saying “exactly”

[@aaronmartin3658]

Aka the echo chamber

[@Powermoves1080]

😂

[@mimiwins1]

😂😂

[@nbcjify]

Talking bout you go girl

[@FireAngelChris]

@@nbcjify😂😂😂😂😂

[@Enkaybe]

As a female myself, these girls are weird 😭😭😭

[@Ang_Nicole]

This is actually insane how men can judge us for every little thing but when we get picky, it’s a problem

[@busymike]

The narcissism in this is crazy. They made themselves look even worse.

[@rae6591]

Naw frfr. They really trying to justify their BS

[@cameronn_terrell]

They swear to God they're bad AF Talking bout we have options WELL WHY ARE YALL ON THE SHOW 🤣🤣🤣

[@RiFit]

⁠@@cameronn_terrellthey are all beautiful let’s not lie. The average woman does have options but it doesn’t hurt to come on a dating show that has success stories as well

[@cameronn_terrell]

@@RiFit I never did lie. In my opinion I feel like there okay if you feel like there beautiful that's your opinion and that's cool. All I was saying is don't get on this show acting like you got options and never needed it when your ON THE SHOW cause your looking

[@dimitriassession449]

@@busymike on god

[@RealMacoyan]

“YOU LOOK LIKE MY BEST FRIEND’S COUSIN BABY DADDY” What the f***

[@Powermoves1080]

Lol and still tried to justify it. COOKED!!!

[@raykingtv2351]

😂😂😂😂

[@Owen-Rich]

That was so wild lmaoo like c'mon fam

[@doncarrera601]

Dumb stuff like that be messing up the show

[@user-cv5rb5cj1y]

This will pis me off for the rest of my life. Goddamnit.

[@JGLFootball]

BM’s subtle frustration in this interview is hilarious

[@cynie2323]

It's not subtle 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kevin2hard]

They are perfectly single before the show and will be perfectly single after the show

[@London2ATL]

I don't recognize not one of these women from that episode. They might as well be all new people. Oh, I just recognized number 3. Tall chick!

[@ronaldmendoza2793]

I got caught is the hairstyles although the short red girl missing.

[@kingdo777]

One of the WORST ONES! She was in the white

[@KevinJ-jm9iz]

Makeup lashes hair witchcraft

[@AM1media]

It's CRAZY how different they look from when on the show. #deception

[@Jayb4rd]

Yall be so full of it lol nobody looks much different at all it wasn’t that much make up yall grown men just be looking to pick with women that would probably never give yall a half a second of the day.

[@Ccs71321]

Sadly they’re still sounding like delusional young ladies 😔

[@honchoo732]

They don't sound delusional they sound picky if anything

[@oa1672]

You’re the delusional one

[@TalkswithMellow]

@@honchoo732Saying someone has hair to support a lie is in fact delusional

[@keithn9253]

They all wanted Mal regardless of their preference

[@JocTillery]

He was closet to the badboy/hood persona

[@dayizzokid]

​@Babybacktillery all they gotta do is admit it and say the guys were too straight n narrow for their liking. If u want a hood nxggx they can bring em back on with that type of guy. But it's easier to blame the viewers than keep it a buck 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@meelbin659]

Exactly! This is why most women are single still looking for that bad boy type! All women aren’t going to get that!

[@FoougieTV]

​🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@ARich-su5qr]

!!!!!!!!

[@DenniesJourney]

32:45 I do agree that men definitely don’t give women a chance if there is no initial attraction. So I hate that women are expected to force attraction.

[@Lincholin_nams]

This video further proves the insanity of these women😂

[@cameronn_terrell]

Every single one sounded absolutely stupid and couldn't take the fact that they came all the way down to Arizona and didn't get picked If being hurt was a video it's this one cause they cannot deal 🤣🤣🤣

[@longleggedriri1536]

@@cameronn_terrellyou don’t like women do you?

[@honchoo732]

They're very sane, only an insane desperate person will settle for less

[@cameronn_terrell]

@@longleggedriri1536 Nope I love em 😂😂😂 it's just this particular group was hard to stand lol Every other episode has been cool so far 👏

[@longleggedriri1536]

@@cameronn_terrell do you give the same energy to the men?

[@Remy1-pi6fy]

After this show BM definitely told Arlette to blacklist that girl from Detroit

[@MrSamPhoenix]

Yup lol

[@liamford6249]

@@Remy1-pi6fy omg why ?

[@odera8289]

😂😂

[@dazzypeters6793]

😂😂😂😂

[@sharonatieno6880]

These ones are unteachable 😂 they don't see things from our view

[@Prayerofemunah]

Unfortunately, these women are not actively listening and I’m not sure these women are trying to understand and take the positive feedback and learn something from the experience. BM and Artlette continue to do what you are doing. We all live and learn.

[@sheena-marieroots4706]

AGREED!

[@Peteyboi323]

Facts

[@Controversyvids23]

They pissed me off again 😒 no accountability whatsoever like did yall not watch the show BEFORE you came. Who the hell did they expect to be there? And Haitian is just a bird brain.

[@nathaniel972ful]

100% 🕊. All built for failure.

[@Wedat24]

She said the chance is high that she meet somebody from Michigan I done heard it all 😂

[@StSt-g2f]

😂😂😂😂

[@adams8830]

Man this woman is slow.

[@RiFit]

She didn’t say that though. Did you listen to the interview? She made a fair point.

[@Wedat24]

@@RiFit she definitely did that’s why Arlette made that face and she tried to prove her point by saying the two couple that match was from Philly

[@raykingtv2351]

Well why she single FLYING OUT ! trying to find love like gtf outta here 😂😂😂

[@kingKC-m2k]

My boy BM don’t let no BS slide. He’ll call you out the minute your story has an inconsistency. Bruh you might have a second calling as a lawyer.

[@bataemmanuel2350]

Man be keeping those receipts😂😂😂

[@musiquemacabre]

They're BOLD to come on here after all those comments 🍿

[@eon001]

I'm half way through. Feels like they are making things worse. 😭

[@jereme48]

they know what theyre doing

[@buffon139]

Okay, I was wrong about these group of women. I thought they were annoying, but now I realise they're actually intolerable. wow!

[@Chaquita_T]

😂😂😂

[@viv5709]

Rolling my eyes but I’m gonna watch anyway 😂

[@Rightbrainedboricua]

You don't agree with the women here?

[@viv5709]

@@Rightbrainedboricua I wasn’t a fan of their episode, now they seem quite defensive maybe because the boys are more liked.

[@SrgFani11]

Me too😅

[@nickia6848]

😂😂😂

[@unconventionalandfree751]

Even a mature black show by a successful couple like this cant help us match. We are in trouble. They passed on some good guys.

[@loisbullock3151]

I’m saying the same thing.

[@mandamandamanda6722]

The 👏 men 👏were 👏 not 👏 attractive👏 accept it!

[@alexisdavis7578]

@@mandamandamanda6722 That may work when you’re younger. As you get older, you’ll find yourself very lonely making all your dating choices based solely on attraction. It’s shallow. 🤷🏽‍♀️ That’s the reality.

[@unconventionalandfree751]

@@mandamandamanda6722 good point. They weren’t but we can’t all be with a handsome man 😂😂

[@mandamandamanda6722]

@@unconventionalandfree751 girl speak for yourself! Sexual attraction to my man is of the upmost importance. So not being handsome and looking good is a deal breaker.

[@30jersey478]

Arlette has a great voice. Like she should be on the 6 o'clock news or the weather channel.

[@ballahollyc]

In the same 10 minute span, I hear the 2nd woman advocate for protecting black women(which we should do) while saying we do not need to take up for these men. Doing one does not negate the other. You only care when you're on the hot seat

[@rakiyyahboyd7716]

The girl with the ponytail set herself up tho, she swore she aint like bald me but when the dude from Philly came up she was not trying to let her balloon go! Maam you lied

[@rakiyyahboyd7716]

Men*

[@rakiyyahboyd7716]

And she admitted to extra cause maam why were you that Man’s IG after he didnt choose you.

[@keithn9253]

​@@rakiyyahboyd7716😮😮😮😮 Oh dang she was all up on his IG

[@dayizzokid]

She wanted the philly bul cuz he had some edge to him, the other men were too straight and narrow for her. She should just own it

[@arnabiarnab3037]

@@rakiyyahboyd7716 Exactly…. That part!!! Because if I’m not mistaken, dude matched with someone, why you checking his IG

[@TSidez]

10:46 I can’t believe the nurse chick from Detroit doubled down on rejecting the guy b/c of dating long distance despite flying across the country to go on a dating show!

[@gemini-yu6gf]

like why not just get on a dating app to find locals if you want someone in your area that close to you 😂

[@TVJBlaze]

Crazy

[@ildascott6463]

@@gemini-yu6gfexactly😂

[@doodiemac100]

​@@gemini-yu6gfPrecisely. Automatically defeats her counterpoint. That's what Facebook Dating, Bumble, BLK, Tinder and so on is for. Or better yet, go out and interact with people the old fashioned way where you live.

[@Aicha375]

@@gemini-yu6gfbecause she was their for clout and followers. She just start a new business and was asking everybody now to follow that. She wasn’t there for love, you saw it on her face durning the show too.

[@mkawa1566]

Christina is the only woman who truly learned something and took accountability as opposed to blaming others. I'd like to see her return.

[@KL-Lady]

And she looked beautiful

[@jodyrelle08]

Agreed

[@SharlritaDeloatch]

Yes!!

[@jadexo3641]

Nah she only took a lil accountability but she was shaking her head agreeing with the other ladies nun of the girls need to come back

[@nickia6848]

​@@jadexo3641 She's supporting her sis😂😂😂

[@DianeHumes]

This video proves everything social media has been saying about them. Terrible representation for black women.

[@bunggelo]

Notice none of them had a reflective moment to consider that they are possibly apart of the problem. Everything was a rebuttal 😩😭 It wasn’t telephone, baby girl we all saw and heard exactly how you represented yourselves.💀 @10:45 IKTR BM get her together please! 😂

[@eni4eva770]

THIS! She was the most annoying of them all. Then the other lady with the southern twang.

[@arnabiarnab3037]

No accountability, then tried throwing the guys under the bus….i saw the recap and they said nothing bad about them

[@tristanmanuel7787]

That's just woman smh

[@ajwhipz]

Not true, Christina did. She literally said that she wishes she would have been more prepared and that she learned it’s not what you say but how you say it.

[@valyncia3961]

LMAOOOOOOOOOOO BM was not playing!! 😂

[@wisforwumbo6408]

Ish fighting for her life to make sense

[@KingKing-bm2cp]

😂 FACTS!

[@latoshadillard1046]

😂😂

[@kingtchala6832]

Just talking for talking sake. It’s like when you’re writing an essay and you just write words to fill the quota, zero sense lol.

[@Powermoves1080]

😂😂😂

[@ChocoTacoh]

😂😂