Ep 3: After the Catch Up With Chandler and Mishna from Pop The Balloon | BM Talks To Them

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@Troystreetzproduction
@Troystreetzproduction Ай бұрын
To sum this up chandler is tired of simping and chasing women who didn’t want him so because of his insecurities he blew it with a woman who actually was interested in dating him what a idiot
@mkawa1566
@mkawa1566 Ай бұрын
My summation exactly.
@BellaBB1
@BellaBB1 Ай бұрын
Exactly and it’s clear he’s the type to go for women who are “out of his league”.
@destinyn63
@destinyn63 Ай бұрын
Smh exactly
@2kool4u71
@2kool4u71 Ай бұрын
I enjoy people who are realistic.. and this comment was it💯
@jetswade_rapbot
@jetswade_rapbot Ай бұрын
Well said 💯
@taketan8858
@taketan8858 Ай бұрын
I appreciated BM asking Mishna if she was ok. Bring her back. Chandler needs time to mature.
@raquel7675
@raquel7675 Ай бұрын
@@taketan8858 that was very sweet
@Meccaone17
@Meccaone17 Ай бұрын
She's classy.
@Vivrantbloom
@Vivrantbloom Ай бұрын
Yea when he asked that, it’s giving “mature” and “aware” 🎉
@bosstler21
@bosstler21 Ай бұрын
Ghosting isn't mature at all!
@MaryByrne-wr7ou
@MaryByrne-wr7ou Ай бұрын
I felt that too ❤
@TheVirgo91
@TheVirgo91 Ай бұрын
His mask slipped..that nice guy gimic was just to conceal his anger and insecurity
@ms.ashley999
@ms.ashley999 Ай бұрын
✅️
@Mohamed-lw2ig
@Mohamed-lw2ig Ай бұрын
Nah fr🤣 dude has a completely different personality
@jessicaobanner4683
@jessicaobanner4683 Ай бұрын
100%
@chateaux-capristovall2048
@chateaux-capristovall2048 Ай бұрын
Yes! Because when he started clapping with an elevated volume in his voice I was SHOCKED! Like EEEEWWWW you’re a JERK in real life? Gross. Next!
@jameswtlocs
@jameswtlocs Ай бұрын
Yall acting like people can’t have different emotions and shit💀
@EricaEmpowers
@EricaEmpowers Ай бұрын
"Chandler you're Done, your time is up!" BM is so straightforward ,lol and Arlette is so insightful, the perfect balance and co-hosts
@averychilco
@averychilco 6 күн бұрын
For a man you don't choose a woman to see if she has good conversation especially when she starts with the ship's testing. Obviously, her sex was trash and her hostility came out.
@jaycee9968
@jaycee9968 Ай бұрын
This is the energy you get from a guy that gets rejected by his preference and “settles” for you. So disappointing and such a waste of time
@cancerr1sing
@cancerr1sing Ай бұрын
Exactly. He will never do better than her
@theapex189
@theapex189 Ай бұрын
Well said
@loyaltyb71052
@loyaltyb71052 Ай бұрын
​@@cancerr1singagreed, he may get company but I highly doubt a young lady with genuine interest is around the corner. If he had real options, he wouldn't be on a show like this!
@SweetPoisonvich
@SweetPoisonvich Ай бұрын
@@loyaltyb71052even now after this ,his options going to be red flags just like him 🙆🏽‍♀️
@godwinvalentine4510
@godwinvalentine4510 Ай бұрын
​@@cancerr1singare you God. People break up and move on. There is a reason for everything. They are not meant to be doesn't mean he doesn't wish her well stop the hate speech.
@Callmemasside
@Callmemasside Ай бұрын
Arlette has a real man on her side! So proud of how BM put Chandler in front of his BS
@Margumentative
@Margumentative Ай бұрын
Remember in the follow up ep. when chandler basically said rushing is how people end up divorced... and then bm "checked" him by saying don't waste anyone's time... chandler was right. And so was bm. It wasn't a waste because because he didn't want to pop immediately. It was a waste because he didn't tell her where he was at. Who knows, she might have turned up the temp, and he might have started sweating.
@Jagger02
@Jagger02 Ай бұрын
I'm liking this before I even see this take place. I can imagine what went down, and can't wait to see.
@withloveakina
@withloveakina Ай бұрын
Yes she does! I like that BM asked her specifically if she was okay because this was tough and she didn’t deserve it.
@silver8ball815
@silver8ball815 Ай бұрын
@@withloveakina Masculine men never want to intentionally hurt a woman or see a woman get hurt.
@MochaGlow
@MochaGlow Ай бұрын
He can’t believe that she actually likes him because he’s insecure. Bring Mishna back for a blind date special.
@loryndabenson2118
@loryndabenson2118 Ай бұрын
Yeah! I'm getting self sabotage vibes from Chandler. I think he actually liked her but was saying stuff to hurt her because he couldn't figure out how to make it work.
@SapphicKnits
@SapphicKnits Ай бұрын
​@@loryndabenson2118Ding ding ding! It's giving self sabotage crash out because she was sweet and pretty and he didn't know what to do
@RavenUntamed
@RavenUntamed Ай бұрын
Blind date sucks
@ebonyy5248
@ebonyy5248 Ай бұрын
NO more blind date episodes please!
@whitemilkcoco
@whitemilkcoco Ай бұрын
@@loryndabenson2118 He realized that he is not ready
@EChev-w4d
@EChev-w4d Ай бұрын
BM was pissed! I like that he called him out on it. Chandler’s own insecurity and not believing someone genuinely liked him caused him to project and self sabotage!
@silver8ball815
@silver8ball815 Ай бұрын
Not insecurity, ARROGANCE. He actually thought this beauty was beneath him. Dude said I don't like you... but it's your fault that I don't like you. 🤡
@jaesall3519
@jaesall3519 Ай бұрын
a grown man who's that much into anime IS always weird ladies
@cancerr1sing
@cancerr1sing Ай бұрын
“You’re a fraud analyst but you can’t smell your own BS” she ate with that 😭🤣🤣🤣
@kingKC-m2k
@kingKC-m2k Ай бұрын
You know she had that one in the chamber for a good minute 😂
@whitemilkcoco
@whitemilkcoco Ай бұрын
Their faces Lmfaoo😂😂😂😂
@Kglopez11
@Kglopez11 Ай бұрын
This!
@nehsangbong7259
@nehsangbong7259 Ай бұрын
🎤
@arleeshawilson7317
@arleeshawilson7317 Ай бұрын
Ate downnnnn😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ChrisFluhnoy
@ChrisFluhnoy Ай бұрын
Bro is spiraling 😂. This is how you vent to your friends, not how you express yourself for hundreds of thousands of people to see.
@VendieSolde
@VendieSolde Ай бұрын
He doesn't have any friends
@MissOfficer24
@MissOfficer24 Ай бұрын
He really is going to spiral after he read these comments. I hope he gets some counseling.
@ebonyy5248
@ebonyy5248 Ай бұрын
right that was SO funny 🤣
@trevelbrown2557
@trevelbrown2557 Ай бұрын
​@ebonyy5248 mental illness is very funny lol just saying...
@lastnamefirst9423
@lastnamefirst9423 Ай бұрын
@@ChrisFluhnoy Trust he spiraled waay before this...this is the beginning of his crash out road to counseling.. hopefully ...
@unapologetic1413
@unapologetic1413 Ай бұрын
🚧 Men like Chandler NEVER PURSUE the women who actually want them because they spend their lives running after the women who DON'T want them.
@Kinsale101
@Kinsale101 Ай бұрын
Amen. I was looking for this comment!
@unapologetic1413
@unapologetic1413 Ай бұрын
@@Kinsale101 I had to speak on facts because Chandler is the typical PRETEND nice guy that overlooks "good" women and then complains that he can't find anyone. When he does find his specific type, it will be a woman who fits society's standards of beauty, but her heart WON'T even come close to Mishda's because she will only want him for his money. What he doesn't realize is that what he did to Mishda is coming back to him, but it will be much worse once he receives it back guaranteed.
@dennisg7709
@dennisg7709 Ай бұрын
​@@unapologetic1413because those women are usually unattractive...
@Super305mann
@Super305mann Ай бұрын
That goes both ways but i feel women do it more than men tbh
@kodeh7931
@kodeh7931 Ай бұрын
That’s actually how life is.
@kristinatci7
@kristinatci7 Ай бұрын
I love how much respect she has for herself and how classy she is. She’s a good person.
@FaithChrisss
@FaithChrisss Ай бұрын
Mishna you dodge a bullet! He’s waayyy too aggressive in his delivery.
@Mrdavis039
@Mrdavis039 Ай бұрын
He was like that on the actual show also. When he said “This is who I am”
@aaron-8943
@aaron-8943 Ай бұрын
right lol he immediately started to get hype as soon as he spoke not good
@travel_adddictt
@travel_adddictt Ай бұрын
The insecurity is really showing
@a.j.9727
@a.j.9727 Ай бұрын
The truth becomes clear at 11:50. Interested parties DO NOT play childish games with their potential spouse. Mishna tried it, Chandler checked her (as he should), and her behavior makes it clear that she cannot handle constructive criticism.
@aureliefils-aime2338
@aureliefils-aime2338 Ай бұрын
@@aaron-8943 i picked tht too
@MistriiiMusic
@MistriiiMusic Ай бұрын
Chandler is giving unstable vibes. I'm actually shocked by the transformation 😮
@sixteen.candles.4644
@sixteen.candles.4644 Ай бұрын
Very this is why vetting is proper.
@34july8
@34july8 Ай бұрын
Facts like😱
@kdiamond8979
@kdiamond8979 Ай бұрын
Facts smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ this is why you can’t believe first impressions ppl be deceitful af!
@keturah7749
@keturah7749 Ай бұрын
He took his mask off. That’s it.
@Svhsgirl
@Svhsgirl Ай бұрын
He didn't fool me!
@HarmonyJt
@HarmonyJt Ай бұрын
So… he argued and argued then finally admitted he just wasn’t attracted to her… smh
@mosaictwin
@mosaictwin Ай бұрын
🤦🏽‍♀️ exactly!
@zamorapakalolo6699
@zamorapakalolo6699 Ай бұрын
He didn't want to be the bad guy.😂😂😂😂
@shamay4893
@shamay4893 Ай бұрын
​@@zamorapakalolo6699he wanted that girl in the pink dress and she didn't want his ass
@briannabogans4608
@briannabogans4608 Ай бұрын
Ain’t that something..
@1Sakks0
@1Sakks0 Ай бұрын
I don't believe that. I think k it was out of petty for himself. That whole lineup popped their balloons because of his outfit.
@themadmillionaire
@themadmillionaire Ай бұрын
Ladies, ALWAYS believe in your intuition…It’s our gift, don’t ignore it.
@473sgpm2
@473sgpm2 Ай бұрын
😂 You sound crazy ma’am.
@rebeccapetty1k390
@rebeccapetty1k390 Ай бұрын
@themadmillionaire 💯 that’s right 👏
@rebeccapetty1k390
@rebeccapetty1k390 Ай бұрын
@473sgpm2 she’s not crazy, it’s a fact , I’ve seen this many times where the women has an intuition about something and then it turns out to be true .. maybe you need to stay away from this conversation she wasn’t talking to you anyway
@473sgpm2
@473sgpm2 Ай бұрын
@@rebeccapetty1k390 Negative ma’am. You chose to insert yourself into the comments instead of moving along or commenting elsewhere. But no, you chose to @ me and here I am. Let’s keep the conversation in the Adult Realm. If Ladies ALWAYS believe in your intuition “red flags”, why do they always to have multiple babies and multiple baby daddy’s then? They always relying on the boys, young men, and men to be sexually responsible (condoms) then? Was their intuition not working for them then or did they turn it off like a switch?
@baileytreadwell7341
@baileytreadwell7341 27 күн бұрын
We all have intuition.. intuition has nothing to do with genders. It is our gift from God
@carlastockdale9623
@carlastockdale9623 Ай бұрын
Mishna rejection is God's protection. He spared you from this man. He will sent you someone trust in God🙏
@kingherms1452
@kingherms1452 Ай бұрын
bruh but you failed to realise that shawdie used her opportunity on social media to boost her self and realise she have more options so sh eleft him in the dark and left him to chase bruh niggah did nothing wrong than give this woman a chance
@lynetteforte1996
@lynetteforte1996 Ай бұрын
@blacksuburbanitewill she?
@TheEzwider88
@TheEzwider88 Ай бұрын
@@lynetteforte1996YES
@lynetteforte1996
@lynetteforte1996 Ай бұрын
@@TheEzwider88 why do you say that?
@TheEzwider88
@TheEzwider88 Ай бұрын
@@lynetteforte1996 because that’s what she does. It’s too complicated to explain to you in the comments section if you don’t understand already. Honestly this whole comments section is disheartening and it seems like the perspective is way off for some reason. All of you single women just keeping each other single agreeing with the same defunct ideology.
@hbbolton8924
@hbbolton8924 Ай бұрын
He’s a jerk. He borderline sounds crazy in the head. Dude stay single!
@mvelo2062
@mvelo2062 Ай бұрын
I think he's short tempered
@pkp6791
@pkp6791 Ай бұрын
@@mvelo2062 He is very childish and emotional. Such a turn off. He is not in healthy masculine energy
@richardnicholas4553
@richardnicholas4553 Ай бұрын
​@@pkp6791 I also have similar characteristics as him, I ain't dating now. I'm working on my childish behavior, taking accountability and learning how to approach the situation instead of coming off short tempered. He gotta work on himself
@Thatbul
@Thatbul Ай бұрын
Guys like him are very smart but bad socially. Their personality’s usually don’t mesh with others.
@deescott8312
@deescott8312 Ай бұрын
Right
@StasiaCosmetics
@StasiaCosmetics Ай бұрын
“You say you are a fraud analyst but can’t even smell your own bs” Arlette and bm face 😮😂
@datguy322
@datguy322 Ай бұрын
What’s the timestamp for that😂
@LivenTruth
@LivenTruth Ай бұрын
@@datguy322 7:43
@beadlebamford9999
@beadlebamford9999 Ай бұрын
Certainly fried his a55! 😂
@bosstler21
@bosstler21 Ай бұрын
That was a BAR
@mx5530
@mx5530 Ай бұрын
I was like damn 😂
@wildkims2008
@wildkims2008 Ай бұрын
Mishna looks stunning. Her makeup and hair are so on point. What a glow up!
@daniellegee3905
@daniellegee3905 Ай бұрын
Dayum! He told Mishna to come back but told Chandler he wasn't welcome 🤣🤣🤣 i love it!
@jonnoibeckford2490
@jonnoibeckford2490 Ай бұрын
Why wtf
@raniii652
@raniii652 Ай бұрын
@@jonnoibeckford2490what do u mean “why”💀🤣
@Kikiuni
@Kikiuni Ай бұрын
​@@jonnoibeckford2490he wasted their time
@luniaetienne
@luniaetienne Ай бұрын
@@jonnoibeckford2490 you must be a narcissist too if you don't see why.
@karenmcgee1869
@karenmcgee1869 Ай бұрын
Great! She deserves a better chance at love!
@alinakslvch
@alinakslvch Ай бұрын
he picked a girl he didn’t like and then when she felt it he started gaslighting her because he couldn’t believe she would not fawn over him LOL
@andreajones2700
@andreajones2700 Ай бұрын
exactly.....that is actually what I go thru. men are not reciprocal in energy, always playing games and expect us to go along with it so when we don't the result is butthurtness. so happy that i have stopped centering them.
@LOSTGPS
@LOSTGPS Ай бұрын
Yep
@July-ola
@July-ola Ай бұрын
BINGO!!!
@coachcandi12
@coachcandi12 21 күн бұрын
Exactly 👌🏾
@ugyen5214
@ugyen5214 Ай бұрын
He’s terrible 😰 the whole time he was smirking while she looked like she wanted to cry.
@sandralawson4390
@sandralawson4390 Ай бұрын
Cry for this goofy , that’s why those black women going for the bottom barrel
@Margumentative
@Margumentative Ай бұрын
... women are free to cry in public. Men have to carry their emotions differently if they don't want to be clowned. They were both frustrated for valid reasons. And they're having their first fight in public on KZbin
@Lady88
@Lady88 Ай бұрын
It’s a defense mechanism that man is broken and needs to heal.
@vanessaspence8157
@vanessaspence8157 Ай бұрын
The one that Got away... He is going to feel hurt whenever she is healed
@ShayJeter-w5n
@ShayJeter-w5n Ай бұрын
@@Lady88agreed.
@mbrutus7886
@mbrutus7886 Ай бұрын
I love that even after all this Mishna has so many doors and opportunities opening for her, tells you what a great light she is. Go Mishna we’re all rooting for you!!!
@TheQueenrevolution
@TheQueenrevolution Ай бұрын
Ooooh Mishna is giving a new look. Younger, fresher ❤
@shannon_not_so_bland
@shannon_not_so_bland Ай бұрын
Yes! She’s looks so good and youthful
@Thulz.
@Thulz. Ай бұрын
The reality is she old, just get her on the water and remove all that artificial face
@ririjoy6304
@ririjoy6304 Ай бұрын
@@Thulz.she’s 23..
@Trell1080
@Trell1080 Ай бұрын
@@RicherrThanRoddyto show their ex how bad they fumbled
@hdeniro1106
@hdeniro1106 Ай бұрын
To be 23 she still looks old. But I think gen z is just aging badly as a whole lol
@fbspin
@fbspin Ай бұрын
Crazy how chandler quickly changed from a likeable guy before to an absolute woman hater here. He’s scary!
@Rokia2003
@Rokia2003 Ай бұрын
Narcissist
@blacky8030
@blacky8030 Ай бұрын
His face says it all totally different dude
@Yocyndie
@Yocyndie Ай бұрын
“It was decent” to the how was your experience was kinda rude to the hosts. Very weird
@muyoworld
@muyoworld Ай бұрын
He is scaryyyy... Omg...after admitting that he didn't like her...he went back to blaming her for not giving him more calls when she was only trusting her intuition and seeing through his bullshit. This guy is a piece of work. 😅😅
@muyoworld
@muyoworld Ай бұрын
When BM set Chandler straight and then turned to Mishna and said "are you ok"? Now that is an emotionally intelligent man you got right there Arlette. I like you both. God bless you.
@babatundeadeyemi3553
@babatundeadeyemi3553 Ай бұрын
People please please! Am pleading with y'all, if you haven't worked on yourself, you have no business dating.
@duediligence7557
@duediligence7557 Ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@josam4545
@josam4545 Ай бұрын
Absolutely!
@averydarby1548
@averydarby1548 Ай бұрын
I agree
@dosims911
@dosims911 Ай бұрын
@@babatundeadeyemi3553 facts I’m not ready but I’d like to be
@July-ola
@July-ola Ай бұрын
Whew, watching this made my heart ache
@Kenyankween999
@Kenyankween999 Ай бұрын
“Chandler… you’re DONE” lmaooo BM and Arlette gotta be the funniest people on the web.
@lorenbecka134
@lorenbecka134 Ай бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭
@Silly-KB
@Silly-KB Ай бұрын
he wanted to make her feel rejected.. because quite obviously that’s all he experiences.. you could do so much better boo💕 take care
@adams8830
@adams8830 Ай бұрын
@Silly-KB This is exactly why you don't choose the man who no one wants: they resent you for it.
@staceyg.6671
@staceyg.6671 Ай бұрын
Definitely! I dated a guy that came off exactly how he did initially. Quirky, sweet, nerdy, not the first pick for most and he wasn’t physically attractive. Women played him, rejected him, used him and didn’t give him play. When it was over, mannnnnnnnnnnnnn, he turned into a complete jerk. It was a complete change and I think it made him feel good to make it known he didn’t want me. Like he did the most with it like he was the most desired man on earth with a plethora of options. Whew!
@staceyg.6671
@staceyg.6671 Ай бұрын
@@adams8830omggg!!!!! I learned the hard way. They really flip and switch to give the energy they have been getting from people who didn’t give them a chance or attention.
@kingKC-m2k
@kingKC-m2k Ай бұрын
Man give me her number she’s the type of woman I need in my life. But I truly hope she finds someone who appreciates her.
@Myopinionmattersthemost
@Myopinionmattersthemost Ай бұрын
​@@adams8830they are equally yoked in looks.
@korahjean
@korahjean Ай бұрын
I love the energy between Arlette and BM. Mature, centered, complimentary. It’s giving “married for 20 years”
@hrf1954
@hrf1954 Ай бұрын
Yeah, it's really beautiful to watch. They're a true power couple
@Laurenlove838
@Laurenlove838 Ай бұрын
They are a very beautiful young couple. Love seeing couples in their 20s grinding together.
@raquel7675
@raquel7675 Ай бұрын
@@korahjean They are a beautiful couple ❤️
@ToriUptown
@ToriUptown Ай бұрын
@@Laurenlove838they’re not in their 20s lol
@Laurenlove838
@Laurenlove838 Ай бұрын
@@ToriUptown Arlette just turned 29. 1995 Baby.
@taku8895
@taku8895 Ай бұрын
BM and Arlette are mad disappointed😂😂🙆‍♂️
@a.alphonso6193
@a.alphonso6193 Ай бұрын
I'm glad that BM held his feet to the fire instead of just taking the man's side
@mucleboy0151
@mucleboy0151 Ай бұрын
Dissappointed in what? This is really what happens in real world in dating if they dissappointed they delusional
@encorewithe2482
@encorewithe2482 Ай бұрын
​@@a.alphonso6193yes I feel like he did a great job with that. Mad respect
@r.e45
@r.e45 Ай бұрын
BM is tired of all the shortcomings of these dudes ‼️ smh
@VYT6171
@VYT6171 Ай бұрын
@@r.e45 BM is African and obviously of a higher caliber, so I don't think he even relates to many of these low class Black American men
@daneliec
@daneliec Ай бұрын
Chandler seems like the type to want a woman to propose to him 💀 Mishna, from one Haitian sista to another, you are so pretty (I’m sure you know that) and in God’s timing the right man will come!
@alinakslvch
@alinakslvch Ай бұрын
he’s smirking because he finally found a woman he can act towards the same way others have been acting towards him. shame
@KB-un3el
@KB-un3el Ай бұрын
This is sickening, and accurate
@PeacefulPrime
@PeacefulPrime Ай бұрын
Exactly! He’s enjoying hurting her 😢
@l.300
@l.300 Ай бұрын
Facts gurl!
@AliLovesCoach
@AliLovesCoach Ай бұрын
@@alinakslvch exactly! He’s projecting
@mikesnips1926
@mikesnips1926 Ай бұрын
Hurt people hurt people
@symoneh.
@symoneh. Ай бұрын
Oh wow he’s super weird and needs therapy. The clapping, aggressive tone, laughing and rocking back and forth gave psycho.
@monicabrown9078
@monicabrown9078 Ай бұрын
Yes that was so weird. But I love how Mishna kept her composure the entire time. She stayed consistent the whole time.
@najelam
@najelam Ай бұрын
Not taking his side but ummm beloved that what comes out when a person is fed up with someone playing games with them. Clearly that’s what it is
@Yocyndie
@Yocyndie Ай бұрын
@@najelam where did she play games? He literally led her on and she fell back when she felt a shift in energy, so what are you on about ?
@thetrashtalktvshow
@thetrashtalktvshow Ай бұрын
Lmfao
@806media
@806media Ай бұрын
Phyco 😂, I would say anxiety
@SweetPoisonvich
@SweetPoisonvich Ай бұрын
People saying she ghosted him, it was after she realized he was on some bs and she dipped as she should 🤷🏽‍♀️
@LetsGetIntoTech
@LetsGetIntoTech Ай бұрын
Still ghosting… no matter the reason.
@CarmelBun92
@CarmelBun92 Ай бұрын
@@LetsGetIntoTechthere is no reason to give respect to disrespect!!
@natashof08
@natashof08 Ай бұрын
@@LetsGetIntoTechChandler? Is that you? 😒
@damiandennis3740
@damiandennis3740 Ай бұрын
Who ghost you 😂😂😂
@bosstler21
@bosstler21 Ай бұрын
Grow up and stop playing stupid games...
@Neonstarzz84
@Neonstarzz84 Ай бұрын
Arlette and BM are such an awesome duo!!! This podcast actually makes me realize that they truly want other black couples to find the love that they have. They are definitely couple goals!!
@yanou4u
@yanou4u Ай бұрын
The sad thing is there are a lot of guys like Chandler out there. Basically, he wanted her to chase him, while he wasn't interested in her.
@jth2668
@jth2668 Ай бұрын
spot on. weirdo activity. Mishna dodged a bullet.. it took them doing another catch up to finally be honest with her
@stinkreezy2791
@stinkreezy2791 Ай бұрын
Show me you interested also these new women a lil off
@uyetman501
@uyetman501 Ай бұрын
Coz y’all don’t value men who put in effort anymore . Y’all treat good men as crap . If I’m lying we have you picked all your toxic guys
@GloriaWilliams-q7o
@GloriaWilliams-q7o Ай бұрын
@@uyetman501she actually liked him though and was putting in effort. So how does that make his behaviour right? You must be like him
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
@@GloriaWilliams-q7o you must be like her, ghosting and expecting a man to bring forth all effort.
@tanerastake
@tanerastake Ай бұрын
Yeaaaa idk. His energy a lil off to me. I think sis dodged a bullet tbh.
@kakishisfriend1126
@kakishisfriend1126 Ай бұрын
Yes he's those fake nice guys. He revealed who he really was. He clearly didn't like her. He wanted her to call him everyday after work like dang. You know she get off at 9 call at 9:30
@NetaaD
@NetaaD Ай бұрын
💯
@TheEzwider88
@TheEzwider88 Ай бұрын
The man y’all women really want is NOT gone chase y’all or play games with y’all. That’s what y’all don’t understand.
@cancerr1sing
@cancerr1sing Ай бұрын
I always thought he was off putting
@MHsame2dayaZystrday
@MHsame2dayaZystrday Ай бұрын
@@kakishisfriend1126I am a year out from one of those. Still healing.
@keke1tube
@keke1tube Ай бұрын
Never date someone who is at a point where they’re“tired” of putting in effort. It’s a very tit for tat relationship
@sophiaandre139
@sophiaandre139 Ай бұрын
That's why a relationship shouldn't be 50/50. Each person should put in 100%.
@19nightsky91
@19nightsky91 Ай бұрын
You wouldnt last a day as a man
@DH-uw3us
@DH-uw3us Ай бұрын
Especially a man. If the man is tired of putting in effort, it's already over.
@tslee3008
@tslee3008 Ай бұрын
@keke1tube but he didn't even like her like that... so was he really putting in a effort
@benjibuttons7483
@benjibuttons7483 Ай бұрын
Both ways tho…. I feel what he saying tho…. Think about it the man has to do so much to be impressive enough to even get the chance to talk. And so many women I know love to talk. So when you say “Hey , I’ll hit you back!!!!” Then do that especially since you on your phone alot. That probably triggered something in him to be like Yo unless I’m the one making sure we talk everyday come on now! I know you stay glued to your phone but u can’t say wassup!!!!
@khackett07
@khackett07 Ай бұрын
Mishna is BEAUTIFULLLLL!!! Girl! you are beautiful and I am sure your person is right around the corner.
@jhazina
@jhazina Ай бұрын
Mishna holding back tears, words and fists!!! Cause if you didn't pop her balloon to be seen in a good light on the show (out of pity for her choosing you) - you could have told her after instead of stringing her along for so long... damn that hurt!!! Mishna Baby Girl, you are young, beautiful and gonna receive an amazing partner that ain't gonna play about you!!! 🥰😍😘
@TellaBellee
@TellaBellee Ай бұрын
This! 💯💯
@bigger.1.bestrapperalive
@bigger.1.bestrapperalive Ай бұрын
Even if he felt that way she’s beautiful and personality seems worth it to make something serious work. He fumbled this bad by getting in his own head. This is a self esteem issue on his part and he may have a rough time finding a match that fit him like she did.
@trish6116
@trish6116 Ай бұрын
!!
@itsmetheinterrupter
@itsmetheinterrupter Ай бұрын
@@bigger.1.bestrapperalive he is acting brand new because his dms popping. Changed his demeanour just like brown dress.
@jhazina
@jhazina Ай бұрын
@itsmetheinterrupter ohhhh didn't even think of it like that as well!!! He got options so not bothered with making a genuine connection again...
@alluress2020
@alluress2020 Ай бұрын
I hope any men watching this will reconsider before they say "you should have chosen better "to a woman. Y'all see that switch up; that's what women go through. There are guys in this comment section who liked him & were rooting for him in the first round & are also shocked at how he changed. This is what most women go through, only to be told "you should have chosen better"
@jayelee7112
@jayelee7112 Ай бұрын
Decepticons
@ItsMe-se9ku
@ItsMe-se9ku Ай бұрын
Exactly
@ms.deidra2736
@ms.deidra2736 Ай бұрын
Underrated comment‼️‼️
@organziedconfusion3699
@organziedconfusion3699 Ай бұрын
You said it right there!
@unapologetic1413
@unapologetic1413 Ай бұрын
THIS IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE and it is a tool that MANY men have used for decades. They charm women into falling for them and then when they know that they have their heart that's when the switch up happens...definition of NARCISSISM.
@UndeniedReal
@UndeniedReal Ай бұрын
They went from everyone's favorite couple to this... shit crazy
@ModupeGlobal
@ModupeGlobal Ай бұрын
This is the comment
@depitrius
@depitrius Ай бұрын
Not eveyone. It's more like every "inferior complexed" black woman. Say it correct.
@Hardawayfits
@Hardawayfits Ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@lilylunsford
@lilylunsford Ай бұрын
The way BM & arlette are looking at him lol
@jenna4628
@jenna4628 Ай бұрын
Chandler is a psycho. He projected his feelings of being picked out of pity onto her and then wanted her to feel that way so he was an asshole. What a CLOWN. Mishna, you dodged a bullet. You're beautiful and have so much good coming your way!
@hurrjenkins4916
@hurrjenkins4916 Ай бұрын
Yep 💯
@yourriderdie8472
@yourriderdie8472 Ай бұрын
And smirking thinking it’s funny
@jenna4628
@jenna4628 Ай бұрын
@yourriderdie8472 glad he came on here. Shows he needs massive help
@ranzabloomfield9115
@ranzabloomfield9115 Ай бұрын
He seems crazy damn.
@jessicacorsette
@jessicacorsette Ай бұрын
Love Mishna’s transparency. And her points are valid. I would love her to get back on and find the perfect match .
@angelalee9347
@angelalee9347 Ай бұрын
Me too …. She deserves to have a better chance of finding a match.
@19nightsky91
@19nightsky91 Ай бұрын
????? she said I didn't call when I said I would to see if you would? .... Really?
@serenestorm4306
@serenestorm4306 Ай бұрын
​@@19nightsky91 Thank you! How are ppl ignoring that part?
@tynishawalker326
@tynishawalker326 Ай бұрын
@@19nightsky91I feel that’s because she could feel he didn’t like her already.So she wanted to see what he would do to confirm if that was true or not.He played it very crazy as we can see in this video.He was faking all along and chose her out of “pity” he said that out of his own mouth.A person knows when you don’t really like them
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
@@tynishawalker326she still could call. Phone goes both ways
@tayvashti
@tayvashti Ай бұрын
he was projecting so bad. talking about we both felt the pressure & picked each other out of pity. no YOUUU did that & now you tryna hide your hand. Arlette thank you for speaking & saying “cause she felt like you didn’t like her” cause he was going to keep trying to make himself look better.
@sharae5387
@sharae5387 Ай бұрын
Arlette & BM both making it clear Chandler need not apply to any of their future shows was the necessary Cherry on top. Chandler needs to do better, Mishna dodged a bullet. Props to her for recognizing the signs and falling back accordingly.
@raniii652
@raniii652 Ай бұрын
Where did they say that?
@knowbeonekanobe5672
@knowbeonekanobe5672 Ай бұрын
No one needs to apply to this show if we are being honest. BW of today are doomed.
@MissTeeTee1111
@MissTeeTee1111 Ай бұрын
​@@knowbeonekanobe5672It just depends on what mindset/beliefs people have. We all don't have the same beliefs/behave the same way.
@re-recoldd4158
@re-recoldd4158 Ай бұрын
@@raniii652after the 24:00 mark when bm said your time is done
@raniii652
@raniii652 Ай бұрын
@@re-recoldd4158 thank you & yh get rid of him!
@philipc4353
@philipc4353 Ай бұрын
I sensed sort of a friendship vibe from the last follow up. This pretty much confirms it, but damn Chandler didn't have to lead her on like that. Then tries to gaslight her like she's the crazy one.
@omiadi7485
@omiadi7485 Ай бұрын
Glad you can see it.
@Diivasatti
@Diivasatti Ай бұрын
This
@Lancerman213
@Lancerman213 Ай бұрын
Define friendship because I don’t see them hanging out, or being friendly towards one another beyond this follow up.
@Patricia-zd5lq
@Patricia-zd5lq Ай бұрын
I don’t want no “friend” like this, she deserves better partner and friendship wise
@saginevital-herne3750
@saginevital-herne3750 Ай бұрын
@@Lancerman213 he’s referring to the last follow up…the one before this one. Their energy gave off “just friends” vibes, not “romantic relationship” vibes.
@mariavelazquez5115
@mariavelazquez5115 Ай бұрын
Why he’s so aggressive so fast 😭
@mariavelazquez5115
@mariavelazquez5115 Ай бұрын
A SIDE HUG is CRAZY
@mariavelazquez5115
@mariavelazquez5115 Ай бұрын
PITTTTTY?!?!
@Yocyndie
@Yocyndie Ай бұрын
Immediate defensiveness and she let him speak. He doesn’t offer the same grace.
@Yocyndie
@Yocyndie Ай бұрын
Immediate defensiveness and she let him speak. He doesn’t offer the same grace.
@Majinchip87
@Majinchip87 Ай бұрын
Cause he tired chandler just tired of women n their b.s this all he starting to learn bw aren't it.
@Dommy521
@Dommy521 25 күн бұрын
the side hug after coming to her house was crazy!! 😂😂
@alyssab.9994
@alyssab.9994 Ай бұрын
Mishna looks beautiful! I love her hair and makeup.
@shynebayarea510
@shynebayarea510 Ай бұрын
Like most women do
@Themarketplacegirl
@Themarketplacegirl Ай бұрын
You can tell Chandler is used to being mishandled and needs to work on his self-esteem. He has some maturing to do for sure. He seems like an acquired taste
@livingfreewithdee1189
@livingfreewithdee1189 Ай бұрын
I agree with you. I think he is hurting and needs some healing. I emphasize with him on putting himself out there.
@eon001
@eon001 Ай бұрын
@Themarketplacegirl Yep. Glad you spotted that. People acting like he's a misogynist. He just needs some healing.
@joellewilliams599
@joellewilliams599 Ай бұрын
@@19nightsky91well all of these “games” wouldn’t have happened if Chandler was up front from the get go on the show rather than leading her on 😒
@KeyAirTarot
@KeyAirTarot Ай бұрын
They both have trauma you can’t just say it’s him she literally stated growing up Haitian she couldn’t talk now she’s grown and talking when she’s frustrated she don’t know how to communicate maturely
@adams8830
@adams8830 Ай бұрын
@Themarketplacegirl Hurt people hurt people. I honestly don't even remember everyone popping for him but it seems to be something he won't forget and resents her for picking him after no one else would.
@SOMETHINGCORNYY
@SOMETHINGCORNYY Ай бұрын
Chandler is disappointing 🫤 getting hype & aggressive. Yuck. He was just faking being a "nice guy" for the camera smh
@Ahdree23
@Ahdree23 Ай бұрын
A lot of them come on the show and do that. I also found it weird when I found a lot of the young ladies who act dizzy or delusional were prompted ahead of time to say those crazy type of things. This show is kind of deceitful in different ways.
@mcbthird
@mcbthird Ай бұрын
@@Ahdree23where did you get that information from? because I’m sure they said they don’t tell people what to do or say.
@ClapperDan
@ClapperDan Ай бұрын
That man Chandler got his locs retwisted, got shaped up and don't know how to act
@19nightsky91
@19nightsky91 Ай бұрын
You calling him aggressive is like a WW calling a BW aggressive
@THENEWZ24
@THENEWZ24 Ай бұрын
​@@mcbthirdright,they are just making things up
@ShayWilliam341
@ShayWilliam341 Ай бұрын
Mishna dodged a bullet, this guy is showing his true colors
@pkp6791
@pkp6791 Ай бұрын
Chandler is in a very intense defensive mode- unnecessarily. His body language ( arms folded across chest), tone of voice ( bitter and angry) and unpleasant demeanor speak volumes. Very childish
@princexl2783
@princexl2783 Ай бұрын
Usually Arlette is very emotionally neutral. This is the 1st time I've seen her genuinely bothered by something.
@JM-qg9bo
@JM-qg9bo Ай бұрын
Oh come on, they have more control here.
@princexl2783
@princexl2783 Ай бұрын
@@JM-qg9bo ...brilliant deduction lol
@grayb3703
@grayb3703 Ай бұрын
Noticed that too, and it’s totally justified.
@comeatmebro8120
@comeatmebro8120 Ай бұрын
If you watch her facial expressions during the balloon episodes, you can tell what her opinion is most of the time
@princexl2783
@princexl2783 Ай бұрын
@@comeatmebro8120 as of late, yes. It's getting to her
@calibagsonly
@calibagsonly Ай бұрын
Obviously nobody’s gonna say it so I will, Chandler needs to get on his MEDICINE
@Suzypuzy2000
@Suzypuzy2000 Ай бұрын
Right, he seems too aggresive. I was shockedd😮
@NIO623
@NIO623 Ай бұрын
I know that's right
@rondarobbins7194
@rondarobbins7194 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Life23Live
@Life23Live Ай бұрын
" Doctor he is out again " 😂😂😂😂
@pqt112
@pqt112 Ай бұрын
Lithium
@dekendrajackson3772
@dekendrajackson3772 Ай бұрын
BM is a great individual! Thanks for seeing things how they are and checking on Mishna ♥️
@its.teetime
@its.teetime Ай бұрын
He basically was like "i don't like you, but chase me so you can grow on me.. possibly." Loser.
@malcolms3220
@malcolms3220 Ай бұрын
Are there not plenty of stories of women using this same logic on men they didn’t initially like but they “grew on them”? What’s the difference here?
@TubeCritic
@TubeCritic Ай бұрын
@@malcolms3220I mean I agree but at the same time he ain’t a woman lol that’s the difference. Bro gotta act like a man. As a man why even pursue a woman you not attracted to? The fact he couldn’t just pop her balloon and keep it moving, shows he got low self esteem and no confidence in himself to find somebody who he is actually interested in. He accepted her because that’s the only woman showing him interest, so he took her but then wanted to act like he is the main catch and be chased and not give the same effort in return. She read bro like a book and moved on.
@cocoabeauty5055
@cocoabeauty5055 Ай бұрын
@@malcolms3220Why is it that whenever a man is on bull💩 y’all have to bring up what women do or have done as a means to justify it? Why don’t y’all hold yourselves accountable instead of deflecting? Granted, yes women be on some bull 💩 too however, the focus on this particular topic is Chandler. Hold ya boy accountable.
@its.teetime
@its.teetime Ай бұрын
@@malcolms3220 where did i say there's a difference? Theyre both wrong. In this case The problem also lies where Chandler then gaslit her into thinking she was overreacting to his energy towards her when she was correct the whole time.
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
@@cocoabeauty5055 don’t yall do the same thing? 💩
@HypothyroidismWeightLoss
@HypothyroidismWeightLoss Ай бұрын
So he didn’t like her and he picked her and now he’s trying to blame her because he didn’t like her. He’s double talking and gaslighting her. He’s saying she wasn’t trying but he didn’t even like her lol
@AliLovesCoach
@AliLovesCoach Ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@34july8
@34july8 Ай бұрын
Literally what we go through everyday
@Andre-vh5wt
@Andre-vh5wt Ай бұрын
No he tried to give her a chance and he still wasn’t feeling the vibe or energy with her and that’s it it’s simple he’s just explaining what took place to make him not feel her anymore and confirming his point
@Andre-vh5wt
@Andre-vh5wt Ай бұрын
Where do you go through every day having no accountability ? To put out effort or the show a man that you’re worth the effort ?
@Andre-vh5wt
@Andre-vh5wt Ай бұрын
He’s just telling what happened it’s crazy how you female still take no accountability that you could do wrong or that you could mess up or that you didn’t put as much effort in men are sick of being used for resources and free attention free meals getting your hair done getting your nails done paying for trips apologizing when we’re not wrong dealing with your neurotic erratic emotions and having the lack of accountability.. we are sick of it.. If you’re into a man show him you’re into him as well vest in him just how he vest in you
@therealmedia6352
@therealmedia6352 Ай бұрын
*He’s giving abusive vibe,she dodged a bullet*
@jonnoibeckford2490
@jonnoibeckford2490 Ай бұрын
Stop putting abuse on people
@a.alphonso6193
@a.alphonso6193 Ай бұрын
​@@jonnoibeckford2490putting? we can all see his behavior clear as day 😂
@jacobjohns6047
@jacobjohns6047 Ай бұрын
Definitely controling but im inclined to believe her version more because before she even said it i caught on to him talking over her
@UniqueAmerican
@UniqueAmerican Ай бұрын
No he doesn't, he's human... He's still a nice guy but tired of getting taken advantage of,she thought he was too nice and saw that as she can try to play with his emotions, but she just mad that not only he's nice but he's also smart and can see right through her bs.
@luniaetienne
@luniaetienne Ай бұрын
@@UniqueAmerican he’s a nice guy?? Did you watch the whole video?? Do you have a brain??? Ain’t no way you called him a NICE GUY!!!
@WordsAreWealth
@WordsAreWealth Ай бұрын
It’s so DOPE how BM held Chandler accountable!!!
@blacky8030
@blacky8030 Ай бұрын
Chandler giving mad red flags 🚩 totally different dude. Mad sassy too 😭😭😭 . Attraction gone completely
@Ahdree23
@Ahdree23 Ай бұрын
That's the thing about this show. Not only is it basically speed dating, but we only get to see a snippet of these people's actual personalities. He seemed like a cool kinda guy, very chill but like someone else said, here in this video he comes off as an incel gamer.
@Thenoble1j
@Thenoble1j Ай бұрын
Big time
@overit5893
@overit5893 Ай бұрын
Of course the women sides with the woman 6:43 I guess you missed all this
@Ahdree23
@Ahdree23 Ай бұрын
@@overit5893 Watch the WHOLE thing, incel. You will see why lol. Listen to what your boo Chandler says, word for word. Listen to his answer to Arlette and BM's question. Don't stop at 6-7 minutes in lol.
@MissTeeTee1111
@MissTeeTee1111 Ай бұрын
He kinda showed this side when he was talking to Esther about his outfit on Pop The Balloon.
@markrichardosn302
@markrichardosn302 Ай бұрын
So he basically wasted her time
@joheezy4203
@joheezy4203 Ай бұрын
Yep
@sixteen.candles.4644
@sixteen.candles.4644 Ай бұрын
Basically.
@Heyitskadayy
@Heyitskadayy Ай бұрын
Yup
@munchandmotivation8128
@munchandmotivation8128 Ай бұрын
Everybody's time especially the production
@mrshaheedmalik
@mrshaheedmalik Ай бұрын
She ghosted him.
@zastakes4195
@zastakes4195 Ай бұрын
Chandler is too aggressive. He kinda crazy
@paigew6707
@paigew6707 Ай бұрын
😂 he been giving killer energy
@jamiepaloma876
@jamiepaloma876 Ай бұрын
for real, talking with all that hand movement and head bopping too smt
@kingsleyokogbe5144
@kingsleyokogbe5144 Ай бұрын
U lot see aggressive so fast 💨 you all should go home for once n feel how d motherland is like stop calling everything aggressive
@Curling_Rack
@Curling_Rack Ай бұрын
he is a different person now lol
@e.marshall_1
@e.marshall_1 Ай бұрын
Yes my thoughts exactly!
@fred3306
@fred3306 Ай бұрын
Bring her back, she deserves better.
@mersixteen
@mersixteen Ай бұрын
24:12 "Chandler, you're done. Your time is up" I love it 😂😂😂
@MsMVP
@MsMVP Ай бұрын
Loved that! 😂😂
@mzakon1
@mzakon1 Ай бұрын
He didn’t lead the relationship. He never wanted her. Narcs get a kick out of getting you to humiliate yourself.
@tlamont804
@tlamont804 Ай бұрын
“So Chandler you said you didn’t pop her ballon because you didn’t wanna fell like a jerk, but how do you feel now?” Wow BM takes this seriously! As a man I would be afraid to come on this platform & let him down😂😂.
@destinyj23
@destinyj23 Ай бұрын
So, a multi series? I love it. BM and Arlette, keep it up!!! We love it!!! 💙💙💙
@CruisewithCyndi
@CruisewithCyndi Ай бұрын
Mishna, my beautiful Haitian sister. Your intentions were pure, his was not. He's way too aggressive while conversing. You deserve way better. Count your blessings 🙏🏾 ❤️
@robsin7
@robsin7 Ай бұрын
I love Arlette! When she clapped back at chandler saying “cuz she could tell you didn’t like her.” Like chandler stop playing 😂😂😅
@2010DERT2010
@2010DERT2010 Ай бұрын
Lol I literally just heard that part as I read your comment
@andersonaudrianna
@andersonaudrianna Ай бұрын
he’s very weird lol. its clearly his fault because he’s angry. i can tell that arlette was angry too. he’s never coming back to the show after this. i loved that, “chandler you’re done” 😂😂😂.
@TheMarnea12
@TheMarnea12 Ай бұрын
My favorite part😂
@DMCEagles05
@DMCEagles05 Ай бұрын
I felt that was waaay to harsh How you blacklist him because he wasnt sure AFTER THE SHOW. Its a dating show, not a couples show. The dating fell out. He felt pressured. A lot of men do.
@epiphany5health
@epiphany5health Ай бұрын
That side hug was a red flag, even men who are not attracted to a woman give full hugs.
@tslee3008
@tslee3008 Ай бұрын
Mishna deserves a blind date episode!!
@angelalee9347
@angelalee9347 Ай бұрын
She really does
@kclaytoday
@kclaytoday Ай бұрын
For sure!!!
@Amandaslays
@Amandaslays Ай бұрын
Yes… she does
@HarmonyJt
@HarmonyJt Ай бұрын
Foreal..
@carlos84708
@carlos84708 Ай бұрын
For what? Ghosting another guy?
@SweetaRockzz
@SweetaRockzz Ай бұрын
Don't listen to these men when they rant about women not liking "nice" guys and "nice" guys finishing last. A lot of the self-proclaimed "nice" guys are not nice at all or not much different from the rest!!
@unapologetic1413
@unapologetic1413 Ай бұрын
That part...which is why they DO finish last because we can smell that the nice guy is not so nice and it's an ACT.
@burgbored
@burgbored Ай бұрын
Facts
@butterflyangel75
@butterflyangel75 Ай бұрын
💯!!!
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
Keep the same energy when we tell men not to listen to women and generalize women based off one woman’s actions 🤷🏿‍♂️
@butterflyangel75
@butterflyangel75 Ай бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/oqqZkH2AaMyfkKcsi=uYZfBr7h-Px7VriW
@darkimpact2843
@darkimpact2843 Ай бұрын
Women... If a man calls you "bro" know that he doesnt see you in a romantic way 🎯 Just a lil gem. Mishna too beautiful to be picked out of pity, black anime girls are rare. What she is expressing is the issue with allot of men these days.. they dont know how to woe a woman. I always salute the men but fair is fair, he didnt do her justice🤦🏾‍♂️😩
@zidane8452
@zidane8452 Ай бұрын
Simp😂 go outside
@darkimpact2843
@darkimpact2843 Ай бұрын
🤦🏾‍♂️Calling me simp just shows your lack of confidence and maturity, that is not an insult to a grown man.💪🏽 My woman is crazy about me so try harder next time.😂
@zidane8452
@zidane8452 Ай бұрын
@@darkimpact2843 never was intended to be an insult but since you took it that way shows your soft and immature
@darkimpact2843
@darkimpact2843 Ай бұрын
@@zidane8452 🤯Now you trying to deflect, bro that reverse psychology shit dont work on me. Simp is literally an new age insult and then telling me to go outside. Yeah i know you dont have no women.🤣 Case and point...🎯
@zidane8452
@zidane8452 Ай бұрын
​@@darkimpact2843 as I said if you took simp as an insult then you have a child mindset.
@joshuabaker742
@joshuabaker742 Ай бұрын
Yes, bring Mishna back!!
@CoCoStilletto
@CoCoStilletto Ай бұрын
Please don’t bring chandler back cause he too immature and not ready for a relationship. He gots some growing up to do
@scoobyOnBiz
@scoobyOnBiz Ай бұрын
lol girl be quiet😂😂😭😅...
@CoCoStilletto
@CoCoStilletto Ай бұрын
@@scoobyOnBiz i said what i saiduh! SWERVE sir!
@Thulz.
@Thulz. Ай бұрын
Or maybe he's mature and grown enough and ready for a relationship with someone else he wants not someone you want him to be with but what HE wants to be with .
@scoobyOnBiz
@scoobyOnBiz Ай бұрын
@@CoCoStilletto Im just trolling ..just watched full episode , yea he dont need to come bac..
@destinyjohn9451
@destinyjohn9451 Ай бұрын
Definitely not he’s literally disgusting from the way he’s arguing to the way he states he wasn’t interested
@321Venia
@321Venia Ай бұрын
Let get this this straight…. chandler came in hot with alllllll this energy with this crazy story of “iM aLwAyS PoUrIng mY hEaRT OuT….” Etc just to put it on her that she “picked yu out of pity” whole time it was HIM that picked HER out of pity? Wowwwwwww. He’s exhausting. And he over talks because he just wants to hide from his own accountability😂
@fitzmorris6813
@fitzmorris6813 Ай бұрын
She even invited bruh to the crib & cooked him a meal. He’s a fuck 🥷🏾 for real!
@OnelifegivenbyHim1
@OnelifegivenbyHim1 Ай бұрын
It's giving narcissistic trait
@Troystreetzproduction
@Troystreetzproduction Ай бұрын
He was projecting his own insecurities onto her but failed
@321Venia
@321Venia Ай бұрын
@@Troystreetzproductionexactly
@321Venia
@321Venia Ай бұрын
@@OnelifegivenbyHim1 😂 right
@imanidiamondz1975
@imanidiamondz1975 Ай бұрын
He’s not even cute enough to be chasing 😂 girl you dodged a bullet
@tiarabrown5973
@tiarabrown5973 Ай бұрын
BM is holding him accountable I really appreciate that because men get away wit treating women any way
@damatotaylor8789
@damatotaylor8789 Ай бұрын
When she put energy to cook for him invited him over and everything thats a huge sign of someone interested in you
@chisichei
@chisichei Ай бұрын
She is completely right. Chandler is not a gentleman. He also had a bit of attitude on the show so this is not surprising
@paigew6707
@paigew6707 Ай бұрын
He gives killer vibes, I BEEN saying this from first episode
@shynebayarea510
@shynebayarea510 Ай бұрын
I'm sure you slept with one b4 to know
@ClapperDan
@ClapperDan Ай бұрын
My name is CHANdler! Lol yeah watch dat boy
@34july8
@34july8 Ай бұрын
Especially that part where he emphasized how comfortable he was in his clothing. It was aggressive
@SallyBabyy
@SallyBabyy Ай бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣
@vibrationalliving5521
@vibrationalliving5521 Ай бұрын
same. Idk what everyone else saw in him. He's always come off as secretly g@y to me. Also like he's very off-kilter, mentally unstable and brazen. Good bl@ck men are so rare that bl@ck people praise bl@ck guys for absolutely nada.
@July-ola
@July-ola Ай бұрын
Mishna, you lookin good, girl! You came a long ways from the day one style!
@arnabiarnab3037
@arnabiarnab3037 Ай бұрын
I love the two faces…. BM keeps the same face no matter what is said…. While Arlete will show how all of us are looking
@shortyduwhop319
@shortyduwhop319 Ай бұрын
Chandler is the one guy we all went to school with who is a blerd (black nerd) who wants the cheerleader instead of going with the girl who is a fit, another blerd. So bc he can’t have the Baddie aesthetic he treats the girl who wants him and better matched like crap and wants to be bitter and say black women didn’t want him. He will probably date white women next 🙃
@maritawanazw
@maritawanazw Ай бұрын
😂yes!👌🏾💯
@kingmanga8575
@kingmanga8575 Ай бұрын
I hate that yall r pushing this narrative in these comments. He doesn’t seem like the type who only wants the popular girl. He just seems like the type of guy who’s never had success dating and is tired of chasing after women. But sadly his past relationship problems trickled over to this one. That’s all it is. He’s too jaded from past relationships causing him to overthink and assume that she didn’t like him.
@kaceywaceyy
@kaceywaceyy Ай бұрын
@@kingmanga8575 whether he goes for popular girls or not, what is clear is that he tends to go for girls that rejected him or that don’t want him. Even on the show, he gave his number to one of the girls that popped his balloon from that episode, the girl in the black dress.
@kingmanga8575
@kingmanga8575 Ай бұрын
@@kaceywaceyy I’m not saying that he doesn’t have a tendency to chase women who don’t want him. My point is that people r portraying him as the blerd that mistreats good women (typically other blerds) and only goes for the baddie type. Which doesn’t seem to be him. Hes just tired of chasing women and that caused him to overthink this situation. For once he wanted to play the game he felt like was played on him. For once he wanted to be the person chased and not the other way around. For once he wanted to feel wanted. He did wrong. 100%. But it wasn’t out of malice it was out of insecurity. And if I remember correctly he wanted black dresses number to be on a podcast or something.
@RevelationRuth
@RevelationRuth Ай бұрын
Right dude’s been watching too much Red Pill and he is Not that guy. He wants to take out his hurt on her. She dodged a bullet. I pray she has or gets a close relationship with Jesus Christ. He didn’t like her from the beginning, wanted the other brownskinned girl w/ the aesthetics but couldn’t get her. He is giving crazy guy on here & wants to talk down on her but will reap what he sows.
@ramiyahmalchai5102
@ramiyahmalchai5102 Ай бұрын
Please heal before you deal with anyone. If you're seeking distraction, find a passion or a hobby, but never let someone’s heart become your pastime. Honor the feelings of others, for they are not to be played with!
@KL-Lady
@KL-Lady Ай бұрын
So true and beautifully worded
@melinatedthinka8210
@melinatedthinka8210 Ай бұрын
💯‼️
@csmith2484
@csmith2484 Ай бұрын
@@ramiyahmalchai5102 correct!!🎯🎯🎯
@BernardHlongwani
@BernardHlongwani Ай бұрын
Mishna is beautiful inside and out. Good thing she said that she was prepared for this and it will allow her to move on and ready when the right person for her come.
@sarahm9360
@sarahm9360 Ай бұрын
i KNEW something was off about him when he got real hurt about that one girl not liking his outfit. raised his voice a little too much and i thought this dude is probably real scary when his ego is hurt. chandler, the fact that you haven’t “gotten anything in return” in your past relationships isn’t mishna’s fault. you chase the right person, you’ll be rewarded. but you didn’t even get the chance to find that out bc you didn’t chase from the beginning and even admitted that. the dating pool really got feces in it these days!
@Meccaone17
@Meccaone17 Ай бұрын
ITS WHO I AMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!
@noik_11
@noik_11 Ай бұрын
I literally thought the same
@diosawintour1969
@diosawintour1969 Ай бұрын
I’m so glad I wasn’t the only one who picked up on that! I think he has some deep rooted rejection insecurity that makes him lash out at women when he’s triggered
@Jade-kz3jb
@Jade-kz3jb Ай бұрын
I peeped that too!!! For a second he had an evilness in his eyes when he said “this is who I am”
@analisesoraya4664
@analisesoraya4664 Ай бұрын
This man is SCARY!!!! He pretended to be someone else on the show. I am SCARED watching this man. Its like he is a demon!!! Mf narcissist!!!!
@SomnnaVibes
@SomnnaVibes Ай бұрын
That’s deep
@kellzfargo9639
@kellzfargo9639 Ай бұрын
It is NOT that serious 😭
@donthedon8675
@donthedon8675 Ай бұрын
​@@kellzfargo9639Dramatic as hell 😂
@mzbrown6969
@mzbrown6969 Ай бұрын
@@analisesoraya4664 now let's manage our imagination, ground ourselves and let the adult come forward to assume control so we don't become trauma induced and stuck. he lied, which is what most humans do when they aren't comfortable with themselves, which is a them issue not you. But it's not what he does, your power is in what you will do. If you have no tolerance for liars, you leave and move on. Treat it as an isolated experience and don't bring the baggage to the next situation or else you will look like the trauma victim he does in this update and self sabotage. Wisdom is found when you refuse to heal from something you could have avoided. She walked away found her closure on the update and so will you too when behaviors don't align with words.
@TeniqueSpeaks
@TeniqueSpeaks Ай бұрын
I mean close enough
@bugsbfats4267
@bugsbfats4267 Ай бұрын
You tweaked chandler bro she cook you dinner invited you over yeeaaaa buddy she liked you. You just let your insecurities get in the way. Mishna could come my way any day and get treated amazing
@MiemieM
@MiemieM Ай бұрын
Now I’m no Mishna but I’d like to get treated amazing too😂
@Cupid230
@Cupid230 Ай бұрын
Shes such a queen
@Joy2theworld24
@Joy2theworld24 Ай бұрын
@bugs4fats4267 hit her up😊
@emmanuelladely903
@emmanuelladely903 Ай бұрын
Well you definitely can shoot ya shot..it's easy to find her if youre looking for love and are serious
@TheMarnea12
@TheMarnea12 Ай бұрын
Mishna come back!!! I love how BM said Chandler your done😂😂😂😂 he was DEAD SERIOUS
@sarahnabbanja7575
@sarahnabbanja7575 Ай бұрын
This guy is very disrespectful damn!
@erosnectar5481
@erosnectar5481 Ай бұрын
This is the typical “good guy” 😫
@sarahnabbanja7575
@sarahnabbanja7575 Ай бұрын
@@erosnectar5481 more of a typical red flag 🚩
@erosnectar5481
@erosnectar5481 Ай бұрын
@@sarahnabbanja7575 right sis! 😊
@davnoble8472
@davnoble8472 Ай бұрын
@@erosnectar5481nice guy*
@jessicacorsette
@jessicacorsette Ай бұрын
Chandler is bugging and in his feelings . He was at least honest that he didn’t like her. He doesn’t deserve another shot at this show .
@alisonbrathwaite8923
@alisonbrathwaite8923 Ай бұрын
@jessicacorsette Bm said don't apply. You are done
@Thenoble1j
@Thenoble1j Ай бұрын
I agree I have this playing in the background and he came off so emotional and aggressive for no reason
@osmosisdaily
@osmosisdaily Ай бұрын
Well he attempted to gaslight it first and make it seem like she was the one playing him but it wasn’t holding up so he kind of got walked into admitting that he wasn’t feeling her
@Sororoh95
@Sororoh95 Ай бұрын
This went downhill fast 🤣
@toyasilveira7369
@toyasilveira7369 Ай бұрын
Right!! So fast!!
@beadlebamford9999
@beadlebamford9999 Ай бұрын
Indeed
@destinysdiary3097
@destinysdiary3097 Ай бұрын
Guys really be out here acting like chandler smh
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