EP 94 Should I marry my sisters husband

[@milkycoco5372]

The first story I’m saying this to you with all love and care I don’t care if you sister toxic or not please stay a way from her husband if you want a life full of happiness and clean from generation turuma run for your life is not worth it at all .have a fresh start wish all the happiness

[@fatimaawal8331]

It is NOT permissable to marry two sisters at the same time. Islamically he can marry her sister if the wife passes away. Also by choice a woman can marry her husbands brother only in the case he passes away

[@oversharerspodcast]

We got so confused thank you for clarifying

[@aeshaibrahim4458]

You can find this proof in the Hadith of Bukhari about marrying sisters

[@piqueny8872]

This sister I heard of married her brother in law after her husband( his brother) passed away Problem was she had a baby with the first husband, then a baby with the 2 nd bro/ husband Her kids are uncle step father and half siblings it’s confusing to them Sadly she divorced remarried 3 more times 5 baby daddies Half siblings it’s a total mess

[@zarasbubble1748]

@piqueny8872please don’t share this story to others again sis.. it’s really not productive and I wouldn’t wish it amounting to backbiting for you in the akhira.. May Allah make it easy for the sister. Ameen

[@piqueny8872]

@@zarasbubble1748 it’s advise and true for women who think of marrying the brother in laws the children get messed up

[@rahmashire-l5o]

Marring two sisters at same time is not allowed Islamically,but when he devorce or maybe she died he can Marry.

[@annisa8863]

Please use time stamps in your videos, it would be so helpful and make it more easier to watch your content

[@khadija1604]

First scenario: i think the younger sister is being groomed by the brother in law. Why would he even suggest that??!!

[@mw1352]

Kaltun's undiagnosed adhd makes this podcast 10/10. Lmaooo all the side notes to every story are hilarious 🤣

[@ShakirahIbaad]

I think the sister at uni needs to ask around about the old friend she’s interested in to see what he’s like now. Then maybe if she has an older sibling who can get in touch with his siblings and just test the waters to find out if he’s interested. If he’s religious he won’t meet up with her unless parents are involved and chaperones are present during any communication. I’d also consider whether she herself feels like she is at least close to being as religious as he seems to be. It’s a huge part of compatibility in marriage.

[@zeyxab]

sorry Kaltuns right the sister needs to know her man is unfaithful with her sister nonetheless 😭 that’s so evil from the people closest to her i would wanna know so i can leave him

[@tanyag9247]

3rd scenario - unfortunately women can find themselves in abusive relationship after abusive relationship. The first abuser more or less “grooms” you for more abuse, you may be less likely to spot red flags as abusive behaviours become normalised. Sister who wrote the third scenario, if you’re reading this, in the U.K. there’s something called the Freedom Programme for women who have been in abusive relationships (through the charity Women’s Aid). There should be something similar Down Under. Please give yourself the necessary tools to heal and know your worth. You should never sacrifice your own well-being for someone else’s - this is toxic. I also strongly recommend NOT telling a subsequent husband or man who you’re in the talking stage with about the abuse that you suffered. Give a wishy washy answer about incompatibility, as unfortunately abusers will be attracted to the fact you’ve already suffered abuse and they’ll turn up the charm. Look after yourself, sister. Inshallah you find a good man who treats you like a queen 👸

[@tanyag9247]

PS Hodo your advice about not going near anyone with even a whiff of a substance issue is bang on!

[@tahminehisa340]

I tried to dodge my husband twice . In the end I thought what do I have to loose if I just give him a chance. Fate and also effort. You can't run away from what He has written for you and you can't force Him if He swt hasn't chosen something for you. But there's no harm in trying with out committing haram in the process.

[@dka54]

I agree!! The mother can mitigate situations and make sure gatherings are set up where they would have less opportunity to see each other.

[@tamyahussain]

So happy to see your video first thing Monday morning!!! ❤ defo my favourite part of the day

[@nabilaxu]

It’s giving Kate and Anthony ☠️☠️☠️ there’s so many people in this population than to be falling for your sisters husband. To make things worse, the sister and husband have a child too? What did the nephew do to her? Outright foul. She needs to broaden her horizon and go outside. ☠️

[@msiffy]

I’m judging the first story and the OP is a trash and is jealous of the sister who’s married. She committed sin already by entertaining her sister’s husband and saying she’s in love bullshit. No morals or self respect. In Islam he can’t marry 2 sisters at once. The only case he can marry her is if the sister dies so let’s pray this waste girl doesn’t unalive her sister.

[@Fairydust74k]

27:03 us girls will never stop romanticising scenarios 😂❤

[@doomscrolling4ever]

was just looking for something to watch while i eat 😂

[@doomscrolling4ever]

also u guys are glowing mashallah!!

[@iman.a.t]

Ok clarification! I think in the first write-in the writer meant marrying her sister's ex-husband (emphasis on EX) isn't Islamically wrong, because that was the proposition he made. Islamically that isn't prohibited. A man cannot be married to two sisters at the same time, nor to a niece and her aunt at the same time. However, after divorce he is permitted to marry whoever he chooses (obviously with consent). On the other hand, a man cannot marry his wife's mother or her daughter that isn't blood related to him even after divorce. Wa Allahu A'lam. I hope no one misunderstands this matter. Always refer to verified Islamic sources if not sure. God bless.

[@Miahhhhh.90]

1st scenario - Islamically, a man can not marry two sisters of the same family at the same time. But he can marry the sister if he divorces his wife, and she completes the Iddah period. However, this whole scenario is actually disgusting. Clearly, conversations have happened between the two behind his wifes back, which is not only haram, it is also cheating as the conversations are romantic for him to state that he's in love with her. She should completely cut ties with him or speak to someone who can intervene and put a stop to this before anything happens. 2nd scenario - She stated that they used to be friends, and they both used to like each other when they were 15. Three years on, she still really likes him. But whose to say he still feels the same? When someone becomes religious, they also factor in about getting married, and if she was someone he is interested in, he would have approached her himself. Only thing I can think of that doesn't make her sound desperate is maybe speaking to a mutual friend of theirs about marriage and maybe letting the brother know if he knows anyone suitable. If he is interested he would approach her himself. And always remember, whatever is meant to be will be even if it is under two mountains, and whatever isn't won't be even if it is between your lips. 3rd scenario - May Allah swt protect this sister, and bestow blessings upon her always. Ameen. When the time is right, Allah swt will bring them to you. Just focus on yourself, and building yourself up. Have something to fall back on, rather than investing in on marriage. And when someone does come up, pray Istikhara salah to see if this person would be good for you or not. And I disagree, having a bad first marriage doesn't mean it won't happen again. This is why you do not rush anything, see if there is any red flags, speak to people and get character references and again pray istikhara if you have a potential.

[@sahranur1828]

And also pray istickara for the second girl

[@s_sunshine22]

Was waiting for someone to say this

[@lailaadorable553]

It’s actually haram for a man to marry two sisters at the same time. It’s not permitted because of the relationship between siblings

[@MsBegum123]

soo excited!! ❤ xxx

[@Hajar-zs8wb]

No in situations like this you absolutely can be mean showing there is never any room for this kind of nonsense

[@piqueny8872]

Don’t think it’s wise A sister married 5 times 5 baby daddies 5 divorced Two set of her kids are half siblings cuz she married her brother in law after this brother ( her husband) death So he was uncle step father and father to one kid her kids are half related step related

[@_xyesha]

loved the episode 😂😂💕

[@UU-vl2kn]

Religious guys dont mind you approaching them in a halal manner. Letting them know your looking to get married. Just get a mutual contact let him know your looking to get married. If hes interested he’ll come forward himself

[@samanthapennington5896]

As we say, God will not bring you someone else's husband

[@HeartofHanan]

Khadija RA pursued the prophet Muhammad (ﷺ)

[@acupoftae7111]

kal is on smokeeeee

[@UU-vl2kn]

She hates her sister. It’s possible she’s doing things with malicious intent. How her sister treats her husband is not the sisters problem. Go find your own man. The guy is obviously a player. If he’s giving hopes to the sister of his wife

[@Shay3356]

His wife needs to divorce that narcissist man.

[@amenawadee461]

loved this video

[@Hamilkii]

Finally 😢

[@sahranur1828]

For the second scenario it doesn’t matter if he is religious or not a man is a man and he’s gonna go after what he wants and makes it happen I think she was just young romanticizing a little kid friendhsip he clearly hasn’t contacted her in those three years but if she really wants to go through with it I suggest just asking him saves you so much some time rip off the bandaid 🩹