"IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD!" | Solving Muslim Reddit dilemmas Ft

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You may have seen some hilarious Reddit dilemmas floating around on the internet. Some funny, some concerning and some just mind boggling. Haider sits down with duo Hodo & Kally from @oversharerspodcast to dissect some of these dilemmas from Muslim Reddit. You're in for a treat!
00:00 - Intro & chit chat
24:52 - “I hate living with my in-laws”
40:29 - “I don’t feel a spark with my fiancé”
49:26 - “HELP! How do I have Intimacy after my Nikkah?!”
1:05:42 - “My husband is still in a group chat with other Women”
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[@supernovaspinach]

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[@noblindspotspod]

My contract with them was signed earlier this year but I will look into this. Thank you for flagging it brother

[@naylorahmad8774]

My sister is a single mum, she would never expect her daughter in law to look after her. Also if I was sick, I would never expect my daughter in laws to wipe or feed me. She's not my maid. I want my children to do what they can out of love, to help. When did it become the spouse's, responsibility. May Allah keep us healthy and independent till the end.

[@iNikkah]

Making sure the couple have shared goals and values is the most important aspect of marriage, the couple need to be entered around Allah and salah without that the relationship is fruitless

[@berkamp9832]

But there's no spark, he's thinking /dreaming of other women.

[@iNikkah]

@@berkamp9832 this is where he is going wrong- he shouldn’t centre himself with chasing women, did Allah put him on earth for this reason? Find a higher purpose, your wife is there to support you getting into Jannah, anything else is a bonus

[@iNikkah]

The sister getting married to someone she can’t speak needs a dedicated person to speak to- all our coaches have been married more than 20 years

[@noblindspotspod]

I think she meant not knowing how to speak to her future husband due to language barriers

[@yolandahc7477]

Whats a gosol? @55:40

[@nk7274]

Ghusul. Is like a ritual bath/shower a muslim needs to take after they have sex or menstruate or ejaculated before they can pray again

[@mizzyuk8697]

Compulsory religious bath that involves thoroughly washing the full body including the hair, gargling the throat and cleaning the nostrils. This is done after sexual intimacy.

[@aryangoyat152]

How are you guys are from the same community? I'm confused here?

[@naviifra2374]

Ever heard of Islam? We put that above culture

[@NaimaMJ]

You basically called them to lecture them, they barely spoke I wonder what they came for to talk because it's you enticing them

[@noblindspotspod]

Enticing? Is everything okay at home sister? It’s a podcast, we’re all having a conversation 😂

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

the sister who wants to "unalive" herself is in a better situation than some sister who is committing zina, in the eyes of allah.

[@naviifra2374]

Doesn’t matter in her mind her situation is hell. He needs to be a man and provide a home

[@noblindspotspod]

Not sure if this is the approach we should have about someone who is having suicidal thoughts

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

people in palestine have lost their entire families yet some how they remain strong. lets face it people in the west are just too weak when it comes challenges in life@@noblindspotspod

[@zink4625]

Are you feeling ok bro? Why are you bringing on some malis and discussing topics within the south asian community with outsiders are they doing this the other way around? Have some honour about your community, its always you punjabis letting down the rest of the nation alhamdulilah us pakhtuns baloch sindhis paharis etc are free from you people, pattern up