Ep7: Burning and building bridges-the Friendships we chose to keep. 👯‍♀️

[@CatrionaGray]

Hey friends! Apologies for the delayed upload - we had a few tech issues on our end! Hope you enjoy this week's episode! 🤍

[@CyrilCybernated]

Better late than absent! 😂 thanks Queen! 👸🏻

[@reynardbalingit5962]

My Queen forever👑🇵🇭🇵🇭Ms. Universe catriona gray🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭Philippines

[@soulandthekitty]

Did you really meant to upload this to your personal account? Hehe

[@shortclipreels]

I'm enjoying converting your podcast into short clips! 🙂

[@xyza-zw5km]

refreshing podcast. keep them coming

[@DavidWilliamSantos-v2u]

I just love that I can be imperfect with my friends and because of that, I try to be as forthcoming of the fact na they, too, aren't perfect. We all flourish that way❤️

[@thyprettypapillon]

I love this episode so much. These two ladies are so eloquent and spontaneous. Please do more! Love you two!

[@NicoleCordoves]

Share with us your friend experiences too 🫶🏼

[@JohnQuiambaoSantiano-sk8ld]

Gusto ko po sumali s group chat friendship.. True good friends kayo dalawa po.

[@shortclipreels]

I'm enjoying converting your podcast into short clips! Still practicing!

[@pinkcameo4698]

we had this friend who always made fun of us in front of our other friends. It also happened that when he was with another group of friends, he would bring up stories “gossips” about us to "bring something to the table." We gave him chances, but I think some people just want to live like that.

[@NicoleCordoves]

@@pinkcameo4698 noooo :( your friends should be protecting you from other people

[@johnkennethabarquez6153]

First time watching/listening to your podcast and natawa ako kasi inabot nang almost 9 minutes yung intro to the topic haha very on brand sa two of u 😅

[@renzomartinez4081]

This episode is humbling. I have many things I've come to realize in the friendship that have come and go in my life. I love you both, omg! ❤ I'll be watching out for your next episodes. God bless your podcast! ❤️

[@annamariea8038]

Cat and Nicole, I have been watching your podcast for a while now, and it's so therapeutic for me. Di nakakasawa. I feel like I'm interacting and feeling as if I'm with you, haha. You really have substance, full of wisdom and inspiration. It's not just superficial appreciation, but truly, you both are beautiful inside and out and very kind too. 🙌 It's great to have friends like you.😊💗

[@jessamariebatarao1047]

Agree!!! And their so genuine and personal sa podcast, ang sarap i-digest ng mga conversations nila 😭❤️

[@NicoleCordoves]

Salamat ❤ and we’re so glad that you’re part of our little community here guys!

[@kimganyoung]

I like to contemplate on this kind of topic which is close to my heart on having friends that they are thosr who are your bffs, lost, cut ties, long distance, turned acquaintances, college, highschool, elementary, work, childhood and other categories. I am lucky to have friends who still keeps in touch with me despite of busy schedules, we manage to get together for catch-ups. But im sad for friends which i cut ties due to misunderstandings and some who chose to drift away finding their own friend groups and distant careers as well, i hope we will get in touch again. As the saying goes, "friends come and go", they happen to be part in your life for a reason at some point.

[@njreyez]

I loved that Bailey managed to sleep through the entire episode, so cute!

[@pamangkin6837]

What I love about this podcast is they don't need (yet) guest to make their conversations flourish and relevant. Sa Daldal ba naman ng dalawang baklang to😅 both of them have the gift of wisdom and the ability to convey their thoughts in an organized and easy to grasp manner. They have a Lot of Topics to offer other than pageantry that tends to be redundant to talk about na after a while. Thank You for this Cat and Nicole! I Love You both. One thing I have to point out is sana sa start gawin pa rin ni Cat yung "Weeeee!!" 😂

[@NicoleCordoves]

This means so much, really. ❤

[@merijoyabraga]

In relation to this topic, I recently sent an email regarding my experiences about a certain friend. It was indeed painful but I chose forgiveness and still leave my door open for her. Thank you for thissss podcast! Really appreciate it and have learned a lot. God speed! ❤

[@notebookscribbles]

Apart from personal friends, I love having genuine work friends. I've made connections at work who are 20-30 years older and I love the good influence they have had on me. Iba talaga yung wisdom na naiimpart nila.

[@dianaproclaim]

For me, I feel so lucky with my friends now. Hindi man sila gano'n karami pero I know I can count on them. I also have internet bffs na nakilala ko lang through reading the same story in Watty then till now, we share with each other our struggles and it just feels so validating when no judgment is placed upon you but at the same time, they assess the situation with you and point out if you are doing something that you shouldn't. This kind I treasure so much kahit pa hindi kami nagkikita palagi cause we literally live in different parts of the Phils.

[@katrinaern]

Kapag naliligo ako inuulit ko na lang yung podcast huwag lang ako magoverthink. Please do a podcast about mental health. God bless you po. More podcast pleaseeeee

[@NicoleCordoves]

Will do ❤

[@theresenicoledevera9378]

Loved this advise and also what I realized once I reached 30 is friendship is all about quality rather than quantity. Loved this so much

[@vernamarieeslit255]

I have a friend who’s a narcissist. But no one really see that coz she build this im kind, cute and pet lover personality✨. But I always see through it! She’s the friend who every time someone is celebrating she tries to end the party ASAP or always on the phone minding her own business whilst my friends and I are showering love to the celebrant. We are basically neighbours in my home town, so one day my mom told her about my current achievement in life and she didn’t even say anything or message me online (she deact her socials so there’s no way I can tell her myself. I’m overseas) then days later, she went online only to post that she is travelling around Asia, so I immediately messaged her and still! She didn’t even responded and just kept on telling me how amazing her trip is and basically bragging about it😂 Some people are really born with their own spotlight😂

[@michaelaparakikay1497]

This episode is really timely in my life as someone who is in her mid20s. I have let go of my friends and also have please friends because I don’t want to feel alone. Right now, I am learning to love myself and also to know that people who want to be in my life will give their effort as well to be in it.

[@NicoleCordoves]

Surround yourself with people you can grow together with ❤

[@pinkcameo4698]

we had this friend who always made fun of us in front of our other friends. It also happened that when he was with another group of friends, he would bring up stories “gossips” about us to "bring something to the table." We gave him chances, but I think some people just want to live like that.

[@jmdjavier4647]

Love this duo!! ♥️ Sobrang intelligent ng conversation. 🫶

[@joshcadelina]

This is so good!!! Very relatable!!! Hoping every week you have a new podcast!! Sending you so much loveeee 🤍

[@NicoleCordoves]

We’re back to regular programming 🫶🏼

[@energeotransformer]

Can't wait for the day that Catriona and Nicole will collaborate with Nicole Anderson. I'm an avid listener of both podcasts. Girls with substance!

[@audreycabusas8492]

I love this so much! ❤

[@beautifulnanaymikai]

Very good topic ❤ I am amazed too on how talkative both of you are. 😂 No dead air gyud 😁

[@khaymarksonza7652]

One of my favorite podcast huhu thank you cat and nicole 🥹

[@arceosante9630]

Kakatapos ko lang panoorin. and I’m a Nicole type of friend. 😍

[@NicoleCordoves]

Apirrrr!

[@SandraRivera-g8c]

Sarap ng tawa ni cat nakakahawa and Nicole reaction😂😂

[@seunsonwang901]

This is such a good timing thank you for you bothhh 🥺😭💕💕💐 keep this type of stuff going I really enjoy it .

[@CatrionaGray]

thanks for tuning in!!

[@LVChikoB]

Most hurting is when you have given beyond your means but trying to show it's not difficult (because you're willing to give a hand...), later on you'd hear from others there's no appreciation n with negative remarks pa... It's a betrayal of the trust and friendship... i chose to go away silently, and the wound isnt healed yet...

[@carrenpemapacpac5803]

This podcast really helps me a lot. I kinda relate with some of your experiences and it makes me reflect on my actions and how my views regarding friendship changes as the years pass by. Thabk you for this episode! Expecting for more interesting eps!

[@NicoleCordoves]

Glad to hear this ❤

[@charlinerancap395]

Finally got the chance to catch up!! I was listening to the podcast on my way home. I really like this episode for some reason maybe because I can relate talaga. Thank you BNC & Queen Cat kasi mas lalo ko na-appreciate yung core group ko and my best friend 🥹🥹🥰🥰

[@riotaliana]

I also have a really small cricle of friends, but I feel like I found friends in Cat and Nicole through this podcast 😊✨

[@NicoleCordoves]

Felt ❤

[@sarahspeaks1502]

Relates to Cat on being a "lazy" friend. Huhu, soo good to know that I am not alone.

[@allysonsegarra7372]

Hi @CatrionaGray and @NicoleCordoves, recently nakikinig at nanonood ako ng podcast niyo. Ang therapeutic talaga and I feel so empowered sa mga sinasabi niyo and sinishare niyo sa aming mga viewers. Thank you and sana keep making contents po🫶❤. I love the both of you and you're my inspirations po. Hoping that one day I can be a beauty queen din .

[@NicoleCordoves]

Thank you for being with us ❤

[@shempatayon6809]

Jusko dami kong tawa! High five nga, Nicole! HAHAHAHHAAHA!!! 😂😂😂✋🏼

[@conanedogawa2998]

This podcast is like a free therapy

[@jhonbenedickdoroja734]

I love you both and I really love this episode ❤ I can totally relate to Nicole when she said na sobrang alpha niya and dictator siya kasi ako din yon HAHAHA and yah through time I learned and realized to tone it down and let go talaga.

[@NicoleCordoves]

Less probs for us 🙈 hahaha

[@geraldquanico3250]

I HAVE NEVER SCREAMED THE WHOLE ONE HOUR TIME WHILE LISTENING TO A PODCAST EXCEPT THIS ONE

[@CatrionaGray]

WHY ARE WE SCREAMING hahahah

[@geraldquanico3250]

@@CatrionaGray my hypervigilance is acting up. I will send it to the mailbox.

[@geraldquanico3250]

@@CatrionaGray Email seeeeent HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@yvettejane9315]

Nicole HAHAHA nakakatawa tong part na to 39:37 😂

[@insomniac-nw7mx]

grabe they're so funny. sarap makinig sa chikahan nila.

[@LouiseAllenEspiritu]

Super relate sa topic! Honestly the feeling na "bakit hindi ako binibestfriend" question ko yun for years na, minsan iniisip ko baka may mental illness nako or siguro panget talaga yung ugali ko. 😌

[@NicoleCordoves]

Magkasama tayo sa latter, sis. Char!

[@roshcruz]

Feel you 😢

[@ChasingTheElephantInMe]

I am so done with some of my used to be friends. Those that have used me for the best of their interests in career and finances. Those that are passive aggressive and ghosts you in the meeting place. Those that gossip behind. Those that cannot reciprocate. And those that have abused and cheated a friend within the circle. The door will never open again.

[@NicoleCordoves]

Setting boundaries is self-care 🙏🏽

[@katlingatong]

I’m learning so much from your podcast, Ate Cat & Ate Nicole! 🥹 I’m always looking forward for your new episodes! 🫶🏻 The past eps have been on repeat on our TV for a month now! As a result, my boyfriend is now a fan of you both! 😅 Thanks for all the wisdom Ates! 🤍

[@NicoleCordoves]

What!! Thank you ❤❤❤

[@emjaysakura4106]

Subscribed ❤

[@NicoleCordoves]

❤

[@jasmintan2879]

I have just discovered your podcast. It’s very relatable and genuine. ❤❤ you both are so pretty. 🫶

[@trishamaelebumfacil9509]

Anticipating and always enjoying every episode… Thank you for this pragmatic wisdom ❤ Watching from New Jersey, USA

[@chasingsunset310]

I am the "Cat" in my circle. Both of my best friends can maintain their friendships with others and always talk about their problems, but I don't. I am the tamad to text and reach out lol 😂

[@Fred-s6j]

Same thing CAT! Reciprocate the same energy!

[@angelicalaspona6995]

This episode is 💯

[@BeavincentMurillo-fk6lt]

I really enjoyed This episode Growing up I used to have 5 bff But now They all Not part of my life for many reason. I can relate to Ms Catriona especially Because January baby den me I really appreciate you both Ms Nicole as well ❤ Are so entertaining to watch ❤😂

[@markbryangarcia]

One of the best eps ❤❤❤

[@NicoleCordoves]

Helloooo!!

[@karemsagun360]

Hey miss @NicoleCordove your such a wonderful soul! Thanks for being an inspiration to everyone! Even miss cat! You guys are gorgeous!!!

[@NicoleCordoves]

@@karemsagun360thank you 🥹🥹🥹

[@geraldquanico3250]

1. "You can't tell them bad news without them getting it worse. You can't tell them good news without them getting upset or trying to one up you." "Maybe narcissist tendencies...that they will always want to have the spotlight on them." "You're not yet in the place wherein you've realized your real competition is yourself." "The self-securedness is not yet there." 3. "...bringing you down when you're happy and starting to resent you when you get your life back on track." "Jealousy sometimes pop out and it's human...but once you start act on that and start to make the person feel negatively or pull them down or belittle their achievements...that's super red flag [for me]..." These dem hot points

[@geraldquanico3250]

4. "...getting angry when you're saying no to something." "In Philippines, [boundaries are] always seen as selfish." Yes!

[@keyannmarie4691]

And now i am asking myself if ileletgo ko din ba mga toxic friends ko? Hahahaha char! I can relate to this. Parang nadagdagan understanding ko. Thank you Queens! 😍😇

[@rovelynenclona1015]

I really loved this episode. :) Same na konti lang friends and would rather read and sleep than go out.

[@NicoleCordoves]

Our kind of people 🥹 haha

[@jcg_1988]

Cute ng socks ni Nicole.

[@dxmxy]

1hr came by so quickly. This podcast is literally my cocomelon 😭

[@NicoleCordoves]

I’m dedddd at cocomelon 😂

[@llwydcarandang6301]

True, I was never been the best friend

[@oliviahill966]

Really enjoyed this episode ❤️

[@seanperea2061]

Share us both of your pageant experiences... like untold stories of it... serve some teaaa

[@learuhimbaccus4137]

This friendship kwento is so true

[@yusraali615]

Learning food recepies with catriona

[@LVChikoB]

You're funny, Pastora Nicole! 😂😆😇

[@NicoleCordoves]

Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@carlbensonvlogs]

Nicole is so funny in this episode. HAHAHAH. Loved it!

[@NicoleCordoves]

Thank you 🙈 I try hahahhaa

[@carlbensonvlogs]

@@NicoleCordoves MOOOOOREEEE please. hahahah

[@lcknl8829]

GOSH! I CAN RELATE!

[@yo_andersen608]

Always watching ❤❤❤

[@jamesaaronmanarang]

Love it Cat!!❤️🇵🇭🇦🇺

[@itsmeweinism1955]

WAAAAAHHH FRESH UPLOAAAAD ANDITO NAPO SILAAAAAAA EVERYONEEEEE

[@JCDeGuia]

i love you, Queens!

[@featbuddies1623]

Pasok talaga sakin to l ol tolerate of bullshit

[@marivicgabrielakatsuka8922]

Find a friend and be a friend who knows how to admit mistake and apologize sincerely and wouldn't trade friendship for anything.

[@highland_persuasion]

Cat is such an INFJ! It really is a struggle to put in the effort in sustaining friendships because it goes against her introvert nature.

[@CatrionaGray]

I am! how did you knowww

[@highland_persuasion]

@@CatrionaGray because it takes one to know one. 🫶🏼

[@jennellenoblezada7935]

OMG fellow INFJs!!! 🙌🏼

[@Katetupas]

Cute ng socks ni Nicole 🤭

[@SenyoritaJ]

I had a “ghost” friend, then found out na she was being controlled by her partner, na she wasn’t allowed to go out with her friends…

[@ellengamboa3180]

Beautiful topic

[@rbak2679]

If kasama ako sa podcast, for sure I have so much to say!

[@NicoleCordoves]

Latag mo na yan

[@nikkareginenicolas8175]

Hi Cat and Nicole!❤

[@NicoleCordoves]

👋🏽

[@nikkareginenicolas8175]

@@NicoleCordoves more podcast please 🥺

[@dennisdebelen1084]

such a good episode, but not available on Apple podcasts? :(

[@NicoleCordoves]

Spotify only for now 😁

[@andreyvaleroso]

catriona, typical capricorn girl. I think it’s because we are born on the winter solstice. only sign with the least sun energy, and the darkest nights. hold grudges and the most competitive of all signs. “ruled by saturn, the planet of restricition and discipline, caps are often typecast as cold, judgemental killjoys, but that’s painting them with too broad a brush. to those lucky enough to earn the respect of a cappy, they are witty, loyal, and-in some cases-riotously silly”

[@prince_denss]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@nikkareginenicolas8175]

Hiiii everybody!!!

[@heymarizia]

ate nicole, whats your hair color?? perfect for morenas!!!!!!

[@NicoleCordoves]

Caramel brown 😊

[@yusraali615]

You can share with us food recepies

[@Unknown_1111-c1b]

I love you Cat.🥹

[@jericvargasofficial]

Hello Catriona gray, I hope you notice my comment, you are such an eloquent speaker...

[@ellengamboa3180]

I need your advice Nics haha

[@bingsu1727]

pls tell me your opinion if you would be wanting to cut off some dear friendships silently just bcos they were able to make time with their new friends MORE OFTEN than being able to think of you by JUST initiating to make time with you/hangout/catch-ups OR EVEN JUST DM YOU IF HOW ARE YOU AND WHEN WILL WE BE ABLE TO SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN, unless they need something. is it that shallow of a reason to cut off a friend of 10 years if you feel unimportant no matter he/she consider you as "low maintenance friend"? cos i think it's just an excuse. cos if they can make time with anybody, then why not to you? a childhood bestfriend at that.

[@GEORGINA1013]

💙💙💙

[@melinajamin1578]

I have a question po sana, how can you possibly love a person without being attached to them?

[@NicoleCordoves]

Not possible :(

[@yusraali615]

Catriona grey give us some food recepies

[@leonardpinedai2047]

i wondered why Cat and Jojo Bragais are no longer friends!

[@jpn71012]

Paano kapag inutangan ka ng isang akala mo kaibigan mo, tapos hindi nagbabayad? The feeling of being used by that person? Paano ba i-handle yun? Haha

[@NicoleCordoves]

Damn… send us a letter in Dear Cat & Nicole 🙊

[@afterdark9348]

May pinag-awayan na ba kayong dalawa? Hehe or probably misunderstanding ganyan hehe

[@NicoleCordoves]

Hmmm good question 😂

[@afterdark9348]

@@NicoleCordoves which deserves a good answer char

[@afterdark9348]

Mhie so surreal nagrereply kayo talaga huhu besties forever

[@lakwatsera17]

❤❤❤❤

[@sambarra5106]

❤

[@GeLiMay]

New subscribers here 🫶

[@NicoleCordoves]

👋🏽

[@justjake016]

Cat and nicole i want to be your friend…

[@featbuddies1623]

Im glad God remove my bestie 😅

[@NicoleCordoves]

😮

[@featbuddies1623]

@NicoleCordoves ❤️

[@prince_denss]

first comment 🥇

[@alice4055]

I love this podcast🥹 i 💯 relate to this episode so much about friends🥹🩷

[@arekopo]

✨🤸‍♂️⭐⭐⭐;

[@glenjeee]

33:26 hit me❤