Episode 104 - Join me for a look at the quilts I'm making and future plans for a project

[@mousiemakespod]

Thank you, Pene, for a really helpful episode this week! Firstly, I find it particularly helpful to be reminded of “controlling parent” when you use the little father figure and I found myself instantly relaxing when you held up the mother… it is so easy to have that little bossy voice of the controlling parent in one’s head and very helpful to be able to recognise it. Secondly, I really appreciated your little demo on sewing together the quilt-as-you-go shapes plus adjusting ones that didn’t quite match - both techniques will help my second project look much neater! ❤ I will watch with interest your newest project of creating your life story in cloth - the idea rather appeals to me, too! xx

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks Helen, So pleased you enjoyed the demo. The little things make all the difference I think. I have started with my life story in cloth! My mind says I must get up to date (a lifetimes work I think) so have let go of that CP voice and am enjoying getting started.

[@leoniecochrane3108]

I've just found you. Episode 104. I had a very controlling Mother and my Dad left when I was young. I looked after my Mum for 5 years until she died and then my only Brother died a year later. So I often struggle with my self talk. I have a quote that I love. "If you spoke to your friends the way you speak to yourself... would have any friends?" I loved your advice and I thank you. I will go back and look at all your previous videos. I'm so happy to have found you. Looking forward to getting to know you.

[@penelopeschinwag]

Welcome, so pleased you found me. I do have a playlist of the Transactional Analysis which you may find helpful. I am starting to go through it again slowly. Mine is a bit of a story - I do craft along the way and hope you enjoy my previous episodes. I used to post once a week but am doing one every two weeks now. Looking forward to getting to know you too. xx

[@peachie6560]

What a wonderful time spent with you and your husband!!!!! Just lovely!

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks so pleased and thanks for that lovely comment. xx

[@Hellen-pf7ts]

Hi Pene & Pete, what a great podcast. All of us viewers are so lucky that you share all your makes with us, that you are honest about mistakes and willing to try different options too, this is so empowering and encouraging. Crafting is such an individual thing but because you share all your makes (and sometimes your bakes too) we all benefit and learn from your experiences and calm explanations. I'm always so happy to see you and after having a good laugh with the fun of Pete & Pene desert Island discs segment feel cheery and uplifted. So thank you both very much x

[@penelopeschinwag]

So pleased, thanks for that lovely cheery comment. I haven't filmed in the kitchen for ages. Mmh, maybe soon. xx

[@julieh4816]

Love everything in your videos, you are so talented, You make me laugh when you giggle.

[@penelopeschinwag]

That's the two of us giggling then! xx

[@kater9115]

A lovely video as always - I so enjoy listening to you, it's such a treat for me to sit and watch while i'm knitting. Thank you Pene and Pete!

[@penelopeschinwag]

Wouldn't be the same without you Kate. xx

[@belindagritter1572]

I live in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Del Shannon lived in Coopersville which is maybe 10 miles down the road from us. He was a famous figure there as well as here as he lived so close by. There is an old train in Coopersville along with a train museum. In the fall they call it The Pumpkin Train and it takes the children over to Marne, Michigan which is not far but all along the way they have characters come out and lead in singing songs and a man dressed as an old fashioned train conductor come around and punch everyone’s ticket. Afterwards the children get a free pumpkin. Our granddaughter loved going on it with us. They also have Del Shannon Days in Coopersville, which are also fun with a vintage car display. Pete would love it! Lots of small town charm. Del Shannon certainly was famous here.

[@penelopeschinwag]

How marvellous, I'll tell Pete. Thanks for sharing. xx

[@priscillamcgarry5200]

Penne, the quilt as you go blocks are beautiful and watching Pete tell the story of the one handed trapeze artist was priceless. I couldn’t stop laughing. Again, Great video and thanks so much🇺🇸

[@penelopeschinwag]

It made us laugh recalling it and before recording Pete related the details and conjured up his youth again, very good for him, so thanks for listening and enjoying. I will tell him. xx

[@helendeacon7637]

Thank you Pene and Pete. This video was wonderful. Your sexing box and cardi, with buttons connected to your dad, are really lovely. I'm always much encouraged by your videos. Good to see spring has arrived where you are.💐🌹🥀🏵

[@penelopeschinwag]

Lovely that you joined me Helen. It is really hot here in the SE today. We have been out for a walk by the sea and its Tshirt weather. Who knows about tomorrow though! See you soon. xx

[@helendeacon7637]

Hi Pene, I just saw what I wrote... what I meant was 'sewing'. That's what happens hitting the keyboard in poor lighting after bedtime. Oh dear😕.. have to laugh... you call it washing machine brain😂Lovely you had Tshirt weather there by the sea. ❤@@penelopeschinwag

[@penelopeschinwag]

I read it as sewing, so that's alright. Of course I have to laugh too. xx

[@heatherharris6916]

Well x ❤ thank you for sharing x lovely chat & crafting x

[@penelopeschinwag]

Exactly!

[@Tricia123B]

Your channel content is delightful. Thank you 😊

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks for joining me and sharing. xx

[@pamelahall282]

Hi penny, lovely to see all the things that you make,beautiful as usual,always great to see you talking with Pete,and lovely to see him looking well. All the best from pamela hall

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks, he is doing amazingly well, so determined. See you soon. xx

[@marthahighland8391]

Loved your discussion at the beginning of your video! It reminds me of my childhood. We are all grown up and have every right to do as we please. Great you tube channel!!!

[@penelopeschinwag]

That's it. I want to and I can! Thanks for watching

[@lindaeccles1161]

Good to see you again Pene, lovely video again. I can't keep up, when you show some knitting I want to do it. When you show your beautiful quilting, I want to do it. It's all so lovely thank you. Glad Pete is recovering well, he tells a good tale. See you next time.

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks Linda, I'm glad you're inspired. xx

[@raewynmckinley-kb4jg]

Loved your chinwag today...always. You had so many interesting thoughts and ideas. Beautiful quilts. So good for us to bring our thoughts and ideas out and share, release the mind.❤

[@penelopeschinwag]

Yes, sometimes we hold back, and when we do share its so encouraging as we find we're not alone in our thoughts. Thanks for sharing with me. xx

[@sandrachilds7229]

Pene, I am looking forward to hearing your life story and having it manifest in fabric. The beginning already a fantastic start. " Run Run Run Away , one of my favorites in the early sixties...a good one. Stories, quilt lesson green nanny with dad's buttons all in one episode. Your camera work of the sea a breath taking ending to a great episode. Oh, Pete looks great.

[@penelopeschinwag]

Aw thanks Sandra, so encouraging to hear that. It was lovely to take that walk in the sunshine together. xx

[@joyofthings]

I love all of your crafts, Thankyou for showing us how you join up your quilt.The quilt that you have made your daughter is such lovely colours.Best wishes to you and your loved ones.xxx🐝🐝

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thank you so much! And to you. xx

[@helenogorman9467]

Fabulous as always. I'm running out of ways to say your videos are so nice. Well done and thank you.

[@penelopeschinwag]

I'm running out of ways to say 'thank you'! Thanks xx

[@margaretgodfery7038]

I’m a bit late watching this one. Just wanted to say how much I enjoyed it. Thank you x

[@penelopeschinwag]

Never too late! Thanks for sharing. xx

[@carolynlambert6989]

G’day Pene, oooopsy I’m too impatient, forgot to say it was so good to see Pete looking much improved and seeing him smile & laughing reminiscing about his younger days. My dear mate loves Del Shannon ‘Runaway’ as I’ve said before him & Pete are same age. They shared the best of times even if from opposite sides of the world. Thank him from us. 🇦🇺

[@penelopeschinwag]

Will do, thanks for sharing, I'll pass the message on. xx

[@Auntie7024]

I just came upon your video today. I quite enjoyed watching. Thank you for sharing your lovely work and inspirational words. Your chat with Pete was fun to listen to. I remember Del Shannon and his song, Runaway. I love your little box for your iary supplies. It is so cute. Have a wonderful day. ❤😊

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thank you so much, lovely you found me and enjoyed the episode. I do have a playlist should you wish to pass the time with me. If not see you in a couple of weeks. xx

[@emptyspools]

Thank you, Pene. I so appreciate all that you share with us. You made my day...again!

[@penelopeschinwag]

And you've made mine!

[@kristinvoss9857]

So good to see you looking so well, and Pete looking stronger. Your accomplish so much with your knitting and quilting and everything is so pretty. Love the little sewing caddy with your things in it for your tags. I think that is what you said was in here. I've not heard of King Tut thread but the name is fun. I'm sure your channel will grow steadily as subscribers pass the word to check it out. I think your channel is quite special and different than most because you have all sorts of regular parts to share all the different parts of your life. I feel like I am with a friend - excuse the familiarity - and more than quilting or knitting how-to's I need a friend. I think you are rather like Mr. Rogers - only for a bit older people. Anyway, as always I love the view out your window. The sea is so exciting! Everything in your video is just right - like you put in just the right amount of ingredients and the recipe is delicious. Can't wait for next time. Stay well!

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks so much for all you've said. So happy to share with you. The sun shone but it's raining hard today. See you soon. xx

[@alisonbarrow5711]

Pene all of those years and experience in counselling and all of your years in crafting have come together in the most wonderful way.Someone who encourages and who is authentic.I have some beautiful scraps of fabric given to me by a friend I have never made a quilt and would love to make one for my beloved grandson but I realise my controlling parent is sticking their oar in! Thankyou for the insight 😅

[@penelopeschinwag]

You're welcome, what is the worst that can happen. Ask yourself what you want and listen to Adult. Your grandson will love it. xx

[@spaknits]

Wow Pete, the Habitation throw is gorgeous and such a great pattern for that wool. Your quilting is making me want to get going but I need to make a couple of bags first. Pete made me giggle. The antics on the pier sounded a bit like a Buster Keaton film from the olden days but in colour 😊

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks Anne, the wool has made a lovely blanket, I'm so pleased with it. Speak soon about the quilt. The Isle of Wight visits were special in Pete's life and there are many funny stories. Did him good to recall them. Thanks for joining me. xx

[@marciastreeter5092]

You can never carry on for too long...this was wonderful!! You look so well, as does Pete, and your gorgeous window view cheers me here in Michigan, where winter is just packing up to leave. It appears the daffodils will open tomorrow...finally. I know exactly why you are so well-loved. Your videos compare very well to others, and they rise to the top of my list because you are so relatable, peaceful, and cheerful! I saved it for late evening so I could sit and knit and listen tucking into bed. Nite-nite.

[@penelopeschinwag]

What a lovely vision for me this morning - you sitting and knitting and listening. Hope you slept well. xx

[@lornaking1825]

Beautiful quilts, stories and memories recalled. Thanks for sharing x

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks for joining me xx

[@zena-knittingbeans7973]

I've got some Helen Stewart patterns in my ravelry library so having seen all your beautiful knits will need to CO something soon. 😁

[@penelopeschinwag]

Good show, enjoy your cast on. xx

[@Making_Through_the_Seasons]

Now that I’ve finished watching I’ve come to say how lovely and special your quilt label is!! And your quilt as you go is coming along so nicely. Thanks for sharing with us.

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks so much. I think Nicola will love it. xx

[@daleodberg6714]

Very beautiful 🌺

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks xx

[@Paulabee348]

Beautiful quilts ❤

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks Paula. xx

[@sarahlloyd4069]

Thank you for a lovely vlog Penne 😊you are so clever and Pete’s story was hilarious, it’s so good to see his health improving. Looking forward to your next chapter ❤

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks for the compliment Sarah and yes it's such a relief that Pete can get about now and is feeling brighter. See you soon. xx

[@carolynlambert6989]

G’day Pene, you know you’re wrong……. There are many here eager to hear what you have to say and feel a little 😮 when you’re episode comes to an end 😊 so looking fwd to hearing the next pages of ‘your story’ 🌷🇦🇺

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks for that reassurance!

[@carolschobs2621]

I just had to jump on and comment on your video. I am slowly catching up with your other videos and currently on number 60 so I have a way to go yet but….. I’m finding myself not rushing through each one to catch-up but to enjoy each and every one of them because a lot of your content relates to me growing up although I am a little younger in years. So thank you I really enjoy the content and all you do. Best wishes Carol ❤

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks Carol, I appreciate your comments so much. xx

[@jacquelineknox1977]

Penelope, you should never underestimate your abilities. Yours quilts are gorgeous and perfect in my eyes. I am happy with my quilts and projects but they are quite simple I know. I love your quilt as you go. It is coming together so very well. Thank you for sharing so much of your life with us. Take care xx

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks. Simple things are often the best! I'm pleased with the QAYG too. See you soon. xx

[@jacquelineknox1977]

@@penelopeschinwag ❤

[@phylliswilliamstn]

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[@traceybeale1761]

Hi Pene Thanks for sharing your beautiful quilts❤and I’m looking forward to seeing your next project of your story in stitching.

[@penelopeschinwag]

So am I! We'll see what transpires. xx

[@tracyallison3821]

Oh that was wonderful, ive just found you through recommendation from Helen of mousiemakes podcast. She was doing quilt as you go on her little campervan holiday, and when i asked about it she recommended episode 96 where you show us how its done. You've inspired me to buy a hexi template ( not sure where yet) and give it a go, your quilts are so beautiful, I'm also fancying making a habitation blanket ive had the pattern for a long time. Thank you for a lovely relaxing podcast and hearing Pete's story im pleased he is doing well. Best wishes Tracy Xx

[@penelopeschinwag]

How lovely of Helen to send you here. Enjoy my videos and lovely to hear from you too. xx

[@angelaholcroft4515]

Dear Pene, I could listen to you all day. The counselling insight is so interesting. I can relate to what you said at the beginning. All your quilting, knitting, and stitching is beautiful. I really hope we can meet up in the future. Andrew has applied to the autumn unravel in September. He's getting lots of new yarns ready for wonderwool. Can't wait to hear your story and see the fabric interpretation. The book looks gorgeous. I do like a craft book. If I'm not feeling great, I spend time looking through them. I'm glad Pete is improving and getting stronger. I remember my dad having the Del Shannon record. We've got a nice day tomorrow. It's little grandsons birthday. He's so excited to be 5. Hope you're well, take care. Xx

[@penelopeschinwag]

I hope so too Angela. I would love to have come to wonderwool but not possible at the moment. I'm looking forward to the interpretation into fabric of my story too! We'll see. The book is so interesting and inspiring, a bit different. Enjoy spending time with your little grandson. So special. xx

[@debbiestuckey6599]

So many lovely things in this video! Thank you for sharing! ❤

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks Debbie, I'm glad you enjoyed it. xx

[@carolyncampbell6149]

What a delight that was. Thankyou so much for showing us the beautiful quilts and the lovely little sewing box. I’m very new so I don’t know much about your story but I take it Pete has been very unwell. I enjoyed his section a lot. I’m looking forward to next time already! Take care both. Xx

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks Carolyn, the videos are in a playlist if you fancy some more viewing! Yes, Pete all of a sudden became unwell at the beginning of November and spent December and January in hospital with Sepsis and resulting complications. He is doing well, slow progress but I thought doing Desert Island Discs might help him connect. I'll pass your message on to him. See you soon. xx

[@Itsreallyme571]

Big hello from Belfast Northern Ireland 👋..have watched for years..love your approach to life Penelope 😀 👍

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thank you for watching for years! Amazing. Northern Ireland is beautiful I hear. xx

[@michellehenderson2773]

Hi Penne your quilts are all gorgeous ❤ I love your Habitation throw I'm knitting my 3rd one now lol I've made a pastel one for my mum and an Autumn colourway for my friend. Your husband is lovely I grew up listening to all the music my mum and dad where big rock n roll fans to. Lovely video have a lovely week x

[@penelopeschinwag]

Isn't the Habitation throw such a wonderful knit. You finish one and have to resist casting on another straight away! I'll pass the message to Pete and glad you can recall the music. xx

[@mitzikolody4569]

Hi Penelope 👋 i love seeing all your crafts you are so creative such lovely ideas may i say you and your husband Pete are such a nice couple an always so cheerful 😊 ❤x

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks for watching, I'll pass the message on to Pete xx

[@BelleandStitch]

What a lovely catch-up penny! I have that negative controller in my head every day, and I wish he would go away. I love to watch you quilt, and I wish I knew how and I could listen to you read all day, 😘

[@penelopeschinwag]

I was thinking of showing how to make a quilt right from the beginning - we'll see! If you would be interested. Say 'how do I feel, what do I want, what do I need. Answering those questions gets you in touch with Adult, the here and now and lets go of Controlling Parent. See how you get on with that. xx

[@Making_Through_the_Seasons]

I know just what you mean about the feelings of inadequacy. I just started my KZbin channel and seeing that almost no one is watching makes me feel the same way. Others are doing it better. I’m not good enough… I keep telling myself I’m doing it because I enjoy it but gee it’s hard with that little voice in your head.

[@penelopeschinwag]

Yes, they are thoughts feelings and behaviours that we Learned in Childhood. Access Adult. How do you feel, what do you want, what do you need. Also share with friends. I started my KZbin channel during lockdown for a small group of friends. They wanted me to carry on after lockdown and that's when I made them public! Quite scary and it was with their encouragement I kept going. Still the same today! Sharing helps. Thanks for watching. xx

[@melodyanderson3694]

Just found your lovely vlog , so entertaining and enlightening. I would love to know what the song was playing at the end. Take care and God Bless and keep listening to YOURSELF

[@penelopeschinwag]

There's a new day - Staffan Carlen is the music. I love it. Thanks for sharing. xx

[@irenejackson9468]

You are fun to watch and so cute Loved it

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks, happy you enjoyed it. xx

[@emmawalker6585]

Hi I’ve always enjoyed your videos makes me smile and happy espcially when I get a bit down, I’m a carer for my elderly parents so it’s always nice to watch a lovely calming video, it came up on KZbin how I found you. I remember your lovely mum to. You make beautiful things to love your bags and quilts I can’t sew but I do knit and crochet in between caring thank you I’m in Lincolnshire xx

[@penelopeschinwag]

Best wishes to you in Lincolnshire. Caring for someone is so special but making time to be quiet and knit or crochet is so good too. Thanks for joining me in your quiet times. xx

[@emmawalker6585]

@@penelopeschinwag your very welcome, thank you I do my best for them xx

[@wendystock7022]

Beautifully done👍 watching here in Ontario Canada where its been snowing again for 2 days

[@penelopeschinwag]

Ah snowing again and it's supposed to be spring. It's raining raining raining here. Thanks for joining me Wendy.

[@rosemarywinter1840]

Missed you penny xxxx

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks Rosemary.xx

[@luannianke8110]

You just showed up in my feed this week. I find I am enjoying several YTers from the UK and other EU countries. I think your videos are very well done. You have quite an easy manner about you in front of the camera as if you have done it a long while. All your projects are quite lovely and I enjoy your tips. I thought I subscribed at the last vid I commented on but resubscribed just now. MO, USA

[@penelopeschinwag]

So pleased you enjoyed the video and you enjoy my tips, thanks for joining me all the way from Missouri.

[@GagaKnits]

Such a variety of projects for us to watch this week. Your quilting really is beautiful. The little sewing bag was extremely cute. Lovely to see Pete as always. I'm lucky enough to live a couple of miles from the sea, but you have it virtually on the doorstep. X

[@penelopeschinwag]

Hi Anita, I love the little sewing bag, it was enjoyable to make. The sea is on the doorstep and has played a part in helping Pete get back on his feet. I would love rivers and hills!

[@GagaKnits]

@@penelopeschinwag I have rivers and hills too. You'll have to come to Wales. Xxx

[@penelopeschinwag]

Sonia, my friend, lives in Wales and I haven't seen her for ages. I was going to visit and then Pete was ill. But I will hopefully soon, if I can. xx

[@marty9011]

I do a bit of patchwork, nothing special. I went to a big Quilt Show once & came home very discouraged having seen amazing work. I carried on though because what I do makes me happy. I make hexagon paper-pieced cot quilts & the recipients seem to appreciate them. I just love working with colour & fabric. Your work is rather good I think so carry on ! When it comes to buttons for knitwear, I usually use contrasting rather than matching ones. Life's too short to match everything.

[@penelopeschinwag]

How lovely to make cot quilts. I'm sure everyone treasures them. Working with colour and fabric certainly is good for us and you're right - everything matching, life is too short!

[@sleepdprived4193]

As always, such lovely content. Can I ask how you'd repair a giant hole 4x5" in the center front panel of a child's quilt where you no longer have the 24 year old fabric? I need to repair one, and my dear child wants the "fix" to match and not look "patched".

[@penelopeschinwag]

I haven't talked about Child yet. Just introduced Parent and Adult of the PAC model. I will move on to Child (Although I do have a playlist of Transactional Analysis from when I spoke about it before). Child is saying 'I want it the same, I loved it". Adult will say 'I feel the same, the memories need to be conjured up but unfortunately its not possible'. What shall we do instead! xx

[@carolschobs2621]

I hope you don’t mind me letting you and Pete know that in this weeks Herts Advertiser (local weekly paper of Hertfordshire) there is a full page spread about Potters Bar which I saw today and thought of you both. You can view it online if you wanted to read it. Trusting it’s okay to post this on here. Carol

[@penelopeschinwag]

Don't mind at all. Will tell Pete. xx

[@cocoandflora6542]

So many beautiful and inspiring makes Pene, I’m so glad you didn’t listen to that pesky voice that troubles us all from time to time…we’d be missing out if your lovely creative voice wasn’t heard xx

[@penelopeschinwag]

Thanks, yes, it's a bit of a fight sometimes!

[@jennylow2598]

Hi Pene I need some advice please I am knitting the ears for the zebra and it has similar ears to the ones you have made for a few of your animals the ones with a different colour inside like on your pig, did you use the intarsia method to do them or just carry the yarn over. I hope this makes sense to you.😊

[@penelopeschinwag]

I'll have a look.

[@penelopeschinwag]

Yes, she says use the intarsia method which for me I think was twisting the colour around the first stitch to hold in place then twist at the end before the next colour. Hope that makes sense

[@jennylow2598]

Thank you so much for that I'm new to intarsia but I'm learning especially with the patterns in the book.xx

[@penelopeschinwag]

It'll be yours. Special. xx