EPISODE 22 | HOLIDAY BLUES , KEKE PALMER, DIDDY & CASSIE IN THE NEWS

In episode 22 of "Behind the Likes," hosts Winter and Chy delve into the common challenges of dealing with family drama during the holidays. They offer practical tips and personal anecdotes to help listeners navigate tense family dynamics and maintain their peace of mind during festive gatherings. In addition to sharing insights on family dynamics, the hosts discuss the recent Diddy and Cassie scandal, offering their perspectives on the controversy and delving into the dynamics of high-profile relationships. The episode provides a blend of insightful advice and engaging commentary on relevant pop culture topics.
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[@miriamsegura4788]

Damn Winter looked so uncomfortable the moment the Diddy situation was brought up. Like body language tense, distracting herself w the vape.. I’m sad for her I knew she wasn’t gonna say much about this 😞

[@miriamsegura4788]

However I LOVE how Chy kept her accountable and brought it up regardless

[@abbyz13]

it’s so weird when women care more about themselves and their reputation than other women…like for why. speak your truth

[@thelauramariej]

@@abbyz13I think it’s the fear of being attacked for something sensitive to them

[@curlyerika1863]

⁠@@abbyz13that’s exactly what I thought of her because she’s real quiet about her business being out there but she was just outting ice spice 😂 and got mad when ice told her to get off dick

[@Beautifybymya]

It’s very triggering for her and I understand that man is something else. He is scary to deal with

[@niecybaybiee]

Wowww I never seen Winter so quiet as she was about the Diddy topic, I wish she would’ve shared more tbh, more people need to come out about the horrible things this man has done! But winter seemed really scared about the subject interesting….

[@GS-up3hc]

They are a scary family read her books

[@libra_venus]

I agree but I can also understand she is protecting herself and probably her friendship with Justin since she does speak highly of him.

[@desssw]

Idk she did say his dad (Diddy) did make her get an abortion when she almost had a kid with Justin but hey maybe she just felt she had nothing to say about that topic.

[@moonmarie123]

@@GS-up3hcwhat else did she say besides the abortion

[@kaoris3xual]

seemed enabling towards the end

[@charnetape7826]

I love Chy and how she carries herself during these conversations. She’s very rational and has a good way of giving her input without making it about herself. She seems very down to earth and relatable.

[@RY_2023_]

Thank you Chy for keeping it real with the Diddy situation and free 🇵🇸

[@dayceemehernandez6039]

I will never get over winters goofy voice mimicking people 😩😭😂😂😂😂😂

[@thelambswife]

No but frrrrr 😂

[@CocoCherie428]

PROPS TO CHY FOR BEING REAL ALWAYS! You honestly keep this pod going 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@hahlahi]

Lmfao they BOTH keep this podcast going TF!

[@santaanaluna4563]

Can we just appreciate the talent of these two ladies to hold a conversation without awkward pauses and boring subjects… 👏🏼👏🏼. They might not have a degree in journalism but we could never tell that! They are very good at this!… ❤

[@karan-sc]

Chy is looking amazing this episode

[@HaiValPal]

Chy, i really feel like I see your soul. I know you're going through a time right now but you really speak with grace. I feel that you embody the spirit of giving and the goodness that you give out will come back to you. It's important to surround yourself with and feel good about yourself! You look gorgeous and I know you will get what you deserve in the end.

[@letsdolife7706]

How do you relate to someone without somewhat bringing it back to yourself? I’m so in love with this podcast. Keep it up!

[@xbri96]

i like that chy brought up seasonal depression and how the holidays affect others. i never cared for the holidays because i lost my mom back in ‘04 and my dad recently in april. i just don’t see the point in celebrating anything anymore. thank you for bringing this up.

[@Maetaaaaaa]

I’m so sorry you had to go through that, I can’t imagine losing both parents. You’re so strong, cliche to say but it’s true!! I hope you take time to just be gentle with yourself and do some feel good things for yourself 🙏🏽🫶🏼 you’re not alone girlie 🦋

[@xbri96]

@@Maetaaaaaa thank you so much🥺🤍 i appreciate that a ton

[@stacie6134]

I'm sorry for your loss....ever since my dad passed, holidays haven't felt the same....especially since his birthday was Christmas...

[@xbri96]

@@stacie6134 i’m so sorry for your loss too. it’s not easy dealing with this especially during the holidays. hold your head high, we got this!🤍 i’m sending you love and strength through these times🤍

[@memento4183]

I’m sorry for your loss mama💗 I’m always severely alone during the holidays so I felt this.

[@AlexisGarza-ry4ez]

Winter played her cards very very smart not speaking on the diddy situation.

[@jessicamcdaniels2337]

Girl!!!! When I heard about the Cassie situation I immediately thought “omg I wonder what Winter’s commentary is gonna be 🤔” lol

[@heymonee]

girl i came here to avoid my seasonal depression & yall got me crying.

[@Vgenv]

Forreal. I came here to not think about it

[@teethurs9770]

Same 😢😫

[@destinyrodriguez7974]

Extremely disappointed in Winter… absolutely sounds like she’s defending Diddy. Way to go Chy! For speaking up and standing up for women!!!

[@dajanaybrewer6437]

This

[@brooke9344]

Use your context clues babes

[@curlyerika1863]

right but she’s just like any other person that tries cover up for these people

[@Mellymvriee]

Exactly

[@hurleylee5754]

Winter knows how the industry is so she chooses to be quiet. She’s keeping her peace by staying quiet bc you never know what they are capable of. Winter also doesn’t have that big of a platform where she can make impact. Also meaning if things were to happen to her, investigations on what happened can just be brushed especially when someone has power and money.

[@drzashleyx3]

I think Wintrr was definitely walking on eggshells when speaking on Diddy which was disappointing bc she clearly has more to say and does not want to say it

[@nicolecarrillo6755]

Agreed. Majority of her fans and listeners know abt her relationship with diddy’s son. As she has wrote abt it in her book. But when the topic got brought up the majority of her statement was shifted towards Justin when he isn’t the topic… it was quite honestly painful to hear. I feel like they should’ve just not have brought it up at all if that was going to be 1/2 the view point given that it is two host.

[@nicolecarrillo6755]

And the part abt bringing up his kids… like wtf do his kids have to do with the trauma that Cassie went through??

[@Expir3dnutt]

Y’all giving sisters different dads with the hair and matching fits loll

[@kennethiavail1719]

Yasss Winter!! Congrats on the new boo. I really hope this leads to marriage and all the desires you hold.

[@fernym6091]

sending ❤ to Chy I can see she looks sad, hopefully she feels better and soon she will see the light.

[@meldelirious]

From Winter's body language and discomfort it looks like she's bound by a gag order or NDA. I feel so bad for her.

[@samanthasamanthaaa]

Clearly we can read the room, winter does think those things are true. Everybody does. Diddy is a evil man with power/money, that’s it that’s all. glad Cassie came out and spoke her truth, god bless her.

[@moonmarie123]

She lost me at she doesn’t think he’s a person and people make mistakes…

[@Justcallmequi]

Imma need Winter to read that damn lawsuit through and through bc the way that shit was settled in less than a week. YES Diddy is a bad person. I understand she’s close with Justin but that doesn’t mean she knows Diddy. Justin is just gon have to be mad. Even if she just say “if it is true then here’s my opinion on it” would’ve sufficed

[@beeyelo]

winter, i love your transparency today. you had a lot of positive things to say during this episode. you were super optimistic and cheerful. i love this for you!

[@rachela.5981]

This is probably the best podcast I’ve ever seen/heard fr. You know why? Cause it’s so natural and you can tell they are interested in what they’re talking about. It’s not by force ooo!

[@randomsthingsandstuff9285]

Hey y'all! I was hoping Winter would speak on the Diddy situation. I was wondering if you ever met him and if you ever saw some shady stuff. Girl, I'm nosey.

[@angieg2595]

If you read winters first book, she talks about a man that sounds just like diddy and he is disgusting!

[@sarhacisse8160]

I think he made her get an abortion

[@JazmineDotCom]

You just must’ve not read her first book 🤭

[@icypiscesbri]

She def met him …. She dated his son off and on for a long time and if I remember the story correctly he was the one who told her to get her abortion . She knows some stuff for sure

[@Seven_santana]

@@icypiscesbrimhm, and winter has mentioned Justin on here a few times, In the earlier episodes. Didn’t he have one of his “girlfriends” also have an abortion years ago? Diddy is a dirt ball.

[@Gabiieaohco]

Winter didn’t wanna talk about the diddy situation cause she doesn’t wanna muddy her relationship with Justin end of story would’ve been nice to hear her be more outspoken like chy was

[@01alanthony]

This episode proved how much of a D rider Winter is. I thought it was corny of her to say Diddy wasn’t a bad person when he’s literally a demon. And has been outed so many times. I think she’s a clout chaser and I don’t even think Justin was checking for her like she says otherwise he would still be with her. She hops around a lot in the industry so I’m sure he didn’t take her serious as she’s making it out to be. Just my opinion on it. I thought her going through DV herself she would have had more input on Cassie’s situation and sympathy. Like, you ain’t have to expose their business but your take on the situation and sympathy would have been nice. Any way Chy thanks for keeping it 💯 always and please keep being yourself and never letting the “fame” get to you. Lastly…….Chy lol your take on ghosting people made me chuckle a little because gurl. Didn’t you ghost Winter when y’all fell out? Lol all love bye!

[@curlyerika1863]

winter showed her true colors fr

[@jasminelarinet]

I personally like the way Winter talks about herself. Tbh, most of the topics are big news ( meaning I know the details) so I’m here for their collective opinion and context (aka their stories or experiences) give that perspective. This is exactly how I talk with my bestfrannd so I understand the flow. With every episode, Chy and Winter are putting out some authentic and personal context🤍

[@RaeDaisy]

Puff wasn’t thinking about his kids when he was knocking folks upside they head!

[@adriannanickles2508]

The fact I been saving this since Wednesday to watch today while im getting induced ugh it was hard not to watch before then but I needed something to pass the time in labor and I love my girls big winny and chy chy

[@melissa-fv6cr]

Congratulations on the baby

[@adriannanickles2508]

@@melissa-fv6cr thank u

[@jordynelal]

Wow I can’t believe I missed the signs in this episode regarding Chy’s breakup. I love you Chy, you got this 💕.

[@dirtyicontarot]

I’m glad winter finally found a soulmate in chy

[@evelynochoa7381]

I completely felt winter when she says “ she didn’t want to be around death “

[@britthall75]

It's not an interview it's a conversation and it's not bring it back to one person it's relating to others experiences and making it known so they're more comfortable talking about thing & feel understood. It helps the chat flow...duh. I think yall are killin it, I literally look forward to a new episode each week and this is the ONLY pod I watch! Keep doing yall cause it's working!!❤

[@showoftime3]

I’m from Htown, and this was by far my fav ep. I love to hear the real of the ish that be going on in Hollywood, it’s the behind closed doors info that people who aren’t from cali or know the culture need to know so they can stop chasing the something that’s not all what it seems all the time, thank you winter from sharing something so private you have ur fans support no judgement and u could be saving someone’s life by bonding with us thru speaking about ur experiences 🙏🙏💖

[@dacianakai9533]

The “we’re fucking brothers” part lmao yesssss I love the dynamic between y’all and I am here to staaaaaay

[@1.ghostqueen.1]

Is Winter saying that power and money excuses horrendous acts? And there’s just naturally “darkness” around it? Girl please are you really gonna defend that behavior bc of fame and money? Tons of ain’t shit dudes doing the same shit out here to these girls, without a dime to their name. It’s never okay, it should never be excused.

[@Yo-sj2fp]

Agree

[@emilymadsen628]

This is my first Thanksgiving without my dad and my mamaw. They passed away 3 months apart, and my mom tried to organize something. My siblings decided last night that they couldn't come at the last minute. Foods already made, table settings are out, and its frustrating that they're doing this. But I've learned i have to accept that its not my job to chase them so they come see our mom. But im making a pie right now and I got all this food ready and more to cook. So im gonna cook it anyways for my mom and we can have a low key happy Thanksgiving without others trying to make the day about them alone. We can celebrate my dads life and my beautiful mamaw, and if someone else decides that they want to join us, they can. I'll welcome them with open arms because this day isn't about me. I hope everyone has a Happy Thanksgiving and for those that dont celebrate i hope they have a really great day ❤❤❤

[@bafeecolnoe6950]

So disappointed in Winter. Diddy has kids, but Cassie was someone’s kid too!!! She was only 19 going through this shit! She was a young woman and robbed of her 20’s. He didn’t think about her family why should we think about his kids? They need to know the truth about their father.

[@Mazanikay]

Exactly! People be so “pro women” under CONDITIONAL TERMS. I have supported Winter for yearsss! Shit is corny as hell.

[@kentaylor5769]

chy looks AMAZING! love the hair. sis is glowing.

[@kiaraa1692]

Chy be like I’m not gonna talk about it and then starts talking about it and winter face is so funny LMAO.

[@Bexilucy]

i look forward to this every week. love both of your energies. i love the episodes with just you both so much! very inspirational. love from london

[@AariannaZaragosa]

Dang winter didn't speak on the Cassie and Diddy situation. Because she still wants Justin and hopes to one day be apart of the family. I understand, though. Maybe one day she will realize she doesn't need him to be happy. Sucks, because I was really looking forward to what she had to say about the situation.

[@MD19853]

Or maybe she’s scared..

[@AariannaZaragosa]

@@MD19853 or maybe it's just my opinion...

[@deec3741]

It’s Winters old lady voice that always gets me 🤣🤣

[@EBlueTX]

Def want to hear winters opinion. But I understand that she would not want to bash Justin’s family plus it’s a possibility she was made to sign an NDA. But I would love to hear what she thinks . I always thought Diddy gave strange vibes and he has a thing for young girls. He’s an entitled trick so wouldn’t put it past him .

[@elenam3798]

Love your taking the initiative to bring your family together Winter! It’s beautiful, tomorrow is never promised. Good for you . Blessings to both ladies love you girls!!

[@muaahlexi]

One of the realist popcasts y’all have done! I’ve seen such growth in this podcasts, y’all are doing the damn thing!!!!! Makes me so happy to see. Wish y’all the best & happy holidays ✨❤️

[@NickiNinetySeven]

Can’t get enough of this pod 🔥 love how you guys touched on family topics especially since the holiday is here and also adding in like “ hot topics” with diddy ! Wintrr def knows but sometimes saying nothing is better then saying anything at all !

[@allisonjohnson3523]

No but on a very serious note im proud of you winter, as a toxic gal myself its so mature of you to try and be the best you for your person and get out of negtive habits. Good girlfriend looks sooo good on you no shade❤❤❤❤

[@Gmgm9966]

I honestly love it all ! The way y’all are doing the podcast it’s very raw and don’t feel forced or fake don’t change !

[@liliybugg1153]

So protect the abuser when he has children?! Ok got it 😒🤦‍♀️ Winter your reason to no speak or comment speaks volumes as well.

[@alyssamorales8413]

I don’t like how winter acts like she couldn’t speak on the situation, knowing the type of stuff she’s been through in her past with ex’s that have may have abused her like she’s spoken about. I feel like she would def have a lot more to say had she not personally known diddy.

[@user-kl4er6jm1q]

I’ve never related to a podcast more! I love tuning into you all. Everything you all share is so relatable and spot on to what I’m going through which is so crazy. I really admire you two beautiful lovely smart women. Would love to see you all podcast live on tour 🥹 love you all and thank you❤

[@Juan-fy6fc]

Chy that hair looks so good on u u are shining this episode no cap❤

[@sharyanndelacruz1763]

I’ve never missed a podcast! 💕 Love y’all, sending you both blessings & happy holidays ✨

[@anthonylopez7079]

i absolutely love this,you women really do understand . you talk about stuff that other people are scared to talk about❤

[@elizabethkruse8947]

I respect that you have loyalty with diddy's son and since you know him in real life its difficult to speak on but I really encourage you to read that lawsuit in its entirety because diddy is a monster and he will probably be going down very soon and its not all about the money! If it was just for money she wouldnt have went public with her information! Cassie wanted her truth to be told and sacrificed the money she was offered to NOT go public, to take less and be able to tell her story. The allegations in that lawsuit are hardly allegations because that poor woman was only able to put what she had receipts for in it. Please don't support Diddy and be a girl's girl!

[@aAngel93]

I've said it before and I'll say it again I love the both of y'all! I love getting to see personal sides to the both of you! Keep shining 💜

[@danielacoronado1723]

Winter is hilarious 😭😭 got me cackling kicking my feet up 🤣

[@CedesJ-]

I completely understand winter not wanting to speak on that situation given her relationship with the family, i get it…

[@lmfaoojenn8319]

What’s the relationship between them ?

[@ceciliabonds]

Dated his son Justin a for a while

[@christianobando1]

Y'all are my FAVESSSSSS I love this podcast

[@crystalsalinas2453]

I love y’all! Look forward to the podcast always. ❤

[@bree9777]

Y’all are gorgeous but man i wanna slick that hair in the back for chy so bad 😂

[@ChyFontenette]

RIGHT omg me too

[@Cuteasarosa]

Winter is such a Taurus! Lol I’m the same way. Always relating to myself and finishing ppls sentences. So strong and outspoken lol I love y’all.

[@aziboalien]

yessss lol when she gets called out for something i'm always like she's just being a taurus frfr

[@curlyerika1863]

it just doesn’t look good on chy lol

[@jxtyra6167]

You guys are great podcasters!! ☺️☺️ Like y’all personalities and the natural convo!!

[@Youth22873]

I'm not gonna lie, when I heard about the BSimone and her friend situation, I immediately thought of you to. Wishing nothing but love between y'all's friendship

[@Rich-94]

What situation?

[@jchalice3229]

Winter, you look so good this episode ❤🎉

[@vivanhaze]

Happy thanksgiving! Thankful for Behind The Likes 🥰

[@teesceeo]

Maybe Diddy, the parent, the father, should had worry about what his kids are going to think about him and his actions, it's not Cassies or people talking about it job to protect his kids.

[@kluxe2222]

Those kids are going to learn who their father is. This is the fall of Diddy era! 🤷🏽‍♀️ Pray for those kids.

[@AariannaZaragosa]

She's too worried tryna protect a family. She hopes to be apart of one day, sad.

[@kaebrix5166]

My favorite episodes are when its just yall 2 .. and that episode with Rhythm 🤣🤣

[@chikanojuarez816]

I miss both of you hi chy

[@vee22354]

Winter just be so real with it lol 😂 “I didn’t graduate highschool” 😂😂

[@allisavalencia7351]

HAHAHAHAHAHAH y’all leave chy alone she is not homophobic she just be feeling comfortable enough to speak her opinions openly that’s why I love this podcast because winter and her be given the truth there’s no fakeness here, they just say what comes to their head and I fuck with that heavy

[@JMJM-co1fi]

New subscriber here 🫶🏽 Started following after Jaiden’s interview. I really enjoyed it and I really liked the questions and how non-biased you 2 were.

[@Jamjarzzz]

Yes!! Free palestine! Thank you for speaking up!!!

[@xoxo3234]

Thank you both for speaking on this even if it’s not a lot but any media coverage or speaking on this matter means a lot to our Palestinian brother and sisters and to clarify what winter was talking about regarding the “watermelon filter” more than 6 millions plus ppl used it and all the money is going to be donated to Gaza

[@nourababy]

Wow, I am in tears!!! Thank you so much for standing with Palestine. I love this podcast and appreciate you both so much for standing on some real business ❤️❤️

[@Respectfully_presistent]

Love all the topics, chy makes me laugh every time just because of her southern personality and my thoughts goes to winter for being strong and standing her ground.

[@thegotwos]

This the best ive seen chy look yet! She glowin❤️ winter too!

[@thabrichanel]

Yesss Chardonnay is my go to drink, getting sum today! & haven’t watched the full thing yet but it’s very professional of Winter to talk abt the Diddy situation, I’m tuned in 🥂

[@thabrichanel]

Update: halfway thru the vid and I got my drank hehe, happy Thanksgiving 🦃🍽 🍁

[@DelusionalGemini]

I got my Chardonnay too cheers 🥂

[@thabrichanel]

@@DelusionalGemini cheers friend 🥂🥰

[@jazziealexsia]

No comment is crazyy

[@heymeghey9]

ghosting isss emotional abuse!!! it’s not said enough. love you ladies, great episode as usual🩷

[@sumprec4u]

Chy really spoke some good words talking about the holidays & how you are never alone love that 🤍

[@kyraariana3740]

Look forward to this podcast every week!

[@garrettmccarty5638]

Such a good episode “ getcha ur money Melissa” 💀

[@moedollas_6133]

Not me running across this video then binge watching all the BTL passed episodes. AND i made sure to sub to the new channel 💜 love yall crazy asses

[@M00nChi1d91]

Love you Winter! Saw you on bgc and was SO happy when you made a KZbin channel! Been here ever since! Love Chy too you balance each other out! 🖤

[@BieberNikki]

Yea idk why winter didn’t say anything & im glad chy tried to push her to, while also speaking on how disgusting the situation is. Don’t claim to be a girls girl - don’t claim you’re for the women & completely shut down on such a heavy topic. And if it’s too uncomfortable for her to touch on or she is in danger, they shouldn’t have brought it up. She chose silence.

[@BieberNikki]

Also why tf is my name still Bieber Nikki on here I’m embarrassed

[@im.breezybaby]

The Bsimone and Megan drama summary : They both have different purposes . Sometimes things just arent meant to be .

[@Cici1500]

I do agree that there is an unfair pressure placed on influencers to speak up about the genocide, but I was one of those people waiting for yall to say something and wondering if you ever would - and I'm just really glad that yall did and I have so much respect for both of you and the fact that you didn't try to take the easy way out and pretend to play both sides. & you guys have actually taken the time to educate yourself just a little bit. Obviously no one of us will make a difference today individually, but in the grand scheme of things this all matters. Speaking out and voicing your stance matters & i love yall so mcuh

[@tiarabutler12]

I totally felt what Chy was saying when she was talking about having a deceased parent during the holidays. The holidays were so significant growing up, and the last few years without my mom during the holidays have been pretty rough.. But as I started tear up about it, winter goes “masturbation” and I am literally crying laughing 🤣😭 anyway I normally don’t comment on KZbin videos but I wanted to say thanks for making me smile during this time 😂

[@jessicaalexander1459]

♥️♥️♥️

[@quandellwigfall6724]

Happy Thanksgiving Winter and Chy wishing you continued success and God bless you both beautiful I love you!!

[@weryoung65]

The way Winter said “You not, we the same. I agree” LMFAOOOO no but fr though 😂💯

[@Zenfull777]

Dissapointed, its been years since you dated that mans son . Get real, hes a sick individual. Prayers go out to you both & the industry with all hollyweirdos pol doing strange thangs for some change & name brand material items , a fucking purse and shoes its sad and everything will come to light. Just shows you the level of maturity some have. 🪬🦋🪬🦋

[@ciciboo95]

“You wanna make a scene, let’s make a movie!!” 😂😂😂😂 i SCREAMED!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@thelifeofdri5989]

Love how real you guys keep it ❤

[@lala72302]

Always a good day when the girls drop ❤️‍🔥

[@mrs.montez3334]

Chy is just so stunning! 😍😍

[@krgawdess]

I’m depressed in a toxic on and off situationship for 3 years and watching you guys makes my day!🙃😢❤️

[@bonnieee16]

You can get out and do better ❤

[@krgawdess]

@@bonnieee16 Aw thank you🫶🏽 bless ur ♥️ heart and happy holidays luv!

[@Yo-sj2fp]

Get out of it girl!! You got this. You will get through it. Better alone than in bad company.