Episode 27 - மாற வேண்டிய விஷயங்கள் நிறைய இருக்கு - Me Too Issue | Stay Tuned With Ramya

[@Ash-il5wr]

I am in awe with Devadharshini's choice of words . Too good. Too mature. I am a male btw.

[@ktrivikram]

Ramya, I heartily compliment the triumvirate in your cohort for tackling a subject matter of topical and thematic significance that has a close bearing at a time when the concept of ME TOO is all the rage. I enjoyed hearing your perspectives, insights, and inputs covering one-fourth of the video, and I still can't get enough of it. Given my educational background in Telugu medium right up to my highest degree, I was trying to grapple with the finer points of picking up the thread of your interaction gridlocked in chaste Tamil, which, at times, is beyond my comprehension. What I could deduce between 10.03 and 10.15, Ramya, with your razor-sharp wit and wisdom, made enviable points in defence of males intertwined with humour as a consolation. Thanks a lot. One must remember not to put all eggs in one basket or count the chickens before they hatch. Just as some men are WISE, some are OTHERWISE. At 13:43, I wholeheartedly embrace the belief that "What cannot be cured, has to be endured," expressed diplomatically. All three ladies deserve to be applauded since they are real blessings to society and effective advocates for women's empowerment.

[@DANABABY-o6y]

At 30.10 min The explanation given by Devadarshini was so insightful. Thank u ma'am 🙏

[@sivakamikittusamy3401]

Devadharshini mam, u r awesome !! So articulate .. such a great job.. it's going to be an eye opener for many

[@artfromsoul2166]

Matured conversation and good explanation by devdarshini. Good questions by Ramya. All three women presented their opinions and experience without any drama and actively participated in the conversation. Keep it up ramya👍👍.

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thank you for your kind words! 😊👍

[@Laviyaya]

I usually listen to interviews and podcasts while working, and never bothered to like them. This, I liked I recommeded and commenting because, I cannot begin to explain how so relatable this is to me. And the mix of women from varied ' so called' social status. One is happily married, one is hapily single and one is happily separated. So, irrespective of your current relationship status, we all a sitting together and discussing betterment for this situation. I could never talk about this without breaking down or getting enraged. This is awesome. Thank you for this.

[@aishuram4314]

I wish there is a hema committee inside family too.. where we can share our experiences abt the first family members too...

[@murlidhariyer8675]

Vinita is pure and emotional. She didn’t care about the world. 👏👏👏

[@DrSujataV]

So so glad you had this conversation! I spoke about my experience as a teenager in a video with Mrs Lakshmy Ramakrishnan recently. Let us keep spreading the awareness! We are not here to threaten or decry men…just to educate everyone!

[@vinothini.g4836]

Three ladies you have done a great job👏❤️

[@jayasudhakar6313]

This is a much needed conversation. A must watch for everyone, regardless of gender. Very insightful.

[@ramamalar9799]

Excellent views Thanks Devadarsini ma m for the sensible explanations ❤ 😊

[@æMadhu]

Lovely conversation Ramya, no one ever would have thought this topic can be discussed in a soothing way. This podcast definitely will stand out. 👏👏

[@jamunadevi694]

Awesome discussion.Need more discussion regarding. It’s really essential today to talk openly about

[@Shiva_1719]

Devadarshini’s insight and advice on this topic is very much appreciated. She has definitely given a sound understanding to this ongoing issues with regard to the Me2 sadness that is happening to the women. 👍🏾

[@vidhyarajkumar2094]

Awesome topic..DD has given beautiful explanation...all men should watch this.

[@sindhujajayaraman6570]

DD is such a sorted woman. I want to be like her at her age! Such an inspiration personally and professionally!

[@shuba7410]

An entire series on Mental Health with Ms. Devadharshini would be great.

[@Athirahindustani]

She is a therapist. Plz go consult

[@shuba7410]

​​​@@Athirahindustanithanks I will if I need it 😊. Didn't know that therapists cannot speak in podcasts and that we'll need to consult them 😅. Enna oru arivaali 😊.

[@nivethavarthan]

Thank you so much for this insightful conversation lovely ladies..... ❤❤❤❤will save this for future reference and reflection😊😊

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thank you! I’m glad you found it helpful! ❤️😊

[@nivi_vishy]

Really loved this conversation! It gave me a lot of hope, I learnt a lot and it’s also made me think about how I make decisions, what sort of conditioning do I have and how I would potentially want to be with my kids etc! I don’t have all the clarity yet but it’s made me think and told me that it’s important to do so too! Very grateful for this initiative and found the questions that were also asked asked by Ramya very meaningful! So thanks for the great effort ❤

[@VaishaliVijaybabu]

It’s good that they are talking about it now. I wish more people had supported Chinmayi when the MeToo did come up in Tamil Cinema a few years ago …

[@archanarangarajan5420]

It’s really great to discuss abt the topic… Devadarshini explanation is really wow… 👍👌

[@jauntyjan21]

I was waiting for someone to do this❤❤❤well done ,waiting for more interviews like this.

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thanks!!❤️

[@DANABABY-o6y]

Accepting a love proposal under threat can become highly toxic incompatible relationship. Learn to say NO! Find your safe space girls! ❤

[@meenakshiveerappan6142]

Best episode ever. What an important, necessary. How beautifully explained. I loved the questions asked by Ramya and point of view of the guests and how they handle this matter with so much maturity and clarity. Loved every minute of it. Thank you doing this ladies!

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thank you! It means a lot to hear that! 😊

[@nithianand7595]

சொல்லும் கருத்துக்கள் சரியானவை ஆனால் தமிழில் இதை பேச தயார் ஆகுங்கள். அது துணிவை வெளிப்படுத்தும்

[@varnivarun3569]

Good conversation but i want you to include some men in this conversation bcz we girls knew abt all these and faced trauma from our childhood but want to knw abt the men answers abt all these topics

[@jayasudhakar6313]

Indeed, why has no one thought of it before?

[@malinimurali9937]

Superb, awesome. Good to hear such healthy way of discussion in a proper and good language. Choice of words were too good by the three ladies. Thank you.❤❤

[@chetankadambi7247]

Very insightful. Hope this is the begining of the change that it aims to bring. Kudos!

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thank you sir! I hope so too.

[@umayalveera4630]

It's an awesome interview. Ramya your questions are bang on target. The answers from the guests are so soothing and it's like a therapy. By the way I think this is the best of your podcast. You are doing a great job Ramya. And not to leave out devadarshini she is so mature and I feel she is a very good therapist

[@vikramjayanth2289]

I liked the interview, very truthful and gave a clear understanding about media as an industry. I

[@rashmaha0711]

Amazing conversation! ❤ changes begin at home and at a smaller circle 🫶

[@theebaarumugam5871]

Excellent content… thank you for this.. great great content and helpful

[@abirama2594]

Wonderful.. Everyone must listen 👂 to this❤loved it.. 👍 great job all 3 of u 👏...

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thanks a lot ✨

[@sowmiyalakshmic2298]

Very good and strong explanation from Devadharshini. Big Big thanks to Ramya.Thanks to all three of you pa❤

[@sharadamurali2078]

Wonderful Ramya, good choice of guests & great inputs.

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@Renganayaki10]

Very apt discussion at the right time. Can please redo a full English version ? Or English subtitles please . Will help to share the episode with my daughter. Keep rocking

[@saranyag5683]

Seriously dd mam you spoke my heart..i am almost in the phase of the same fear for no reason

[@EggandBanana08]

Consent - If it is not an enthusiastic yes then it is a no

[@vasundaranarayanan733]

Wonderful conversation. Maybe we should start talking predominately about educating the boys as well

[@dhaneshkumarp4949]

Hi Ramya nalla panniyiruke good job 🎉🎉🎉🎉👌👌👌👌👍👍👍👍

[@KK-tx2cm]

brilliant questions and discussion...very refreshing.

[@gowthamkumar2033]

I love this episode so much. Especially the way devadarshini maam explains things. It really made me understand why I didn't do anything when something bad happened to me , all these days I was blaming me.

[@vijilakshmi8289]

Great conversation with 3 of u❤❤

[@georgeezhilrajan7129]

Hey guys, great conversation, I learned more about sexual harassment from this pod cast than anywhere else. In the US all employees are mandated to go through a sexual harassment course at the time of hire and every year afterwards. Implementation of that policy at least in Tamil Nadu may be a step in the right direction. I am sure most of the multinational companies in India will have sexual harassment in work place course. If not they can add it. Thanks! Best wishes.

[@vijayalakshmiganesh9068]

Well matured conversation 👍

[@RamyaBai7]

Need of the hour. Very unique interview done in a really well manner. Indicating clear solutions, suggestions in a relationship, setting up boundaries with a spouse with an indication, effective communication. Overall, too good. I wish if the belief system of men and family members perspective change soon. Learn more to Support, get proper knowledge to stay together in life. Thank you for useful info. 😊👍👏👌⭐💯💪

[@DANABABY-o6y]

If women and men can be at their best, self-satisfied and pursue their passion without threat...there will be loads of love around and children will grow in safe space. Kudos to ur resilience to speak these tough topics 👏👏👏 Embrace body, gender and be ready for unconditioning. The trauma remains in the child's mind for years is so true 😢 pray for the children safety! 🙏

[@2011AccountMyutube]

Great one. Truly independent women reflecting on the past and current state of women. This is a revelation for me as I understand this sensibility is needed to make a better future for ourselves and our children

[@Minie3333]

Please start podcast deva darshini ❤

[@radhabharathidhandapani6906]

What an amazing interviewer and host you are, Ramya? Loved the complete conversation, esp 26:00, where you brought up molestation and the trauma it instills in us. It haunts me till date (trust me am old enough) to walk alone in a street or take a public transport and i dont even reside in India anymore. Its hard to work on your trauma esp when it resurfaces and causes anxiety

[@karthikam6582]

Wonderful conversation ramya❤,

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@BindhuDhas]

Very matured approach... ❤

[@poornimaprasannavaradhan4885]

Bold interaction touching many grey and shady areas

[@mysattvikplate1737]

Finally someone is speaking of next steps and things that truly matter and what needs to be done ...Kudos girls 👍

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thanks! ❤️

[@traditionalmummyskhana]

Absolutely love your podcasts and wait for néw episodes. Have a small request please keep subtitles as my daughter is also a fan of your show but full tamil she cannot understand. Your podcasts have to reach greater audiences. So please keep subtitles for larger reach would appreciate the same

[@ashaadluru]

Parents should teach A SON lot then a daughter, then only a society will change. They should teach to give respect for womens feelings.

[@Athirahindustani]

And men’ feelings , emotions 😡

[@Periasami76]

Man should understand woman's feelings and vice versa.. nothing should be one-sided. Then it will be slways a never ending issue

[@rrao7963]

​@@Periasami76females should maintain distance with males because opposite sex attact naturally

[@iswaryanandini2171]

The most sensible interview in recent times. I did that way back in college when my friends used to call someone else item and proud of it now . Ramya you are aging gracefully interns of thoughts and physicality 😊

[@subashreeravikumar847]

Deva darshini is super in explaining things

[@tuma79]

Yes . She has a specialization in Applied psychology

[@lucifercorner5059]

awesome and thought provoking podcast

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thank you!!

[@sumathiganesan8847]

The best podcast ever in Tamil ❤ Thank you so much for making a lot of difference. ❤❤ Three Wonderful Ladies speaking sense to both the genders. I feel if we are well aware we will have atleast have better approach to deal with these shitty events.

[@tdancemovement]

Great job three of you !! Also, I felt that you could have included Lakshmi Ramakrishnan in to this authentic conversation !!

[@Ash-il5wr]

Ditto. Felt the same.

[@boombarani]

Respected Ramya. Pls ask right question to Right people. Some questions don't have value if the person is not worth asking.

[@ramprakashrammohan1593]

I have been following the last few episodes and find the content very interesting and informative. Would be helpful and provide wider reach if you upload it in other pure podcasting platforms as well like apple or google podcasts so commuters like me can listen on the go. PLEASE. KZbin is not very convenient for that.

[@aiswaryalakshmis7621]

Wow.. great content. Much needed video 🫡

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thanks! ✨

[@lakshmikrithik1636]

Excellent👏

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thanks! Yes, every small change matters! ❤️

[@sangavimurugesan2627]

Amazing podcast 💜

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thank you! ❤️

[@sarahsubramaniam5867]

SUPER CONVERSATION

[@sowmya7648]

This program should stick to one language. Either English or Tamil.

[@SundharRam]

I've had real bad experiences with trans people on the train or Anna Tower 10+ years back. And till date I shiver when I hear a clap sound on the train. I believe this is the same emotion a girl feels when touched by a man in public.

[@mathangis598]

I hv a doubt i have two boys and when and where i have to start this conversation with them…

[@ojovathiramakrishnan4141]

Why do people judge when you go to party or pub? Is it necessary that I need to drink? If I don't have intention to drink I should be sensible enough not to go to places where people are going to prove themselves insensible. This is not judging. This is stating common sense. Next regarding preference to dress. Wearing revealing dresses just highlights how we want to reveal ourselves even if it is a matter of right. Just like how we talk on a subject just to open ourselves same way we open ourselves where we want to. It doesn't mean all have to wear burqa. It just means men have to be limited to what they are being shown. Even though I dress for myself I am not alone in an island. Everybody should take some responsibility for the overall well-being. Afterall you don't wear revealing clothes for another woma n's praise right? Women is not a body product. Dont take shortcuts with your body.

[@divyajayagopi6438]

A small suggestion. This show might be watched by some girls who do not understand English.. pls try to have conversations in local language and can have sub titles. It will be much helpful..

[@sofiyadavid4788]

The One who knows about their own limits in character wise and Decent dressing sense very well no one will be the victim of me too 😞 Most of the me too is happening in cine industries becoz it going full of glamour side..

[@Ss-le1fv]

Nowadays if you want to watch any Tamil KZbin videos the precondition is you must know English very well. Then only you can understand the content. I’m also typing this in English 😂

[@Lavamanisubra]

Its the truth and fact that in our country, men from any background, do get aroused on seeing women's body parts, skin show is definitely a no-no these days even in corporate work environment, there is a certain dress code for proper conduct so that the work atmosphere is not distracted by the way women dress up, no see-thru or revealing dresses are welcome. Likewise, If that kind of system is followed everywhere, there is lesser chance of men crossing the boundaries, no matter in whichever rank she is at. Non-revealing Outfits definitely carry dignity. Whenever some women ignore these, in some occasions, they face problems. Not all men cross boundaries at all times. Of course, in a pub, one cannot expect inebriated men to behave in a cultured or civilized or decent manner. So, this is something a woman would probably understand when she becomes a mom of a teenage girl bcos its evident that Ramya isn't fully convinced with the reply given by Devadarshini mam about dressing sense. Every woman knows that, the safe way of dressing up well and looking presentable is different from wearing something revealing or catchy thats going to attract wrong men's attention. This logic applies to wherever you go and whatever you do, no matter what you think about your personal space, if that space shouldn't be intruded by strangers/random men, it's better not to invite trouble by wearing clothes in which you don't feel absolutely safe and comfortable. That's what DD mam says about throwing oneself into danger. Later on, if we complain and do not get justice, whatever mishap has happened, it's going to cause mental agony/long term implication for the victim herself. So, to prevent any mishaps, the older generation women advise us, which, many feminist women like the host here don't want to hear, but the negative outcome affects the woman herself who doesn't want to dress up safe😂😂Its like saying, "I will throw a stone at a stray dog, but the dog shouldn't react". Men don't see women the same way as women see themselves in the mirror. Growing up environment, upbringing, family's/parents' beliefs, school, friends, movies etc all contribute to the personality development, & the thought process of every growing up child. We cannot reform the society in a short span of time. Its easier to bring a change within oneself instead of changing the mindset of the entire male population of India.

[@sathyalakshmi5613]

❤eye-opened interview

[@StaytunedwithRamya]

Thank you! It means a lot! ❤️

[@rmanickamv]

The whole conversation says everything is men's fault and no blame lies on women

[@Athirahindustani]

Ramya nd Darshini looked 40+ , 20 Years ago now looking ago .

[@shankar0205]

👏 👏 👏

[@canistermariadas]

❤

[@Tharun17jash]

Full video Tamil iruthal nalla irukum

[@vanishreerajendiran2896]

👍

[@Athirahindustani]

Men don’t go nd hug nd touch women like women do . Plz watch all film shows, stage shows it is always the women who jump around, touch men constantly nd giggling . Be honest . Men also have emotions.

[@naturewildlifediscovery4610]

I agree with you.

[@Healthyfitdiet]

It is wrong approach. Who did like that?

[@JoabJoy]

Joy

[@simpsonmaduram7729]

💕

[@user-jj8dg8ni8e]

PBS interview eppo poduvingge

[@Athirahindustani]

These women talk only abt themselves their emotions nd that they are the only victims . There are millions of men who are abused nd suffer silently 🙏🏽

[@Kamalhassan-o6p]

Vj ramya is 38 years old but she is looking like 25

[@Athirahindustani]

She used to look 38 ten years ago 🤣

[@jananisriganesh9365]

Why are you laughing like a maniac for that? She worked hard to get where she is. Show your sarcasm elsewhere ​@@Athirahindustani

[@Vdya227]

❤

[@Athirahindustani]

Abuse is gender neutral.Millions of men go through this abuse nd suffer silently. Women bosses are no angels 😡

[@keerthana261]

Men crying in the comments section, 😅 shows your maturity level

[@jananisriganesh9365]

Especially this athirahindusthani guy. Some depressed guy who needs therapy

[@keerthana261]

@@jananisriganesh9365 yes looks like he's is straight of a mental hospital

[@anaavi3510]

❤🎉

[@Flim_picture]

Actress gautami ❤ mam get on podcasts soon

[@Sujathal1234]

She is unfit to talk about any good things 😅 she can not be a role model to anyone 😅

[@Ash-il5wr]

​@@Sujathal1234do you have to be this judgemental? Smileys vera.

[@thiruvkm1078]

Anni neengalum indha dress lam potrukingala Yenda raghava Nan indha aathula nanna irukurathu nokku pudikalaya😂

[@suryanarayanachennai9415]

India if u cannot walk in road, sir in house

[@Athirahindustani]

If u r in a pub nd drunk , how do you know if there was a consent or not 😂.

[@Athirahindustani]

If women evolve after a decade , why not understand that men also evolve 😂

[@Athirahindustani]

All of us have a choice especially these women . But fame nd name make u blind nd then report decades after earning everything . Iam not talking about real poor rape victims 🙏🏽

[@geethasrinivasan4329]

I think this is a tamil channel

[@Athirahindustani]

Women should also learn to respect their body nd not think that it is a toy to play with men’ emotions. Respect should be mutual 🙏🏽