Eric and Jocelynn Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli

[@NurseHuhhhhhChar]

I need the type of memory that Eric has. He remembers time, dates, and words in detail. Can’t bs him!

[@Diving4pearls81]

Right! He's very thorough with everything😅

[@stevenhenry123]

lol nahhh Fr Fr 😂

[@mr.williams6471]

No drugs no drinking.

[@SuperRedWaffle]

He came to the Catch Up prepared as he should

[@Vexed711]

he seems super annoying to argue with, " on 6/16 @ 4:45 pm you said you didn't feel like talking" 😂

[@hiphopmadness]

One thing Arlette will do is make sure she get the information out of them one way or another. I’ve never seen anyone do this so effortlessly 😭😭😭

[@leea3531]

That’s wild you’re watching lol shouldn’t you be making videos about rappers ? The wild thing is you’re creative and I know you wanna make big but focus on yourself king . Be creative , talking about ppl isn’t creative . Hope that don’t go over your head

[@Natak222]

What the heck??? HHM watches pop the balloon?? 🫡😂 Solute bro

[@user-eu9nm2fu8q]

Right ! She definitely wasn’t gonna try and answer but Arlette really gave us tea

[@ruthy620]

Arlette is gifted at bringing out information for us :)

[@SimplyPops]

FANCY seeing Hiphop madness here

[@ItsTylersky]

Eric did everything that most women ask from a man, which is to take the initiative. Eric made plans, he applied pressure, he communicated. And she ran off 😂

[@josephenefola2101]

No disrespect to her...I feel she has low self esteem and must have felt intimidated. Eric is really a cool person. 😊

[@NubianKing-y3y]

Remember, he said when he takes a woman on a vacation, they really get to know each other; therefore, he got to know, that she was not for him! END OF STORY!

[@_CPerk]

Easy answer, she didn’t like him. She took the gifts and dates but ultimately wasn’t feeling him. He played a part as well, doing all the spending and she clearly wasn’t the one.

[@cocosln6174]

​@NubianKing-y3y but he still wanted to date her after that horrible vacation. She put the brakes on that, talking about she just want to be cool. Eric like, no ma'am! We're either dating or nothing at all😃

[@docjones712]

He needs to RUN!!!

[@sunshinedayz2172]

Loved Eric's personality from the start.. He seems like a thoughtful and intelligent gentleman.💕

[@averychilco]

I'm positive she didn't like his dog 😂

[@fayefrazier4738]

He has a great personality, I love him Lol

[@nubialena5658]

He was one of my favorites as well.

[@struggle-dad6715]

I didn't like it from the very first time I saw him on a balloon show, he seemed cocky, arrogant and boujee... But seeing him on here he actually seems like a pretty cool & humble brother

[@JCDenten557]

I'm sure Arlette has learned one thing from this show... How happy she is to be married and not have to be in the dating scene anymore

[@Decades-pl2kl]

You don't live with those people to be assuming her situation is perfect. Her husband is definitely not my type especially needing USA citizenship

[@imanislifestyles_]

@@Decades-pl2klwhy are you responding to every comment saying dumb shit, stfu your honestly annoying nobody cares what your type is or what you had for dinner

[@kathleenmoore9534]

​@@Decades-pl2klJesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible.

[@LivenTruth]

@@Decades-pl2kl???

[@Iaiaishdhdudx]

@@Decades-pl2klbro is it your husband or hers, why r u saying he’s not your type😭💀

[@tabathadoley7747]

He’s such a gentleman. I absolutely love how he handled himself in this conversation.

[@keivalenti2263]

Facts… He deserves better 😩

[@kathleenmoore9534]

Jesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible. ​@@keivalenti2263

[@kathleenmoore9534]

​@@keivalenti2263Jesus is coming back. God is going to judge. Please accept Jesus as your savior.

[@kathleenmoore9534]

​@@keivalenti2263❤Jesus is coming back. God is going to judge. Please accept Jesus as your savior.

[@2010DERT2010]

@@kathleenmoore9534Jesus not real

[@kbrittany6549]

She didn’t wanna talk about the disagreement but Arlette was like okay so anyway Eric, what happened?😂

[@LaidbackNarration3000]

ya cant b this naive she was holding back bc there was no real arguments , she enjoyed the trip like the user she is and once he wanted reciprocity(loving) she started bickering about little ish so she can leave ......she knos to much info about her bs fabricated disagreements will reveal shes just a opportunist and user point blank period #blessed

[@hospitaladministrator3359]

@@LaidbackNarration3000bingo

[@tathomas5]

😂

[@lifewithjb_]

@@LaidbackNarration3000couldn’t have said it any better

[@mzbrown6969]

@@LaidbackNarration3000 yeah cause we all know you are supposed to have sex for a free trip. Maybe she didn't want to be with a hoe that would give his money and his body up that quickly. I mean they only knew each other for a few weeks maybe she isn't into easy men, it happens. Now he is free to have sex will people after a few weeks of knowing on a reality show.

[@laj4186]

Arlette!!! These follow ups are PURE GOLD!! Thank you for meaningful entertainment.

[@damilolaadekoya2400]

To be very honest with you, I see this as not just an entertainment but a ministry. She’s helping people find Life Partners, now that’s some real deal.

[@southsidega]

I love how Arlette made them talk about something they clearly said they weren’t going to talk about 😂 and I’m here for it ☕️

[@lynetteforte1996]

Okayyyyyy b/c she said “& imma leave it at that” and then the deep dive started 😂😂😂

[@9525joe]

Because what’s the point of coming on the show if you’re not gonna give us any information. They should’ve just stayed home if it was that serious that they didn’t want to talk about it.

[@kathleenmoore9534]

​@@lynetteforte1996❤Jesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible.

[@kathleenmoore9534]

​@@9525joe❤Jesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible.

[@ebonih7138]

The juxtaposition between the cute videos and their energy in the interview here is the most entertaining to me. They looked so happy 😅

[@islandbound843]

Fact 😂😂😂😂 like is this the same couple?

[@stefanienicolee]

Exactly! Like Pinterest type pics and videos that people would deem as goals 😂 and don’t even like eachother fr

[@traplordso985]

I see you using big words there😂

[@jaydubya9265]

Example of never believe social media. Just the highlight reel of life.

[@charlesmclemore5321]

Really...had me wondering if the Love Bombing was the other way. Not with gifts, but with affection, that she suddenly withdrew. He obviously thought she was feeling him up until she told him she wasn't. She looked like she was feeling him in those videos, and some of them were in Greece.

[@mariskasackey7189]

No offense but she seems boring… and feels like Arlette is having to pull info out of her.

[@kaysmoke_]

Yes. She’s super boring! I’m holding on for dear life and trying my best not to exit the video. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

[@jarodorla6949]

Totally Agree. Her body language shows she's completely disinterested. She comes off as a closed introvert.

[@allanbahati1942]

Exactly, I’ve experienced this so many times before. The body language tells it all.

[@nodaysoff2005]

She is happy with her 9-5 which tells you everything that you need to know. Just take her to olive garden, clap the cheeks and watch movies with her. Rinse and repeat

[@traplordso985]

@@nodaysoff2005LMAOOOOO

[@leah1859]

He looks different from when he had his hair up.That man is fine!!!!

[@aquamarie206]

As hell

[@Mrs.T305]

Yup and she was the one who turned out to be ok looking.

[@toshonline5]

Yeah I hadn’t noticed before

[@amandagonner3594]

If someone is really feeling you, affection would be natural, not forced.

[@naitjj1]

literally, no discussion would need to be made

[@lilahoward7555]

That’s not the case for everyone. Some people are more reserved. Some people were actually taught values and morals first. The affection comes way later. Some are just shy.

[@amandagonner3594]

@@lilahoward7555 no one is saying sleeping with them but a hug shouldn’t be forced when you like someone. Doesn’t mean that you don’t have any moral or values. When you know, you know.

[@1989RealRell]

This is why u don’t rush going on vacation with a stranger… u should be comfortable with ya partner to the point it’s no boundaries before going on vacation

[@amandagonner3594]

@@lilahoward7555 also they went on a whole trip together, that is not reserved or shy, but I can understand what you saying. But through experiences, chemistry doesn’t lie.

[@Incognificent888]

This is why it's stupid to take such a big and intimate trip with someone you don't know so early on

[@JerichoCastille]

Yeah take them brods to white castle for a death burger and coffee.

[@believeume122]

Well he wanted to she how she really was

[@Nwakaego_]

He said he wanted to see how she was based on the trip. He said this wasn’t his first trip with someone he had just started “dating” either.

[@melloxox1]

Very stupid on his end but also hers for accepting the offer… too soon

[@martincarr4204]

always get the kitty first before you go anywhere, she still has a dude, the dude was probably blowing up her phone guilt tripping her, while she was away, and that is why she went to Houston...she did not want to give up the kitty......anytime a gal says she wants to go slow, another dude is involved who she still has hopes for....

[@collinsaunders8323]

Eric seemed hurt and looked like he really hoped things would have worked out. He looked like he was trying to compose hisself, I appreciate the update and I hope Eric and Jocelynn finds theirselves lifetime partners.

[@kathleenmoore9534]

Jesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible. ❤😊

[@okorochukwunonso2563]

@@kathleenmoore9534 lol 🤣🤣🤣

[@LoveGod2477]

That was such a mature reply!! God, you're so balanced and a breath of fresh air. 😊

[@misslewis5141]

That's what he gets for being so darn knit-picky. He ended up with an unintentionally non-interested poser. When he was speaking she rolled her eyes. Wow!

[@skye6066]

@@kathleenmoore9534 amen. He need to hurry. These peoples are wild and out here foolin

[@HannahMcFarlane-jg4bu]

Jocelynn wanted the trip as long as it came without hugs, cuddling and even kisses. She seems shallow and detached. Leave her alone Eric.

[@ShmaAdonaiEhad]

She is not his wife. She does not owe him that.

[@HannahMcFarlane-jg4bu]

@@ShmaAdonaiEhad You are right. Because she is not his wife, she should've declined taking that kind of trip so soon because she knew she wasn't attracted to him. Nothing in life is free especially a trip like that

[@KaeBrown]

@@ShmaAdonaiEhad a woman gotta be your wife to get a hug or kiss...how old are we?

[@ShmaAdonaiEhad]

@@KaeBrown yes she has to be. As a man a woman that I have not committed to owes me no secxual bodily affection.

[@Mrs.T305]

​Correct @@HannahMcFarlane-jg4bu

[@SolomonBbb]

At least he declined the classic trap "let's remain friends". Cut off completely and invest your time, money and attention on the right person.

[@claudykay6492]

Yes she's full of it

[@michaelmaxwell7171]

She never liked him, she have low interest and u noticed there was no specific reasons that she left. Just a bunch of little excuses.

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

​@@michaelmaxwell7171 right.

[@kiara-tc6wj]

@@michaelmaxwell7171no she just didn’t tell us what really happened. You can see the flags from a mile away. He seems like she didn’t want to put him on blast. He was apparently being being very passive aggressive on that trip and had different expectations.

[@locdabtv]

amen sound like she wanted a friend with benefits he dodged a bullet

[@sajadacooper]

This is really hard to watch.

[@peacebalancetruth]

I know😩

[@cinnamonQ]

💯

[@ALittleBitOfEverything-555]

Real talk, I stopped watching and began to read the comments.

[@ntwalipat2]

They were simply not a good match personality wise. Other than that, they’re very mature & poised in their way of communicating. They kept it respectful.

[@DonGiovanni88]

Yea, he really liked her. On the other hand, he was over confident the last two episodes and passed on a few good women so it kinda bit him in the ass

[@tatianawestford6692]

Jocelynn: “ i don’t wake people up” Arlette: “oh that’s different“ 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Arlette is the best host I swear

[@kaheaisaac1]

😂😂

[@janda6822]

🤣🤣🤣

[@REZI-]

She knows it's. Bs😂😂

[@bw_swe]

LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@msphere760]

😂😂😂

[@CarlCampbellMusic]

To anyone dealing with depression or feeling low, don’t give up on life, no matter what bad things happened in your past, don’t let them define you or control your destiny, you are all important and loved!, there is hope for all of us! Jesus loves you all ✝️, get to know God through Christ 📖

[@Nicole-fw3eu]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ needed this.

[@MyNameIs_Brandi]

Eric is very open & good at articulating what exactly happened… which is probably the gift & curse for him in relationships. These girls can’t beat him in an argument and he is VERY straightforward.

[@mzermichaelterungwa7904]

Indeed someone who articulates their thoughts well may inadvertently dominate conversations, leaving their partner feeling marginalized and creating a competitive rather than a cooperative dynamic. But, Eric didn't come off as more focused on proving a point than finding a mutually acceptable solution. He seemed like someone with empathy who was willing to learn and adapt. However, adaptation is only feasible in a relationship where both partners are committed to mutual growth and understanding. Jocelyn did not seem to be ready for that. Furthermore, I noticed that Eric knew he tends to dominate conversations, so he was deliberating pausing to invite Jocelyn to share her thoughts in the course of the conversation.

[@queen7123]

Exactly he totally reminds me of my husband very serious guy. My husband is even a lawyer but baby when he met me, he met his match.😂

[@queen7123]

And he couldn’t get enough of it after😂

[@Jamesgalc-gs8wu]

You're drinking the cool aid. He's a love bomber.

[@Theraleighnative]

He’ll eventually find him one. To many woman on this earth not to find the perfect one.

[@sandraslimasphotography6429]

She's not into him. Her body language tells a lot

[@bodivanbodivan3668]

yup

[@blazeworks]

Man she is showing disgust !!!

[@s.bornand5424]

She's whack AF.

[@NeoMoses]

Go to 9:46 she got another guy in the room, sad and disgusting.

[@Itzmizzypooh]

How do you know its a guy? No face was shown...​@NeoMoses

[@foxmoontp]

So this girl was comfortable enough for a free trip then couldn't work through petty problems. 😂

[@yvienow23]

exactly!

[@nraymond09]

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!

[@RexBanner_]

Social media inflates their head. It makes them think that they have infinite options. She'll learn that it's all fake.

[@s.bornand5424]

Facts!!! She's a walking red flag with gold digger energy!!!

[@foxmoontp]

@@nraymond09 I thought maybe I was missing something

[@magdaleneyilakwaltings1517]

i feel so sorry for this dude, he is genuine, kind, and good spirited, he just couldnt find that one right person to reciprocate the kindness, i wish you find true love Eric, love from Nigeria

[@mojadah10]

Couldn’t he? Or did he pop his balloon when those came around?

[@Rethory]

She appears extremely uninterested and bored.

[@Ohyesss31]

She ain’t feeling it bro, you can tell

[@deanbrealexander3824]

Facts

[@lastdragonx]

She got her free trips. She bailing out now

[@amirken5309]

@@Ohyesss31after she got flew out. lol damn women use these simps

[@NicknameAarie]

That's his type

[@calimade8136]

Jocelyn new dude standing in the kitchen watching her being interviewed 😂😂 talking about see I knew you would come back to me.

[@mr.cloudbound]

I thought I was the only one that noticed that she was talking to someone in the room lolll

[@moviemakerqueen8]

Lmaooooooo

[@ibekillinsssssh5748]

I knew she was in there with someone else she lame to me

[@Janet67498]

I think it was a friend, not a guy.

[@Janet67498]

It sounds like a woman’s voice in the background.

[@patrickatangana9374]

She doesn’t even smile at anything he says. She wants that interview to end.😂😂😂😂😂 So hard to watch

[@TakeaSwigofTheJuice]

She got a new dude or something

[@kaibethcruz-philippe9592]

She didnt even want it to start! 😂

[@zibelebruciebenubrucieb8850]

She did smile...

[@neshagill1886]

right lol she was over it

[@Mrs.T305]

Doesn't seem like she has much of a personality

[@BigCityReem]

The more I watch this show/channel, the more I realize why some people are single and will be single for a long time.

[@deboral.devaughn2285]

Eric is smart because he knows that you don't truly know a person until you've traveled with them!! Eric needs someone with genuine motivation & interests, positive energy and maturity!! He even stayed positive during this interview!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@shiquonnewinkfield4751]

A WEEK Trip tho?! That’s overload for the 2 strangers in the initial dating phase. He’s should’ve went for 4 nights.

[@JoyceGray-i8r]

If she really liked him, that wouldn't be a problem.​@@shiquonnewinkfield4751

[@leonardscloset]

Nah. He dumb and he move too fast. We’ve all done it tho. Well most of us.

[@mytriton54]

A road trip of at least 6 hours is good for that. Not Santorini.

[@natetoosmooth3670]

⁠@@shiquonnewinkfield4751 i said the same thing 7 days extremely long 😂

[@raeforthepeople6081]

I’m so glad she shows a clip from their episode because i would never remember who these people are

[@JM-pi7og]

FR, I thought I was losing my memory

[@DonnyNoMarie]

Same here!

[@djh8009]

I was just thinking the same thing when I clicked on the vid 😂😂😂

[@ladynicole9151]

I only recognized like 2-3 couples on these follow-ups lol

[@ebonih7138]

He changed his fit 😂

[@audreysteer8644]

Her body language speaks volume. She don’t give af. He cares more than she does by far.

[@M0DFATH3R]

that's why she's single lol

[@krisfirstofhername.8444]

​​@@M0DFATH3RSingle is not bad. Better to be single than in a miserable relationship. She will always do quite well regardless. With this exposure, her DMs are full and she will have the pick of the litter.

[@Decades-pl2kl]

Naw, it's called dude tried to sleep with her because he paid for that trip and she had to let him know, just cause yall think black American woman are all easy I'm here to let you know thats a lie.

[@imanislifestyles_]

@@Decades-pl2klyou not letting us know anything, your just running your mouth. dude took her out the country..... are you slow. look her demeanor & the way she's coming off, she wasn't interested she just used him.

[@Decades-pl2kl]

@@imanislifestyles_ now imma dump you like she did him. It only took 1oz of common sense to know what happened and you obviously don't have none 🙄 🤡

[@Demebeso714]

Arlette is perfect in her presentation..flawless and highly professional..she really gets to the root of the issues..Just a great Channel..the best on KZbin..this couple seems very high strung and fragile..tip toeing around emotions...they both need to work on past relationship trauma..they are both deeply afraid of being hurt.. Arlette we Love You 💕

[@Lelonigolightly]

Her being allergic to his dog would’ve been the first sign for me that it isn’t going to work.

[@TheHealthGuy305]

😂

[@jcalvioficial]

❤

[@lonnie008]

bingo... the universe sent a sign

[@diceflawless9115]

😂

[@diceflawless9115]

That's funny cus anytime my dog don't like a girl I already know they not gonna, work. Especially since he loves 90% of women

[@munchandmotivation8128]

She soo Cold to point where Sis needed a blanket. 😂

[@edrisacamara8308]

Deadass😂😂

[@thejourney0619]

😂😂😂

[@mizzmention8555]

😂😂😂 fr

[@petersitumbeko4653]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that's hilarious

[@jayfab4689]

She's a mean girl

[@arieechay]

They wasted 30 minutes to basically say he wanted affection and she wasn’t giving it.

[@alakazam25yearsago8]

I’m hearing he wanted to smell her toez and she wouldn’t let him😩👃🏽🍿

[@hospitaladministrator3359]

That’s what you got out of this? Interesting….

[@FullSpeedz]

@@hospitaladministrator3359I mean in conclusion that’s what it was. He was looking for something real and wanted the affection that goes along with that. She doesn’t know what she wants. Who does all that bs, leaves early, and still checks up on him? And she wants to friend zone him, probably to secure future trips as “friends” 😂

[@solidboyt]

She got that trip out of my boy lol he was about to throw up. I’ve been there before. Lol

[@SlimeNews]

​@@FullSpeedz and who's the fool?! Clearly him

[@queenpea1989]

It’s like watching paint dry with her. She’s not into him at all. When you’re into someone hugging and touching and kissing just comes naturally.

[@kimoramicheal8353]

Arlette be saying Whoo Chile, Thank God I'm Married! 😅💅🏾

[@beautypure9527]

I know she does because I say it myself 😂😂

[@ELP1125]

Marriage ain’t permanent

[@phenomkrumper]

Marriage aint always sunshine & rainbows, and you can't just opt to run away from it like Jocelyn did when it isnt..

[@ShayLamere]

There was A LOT left unsaid…

[@wonderlocs7758]

He said everything that made sense, she said everything that didn't make sense

[@TheSmokeweeda]

Do tell 👀

[@dawn2166]

If a girl doesn't want to hug you, that's a tell-tale sign that she doesn't like you😢!!

[@WonderManFlex]

Facts or if a woman says "I don't like touching people". Women love touching people they are actually sexually attracted too.

[@FullSpeedz]

Right, ain’t that the first thing you do when you meet your date for the first time?

[@talkingtochapri]

That's also a sign that you did something wrong and she lost interest

[@Publicboner]

She hugged him like crazy in the video

[@ChasteConversation]

💯

[@graciasmatthew2322]

“How you gon’ be mad on Vacation ?” - Kanye West

[@a.alphonso6193]

not gonna lie, a long ass foreign country trip is TOOOO MUCH for people that aint even known each other a year 😭😭😭 im glad they were able to end it peacefully though

[@allanbahati1942]

Yeppp. Well said, I made this mistake about 2 years ago, never again. Too many moving variables into a new relationship.

[@molivi8]

@a.alphonso6193 yea he could have also chosen a mini trip closer to the states vs europe. I think he was trying to impress her, but it was a fail.

[@andreearl3258]

Way too much

[@sophiaandre139]

That's the same mistake he made with Keianna. Leading with his money.

[@Coachkingrod]

It's not a mistake for two people who actually like each other. Ask Mihke & Khe.

[@SlimDynamiite]

Eric took her to Greece and wanted some of that kitty and she wasn’t with it. End of story. 😂😂😂

[@mitziphillips9889]

He literally has no personality and she lacks it too.. so it’s like two dull people tryna make a connection. Just didn’t work

[@JalishaJenkins]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@bravookidd4358]

FACTSSSS!!!!

[@MichaelColley-x2b]

Another simp bites the dust😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@fearless798]

😂😂😂 that's exactly what happened.

[@UniquaMoore]

Eric is someone that I can see is really looking for love. We all would love to see that happen for him.

[@chevyjr1862]

Eric is lookin to clash some meats but shorty must not been ready to drop dem draws

[@tochukwunjoku]

@@chevyjr1862 Exactly! He wanted to have his way with her and she outsmarted him. He booked that holiday to deceive her and smash.

[@mikoye2878]

@@chevyjr1862😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@laj4186]

Her: Frigid Him: Ready for Something Real Best to you both❤

[@noediawaku1369]

Arlette always asks the proper questions ,she know what to ask to get the proper information ,shoutout to her she’s really a great host ,she is good at what she does 👌🏾👍

[@ashontiwithano]

Capri was tryna give them a sign before the trip 😂😂😂

[@dayone1005]

No bs 😂😂😂

[@porshaford8579]

Our pets be knowing 😂

[@dawn2166]

Good one!!!

[@jcalvioficial]

😂

[@timmyd825]

🤣🤣🤣

[@geschickt7905]

Body language is a voice that is never silent!

[@hazelhaimbondi5321]

Eric is such a sweet guy seem so humble and honest 🥰

[@Alexian9]

Only 10 seconds in and the blanket already annoys me.

[@ms.evegene]

Wow. I felt that too

[@chastineying]

i thought it was me 😂

[@mayiopine]

Why on zoom video with a blanket. Annoying

[@iamdejimanlive]

The girl is nonchalant

[@r.e45]

🤣🤣….. stop it! some ppl are anemic

[@memphismackmarc1746]

She went to Greece knowing she didn’t like this dude..

[@WhoaNowbrother]

I blame him

[@brandonclark8395]

​@@WhoaNowbrother Why? He's bold and confident enough to express authentic feelings and interest. I wouldn't have done it likely but I respect his confidence.

[@WhoaNowbrother]

@@brandonclark8395 and look where it got em !!!! Plaaaaaayed !!!! He tried win her with his wallet 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏿‍♂️ that’s rule number 1, as man never lead with your wallet with a women who you just met. You’ll get played every time

[@comeatmebro8120]

@@brandonclark8395 You don’t go on a trip out of the country with a woman you barely even know. At his age, he should know that!

[@PrinceInawRakah]

@@comeatmebro8120 that method will work on another woman… there was a couple on here who literally got engaged in a matter of weeks.. yall forgot?

[@ElizeNicole101]

He looks so different with his locs down.

[@ratedn4nia]

He looks better

[@BigSlim3600]

That’s cus his glasses is off lmao i get that a lot too

[@molivi8]

He is so handsome hair up or dwn. I think it's also because he didn't have the glasses.

[@erieyoung2615]

This makes me want to be without my glasses a little bit because damn! It’s day and night.

[@deanbrealexander3824]

True

[@KThrilla]

She's a runner. She wants to experience the fun and excitement that comes with relationships but not go through the disagreements and the downs that can come along the way. Why she wants to keep him as a friend. I'm glad he set the boundary as no move on.

[@angeldavis6947]

Arlette’s face while she’s trying to listen to ole girl got me weak😂!

[@lilyfarrell789]

Died at ole girl 😂

[@tjjames6455]

Cuz she was really trying to choose her words carefully. Instead of just saying she learned she wasn't physically attracted to him & it wouldn't work in a relationship.

[@alaviwilliams]

i can feel that my man is actually trynna look for a real life partner but his dealing with ladies that are so out of that box

[@majdagusinac8352]

He picked them.

[@TIMEOUT_WITH_DERA]

I honestly hope he finds one someday🤦‍♀️

[@melissaflores9471]

This is why I'm single don't haft to deal with no bull good people are hard to find these days

[@TIMEOUT_WITH_DERA]

@@melissaflores9471 ….yea dats true ….Buh at least dia are good people

[@melissaflores9471]

​@TIMEOUT_WITH_DERA i see bad women get good men and they screw it up all time and I'm like why would anyone screw it up with a good man but that goes the other way to good people are hard to find these days if you have someone good better keep them

[@SoCandaceMichelle]

Hot take: she never should have accepted to go out the country with a man she didn’t know. We all know what the expectations are with getting flown out, gentleman or not. The woman always sets the pace of the relationship, don’t let a man push you to move too fast. Now you’re out the country feeling uncomfortable. That’s wasn’t wise.

[@mg679mirth9]

Bingo!

[@justafan2413]

You’re 100% wrong. Women sets the tone for when sex happens and who when a child gets born. A man dictates when a relationship or marriage happens

[@larriethompson3627]

@@SoCandaceMichelle we are adults

[@0.3nergy]

why is this standard set ? "Always", what world do you live in ? I think both partners should respects each other, compromise, and set the pace together. It is much more healthier that way in my opinion. "The woman always sets the pace of the relationship, don’t let a man push you to move too fast." I think this is very toxic

[@justairz]

Hey another unaccountable human spotted!

[@obinnaezelibe3553]

He's a very intelligent and emotionally person, he has a good head on his shoulder.

[@Mrs.T305]

Yes he does. This woman was undeserving of his time.

[@Mrs.T305]

Yes he does. This woman was undeserving of his time.

[@MichecaAristilde]

It’s very obvious that she was not 100% attracted to him when she initially met him, but was willing to get to know him as time progressed. He moves quickly and expected the same energy from her. During the trip, it really settled that she sees him as more as a friend than a romantic partner. I think she is having a hard time admitting or telling him that she’s not that attracted to him and wants to spare his feelings. This is why it’s so important to not go on a trip with someone you’re not physically attracted to.

[@teascobie6557]

She may have grown to like him eventually with all the acts of service towards her but he would want touch in return and that would probably gross her out and he would be frustrated and impatient

[@paulnshimyumulemi2991]

Well said 👏

[@jayknox6319]

Too damn old to not keep it 100. It’s cowardly

[@KeionEdwards-j3y]

I think what she really wanted was the benefits of being in a relationship with him without being in a relationship she wanted to use him

[@chuckiegirl]

I agree

[@somethingaboutbrooke]

We still need the catch up on the plumber man and his match! 😩😂

[@tochivi9677]

She later rejected him afterwards

[@jordanharrison4554]

@@tochivi9677other way around lol

[@pacifique3943]

Their relationship lasted 40 minutes!

[@TrainReacts]

@@tochivi9677she didn’t rejected him she gave somebody her social media or phone number he cut her off

[@Alkiel]

a Weapon X interview would BEND the internet

[@johnnydunlap3644]

Brother don't ever go out of your way like that for any female, unless it's determined that you are officially in a committed relationship...period!!!

[@purplethrone3245]

100000%.

[@Sharpshooterju]

Million percent %%%%%

[@SuperNovaTraveler]

Always be yourself, help weed them out quicker. Going above and beyond shows your character, letting a person change that will just lead you to the wrong partner.

[@Nyeb2002]

Ur a misogynist lol.

[@KINGxDAVID94]

@@dereklove2199he’s in the room with her

[@simoneomathuna7809]

“Cuddling” with someone you are not feeling is torture 😩

[@gailainsley6939]

Chile… the PTSD I just got 😂😂😂

[@tf8187]

Real shit

[@SheemsOfficial]

😅😅 def is omg

[@imohpius8195]

then why did you go out with him

[@simoneomathuna7809]

@@imohpius8195 sounded like she was interested at first then things when left

[@JohddaPro]

Date one, she told him exactly who she was. She told him that she couldn't be bought. She chose Buffalo Wild Wings, and that impressed him. Yet somehow he still didn't get the memo. A few weeks later, he invites her on a getaway vacation to a foreign country and he clearly had the expectation that she'd sleep with him. She accepted the invitation, which she definitely should NOT have done. Then, when they arrived to Greece, she had the discussion with him about her boundaries (aka no sex). That's a conversation that probably should've been had in the beginning planning stages. But they're both to blame for that. They get to Greece, the boundaries are set, and clearly Eric wasn't happy with it. After five days of her not giving in, he got upset. He felt played. So, he resorted to childish behavior and condescendingly criticized her as being a "bad hugger". The man wanted more than a hug. But after only six weeks of getting to know each other, she definitely wasn't obligated to give him affection. He clearly felt otherwise and that she should've prostituted herself out. Again, she shouldn't have accepted the invitation. But in that same right, he shouldn't have offered it. He was disingenuous in inviting her on the trip, knowing he wanted "affection". And she was disingenuous in accepting the invitation knowing that he would want something from her that she wasn't ready to give. However, she didn't play him. He played himself. It just speaks to his lack of respect in the way he sees women that one could show him exactly who she is, and he still try to treat her otherwise. But ultimately it speaks to his lack of self-respect that he feels he has to lead with his wallet. The first lady he matched with also wasn't interested in him, and he led with materialism to get her too. At this point, it's insanity. Eric, if you're reading this, what you think you know, you clearly don't. So try a different approach. Try being honest, genuine, kind, decent and integral. How about that?!

[@veetellsit]

Finally, someone gets it. You hit the nail on the head

[@sherri5569]

Yep, you get it. Eric is clearly a problem and he refuses to acknowledge his issues. It seems everyone ignores his issues because he is articulate, successful and a “good” guy.

[@BecomingZakah]

This makes so much sense! And African men are very much like this

[@Goddess118]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@roshannabobb2109]

Now this is it!!

[@brianwashington1158]

Her : And I’ll just leave it at that. Arlette : No the hell you won’t 😂😂😂😂

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

I'm fkn dead lmaoo

[@a.pieceofpie]

@@brianwashington1158 🤣😭🤣😭

[@BNG2510]

Lmao 😂

[@savvmoreland3595]

Ayeee no cap, she gotta get these views 😂😂

[@a.pieceofpie]

@@brianwashington1158 soon as Arlette dug deeper, I was like unh unh, she said she'll leave it there. Chile, she then proceeded spill the milk lol

[@BasicTruth-j3e]

SHE IS INCREDIBLY BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT!!

[@prettycandid_]

GIRL can we use our words?! 😂 she’s lowkey irking me lol

[@manhattancruz]

I feel the same!!!

[@kaybryan7530]

high key lol

[@oromtitiwbo5078]

I know omg We know you’re mad, speak up!😂

[@nicoleRobinsonH101]

I know I see what you're saying. I thought the same thing! She acts like she can't talk. Smh.

[@sassygirl340]

She's immature

[@StacyBrown2]

Did she watch his previous interview? He is serious and ready to be in a relationship. No games. He seems genuine and transparent. Wish him all the best.

[@shemgreen7774]

Yes hes not gonna find the woman he wants and needs on a show like this

[@mzbrown6969]

@@StacyBrown2 yes because we know women who are serious have sex after two weeks of knowing someone, crazy thing is the women who do aren't the ones that men want.

[@joynay444]

@@shemgreen7774 He sure wont. He also doesn't know how to pick women. When he decided to go with her I yelled at the TV. lol.

[@tmcurly]

Buddy not ready for marriage at all. Zero vetting skills. They need to share the same values and time lines etc. There needs to be chemistry. He needs therapy IMO because he is just going about his dating life haphazardly smh 🤦🏽‍♀️.

[@tmcurly]

Exactly right when they matched I knew it was never going to work. They barely had a spark or conversation on stage. Was destined to fail. He just went by looks and her career and thought he had won already. You gotta hit first before to decide to go to Greece. The chemistry must be there.

[@peacepocket]

“You’re bad at hugs” is wild! They had wayyy too many issues for a couple that just met. The vacation was a blessing in disguise.

[@jgg55]

He should have taken her to Miami or Houston even. Close to home 😂 nothing fancy because her attitude doesn’t deserve such a man

[@TheMariemarie16]

Him saying she was bad at hugs was to me kind of code for her not being into hugging him maybe being stiff and not responding to the hug which is a red flag

[@jay.mays954]

the bad at hugs thing might have just been used as a metaphor

[@dbreezy2500]

He should’ve never offered her a trip to where SHE wanted to go to “test” her out. Offer her a trip to where HE wanted to go. and shorter and cheaper. If she really wanted to be with him, she’ll go.

[@TheMariemarie16]

@@jay.mays954 they seem to indicate that they didn't do the sMexuals so I don't know

[@BasicTruth-j3e]

No one can get upset because she didn't want to get intimate, hugging or kissing) because she had boundaries, and any other time people are telling guys to respect a woman's boundaries, but, I 've seen a lot of comments saying that she is wrong for not letting him touch or kiss her, because he paid for the trip. That doesn't make sense. She and he has a right to set boundaries and just because someone does something special does not mean that you have to give up your body to them

[@JocTillery]

A virtual catchup, we already kno what time it is smdh!!

[@ALittleBitOfEverything-555]

😂😂😂😂

[@Te-Rebel]

Yup yup😂

[@ilovemoney0214]

Don’t come on the show if you’re not ready to make the full commitment.. hopefully contracts are coming soon 👀

[@Nestle245]

It's wild because they hung out a lot.

[@Peacefullytimah]

He did that to a lady on his first match. I’m surprised he’s there in person

[@jesstheromantic]

The way she’s making Arlette work for a direct answer is the way she made him work for affection. She is just hella guarded and I’m convinced she is not mature enough to be in a relationship. Also, eric why are you flying people out 3 weeks after meeting them???

[@cyes1156]

Dating has changed so much and men need to do something different period.....Conventional dating like Hinge, or Arlette's show dating show are no longer producing results.......Men need to arranged dating or arranged marriage....That's the only thing that will work

[@Sjbjo]

@@cyes1156 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Majormajorc]

I was thinking the same thing!

[@maritawanazw]

​@@cyes1156arranged marriage doesn't work either because why would you marry someone you didn't choose for yourself??? One might actually not be compatible with their arranged partner and despise them🤷🏾‍♀️

[@cyes1156]

@maritawanazw Women are choosing for themselves today and where is it leading them🤣🤣🤣.....Arrangements are the foundation of certain religions and it keeps their family together...... Today, NOBODY is staying together because chosing for ourselves has FAILED MISERABLY

[@OliyaRoche]

Also, the “I take notes” cracks me up. Can you imagine saying something, then forgetting and your partner pulling up a notepad and saying, “I think you’ll find that on the 5th of November at 5:34 p.m. you said…” 😅

[@deandrewifey2011]

😂😂😂

[@SlimeNews]

Now u know why he can't keep women

[@jasming8893]

😂😂

[@thelifeofeuro]

thats crazy, my birhtday just so happen to be on th 5th, but the facts is that its always convenient to forget something when it doesn't work in your favor or make you look good

[@sylviatunu6080]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@RealCurtBenz]

I like how Arlette Got them answers out of them!!😌

[@jojoisdashh]

I don’t feel bad for him, they obviously have nothing in common and it seems like Eric can’t find someone cause he’s fixated on being with a baddie. I think he needs to be with someone who actually likes him for who he is and he’ll be fine. When you lead with your possessions and money you’ll attract that type of energy. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@pictureboi1]

She will be looking for an Eric in her mid to late 30’s . lol

[@shemarroberts8686]

You don't know him enough to say any of this 💀💀💀 ...the baddie part

[@jojoisdashh]

@@shemarroberts8686Clearly referring to my own observation of the original ep and post interview. It’s painfully obvious and common irl. Don’t lead with money period 🤷🏾‍♀️ That’s why it’s called comments I’m commenting ..

[@danieltucker632]

He deserves an attractive woman and shes average

[@TrinaTimerra]

He doesn’t even give off that vibe that “he’s fixated on being with a baddie”..

[@MaxedUP2]

Chile one thing Miss Arlette is going to do is ASK THE QUESTION 😂😂 she gunna make sure we get the details 😂😂

[@Melaninqueenjai]

😂 facts!

[@SnipesRuntheNavy]

Chile?

[@MaxedUP2]

@@SnipesRuntheNavy a country in South America

[@OlivePall]

@@MaxedUP2😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you for real ???

[@MaxedUP2]

@@OlivePall about what? 😂🤫

[@looselipspodcast4552]

The way Arlette has to dig for information 🤦🏽‍♀️ Y’all know why we are here, y’all know why you are here, and y’all know what we want to hear so just give us the update and hang up!

[@peacebalancetruth]

🎯🎯🎯💪🏾😩 NAILED IT HUN🤝🏾.

[@bmarchai]

Dang hahaha you right thou

[@aldenasuemia]

I don't understand how a man so well spoken, so bright and so intelligent, handsome, calm, adventurous and apparently rich would be doing trying to find one of them in a show like this. Surely a man of such great qualities cannot be so desperate?

[@SunXFlowr]

Her boo in the room with her ...she being vague lol Edit: ik yall seen her looking at someone lol

[@christeya2615]

😂😂

[@F_Dot_]

Blink twice sis!

[@Quay-]

Yup I was saying the same thing she’s sitting with a man that surly isn’t ready to fly her around the world 😮

[@OilstockGeorge]

@@Quay-unfortunate truth is that’s what a lot of women want lol a man to blow their back out and not really care…Eric did everything a woman usually ask for and look where it got him? Should’ve took her to Olive Garden, smashed and moved on. Smh

[@anniesalis1]

@@Quay-lol😅

[@SthrnPrettyCiara]

She just didn't like him. She's not attracted to him. I do think she's a simple girl who doesn't ask for much but I also think she didn't give a damn where they went on dates because she didn't see it being serious anyway. I think she said yes to the trip because she always wanted to go and I think he wanted to be a lil closer and at least hug, kiss and be romantic while they were in Greece and she was grossed out because she was there for the trip, not him. She comes off generally quiet and passive, which I think masks her personality, good or bad.

[@fiverolltacos]

excellent

[@MsSoaringstar18]

That’s what I think too

[@pictureboi1]

I’m just trying to think why she didn’t just pop her ballon? Why go on a trip with a stranger

[@fiverolltacos]

@@pictureboi1 its 2024…. lets bfr

[@brittc1411]

Best observation

[@marvettehouston9654]

She's a whole different beast then she portray on the show. Her voice is even different

[@LaidbackNarration3000]

Yeah shes a finesse s*vage, chameleon too ##blessed

[@gerald-r3x]

its the maryland women special oldest trick in the book

[@HomebyFadeline]

I said the same thing . Thought I was going crazy

[@gerald-r3x]

@@HomebyFadeline she did the biggest pump fake broadcasted

[@sterlingriles1096]

totally agree😅

[@crystalybarra5763]

Eric you’re so sweet for gifting her this trip!!

[@shirellejackson507]

It wasn't mentioned that he actually paid for her airplane ticket

[@MoneyPowerMoreMoney]

That’s why you don’t take a girl you just met to Greece tryna be fly guy 😂

[@amirken5309]

All that money wasted for an average women who finessed you. When will you clowns learn? Take her on chicken dates and keep it pushing

[@Ogeanyichie]

Facts overinvestment leads to hurt feelings. People must be vetted properly

[@centenoj85]

Agree She a 304s

[@avegansutopia3008]

He tried to trick on her & it backfired. 🤣

[@sincerelysamantha_]

I honestly think that’s his lifestyle. He seems well traveled.

[@lreez977]

Y’all are wild in the comments, Eric mos def got some things “off” about him. He doesn’t seem like a bad guy, but he comes off as very intense and doesn’t seem to understand social cues. His approach to relationships seems very systematic almost like solving a problem and relationships don’t necessarily work that way.

[@pinkrosesfly]

This right here. Plus, at the end of the day, they are not compatible.

[@Radiance230]

Fair But she didn’t notice this before taking the trip out to Greece?

[@lashandajohnsonjohnson7632]

He might be on the Autism Spectrum.

[@arnabiarnab3037]

@@Radiance230it’s hard to say no to Greece 😅😅

[@TheGoblinHub.]

THANK YOU

[@OhYouKudaKing]

Taking her to Greece when you can barely get a hug from her😂😂😂 this man a goof

[@tmcurly]

Yes he goofy 🤪

[@MrBoyYankee]

Dude this wasn't all of his fault. She portrayed herself and fake front. That one of the worst kind of clout chasing.

[@gioproductionsm]

@@MrBoyYankeeno he should have seen it then smh that’s simp work right there

[@PabloZoelife]

Thank you somebody had to say it. She didn’t even deserve dinner the first date. Nothing against her, but she didn’t like dude….she knew she could use him…& she did

[@MrBoyYankee]

@@gioproductionsm how tho? Your on a timed dating show where it's assembly lined Where you choosing or trying to get chose. Then you got a limited amount of time asking shitty questions, That's if you make it long enough not to have your balloon popped or get popped before your able to say the first letter of your own name. Dealing with childish shallow behavior. With both attitudes & "issues" on a change up. What hat did I forget, oh yeah, don't be short.

[@diceflawless9115]

I can peep the whole problem right away! Eric is doing too much, too fast. He's too nice and also a little controlling. He played himself. He said he made notes that she needs to give better hugs... Who does that??? He taking the girl on trips and hasn't even got the box yet. If relationships are in 10 stages. 1 being the first date and 10 being marriage. A international trip is a level 7 thing. Dude jumping from level 3 to level 7 and then expecting all the levels before to be there. When you do that the vibe is always gonna be off. Hes expecting the full gf experience when she's still in the dating stage. Never give too much too early. Make her work for it the same as she's making you work for it. Put your wallet down and get to know her!

[@calebisom3291]

10/10

[@keyunit101]

Homeboy need to lets go of the thought of the aesthetically pleasing woman and find the women that actually like him for him and not only what he has to offer.

[@meganakinsanya4702]

That’s usually the downfall of most black men, they try so hard to get the baddie, who don’t want them instead of them seeing the perfections of an imperfect girl. They don’t learn until they are 60 and lonely

[@keyunit101]

⁠ It doesn’t only pertain to black men. It’s goes for people in general everybody wants to chase a unicorn when wats for them they overlook. Women do it also. But everyone will learn eventually. Hopefully not the hard way .

[@Jamesgalc-gs8wu]

💯

[@Jamesgalc-gs8wu]

​@keyunit101 yes

[@TaviaDezi]

Something I thought she acts just like the 1st girl he picked.

[@safboogie83]

When they matched, I knew it would end this way. Eric is very particular. He like things his way. Though he states he had her make the choices, it's not something he actually likes. He's over 10 years older than she is. He purposely didn't wake up. This man totally plans everything. No way he over slept. He wanted to see what she would do

[@masculinitymatters9030]

And she said she will never wake anyone up...pray for those kids she bears one day, they have no shot at perfect attendance.

[@safboogie83]

@@masculinitymatters9030 he's an adult. She said they had a conversation prior to this about not waking folks up, so why did he think she would wake him up for this. That man is very calculated.

[@Usersomethingsometh]

Yeah even Arlette attested to the fact that he likes to plan. Also if I think she mentioned that they had just finished a fight, I wouldn't wake him up either.

[@safboogie83]

@user-ir4fp9mq6z exactly. He didn't wake up knowing she wouldn't wake him up, then to call her "passive". He fell asleep after a 3 mile run? Lolol. Cmon now

[@wandiam6635]

@@safboogie83 definitely the gives the vibes that he “tests” people by manipulating a situation and then hiding his hands and pretend he wasn’t

[@djvirgob]

She knows the man she actually is attracted to cannot give her no trip 😂😂😂

[@PeacefulPrime]

THISSSSSS 😂😂😂

[@MrMiamiswaggz305]

It’s always the case.

[@TorranceJPlaylist]

Exactly

[@gerald-r3x]

THATS A BAR FOOL

[@MrOJohn]

Bingo

[@wisegirl03]

Eric is a very awesome type of man. He just needs a sweet, affectionate and kind girl.

[@yprandoe2702]

Damn i knew it, the way she kept looking away! She got a whole man over there with her and aint trying to say too much 😂

[@yvienow23]

Her ex

[@BuRGHsBOi]

That's really what all the drama is about

[@melaniinlayy]

mannn 😂😂😂

[@NeoMoses]

Go to 9:46 she got another guy in the room, sad and disgusting.

[@albertfinch1020]

😂😂

[@themarketingpros5517]

It’s more to the story than they’re telling - she’s disgusted by him. Arlette laughing to lighten the tenseness

[@Rhawn246]

I want to know what really happened. He was there trying to put her on the spot knowing that there's more

[@Shayane13]

That's exactly what I said, her aura seems conflicted, something else happened behind close doors.

[@allstarz531]

Definitely I think he asked for some personal belongings and didn’t get any. I could be wrong though

[@comeatmebro8120]

Its not that deep yall. He wanted to smash, she didn’t want to, he got offended , and that caused a heated argument. She even admitted they said hurtful things to each other so that’s probably why she feels disgusted by him

[@childofroyalty1005]

He got a lil D, cuz if he was packin she would've folded out of the country.

[@tasheenageorge4044]

He looks different every time. He’s super handsome

[@o.nature]

You got yo balloon unpopped

[@Fit.fly_trucker]

@@o.nature😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tasheenageorge4044]

@@o.nature 😂😂😂😂

[@riseforhumanity90]

When I saw them match I was like.. "Its going to end in tears". Eric is a Narcissist 😂😂

[@Lorob854]

I don’t see this… how??

[@niaturner2137]

@@Lorob854you gotta watch how he acted on the reunion🙃he doesn’t seem very nice in my opinion😬

[@zibelebruciebenubrucieb8850]

@@niaturner2137 I watched that reunion he was nice and normal... You're a western woman who want men to be doormats, i bet you were offended by him having an opinion.

[@clapbackcinema3621]

These comments are concerning. She very honestly said they found that they weren't compatible after spending time together. That is the entire point of dating. They are different people at different stages in life. Eric seems to be more concerned with looks and thinks he can mold a young woman. While she seems to be looking for a genuine and easy connection. It's OK that they didn't work out.

[@A.Light33]

That's because a lot of people don't “date” or “court” anymore, they just hop into situationships and find after the fact they aren't compatible.

[@alexisdavis7578]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@hospitaladministrator3359]

Who doesn’t want to be attracted to the person they date. This young lady is full of herself and will end up a single mother

[@chan2009ify]

Oh please 🙄 she’s immature, bland and not ready for a sincere connection

[@BlessingLee123]

@@hospitaladministrator3359 I rebuke those negative words in the name of Jesus! I speak success and marriage over her life.

[@BobbyJohnson-z9d]

Eric sounds like he makes Shakespeare novels

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Lololol funny .

[@idowumohammed4689]

I have read quite a few comments, and everyone is dissing the lady. She is a working Engineer and she can more than afford her own trip to Greece anytime. A trip to Greece does not entitle anyone to sex. He planned the trip to jumpstart the relationship, but not everyone is wired that way. Also, not everyone wants to spill their guts on in public what went wrong in a relationship. I see her been very respectful, and trying to hold back on information. She saw enough red flags to know Eric is good enough to be just a friend and nothing more. It was very decent of her to continue to check on Eric until he finally landed home. Lastly Eric is very good on paper. Great job, high net worth, tall and handsome. He is 39, but there must be a reason he has not found anyone till date. The first young lady did not even want to go on a date with him. This 29 year old Engineer was definitely interested but saw enough red flags to decide otherwise. Good luck to both her and Eric, in finding suitable partners. And Kudos to the parents that raised Jocelynn to be the independent young lady that she is.

[@slim2845]

I agree with everything you said except for the checking-up part. Maybe it's just me but I cut off all communications after it didn't work out with girls. I'm not speaking on their situation but some people just don't deserve to be in your life. I think boundaries are essential in this world we live in

[@tolupoish4692]

Best comment I've seen under this video!!! I can't believe everyone is on his side because he planned a trip she never asked for in the first place. I'm proud of her for making the decision to leave when it felt uncomfortable. I'm even happy on her behalf that she had the money to take herself out of the situation. Her refusal to give so many details was her in my own opinion just refusing to be in an argumentative position of his POV vs her POV She took accountability where necessary and I applaud her for that. I have mixed feelings about seeing him as a 'great friend' though. She seems to be in denial, he probably isn't a 'great' guy he just does 'great' things. For her sake, I'm happy he refused to remain friends. I think she'll be grateful for it some time in the future

[@meaux-kneaux]

She's still a woman. All women are crazy and it's not even debatable. Women are so crazy that if men say it, they get mad but if a woman says it, they agree and laugh. Just by how they communicate, you can tell who's good at communicating and who's not! I'm sure they communicated expectations and someone didn't follow through. Also, she's extremely emotionally immature. Hopes she gets it together...and she probably is A great young lady, but that means nothing if you can't communicate and is emotionally immature.

[@janaer5529]

exactly!!!!!

[@thatgirlamber14]

👏🏾👏🏾 agreed

[@queenbella8957]

Cold as ice … her attitude shows why she’s single

[@LeighGee]

This interview has been the hardest to watch 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Emaniwilson]

I had to put it in 1.25 speed

[@NeoMoses]

Go to 9:46 she got another guy in the room, sad and disgusting.

[@unbotheredchico]

I cringed

[@allanbahati1942]

@@NeoMosesyep and at 30:52. See how she laughs at him.

[@anthonylewis4325]

@@NeoMoses nothing surprises these days

[@shay9993]

So, he came over, wanted to help you clean/organize, he moved some shoes and that made you upset! did you even like the brother, seriously? smh.

[@lolabombshell8978]

QTNA!!! 😂

[@shyshy2020]

He was about to say he found something but got interrupted

[@bleeka325]

He admitted to touching the items she didn’t want him to touch with out her permission

[@imrickjamesbiiiiitchhh6161]

She wouldn't have been mad if Denzel, Idris or LL COOL JAY touched her stuff wo permission 😂

[@imrickjamesbiiiiitchhh6161]

​@@shyshy2020yeah I caught that too

[@jaydubya9265]

I cant believe he took her on such a beautiful trip and she did him like that. Damn my boy. Men just love yourselves and the right partner will come along.

[@tmston2]

imho, he was an idiot for that so that’s on him

[@ruthy620]

the problem with Eric is he's too picky. He's nice and handsome so having a female shouldn't be a problem but the guy is quite specific at what he wants. Eric I hope you find what you're looking for

[@daverencoburn3939]

Man these 304s ain’t shi 😩

[@GetYourLife24]

​@@tmston2it's clear she is not on that level wanting to eat at buffalo wings and pizza inn. GURL! He should know better

[@Gab566]

He did it to himself. He led with his money and expected something in return ... a fool and there money are soon parted.

[@xDarkAngelxc]

Long story short, she wasn't feeling him from the start but she sees him as a good friend to keep around and he was like nah I'm good!

[@Mrs.T305]

Yup and she shouldn't have gone on the trip

[@wtrwrld.]

ONE THING I DONT LIKE THAT WOMEN DO IS HAVE THEIR FRIENDS AROUND IN SERIOUS SITUATIONS. LIKE WHY TF IS SHE LAUGHING WITH HER FRIENDS WHILE IN THIS OMFG. IMMATURE.

[@monumentalmoments7757]

i peeped that! Pathetic! In Marital and Family Therapy WE call that "Triangulation".

[@wtrwrld.]

@@monumentalmoments7757 mmmmm notedddd, that jus be sooo annoying and invasion of privacy, even in dating stage.

[@lesvan98]

It comes with the age

[@ashleyveney3302]

It’s a whole production and crew and I’m sure he came with someone 😂😂

[@arthurbeckett2510]

In situations like this she probably wanted to be validated with her decisions that she made . She is making me feel like she is kinda kiddish . Not really able to properly communicate with normal conversations or express herself good .