Reggie and Nova Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli

[@Risha-Rene]

The way this started out with them bonding over gaming, going out the same night & being together for 2 weeks I was not expecting that plot twist. This quickly went in a completely different direction

[@84mztoya]

They did too much too quick

[@lonniex4237]

I peeped that body language when he was talking around that 4 min. mark. Sister girl was rollin them eyes 🙄🙄🤣🤣

[@lisalistener]

oh nooo cryyyyyyy I came here to say how this is best couple yet but something told me to check the comments, I'm gutted

[@Risha-Rene]

@@84mztoya yep, I agree

[@Risha-Rene]

@@lonniex4237 😂😂😂😂

[@swiftrover]

I found this show a week ago and have watched all the episodes so far. I’m white, married, 30yo straight male, loving these segments and the show in general. Arlette is real. And she listens to everyone equally and removes judgement, or bias. She’s got the realest relationship based interview show I’ve ever seen. She’s not programming who she invites on. Fake people, and real people are going to come on the show alike, just like in real life it’s a mix. The show also sheds light on the misdirection of desire, and that judgment poor at times, and is seen as an imminent threat. Defensive people, gloating people, timid, meek, toxic, selfish, loving, joyous, chipper, solemn, bleek, angry, self obsessed, gentle, charming, observant, quiet, loud, disrespectful, pleasant, condescending, passive-aggressive, reasonable, it’s all there, and Arlette listens and her reactions are genuine and funny. People share who they are, what they’re looking for, and what they need in a partner, and challenge each other by asking them to answer deep and personal questions. It’s beautiful. This show is groundbreaking.

[@kingnarhmusic]

Absolutely groundbreaking; and your summary of it is quite succint!

[@subsnclubs]

I thought I was alone 😂 37 white married with kids and this shows great

[@FreedomNurse]

I agree with everything you said. a lot of us has been here from the beginning and you can see the growth in the show and the way the contestants behave on the show. One of the biggest take away from last season was that a lot of the matches wasn’t going on dates and was just there for promotional content. The fans voice their opinions and I believe the show may have made some changes. Anywho, welcome and enjoy reading the comments. They are just as good as the show😅

[@swiftrover]

@@FreedomNurse yes, believe I heard Arlette say in a recent recap that if you match you now must go on a date. I’m not sure if there are contracts involved, or how that’d be enforced, but it makes sense. I know contestant Eric, was mad that he did not get a date with his match. Some felt for him, but he was also lambasted, for picking her based on superficial reasoning, i.e. getting exactly what he chose, or deserved in essence.

[@millyuganda05]

Thank you sir 😊

[@dspenderella9671]

I like how they're both calm and just disagreeing respectfully and not being belligerent.

[@raewill3079]

Right and they both let each other speak

[@PacoSmith]

Indeed, they held a mature discussion.

[@beeojeiks6516]

😢they did not work out. I really like them together sad it didn’t work out. I hope they both learn from the experience.

[@Staysea_Lace]

“I’ve never been that type of girl”… then… “I showed him my onlyfans” I slowly fell to the floor 🤣 🤣

[@animekingdom4918]

🤣😭

[@gracelong3975]

😂😂😂

[@srfhamid922]

Saying she was in the entertainment world a long time ago but still having and OF is funny. That’s entertainment mama

[@Fifthelement203]

Oooooo. She got a OF! O snap.

[@MrSamPhoenix]

Yup

[@glecservices3114]

These women act brand new yet they ain’t virgins yet they want and expect the best from a man they are funny

[@TakeaSwigofTheJuice]

Yeah after doing research on it for credibility purposes, it seems as though she has been updating it recently.

[@Destiny.Lofton]

@@TakeaSwigofTheJuice”research purposes” 😂 I’m ctfu

[@junkfoodvegan]

Arlette and her team are consistent with these uploads. Right as soon as you wonder when's the next upload, they put one up. Love to see it!

[@condesabeatriz9303]

💯

[@blazeworks]

Yes for real !!!

[@Toyota415]

It think their schedule is now set: followup on Tuesday, new episode on Wednesday.

[@1Sakks0]

Yup! Tomorrow, we get a new episode! I hope the lineup is men! I love wheb the men are lined up.

[@Pinkypie2003]

@@1Sakks0nope, women's turn

[@MrUgandaUK]

ONLLYFANS, threesomes, trauma, getting off birth control, blocking, gaslighting, betrayal, he said she said, unemployment, making a channel/podcast...this was a whole drama in only a space of a few weeks lmao

[@papaadwoa569]

I screamed 😅😅😅

[@mayabasquin]

Haven’t picked my jaw up off the floor.

[@srfhamid922]

Threesomes. Hol on 😂😂😂

[@fitzmorris6813]

Wait, what? Huh!? What I miss!!? Shorty got an OF? 3somes? 👀 due tell.

[@easeyomind2147]

Whew my brain hurt this was alottttt😂 in just a matter of weeks

[@marygoretty1923]

Mad respect to this man. The humility in his heart speaks volumes in this video. Love you❤

[@jamesmontoban1338]

I want the ninja turtles reunion Nowwwwww 😂

[@8ighty6ixx]

He said he not comin back

[@Sweet_Karma]

They didn't go out in the end. The ninja turtle guy said on social media that she gave her number to some other guy who is meant to be on the next episode 😂 so he just left with his brother. Not sure if they'll be back on because of that. I will say this is just a rumour that people said, but it sounds like a kinda real to be honest because there's nothing outrageous to it.

[@naimalovesyou]

Not if the girl he matched with gave her number to someone else before they left the set lol

[@ondrarosie]

STATTTTT

[@DaLlami]

😂😂😂

[@arnold2106]

Arlette sitting there like yall I am NOT a marriage counselor 😅 this was a tough one for her to be in the middle of. THIS IS WHY SHE IS THE BEST HOST ❤

[@deescott8312]

😂😂 poor arlette

[@feleshaheaven1723]

I respect how he lets her talk her stuff even when you can visually see it was painful. Respect him for that still.

[@mykahthemaven]

Loved that. And how he explained context for certain things. Seems like a stand up guy.

[@tharris452]

For sure. Great observation

[@miked10able]

Typical gold digging black women-she been ran through

[@glecservices3114]

He needs a woman who doesn’t have a past just like women like men who are not broke 😊

[@jeremyhughes7159]

Facts lol

[@QuietstormRB]

I see Reggie made an appearance on the most recent Ep of Pop the 🎈and every question he asked was based off the Nova Experience 🤣

[@ShounenRoach]

He wasn't go through that again😂

[@NessaHTX]

ok! I was wondering if anyone else caught that lol!

[@28cosha]

Yes I definitely noticed that lol

[@ItsByronTalks]

I noticed that too! 😂

[@marlongenius1260]

😂

[@Chris-zp3kw]

This went from a love story to throwing shots omg😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@84mztoya]

So fast

[@Nestle245]

Yeah I was confused I had the video running after the successful beginning I then stepped away for a few minutes came back I thought she was talking about her ex or someone not him.

[@Risha-Rene]

Had me clutching my invisible pearls 🤭

[@Bangs_Theory]

Shorty had a past. 😅 It will always come back to bite you in the ass😅

[@g.a.d6988]

Yeah like all relationships

[@djprez2339]

Shorty saying dating is hard and Arlette, who has a whole dating show, said so I’ve heard 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 shit had me in tears 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mandym918]

😂😂😂😂

[@blazeworks]

Well when married couple heard of the dating issues. I know they are like thank goodness guys !!! lol 😂 😂

[@dannydillard8233]

😂😂

[@dannydillard8233]

It’s not that hard. For the right people. I’ll date her and have her Happy 🥰 and Healthy Life we’d have

[@alishacarter3807]

That part had me weak 😂😂😂

[@stage5_]

Mannn. I’m smiling the first 10 minutes thinking they hit it off. This went left too quick. 😂

[@millieras123]

TOO quick!

[@jadenromell1458]

Once the episode pass 25 minutes it’s a rap😂

[@christine-97]

I was genuinely happy for them in the beginning....I really thought they had something special.

[@rae2443]

@@christine-97same😭😭 so disappointed

[@Itgirlriixxii]

I don’t know I could tell by their facial expressions while the other one was talking in the beginning that something was up

[@PrimeinformationNetwork]

Whewww. Im exhausted listening to Nova's contradictions. I can only imagine how Reggie felt.

[@dnaLedge]

@@nanisworld6125 so you agree?

[@OnlySpirituallah]

I had to zoom in on his face as she was talking he was over it 😭😭😭

[@lakenyarush6087]

I agree

[@mrsrichard7835]

She claims she hasn’t been a stripper for 6 years but then also said she just uploaded an only fans video of her dancing in APRIL! I see why he had a hard time believing her.

[@dcm2dcg]

💯💯💯

[@alisjay9798]

Only fans is a camera, stripping a whole different ball game

[@23libra79]

Strippers always going back to their old ways when they need more money.

[@OhYouKudaKing]

Nah facts!

[@kenneyp.9456]

I know a lot of strippers, they never truly leave the club they’ll always go back

[@jazzie.c]

So they were together? My goodness. They went through 5 years worth of relationship in two weeks lol

[@AfroLatina3]

😂🤣OMG! Yesss! Something to be said for taking it slow. Gives the nervous system time to process.

[@estherduah1983]

.. hope she never goes back!....

[@Ayomide-nn4yn]

😂

[@GlambitiousNetwork]

That was alot for 2 weeks 😮‍💨

[@BTurn4099]

I tho k that’s what women want since they hate “Wasting Time” 😂

[@bossibunz8143]

This catch up had more twists & turns than a back road. My God. 🤣🤣🤣

[@delandomcwilliams5737]

😂😂😂😂

[@2010DERT2010]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@moons91390]

The fact that she said “my turn “ when the episode is mostly her talking told me everything I needed to know .. this is why you shouldn’t have block him to tell him all these emotions you felt .

[@halftimehomes]

This is the best pop the balloon show on KZbin. All of the other ones are copies and for entertainment purposes only. This one has entertainment too, but the host is authentically focused on building relationships

[@carlb4741]

the others don't have the class that Arlette brings.

[@nathancharles7043]

For real 💪

[@kbis2cold]

you cant call ALL of them copies though since this wasn't even close to being the first. I agree that its the best though

[@chuckokoye2410]

To be fair, this version is also a copy lol, but its done very well

[@REPENTFORTHEKINGDOMISATHAND]

This is a copy too 😂😂 just five arlette her flowers and stop trying to throw the 50+ other shows before hers under the bus

[@ParqForrest]

Arlette sounded so tired by the end mental exhausted listening to them. I didn’t know who to believe. Glad they went their separate ways.

[@JORDYSCURVEDTHUMB]

I was mentally exhausted by her… short and simple would have sufficed, but she literally dug her own hole by going on and going on,

[@GodIs4u8888]

I think they both are crazy

[@zitmo1]

What did he hide or lie about in his life?

[@charlotteyork7074]

I actually liked them together and the fact that they were both into gaming I thought it was so cute! Too bad Nova seems to be her own worst enemy.

[@zikannoli1353]

When he matched with her I was like what ? I thought he matched better with the last one that had the balloon I can’t remember who but I do remember I didn’t think they matched

[@lifewithlatisha3697]

I like that he was seeking counsel. People who seek assistance, show that they are realistic and can see they need help.

[@TrueRattlehead]

In a multitude of counsel there is wisdom. She is a bop and he couldn't see it

[@l.timmers7657]

Broken people still weaponise therapy. Going to therapy basically doesn’t mean much is just a step in a direction, what one does with the therapy/counseling reveals their intentions and integrity.

[@cherie0882]

@@lifewithlatisha3697 He need to seek counsel from a professional.

[@cellyszn20]

@@l.timmers7657those broken people that you are referring to that weaponise therapy, they tend to “therapy speak”, tend to deflect, find ways to manipulate and put down the other. This man legit said he accepted it didn’t work and with providing context for claims, didn’t speak down on her and kept it respectful. She has not rebutted the fact he did apply what he was advised to do, all she was focused on was the argument about the dancer. Which is fine, both seem like they just wanted different things, more on her side. She probably interpreted something he meant as wanting to have a child in a or two years to be something that has to happen right away. He doesn’t fit the types you’re referring to.

[@javondashoffner-collins540]

Everyone is ignoring that he’s a red flag. He felt she was insecure & tried to capitalize on it. He has a controlling nature, and tries to downplay it. He tried to paint her as a broken and needy person…that needed him to save & grow her. I’m glad she was confident enough & observant enough to catch it. Even all of his jobs are to make him feel like he is saving others.

[@babushka4062]

I believe both of them…he love bombed and she down played her past and possible present! 😂😂

[@hotrefuel]

She is definitely STILL dancing!!!

[@ManlozJuice]

@@hotrefuel she's dancing out of town lmaoo

[@taiwookeola6306]

💯

[@nasirnasiry2836]

Right onlyfans .run

[@nasirnasiry2836]

She dont Love ihm .only Hes Money 💰💳💷💶 17:32

[@FreedomNurse]

This was by far the best follow up. It was raw and emotional. A roller coaster. I was so happy for them when it started and then sad in the end. They are literally the only couple that actually tried. I wish them both the best and hope they can both find someone❤

[@iamhorcruxer]

Aye she kinda bad I might holla

[@mitchharris1]

Check some of the other follow-ups. There are a few really good success stories. One of them ended in a proposal on the Follow-Up.

[@Dara78377]

I love Arlette's version of Pop the balloon... So mature and coordinated. Her dress sense, laughter and the way she talks is super amazing 😍😍

[@shandelbrown4335]

She’s professional

[@Penelope416]

She's a star. She has a lot of charisma.

[@NicoletteLawrence-q4i]

Sophisticated lady!

[@keimanii2332]

Arlette is effortlessly GORGEOUS

[@Itgirlriixxii]

She really radiates. Definitely wifey material. Bm is blessed

[@najyziwave9161]

Nova not trying to stop making that easy money, I know a hustler when I see one. Shits addictive.

[@dwightPhoenix]

She uses alot of make up and additoons tho. Check her early vids

[@CarlemEllis]

Right !!! She’s too beautiful

[@CarlemEllis]

@@dwightPhoenixnobody cares…. Stfu

[@donmckinney4091]

I've always said when you first meet a person they always put their best foot forward but if your patient then eventually the REAL person will come out! This video proves my point!!

[@them2you]

Arlette was so traumatized in this catch up. Am I the only one peeping her reactions 🤣

[@Tahjman1donjm]

I could see that at the end lol😂😂😂

[@travel_adddictt]

Her energy drained😅

[@stephenxadonai]

Cause she REALLY want ppl to find love 🥹😂

[@wtrwrld.]

facts lmaooo

[@mykahthemaven]

Naaa I peeped! 😂

[@rasheedlewis1]

If EVERYBODY is a model, then NOBODY is a model.

[@jowarren]

Could not agree with this more if I tried.

[@belladamma2345]

Exactly everyone single person that came on the show claimed they are models. SMH

[@augustbaby8254]

New wording/slang for Only Fans, Strippers and $40 Ladys call themselves nowadays

[@BeyondBlueLens]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@michaelthomas6102]

Unbelievable!

[@daisylazyyy]

Arlette's facial expressions got me weak😂😂😂

[@cinnamon88]

Right 😂😂 especially at the birth control part

[@mshotz5171]

Everytime 😂😂

[@NJ-yt9sk]

Arlette is so shady without even realizing 😂 I be passing out!

[@srfhamid922]

Arlette might not tell you what she’s thinking. But her face gonna tell you everytime

[@travel_adddictt]

I love it we need more 😂

[@Sharkj84]

I absolutely love how the host Arlette is dressed very appropriately and classy! God bless ya always!

[@animezae]

The way she spoke about & towards him versus how he spoke about & towards her speaks volumes. She can deny having trauma & villainize him all she wants to but her own behavior in this video points to a different perspective.

[@queencharles3527]

Yeah. It sounds like she was acting out of trauma.

[@beatsbybri]

I was saying the same thing. She is the issue. There are people are here that also takes things their way instead of understanding!!!

[@GoinHam10Four]

She may be traumatized but ohl buddy was on one 😂​@@beatsbybri

[@ladysbhekamageba4531]

She has not healed... the way re remembers every detail of the things that didn't sit well with her... tells me that she is still going through emotional imbalance.

[@Zest4God]

This Channel deserves 4x as many subscribers than it currently has. I hope Arlette rides this wonderful wave she is on and makes more episodes of pop the balloon. Her poise is a big part of the success of the episodes!

[@QueenM3.]

This is the grown folk version. We don't do too much messiness on this side that's why it isn't a ton of followers. Too many messy people on this app like the low budget versions of these kind of shows.

[@BONAF1DE1]

This show is hilarious. Love from the UK. What I love most is how many different ways the contestants manage to say they are unemployed 🤣

[@blackhands301]

Transitioning between jobs lol

[@Tevron_]

Lmao trust me

[@KL-Lady]

😂

[@sophiajordan239]

I be saying this 😂

[@sassybahdman]

It be the I’m a model or entrepreneur for me hahah

[@dspenderella9671]

When he puts on the faux villain voice, it's funny af 😂. He nailed it like the narrative voice in those games.

[@cashtasy]

Dis episode took a left turn quick 😂😂😂

[@Ty-Carm]

Right!!! I was so happy for them, and then BOOM….it went all the way left

[@ChoicesMade696]

Yes 😂😂😂

[@Risha-Rene]

I just said the same thing 😂😂😂

[@Peacefullytimah]

I was hoping it was going good

[@christopherwilliams4802]

The quickest turn lol

[@uqayum786]

This has to be the msot tense catchup episode yet. Real adult issues that you can see how interpretations either side can impact a partner. Credit to them that they gave it a real go and turned up.

[@AceFoodService]

This was the most beautiful and messy catch up yet! I appreciate their responses and letting us catch up with everything they've been through.

[@saraht9442]

Dating is difficult because not many men want to date an ex-dancer & who knows what else. Reggie tried to process what Nova told him, but she didn’t allow him to. He still wanted to be with her, but she wanted him to act as if she told him she was a waitress or cashier.

[@jeahlashelifestyle6816]

Honestly, I dated someone like Reggie, he stands on how great he is and how well he is desired…. Talked about what she needs to work on to be on his level and what she needed to fix MOVED WAY TOO FAST me and my fiance now (Wedding in Oct) both had things going on in our life but we took the time to learn and simply enjoy each other, Built our love over 2 years and now getting married ❤ This guy is too much

[@RepentOrPerishL133]

@@jeahlashelifestyle6816Seriously? Man, the ArrogancE of your statement. "We built our love over 2 years ago and now getting married." Well, that settles it. We can all go home now. You're the expert. You have cracked the code to a lasting relationship. There are thousands, probably millions, of stories where people got married after two or three months, which lasted a lifetime. Have you never heard of those stories? There are millions of stories of people getting married after two or years and then flaming out after a few years, even less. In reality, you haven't built anything because you're not even married yet. Your marriage will show itself successful when one of you is in the ground (death do us part), not because you put the other there either. You have investigated every marriage and have "Conclusive Evidence" that it failed because it wasn't done Your Way. Several factors can have a greater impact on the success of the marriage than how long you waited. If not, those who waited several years would Never Fail.

[@PotentPondering]

7:22 As adults we should do more things we loved as a child. I think that’s actually important while still being a mature adult.

[@jacquelynn2051]

Lemme tel YOU and any others that read this…you are telling the TRUTH. When I got overweight from sedentary due to injury and gained weight..my Segway back into my health, my pain fee and hopeful healthy longetivity was to DANCE. So for anyone complacent of getting back into working out for whatever to lose weight, to not gain any more weight etc..,go back to what you know and loved as a child as most children are active. Idc if it’s gardening (strenuous bending over, stretching positioning) or running (stamina, stretching, positioning) k basketball, volleyball, swimming, waking, cleaning …yes cleaning as when overweight my cleaning fell off so a good cleaning is a workout if you’re doing it right…get knees on a pillow and hand wash those floors etc. TBC you cannot care what others think. I danced in the park yesterday all by myself and stretched too. TBC I did NOT do the give it up….😂…but I moved and two stepped and got an hour workout in … cardio and all…..love you all ❤ Beautiful couple they seem to be well yoked and I wish them the best❤

[@condesabeatriz9303]

Indeed

[@rahkeenclark2254]

The bible say when u grow up put away childish things

[@misstiff29]

@@rahkeenclark2254 Childish is the same as child at heart activities.

[@CowboyBebopCrew]

@@rahkeenclark2254 - I don’t think gaming is childish, games are made for all ages. I think that Bible verse you’re referencing (1 Corinthians 13:11) is not implying that people give up their hobbies in adulthood. I think that’s taking it out of context. I think it’s actually metaphor for maturing in one’s faith/spiritual development by gaining knowledge and letting go of certain ways of behavior.

[@jazzie.c]

Nova says she is private and observant but sis talked I know 80% of this show.😩

[@michellemanns8689]

That part!

[@sakeenasalahudjaggers9204]

Sis told it all

[@Nitty_likes2laugh]

Bro dodged a bullet! Nova will attract men physically, but will turn them off mentally.

[@kimdawson7721]

If you listen to her she telling you she 304

[@mariapapaioannou1727]

your iq ain't right

[@goldenflavor8419]

Not even physically

[@Nitty_likes2laugh]

@@goldenflavor8419 believe me, I’m sure I understand men more than you. They will use her physically, then return her undesirable personality to the streets!

[@Caljay213]

Why?

[@bridgettejohnson9085]

I love Arlette’s outfits! Classy & don’t have to reveal too much. I wish these other ladies would take notes 📝!

[@kwambokamadiba652]

She's married abeg...we dress like single ladies

[@kingmanga8575]

@@kwambokamadiba652 It’s sad that women think showing an excessive amount of skin is how single women r supposed to dress.

[@evaphillips2102]

@@kingmanga8575 if you wanna catch a bee, use honey 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@positivevibe7346]

​​@@kingmanga8575exactly...I'm single and don't dress tacky at all... It's the natural class in some women.

[@JayJay-ik4yq]

Omg...their story started so beautifully 😢

[@Xgil2Play]

Ended tragically. It was like watching Parasite for the first time, a real car crash in slow motion.

[@BluPhire4Hire]

Damn...this started out like a feel good story and twisted harder than Beyonce on a caffeine buzz performing Crazy in Love live in concert. Can't wait to see the reactions by TPindell and Kitezz.

[@condesabeatriz9303]

😂😂😂

[@FreedomNurse]

😂😂😂😂

[@jarodorla6949]

Damn well articulated

[@snnadede001]

I respect him for not stooping down to her level and villainizing her the way that she did him. She claims to not be triggered, but she was obviously bothered by the topic of her confidence and her financial circumstances enough to drag him through the mud and expose intimate conversations that they had, that should never have been our business. So what if he wanted a threesome? So what if he wanted to have a baby with you at a specific timeframe? So what if he said that you typically were not his initial type? I don’t think that makes him a bad person. She claims to not be triggered, but everything she said says otherwise. She kept firing shots that had no rhyme or reason, but to (unsuccessfully) expose him. It was very disappointing to hear how low she got with some of the things that she said about him, and it says a lot about her character. I pray she addresses her pain one day and thoroughly heals.

[@tisharenee4061]

He’s a predator. You have to be healed to recognize it. He made it seem like he just wanted to get to know her but he quickly devised how her past could work for him.

[@davab.]

@@tisharenee4061 or maybe she's lying..

[@lisahawkins9187]

Some things are better left unsaid. His comments were insensitive like asking for a threesome 😒. Reggie broke her down. A past is a past if he was more mature, he would have treaded lightly.

[@BrennonOne]

​@@tisharenee4061I could definitely see that... her comments were HELLA specific to be complete lies. Don't know who to believe tho

[@ritagorgees1550]

Damn the guy didn’t even get a chance to talk .. this girl was talking the whollllllee time he really handled this well 😊

[@Deenique16]

She was so exhausting

[@ritagorgees1550]

@@Deenique16fr

[@bxbeautynyc]

For real. A few KZbin commercial breaks!!! Gee Whiz!!! 😴😴😴

[@angelshackleford2822]

Yes

[@akeemalston7506]

If you let a person talk long enough they’ll say everything you’d say about them.

[@Apollo_Maani]

There’s so much I’ve learned from this channel…my dating life will never be the same

[@konthe678]

😂

[@skinnzthedon]

Foreal cuz 😂

[@Jaericlynn]

Wow! Him seeking advice from married people speaks well of his intentions. He does seem to move fast-paced

[@kingsweetz82]

When u know what you want ain’t no time limit. I know the feeling

[@l.timmers7657]

It doesn’t speak on his intentions at all actually. How he utilises it does.

[@Mariekomax02]

Want her to move and get off birth control but then asking for 3somes like lord

[@edwindiaz8075]

Honestly the best thing about this show is the host she rocks!

[@dwitestifl3r353]

All that in 2, 3 weeks is crazyyyyyyy 😂😂😂😂

[@reginadavis7499]

Right. This is a whole years worth of issues

[@cincososa]

not her saying she a private person & then proceeding to rant during her lil intro lmao

[@Bee-sp7mb]

The way she rambles and was ready to cut him off from talking says that she’s definitely an emotional person.

[@Twitz88]

Or immature

[@WholeHeartily]

That’s a typical female trait. Women are emotional and data proves we talk more than men do.

[@islandbound843]

Very.

[@RDCFemmes]

Exactly how men in the manosphere act😂😂😂😂 but you'll never call them out

[@engineeringdesigns4056]

@@RDCFemmesthe emotional too. You happy now?

[@QueSeraSeraCestLaVie]

Great Reggie met Chanel!!! Chanel is wayyyy better and very genuine clever lady!

[@Racools]

"he gave me no grace" is a crazy statement after blocking, gaslighting and villianising the man

[@estherduah1983]

He was rather gaslighting her. He obviously prefers her past to her present given his threesome request!.... He is an obvious narcissist.

[@cherie0882]

He got his own issues for trying to squeeze a 5 year relationship into two weeks.

[@JUWLZ777]

What were you watching????

[@msphere760]

😂😂😂 This shouldn't be as funny as it is​@@cherie0882

[@joshmcdzz6925]

He's got is own issue -- requesting a threesome is bananas if you are really serious about marriage..

[@Asdfghjklsemicolon]

He wasn’t moving fast. It’s just that men who want a legit relationship don’t play and don’t waste their time or yours. My guy let me know when he stepped up that he was gonna marry me. And every conversation and interaction was along those lines. But it worked because I was wanting the real and knew I was deserving of a real relationship. So it didn’t scare me when he was zero to one trillion because why not seize what you want when you see exactly what you want. Been engaged for 2 years and getting married in a month 🥰

[@cherie0882]

He was doing too much. He knew she wasn’t for him.

[@Magique88888]

If he thought only fans was an issue why stay? Its not adding up.

[@Caljay213]

You didn't have nothing that's why. She is in nursing school and wants to get married before having another child. She has standards

[@raeshaunholt2612]

He’s a narcissist

[@danohsham4935]

@@Caljay213 what standards?

[@illiel2879]

Ladies, your past matters!!! No matter what you say or think. It Matters and will sneak up on you!!!

[@Caljay213]

Shut up

[@user-xe7wc4nb3f]

Facts they would probably be happily in love if she didnt do adult entertainment.

[@chiefk587]

Especially if you were a stripper.

[@nasirnasiry2836]

You never Change womans manid .she is dwon in the hole 👈

[@And1one757]

My problem with this guy he knew her past mattered to him... yet he kept trying to pursue her at the same... like if not ok with it just let it go dont know why he dragged it out hanging out with her every day for 2 weeks

[@magdalapierre3005]

She's private but she put her whole life on youtube in 50mins 😅😮😅. Interesting...

[@tinaf600]

That point. I was like wow, really, tell us more haha 🍿

[@sofbubble]

And on only fans...very private indeed...

[@Victoria28057]

I'm ot trying to defend her. But she was pretty much explaining what happened. She had to say some of what happened in her past 🤷

[@pyrexjonestrollingangta6680]

I'll pay for it😂😂😂😂😂

[@lovablevietboy]

This girl is why the dating community is so messed up and she's a single mom too lol

[@veriteetfeu]

Arleeeeeettttteee…you’re a champ! Nova was talking waaaaay tew much! Then when he tried to talk, she cut him off. I appreciated his willingness to listen tho…and his opportunity to clarify or offer context to what she said.

[@Itgirlriixxii]

Yes, I wish she interjected more after nova made each claim to let him answer, because she said a whole lot and then he had to try to remember everything he wanted to respond to

[@nanisworld6125]

Yea I think my mom talked a lil to much

[@BradJames878]

@@Itgirlriixxii That is one issue I have with Arlette. Sometimes she lets people go on way too long. Dr. Elom came on during the Reggie/Nova episode. and he was driving me crazy. I literally had to fast-forward some of his segment because he went on and on so long, and Arlette was loving it. One contestant correctly stated that Dr Elom was acting just to go viral, and Arlette nodded in agreement. Well then why did Arlette allow him to continue so long if she knew he was just performing to gain followers? She finally did cut him off after one point, but by then the damage was done, and I was yelling at the monitor for him to shut the hell up. I guess it's possible that maybe Arlette has a crush on the 'dentist' herself, but she needs to focus on keeping her show moving along with quality segments.

[@priestd90]

All I heard was that her pimp died, she started dancing, and got introduced to OnlyFans. When she told him, he was like, "What the heck? I thought you were a gamer." Then he started asking if she was giving it up in the champagne room. She said, "No, I only stripped. Don’t believe the stereotypes." She probably shared some wild stories, and he was like, "No way, you couldn’t have been giving it up." He talked to his friends and got some counseling, but they were convinced she was giving it up, and he couldn't get over it. 😂😂

[@nathaniel972ful]

Accurate analysis 👍🏾. She's well advanced in the 304 game and he's just a basic guy doing his thing, making his lil money, having fun on his Playstation. He doesn't have what he takes to manage a chick like that. No regular man can. You have to be up on the street game to know your way around girls like that. You can never be soft, always tough. Otherwise they'll have the same effect of a deadly virus in your life because you couldn't shut their sh-t down.

[@MCfact1827]

Sounds draining for a man to deal with....better to just move on

[@pay_attn]

GREAT SUMMARY

[@priestd90]

@@pay_attn quick lil speculation I whipped up

[@dmddmd7980]

NAH FR

[@idakt]

I'm not gone hold you, the way their faces were right at the start of this told me everything 😂

[@Itgirlriixxii]

Same!!!!!!

[@mykahthemaven]

Peeped!

[@patrickbutts1520]

Bro had his eyes closed and not even looking at her in the beginning. I was like wtf 🤨

[@virgeanngeorge9966]

True

[@karenjohnson6551]

#Replay It's his LOSS‼️ He's sitting there like the WORLD revolves around HIM‼️ COUNT your BLESSINGS my sista‼️‼️ 🙌🏾🙏🏽🙌🏾

[@RealnameKevin]

lol

[@amnanawaz6770]

Lol wtf are you on

[@alb9898]

Wow! this one threw me for a loop. I'm a master of body language and the way it started off I was like nah, they didnt go on a date, but when they said they did I was in shock and then the way they were talking about spending so much time together I was actually happy to see and hear that and then BOOM!!! Still seemed salvagable but her mind was made up. Best of luck to both.

[@riversidechild]

This was a good teaching and learning experience. When people get into relationships with someone who's stuck in their ways that has become hardened from being single or long term unhealthy prior relationships, makes it very difficult to build new ones. You just can't have it 100% your way. You really have to give a little. Relationship counseling is very much needed.There is a lot to learn from this one.

[@Mr.Oct___]

Ummmmm…or just stay away from sex workers if ur a lame. & For him, stop being a damn simp. How u meet somebody on a speed dating show & fall in love in a couple weeks…smh. No

[@kingmanga8575]

This is exactly why most men don’t want to date people in the “entertainment industry” the vast majority of them have baggage that they bring to future relationships. She tried to say “I’ve grown from my past” but our past literally shapes who we r today.

[@FleurRiche]

Yup, the give and take is what’s missing. And people pedestalizing men/relationships and perpetuating all these false statistics makes it worse. This man has 2 women in the comments saying the same things about him but here we are focusing on her past and her “trauma”. Meanwhile all I’m hearing is two people in a situation with no respect.

[@AmaniLindsey]

@@FleurRichebe a fool and believe what people post on the internet!

[@FleurRiche]

@@AmaniLindsey right, I’m sure you’re played for a fool enough in real life. Discounting multiple people’s accounts of their experiences to confirm your prejudice and biases sure is smart

[@CandyOnABudget]

This was a lot to unpack for such a short relationship. I cannot speak for these two but in my own personal journey, I’ve noticed that when dating a man who really wants to find love, they often do so without meeting in the middle. Always rushing the process and not letting things progress naturally. I applaud some of his traits. The patience in letting her speak and the thoughtfulness. However, I just think time should be taken to get to know a person before pushing them to make life decisions (ex, birth control, moving, dare I say threesomes). As for her, context is very important and there will always be three sides of a story and sometimes trauma does exist even on a years long healing journey. I wish them both luck.

[@kingmufasa366]

You saying he rushing the process is bull jive. If they verbalized what they are looking for and spent all of that time together doing everything together, how slow can u go after starting fast like that? It sound like woman just want the opportunity to complain about the man wasting time. That man was moving with intention while she realized she not mentally cut out for what she asked for yet still was in denial of her behavior gaslighting the entire situation

[@CandyOnABudget]

@@kingmufasa366 I can agree with that perspective. However, rushing any process can be extremely overwhelming and overstimulating. In her case, it seems as if she became triggered by his interrogation and this is why things shouldn’t be rushed and I stand ten toes on that.

[@Vexed711]

@@kingmufasa366bruh he said “I love you” in 3 weeks!

[@TriniGirlNatural]

100% 🎯

[@kingmufasa366]

@@CandyOnABudget I’m just confused on seeing things as being rushed but I’m certain they slept together quickly and unprotected. U can’t be on the highway driving in the fast lain then wanna hit the breaks complaining everyone else is moving too fast. She has unresolved issues she don’t think are issues in which alters her perspective on things. It’s over stimulating cuz she used to getting treated like a 304 not a virtuous woman and/or she not used to intentional men that lead with good intention. U can stand on 10 toes or 2 toes, that don’t mean u standing in the correct spot.

[@tishmonikemassey3781]

Glad they showed a clip of when they met cuz i barely recognized her...lol

[@mimiwins1]

Arlette is a beautiful and articulate woman. She is truly blessed! Hit dating show, doting husband and beautiful child.

[@TrunxKraft3000]

It’s the way it should be. She’s wise. She found her a real man of God and they both follow the word. Don’t be fooled by this new America that has made the nuclear family a negative thing. God’s way is still the best way and the most fruitful way.

[@jodezod]

@@TrunxKraft3000 💯

[@hazeljust7001]

They look different because we don’t usually get a close look at them like this. My one gripe with pop the balloon is how hard it is to see their faces lol

[@Lynese_co]

This is true

[@LitBoxTv]

Not when you watch it on TV. You can’t really see features and facial expressions on a phone.

[@mrDjora9]

​@@LitBoxTv i watch it on a laptop

[@thegoodnews6682]

I cast it to the big screen 😂

[@hazeljust7001]

@@LitBoxTv I watch it on a TV too. The shots are still too wide.

[@camowolf4975]

Who else clicks as soon as they see a new post?

[@simone6803]

I just want more and faster!!😅

[@RonPondelicious]

Facts! We need catch ups with everybody. Couples or not 😂😅

[@keenanny]

🖐🏾🖐🏾🖐🏾😂

[@_.cxli.]

🤚🏿

[@JohnSmith-zn4uf]

I just saw big beautiful tatas

[@mrszulu]

Nova seems like a solid, stable, thinking human. The way she explained her reasons surrounding the end of her dancing, the thought she put into it, she's got a great mind. Props. 💜✨️🌻

[@amnanawaz6770]

Lol what?

[@TierraLynn]

I’m already married but this show is so entertaining to me because this is literally how the dating world is ! A few hits and a lot of miss !

[@szyig22]

Same lol

[@mucleboy0151]

Thats called life u gonna miss more than u hit in anything

[@CleoCleans]

This summarises why dating in this era is scary. Miscommunication that leads to a whole character assassination ONLINE! No shade to the show, the catch up is great as always and so delicately handled with class as always! It’s more so the boldness to speak with such strength on someone you barely know.

[@SuperhumanCyberRy]

Facts.

[@jamesbaptiste6576]

He did the right thing leave her alone. I definitely believe him when he said she said she’s going to get somebody else to pay her rent

[@kandace_elizabeth]

Maybe she should have said she had "sponsors" to pay her rent....?

[@Risha-Rene]

Lord,,,I missed that part. I have to go back & watch. This was too much

[@fk9970able]

Most definitely she did… I just finished the whole video and it basically sound like all was well until he made that comment about her confidence. Unbeknownst to her, her reactions maybe confirmed his thoughts and that’s probably when she mentioned her “sponsors”!! 😂😂😂. She fine and thick af tho!!!

[@ItsThatJaylaShow]

Okay?? But him love bombing her, wanting her to get pregnant and off birth control, her moving with him, and etc all within a year isn’t a red flag to you?

[@trellporter4366]

@@kandace_elizabeththat some make it any better lol

[@jessical.790]

Arlette’s facial expressions are hilarious

[@mts4611]

Sis got a killer body. Good lawd. I didnt actually remember her (as usual for these follow up shows) lol but when they showed the 5 second clip of their match, I was like ohhh I remember them pants tho. LOL.

[@ballin565]

“I remember” -The Game

[@rottenhead8385]

exactly, the pants.

[@plusmoore]

you finna sign up for that onlyfans aint ya

[@Nestle245]

Her body a 10/10

[@bossibunz8143]

Body definitely BANGIN, I remembered the pants too. 🤣🤣

[@lovewins007]

Needing $40 for gas sounds like a financial hardship to me…🥴

[@kingsweetz82]

Facts

[@a.j.9727]

Of course it is, but men & women are held to different standards in this part of the world.

[@tyronewood8883]

But she was in between jobs lol 😂

[@kingsweetz82]

@@tyronewood8883 facts on facts

[@kingsweetz82]

@@a.j.9727 facts

[@MarlaPruitte]

This is so easy to see. This young lady is projecting and she is truly in denial about herself, her past, and her insecurities. She truly was protecting herself and making him the villain. I am a good judge of character *for the most part* and I am not male centered, but she clearly is emotionally driven. I feel sorry for her because although she's very well spoken and somewhat self aware, she unaware of her TRAUMA. The fact she denies it, it's glaring. She truly messed up a good thing if you ask me. Bless them both.

[@fitzmorris6813]

This comment needs to be highlighted & pinned.

[@lemungagenu5103]

She's 30! Young? Ok

[@supersayingoku13897]

If you think 30 is old the rest of your life is going to suck

[@wasimdbala349]

@@supersayingoku13897 30 isn't young that's for sure

[@cyes1156]

​@@supersayingoku13897 30 for a woman is old for dating.....By 30 you should be off of the dating market by then

[@aishamasadabeauty]

chile… all i’m going to say is comprehension is key. Also, she tried to vilify him but I think we all read right through it.

[@ReggieSova]

Not everyone’s IQ is as high as yours

[@shadesofkayb4886]

Nova loves to hear herself talk 🤣

[@LOSTGPS]

literally 90% of this video was her blabbering.

[@bossupathomewithtequila]

For a person that’s “private” I was confused 😂😂

[@veronicasmall4482]

Yes i said the same thing

[@melaniethebroker]

i was looking for this... this girl talks too much... somebody say shut up!!! lolol... then she wouldn't let him have the same amount of time she talking about "my turn" lol... maam you already went 20 minutes lololol... geesh.....

[@jenicecaldwell1227]

I said within the first 5 min 😅 lol

[@steelers3172]

Did she say she a private person but was in the entertainment industry shit don’t make sense

[@chazakbenisrael9169]

Yeah she gave private dances

[@asiakayla1]

Whatttt lol

[@vthe_listener886]

It makes complete sense. We are not our occupations, we are individuals with a story, family and friends. God loves her, you and everyone else, but not the sin. Pray for each other❤

[@steelers3172]

@@vthe_listener886 saying your a private person and doing something that’s the complete opposite literally makes no sense at all. Saying you’re not gay but openly having sex with the same sex is crazy saying you are a vegetarian but constantly eating meat. People wanna make up they own definitions of shit nowadays is weird as hell.

[@vthe_listener886]

@@steelers3172 apples and oranges

[@GrandpaCaleb]

This might be the wildest catch up episode YET!😭😭😭

[@chymerexdesign]

right. like the keep saying "the beginning" when it was only like a month!

[@321Venia]

Naw I think amc Bluetooth speaker 2008 Honda got this one beat 😅😂

[@traplordso985]

@@321Veniawait who drives a 2008 Honda?😂😂😂😂

[@nostudion1037]

​@@traplordso985Ole boy from Cali with the fake golds in his mouth

[@sammieslick09]

This was really good I really enjoyed it.. I'm sure we can all relate two very open honest articulate emotionally intelligent people! Best of luck♥️

[@kingdom_builder11]

Man, this started off amazing! And then drastically took a turn

[@phantisee19]

Poor Arlette was so drained by the end of this episode, and so was I! 😫😂😂😂

[@aj6761]

So stripper, OnlyFans, or something similar. As a grown, established man I can thoroughly understand where he's coming from. That's a tough pill to swallow for a lot of men. I don't judge women for having to make those choices, but I don't blame men for not being comfortable with it. Ah, she said it. OnlyFans. I mean, the content can be deleted too at some point can't it? *shrug* Oh man, stripper too? Sheeeeeeesh. Man, she seems like such a sweet and kind woman but that'd be a tough one.

[@empress2024]

The pill wasn't that tough for him to swallow.. he wanted threesomes. Then also wanted her to get off birth control to get her knocked up, drop out of school and relocate with him.

[@sierriaNicole]

It’s an example when a Of woman thinks she will be a wife …. Delusional…… your pass will bit you…..

[@jlaw346]

Not to mention she's had 3 somes

[@88infinity20]

Stripper, only fans, previous kid. No matter what that’s a lot for a guy to deal with for a genuine relationship.

[@88infinity20]

Stripper, only fans, previous kid. No matter what that’s a lot for a guy to deal with for a genuine relationship.

[@alexisrenee7275]

She kept saying “that was so long ago”, but then said her last video was in April 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jonneygreen]

yea but that just slight dancing not even fully naked 😂🤣🤣

[@plexmc]

Still throwing ass for gas money lol

[@Demondcooks]

LOL she did NOT deny requesting $40 for that gas😂😂😂

[@BeyondBlueLens]

😂😂

[@CorderroThomas]

right

[@WholeHeartily]

He got his 🍆💦 and then judged her because she didn’t have money/stability or whatever… when he ALSO was out of work at the same time. (Even though the type of work he does might make money, she *will be well sustainable in the future once she finishes school)

[@comeatmebro8120]

She seems a bit ungrateful, like yall were together for less than a month and he gave you $40 for gas and a gaming camera. Thats more than I’d do for a girl I’ve only known for a few weeks 😂

[@xKouture]

@@comeatmebro8120i agree.

[@SimpleChidie123]

Arlette, we appreciate the hustle and constantly putting out this amazing content. Keep up the good work. ☺️

[@losobaby10]

SHES FOR THE STREETSSS!!!!

[@PrettyPinky2001]

​@@SharkOrDie 😂😂😂 whyyyy would u says this OMG 😂😂😂

[@KandyJohnson1]

This was quite the roller coaster 🎢 ride! So much going on! Reggie was way more believable and kept things respectful.

[@dhj_1843]

I hope once this get on TV. It stays authentic. Im sure cities are begging for Arlette to come to their city!

[@TmcksnT]

Why does it have to get on TV? TV dead

[@curtismitchell595]

2024....this is TV now lml

[@Deenique16]

@@curtismitchell595exactly

[@Shotcalla5326]

Heck no don't go to TV then it will definitely be scripted n then it's a no fa me

[@Nigelstandford]

@@Shotcalla5326 It's scripted now sweetie

[@Ypc.Coote876]

Y’all need to watch the whole video before you comment .

[@thegoldenfromad]

Please 😂 cause… whew

[@BruthaJames]

Facts took so many turns 😂

[@rodjilius]

Guilty😅

[@LGOFO]

Y’all see how Arlette’s jaw kept dropping from both of them? 😂

[@cinnamon88]

When does the plot twist happen 🤣?

[@mimis.201]

You know what’s funny? I literally am starting to have Spidey senses whenever I feel that Arlette posts something new. Ahhh…what a lovely feeling to be right.😆🤣👏🏾

[@JSteeleTheReal]

I love yall have the after show catch ups I enjoy the pop eps and these ones I swear yall cant miss keep these coming loving em

[@dejsounique6214]

Love her natural hair 😍

[@PotentPondering]

9:00 That’s dope. They both have a nice energy. Nova loves to talk 😭🤭🎈

[@shadesofkayb4886]

I just started & I can already see that 😭

[@shayh.4549]

😂😂😂

[@ohreally404]

Well at least she talks in sentences, he keeps saying "it's like"

[@tempestlove9546]

So

[@Nestle245]

Video been out only an hour and that's when you commented you gotta watch the entire video you couldn't possibly see it all.

[@edfarquharson4143]

Too many people taking sides in these comments because they're speaking from their own failures with the opposite sex. The fact is they BOTH did too much too soon. The situation must flow and grow organically. They force-fed it and it died. Be Natural.

[@depitrius]

Failures? Like you? People are free to comment whatever they want without offending. Don't assume that your perspective is the better one, it makes you a failure.

[@edfarquharson4143]

​@@depitriusHere comes the biggest failure trying to feel better about being a failure. Yawn.

[@ItsThatJaylaShow]

I do think they both rushed it but more so he did than she did. I think she was genuinely going with it and wanting to work it out because they were clicking well especially on video games. But i think with him? He was soo eager to be with someone because he is older. He deflected a lot as well. I think she also lost interest when he kept bringing up her past and that’s a turn off for anyone.

[@special1r41]

He seems very controlling and the type that would've kept bringing up her past.Keep him blocked.

[@checkdilevels1180]

​@@special1r41your PAST determines YOUR future 🤐🤐🤐🫣🤫🤔🤔🤔🫡

[@RicardoWebb-o6b]

I love the host she’s so sweet and beautiful love her laugh as well lol

[@Ccn421]

I watch every episode but I can never recognise the people in the interviews 😂 why do they always look so different?

[@brimichellee]

it’s the angle we see them from and the fact that they change their hair/makeup plus shades and hats come off lol.

[@AfricanMillenial]

Change of clothes and lighting

[@AugustLady77]

I know and I appreciate the flashback of their episode

[@Nunofyabizzzzz]

This the one

[@bjohnson2u]

I literally said the same thing lol