Reggie and Nova Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli

Welcome back to my channel! In this segment of "Catch Up", we got a chance to follow up with our matches and see where they are today.
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[@Rene-hf9zm]

The way this started out with them bonding over gaming, going out the same night & being together for 2 weeks I was not expecting that plot twist. This quickly went in a completely different direction

[@84mztoya]

They did too much too quick

[@lonniex4237]

I peeped that body language when he was talking around that 4 min. mark. Sister girl was rollin them eyes 🙄🙄🤣🤣

[@lisalistener]

oh nooo cryyyyyyy I came here to say how this is best couple yet but something told me to check the comments, I'm gutted

[@Rene-hf9zm]

@@84mztoya yep, I agree

[@Rene-hf9zm]

@@lonniex4237 😂😂😂😂

[@djprez2339]

Shorty saying dating is hard and Arlette, who has a whole dating show, said so I’ve heard 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 shit had me in tears 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mandym918]

😂😂😂😂

[@blazeworks]

Well when married couple heard of the dating issues. I know they are like thank goodness guys !!! lol 😂 😂

[@dannydillard8233]

😂😂

[@dannydillard8233]

It’s not that hard. For the right people. I’ll date her and have her Happy 🥰 and Healthy Life we’d have

[@alishacarter3807]

That part had me weak 😂😂😂

[@jazzie.c]

So they were together? My goodness. They went through 5 years worth of relationship in two weeks lol

[@AfroLatina3]

😂🤣OMG! Yesss! Something to be said for taking it slow. Gives the nervous system time to process.

[@estherduah1983]

.. hope she never goes back!....

[@srfhamid922]

Saying she was in the entertainment world a long time ago but still having and OF is funny. That’s entertainment mama

[@Fifthelement203]

Oooooo. She got a OF! O snap.

[@MrSamPhoenix]

Yup

[@glecservices3114]

These women act brand new yet they ain’t virgins yet they want and expect the best from a man they are funny

[@TakeaSwigofTheJuice]

Yeah after doing research on it for credibility purposes, it seems as though she has been updating it recently.

[@Destiny.Lofton]

@@TakeaSwigofTheJuice”research purposes” 😂 I’m ctfu

[@jamesmontoban1338]

I want the ninja turtles reunion Nowwwwww 😂

[@8ighty6ixx]

He said he not comin back

[@Sweet_Karma]

They didn't go out in the end. The ninja turtle guy said on social media that she gave her number to some other guy who is meant to be on the next episode 😂 so he just left with his brother. Not sure if they'll be back on because of that. I will say this is just a rumour that people said, but it sounds like a kinda real to be honest because there's nothing outrageous to it.

[@naimalovesyou]

Not if the girl he matched with gave her number to someone else before they left the set lol

[@ondrarosie]

STATTTTT

[@DaLlami]

😂😂😂

[@mrsrichard7835]

She claims she hasn’t been a stripper for 6 years but then also said she just uploaded an only fans video of her dancing in APRIL! I see why he had a hard time believing her.

[@dcm2dcg]

💯💯💯

[@alisjay9798]

Only fans is a camera, stripping a whole different ball game

[@23libra79]

Strippers always going back to their old ways when they need more money.

[@OhYouKudaKing]

Nah facts!

[@kenneyp.9456]

I know a lot of strippers, they never truly leave the club they’ll always go back

[@feleshaheaven1723]

I respect how he lets her talk her stuff even when you can visually see it was painful. Respect him for that still.

[@networkingbae]

Loved that. And how he explained context for certain things. Seems like a stand up guy.

[@tharris452]

For sure. Great observation

[@miked10able]

Typical gold digging black women-she been ran through

[@glecservices3114]

He needs a woman who doesn’t have a past just like women like men who are not broke 😊

[@jeremyhughes7159]

Facts lol

[@lovewins007]

Needing $40 for gas sounds like a financial hardship to me…🥴

[@kingsweetz82]

Facts

[@a.j.9727]

Of course it is, but men & women are held to different standards in this part of the world.

[@tyronewood8883]

But she was in between jobs lol 😂

[@kingsweetz82]

@@tyronewood8883 facts on facts

[@kingsweetz82]

@@a.j.9727 facts

[@Chris-zp3kw]

This went from a love story to throwing shots omg😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@84mztoya]

So fast

[@Nestle245]

Yeah I was confused I had the video running after the successful beginning I then stepped away for a few minutes came back I thought she was talking about her ex or someone not him.

[@Rene-hf9zm]

Had me clutching my invisible pearls 🤭

[@user-jg4ci4mf8w]

Shorty had a past. 😅 It will always come back to bite you in the ass😅

[@g.a.d6988]

Yeah like all relationships

[@ParqForrest]

Arlette sounded so tired by the end mental exhausted listening to them. I didn’t know who to believe. Glad they went their separate ways.

[@BigALsSeafoodBoil]

I was mentally exhausted by her… short and simple would have sufficed, but she literally dug her own hole by going on and going on,

[@GodIs4u8888]

I think they both are crazy

[@arnold2106]

Arlette sitting there like yall I am NOT a marriage counselor 😅 this was a tough one for her to be in the middle of. THIS IS WHY SHE IS THE BEST HOST ❤

[@JayRondon]

"he gave me no grace" is a crazy statement after blocking, gaslighting and villianising the man

[@estherduah1983]

He was rather gaslighting her. He obviously prefers her past to her present given his threesome request!.... He is an obvious narcissist.

[@bossibunz8143]

This catch up had more twists & turns than a back road. My God. 🤣🤣🤣

[@delandomcwilliams5737]

😂😂😂😂

[@MrUgandaUK]

ONLLYFANS, threesomes, trauma, getting off birth control, blocking, gaslighting, betrayal, he said she said, unemployment, making a channel/podcast...this was a whole drama in only a space of a few weeks lmao

[@papaadwoa569]

I screamed 😅😅😅

[@mayabasquin]

Haven’t picked my jaw up off the floor.

[@srfhamid922]

Threesomes. Hol on 😂😂😂

[@fitzmorris6813]

Wait, what? Huh!? What I miss!!? Shorty got an OF? 3somes? 👀 due tell.

[@easeyomind2147]

Whew my brain hurt this was alottttt😂 in just a matter of weeks

[@swiftrover]

I found this show a week ago and have watched all the episodes so far. I’m white, married, 30yo straight male, loving these segments and the show in general. Arlette is real. And she listens to everyone equally and removes judgement, or bias. She’s got the realest relationship based interview show I’ve ever seen. She’s not programming who she invites on. Fake people, and real people are going to come on the show alike, just like in real life it’s a mix. The show also sheds light on the misdirection of desire, and that judgment poor at times, and is seen as an imminent threat. Defensive people, gloating people, timid, meek, toxic, selfish, loving, joyous, chipper, solemn, bleek, angry, self obsessed, gentle, charming, observant, quiet, loud, disrespectful, pleasant, condescending, passive-aggressive, reasonable, it’s all there, and Arlette listens and her reactions are genuine and funny. People share who they are, what they’re looking for, and what they need in a partner, and challenge each other by asking them to answer deep and personal questions. It’s beautiful. This show is groundbreaking.

[@kingnarhmusic]

Absolutely groundbreaking; and your summary of it is quite succint!

[@RS7evenSLDR]

Bro dodged a bullet. But sounds like he at least clapped cheeks. 😂😂😂

[@mrapkgaming]

💀

[@patrickbutts1520]

Yeah he definitely smashed. A few times

[@andrewilliams1924]

Let's agree to agree on this comment 😂

[@deewah1698]

Ohhh, he beasted her for sure.

[@kwasiaking1989]

One dimensional.

[@cashtasy]

Dis episode took a left turn quick 😂😂😂

[@Ty-Carm]

Right!!! I was so happy for them, and then BOOM….it went all the way left

[@ChoicesMade696]

Yes 😂😂😂

[@Rene-hf9zm]

I just said the same thing 😂😂😂

[@Timahrants]

I was hoping it was going good

[@christopherwilliams4802]

The quickest turn lol

[@rasheedlewis1]

If EVERYBODY is a model, then NOBODY is a model

[@jowarren]

Could not agree with this more if I tried.

[@belladamma2345]

Exactly everyone single person that came on the show claimed they are models. SMH

[@augustbaby8254]

New wording/slang for Only Fans, Strippers and $40 Ladys call themselves nowadays

[@BeyondBlueLens]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@michaelthomas6102]

Unbelievable!

[@Jersey4321]

Okay, so when she spoke, he didn't interrupt he didnt say it's my turn he respected her. But when he started talking, she was interrupting like girl be quiet let the man speak!

[@fitzmorris6813]

Exactly. It was almost as if he didn’t even need to be there. She was talking to Arlette like they was in the group chat.

[@Naji969]

Women always do that. Many of them that appear on these type of show deep down are very immature.

[@rutendochekeche4490]

"past the cervix level, yeah we're going deep" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@timcool251]

I caught that

[@them2you]

Arlette was so traumatized in this catch up. Am I the only one peeping her reactions 🤣

[@Tahjman1donjm]

I could see that at the end lol😂😂😂

[@travel_adddictt]

Her energy drained😅

[@salexander3801]

Cause she REALLY want ppl to find love 🥹😂

[@wtrwrld.]

facts lmaooo

[@networkingbae]

Naaa I peeped! 😂

[@junkfoodvegan]

Arlette and her team are consistent with these uploads. Right as soon as you wonder when's the next upload, they put one up. Love to see it!

[@condesabeatriz9303]

💯

[@blazeworks]

Yes for real !!!

[@Toyota415]

It think their schedule is now set: followup on Tuesday, new episode on Wednesday.

[@1Sakks0]

Yup! Tomorrow, we get a new episode! I hope the lineup is men! I love wheb the men are lined up.

[@Pinkypie2003]

@@1Sakks0nope, women's turn

[@AceFoodService]

This was the most beautiful and messy catch up yet! I appreciate their responses and letting us catch up with everything they've been through.

[@lifeasiesha]

I don’t think he’s a bad guy at all. I think he was actually moving like he wanted something real with her. I just think she took it personally when he wanted to talk about her past life so much. At least he wanted to communicate some men don’t and start a relationship and cheat because they’re insecure about your past and don’t trust you. I’ve learned from experience men that have been hurt or trying to understand you will talk about it for a few months. That helps some people. He went to therapy that man really saw his self with that woman. I feel like regardless if it’s him or not she’s gonna have to get prepared for those hard conversations if she wants something real and yes it’s because of her past. Sorry but it is what it is she may be a changed woman but no man is gonna brush it off so easy they are gonna wanna know everything. And stop telling your family everything because they’re not going to be dating you, and in public with you… I think she should have been more understanding of why he felt that way. To me only a man that don’t care will be with you with no questions or concerns!

[@estherduah1983]

this is a man that wants a threesome, her cheque in his account, baby without marriage , abandonment of her education etc. and you believe he is good?????..... Family is for our protection so its good she tells them everything for good perspective!

[@mimigustave1638]

Arlette's facial expressions got me weak😂😂😂

[@cinnamon88]

Right 😂😂 especially at the birth control part

[@mshotz5171]

Everytime 😂😂

[@NJ-yt9sk]

Arlette is so shady without even realizing 😂 I be passing out!

[@srfhamid922]

Arlette might not tell you what she’s thinking. But her face gonna tell you everytime

[@travel_adddictt]

I love it we need more 😂

[@camowolf4975]

Who else clicks as soon as they see a new post?

[@simone6803]

I just want more and faster!!😅

[@RonPondelicious]

Facts! We need catch ups with everybody. Couples or not 😂😅

[@keenanny]

🖐🏾🖐🏾🖐🏾😂

[@_.cxli.]

🤚🏿

[@JohnSmith-zn4uf]

I just saw big beautiful tatas

[@steelers3172]

Did she say she a private person but was in the entertainment industry shit don’t make sense

[@andrewswims2559]

Reggie…. RUN!!!!!! U can tell she’s selfish, entitled, deflecting, and still dealing with trauma. Run bro.

[@carver9312]

Agreed.

[@estherduah1983]

really, He is rather the backward narcissist. The girl has grown past his type. The girl shd rather ran!

[@nathaniel972ful]

@@estherduah1983This guy is decent but she haven't even grown past the game. So I'm not sure what you actually understood from the video.

[@TheLeviticalPrincess]

@@estherduah1983 I agree she dodged a bullet.

[@halftimehomes]

This is the best pop the balloon show on KZbin. All of the other ones are copies and for entertainment purposes only. This one has entertainment too, but the host is authentically focused on building relationships

[@carlb4741]

the others don't have the class that Arlette brings.

[@nathancharles7043]

For real 💪

[@kbis2cold]

you cant call ALL of them copies though since this wasn't even close to being the first. I agree that its the best though

[@chuckokoye2410]

To be fair, this version is also a copy lol, but its done very well

[@REPENTFORTHEKINGDOMISATHAND]

This is a copy too 😂😂 just five arlette her flowers and stop trying to throw the 50+ other shows before hers under the bus

[@PotentPondering]

7:22 As adults we should do more things we loved as a child. I think that’s actually important while still being a mature adult.

[@jacquelynn2051]

Lemme tel YOU and any others that read this…you are telling the TRUTH. When I got overweight from sedentary due to injury and gained weight..my Segway back into my health, my pain fee and hopeful healthy longetivity was to DANCE. So for anyone complacent of getting back into working out for whatever to lose weight, to not gain any more weight etc..,go back to what you know and loved as a child as most children are active. Idc if it’s gardening (strenuous bending over, stretching positioning) or running (stamina, stretching, positioning) k basketball, volleyball, swimming, waking, cleaning …yes cleaning as when overweight my cleaning fell off so a good cleaning is a workout if you’re doing it right…get knees on a pillow and hand wash those floors etc. TBC you cannot care what others think. I danced in the park yesterday all by myself and stretched too. TBC I did NOT do the give it up….😂…but I moved and two stepped and got an hour workout in … cardio and all…..love you all ❤ Beautiful couple they seem to be well yoked and I wish them the best❤

[@condesabeatriz9303]

Indeed

[@rahkeenclark2254]

The bible say when u grow up put away childish things

[@misstiff29]

@@rahkeenclark2254 Childish is the same as child at heart activities.

[@CowboyBebopCrew]

@@rahkeenclark2254 - I don’t think gaming is childish, games are made for all ages. I think that Bible verse you’re referencing (1 Corinthians 13:11) is not implying that people give up their hobbies in adulthood. I think that’s taking it out of context. I think it’s actually metaphor for maturing in one’s faith/spiritual development by gaining knowledge and letting go of certain ways of behavior.

[@ritagorgees1550]

Damn the guy didn’t even get a chance to talk .. this girl was talking the whollllllee time he really handled this well 😊

[@Deenique16]

She was so exhausting

[@ritagorgees1550]

@@Deenique16fr

[@marlapruitte3072]

This is so easy to see. This young lady is projecting and she is truly in denial about herself, her past, and her insecurities. She truly was protecting herself and making him the villain. I am a good judge of character *for the most part* and I am not male centered, but she clearly is emotionally driven. I feel sorry for her because although she's very well spoken and somewhat self aware, she unaware of her TRAUMA. The fact she denies it, it's glaring. She truly messed up a good thing if you ask me. Bless them both.

[@fitzmorris6813]

This comment needs to be highlighted & pinned.

[@lemungagenu5103]

She's 30! Young? Ok

[@supersayingoku13897]

If you think 30 is old the rest of your life is going to suck

[@wasimdbala349]

@@supersayingoku13897 30 isn't young that's for sure

[@cyes1156]

​@@supersayingoku13897 30 for a woman is old for dating.....By 30 you should be off of the dating market by then

[@stage5_]

Mannn. I’m smiling the first 10 minutes thinking they hit it off. This went left too quick. 😂

[@millieras123]

TOO quick!

[@jadenromell1458]

Once the episode pass 25 minutes it’s a rap😂

[@christine-97]

I was genuinely happy for them in the beginning....I really thought they had something special.

[@rae2443]

@@christine-97same😭😭 so disappointed

[@jaraeart]

I don’t know I could tell by their facial expressions while the other one was talking in the beginning that something was up

[@uqayum786]

This has to be the msot tense catchup episode yet. Real adult issues that you can see how interpretations either side can impact a partner. Credit to them that they gave it a real go and turned up.

[@TierraLynn]

I’m already married but this show is so entertaining to me because this is literally how the dating world is ! A few hits and a lot of miss !

[@mthomas1443]

They should move the sign up so she is not blocking her name and branding. They should have trademarked pop the ballon or find love if she was the first (not sure if she is). Great concept for a dating show.

[@NGTV600]

Lots of youtubers are doing it, she’s not the first.

[@momo4044]

She wasn't the 1st but she got the best one😂

[@JayJay-ik4yq]

Omg...their story started so beautifully 😢

[@GrandpaCaleb]

This might be the wildest catch up episode YET!😭😭😭

[@chymerexdesign]

right. like the keep saying "the beginning" when it was only like a month!

[@321Venia]

Naw I think amc Bluetooth speaker 2008 Honda got this one beat 😅😂

[@alb9898]

Wow! this one threw me for a loop. I'm a master of body language and the way it started off I was like nah, they didnt go on a date, but when they said they did I was in shock and then the way they were talking about spending so much time together I was actually happy to see and hear that and then BOOM!!! Still seemed salvagable but her mind was made up. Best of luck to both.

[@CandyOnABudget]

This was a lot to unpack for such a short relationship. I cannot speak for these two but in my own personal journey, I’ve noticed that when dating a man who really wants to find love, they often do so without meeting in the middle. Always rushing the process and not letting things progress naturally. I applaud some of his traits. The patience in letting her speak and the thoughtfulness. However, I just think time should be taken to get to know a person before pushing them to make life decisions (ex, birth control, moving, dare I say threesomes). As for her, context is very important and there will always be three sides of a story and sometimes trauma does exist even on a years long healing journey. I wish them both luck.

[@kingmufasa366]

You saying he rushing the process is bull jive. If they verbalized what they are looking for and spent all of that time together doing everything together, how slow can u go after starting fast like that? It sound like woman just want the opportunity to complain about the man wasting time. That man was moving with intention while she realized she not mentally cut out for what she asked for yet still was in denial of her behavior gaslighting the entire situation

[@CandyOnABudget]

@@kingmufasa366 I can agree with that perspective. However, rushing any process can be extremely overwhelming and overstimulating. In her case, it seems as if she became triggered by his interrogation and this is why things shouldn’t be rushed and I stand ten toes on that.

[@Vexed711]

@@kingmufasa366bruh he said “I love you” in 3 weeks!

[@TriniGirlNatural]

100% 🎯

[@kingmufasa366]

@@CandyOnABudget I’m just confused on seeing things as being rushed but I’m certain they slept together quickly and unprotected. U can’t be on the highway driving in the fast lain then wanna hit the breaks complaining everyone else is moving too fast. She has unresolved issues she don’t think are issues in which alters her perspective on things. It’s over stimulating cuz she used to getting treated like a 304 not a virtuous woman and/or she not used to intentional men that lead with good intention. U can stand on 10 toes or 2 toes, that don’t mean u standing in the correct spot.

[@Ypc.Coote876]

Y’all need to watch the whole video before you comment .

[@thegoldenfromad]

Please 😂 cause… whew

[@BruthaJames]

Facts took so many turns 😂

[@rodjilius]

Guilty😅

[@LGOFO]

Y’all see how Arlette’s jaw kept dropping from both of them? 😂

[@cinnamon88]

When does the plot twist happen 🤣?

[@Dara78377]

I love Arlette's version of Pop the balloon... So mature and coordinated. Her dress sense, laughter and the way she talks is super amazing 😍😍

[@shandelbrown4335]

She’s professional

[@Penelope416]

She's a star. She has a lot of charisma.

[@Nitty_likes2laugh]

Bro dodged a bullet! Nova will attract men physically, but will turn them off mentally.

[@MistriiiMusic]

Nova seems like she has a victim mentality and that clouds how she interprets things

[@nathaniel972ful]

SO, it seems like Dr Elom read her well after all 😂😂😂😂

[@engineeringdesigns4056]

Facts

[@aaliyahstewart13]

i gotta rewatch cause i forgot what he said.

[@nathaniel972ful]

​@@aaliyahstewart13he was mentioning her lacking self love, her not shining, things like that.

[@pinkpanther5200]

Wow, I forgot all about that😂

[@edrisacamara8308]

Dayummm that is crazyyyyy

[@BONAF1DE1]

This show is hilarious. Love from the UK. What I love most is how many different ways the contestants manage to say they are unemployed 🤣

[@blackhands301]

Transitioning between jobs lol

[@Tevron_]

Lmao trust me

[@KL-nw9mi]

😂

[@sophiajordan239]

I be saying this 😂

[@sassybahdman]

It be the I’m a model or entrepreneur for me hahah

[@Watch272]

Can't lie. I believe the guy more.

[@moniquebaskett338]

Naw. She didn’t have to discuss being the industry at all.

[@Watch272]

@@moniquebaskett338 that's cool. But she did. That's not the problem here though.

[@momo4044]

@@moniquebaskett338what???😂

[@passerau]

​@@moniquebaskett338 what?? That's the lesson you took from this 😅😅😆😅😆😅🤣🤣😅🤣🤣😅

[@veriteetfeu]

Arleeeeeettttteee…you’re a champ! Nova was talking waaaaay tew much! Then when he tried to talk, she cut him off. I appreciated his willingness to listen tho…and his opportunity to clarify or offer context to what she said.

[@jaraeart]

Yes, I wish she interjected more after nova made each claim to let him answer, because she said a whole lot and then he had to try to remember everything he wanted to respond to

[@Zest4God]

This Channel deserves 4x as many subscribers than it currently has. I hope Arlette rides this wonderful wave she is on and makes more episodes of pop the balloon. Her poise is a big part of the success of the episodes!

[@QueenM3.]

This is the grown folk version. We don't do too much messiness on this side that's why it isn't a ton of followers. Too many messy people on this app like the low budget versions of these kind of shows.

[@raemonscott3]

She sabotaged herself. Literally her responses to his statements are trauma but additionally hes definitely a fixer and that shit can be too much for someone experiencing for the 1st time since losing her partner someone real. She was scared shitless of dude

[@marlapruitte3072]

she absolutely sabotaged the entire relationship. It's her protective mechanism and her not dealing with HER view of herself. Her projection is glaring.

[@islandbound8437]

@@marlapruitte3072 I'm so glad a woman said this. Cause when a guys says it we become woman haters 😂

[@Vexed711]

A fixer, you hit the nail on the head. Great insight

[@TruKrystal]

Well said

[@biggerthanlyfe9853]

She made some good points and I do believe he was somewhat out of pocket with some statements she says he made towards her but she seems to be villainizing the guy and making him out to be a bad guy.

[@xavierjames8085]

I think the problem is all these matches ain’t really doing it for love, all these couples trying to start “couple channels” and do business instead of actually trying to match n actually get to love eachother

[@PayThePiperr]

Everyone wants to be Jay Z and Beyonce

[@yourriderdie8472]

They’re both red flags 🚩

[@momo4044]

Naw only she was😂

[@yourriderdie8472]

@@momo4044 he was too. Asking her for 3 somes, telling her to get off of birth control, and asking for her to deposit her check into his account and they’re not even married yet. Just met like 3 weeks ago. 🫠

[@keimanii2332]

Arlette is effortlessly GORGEOUS

[@jaraeart]

She really radiates. Definitely wifey material. Bm is blessed

[@najyziwave9161]

Nova not trying to stop making that easy money, I know a hustler when I see one. Shits addictive.

[@dwightPhoenix]

She uses alot of make up and additoons tho. Check her early vids

[@CarlemEllis]

Right !!! She’s too beautiful

[@CarlemEllis]

@@dwightPhoenixnobody cares…. Stfu

[@BluPhire4Hire]

Damn...this started out like a feel good story and twisted harder than Beyonce on a caffeine buzz performing Crazy in Love live in concert. Can't wait to see the reactions by TPindell and Kitezz.

[@condesabeatriz9303]

😂😂😂

[@agnes-judith4230]

This was so DRAINING!

[@kingsweetz82]

Facts

[@guccibliss6749]

Very draining! It had a strong start too lmaoo

[@ricardosmith1956]

i believe him 100 % she wasnt ready Dude you just got lucky from a future bitter Mom

[@Bee-sp7mb]

The way she rambles and was ready to cut him off from talking says that she’s definitely an emotional person.

[@Twitz88]

Or immature

[@WholeHeartily]

That’s a typical female trait. Women are emotional and data proves we talk more than men do.

[@islandbound8437]

Very.

[@RDCFemmes]

Exactly how men in the manosphere act😂😂😂😂 but you'll never call them out

[@engineeringdesigns4056]

@@RDCFemmesthe emotional too. You happy now?

[@hazeljust7001]

They look different because we don’t usually get a close look at them like this. My one gripe with pop the balloon is how hard it is to see their faces lol

[@lynesec532]

This is true

[@LitBoxTv]

Not when you watch it on TV. You can’t really see features and facial expressions on a phone.

[@mrDjora9]

​@@LitBoxTv i watch it on a laptop

[@thegoodnews6682]

I cast it to the big screen 😂

[@hazeljust7001]

@@LitBoxTv I watch it on a TV too. The shots are still too wide.

[@tlbell89]

So glad uploads are now super consistent!! Love this show/channel!

[@engineeringdesigns4056]

“I’m not that girl..” you do onlyfans!!! 😂😂

[@Ccn421]

I watch every episode but I can never recognise the people in the interviews 😂 why do they always look so different?

[@brimichellee]

it’s the angle we see them from and the fact that they change their hair/makeup plus shades and hats come off lol.

[@AfricanMillenial]

Change of clothes and lighting

[@AugustLady77]

I know and I appreciate the flashback of their episode

[@Nunofyabizzzzz]

This the one

[@bjohnson2u]

I literally said the same thing lol

[@shadesofkayb4886]

Nova loves to hear herself talk 🤣

[@LOSTGPS]

literally 90% of this video was her blabbering.

[@bossupathomewithtequila]

For a person that’s “private” I was confused 😂😂

[@veronicasmall4482]

Yes i said the same thing

[@melaniethebroker]

i was looking for this... this girl talks too much... somebody say shut up!!! lolol... then she wouldn't let him have the same amount of time she talking about "my turn" lol... maam you already went 20 minutes lololol... geesh.....

[@jenicecaldwell1227]

I said within the first 5 min 😅 lol

[@LS-gl1ro]

Their interaction seems so transactional.

[@1anth]

Yeah because she’s an only fans porn girl, everything with her will be transactional from now on especially now that she’s known from this show. No man will take her serious…

[@bridgettejohnson9085]

I love Arlette’s outfits! Classy & don’t have to reveal too much. I wish these other ladies would take notes 📝!

[@kwambokamadiba652]

She's married abeg...we dress like single ladies

[@Apollo_Maani]

There’s so much I’ve learned from this channel…my dating life will never be the same

[@konthe678]

😂

[@felixogbodu7463]

These two looks like they just went through a divorce after having been in 20 years old marriage! It was mentally and physically draining to watch at the end. I’m exhausted 🥱😩!!

[@chadwicktyrone8894]

She was just not trying anymore

[@Hero-cc]

You’re weird

[@hermesfreire-zo2fw]

She kept talking about money over and over like who give a shit if he gave you only 40$ for your gas and a camera and having the audacity of saying that's all the money he spent on me...

[@23libra79]

She want the car and the house lol 😂

[@user-cr9gd7qt8w]

😂😂😂😂 for real!

[@riversidechild]

This was a good teaching and learning experience. When people get into relationships with someone who's stuck in their ways that has become hardened from being single or long term unhealthy prior relationships, makes it very difficult to build new ones. You just can't have it 100% your way. You really have to give a little. Relationship counseling is very much needed.There is a lot to learn from this one.

[@Mr.Oct___]

Ummmmm…or just stay away from sex workers if ur a lame. & For him, stop being a damn simp. How u meet somebody on a speed dating show & fall in love in a couple weeks…smh. No

[@saharinvenezia]

Arlette is a dating/marriage counselor. Hearing both sides out. Giving each person their time to speak. Wishing her all the best.

[@mimiwins1]

Arlette is a beautiful and articulate woman. She is truly blessed! Hit dating show, doting husband and beautiful child.

[@TrunxKraft3000]

It’s the way it should be. She’s wise. She found her a real man of God and they both follow the word. Don’t be fooled by this new America that has made the nuclear family a negative thing. God’s way is still the best way and the most fruitful way.

[@jodezod]

@@TrunxKraft3000 💯

[@mts4611]

Sis got a killer body. Good lawd. I didnt actually remember her (as usual for these follow up shows) lol but when they showed the 5 second clip of their match, I was like ohhh I remember them pants tho. LOL.

[@ballin565]

“I remember” -The Game

[@rottenhead8385]

exactly, the pants.

[@plusmoore]

you finna sign up for that onlyfans aint ya

[@Nestle245]

Her body a 10/10

[@bossibunz8143]

Body definitely BANGIN, I remembered the pants too. 🤣🤣

[@Alliekachala3692]

Arlettes facial reactions are everything😂

[@winallday123xd4]

I think women really have to recognize that men care about your past ladies it's just in us to care about those things. "Men want women without a past, and women want a man with a future".

[@imareallady5545]

A winning comment all day long.

[@Demondcooks]

LOL she did NOT deny requesting $40 for that gas😂😂😂

[@BeyondBlueLens]

😂😂

[@user-kc7kg5kq9x]

right

[@WholeHeartily]

He got his 🍆💦 and then judged her because she didn’t have money/stability or whatever… when he ALSO was out of work at the same time. (Even though the type of work he does might make money, she *will be well sustainable in the future once she finishes school)

[@comeatmebro8120]

She seems a bit ungrateful, like yall were together for less than a month and he gave you $40 for gas and a gaming camera. Thats more than I’d do for a girl I’ve only known for a few weeks 😂

[@xKouture]

@@comeatmebro8120i agree.

[@bossupathomewithtequila]

So you’re not in financial hardship however he needed to give you $40 for gas ?!? Am I missing something? Not having $40 sounds like hardship to me

[@anneilia]

She probably had the money but wanted him to buy it cause they’ve been dealing with each other

[@ThePeaceGawd]

@@anneilia As a man, that is such a strange default. I have it, I can do it, but let me put the financial responsibility on someone I'm building a bond with. huh ?

[@anneilia]

@@ThePeaceGawd women like being taken care of. It’s like wanting someone to buy you lunch… it’s not cause you can’t afford to pay for it yourself. And it isn’t helpful to try to figure out women and then say “as a man” cause we’re wired differently… as we should be. Sometimes it’s just a way to see what kind of person the guy is. Is he mean to those he’s dating, will he help out if need be. You don’t really want to wait til you’re deep in to find things out. So quickly she’s like I wanna get some gas… if he said no then that might’ve been a sign to her that he’s not kind to women he’s dating. Point is, I doubt she didn’t have $40.

[@tristan583]

Nah you gotta know if you can count on people if you need , doesn’t matter if you’re a millionaire

[@ThePeaceGawd]

@@anneilia I understand and respect your opinion but still think it's strange given the time period. If we're three weeks into getting to know you and I'm at work dominating an excel worksheet and I get a text asking for gas money...I'm going to think you're in dire straights, not that you're throwing a feeler to see if you can get money out of me. You don't find out if a man is generous or kind by asking, if anything it's going to be the woman that doesn't make a man feel like a resource that's going to get every resource.

[@ReggieSova]

Context is important! Regarding the “Allowance” comment, it was actually a discussion about helping her manage her finances. Sometimes the truth gets lost in the mix. Either way, this experience has given me some closure🧿

[@nathaniel972ful]

I think we all understood you had genuine intentions, but it was just a waste of time with a chick having that kind of past. She's burnt out and out of reach for a serious and structured relationship. Chicks like that turn everything good into a disaster because they have lost their soul to this "entertainment" lifestyle. She said she grew out of it while still doing it online. She's not a wife, she's for entertainment purposes only, she made that choice. Just thank the Lord this didn't work out for too long. He's protected you from yourself. Don't break yourself trying to fix something that is beyond repair. Good luck.

[@williamnoblecapitalgroup2290]

@@nathaniel972ful self depravating behavior, females always sabotage a good thing!

[@thejumbalia]

She tried to destroy your character by bringing up every intimate thing you've ever said that will be uncomfortable if said out loud in public. I don't know how you got past her getting mad at you for saying something as innocuous as "you lack confidence." On what planet is that something so bad that her grandparents are saying "fuck him?" You are dealing with a straight demon and I know it hurts because you remember the good times, but she hates you for being normal and not being the safe corny guy that shrugs off her sex work past. If you got to have sex with her just be happy with that.

[@timcool251]

We all peeped that your intentions were to help her with her finances. She tried to spin it to invalidate you on the show. You are a solid dude who tried to see past her flaws and her past. She'll regret letting you get away. Expect the "Hey Big Head" text from her and others from your past.

[@latonyabirkley6834]

Helping someone manage their finances is not them giving you their money, and then you issue it out to them like they're a child. If she is paying her way through school, then I'm sure she can manage her own money. On top of that, she also has a child of her own.. why should she allow you to tell her what is ok for her to spend her money on.. some people need to think before they speak. And just because someone is not always in the financial boat you are in doesn't mean that they are struggling.. I believe what both of you were saying was true.. but I also believe that you judged her on her past, even if it wasn't intentional. JUST BY making a comment to her about 3 Somes, mentioning that she had probably done it before and if it would be something that she would try again with you.. that right there is taking her back somewhere that she said she has gotten away from . You can't pick and choose what parts of someone's past you want to deal with

[@TheSamthaman24]

'i never said it back' LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL she cold, SHE COLD

[@illiel2879]

Ladies, your past matters!!! No matter what you say or think. It Matters and will sneak up on you!!!

[@dhj_1843]

I hope once this get on TV. It stays authentic. Im sure cities are begging for Arlette to come to their city!

[@TmcksnT]

Why does it have to get on TV? TV dead

[@curtismitchell595]

2024....this is TV now lml

[@Deenique16]

@@curtismitchell595exactly

[@Shotcalla5326]

Heck no don't go to TV then it will definitely be scripted n then it's a no fa me

[@Nigelstandford]

@@Shotcalla5326 It's scripted now sweetie

[@jens8223]

This is the best catch up thus far and took a crazy turn

[@tmcurly]

This girl is not telling the truth. I am with Reggie.

[@jayjay-er1nl]

How can you be a private person when you host clubs at different cities, model, well traveled, get back to Instagram and go crazy......😂😂😂😂 girl that not private, you out on the street 🤣 🙄 😒

[@Tyteanna]

Being private with your personal life & having social anxiety are 2 different things.

[@augustbaby8254]

You left out 2 major factors. She’s also a Stripper and does Only Fans.

[@pinkpanther5200]

And a active OF😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[@rashidmugi6641]

The chest tattoos and half cleavage showing told me everything I needed to know and more.

[@demehinjyde.o725]

Me too. For me that's too much cleavage bearing.

[@furrsmith8131]

Say that to ice wife coco .

[@vers28]

@furrsmith8131 Coco was a prostitute when she met Ice T, and Ice T was a pimp before and while he was a rapper. A lot of pimps end up marrying prostitute.

[@FilldaAgony]

Yea she definitely for the streets. My guy Reggie tried to turn a 304 into a housewife

[@I_blame_you]

She is a surfaced level type of person. In every relationship there should be a point of mutually incorporating flaws from the past, but she was triggered.

[@abel7519]

Arlette, can u make the thumbnail of these updates a picture from the show when these couples finally matched? Bc I have not been able to recognize half of the ppl on the show when u finally interview them for an update lol. A lot of ppl on this show drastically change their look from week to week apparently lol

[@edfarquharson4143]

Too many people taking sides in these comments because they're speaking from their own failures with the opposite sex. The fact is they BOTH did too much too soon. The situation must flow and grow organically. They force-fed it and it died. Be Natural.

[@sweetsoul1266]

Agreed 💯

[@depitrius]

Failures? Like you? People are free to comment whatever they want without offending. Don't assume that your perspective is the better one, it makes you a failure.

[@edfarquharson4143]

​@@depitriusHere comes the biggest failure trying to feel better about being a failure. Yawn.

[@dashrysea]

I do think they both rushed it but more so he did than she did. I think she was genuinely going with it and wanting to work it out because they were clicking well especially on video games. But i think with him? He was soo eager to be with someone because he is older. He deflected a lot as well. I think she also lost interest when he kept bringing up her past and that’s a turn off for anyone.

[@special1r41]

He seems very controlling and the type that would've kept bringing up her past.Keep him blocked.

[@chrismr.inspiredduff1438]

Man, this started off amazing! And then drastically took a turn

[@Jaericlynn]

Blocking a person who's not being destructive is running from conflict.

[@Stand-Alone-Complex]

Arlette, I have a suggestion. Given that most of these people look so different compared to how they did in the episodes your team should do a recap of the episode itself to when the couples matched along with some highlights of the episode so that we can get a better idea of who exactly it is we’re looking at lol.

[@CJL_Enterprize]

This man said he asked for a 3way out love😂

[@JesRocWitMe]

I think he meant that he wasn't asking for a 3way on some creep shit, just if she was cool with it

[@tyronewood8883]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@jamesbaptiste6576]

He did the right thing leave her alone. I definitely believe him when he said she said she’s going to get somebody else to pay her rent

[@kandace_elizabeth]

Maybe she should have said she had "sponsors" to pay her rent....?

[@Rene-hf9zm]

Lord,,,I missed that part. I have to go back & watch. This was too much

[@fk9970able]

Most definitely she did… I just finished the whole video and it basically sound like all was well until he made that comment about her confidence. Unbeknownst to her, her reactions maybe confirmed his thoughts and that’s probably when she mentioned her “sponsors”!! 😂😂😂. She fine and thick af tho!!!

[@dashrysea]

Okay?? But him love bombing her, wanting her to get pregnant and off birth control, her moving with him, and etc all within a year isn’t a red flag to you?

[@trellporter4366]

@@kandace_elizabeththat some make it any better lol

[@donbalooga]

Reggie you past the “CERVIX LEVEL” huh 😂😂

[@ijustneedmyself]

A Freudian slip if I ever heard one 🤣

[@laj4186]

I'd love to be a fly on the wall to have seen this experience for myself because these stories they tell are night and day.

[@ellaabellaa1243]

Women need to understand that men care about their past! IT MATTERS‼️

[@akiomaroon]

His present rn is scary 🫣 what you mean run away with you and get pregnant this year 🤣 unhinged behaviour

[@mzakon1]

@@akiomaroonyeah it’s crazy to me how everyone is disregarding how controlling he was. Did they even hear anything she said 😫

[@akiomaroon]

@@mzakon1 ppl turn off their ears when sex work is mentioned bc how dare she make a living for on what they do for free 😂 im glad she’s putting herself through nursing school and is clear about her past and what she wants in the future.

[@KDubb-ws9zc]

@@akiomaroonhe cleared that up at the end. He told her I’d like for you to come with not “You have to come with me!” Lol she made it seem like guy a psycho

[@TrunxKraft3000]

@@mzakon1 We heard how she TRIED to make what he said seem controlling and all the other corny new terms y’all women use nowadays. But he definitely clarified and gave context. Do you miss that part, or are you stuck in fake feminist mode?

[@aj6761]

So stripper, OnlyFans, or something similar. As a grown, established man I can thoroughly understand where he's coming from. That's a tough pill to swallow for a lot of men. I don't judge women for having to make those choices, but I don't blame men for not being comfortable with it. Ah, she said it. OnlyFans. I mean, the content can be deleted too at some point can't it? *shrug* Oh man, stripper too? Sheeeeeeesh. Man, she seems like such a sweet and kind woman but that'd be a tough one.

[@empress2024]

The pill wasn't that tough for him to swallow.. he wanted threesomes. Then also wanted her to get off birth control to get her knocked up, drop out of school and relocate with him.

[@sierriaNicole]

It’s an example when a Of woman thinks she will be a wife …. Delusional…… your pass will bit you…..

[@jlaw346]

Not to mention she's had 3 somes

[@88infinity20]

Stripper, only fans, previous kid. No matter what that’s a lot for a guy to deal with for a genuine relationship.

[@88infinity20]

Stripper, only fans, previous kid. No matter what that’s a lot for a guy to deal with for a genuine relationship.

[@jewels9483]

If you are having problems like this so soon, it’s called a 🚩… you only fight for something worth fighting for Yall barely knew each other.

[@kingsweetz82]

Facts

[@mauricewhite5721]

be cool to see them on a reunion show working things out! her face expression showed he wasn't lying and she felt that

[@idakt]

I'm not gone hold you, the way their faces were right at the start of this told me everything 😂

[@jaraeart]

Same!!!!!!

[@networkingbae]

Peeped!

[@patrickbutts1520]

Bro had his eyes closed and not even looking at her in the beginning. I was like wtf 🤨

[@sdg4k723]

Calling being a stripper working in the “entertainment world” is crazy

[@itaekumba33]

I was wondering what they was talking about.. I thought she did corn or something ? ..

[@simply8574]

Yeah it’s a more professional way of saying it. As many call it adult entertainment or entertainer. Since stripper has a negative connotation to it to some.

[@SlotstheMetaphysicalwa]

It's not easy for men to date sex workers when they are not in that same industry 😢😢😢

[@rottenhead8385]

thank you! that is NOT what that is..

[@VendieSolde]

Adult entertainment IS entertainment.

[@MeredithEubanks]

Neither one of them communicate well and they got caught up in the show, the after effects of the show and the honeymoon phase fizzled quickly. The guy was sounding a little crazy though-- he's an over communicator and he over compensates which could be a form of trauma as he liked to discuss over and over and project. He knew he didn't feel comfortable with her past and probably her present and he could have ended things sooner than later. Nova's experience wasn't to his liking and she shouldn't have to constantly defend it or her character. There is someone out there for everyone and she could have just ended their interactions sooner than later. This recap did not have to be this long. Love this show! Great job Arlene!

[@momo4044]

She doesn't communicate well✔️

[@chiefrocka9159]

Wow! This went left with the quickness!