Erica Goes Off On Safaree For Abandoning Her | VH1 Family Reunion: Love & Hip Hop Edition

Erica goes off when Safaree denies abandoning her while she was pregnant 😩
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[@calistadanielle8817]

a woman NEVER forgets how you treated her during her pregnancy/postpartum.

[@queennikki6338]

Facts

[@HELLOkitty90210]

Nah, the first for words worked just fine: a woman NEVER forgets. PERIOD.

[@annastaciadasburg4305]

Right👌👌👌👏

[@pinupgrl69]

So true. I keep hearing that but i never faced it with my relationship with my son's dad.

[@TalkYuhShhh]

NEVER

[@Iseethroughyou100]

*If she's done then she's DONE!!!! Dont encourage her to stay if its toxic and damaging her!!!*

[@sakaiahreign3365]

Exactly

[@868Empress]

Right! Talmbout "you're saying that now..." Like, girl 🙄

[@illianaharris8400]

Thank you!!! Like wtf cares cause they married…its toxic! She needs to divorce now and start over before she’s 60 and wrinkled.

[@nk7925]

This is stupid advice for a married couple who may have a chance of rectifying things. This is marriage not boyfriend and girlfriend

[@raybaeee5750]

yes!

[@elizabethhoang1075]

When she asked to be gentle with her, my heart really felt for her. I can’t imagine the pain she is experiencing… to be sold a dream by someone who didn’t want the dream in the first place. It’s heart breaking.

[@monicalopez7070]

Agree

[@Capricorn4biz]

Yes I know the feeling

[@mimicoquillionmondesir507]

That went to my heart she FUKING HURT

[@shenikade8565]

I'm not sorry for Erica she dated married man and guys in relationships and she seem annoying and you can tell she toxic safari made it clear that before he go to jail behind her he rather to stay away which is understandable because let him would have been around her and shit pop off You'll all be saying why he didn't just leave

[@jenn9640]

No one can sell you a dream

[@Brwnskinn518]

When she said “ the dream 💭 he sold me” I felt Erica. I know that pain ALL TOO WELL

[@angelkaye82]

Me too

[@sheriannexberry483]

Me too

[@Safire-ji1vl]

Hello and the lies

[@babygirlfemale6507]

that's what I was saying too when they were on that celebrity scary tv show...Safaree proclaimed over and over to everyone that Erica was going to be the mother of his children..so Erica is right to feel hurt.

[@troylawson1902]

Yes me to and I'm experiencing that now smh.

[@theedancemuse4689]

She will never forget she was abandoned when she was preggers, thats a whole lot of pain and humiliation... I understand her totally, that was deep, and it was public...

[@Girlforaction]

She is a Scorpio. We don't forget, we hold grudges.

[@MeowNOVA]

No matter anymore opinion of Erica she did not deserve that treatment. Pregnant and public is a lot. I can only imagine… I wish her well into the new year.

[@nat_nat5702]

@@Girlforaction 💯💯💯

[@porscherandolph]

Same! It's a terrible feeling...10 years later I still feel it when people bring it up. It's no joke.

[@srcolema07]

I understand her too and it was deep. So deep it had me crying.

[@areiaaphrodite]

Honestly, the way Safaree treated Erica during her pregnancy with the coveted son that he supposedly "always wanted", was foul. Now, seeing him not even acknowledge that he did anything wrong to her and lie and act like she filed for divorce for no reason is beyond infuriating. What was supposed to do, Safaree? She doesn't need to be your wife in order to sit at home alone with two babies while you're off partying, living like a single man and doing you. Just disgusting. He's not a man. His mama didn't raise him to be a man, just a man-child 🙄

[@debbydooks2241]

facts!!!!

[@jenl374]

King Baby Syndrome

[@mindlessmeful]

He did acknowledge it, vh1 is just messy

[@byrddii3516]

I agree he said himself he was raised around all women he was looked at as the man but he was most likely also spoiled entitled & never held accountable for any of his actions his mother claims to not have raised him the way he is acting but it's a pattern with him & all those women around him made him think he was perfect made him think he wasn't the problem he is never the problem that's why he can shrug off Erica's pain like that because he really believes he does no wrong he didn't expect his life would change so much once the children came into play he gets bored easily & feels like God's gift to any woman

[@venusvenus8335]

He's way to childish I see it In him when it comes to her. I think he likes triggering her...

[@chaneejackson]

I felt her pain in her words. She doesn't deserve this smh. His sorry ass just love clout

[@carol2sweets928]

Breaka my heart, she has grown so much over the last few years. He literally stomped on her heart and walked, obviously he got some issues he needs to sort out.

[@jadeya565]

“Please be gentle with me” yo that made me shed a tear. She has her ways but she didn’t deserve this.

[@leawhite6573]

Erica has her ways but no one deserves to be treated bad while pregnant

[@njarasoarumpf8464]

Being treated bad in general😂😭

[@houseofmatrix6174]

She hella toxic wat you mean her ways😹😹😹

[@leawhite6573]

@@houseofmatrix6174 so she should have a bad pregnancy because of it. So toxic a person should have stressful pregnancy and being in the hospital.

[@DiabolikalFollikles]

No woman deserves that. Was he even present for the birth?

[@miguelcreighton8541]

Toxic

[@arbrieannalyne7293]

I don’t care what anyone says, she doesn’t deserve this. Especially while she was pregnant.

[@miguelcreighton8541]

Who is u

[@icyunvme2400]

Agreed

[@arbrieannalyne7293]

@@miguelcreighton8541 Somebody that’s entitled to their own opinion tf.

[@user-tn1in5he4n]

I can ask the same. Who are you?

[@Samantha-pt6pm]

Didn’t she break up a family home …

[@dayshathurman9344]

The women telling her to stay or that “she just saying that now” those women got so accustomed to staying and putting up with being treated like shit & constantly getting cheated on. They honestly think your SUPPOSED to stay. “What about the kids” fuck that. HE should’ve thought about that. These women actually think being a “ride or die” is cute. That shit toxic , if something isn’t serving you or bringing you more happiness and joy gtfo . Idc so I hope Erica sticks to her word.

[@cindyi8471]

They were looking at Erica like she's crazy and I'm sitting here looking at them like they crazy. A man that left his pregnant wife is someone you should divorce!!!

[@seeuontheotherside]

Facts! And it's good to be a ride or die, just make sure your partner is riding for you too. We as women can no longer accept that "struggle love" mentality. You're supposed to go through things with your partner not be put through things by your partner.

[@neiciegee8229]

I agree 💯 Each and every one of those women who are telling Erica to stay, aren't her friends. Becoming accustomed to being publicly humiliated by a whole 🤡 is beyond me. As big as some of these women talk they're settling for less than they deserve and for what? 15 minutes of fake fame and a couple of $ SMDH

[@kenyattabillups4769]

Exactly! Talk yo shit. Brooke was pissing me off. Bc she was the main one. Like Marcus cheated on her and she stayed. That was up to her and everything but it's not something she should push on everyone else

[@theeladyj]

Its normal to black women but not with non black women like erica . She comes from a culture that values family

[@lylablueabdul5503]

I went thru some pretty similar shit while pregnant. It was my worse pregnancy ever and I will never forget how I felt during that time. I woke up every single day crying. I'm not sure how she's even able to go on national TV after going thru a lonely pregnancy. I was diagnosed with post partum depression and I spent 5 years in hiding, away from family, away from friends. I just buried myself at home crying so much that I wondered if it will kill me. Raising my child by myself with no help from her dad after he abandoned her. I went to work going through the motions but never smiling, never laughing, never talking unless I needed to. I was just repeating the same depressing cycle everyday. I had to go through therapy and still going today. This can deeply affect a woman and it not only affects me but it more so affects my child now.

[@k.b.k8157]

Keep being strong for that child show her love no matter what. All she needs now is God and u. U got this💖💪💪

[@porscherandolph]

I cried reading this because it's so similar to me and what I went through. Yes 10 years later there is still some lasting effects. But therapy is definitely the right way to go...it helped me a great deal.

[@sweetdeadlygyallala805]

Prayers, hugs and tears 4 you 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@cierrat6943]

🥺🙏🏼

[@Hannah-ds5mn]

🙏

[@mariamadanae]

if she felt abandoned then thats how she felt, theres no arguing about that

[@maryahwimbush1645]

Then she should say I felt abandoned. How she feels and the truth may not be the same thing

[@mariamadanae]

@@maryahwimbush1645 at the end of the day the only people that know the whole truth is the two of them so whats your point

[@brittneyhailey]

Exactly man I promise. I get it

[@brown_skin_lover_queen5790]

I know I don’t understand why he’s even arguing with her she felt like u abandoned her that’s her feelings

[@mariefloyd6174]

Right, right.

[@tyreeonnicholson6874]

I feel so damn bad for her. Erica has her lil moments, but she’s human. That shit hurts like hell.

[@coachzaynab355]

they are not validating her feelings at all. This is why this is blowing out of proportion. It's passive gaslighting.

[@wavyblkqueen]

Little ?

[@robbyg4777]

So my question is why not try to make better choices in men. I am asking because i dont know it from a woman's perspective.

[@tyreeonnicholson6874]

@@robbyg4777 I honestly don’t know. It just seems as if she finds love in men with similar ways to her last. I just think she’s attracted to men like that and can’t help it.

[@b.schannell747]

So is he... As women we see what a man is before we get deep ... She saw as well...struggle love.

[@findjoselyn]

I truly feel for Erica, NO WOMAN on this entire Earth deserves to be treated like that.

[@mini_kimmyy1323]

That "please be gentle with me" I feel that.

[@heytiachan]

The word, “gentle” hit so differently after giving birth and dealing with postpartum. It has not been easy for her and I pray for her to find peace through all of it.

[@marztitus3472]

This woman has literally cause havoc in everyone else’s life. She’s simply getting her karma 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@heytiachan]

@@marztitus3472 To deal with karma is one thing but to have their kids be affected by this situation is another thing.

[@areiaaphrodite]

Safaree really going to pretend like we all didn't see him partying in Jamaica on the weekend his son was born and in the NICU? 🙄😒

[@sweetdeadlygyallala805]

OK??? We're not gonna go around pretending like it never happened or it was accidental #NoMoreGames

[@areiaaphrodite]

@@sweetdeadlygyallala805 I mean, he wants to say he didn't abandon her or his kids... that sounds like abandonment to me😒

[@angiesworld8038]

That's what happens when you are interested in trash bags.

[@NicoleJackson1]

Sound like my baby daddy

[@Thula_Impala96]

At this point, this is a norm for black men

[@notfortvmedia7333]

And the Oscar goes to Erica Mena 🤣🤣🤣

[@meganmarie9065]

People want to call Erica aggressive!? She’s speaking her MIND! I’d be angry as shit too if my husband was running around with another girl too. Filing for divorce, or not!! It’s wrong!

[@acadam8324]

I felt her pain when she said ‘’please be gentle with me.’’ 🥺

[@mpumelelobeyers957]

What about the millions of suitable men she she rejected was this bih "gentle" to them smh

[@angelsweet9611]

@@mpumelelobeyers957 suitable men? she never attracted any suitable anything

[@KL11127]

Mannn yesss

[@mpumelelobeyers957]

@@angelsweet9611 ohhhh and why's that I wonder?? Hint : she belongs to the stKreets!!!

[@nylabellinger6597]

@@mpumelelobeyers957 who she rejected caue ei know what you bout to go is the pooky and ray ray vs educated lame bs

[@ronnie2699]

We can all agree he did sell her a dream and she didn't even want it... but once he got her he's treating her like trash.

[@comedianpottymouth]

This goes to show that love is a risk no matter how much he shows you in the beginning. He could chase you so hard and do a fireworks display like he did for Erica and still become an asshole. He seemed so nice and sweet at 1st.

[@candicewatson5508]

That’s what men do.

[@Lita_213]

Women's intuition is real and should be valued. She would've saved herself a lot of heartache and pain if she would've not only listened to hers, but also obeyed it. I've had to learn and *relearn* that lesson the hard way many times. If it don't feel right from the beginning, leave it alone, immediately.

[@leblancvautour1103]

Narcissistic lovebombing

[@shakiaseabrook1510]

Yes he did really sell her a dream he really did chase her got a house together buy her expensive gifts married and had kids and after that he was ghost

[@raybaeee5750]

i know his mother is very disappointed and embarrassed. my heart really goes out to her.

[@shazekejohn1882]

She made me cry at the end. I really feel what she's saying then he has the audacity to say 'you're promoting that you're single!' Ummmm what you expect?? YOU BEEN HUMILIATING THE DAMN WOMAN FOR HOW LONG!!! SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO!!!

[@juiceeroom5136]

I cried at the end too

[@Ahkto8]

She’s being so real right now. Having her son in NICU, I can’t almost feel her pain. He’s a kid it’s ridiculous smh .

[@labelmeposh]

My nephew was in NICU and I was there almost everyday with his mom and my nephew. It was stressful on US I can imagine her by herself

[@brown_skin_lover_queen5790]

@@labelmeposh I hope your nephew is doing better and is healthy and I can kind of relate I was actually sick as a kid but I was like five all the way to my age now which I am about to be 20 it’s really horrible but one thing that bothered me the most is seeing kids in the nicu or in the icu and one thing I hate it the most is seeing parents not by their child side when they’re in this bad state it’s really really disrespectful and heartless I don’t care what was going on he could have went to Jamaica another time he should have been by his child’s side Soon as he heard about it not stay in Jamaica for a couple weeks and then go see his son

[@GDLizzay]

@@labelmeposh the doctors aren’t allowing anyone to see the children except the parents where I’m from. I hate it. I wanna see my nephews

[@labelmeposh]

@@brown_skin_lover_queen5790 he is. Thank you

[@labelmeposh]

@@GDLizzay This was before Covid hit.

[@Littlekely]

Rich said it best. They not compatible and neither wants to compromise for the other. Erica was manipulative to think divorcing him would scare him to back to her. Safaree egging her on, knowing what type of woman she is.

[@eve9287]

Fr fr embarrassing

[@debbydooks2241]

actually she waited a very long time and after many humiliations. She did it because at that time, she was fed up. Doesn't mean she doesn't deep down want him to change his ways, realize what he has, and wants to come back. She's human. She didn't want the divorce, he was basically trying to hurt her enough to drove her to do it.

[@everythingdana9322]

Erica loves him though. They both need to grow up. If they would mature and yield a little bit they would be powerful.

[@alyssabeth6177]

@@everythingdana9322 she may love him, but he don’t love her. No type of maturity would bring them back together, nor would it be healthy. They need a healthy coparenting relationship and that’s it

[@wonttrickmea1869]

And it’s funny because they’re signs are compatible, that’s why I don’t feed into zodiac signs. They’re both clowns

[@dsham5971]

Why is Mimi acting like a counselor when she was on the back of Stevie J’s bus 🚌 for DECADES ‼️ Old lady 👋🏽

[@hawadiaby506]

Lol... Child you nailed that

[@jasmineebron7527]

Lmaooo no fr

[@RAINEzWORLD]

I was abandoned during my planned and “wanted” pregnancy to, so I know completely how she feels and the best thing to do is move on and be alone. The man is a con artist and you got got. Just make sure your kids have the best foundation to not repeat the cycle 🖤🖤

[@urmamasmamasmama]

💜

[@toluogunsola9977]

A con artist for real! It’s actually wild the way he has behaved!

[@cecee_x3391]

Yes a lot of these men are con artist unfortunately selling dreams their not mentally and emotionally prepared for!

[@crybbyrosa420]

Safaree is literally delusional. I don't like Erica but she is completely in the right when it comes to this situation with Safaree.

[@comedianpottymouth]

His behavior would make ANY woman act crazy.

[@urszulasalek6007]

I’m with you on this one. When it comes to Erica I’m watching this and think to my self Damn Karma really be hitting hard hard, but the way Safaree acts is just nasty,

[@miguelcreighton8541]

She toxic

[@wealthy_islife6195]

@@urszulasalek6007 he’s not happy y’all women need to learn when your dude is happy or not she been pregnant like 3 times on the show and she keep complaining as a man I can see he’s not happy as he use too it he needs to leave her and love his self

[@wealthy_islife6195]

@Sabir Lucianno and she don’t? you supposed to love your self before the person

[@bigmaco903]

Correct me if I’m wrong but, going through a divorce does not mean your single, it means your taking the steps to be.

[@jors3825]

Yeah but what does it matter? Some people are completely done with each other when they start the process or even before. It takes time. So you can have that creep thought that they aren’t single because they are going through a divorce, that’s literally how woman beaters and creeps think. Crazy women too.

[@Ilovesw3ets]

Facts

[@LanieLaniee]

Yes but someone like Safaree can not grasp that concept

[@debbydooks2241]

@@jors3825 problem is.....sometimes divorces don't happen because they reconciled. But if I find out that you were spreading yourself all over , without any regard for my feelings, then you just killed thr reconciliation.

[@WestIndianAK]

Only on a legal level. On the level that matters most-namely whether the two people are still committed to each other-the relationship is already de facto over.

[@virtuousvlogsaboutlife6073]

I feel for Erica. You on this TV show and feeling abandoned while pregnant and after pregnant and then you try to tell your husband how you feel and he disregards it. Then the people around you telling no don’t say this and that and encouraging you stay with someone who treating you like crap. That’s not right at all.

[@Aubrey187]

He's so checked out. She's so hurt. If he wasn't ready for marriage n kids why put her through all that!

[@Akaylashay]

He’s such a little boy and has no regard over her feelings it’s so sad to watch. They both need therapy forreal.

[@houseofmatrix6174]

Erica ain’t no saint y’all take woman side no matter what

[@mahoganyjoy3502]

@@houseofmatrix6174 That absolutely false. Just like some men ain't down with some bullshit that men do.

[@wealthy_islife6195]

As a man you can see she bought him too this point a man don’t just give up for no reason no he looks like hes drained

[@thebfacebetty8212]

@@wealthy_islife6195 exactly 💯 and he is not wrong for moving on to be happy!!

[@MelissaSVice]

@@wealthy_islife6195 what point is that exactly? she was wanting him to be a husband and father that HE promised her. and now that he's backtracked away from what he had promised, she's the bad guy for being upset? make it make sense lol.

[@gabbie3174]

At this point she needs to stop entertaining conversations with him and realize he doesn't care and never will. This is exhausting. Hopefully they find a good co-parenting balance, but other than that she needs to cut all ties

[@syneshiarivers9999]

Right Straight up narcissist and he ever won’t give two fucks about how she feels.I feel bad for her I definitely been there damnn

[@nicolemanja1430]

Exactly. That is what I did. Immature men like Safaree are too disrespectful and not worthy of a woman’s time 👍🏽

[@disneydreamer8147]

👏👏👏

[@jesuswilljudge7296]

Sad, he's a narc, no empathy

[@sandrahassan42]

Got tears, I remember when my husband just did what ever, I was so ill, just left to face a problem pregnancy given me mental health, then a previous premature baby, just watching this gave me tears and I remembered my self. My son now 27 strong loving caring young man🙏🏿

[@zahramcintosh1880]

I cried when she talked because I feel every emotion either every word she spoke…..

[@torilivingston3445]

The fact that he was raised around women all is his life with his mom and sisters, you would think he would know how to treat a woman. I’m sure if a guy was treating his sisters or his mom like sh*t just like how he is treating Erica, he would be going STRAIGHT (in his Jamaican voice) for the guy’s head. Anyways, his behavior is just sickening.

[@sassyintrovert]

Unfortunately, he's that BAD b*tch of the relationship. MOST of those type of men have feminine characteristics.

[@TheRedScareIsAlive]

I think unfortunately men who are raised by all women end up resenting women and disrespecting. Plus they usually don't get to see men treat women well on a regular basis. It's not modeled for them. They just see the aftermath of broken relationships.

[@reneelewis9346]

My dad always told me to look at the way he treats his mom. If he has a strained relationship with his mom, then he probably have a strained relationship with you.

[@yellowflowers8586]

He Jamaican and he tryna make up for being in Nicki shadow

[@yellowflowers8586]

@@TheRedScareIsAlive gotta stop making that excuse bc at the end of the day it comes down to morals and black men are not socialized to have any.

[@Matriarch-tq3bg]

“Please be gentle with me” that hit so hard 🥺

[@ajboss924]

@Matriarch-tq3bg Stop being so dramatic. She was the one who filed for the divorce

[@Matriarch-tq3bg]

@@ajboss924 cuz he was gentle with her right puta?

[@destinylopez4954]

It’s everyone standing around ear hustling for me 😂🙄

[@ShavonneSeven]

The way Erica has gone off on people in the past, she seems so mild when she speaks to Safaree. He’s really the one who deserves the wild curse out tho, at this point. Manchild smh

[@mensahisaac3412]

That sandwich cisco was holding looked fire and probably the best part of the clip

[@material-cheshirekhatter2413]

They know what they're doing by releasing these clips in this order.

[@adelmckenzie4968]

Right‽

[@donreign9044]

right cause didn’t they make up 💀

[@tianamariee6287]

@@donreign9044 sorta kinda a lil bit 😂. The way they edit this mess u can't tell what they really got going on🤷🏼

[@adelmckenzie4968]

They sorta had a talk but didn't really make up but the way they're posting these videos got us all here scratching our heads like a confused Bobby Lytes

[@michellek5343]

Bruhhh like really?

[@user-qt5in5zu8u]

The way safaree looks at erica say everything

[@angieboo3966]

Erica is done!!! When a man hurts a woman like this you potentially change who she is forever. It will take God for her to trust again!!

[@nashae6292]

Wasn’t she partying with him on her birthday?

[@Starcvalentine]

I'm mad about how he was chasing her. She didn't even seem interested, but he kept pursuing her only to do her like this after 2 babies. Smh THE FREAKIN NERVE!!!!! UGH!!!!

[@scorpionpam]

That's sadly how they do.

[@beepbopboop7727]

Its a sport for them. He got the meddle he wanted. Now he's racing on the next track.

[@Supreme-sx6tu]

Should a woman's energy doesn't match what you as a man is expressing? You might as well just cut your losses and deal with a woman whose energy of likeness is reciprocal.

[@jesuswilljudge7296]

Narcs discard

[@camlizabeth8641]

@@Supreme-sx6tu but he waited till she got pregnant to abandon her? “Likeness” is out of the window by now. He chased her for years and seized her only to abandon her when life starts to get rocky?? That’s life. If he was not ready to face trouble when he become a father for the first time then he shouldn’t have gotten her pregnant. Parenthood is hard. Postpartum depression is hard. Take care of eachother and support your wife!

[@milesjohnson7423]

The gaslighting is real. It's pitiful how nobody, esp the men, is holding Safaree accountable for his actions and behavior through all of this. When will every other castmate tell Safaree that he was wrong? He needs to listen to understand and empathize with Erica, not listen to respond and be on the defensive. Expectation and accountability shouldn't entirely be put on Erica.

[@ha4b635]

Facts. And babies were not supposed to be put inside Erica.

[@chiefingmagician3108]

Erica told him to leave ,filed for divorces and was separated from this man for months before he start talking to other girls 💁🏾‍♂️play stupid games win stupid prizes n FYI it’s bc the other men know Erica full of shit she broke her family up little n little everytime she fixed her lips to tell that man to leave she always firing off at the mouth 👄 don’t no carribean man with sisters wanna deal with that

[@milesjohnson7423]

@@chiefingmagician3108 Exactly why both of them need to be held accountable. I doubt Erica is completely innocent.

[@WestIndianAK]

@@chiefingmagician3108 She did all that because of what *he* did to *her* in the first place. *He's* the one who didn't support her while she was pregnant, and then started leaving her alone at home, posting hurtful shit on social media, and eventually cheating on her. What was she supposed to do after that kind of treatment-play nice? Please. 🙄

[@angelasparza]

They’re not holding him accountable bc they did the same shit or simply bc is their homie

[@netanyayi6899]

“Please be gentle with me”💔💔 that broke me. I know the feeling too well.

[@ItsBrittanyBiitch_]

Cisco with that sandwich being nosy is SENDING ME🤣😂😂😂😂😂

[@Yogaflame911]

Damn that Sandwich Cisco was eating looked good AF

[@eve9287]

Ikrrrrr

[@comedianpottymouth]

Remember when mimi was eating that burrito 😅😅

[@eve9287]

@@comedianpottymouth lol lol yesss she was so UNBOTHERED

[@zamorapakalolo6699]

I know it!! Got me drooling like a damn baby and shit. 😂😂😂

[@prettychrissy]

🤤🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼😂🤣

[@neiciegee8229]

Safaree wasn't ready for marriage. Too immature. IMO

[@mekasims1981]

Like ray j

[@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287]

No he wasn't ready for her knowing her reputation.

[@UKtouch]

Then why lie about being ready :(

[@reyrey5259]

@@UKtouch idk…just to be in a relationship? Maybe

[@nylabellinger6597]

@@mekasims1981 but princess knew who he was form the start I don't feel sorry for her or erica cussed what she did to cyn is safari is her karma

[@chriselain36rakes89]

I feel Erica💯 I know All to well how this feels. Being publicly humiliated in front of a bunch of people and another woman have an upper hand over you is completely unforgivable I don’t blame her at all for wanting a divorce.

[@niqueness2988]

It irks me when other women act like the woman needs to calm down when she's expressing how she feels about a man doing her dirty. Give the girl a break. She has a right to feel the way she does.

[@mahoganyjoy3502]

As much as people call Rich old I can only hope people can truly get what he's saying because it can save a miserable life AND a life period. I think it'll go over alot of heads and it'll turn more chaotic with people coming together.

[@londonblues7070]

I low-key believe Rich would have treated her way better than Safaree...he loved her it might have been the wrong time for them back then but now that he is older maybe it would have been better...

[@andrealewis4327]

Not them mixing up the order of the clips (purposely) 😂😭 cuz ain't no way they were just hugging n Cryin then it's back to this😭

[@skkywilson8259]

they posted it out of order on purpose.

[@tyreebracey9345]

I felt the “he just lost his family”. Safari needs to admit his wrongs in this relationship. Yes your both not together but your still married at the end of the day until that divorce is finalized. So until the official papers saying that you are not married anymore then be respectful and responsible for Erica because the more things you do the more hurt and built up anger she gonna have and then it will become and much bigger situation then what it is now

[@Squidink96]

Rich explained the situation so perfectly. 2:40. Erica isn’t innocent at all

[@MelissaSVice]

Putting divorce on the table does not make you manipulative by any means. Your partner's reaction to that will determine what kind of a person they are. Safaree had two choices: 1) Stay and fight for your family. 2) Take the out you've been looking for. Clearly, Safaree has been wanting out for a very long time and just didn't want to be the one to throw the divorce card because he would end up looking stupid when he was the one who chased and tied her down. So to the very end, it was a matter of self preservation and he just didn't want to be the bad guy. He wanted to be the victim. So to me, Erica has to be the real one to make all the hard decisions because Safaree is not man enough to do it. He won't even own that it was what he wanted. He's too much of a coward. A real man/woman who has been through or seen hard pain only asks for two things: transparency and loyalty. Once you have that, you do everything in your power to fight for and keep it. Too many people hold Erica's past actions against her and they live in the same delusion as Safaree. Whether it was Erica or someone else, right is still right, and wrong is wrong. And Safaree did Erica really wrong.

[@olivianelson1654]

🎯👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@mockingbird430]

Well said!!!

[@smiley7904]

Well said

[@femdivinemind7777]

That is manipulative you contradicted yourself. If you are filing for divorce it needs to be serious because that is saying it is OVER .

[@prettyllady]

You know what it is? That she desperately wanted to keep her family together! But he pushed her to the end of her rope. Like She really loves him, but unfortunately his love for her isn’t there 🙁

[@MENTAL-STRENGTH101]

Unpopular opinion but she knew all of this in her gut😭 She turned down this man again, again and again while they were on Scared Famous.. She knew he was childish and a clown but narcissists will work overtime to get something they can't have.. She gave him a shot he lovebombed her, put her on a pedestal and then kicked her off...

[@bayar_]

exactly. this whole relationship is such a boring nondrama thing. not even good tv. everyone including themselves knew it was going to crash. like why are we even here? what are we talking about? they're both idiots with lame, unfunny and actually mean "personalities" if you can even call it that cus they don't have one in the first place anyway. at least other l&hh fights and messy situations are/were entertaining. hate that i keep seeing these 2 tumors being promoted as thee main troubled l&hh couple. next please.

[@TharraG]

This is her weakest time, and that’s not even including the pregnancy. So upsetting …..

[@musiq680]

She’s speaking facts 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Creolethunda]

“It’s my world” true words of a narcissist smh

[@scorpionpam]

Yep!!!!! My thoughts exactly!

[@laurenbray5260]

Right! and not taking into account that they have a family together and it's not just about him...

[@jesuswilljudge7296]

Safaree, true narc

[@RR-bq7tm]

Dealing with emotional unavailable men is soo draining

[@annie.socool]

My husband’s family made my first pregnancy a living hell and it caused me to develop anxiety that never went away. He allowed it at that time. We are way past it, it was a decade ago, but I will NEVER forget. Pregnancy hardships you never forget

[@Serenekey]

Rich is soooo fucking right . Now , I have to agree with him on what he said

[@meganglock8973]

What did rich say

[@adwoafremahntosour-amponse663]

What did he say?

[@zakiyareignshinellc4299]

Rich knows her.

[@debbydooks2241]

Honestly, I shy away from dating men who were not raised with their father/ or male model. There is always something wrong with their personality amd how they treat a relationship.

[@texasgradeandmade5929]

That’s good that you have that standard unfortunately. You can weed em out early in the game🤷🏽‍♀️

[@zakiyareignshinellc4299]

You are wise.

[@keziajoseph5609]

I dated a man who was raised by both parents , married, in the same house. Honestly , he was the worst. I dated a man who raised by his dad and grandmom, disgusting person. My brothers were raised in a nuclear family , and I never seen them treat a woman the way their father treated my mother. You would swear they came from a broken home. I think what makes the difference is a father or father figure intentionally raising a boy to be a good man and that boy HAS TO WANT to adhere to the teachings. Alot of fathers are just physically present in a marriage but rarely spend time with their kids , teaching them and grooming them.

[@debbydooks2241]

@@keziajoseph5609 There's no such thing as 100%. I'm just going by a majority. It's just very difficult for them to be in a normally functioning relationship. There's always something off. No one is perfect but I honestly stand by my Comment.

[@theresamalone1214]

@Debby Dooks Experience is a good teacher, I've lived thru the drama of an emotionally stunted man, u speak wise words sis

[@selleisa121626]

When is she going to realize he doesn’t care?

[@Jada_Elana]

I appreciate Amina giving Erica a hug and just being there hearing her talk her ish

[@ashantizulu144]

CISCO’S LOOK 👀WITH SANDWICH IN HAND, & BOBBY LYTE’S REACTION 👀WITH ZELL IN THE POOL 🤣😂

[@tianamariee6287]

😂 Bobby was about 2 be in the hot seat himself cuz apparently it was 1 of Bobby's friends that Safaree was all over🤦🏼

[@ladyzinada5341]

🤣🤣🤣

[@ladyzinada5341]

@@tianamariee6287 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭. Grabbing at his Bussy....talking bout who, what? What?🤣😂 total female

[@PreciousSullivan]

I’m literally sitting here in tears. I truly dislike safari for this.

[@YolaResa]

Lol these people in the pool saying Erica is messed up for using the word abandoned but have nothing to say about Safaree being the definition of abandoned.

[@trefens5635]

Lol that was Safaree's voice superimposed over a scene of Bobby and Zell in the pool. They didn't say it, Safaree did

[@YolaResa]

@@trefens5635 1:38 you can see Zell's mouth say "using words like 'abandonment'" what are you talking about? 🤔

[@Kaykay-jh1zu]

Lol at Zellswag in his crop top talking about abandonment with his nosy ass 😂😂😂😂

[@bellarose2220]

Its weird cause I followed their relationship. They were mad in love and it seemed genuine. I understand what she means when she says he sold her the Dream. I honestly feel like it was too much too fast she was literally pregnant when she got married he had no time to adjust. Having a baby is a strain on a relationship, having someone that depends on you for everything. Thats why he reached that way when she told him she was pregnant.

[@Sashagable]

No matter the case, no one should be treated like that even when or not pregnant. Safaree did give her the dream, acting like he was going to be caring, loving, and willing to build a strong foundation together despite the hardships. Safaree took the cowardly way out when he can't confront confrontations or things he disapproves of instead of talking through it. Even when it's hard.

[@ladyzinada5341]

Babies come with relationships. So he made excuses to Run just like most BM do as a result of a woman getting pregnant. Even their preferences. 🤔🤨. Married and all. No excuse to fold when it's your wife, he just a beta Male.

[@diamonda3253]

He literally went from rubbing her pregnant feet to grinding on bitches while his son is in the nicu

[@omayramanns6267]

It’s called love bombing and he has a mental illness called narcism

[@ethanjones467]

Safaree is a little boy that wanted a prize. The moment he saw Erica at Scared Famous. He was like a kid at a toy store so he did and said anything he could to get her. Well he got her and like a child that gets tired of his favorite toy. What does he do? He stops playing with it and finds other toys to play with. But when he sees that other people appreciates his toy. He cries and wants his toy back because he's not a man that's willing to grow up and take responsibility. He's a boy that wants to have fun and play with his toys. Sad but true

[@p.1642]

This is a word. Speak.! 👏🏾

[@sunnidayz856]

THIS! ☝🏾

[@asiacallier1]

Jackpot

[@ladyzinada5341]

That's from the mouth of a GROWN AZZ MAN. HELLO.🤨👏👏👏👏

[@parisvines8827]

Amen

[@sylinasalim249]

My heart broke into a million pieces for Erica 😢

[@VANEFLORESS]

Cisco and his sub 😂😂

[@rogerbear5455]

You have to look deep before you leap, those microwave relationships in the beginning are hot , and cool just as fast as you both don’t truly know each other. I feel for Erica whose having to raise these kids while Safaree is where ? And the cycle continues….I hope he steps up and is the father those kids need

[@vikeyshamurray7553]

rich spoke facts

[@James-hq2hw]

rich needs to shut up....He is not in any moral position to talk about their relationship. first of all, we all know how he treated erica and secondly, he is still trying to get in her pants. He needs to shut up

[@agapeagencyofvirginia793]

I’ve been watching him for years and all of a sudden he just turned into Dr. Phil

[@bigneil43219ify]

Rich just trying to get even, foh....

[@JourdanChaney]

Ironic

[@chocolatebubblegum1550]

2:16 Cisco with that sandwich was hilarious 😂

[@AshlineLafaille]

the way my heart melts when she said abandon me which is how I feel

[@MaiMai-ys4yg]

Damn two months post partum?! A bunch of emotions. I been there before. Time is the best remedy. Hopefully she and her kids will all move forward and she can co parent amicably. Not sure if these reality shows will help her attain peace though.

[@tianamariee6287]

Agreed, this show isn't going to bring them anything but a check🤦🏼. Idk tho, they may end up resolving things, cuz at the end of the day, these reality tv 'stars' are built different. I personally could NEVER bare my whole life on television, especially situations like this cuz Safire and Legend are gonna grow up and eventually they are gonna see these shows and clips and know exactly how their parents felt about each other, and about them, (the kids), and that ish could really mess with their mental well being. I'm just gonna pray they can put their personal 🐂💩 aside and coparent those 2 beautiful babies, cuz they definitely deserve to be raised with love and respect from BOTH of their parents.

[@MaiMai-ys4yg]

@@tianamariee6287 all facts!!! 💯 I agree! Have a blessed New Years!

[@AriesGurl5185]

Erica has changed a lot and she REALLY loves him…Safaree is a joke and takes nothing serious and that’s all she was saying!!! He did abandon her

[@jesuswilljudge7296]

Narcs discard

[@Nisha_Nykelle]

Let’s keep in mind Manhood doesn’t equal tolerating unruly women! As told to me by my Dad… just in case, we needed a source!

[@asiacallier1]

But why is she being unruly though? Most woman don’t have a problem submitting to a man when he’s doing what he’s supposed to. It’s when he’s not that they act up

[@Nisha_Nykelle]

@@asiacallier1 Idk why she’s unruly only she can answer that… well maybe she’ll answer it maybe not. However unruly is unruly if she’s being unruly out in public and especially on a national tv show then she’s definitely unruly all the time. And no woman gets a pass for being unruly just because a man does something she doesn’t like. That’s like a child throwing a tantrum every time a parent tells them no. Eventually those tantrums stop or they get taken to a special doctor to help them with their special needs because they lack control of their emotions (I.e. they are unruly)

[@sidneygraham]

Agreed that's why I eliminate that type of behavior period

[@jessicat2304]

This is so sad . I was at Safarree and Erica party 3 years ago and they looked so in love. I’m so upset with Safaree and his actions

[@lunacy3]

Not gonna lie, Erica sounded like she wanted him to come back and fix the marriage and not a divorce like girl…

[@stanis6543]

her game didn't work

[@jesuswilljudge7296]

She did want him to change, he's a narc though

[@urbanchangewithin624]

broken people trying to counsel broken people

[@tianamariee6287]

I have always felt that in order to understand f**ked people, u need 2 be at least slightly f**ked up urself. Mainly because if u have never experienced a situation or a feeling how can u give advice, or really even speak on it. Just like addiction counselors, if u have never experienced addiction, how can u even be comfortable speaking to an addict and giving them advice on how to get and then stay clean. Just my thoughts, anyway, hope u have a fun but safe New Year's!

[@Serenekey]

Exactly 😂

[@sonotu2855]

@@tianamariee6287 Facts👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@queenbemoka11]

Rich and Booby was speaking facts. Sis you played ya self. Just love ya kids 🍀

[@michelleg7444]

When she said please be gentle with me .. I cried

[@Lovely_1One]

Erica just needs to step back and leave him be and focus on her kids now. I know she loves that man but It’s stressing her and she’s aging badly and the surgeries were unnecessary. I feel bad for her. Safaree is stressing and aging her and I can say this because I know and have been there!!! It depletes your entirety!!!! 🥺😞 I pray she figures it out and can move on and be the best mom her kids need her to be for them. She can’t do this if she’s depressed and stressed! Stress will kill you! The reality shows also need a damn break! She has to be on these shows and keep up a certain level of relevancy to keep the checks and ratings up and to do that there needs to be drama created. It’s a vicious cycle and I’m Praying for her. 🙏🏽❤️

[@fruitylove6267]

You can tell by the way shankia is watching she feel Erica pain I to felt it when she talks about two months postpartum 😢

[@NicoleKeith-Smith]

Shankana is a bitter women entirely

[@mekasims1981]

@@NicoleKeith-Smith 😂 y u say dat hunty

[@callilove8378]

As a woman, we all can feel what Erica's feeling and it's literally on TV for the whole world to judge... so even if they have a good day... this is on the internet like cardi b would say FOREVA....

[@saraburke3350]

speak for yourself. The only ones I feel sympathy for are the kids.

[@zakiyareignshinellc4299]

Erica's problem is that she doesn't listen. She's also too abrasive with her words and lacks control of her emotions. These two are just not compatible nor suitable for each other but I highly doubt Erica will actually leave him. She's just using the divorce as manipulation.

[@theresamalone1214]

@ZRS My sentiments EXACTLY!

[@itsalytime8916]

They did each other dirty point blank! Exactly like what Rich was saying they were destined for failure! You cant scare a man into being a man and she needs to understand that real quick!

[@BbyMxM]

erica treated every person she was with like shit. She had a need for power and control just like him 🤔

[@Lita_213]

I don't know if this is Erica's "karma" or not (that's between her and God), but I really felt for her when she asked them to be gentle with her. I wouldn't wish the type of pain that she's expressing on my enemy, if I had one. I'm praying for mental and emotional healing for both of them because divorce or not, they are now stuck with each other.

[@Lita_213]

@@doddye1948 I don't know if she apologized to her or not, and since I wasn't personally or even professionally affected by what she did, it's none of my business. If Erica's marriage was not predestined by God, it won't matter who she makes her past right with, it won't prosper.

[@jesuswilljudge7296]

I know her pain

[@johnnienogood7409]

I honestly think it just goes in one ear and out the other with Safaree. He's going to continue to do what he wants. Ugh just look at those dumb looks on his face. Really sucks for Erica

[@brettaniapierce588]

When she said please be gentle with me, I felt that and teared up!! She's hurting and she's not acting!! Her aggressive disposition makes people forget she is a woman above all things. I feel that!!

[@RandomBlackGamer]

Why do these beautiful women feel the need to ruin their faces? Erica and Mimi look damn near unrecognizable with the lip injections. Its not cute.

[@bugeye8749]

That’s what’s not important here

[@jeremiahtray5621]

@@bugeye8749 Exactly lol. Adults are so childish.

[@AshleyGriffinHeart]

Out of all the things discussed that’s you main focus? Explain to me how this comment is even remotely relevant to this situation? 🦗🦗 Oh right because it’s not. Straight idiocy 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@laylor4360]

when men try to imitate thats what happens, they go overboard

[@RandomBlackGamer]

@@AshleyGriffinHeart You speak of idiocy like its something foreign to Love and Hip Hop. That's the reason why yall watch these shows. Knock it off...

[@terryo3512]

Why is everyone acting like Erica is innocent? She said she wanted Safaree to die. Constantly calling him the B-Word. Lying on him on Social media that he doesn't do anything for his kids. Because a woman is in pain doesn't mean you can Say whatever you want because you're hurt.....

[@PrincessZaire100]

@Benita Rodriguez I’m sorry, but we can’t forget that Erica is capable of being very NASTY to people. We ALL saw the way she did Cyn, and we all have witnessed Erica’s mouth. And nothing will ever justify her telling the father of her children to go DIE. There’s just some things you don’t say, even in anger

[@stanis6543]

she's ALWAYS been a horrible person. I don't feel bad for her AT ALL!!

[@rebels42wynn83]

I can relate to her situation. My daughter's father had abandoned me while I was about to deliver our daughter. Come to find out he was with another chick.

[@criticfortheuploader2035]

*Richie is so right, no one's not putting up Erica's traumatic mess of excuses, it's a broken home by design... **#therapyneeded*