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ERICA MENA DRAGS SAFAREE FOR BUYING AMARA'S TWIN GIRLS ROLEX WATCHES! WHAT ABOUT OUR KIDS? ANGRY😡😡

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Fumi Desalu-Vold

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@ChanelNJ
@ChanelNJ Жыл бұрын
“A man who does not take care of his offspring is a cursed man”! Say it again! 🙌🏾
@mumbimoche7947
@mumbimoche7947 Жыл бұрын
Such true words from the bible!
@chenesebeanmua
@chenesebeanmua Жыл бұрын
13:56 💯
@kayjay9428
@kayjay9428 Жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@jenniferthorpe7721
@jenniferthorpe7721 Жыл бұрын
How you know he is not taking care of is children
@fosholife3346
@fosholife3346 Жыл бұрын
He’s definitely taking care of his kids he’s paying 5000 a month but according to her it’s like he’s paying nothing which is stupid because I don’t know nobody with four kids that’s getting close to 5000 a month
@jerricahgoodale698
@jerricahgoodale698 Жыл бұрын
As a single mother of 3 boys, I feel you said nothing but truth. I had to learn at a very young age that you can’t make someone be a parent and there isn’t time to complain and be sad because you have children to raise and your mistakes aren’t theirs so you gotta do what you gotta do ❤❤❤
@nanaamapay9632
@nanaamapay9632 Жыл бұрын
Keep going mama
@ardonnarichardson5631
@ardonnarichardson5631 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, you cannot focus on what the other parent does or has. At the end of the day, as mothers we have to make sure that we show up and be present as the responsible parent. . She is too focused on what Safaree is doing! You can't move forward if you keep looking backwards.
@sugaplum2350
@sugaplum2350 Жыл бұрын
💯 I've got the Tee aswell. 3 kids under 3 and the day refuse to create structure in co parenting and no financial help. I was mad for years until suddenly I realised its wasted energy. My thing if a parent doesn't want to play the role or give financial support, good bye I don't want it if it burns that person to give. I just stopped complaining and got on with it. Role forward my beautiful kids are now 19 , 18 and 15. I am soooo proud I've done a damn good job. And there Father has also decided to step up now but I guess he had to do that on his time. I don't hate him, I've always said I know he loves his kids he just doesn't know how to navigate parenting. Regardless of the unfortunates I know I'm blessed that's the main thing. I hope Erica finds her peace
@TheLuxVaultStudio
@TheLuxVaultStudio Жыл бұрын
Please educate them...they don't know and don't get it. Careful who you lay with 100%
@ajohonly3721
@ajohonly3721 Жыл бұрын
This man has been like this since forever and she married him. He’s not done being a party boy.
@krystlejackson-vt8mp
@krystlejackson-vt8mp Жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you fumu.
@tianahaley9913
@tianahaley9913 Жыл бұрын
Agreed💯 he ran behind her like a homeless 🐶 and now look at her behavior she's letting this 🤡 get the best of her she shouldn't even spoken on him after 👀 him on another franchise and she's not apart of that's got to be the most embarrassing thing ever my opinion🤷😏
@DeboraSampy-eb4nx
@DeboraSampy-eb4nx Жыл бұрын
He's not done being a fu## boy yet lol smh he's pathetic feel so bad for them babies.....
@brandyandcream2
@brandyandcream2 Жыл бұрын
Erica is a narcissist just like Safaree. She is just mad that he is a “better” narcissistic than she is. They are both toxic waste and deserve each other. I feel bad for the poor children caught between these two narcissists 😢
@ce.379
@ce.379 Жыл бұрын
Queen Fumi coming through with the toned arms, beautiful ❤
@nalishebomubita-1913
@nalishebomubita-1913 Жыл бұрын
Fumi is the realest in the game of counseling make way for the queen 👸 sending love from Zambia 💕
@gracemubianashow1607
@gracemubianashow1607 Жыл бұрын
Zambia 🇿🇲 kuchalo
@phyllismwale5256
@phyllismwale5256 Жыл бұрын
🇿🇲 yess
@mathilde9252
@mathilde9252 Жыл бұрын
🇿🇲❤
@lottiep3134
@lottiep3134 Жыл бұрын
When I was in my 20's (many years ago lol) my husband and I lived with my widowed dad for a while before he died, and I had to pass his room to go to the bathroom. If I went in the middle of the night he always heard and asked if I was alright. He did that my entire life as my mum hadn't been in the best health as I grew up. That's a dad. He's been gone 22 years and as I write this the tears are making it hard to see. I will miss that man and my mum until the day I die. Fumi you are so right a dad is the one who is there for the child and it doesn't have to be biological.
@annmariesmith3697
@annmariesmith3697 Жыл бұрын
Awww!!! That’s a dad. You were blessed
@msa1678
@msa1678 Жыл бұрын
Erica needs to move on. Yes, I know it hurts to see something like that on social media. She knew he was not mature enough to handle a family he's selfless and self seeking he wasn't ready.
@BelleMbwese
@BelleMbwese Жыл бұрын
I disagree, they were married and had kids together. These are his kids too, how can a man gift a friends kids and not support his own children financially. Doesn’t make sense no matter how much you dislike the mother of your child, take care of your kids
@truthhappiness8874
@truthhappiness8874 Жыл бұрын
...then get #ready, he is supposed to be an ADULT!!!!
@alanajones4553
@alanajones4553 Жыл бұрын
When married no1 moves on. They get it right and raise those kids
@Daredami
@Daredami Жыл бұрын
@@BelleMbwese Safari got what he wanted from Erica, her reaction. She should have ignored him and kept doing her own thing.
@sunburn1013
@sunburn1013 Жыл бұрын
@@BelleMbwese completely agree with you. His behaviour sounds narcissistic in my view.
@jerriem364
@jerriem364 Жыл бұрын
Erica, needs to know that being “Silent is Golden! “ and Move quietly. I know this is very hard for some of us. But trust the process also, God got your back talk to him. ❤❤😊
@DeboraSampy-eb4nx
@DeboraSampy-eb4nx Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾💯
@robinbrown9265
@robinbrown9265 Жыл бұрын
I would have never gave him the clout even though it would have hurt I would have neva gave that man that power over my life Erica u are a mother first and a woman just take the high road on his antics ur children will see the error of his ways on these videos stay strong Queen be a lady at all times he’s not worth it
@brittanymaraya
@brittanymaraya Жыл бұрын
stop
@geedee2682
@geedee2682 Жыл бұрын
I felt like this was harsh. I have one son and his Dad was aaaaall about him. He was huge on family and his family was all about family. When my son turned about one, he started hanging around the wrong people. I never in a million years thought it would go like that. My son is 19 now and he’s such a kind hearted soul. It goes deeper than that with Erica. Erica’s mom was an addict/dealer and her father was abusive. Erica wants what we all want… to be loved and she wants it so badly she accepted scraps. It isn’t about the material, it hurts her to see her kids Dad put in more effort with someone else’s children. I do agree with you Fumi, I would not have accepted them.
@phyllismwale5256
@phyllismwale5256 Жыл бұрын
That's the part of the book that we turn the page, we all want to be loved but we don't have to hurt ourselves by entertaining men that don't want you. If you can't find love out there love yourself enough to keep on moving.
@sunmoonrising81
@sunmoonrising81 Жыл бұрын
safaree is like alot of cruff Jamaican man🇯🇲 .. they will build palaces for their woman and leave their own mom hungry and in poverty. but let's watch and see if the accusations are true.
@blessedchildofgod9112
@blessedchildofgod9112 Жыл бұрын
you right he just a typical Jamaican man
@redgal0575
@redgal0575 Жыл бұрын
YOUR ARE TOTALLY RIGHT💯💯💯 Everything you said in your message was well spoken and understood.❤❤❤
@maryporter1925
@maryporter1925 Жыл бұрын
He did it to show off or make Mena mad or both??? Emotionally , let him go, Mena! He will drive you nuts or you will LOOK nuts for your future man! Why give him that power?
@tianahaley9913
@tianahaley9913 Жыл бұрын
🤔 You are totally right it's easy said then done Mena has let that 🤡 suck the life outta her she need's to let go and let God🤷😏
@QueenMufasa552
@QueenMufasa552 Жыл бұрын
This comment❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
@pammajor1344
@pammajor1344 Жыл бұрын
Poor children 😢 their parents need help🙏🏾
@Elizabeth-vu1tb
@Elizabeth-vu1tb Жыл бұрын
Women who think giving man kids will help that man Stay or love them right.. and the fact that she is only mad about the watches(money) is also concerning… Material things don’t make anybody a Good person or DAD!😢😢
@Liz-ic6jb
@Liz-ic6jb Жыл бұрын
She's mad about the public display of the watches. That's not the only thing she is upset about. You really think she should publicly talk about everything she's upset about? You don't make sense. She's divorced from the man, that means there's problems before the watches.
@ritahmutheumuia1604
@ritahmutheumuia1604 Жыл бұрын
Erica needs someone to talk to Her about healing and letting go of this man. He is working hard to make her go crazy. She needs to be liberated from safarees shackles because if she doesn’t he will destroy her .
@scovyaporsha
@scovyaporsha Жыл бұрын
I had an Ex like Safari.. All love Bombing initially etc.. Thank God I didn't listen to his lies and paid attention to the red flags cause red flags are always there . Humans just choose to ignore them. I had to take the L but It's was so annoying that I fell for the Lies in the first place . Erica needs to take the L, heal and go about raising her children.
@jazzprettyinpink
@jazzprettyinpink Жыл бұрын
Fumi's advice is always beautiful and so genuine. So big sisterly. Love this channel
@melvaspence17862
@melvaspence17862 Жыл бұрын
You're so right there's a huge difference between your hubby and these boys of the world. No comparison at all. Ole is a Man, husband to his beautiful wife and father to his miraculous baby boy. These boys are kids themselves, looking to be taken care of, and getting all the attention from the multiple women they're sexually connected to. Sad but the world's reality
@Janicegirl-xz9ku
@Janicegirl-xz9ku Жыл бұрын
Bravo! I most totally agree. I faced that situation with my ex husband of 10 years. When we were dating, he kept telling me he didn't want to have any more children. I made it a point that we talked to each other. He had already been married and divorced and had a son. I actually respected that and told him okay but that means we can only be friends because I don't want to take a chance and get pregnant if we have sex, although I took my birth control every day/same time each day. I just didn't want to take any more chances. I told him if that was going to be too much for him, then we'd part as friends and we did. We talked every now and then and met up for dinner here and there. It was on one of our dinner outing he told me he wanted to start dating again and he strongly believed if we took all the precautions, we would be fine. I told him we could take all the precautions in the world but it wouldn't matter because there was no guarantee. So, we remained friends until he came to my job one day on my lunch break and almost cried and told me he wanted me and he believed we could go the distance and he did one day want children with me. I believed him but found out the hard way when we were married and I got pregnant, he never wanted another child. To top that off, our son was born with Autism and my ex totally resented our son for his illness and treated him accordingly. I found myself having to protect my son from his own father. I said all this to say when a man tells you he doesn't want children, believe him. When he suddenly changes his mind, tread lightly and cautiously. My son is now happy and so am I away from that toxic environment and I am making sure my son gets all the help he needs. His father doesn't want to have anything to do with him and hasn't in many years, but for us it's all for the best.
@contentcapture3965
@contentcapture3965 Жыл бұрын
Wow. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. God bless you for being there for your son 🙏🏼
@sasshil4202
@sasshil4202 Жыл бұрын
Wow the way men switch up literally puts the fear in me. And this is another example of that.
@shaedee7427
@shaedee7427 Жыл бұрын
Your son has a gift, not an illness. He's just a little more thoughtful and creative than the norm.Bless you baby boy. ❤ I'm so sorry you went through that man's torture. But please know your sonshine is a blessing.
@kashataylor6430
@kashataylor6430 Жыл бұрын
Wow God bless you. It amaze me how a person can be that heartless and not do the right thing.
@deniseseawood135
@deniseseawood135 Жыл бұрын
As judge Maybelline has always said look deep before you Leap
@lydiarogers9046
@lydiarogers9046 Жыл бұрын
First of all I miss the Afro-American woman from the beginning, I like to say everything that you're saying auntie you are so so right and thank you for being a big sister to all of us women❤
@mladeau2105
@mladeau2105 Жыл бұрын
This may be sad for a woman with kids with an ex, but there are some men wo regret the children they made with some women and will act like a decent father to the later ones. She got to keep her head up high
@tammywilliams8569
@tammywilliams8569 Жыл бұрын
Yes look at Steve Harvey
@user-yg5ow5si1z
@user-yg5ow5si1z Жыл бұрын
Well delivered Fumi! You touched on, Reality and Compassion along with the definition of a father. Time will heal…
@Babyluv_
@Babyluv_ Жыл бұрын
I know someone who had the same experience. She got pregnant the first time and he didn’t want it; he left her. Came back right before the first baby was born and accepted the role as father. She got pregnant with baby number 2, TWO MONTHS later!!! He explicitly told her BEFORE that he didn’t want a second baby. He left her for the second time and never returned.
@truthhappiness8874
@truthhappiness8874 Жыл бұрын
But he "frontin!!!" for someone else kids #Trash🎉🎉🎉🎉
@Hephzibah_n_beulah
@Hephzibah_n_beulah Жыл бұрын
How’d she get pregnant? Doesn’t it take 2?
@straykittsco.950
@straykittsco.950 Жыл бұрын
That woman gotta take the L for that! How you let a man who clearly tell you he doesn't want a baby with you impregnate you not once, but twice then end up surprised of the outcome?? Can't be going around with no control of your own fertility from these predators.
@rachellafontant-zl3wz
@rachellafontant-zl3wz Жыл бұрын
Take care of Ola. He reminds me of my dad who went overboard with my mom. At the end he was sooooo tired. He used to clean our baby bottles ... as adults he took us wherever we wanted... always there for us, like Ola. A true FATHER Be super good to him. God bless
@officiallykayanna
@officiallykayanna Жыл бұрын
damn! i would have stopped at that one
@uduakudo8908
@uduakudo8908 Жыл бұрын
Yes Fumi you hit the nail on the head!!! I appreciate how you broke this down.... I know a friend who has a wonderful Autistic son & the Mom had to raise him alone bcuz the Dad abandoned them.... the craziest thing is she used protection, she was intimate with the father 1 time.... My friend finds out later that she was deceived.... he broke the protection on purpose.... he did it bcuz he needed a green card & assumed that she wud marry him.... she said no & he ghosted her.... she knew that this man would not & could not give her & her son what they needed.... & others said "you need to chase him down & make him pay" ..... Im so proud of her bcuz she chose to forgive the father & focused on raising & loving her son.... the blessing is that her son is super smart, healthy & strong..... the Universe will always use a set back for a come up.... for elevation! Many Blessings to All of Us! 😇
@kirstenfebres9378
@kirstenfebres9378 Жыл бұрын
Love this!! Women need to hear these so called men when they say they don't want children they are SERIOUS! When are we going to LEARN! This will not make a man stay with you! It never has! Under duress maybe but who wants that?! On that same note listen to YOUR OWN HUSBAND!! If he says pump the breaks...do it! This will strain your marriage and won't heal your relationship. It will make it worse🤦🏽‍♀️ Such guys nuggets Fumi as always❤
@BajanBeautyBawse
@BajanBeautyBawse Жыл бұрын
When he found out Rich Dolla was talking to her again he was so mad. He threw up the chair he was sitting in and it came down and hit him right the back of his own neck. I'm sorry I laughed Hard. Look at instant karma. 😂😅
@scovyaporsha
@scovyaporsha Жыл бұрын
This made me laugh all over again.😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Im1BossyChick
@Im1BossyChick Жыл бұрын
That was hilarious! Good for his a$$! 😂😂
@cynthiarudge208
@cynthiarudge208 Жыл бұрын
You are right Fumi ! Damn right!
@Tricey.89
@Tricey.89 Жыл бұрын
There’s 2 memes that true about this situation - the first ones says “some men take better care of someone else’s children better than their own” and another one says “never give a chance to the man that been chasin you for a long time” - the theory is that the excitement was only in the chase
@cynthia-jo1zz
@cynthia-jo1zz 15 күн бұрын
You mean bitches take care of other people's children..a real man is for his daughters and sons.. you know when you see it..A real man is about his offsprings you will never ever smell another man having any power or influence on his kids but him.
@kerryalfaro9437
@kerryalfaro9437 Жыл бұрын
He probably got the watches as a promotion 🤣 😂 💀FUMI, LUV everything you are saying about what a father is I absolutely agree with you because my son's biological father overdosed and died when my son was a year old in 2007 he didn't know he was never knew a father until my husband now came along and my husband Guillermo just a father my son has he stepped up and he would die for my child
@deborrahall1915
@deborrahall1915 Жыл бұрын
Amen, This is a sad story. I can feel it. It happen to me. I could write a book.
@hawad.eliasu6914
@hawad.eliasu6914 Жыл бұрын
This is soo true! I love your advice on who to have kids with too. My dad is just like Safaree and it's driven my mum into a mental illness
@Maya-xm5jx
@Maya-xm5jx Жыл бұрын
I take what men tell me SERIOUSLY!!!! He doesn’t have to tell me twice.
@prisillakimani3590
@prisillakimani3590 Жыл бұрын
On this case I only pity the children.Erica thought she was the prize since he was his preference and she got shocked.This man does this when he gets bored he moves on and it will happen to Amara sadly.
@modiivaa514
@modiivaa514 Жыл бұрын
Fumi you should have your own talk show!
@veec4153
@veec4153 Жыл бұрын
Erica thought her looks and being the ‘preference’ would make Safaree stay. No no no baby, that don’t always work. He’s always been the joker, he just wanted kids before ppl started saying he shoot blanks and is old as he’s Caribbean, that’s what happens at a certain point for men with no kids. Before his fame he was Nicki Minaj hype man, that’s why Nicki kept dating him on the low at first, too goofy and it’s funny she didn’t decide to have papa bear with him? We all saw this coming, the man said he wanted no more after his daughter, publicly, she didn’t listen!!! ❤
@sheca8699
@sheca8699 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you Fumi... I learnt that lesson the hard way
@I_am_agirlfromtheislands
@I_am_agirlfromtheislands Жыл бұрын
Fumi you hit the nail on the head with your analysis it’s all fun and games until sh&$ gets real. The hype and the flossing was what she and he lived (and still live) for. Now the high is gone and the cold jolt of reality is not fun. Don’t wish this for anyone so you need to be careful with who you chose to lie down with and make babies. She is not the first women to have this experience and certainly won’t be the last.
@earlenebaron8537
@earlenebaron8537 Жыл бұрын
thank you aunty Fumi for that talk, doing your duties as father speaks volume. love and protection soothes a child hearts.
@fatalfenly6696
@fatalfenly6696 Жыл бұрын
“ Amara be careful ! Be careful mama … don’t get too comfy / cozy !!! “🤣🤣😂😂 I can’t breathe 🤣😂🤣😂😅🥰😂
@chenesebeanmua
@chenesebeanmua Жыл бұрын
Gifts for children under 5/6 are for the adults. The child may not even remember.
@mimimejame
@mimimejame Жыл бұрын
Not one lie told. Thank you big sis for reminding us women that we have control of our ability to determine the father of our children.
@londonallie2006
@londonallie2006 Жыл бұрын
Girl I have to listen to you on this issue because you always come with the right understanding girl I love you have such a sense
@empressh6960
@empressh6960 Жыл бұрын
I agree TO AN EXTENT with you, big sis Fums. You make good points. However, I disagree with you as well. I am 50/50. -- Personally,-- I believe Safaree has too many excuses made for him. 💯. He still needs to be held accountable. A deadbeat dad still is a dad. BOTH of them made THEIR children. He wasn't worried about being a dad when he was in the act. So BOTH are responsible whether they like it or not. 1000% Safaree was a detriment to Nicki Minaj, as Nicki explained. In a nutshell, Safaree's immaturity, ignorance and deadbeat dad ways does N🚫T excuse his asinine acts. As a father and ex-husband. I believe Erica had every right to vent her frustration.
@GiselleHeart
@GiselleHeart Жыл бұрын
Well said ! Nothing but the truth 🙏🏽❤️
@kassypele4662
@kassypele4662 Жыл бұрын
The Nerve!!! I can never get it smh.. Congratulations to Amara & her girls.. I'm not against doing stuff for people's kids but, how about start with yours. Nevertheless, Erica knew how this man was tho 😢. Everything you said is so true Ma'am. You are not lying at all.
@melshonestsoul2200
@melshonestsoul2200 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. You are such a wise woman ❣️
@carmenhomer1965
@carmenhomer1965 Жыл бұрын
On point been there done that all about the kids. Safaree was not thinking clearly with buying Rolex watches
@monicamcarthur7588
@monicamcarthur7588 Жыл бұрын
You are telling the truth. A woman should always be ready to raise her children on her own. You are speaking truth to all three parties
@meenameena-dd2zy
@meenameena-dd2zy Жыл бұрын
You said 100% FACTS!
@pauletteharris5257
@pauletteharris5257 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Queen well say have beautiful weekend 🙏🏿❤️
@rhondadavis3612
@rhondadavis3612 Жыл бұрын
yes my love you said a mouth full so true she needs too just focus on the kids but WE ALL KNOW THE LOVE IS THERE AND HATE
@sheilaevans2836
@sheilaevans2836 Жыл бұрын
You are 💯 right I live to see all what you say come true 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲
@esreneroache1006
@esreneroache1006 6 ай бұрын
I’m a new subscriber and I know it is God who brought me here to your channel. You speak in such a simple , gentle , respectful and so positive. I’m so blessed to have you now.
@Thrivewithabi
@Thrivewithabi Жыл бұрын
Such words of wisdom Aunty Funmi, I enjoyed listening to your take on this. Thank you 🙏
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 Жыл бұрын
Well spoken Fumi! 👌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@IAMJEWEL7
@IAMJEWEL7 Жыл бұрын
Oh Fumi they way you break it down, fabulous (in my Fumi voice)
@ceciliatcheboh8455
@ceciliatcheboh8455 Жыл бұрын
Ah fumi i soo love you and your analysis. Erica needs to hear this
@mariemuhammad5313
@mariemuhammad5313 Жыл бұрын
Excellent commentary as usual. Love you Fumi! 🥰
@progressngulube8039
@progressngulube8039 Жыл бұрын
Wow thank you big sis foe the words of advice
@deborahperez4885
@deborahperez4885 Жыл бұрын
Well said Fumi! I know that’s right 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🔥
@valencialaws8028
@valencialaws8028 Жыл бұрын
Putting the responsibility on the woman as usual ?! I'm sure everyone is quite aware how babies are made. If he didn't want anymore children, he should have used protection or better yet abstain. Why is it Erica's responsibility?!
@zoraxye4325
@zoraxye4325 Жыл бұрын
With respect, I think you missed the point of Fumi’s assessment. Listen again.
@n.v.1173
@n.v.1173 Жыл бұрын
He’s a narcissist. Mena made a huge mistake getting with him. However, she has two beautiful kids and needs to put all her positive energy into her kids. Work on healing and loving herself. They need her not Safaree. The kids will grow up and will learn everything their father did to their mother and that will be his karma.
@2realformost
@2realformost Жыл бұрын
Fumi is dropping knowledge today! Everything you said was 💯
@1MischiefRN
@1MischiefRN Жыл бұрын
My only part that I kind of winced at in this episode was the one about Mother's automatically bonding. It doesn't happen that way for everyone, some need time, therapy, medications, etc. I'm speaking from a medical background. Let's not Mom shame anyone. Love you Fumi❤
@scovyaporsha
@scovyaporsha Жыл бұрын
These KZbinrs talk with no research etc.. Thank you for your comment as some would have experienced this and will get comfort from it.
@ultratech1534
@ultratech1534 Жыл бұрын
Fumi!!!! Girl you are sooooooo RIGHT !!!!! Tell these young Girls what time it is !!!!!!!! Keep up the good work.
@MarisaBryan-mc5ez
@MarisaBryan-mc5ez Жыл бұрын
Preach Fumi. 👏🏽👏🏽
@patiencemacauley8822
@patiencemacauley8822 Жыл бұрын
Fumi I stumbled across your vlog only a week ago. You are a very wise woman for your age. You say it as it is and speak the truth By the way belated Happy birthday. Wish you many more healthy happy years with your husband and wonderful son Adrian .❤ In my late 60s year of age and I am enjoying listening and watching you. God bless you. Miss P (UK)
@samanthavandusen
@samanthavandusen Жыл бұрын
I tell my grandson that any man or woman can be a father or mother, but it's takes love to be a momma and daddy 💚 He has step family and wanted to know how they fit. And I wanted him to know that no matter what that's their title and why.
@cali89450
@cali89450 Жыл бұрын
TRUTH PREACH FUMI ❤🙌🏾🙌🏾😘😘😘
@daciadavid-mv6pn
@daciadavid-mv6pn Жыл бұрын
Yes sis 👏 so true 👍
@SiEOh
@SiEOh Жыл бұрын
Fumi, I have to start by saying you look fabulous. My goodness those tone arms and shoulders! Fab-U-LOUS! As for the video, you're absolutely correct with everything you said. I don't have children yet but I heed everything you said. Choose your partner wisely!
@tashibalampkin8555
@tashibalampkin8555 Жыл бұрын
I love the shirt you're wearing. I have never seen such of a design. Looks great on you.
@joannementor5943
@joannementor5943 Жыл бұрын
You are so right I agree with everything you said.
@joannementor5943
@joannementor5943 Жыл бұрын
She knew Nicki M got rid of his ass for a reason
@veej4444
@veej4444 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾 be careful who your kid Fathers Are‼️🧐
@ameliaoze6462
@ameliaoze6462 Жыл бұрын
Fumi, 200 percent correct as far as I am concerned. As a fellow Caribbean woman. 😂😂😂 My aunt's, cousins and female family friends dealt with our own version of Safaree. My aunt 😂 Allegedly stood in the yard with a cutlass for my cousin's baby daddy. Allegedly.😂😂 😂😂😂. He ran to get his mom for my aunt. She showed up,...." I told you boy, to leave these people girl children alone"😅😅.
@Jeannineslocs
@Jeannineslocs Жыл бұрын
Well said Sis.
@mireillejoseph2269
@mireillejoseph2269 Жыл бұрын
Good morning sister, well said and well done ❤❤ love you 💖❤️.
@sylviakodjo1134
@sylviakodjo1134 Жыл бұрын
You are so right Fumi❤
@Shimbayah7x77
@Shimbayah7x77 Жыл бұрын
Fumi, if he truly didn’t want to have another child then HE as the head should have been in charge of his sperm.
@amyedwin4606
@amyedwin4606 Жыл бұрын
She knew what she was getting into when she accepted Safaree proposal. All the tears he shed was fake 😢😊😢
@wolfphadera6946
@wolfphadera6946 Жыл бұрын
The statements you make about a father is spot on. Unfortunately that is how it is with alot of JAMAICAN men. They do not take care of their children whether monetarily or emotionally. I'm living with one currently and we have a son together. He's responsible in the sense that works hard and pays the bills. However, he is absolutely absent as a father and a partner. I'm father and mother to or some and he's right here in the household. He finds more time to give to others than he gives to us and when he does stay home He's sleeping most of the time. I most definitely UNDERSTAND.
@Vivian-hz3hz
@Vivian-hz3hz Жыл бұрын
God Fumi you’re sooo right my husband was like OLA we’re blessed
@fashionandluxury101
@fashionandluxury101 Жыл бұрын
I think it’s normal for her to see the Rolex and get upset, especially if her kids only got balloons 🎈 her reaction is normal .
@beautiful_soul37
@beautiful_soul37 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right queen ❤
@cynthiavaldez1182
@cynthiavaldez1182 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@carriehaouse1617
@carriehaouse1617 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right Fumi she need to move on and love and take care of her kids and go and live her best life
@keelywills7462
@keelywills7462 Жыл бұрын
I agree with wholeheartedly Fumi, love you darling
@esterlinehill4188
@esterlinehill4188 Жыл бұрын
You are so on top of the truth .speak sister girl
@cristaldollasign6962
@cristaldollasign6962 Жыл бұрын
Hello Fumi❤❤,,I count on your advice so much I appreciate you, I have a request, can you make a video on moving in with boyfriends soon, I need to make a decision in a few days,,,.when should one consider it and when is it better to just sacrifice the relationship for peace, personal growth
@blessedchildofgod9112
@blessedchildofgod9112 Жыл бұрын
truth you speak women need too be careful what man they choose to sleep with
@juliatripp2010
@juliatripp2010 Жыл бұрын
Sad. Great advice Fumi!
@funjewelrybyhasseltine4141
@funjewelrybyhasseltine4141 Жыл бұрын
Fumi I agree with everything you say as big sister to a little sister woman to woman, Ericka raise your kids you’ll meet someone you are a beautiful woman love on yourself and your kids ❤😊💕
@tykedasmith5888
@tykedasmith5888 Жыл бұрын
My biggest concern is seeing Erica first tweet that her kids didn’t receive Rolex watches!! Like is this the most important thing that matters to you??? It’s giving that she still has alot of growing up to do because she’s concerned about material things rather than time and energy that is not given to those kids! As for Amara, I wouldn’t have accepted such expensive gifts from him knowing that he’s not doing what he should for his biological kids! But Amara also has a track record of selecting the wrong men so go figure. Honestly I only feel sorry for the children involved in this mess that these adults created ❤
@letitiatatum
@letitiatatum Жыл бұрын
I love your makeup and your style you are so beautiful my Queen. wow
@gracebabila-fl6ym
@gracebabila-fl6ym Жыл бұрын
Aunty Fumi you are right.. I'm all grown up now and my dad and I don't see much but I precisely love the little cute memories we had.. I can still knot a tie like he taught me...we kids remember mostly the lessons taught and games we enjoyed.. A dad is a dad when he's present and involved
@mariamcadams6282
@mariamcadams6282 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct FUMI .
@Babs0403
@Babs0403 Жыл бұрын
Love you Fumi, yep truth right there🇿🇦❤️❤️🙌🏻
@samiyoabdiali7214
@samiyoabdiali7214 Жыл бұрын
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