brianna chickenfry & grace drama thoughts (vlogmas day 13)

[@TheNafers]

FINALLY SOMEONE'S GOT A LOGICAL TAKE ON THE WHOLE GRACE AND BRI SITUATION

[@73brook]

What do you mean "finally"? I have not seen one singular person agree with Bri except the wretched man she did the pod with (the other kid seemed to have some logical takes but idk).

[@TheNafers]

@ my fyp has been insane

[@73brook]

@ oof sorry

[@StephanieBenites-s2d]

I haven’t seen anyone side with Bri. But the fact ppl are is wild lol like how!

[@73brook]

@ literally! Couldn’t imagine anyone agreeing with anything she said except the even more out of touch dude she does her pod with.

[@jasonhunter2819]

I can always count on an emotionally mature response from you when you're being serious, that was very nuanced and well said on all points 🤍

[@julietbusch6943]

nothing makes me happier than erin carly and matt vlogging in the car

[@jordins1000]

As someone who got out of a toxic abusive relationship 2 years ago, I spent 2 years healing and realizing how horrible it was. I think that’s what she needs to do!

[@ErinGilfoy]

agree

[@barkingpxglet]

ERRIINNNN I’m literally listening to the OF pod and got a notification for this. Also I feel like this is a safe space, so also to mention, I was just at Graces sold out show in STL two days ago and she opened up the show saying that she’s going through a divorce of a 15 year friendship, so if she isn’t herself that’s why. She was such a sweetheart and at one point during the show she asked if anyone was celebrating anything, and someone proceeded to yell “being free from Bri!!” When I tell you she IMMEDIATELY shut it down and said no absolutely not, we aren’t doing that. Even after everything going on Grace is defending Bri in real LIFE!!??? I don’t understand how you can do that to your best friend 🙂 I’m hurting for Grace

[@ErinGilfoy]

so sad

[@aliciacastiglioni2514]

It feels like Zach planted seeds in her head that grew roots in her heart. I immediately noticed he was visibly annoyed by Grace in the videos of when they first got together. During that time, Bri would shut Grace down during their pod saying "thats weird grace." It was like watching your bff go from their 'misfit' friend group to the popular group like back in highschool. Imagine how much he talked badly on her and how Grace would obviously feel that energy. I would drift too!

[@lashonna]

Your hair looks so cute curly. Always liked when you styled it curly.

[@MScrista24]

Haven’t watched you in like a year if I’m honest but this video brought me back i forgot how much I just love your energy and vibe:,) will be watching again lol

[@ting3051]

You summarized everything i was feeling about this situation. Can’t believe how she can this mindset.

[@Selenerrr-e3k]

Because being in an abusive relationship for over a year, literally rewires your brain. As someone that was in it herself, I understand. It took me and my best friend years to repair the damage that was done because of an abusive relationship. People on the Internet need to be a lot kinder, especially considering it’s a situation that none of us are in first hand there’s a lot more to the story than we know

[@Lola-r4o]

@@Selenerrr-e3kexactly. It’s amazing how people are so quick to judge.

[@chloeellen8033]

Okay hear me out. I know you guys got burned out on your joint channel because of lack of inspo to post but what if after vlogmas you guys used that channel as something kind of like a sporadic posting of when a quick update needs to be had and you don’t want to wait until the pod to talk about it?? Or even a random vlog like you guys did with Mike the other day!! It doesn’t have to be a regular schedule!! Just so we can see you guys all interact out in the wild (lol) every once in awhile

[@ErinGilfoy]

this is tea!!!

[@Kase1313]

Yes please I love this!!

[@EsperanzaaaCD]

Another vote for this!!!

[@karsynraye4118]

same I love seeing them interact in vlog format!

[@SacramentoProud]

💯

[@kelliemorse876]

she’s in the mindset of poor me /im the victim still. It’s actually so unfortunate. I’ve been in bri’s position and lost every single one of my friends over a horrible man that was not good for me. Hopefully one day she comes around and sees how she’s acting is not appropriate. I feel for Grace and I hope they can work it out on the remix.

[@FiMccr]

This! This is exactly the mature and measured response this situation needed. Well said Erin x

[@VenLouie]

have absolutely ZERO idea who brianna and grace are but like I said a few vlogs ago, i love me a yap sesh and im soooo seated for this

[@jking6554]

Brianna created a show from her dorm room. Dave Portoney hired her at Barstool and she had a podcast (Plan Bri) with her BFF, Grace. Bri started starting dating musician Zach Bryan last year and they recently went through a very messy break up. Meanwhile Bri and Grace have been estranged and the podcast is canceled.

[@magictfn88]

This was such a thoughtful analysis of the Brianna/Grace situation. There are tons of nuances to all of the ways people like Brianna are hurting those around them in a situation like this. It’s not a black or white issue. I think the only thing that can heal them now is time. ❤❤❤

[@1818Pancakes]

Yeah I also think everything she said was really harsh and accusatory. I got the vibe that Bri is resentful that things didn't go back to how they were before Zach Bryan. She's definitely not acknowledging that there were a lot of things broken this last year and you can't expect your best friend to stand by you no questions asked after putting them completely to the side personally and business wise. Rubbing it in that they should have stood by you unconditionally bc they are successful bc of you is crazyyyy. Zach Bryan may have broken them up but she just buried what was left.

[@ErinGilfoy]

agree 😭😭😭

[@Selenerrr-e3k]

@@ErinGilfoy sorry Erin but shouldn’t you of all people understand that there’s a lot more than what you see on the Internet and there’s probably a lot more to this story that we know🤷🏼‍♀️

[@Lola-r4o]

@@Selenerrr-e3kother creators are just using this topic for views it seems. Which is sad.

[@abbeystreich2260]

Also 100% agree about the DM thing!! I had JUST watched you and Carly talk about it and then they didn’t even mention that?! crazy behavior

[@Catlista]

I was behind on a few of the vlogs between you and Carly so I queued them up to play each day in order switching between you and Carly and it is the only way ill ever watch vlogmas from here on out!

[@LolaSparklewhip]

She was also the one broken up with. So she was still actively choosing him and would continue. Really sad all around.

[@jasonhunter2819]

Oooh was she? that sounds like the same sort of 'breaking people down down cult indoctrination' type behavior then 😟

[@ErinGilfoy]

good point

[@jking6554]

@@jasonhunter2819they had broken up multiple times and would get back together. He broke up with her and then went on Raya and then blindsided her with announcing the break up on IG:

[@kaitlynb2261]

@@ErinGilfoynot really, I was in an abusive relationship where I fought for my life daily towards the end. People being abused don’t choose it, they are in a cycle. Yes, accountability needs to be taken for staying, but it is so so hard. You’re right that healing needs to happen. But I don’t think Bri deserves the hate. It’s hard to understand unless you’ve been in any type of abuse. The mental toll, you aren’t yourself any more and it takes a long time to unravel and heal from all the abuse and be okay. I’m sure the internet hate doesn’t help.

[@jacquiblue4268]

I was WAITING FOR THISSSS

[@meganking5710]

Liza and this combo on my feed today is bringing me back to the good ole days 🥲

[@anthonymorales2605]

OMG JUST LISTENED TO THE PODCAST AND I GET SUPRISED BY THIS OMGGGG

[@GIRLTOGIRLPODCAST]

I LOVE this take. Her going on hotness and giving an example of abuse she endured from Zach by saying he would do something for her and never stop talking about it (hold it over her head) then she goes and says everything she did for grace??? & doing a tell all about it to control the narrative is giving manipulative.

[@nevaehboggs771]

i love your curly hair :) it looks so pretty, tjs so funny after the cold plunge lol

[@Selenerrr-e3k]

As somebody who was in an abusive relationship, The way it affects your friendship is not black and white. It’s obvious Bri is still healing from that relationship. It took me and my best friend years to repair the damage that was done to our friendship because of my abusive relationship. Theres clearly a lot more behind the scenes than we know and I hope they can work it out and the internet really needs to chill on this topic Because the amount of bullying and harassment going on over a friendship breakup of two people we don’t know is absolutely wild

[@FirstnameLastname-tb8mk]

Agree with every single Bri and Grace take! I think you’re right that Bri will end up regretting how she handled everything. Her continuously trying to make a point of how “she gave Grace everything” but such a bad taste in my mouth

[@IslandDani]

Great take! I feel you hit the nail on the head. She’s just to freshly hurt to see her actions hurt her friends greatly too.

[@rorogelio]

the flannel queen. you kill every look

[@fatimakhan1155]

Thanks for your take erin, I do think this way too. Also listen to the new only friends pod episode like twice so i can understand this situation. I keep seeing way too many tiktok clips. Bri talking about what she has done for grace and then trying to link the stuff with zb and grace is insane .It just made her seem even more of a worst friend or maybe she has always being a terrible friend and grace stuck with her so we never got to see this side. Because if your friend is turning on you and wanting to play the victim she was never a true friend

[@salycia7]

i’m with you erin on the warm shower cold plunge thing!! 😂 98% of the time i’m cold and the shower is the one place that really warms me up i hate getting out into the cold world😂😩

[@eringrow8633]

Loveee the natural hair ❤❤❤

[@oreotommy]

the way i thought my ears were going deaf bc matt was covering the mic

[@izzy4350]

The new flannel is so cute 😍😍

[@alodiah2422]

New watcher/subscriber here!. 😊 Of course I know you from before and I listen to Good Influences and I just like how authentic you are and you have a really chill vibe, you bring good energy overall. Don't really watch yt vlogs like I use to. But this one brought me back to the old days, I love it. Might just have to watch all your older videos : )

[@KelseyMatuszewski-kk6mu]

TJs shout outs are my favorite haha

[@RaeofLight13]

The Story Of The Year slip made me laugh lol I still listen to them 😂

[@emilymajerus9607]

Erin i gasped at lady liberty. I am obsessed

[@larisaterd892]

That sweater looks amazing on you!

[@bjgamez_]

🎶 On the thirteenth day of Vlogmas, Dear Erin gave to me Thirteen characters in "Brianna & Grace", Twelve seconds of iMovie suspense, Eleven 'yums' seeing that pasta dish, Ten well wishes for Paris, Nine friends singing 1D, Eight o'clock wake up time, Seven letters in Emo Nite, 6: 30 dinner at Jemma, Five-star gift suite! Four(ty) bucks for Mike's sweater, Three fans of TJ's pizza, Two movies tonight, And a crescent roll-up recipe.🎶

[@shelbyschoonover8601]

I always love vlogmas but mostly I love the parker cannon slander

[@TheSscanlon22]

Bri has NEVER been able to see how she hurt other people. This goes far beyond the Zach situation

[@brendyarroyo894]

I love this take on bri & grace well said Erin!! 🫶🏻

[@meganleftridge2775]

I definitely agree with most of what you about Bri and Grace. But when Bri talked about Grace not sticking up for her online, might be silly to you, but it is significant to Bri.

[@sofiatorres2471]

Fully agree with your take on the bri and grace situation! Also agree with you on the cold plunge take, I rather get energized by drinking caffeine lol

[@00isla00]

Would you do an updated curly hair routine? Your curls always look so nice 💖

[@izzy4350]

Love the bts of the pod

[@jonellabrown2085]

Be very careful with having people come get items maybe if it’s possible have them meet you somewhere other than your home

[@marybelle]

I loved all the interactions in this vlog! That underground place was wild. I didn't know they still existed! Wow I sound old 😂

[@lynnc4872]

I mean no malice by this question but I’ve been off the internet for a spill and I’m wondering if you are out of the dobrik group? ❤❤❤

[@remmuchan]

You really have great taste in clothes and styling. I love the pink (red?) top so much and the sweater looked great. The furniture you're selling is also really nice! I would have bought it if I lived in LA. Hehe.

[@billllions]

Do u ever miss ur old PO box guy? i just remembered him i dont remember his name tho

[@ErinGilfoy]

bobby 😭😭😭

[@billllions]

@@ErinGilfoy omg yes bobby! I miss him #DALE! #longlegschallenge

[@kellytheyak]

Did I miss why you're swapping out all the furniture in your home??

[@maevewyatt6325]

omg i’m first less than a minute since it was posted 🫡🫡🫡

[@dani96539]

I highly recommend getting some ear plugs for shows! I go to a lot of raves and festivals and they are lifesavers for my ears lol

[@ErinGilfoy]

oh girl i have em!

[@Kaylee_eeee]

Also bri wearing a Yankees hat when all of Boston stood behind her so firmly. Ick also

[@ErinGilfoy]

criminal

[@rollipolli4]

Erin is goated!!!

[@danichesney1876]

Im really worried about grace. I know she drinks a lot and from her own words at her comedy shows she is really hurting right now.

[@biggiesulls]

Love u Erin!! ❤️

[@athzirigutierrez]

I wish I lived in LA so I could get all the things you’re selling because I am trying to redecorate our apartment to the exact vibe you already had 😵‍💫

[@abbeystreich2260]

If I lived in LA…..I would come get all of your stuff😂😂

[@kaseylee539]

speak on it sis 🙌🙌💗💗

[@mckennalaughlin7488]

Yes!!! She kept spinning it like she did this huge favor for grace by bringing her to New York.. like hello grace is enough on her own why are we acting like you made her ?

[@adyannb]

You guys are so cool

[@bekahpollard7825]

I was loling at TJ singing Wicked!

[@dubbleSHWANG]

You could always sell to a nicer furniture consignment store! I did it after my dad passed. I sold as much as I could on Facebook marketplace and everything else they took and sold for us.

[@patriciavogel490]

Why not have Habitat for Humanity pick up what you don't want? It's a good charitable write off & you won't have to deal with sales.

[@suelowe115]

Good advice from TJ about cold plunge 😂❤

[@courtneyschramm1763]

audibly gasped at the jail cell hello?!

[@ErinGilfoy]

girl same

[@CarlyKendall]

I honestly feel like you should say all this to bri 😭😭

[@mattjamesss1]

Chicaliques haha love when my besties say random names or things at times haha and happy birthday to Taylor:)

[@Hannahbug523]

I just watched the pod with Bri…speechless. It was a tough watch.

[@KatsObsession]

I wish I lived local I need some of that furniture 😭 literally looking for a bar cart for my husband

[@RivkysChannel]

I’m looking for a couch 👀👀👀👀

[@CarsonYoland-y8s]

Love this

[@lachimo41]

I feel so bad for grace for real

[@mamita43212]

BRAVOOO W TAKE

[@Elleforty]

New viewer here… why is Erin selling her whole house?

[@LynnzeNao]

Neeeed to know your curly hair routine like yesterday sister

[@AlexisBelon]

I ran here and I’m hoping you also got to see Graces stand up on the matter lol

[@babeeegirl123]

Its crazy that this warehouse looks familiar. I believe Jeff Wittek shot a short film here....

[@evilbluemandm]

Habitat for humanity has donation pick ups for anything that is in good shape. Just a suggestion. 🙂

[@misslulu141]

Haven't watched the Brianna thing, but it screams immaturity and she won't realise the damage she has done for some time.

[@alexawarnock9641]

I am New York based and looking for some furniture 👉🏻👈🏻

[@madimiller3343]

Alright I will look up Brianna and grace and zach drama. I have too much fomo haha😅

[@rayellelujan1738]

Oh next David dobrik and Jeff oh forgot yall won’t 😂

[@rayellelujan1738]

Wasn’t it a tough watch watching ur friend go through life altering events due to YOUR friends actions to ur OTHER FRIEND weird behavior.

[@kendravoracek3636]

❤❤

[@abbeystreich2260]

It was rough to watch that ep of BFFs….ugh.

[@xoregina21]

I neeeeeeeeeeeed the mantle but I live on the east coast lol

[@calib7956]

who the hell is bri and Grace

[@racheld5765]

ME N BAHK

[@mckennalaughlin7488]

QUEEEEEEEEN SHITTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@kellyhowland783]

You need to clean the bathroom. Hurry up

[@Blissfullybadansbouji]

Since when was tj this hot?

[@trintube68]

Who is this Briana chick? *sigh*

[@lauracarr9854]

You're still make video's?? Eww.

[@ErinGilfoy]

you’re still here?? ewww

[@Axioms_mirror]

Too obviously clout chasing for your brand bruh

[@emilytrudel91]

Ew you're already not for me with only fans but you don't understand abuse

[@ErinGilfoy]

then why are you here

[@maghen2972]

One min in and I think I’ll skip this one since I know nothing about this girls situation

[@leeannj3935]

Brianna was in a mental/ emotional abusive relationship with a country artist Zach Bryan and through the relationship it deteriorated Brianna and Graces 15 year long friendship. Brianna cut Grace out of her life for Zach because of his abuse. she then did a podcast episode explaining why her and Zach broke up and continuously said she had more things she could say about him but wouldn’t. she then recently came out with a new podcast episode doing a “tell all” on grace and bris friendship and it’s ending. grace did seemingly nothing in comparison to zach yet she deserved the tell all? Bro has not healed from her abuse and is reacting negatively because her life hasn’t gone back to normal. it’s sad that it has to be played out on the internet. this is something that she will regret. she has shown to be a shitty person and friend before her relationship w zach. but still she deserves to heal in private but she cannot do that if she continues to bring it to the internet. she has also victim blamed grace for being sexually assaulted and recently has sent many dms talking shit about grace.