Escaping a Fundamentalist Mormon Sect-Lyndon and McKay

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Soft White Underbelly

Soft White Underbelly

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@mckayjessop
@mckayjessop 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for the opportunity for letting us come on the show and I look forward to covering more of it on a later date!!
@sunshinencoastlines
@sunshinencoastlines 11 ай бұрын
So interesting to those of us that haven’t a clue what goes on inside. Thank you for sharing. ❤
@paranoidhumanoid
@paranoidhumanoid 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. It was an eye opener! ❤
@marig3713
@marig3713 11 ай бұрын
Awesome, you guys! Both smart and strong men!! Lyndon- you nailed it: do the right thing to prove it to yourself - not to prove where you came from wrong. Remain being the good brother you are to each other! Lots of luck to you both.
@melaniegrant3934
@melaniegrant3934 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing I was born in the USSR people look ate like I am from a different planet you guys made me feel normal thank you guys
@Sharon-t7o
@Sharon-t7o 11 ай бұрын
Thank you! Wow, blown away!
@lyndonjessop
@lyndonjessop 11 ай бұрын
Thank You Mark for having us on! Lots more to cover. I definitely need to work on my on camera cursing. It’s almost like having a defiant attitude got me to this point……..
@jennifersampson8958
@jennifersampson8958 11 ай бұрын
I have about a million questions! What a wild story, my god...
@haley9965
@haley9965 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story, Lyndon! You’ve gone through something most will never understand but you still have a smile on your face! True resilience! I hope this world is kind to you and McKay! Can’t wait to see all the places you go! 🩵
@lisamcinnis9238
@lisamcinnis9238 11 ай бұрын
Cursing keeps it real and colorful. I think it’s harmless. Such a curious culture. Happy for you both to have set your selves free. No small task I am sure. Keep on keeping on.
@janethughes2775
@janethughes2775 11 ай бұрын
It’s okay and no worries at all. Anyone who went through what you and McKay did would have had the same or stronger reaction. Thanks for sharing your story and hope to see you both on @GrowingUpinPoligamy with Sam and Melissa someday.
@donnathordarson2401
@donnathordarson2401 11 ай бұрын
I would love to know more about you and your brother - how you are doing, how life is treating you these days, if you are well - that kind of stuff. You are both such fascinating survivors / warriors that it would be awesome to know what is happening in your life in 2024.
@crcaseyclark
@crcaseyclark 11 ай бұрын
"Don't try to prove them all wrong, just try to prove yourself right." That is sage advice indeed.
@carlgeorge7578
@carlgeorge7578 6 ай бұрын
anyway, it never matters who is right, What matters is what is right.
@Mrs.Robinsons
@Mrs.Robinsons 3 ай бұрын
When the very foundations of this CULT-ture are exposed it saves many from getting caught in it, as I was. Ggma FLD$, friends & family went RLD$ - I was raised LD$ (out now) psychopaths leading psychopaths & cycles continue.
@maggieduke5072
@maggieduke5072 8 ай бұрын
What I find amazing is that this two brothers stay close together. Guys please stay close.
@Mrs.Robinsons
@Mrs.Robinsons 3 ай бұрын
When you're from LD$ or spin off, everyone is your brother. Some people are closer than blood.
@caseystorm391
@caseystorm391 11 ай бұрын
I lived in Utah for 45 years… as crazy as all this is, I’m not shocked by any of these stories. These guys tell the truth.
@torietorreano6613
@torietorreano6613 10 ай бұрын
I used to live there too. Utah is a crazy place to move to.
@echoecho1913
@echoecho1913 10 ай бұрын
I was in Utah 26 years (not LDS) These guys are telling the absolute truth. And this is just the tip of the iceberg.
@WikWar
@WikWar 5 ай бұрын
Lol 😂😂😂 FLDs and LDS are completely different and 1 % of Utah is like they are explaining. But If people want to believe Utah is like this everywhere that's okay maybe it will stay a safe state to live.
@alananat6628
@alananat6628 5 ай бұрын
​@@WikWarThis was literally pqrt of your history.
@WikWar
@WikWar 5 ай бұрын
@@alananat6628 part of MY history? It was part of the LDS churches history but not mine. I'm not mormon or religious.
@kylehutchings1479
@kylehutchings1479 11 ай бұрын
his story about why he left his wife, so she could have the experiences a 17 year old kid deserves, is so beautiful. to have that insight at such a young age is inspiring and heartwarming. good for these brothers
@MC-vd5kp
@MC-vd5kp 11 ай бұрын
I hope she was ok though....a naive 17 yr old girl w no income or education is easy prey in this world.
@fucketaboutit
@fucketaboutit 11 ай бұрын
well....a story......soo...........
@kelleyanderson7307
@kelleyanderson7307 10 ай бұрын
It was the Bonnie and Clyde reference that got me!!!! He loved her....... true love ❤️
@alexandriahill6962
@alexandriahill6962 10 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@goldenshore6222
@goldenshore6222 10 ай бұрын
Good love
@rob550
@rob550 11 ай бұрын
I've been a professional driver for more than 10 years and just wanted to tell McKay i'm proud of him getting his CDL.
@rob550
@rob550 11 ай бұрын
@GodGod-nq3bl Commercial driving license.
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 11 ай бұрын
@GodGod-nq3bllol
@leekurt9751
@leekurt9751 11 ай бұрын
lolll @@rob550
@bozobebop5859
@bozobebop5859 10 ай бұрын
Here here!
@lunownick
@lunownick 6 ай бұрын
Money card! 👏
@Alexandra-et3kj
@Alexandra-et3kj 11 ай бұрын
You can tell from Lyndons facial expressions just how disgusted he is by some of McKays stories of the church. What a "blessing" that his intuition and brain served him right since a small child. He always was a free thinker and knew what was happening was wrong. I can only hope there are more children like this that know right from wrong despite the preachings of the church.
@denisevermeulen4984
@denisevermeulen4984 10 ай бұрын
When it comes to religion everyone needs to be a free thinker. I learned the hard way. I’m good now though. Therapy is a godsend
@bayoubabe6698
@bayoubabe6698 10 ай бұрын
Well said. I watched Lyndon’s face-like he was back in all the craziness-as his younger brother talked about the men sexually abusing the younger boys. It’s heartbreaking but I think they are going to make it in the real world. Chop Wood, Carry Water ✌️
@littlesecret1961
@littlesecret1961 8 ай бұрын
Maybe he’s uncomfortable with inability to share the story without using so much profanity. I swear a lot and even I got sick of his language. There are other words to use besides “f*#k”, it just makes him sound ignorant.
@mandrewraeth
@mandrewraeth 10 ай бұрын
Lyndon's face when McKay was describing things they had to do, like not being able to eat Squash, was hilarious.
@KESnSC
@KESnSC 11 ай бұрын
Can we make this into a series? McKay, I can listen to you talk all day. Lyndon, you crack me up man. Wonderful storytellers. Wishing you both the very best that this world can offer 🌟
@dsoule4902
@dsoule4902 2 ай бұрын
Contact Danielle Ahn Direct. She has a series on cults. God bless these men. Good bs detectors 😉 Tyranny goes against human nature
@kittkatt204
@kittkatt204 11 ай бұрын
McKay-I’m proud of you getting your CDL liscence. That’s a big accomplishment.
@dianeNoneYa1157
@dianeNoneYa1157 8 ай бұрын
Yes it is!
@giuseppemariocescutti-fitz5835
@giuseppemariocescutti-fitz5835 3 ай бұрын
Thats what you focus on! Their license? What about congrats for getting out of their corrupt cult. Thats what i focus on.
@ifgwelf
@ifgwelf 11 ай бұрын
Im glad these brothers got out of that cult. Lyndon was a free thinker and put that spark in his brother McKay
@michaelswenson6599
@michaelswenson6599 11 ай бұрын
All are in the cult that darkness makes.
@stephenpmurphy591
@stephenpmurphy591 11 ай бұрын
​@@VibeagainShallnot, I see you.
@ziggy44132
@ziggy44132 11 ай бұрын
It’s not a cult. I am part of it.
@stephenpmurphy591
@stephenpmurphy591 11 ай бұрын
@@ziggy44132 We could call the Roman Catholic Church a cult and the richest corporation on planet earth. A few centuries ago they had heretics burned at the stake. Anyone who disagreed with them on anything....That's a cult.
@stephenpmurphy591
@stephenpmurphy591 11 ай бұрын
@@Vibeagain No, I literally see you inside and out.
@Chunlintan-yl7tu
@Chunlintan-yl7tu 11 ай бұрын
Huge respect to these two courageous brothers. You can feel the strong bond between them and it is wonderful to see that. Best wishes to them.
@entropyvortex2484
@entropyvortex2484 9 ай бұрын
This is hands down the best interview I have ever heard from escaped FLDS members. Their spirit, humor, and strength is admirable.
@topicdel
@topicdel 11 ай бұрын
I've been following your channel for months, but this is the first time I'm commenting. These two men are exceptional. I can't imagine how tough it must be to trust your own moral compass and get out of a situation like that. I wish nothing but the best for them moving forward.
@emmanueludoh77
@emmanueludoh77 9 ай бұрын
Yes i really enjoyed this interview too. Especially the older guy
@AliceHolm88
@AliceHolm88 11 ай бұрын
I was married to their oldest brother in the religion. I’m glad they are telling their story, although this is just a small piece of it. I tended Mckay alot when we were still in the religion. Miss those kiddos.
@rachelb315
@rachelb315 11 ай бұрын
I would love to hear your story too!
@AliceHolm88
@AliceHolm88 11 ай бұрын
@@rachelb315I plan to tell it soon
@ellengarcia4041
@ellengarcia4041 11 ай бұрын
Yeah religious based ... stick to the topic forced marriages with UNDER AGED female children!!
@PaulaRoberts-q6j
@PaulaRoberts-q6j 11 ай бұрын
I'd love to hear it too! God bless you I hope you are doing well ​@@AliceHolm88
@Moon_Presence
@Moon_Presence 11 ай бұрын
​@@AliceHolm88I was born Mormon, I'd love to talk to you about the difference between, the two sects
@MemeMary926
@MemeMary926 11 ай бұрын
Proud of you two men for breaking the cycle of religious trauma and cults. ❤
@mysticmama740
@mysticmama740 11 ай бұрын
This all sounds so abusive and traumatic. Poor kids that are forced to live behind closed doors, deprived of so much, abused, and explpited for their labor! Wow! Thank u for educating us. You have my respect for being a fearless leader!
@tracyjames2046
@tracyjames2046 11 ай бұрын
When he speaks of “Bonnie &Clyde” relationship what he is describing is a trauma bond and it’s real hard to break the cycle. My hat is off to Lyndon for letting go of his young wife.
@MC-vd5kp
@MC-vd5kp 7 ай бұрын
It sounded like a mutual decision, not sure about the young woman's point of view.
@lacies8196
@lacies8196 7 ай бұрын
If spilling the tea was a person! Telling everything, naming folk, locations...wow!
@666nacirema666
@666nacirema666 11 ай бұрын
I worked at a place where we hired a lot of young men/boys from these communities. They were ran off by the old men because they were seen as competition by the old men who wanted to keep the girls for themselves. A lot of them had nearly no education and had basically been living on the streets doing whatever to get by and whatever else for relief from all their trauma.
@666nacirema666
@666nacirema666 11 ай бұрын
Im glad these brothers found one another again.
@TheGrmany69
@TheGrmany69 11 ай бұрын
Well that sounds like a tribal society.
@Ernest-vh1zm
@Ernest-vh1zm 11 ай бұрын
It's so very sad.
@maygrantz4426
@maygrantz4426 6 ай бұрын
It is quite sad..
@lauchow
@lauchow Ай бұрын
Okay, but are they good at carpentry and vehicle repair? Because I will adopt them all.
@KylieJones-b6b
@KylieJones-b6b 11 ай бұрын
2 EXCEPTIONAL YOUNG MEN!!! So happy they seem grounded after coming from such a horrendous mind screwing childhood! Lyndon, if I was your Mum, I would be so proud of you, never disown you!!! McKay what a beautiful young man you are !Sending love from Perth Australia 🌈 Kylie
@rm2828
@rm2828 5 ай бұрын
Lyndon & Mackay…You are ABSOLUTELY REMARKABLE in telling your story of being born in a cult and then emerging as people who UNDERSTOOD RIGHT FROM WRONG!!❤from Montreal
@AZstu324
@AZstu324 11 ай бұрын
Having left the regular Mormon church years ago, i feel like we (my wife and I) escaped a crazy world. I can't imagine the $h!t that these guys have gone through to get where they are. Keep moving forward and dont look back!
@tobipeters1163
@tobipeters1163 9 ай бұрын
I left the Mormon church, as well! It is just all made up, greedy, controlling and was honestly disgusting to my soul.
@86-08
@86-08 5 ай бұрын
I agree. I grew up in the "regular" mormon church too and left it as soon as possible In my part of the country it was a mind controlling cult , a greedy organization, and a hypothetical gossip mill
@Belovelyava
@Belovelyava 5 ай бұрын
Happy for ya’ll❤
@mark91345
@mark91345 11 ай бұрын
I started watching this after midnight and it was hard to go to sleep, especially after listening to all the suffering these young men were forced to endure. The source of all this suffering can be traced to one individual: Warren Jeffs.
@kathleenroberts6931
@kathleenroberts6931 10 ай бұрын
And, relijin. Created by man to divide & control man. 😭 Mother Earth 🌎 is sacred, along with all life, she's our only home 🏡 😊
@kristen7254
@kristen7254 9 ай бұрын
Unfortunately it didn't start there. It started with Joseph Smith.
@kristinenelson990
@kristinenelson990 3 ай бұрын
And Brigham Young, and Joseph Smith
@thelairdknows2389
@thelairdknows2389 11 ай бұрын
This was sad. Fascinating. And triumphant. McKay needs his own interview now.
@greenie75
@greenie75 11 ай бұрын
I thought McKay said what he wanted to say, but there's obviously a lot more stuff bubbling away under the surface. He seems to really love his family and I think he feels quite alienated from them (even though he has no desire to go back). Luckily, he has his brother.
@judithmarchand9438
@judithmarchand9438 3 ай бұрын
Agreed.
@higgaroc
@higgaroc 11 ай бұрын
These two men are absolutely amazing, so glad they have each other’s backs, and I hope they can work to support others from that community that break free.
@lunamaharuni
@lunamaharuni 11 ай бұрын
I live in salt lake City and my daughter dated an ex flds guy, he has 3 moms and 14 siblings! He is a good man and was very family oriented and had no interest in staying in the flds church. We still stay in touch with him even though it didn't work out with my daughter
@lunamaharuni
@lunamaharuni 11 ай бұрын
@@Drstone-ys6we WOW aren't you a smartie pants
@lunamaharuni
@lunamaharuni 11 ай бұрын
@@Drstone-ys6we lol
@Mizz.Person
@Mizz.Person 10 ай бұрын
I wish more people were like you. I liked some of the parents so much more than ex boyfriends. I'm sure he appreciates your family friendship! :)
@lunamaharuni
@lunamaharuni 10 ай бұрын
@@Mizz.Person so true! Haha We love him and wished it would have worked out. But they weren't meant for each other and that's ok too. He still drops by to visit us, even though my daughter doesn't live with us and he's engaged to another cute woman with children. He really is a good guy
@kathrynbaker8215
@kathrynbaker8215 11 ай бұрын
This was so interesting! How amazing that people live like this. One of the wisest things I’ve ever heard some say was Lyndon’s “don’t prove them wrong, prove yourself right.” Congratulations to these two men for escaping.
@ashleyparker5144
@ashleyparker5144 11 ай бұрын
grateful for this interview. one-on-one chat with McKay please
@Hi.ttaysj
@Hi.ttaysj 11 ай бұрын
I wish the younger brother had more of a chance to speak. But this was a great interview. Sending love to both of these guys & of course you Mark as well💜💜💜
@TaurusMoon-hu3pd
@TaurusMoon-hu3pd 11 ай бұрын
Same here
@grant4176
@grant4176 11 ай бұрын
It's in the training to let Elders speak and younger ones be quiet.
@TaurusMoon-hu3pd
@TaurusMoon-hu3pd 11 ай бұрын
@@grant4176 the younger brother doesn't look too happy about it and the older one has hung on to that "training" 😕
@SinaLaJuanaLewis
@SinaLaJuanaLewis 11 ай бұрын
I agree, the older brother just dominated 😢
@betsybabf748
@betsybabf748 11 ай бұрын
They have different personalities, and not everyone likes to talk or is naturally extroverted. Mark also edits all these videos. You don't know what was edited out or why. Always one who finds something to complain about.
@VickiJessop
@VickiJessop 11 ай бұрын
I love these boys! They make their dad and me so very proud. They have overcome such hardships and have made great lives for themselves.
@tallyannklitzke932
@tallyannklitzke932 10 ай бұрын
I’m just curious, would you mind saying if you are one of their mothers that raised them in the home with the other mothers? If so which # wife were you? Or did you get with their dad after he was ousted? Thanks
@VickiJessop
@VickiJessop 10 ай бұрын
Their dad was not ousted. He left when he realized what Warren Jeffs was doing. I am not part of that community. I met their dad in 2010 after he was out for a few years.
@o.s.8491
@o.s.8491 7 ай бұрын
I wish McKay had been able to talk more. He would start to say something interesting and then shortly get interrupted. If he ever does a one-on-one interview, I'd definitely be interest! but overall very unique perspective from both of them, and I was grateful to hear more of what the male side of things was like. Thanks for sharing, to all involved. Wishing them both the best.
@MEL2theJ
@MEL2theJ 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for the interview Lyndon, McKay and Soft White Underbelly
@AnonMemSoc
@AnonMemSoc 3 ай бұрын
Mark this one is one of your best interviews due to all the interaction between these guys picking up pieces from when the older brother left. Looking forward to seeing more like this in the future
@Krise343
@Krise343 11 ай бұрын
I was engaged to a member of the Mormon church for five years. I was never welcomed in to the family. This was in the early 80’s. Years later his dad was found guilty of molesting his granddaughter. He was excommunicated from the church, but other than that, it was like it never happened. His whole family stood by him. It was crazy. My ex fiancée and his dad were killed in a plane crash a few years ago. I wonder what celestial level they made it to…
@pinkpugginz
@pinkpugginz 11 ай бұрын
outer darkness
@jillh440
@jillh440 10 ай бұрын
Hell- the lake of fire.
@strawbeary818
@strawbeary818 8 ай бұрын
Karma won in the end ig?
@craftsonthecheap468
@craftsonthecheap468 5 ай бұрын
I believe its called HELL.
@86-08
@86-08 5 ай бұрын
Hell oh Jell Oh
@Jennifer__T
@Jennifer__T 11 ай бұрын
Excellent interview! I could listen to their stories all day. Another interview with them would be so cool!
@thesimulation9651
@thesimulation9651 11 ай бұрын
I hope they start their own podcast, they're really engaging
@SaraKelly-e2j
@SaraKelly-e2j 11 ай бұрын
I agree! I'd like to see Mark follow these men like he does the Whitakers and Rebecca
@CAMBY608
@CAMBY608 11 ай бұрын
great interview…glad they are out…mckay was so patient waiting as his bro talked the most…u could tell he’s so affected still…my heart goes out to both ofthem for they will never have relationships w/most their family..it’s sad.
@babystudios0101
@babystudios0101 5 ай бұрын
These young men are genuinely good souled men... happy you were able to get out of the cult.... I did...the best thing I ever did...good luck to you!! Your AIDS story though...not that AIDS is funny. But your story made me laugh out loud....I had a similar story.... lol... .. 😂
@thekrakenminitheoriginalma7402
@thekrakenminitheoriginalma7402 3 ай бұрын
I've watched sooo many of the Soft White Underbelly episodes. It's addictive. This one is by FAR one of my top 5 favorite episodes to date. I laughed out loud so many times, what great personalities Lyndon and McKay are in spite of having gone through such insane lives and upbringing. I wish all the best for them in the future ❤️ ❤️
@Chesterweasel
@Chesterweasel 11 ай бұрын
Happy you have a sponsor Mark! I’m so grateful to have someone like you behind the camera provoking societal notions, and finding the footings of the bridges to be built.
@CMStewart
@CMStewart 11 ай бұрын
Intelligence, independence, and bravery. What a lucky combination!
@Brando-UK
@Brando-UK 11 ай бұрын
It’s crazy what you can make a group of people believe when you isolate them and control what information that they get. Great video Mark! I know you hear it all the time but you do an excellent job.
@astralfluxaf
@astralfluxaf 11 ай бұрын
It’s scary isn’t it? Sometimes they don’t even need to be very isolated to fall for this bs too. If the leaders are manipulative enough they can get a lot of people to believe strange lies. 😬
@amber76OH
@amber76OH 11 ай бұрын
It's heartbreaking, truly. I also believe that this theory holds true, even when isolation isn't a key ingredient. Those who control the information (i.e., the news, media, algorithms) control the minds. I see it every day here, and it's quite scary when people you've previously believed to be intelligent, begin to fall under these spells #thisisamerica
@TheKayaklover
@TheKayaklover 11 ай бұрын
Same thing happened in Cuba until the internet finally started just a few years ago and everyone started to wake up to their government controlled minds ! Now there are hundreds of young Cuban people with KZbin channels exposing the truth !
@Juliaaa_vine
@Juliaaa_vine 11 ай бұрын
Just as the Japanese government did to their own citizens during WWII. Brainwashed them with propaganda
@cross-eyedmary6619
@cross-eyedmary6619 7 ай бұрын
Agreed! We all need to ponder the implication of that, since information is so heavily controlled through the internet now.
@tiapina7048
@tiapina7048 11 ай бұрын
Lyndon sounds like a strong minded kind of guy. Which, probably, helped him live in that comunity and then leave it. I hope more people in places like that have the opportunity to ask for help and get out.
@pleasantsville
@pleasantsville 9 ай бұрын
So glad to see these guys expose this cult, unashamedly!
@tammyburke9453
@tammyburke9453 11 ай бұрын
this is so intense, i cant watch it all at once, but LOVE this potty mouth dude, lol They are both so amazing, to have lived through this and speak so articulately.
@mrsh_2329
@mrsh_2329 11 ай бұрын
It was fascinating listening to these guys. Lyndon has such a dry sense of humour, what a great big brother McKay has. Wishing them both all the luck in the world for a good life.
@Trees100
@Trees100 11 ай бұрын
Lyndon, please let McKay speak more. Or perhaps there wasn't enough time for all of the whole story? Lyndon, you have a great attitude now. "Prove it to yourself." Great! And, so good you help out your brother and the other people who left. Setting a good example is your absolute contribution. So glad you are both on the better path. Best to you and anyone else recovering.
@slithercritterstv9581
@slithercritterstv9581 11 ай бұрын
We need another episode wit these guys 🫡
@rachelb315
@rachelb315 11 ай бұрын
Agreed!!
@davejones8462
@davejones8462 10 ай бұрын
For realll
@maple9326
@maple9326 10 ай бұрын
With
@dianeNoneYa1157
@dianeNoneYa1157 8 ай бұрын
Yes! I want to hear what the brother has to say!
@jasonv2323
@jasonv2323 4 ай бұрын
I would like an interview without big bro there
@Sarah-ed6op
@Sarah-ed6op 5 ай бұрын
This dude is such an old soul, free spirit. Really well spoken. Positive. Intelligent. Calm. A really good guy.
@kendrahansen1175
@kendrahansen1175 6 күн бұрын
You can totally tell that Lyndon is a rebel. I think he would be so much fun to hang out with!
@kondor3979
@kondor3979 11 ай бұрын
This is a Fu*king Netflix series! I would definitely watch it.
@laitondion
@laitondion 11 ай бұрын
Keep sweet and obey is from exmormons. Cults to conciseness is an awesome channel on KZbin!
@Codisrocks
@Codisrocks 11 ай бұрын
@@laitondion this cult is Mormon.
@dejanrakic77
@dejanrakic77 11 ай бұрын
At least 5 seasons
@Lifeletnothingholdudown
@Lifeletnothingholdudown 11 ай бұрын
​@@laitondion do realize these boys are not members of the LDS Church videos you Recommended. These boys are from a break off from the LDS church. They explain that at the beginning of the video.
@CryingDumpling
@CryingDumpling 11 ай бұрын
They have a Netflix series called “Keep Sweet and Obey”
@Lizabethmoore-ow6mw
@Lizabethmoore-ow6mw 11 ай бұрын
I love these guys so much!!! I've been around Mormon culture all of my life (grew up in Vegas) and the control in both FLDS and LDS culture is real. These are brave, amazing guys...
@jessicajennifer9827
@jessicajennifer9827 11 ай бұрын
I meet one of warrens jeffs nephews randomly at a golf course. He proceeds to tell me one of the most awful stories he experience while growing up in the flds. He was a very nice young man. I hope he's doing well.
@Ernest-vh1zm
@Ernest-vh1zm 11 ай бұрын
Did this happen to be a golf course in Mesquite Nevada?
@ShyShyTheGem
@ShyShyTheGem 11 ай бұрын
…well… what was the story?
@JackMehoff-db8bt
@JackMehoff-db8bt 11 ай бұрын
Why tf u lien? Why u always lien? Ohhh mmmmmy gawd
@jessicajennifer9827
@jessicajennifer9827 11 ай бұрын
​@Ernest-vh1zm no, it was in Albuquerque NM. He was attending university here. He had a striking physical resemblance to Warren's imo.
@jessicajennifer9827
@jessicajennifer9827 11 ай бұрын
​@@JackMehoff-db8btshut up dindo
@nancym.1700
@nancym.1700 3 ай бұрын
Mark, this is my favorite interview! I grew up in the Mormon church and left when I was 25. Even though I was not a Fundamentalist Mormon, I can identify with a lot of what these young men speak about. I am happy for them, that they got out young.
@sarabelles9865
@sarabelles9865 11 ай бұрын
This is one of the best interviews of fdls I have seen and I'm addicted to watching this.
@jeff3229
@jeff3229 11 ай бұрын
Im glad they made it out!
@nikkoedwards4399
@nikkoedwards4399 11 ай бұрын
This interview was just fascinating. I sat here and watched the entire video. 🤯
@amandabrown8454
@amandabrown8454 11 ай бұрын
Im so happy they are free! They should have a podcast! Please have them back! All the best!
@Itsonlyfriday
@Itsonlyfriday 11 ай бұрын
Well...we have a new winner ladies and gentlemen cuz this has to be one of my most favorite interviews out of all of them so far now and I couldn't help but feel so completely fascinated and captivated by these guys' incredible stories so thank you both for sharing them with us!! You are amazing, brave and very strong to get through everything that you were forced to endure through your childhood but I am so happy that you got through it all and now are able to move forward to live the best lives you possibly can so bravo to the both of you and congrats!!!🥳❤️💯👏👏👏 (Incredibly inspirational)!!!👍👍
@misslornamae
@misslornamae 11 ай бұрын
So proud of these boys for having to courage to talk about this. Silence is how this stuff continues so talking about this cult is a good thing
@tingtingboll
@tingtingboll 11 ай бұрын
Religious trauma is very real 😢
@michaelswenson6599
@michaelswenson6599 11 ай бұрын
The environment of the flds is much closer than mans world to what an environment should be. But none know how to sow the light and night that it should be. Light is sown like a seed for the righteous. Psalm 97:11 I spent a week in Short Creek last spring. Had at least 2 great conversations about sowing light. That is a good place to abide in the glory of God. It might actually be that Z word that ends like lion does.
@lindsay5305
@lindsay5305 11 ай бұрын
Fact
@EddyG0rdo
@EddyG0rdo 11 ай бұрын
@@michaelswenson6599what in the world are you saying
@luvyatubers
@luvyatubers 11 ай бұрын
Recovering From Religion y'all. They make interview videos also
@jimbeam-ru1my
@jimbeam-ru1my 11 ай бұрын
religious trauma? Why are women such morons? Listening to these guys it became clear that they had better childhood than all the people raised by single mothers in our society. they had parents, they had a bunch of siblings, they were taught how to work, they ate healthy food that they raised and grew themselves, they were kept away from television, the internet and porno, they had a tight knit community, they didn't have schools telling them to be gay and trans and to hate themselves for being white, they lived in a white community. . . only a woman could be dumb enough to think their testimony is a horror story.
@wearelightbeings
@wearelightbeings 11 ай бұрын
Ppl wonder why women like “bad boys” and it’s not necessarily that we want a man who’s a criminal. What describes it perfectly is when Mckay said “And no one wants to be the only person in a room of 7000 to stand up and say I disagree” and then Lyndon said “I do.” That’s the spirit we mean when we say bad boy. Someone with conviction and confidence who is willing to go against the grain regardless of the consequences.
@gldnsunrising7761
@gldnsunrising7761 11 ай бұрын
YAASSS PERFECTLY SAID! ❤
@Lioness_of_Gaia
@Lioness_of_Gaia 11 ай бұрын
Yes!
@amandaanderson209
@amandaanderson209 11 ай бұрын
Agreed, perfectly said!
@xBINARYGODx
@xBINARYGODx 11 ай бұрын
depends on what people mean when they say it - sometimes it really is being used at someone who is no good. Too bad others have also used it for people who simply don't just play ball.
@Lioness_of_Gaia
@Lioness_of_Gaia 11 ай бұрын
@@xBINARYGODx Have you ever been ostracized? Scapegoated? Broken out from a multigenerational cult? I have. It takes a tremendous amount of willpower and self love to be labeled as "BAD".
@afterforever2765
@afterforever2765 11 ай бұрын
Well done Lyndon and McKay! Thank you for sharing your stories.
@TessaPardo
@TessaPardo 11 ай бұрын
Thank you Mark for our hosts on this video. Cannot wait for part 2.
@travisschaefer5286
@travisschaefer5286 4 ай бұрын
Stories like this make me appreciate my boring and “normal” existence, even more. I am so happy to hear survivor stories like this! LOVE the channel!!!
@jessicajane7296
@jessicajane7296 11 ай бұрын
I’ve always been fascinated by the FLDS and hearing survivors’ stories, but mostly it’s women who leave as the men seem to have a sense of safety. Listening to these guys is so interesting, the fact that they hated it almost right off the bat is not a surprise though. What they put the young boys through is brutal, I’m glad these guys got out! Thank you for telling your stories guys 😊
@thematriarchy2075
@thematriarchy2075 11 ай бұрын
I understand what you mean, but the men are also screwed.
@lifemusic1980
@lifemusic1980 11 ай бұрын
I heard stories about young men being disowned because they are a threat to the older powerful "leaders" (predators) and their control over the girls.
@morgenmachen2400
@morgenmachen2400 11 ай бұрын
I don't know a huge amount about the FLDS either, but as I understand it the men work and give everything to the church. The majority either have their wives taken because they rank low in the hierarchy or never are given wives at all. That's the only way one man can have 20, 30 plus wives. As you might imagine, this likely causes a lot of pain for a man.
@thematriarchy2075
@thematriarchy2075 11 ай бұрын
@@morgenmachen2400 I know you weren't necessarily responding to my comment, but just to be clear about my comment, i wasn't talking about men having or not having a wife or wives as a reason to be screwed.
@morgenmachen2400
@morgenmachen2400 11 ай бұрын
​@@thematriarchy2075I didn't assume that. Neither was mine, by the way.
@7mariepierre
@7mariepierre 11 ай бұрын
Lately, I’ve been listening to a channel called cult to consciousness and I’ve heard many girl’s part of this same story. I can’t start to comprehend how on Earth the government has not gotten involved in that whole thing earlier. Those Mormon kids have been through so much! It’s wild to me that it could go on and even exist for so long! I’m so glad he became that black sheep that saved himself and many others. Sincerely, he is awesome and can be so proud of himself!
@laitondion
@laitondion 11 ай бұрын
Because they pay them! I love that channel too!
@frankfranklin4846
@frankfranklin4846 11 ай бұрын
@@laitondionis it a KZbin channel or a podcast? Can you link it? Thx ☺️
@RubeeDtimebot000
@RubeeDtimebot000 11 ай бұрын
​@@frankfranklin4846...it's a utube utube channel.
@7mariepierre
@7mariepierre 11 ай бұрын
@@frankfranklin4846 it’s a KZbin channel. I have no clue how to link it but I’m sure if you type Cult to Consciousness, you’ll find it.
@brettsabey7301
@brettsabey7301 11 ай бұрын
i don't think they are considered Mormon
@jeremyb251
@jeremyb251 11 ай бұрын
Mark, this is wild man. I wouldn’t mind if you interviewed all of their family members who have left the church.
@elainescott6791
@elainescott6791 9 ай бұрын
You guys are amazing people and extremely evolved thank you for this and wish you guys the best! This has been an amazing education for me and thank you Mark !
@rhondaward8694
@rhondaward8694 11 ай бұрын
You two are amazing! I appreciate the support you give to each other. Sibling love goes a long way in this life.
@UncleBread
@UncleBread 11 ай бұрын
I go to school in St George, Utah and one of my classmates is from Hildale with the last name is Jeffs. Super nice guy, but he is clueless about some social norms. I haven’t really tried to pry into his life and background but now I’m very curious. I also buy pecans from that pecan farm in Hurricane all the time, they’re the best! Edit: I talked to him and he told me his family got out of it about 15 years ago when Warren Jeffs started doing crazy stuff. He commutes from Hildale 45 minutes every day for school and loves it there. He says it’s changed drastically in the last few years and most FLDS have relocated to Beaver or around Cedar City, UT. He appreciated being talked to about his background and we’re gonna hike Water Canyon when it warms up!
@Notmep
@Notmep 11 ай бұрын
Ohhh hurricane is full of the cult
@UncleBread
@UncleBread 11 ай бұрын
@@Notmep I was at a park on the Fourth of July out there and a really old dude with at least six wives came and posted up at a table next to us in the same pavilion. The youngest one couldn’t have been older than sixteen
@GlamGam1964
@GlamGam1964 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for reaching out to this person. No doubt he needs you.
@ZoeMacK1
@ZoeMacK1 4 ай бұрын
That’s so cool, that this interview inspired you to reach out to him.
@ZoeMacK1
@ZoeMacK1 4 ай бұрын
@@UncleBreadsad😢
@Abigail78576
@Abigail78576 11 ай бұрын
one of the best interviews so far!
@nancycassimatis3262
@nancycassimatis3262 11 ай бұрын
What a sad but incredibly story. Thank you for sharing - wishing you both the very best in your journeys. Love 💕 from Canada 🇨🇦
@shelleytremper5940
@shelleytremper5940 3 ай бұрын
This is one of the best interviews so far!!!
@bbonnyy
@bbonnyy 11 ай бұрын
As an ex-mormon I thoroughly enjoyed hearing about your lived experiences. Thank you for sharing this with us.
@tom-ss2mn
@tom-ss2mn 11 ай бұрын
I grew up in the cult of jehovahs witnesses. Like these two brothers, me leaving the cult meant losing family. It's very tough
@peggygarcia6125
@peggygarcia6125 11 ай бұрын
So sorry. So cruel.
@cpeace3172
@cpeace3172 10 ай бұрын
Glad you got out. 🙌🏻 Live your life to the fullest. You are not responsible for their negative reactions. They are brainwashed.
@stinkywow
@stinkywow 10 ай бұрын
Me too. But glad I left and made my own life
@gjhartist3685
@gjhartist3685 9 ай бұрын
I wish SWU would interview an EX-JW one day.
@RoseS-u5i
@RoseS-u5i 9 ай бұрын
@@gjhartist3685 yes I agree
@ivaloowilson3524
@ivaloowilson3524 11 ай бұрын
Thank you Lyndon and McKay for your great interview. I've seen the documentary on FLDS. I couldn't imagine how much trauma you've experienced. Take pride in how you overcame it.✨️
@allieofthedolls
@allieofthedolls 11 ай бұрын
This is a really great interview. Thank you for having them share their stories.
@johnayala5551
@johnayala5551 2 ай бұрын
I have a friend from the same cult and he had a very similar story. He kept saying "I felt robbed all my life". I understand it better after watching this vid. Great documentary.
@smirkinatu5512
@smirkinatu5512 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for recording and posting this valuable educational video. I wish you both peace and prosperity in your life.
@ednabee2738
@ednabee2738 11 ай бұрын
What a great great interview.. please have them back again.. i could listen to their stories all day long..
@lindacarr3580
@lindacarr3580 11 ай бұрын
One of your best interviews
@mariebonillaelzarka1062
@mariebonillaelzarka1062 11 ай бұрын
These two young men have so much to say. Mark thank you for giving them the opportunity to speak freely.
@robertnervi57
@robertnervi57 8 ай бұрын
Yes.
@dolosang
@dolosang 3 ай бұрын
Precious, beautiful brothers. Good luck to you both and thank you for sharing.
@anniemalloy8208
@anniemalloy8208 11 ай бұрын
So much gleaned from you Lyndon and you McKay - primarily, what well-rounded, funny, wise, fearless, humble & proud (well-deserved pride) you both are. I'd say you truly made lemonade, from the lemons in your lives. It warms my heart that you're back together and building a solid, respectful and satisfying life, as beautiful individuals but also as a family. Thank you for sharing the challenging personal things you both experienced, I have such respect for your resilience. I truly wish everything wonderful and fulfilling for you both!!
@kirstensweeney1107
@kirstensweeney1107 11 ай бұрын
Great interview, but I wish the younger brother had more of a chance to speak. I would love to hear more from him!
@Kevin-ii7gy
@Kevin-ii7gy 11 ай бұрын
Great guys right here. Saw the title wasn’t even going to watch . Listened intently to the whole thing. . Crazy crazy interesting .
@MC-vd5kp
@MC-vd5kp 11 ай бұрын
Absolutely fascinating! Hats off to both of these young men ! Lyndon w his leadership and clear-sighted thinking, and his brother w the courage to follow. Not only did they get out, they are also leading clean-living, productive lives. As someone who escaped a less severe cult that led to severe religious trauma, I admire their steadfastness and mental acuity. Best wishes for happy, trauma-free and successful lives🎉. Congratulations on your bravery, young men !
@greenie75
@greenie75 11 ай бұрын
Great comment :)
@soniaduffey2814
@soniaduffey2814 4 ай бұрын
You guys have had a crazy upbringing but you both seem very grounded . It amazes me that you aren’t really bitter and messed up. So glad you’re both doing well . Respect !
@elizabethm.158
@elizabethm.158 11 ай бұрын
Lyndon, you are so honest but with humor. What a gift! I pray ( I'm Catholic) you are safe, prosperous, and have a great life! Thank you for sharing your life.
@johnoberly2139
@johnoberly2139 11 ай бұрын
This was amazing. Probably one of my top three and I watch you every day. This is so interesting. Crazy story. I wish you had a part 2 on them
@kayem9909
@kayem9909 11 ай бұрын
Excellent interview. Wishing the best to these boys. They made a wise and brave decision to leave the cult. Please do more religious themed interviews. They are fascinating.
@suzettechristine8609
@suzettechristine8609 11 ай бұрын
This is a Great Interview. Lyndon is an old soul, Strong willed. Great planning on getting out. They are Brave for leaving. Sad they have no contact with parents. Hope they are enjoying their new life. Im sure they're very appreciative of " The little things in life", Nowadays.
@VickiJessop
@VickiJessop 11 ай бұрын
Lyndon is definitely an old soul.
@kellymyers5384
@kellymyers5384 11 ай бұрын
Fascinating interview and I wish nothing but the best to these two young guys!
@reneenelsen7416
@reneenelsen7416 10 ай бұрын
Wow, after listening to you guys, I realize I have so much more to be grateful for in my life. Thank you for sharing your life stories. Sending virtual Granny hug's and prayers to everyone ☺️💕
@RyanshawMe
@RyanshawMe 11 ай бұрын
Every religion is a corporation based off of a sex, money, and power.. Well said!
@sophiegolden
@sophiegolden 11 ай бұрын
Indeed
@martinmummert5614
@martinmummert5614 11 ай бұрын
Except doctrinally sound, King James Bible-based Christianity.
@candvdz9618
@candvdz9618 11 ай бұрын
@@martinmummert5614nah, especially that one
@astralfluxaf
@astralfluxaf 11 ай бұрын
@@martinmummert5614that’s one of the worst offenders
@matthewneufer1758
@matthewneufer1758 11 ай бұрын
No tru Christianity based on Jesus teachings and Apostle Paul they dont follow the scripture they make up their own scripture .
@tonithewolfe
@tonithewolfe 11 ай бұрын
Incredible interview! Thank you Lyndon and McKay for sharing your experience growing up in the FLDS and being so frank and honest about your lives and educating us about what growing up FLDS is really like. It takes a lit of strength and tenacity to escape a life like that. I wish you both the very best.
@EmilyBrady-mb8kl
@EmilyBrady-mb8kl 11 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this one. Hopefully you can have them come back for a part 2
@staciehahn9175
@staciehahn9175 9 ай бұрын
I like their accent.. it reminds me of the Colorado farm kid dialect. It’s not really southern, it’s not really Colorado Front Range newscaster voice. ranch kids out west speak like this and I miss the way it sounds ❤ good luck to these young men!!
@ben.faerber
@ben.faerber 7 ай бұрын
It sounds like my grandpa's rural Utah accent
@heidijackson2586
@heidijackson2586 11 ай бұрын
Loved this interview!! One of my very favorites. Thank you Mark!!
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